Married 14 years. She is 100% correct. She's calling it "manipulate" but what she's really saying is that if you support and encourage your man to pursue his passions then his chances of success go up 10 fold. If you try to push him in the direction you think he should go in he'll push back, treading water and fall into a depression. Ask me how I know?

As a man myself, I would say that the definition of “manipulate” has been misunderstood and, typically, spun by the media. It’s clearly about teamwork and supporting each other to achieve the best lifestyle for each other. This woman is a breath of fresh air and I would be perfectly happy to find someone like her to spend my life with.

Man here, super accurate. When my woman supports the weird ideas I have, it makes me love her even more.

This women is pure gold and needs to be protected at all costs

Can I just say... You're a breath of fresh air. You're like the woman BFF I have never had. When I struggle with anxious attachment issues or with my concept of self I watch your videos. Not only does it calms me but it also brings me back on my path of healing. Thank you so much for everything you do. I truly appreciate your advice 💜😊

Here from tik tok. Your content on that platform is GOLD and I'm glad you're bringing it to KZfaq because the advice you share is absolutely vital for women of today. Keep marching forward and doing the Lords work!

This is the third video I've watched of yours and everything you talk about is so healing for me. It just clicks. I watch and read self help and sometimes it just doesn't click. This week when I've needed it and been open to it, for whatever reason you just stumbled into my youtube suggestions. And you are hilarious, I've busted out laughing a couple times "attract more with honey than with .... SHIT". The anxious attachment videos are so clear. Teasing us without yelling at us or making us feel stupid,. Reminding us this was once you and that it's a journey, it takes dedication, and practice. Sometimes it feels like video's I've seen make you feel like "whats wrong with you just snap your fingers and be different!" Giving us tools to navigate that journey, not just with ourselves but with others too, it's so helpful. I'm grateful for finding your channel, to you for giving me a different perspective, and I appreciate your dedication to helping others. I look forward to future videos! Best wishes.

I was put off by the title but I missed the videos so I watched. The message to have mutual support in order to create a beautiful life for both is key. I don't know why people get so angry when there is a supportive healthy relationship.

Don't listen to these miserable people big sisssss. I'm 22 and you've honestly given me so many gems for the relationship i am in and how to own my energy and have a fruitful life

You speak nothing but facts Margarita! You have completely changed my thinking over the course of a month! My life has never been better. You also are so funny! 🤣

You are one of my most down to earth straight to the point KZfaqr who I watch and enjoy. From fashion, new mum, lovely daughter, and amazing wife you always stand to your believes which are very relatable to many. Don’t have tik tok so hope you don’t stop posting on you tube. 🥰💖

No need for any explanations Margarita; you are far too intelligent for these critics who have no understanding of how to interpret what you say. You are terrific, super-brainy and funny. Those who know you and understand you know exactly what I'm saying! Nuff said.........❤

Missed you Margarita!! I don't have tik tok so had no idea - but good for you spreading positivity and trying to improve relationships !

The way you said “just do it” the second time made me laugh. Although your lifestyle is different than mine, you seem like you’d be a great friend to have. It’s nice to be around people who are real and authentically themselves. It’s refreshing!

I have no idea why KZfaq offered me her video, but I must say she is 100% correct. The RV example is spot on. Lots of wisdom in her perspectives.

would love to see you break down how to begin to build self confidence. I’ve been working on that for a while and have come a long way. Healing mild attachment and just caring too much about what he thinks. Wanting to learn to provide that for myself

The press really did twist your words😂

You are the best, even the tone in your voice to do this video is not in anger nor defensive, rather calm and assertive. Good teachings 🙌🏻🙏🏻

Don’t you just ADORE when you’re taken out of context. Lovely ❤

Please do a video on healing from emotional neglect from your birth family and finding self love and building confidence from there. Thank you in advance!

Please continue with all this information that you’re providing us with as women. I am so grateful to have access to such information especially being a young 20 year old who eventually wants to get married and have a family at some point. Thank you so much From South Africa 🇿🇦 ❤️

I find your clarity and logic very satisfying

You’re not a manipulator! Those boys are so silly to even think that! Really sad actually this is becoming the new culture… we should not be pinning against each other, it’s about understanding each other! You’re so very much appreciated! 💕💕💕

I’ve never seen your tiktoks and I’ve only watched one video of yours. The title grabbed me. I really appreciate the content you put out as far as I’ve seen! In a man’s world, it helps with navigating complicated personal relationships. I especially appreciate the bit about asking my man a favor and giving him space. My partner takes a very long time to respond, even. But he usually does and it is strange to me, as someone who responds quickly and sometimes with too much gusto. Your direct way of speaking is very comforting as well.

I was dreading the title but this is an amazing video. Yes thanks! Thank you Margarita

Marg, your response to this is BRILLIANT 👏🏻 They should do a follow up on how you are a GAME CHANGER and advocate for embodying and exemplifying being an empowered woman in a highly masculine energy dominated society. I love and appreciate you, soul sis. Keep vibing high and shining in your be-YOU-tiful authentic light. The world is a brighter place when you do.👑💕✨️

Beautifully shed your light where she tried to throw shade. Grateful for you and your content 💖

Love u margerita... you're really my virtual mum on here, 23 and been growing my self confidence because of you

Margarita your videos are amazing!!! Don't waste your time giving explanations to those people that are criticizing your wisdom. Thank you for sharing.

Hi I’ve just come across your content and I’m finding it useful. I love how you’ve broken down the comments and set what was said about you straight, in a factual and respectful manner, beautiful.. I’m glad you came back to your channel so I can watch more of your content. Thank you for your time and effort, it’s deeply appreciated 🙏 Xx

When the mass media hates on you, that’s when you know that you’re doing something right

You have been the only one to explain dynamic men and dynamic women and how to create a healthy harmonized life by sharing your gifts and wanting the best for people because you have been hurt and now lead people thru their darkest time because you have faced them thru your life experiences. Can't say how happy and how Very grateful I personally am and glad you are posting again. You are a life saver. Not to say your message is easy to hear at first but it is so refreshing Unfortunately, we live in a world where people are so closed because they are stuck in their ego. But any publicity is good publicity. Your break down of the article helped even more, the real task at hand about what you are trying to teach and correcting the false projection, that you are doing this for your ego, also a master class of how not to fall for being bated. It is helpful to see emotion regulation be modeled where most of us never had that taught to us.

Guuuuurrrrrrlllll preach! As a therapist working with 95% men, I support your content 100%!

I had to take a step back from your older content because I sensed that you were capable of more than talking about Hermes, etc. Believe me, I love luxury content, too, but this type of content is fascinating and amazing, which you do so well! I'm glad you're following your intuition, Margarita! I personally avoid TicToc but will follow you here, for sure!

I must say that I’m loving the person you are. Your style of explaining the archetypes is so clever and unique, it makes so much sense. Just discovered you today and I just love how creative, honest and real you are in all your videos, your concepts are broken down so well. The writer completely butchered everything from that interview and that’s the only manipulation that took place.

So glad you’re posting about this. That journalist is insane, there is nothing manipulative about your content. I actually find you pretty straight forward!

I’m from tik tok and have been waiting for some full length videos yay! Ready for more knowledge

Man I'm glad I found your tiktoks, I met a man that I fell head over heels for, the more I wrote and texted paragraphs the more he pushed away. I was chasing so bad and not getting what i wanted. I started listening to what you where saying. After I stopped texting and chasing he started coming back around. I felt better for not sitting g by the phone and waiting for his response. I took charge of my life, now if he wants me he will chase me. He hasn't chased much and that makes me move on to better..

I discovered your content some months ago on tik tok and everything you say is gold.

I first saw you on TikTok and glad that you make long videos here. You did a good job❤

Thank you. You help me have a sane, sereine, confident and happy relationship to people and to myself. Thank you. Go girl.

I appreciate the human being you are, I admire woman you are. And I find your teachings and dedication very benevolent and important. Thank you for your work and teachings. This has potential to improve women/men relationships.

You’re so smart and well spoken 🤩 thank you for this invaluable advice!

Thank you for shedding light on emotional Intelligence which I feel is so super paramount in all dynamics ie work personal life ☯️✨️☯️

I can listen to Margarita talk about paint drying and will still sit there and take notes

You are such an inspiration, not only for women. Thank you for your work!

I'm here for the new content as well. As women I personally don't think that we have to be monolithic in our thinking. We are a many layer of things, with many different ideas about life and things. I mean just as you were " qualified " to speak on luxury items ( Because that is your real life) Let's be real. You are married to someone who's successful, and you seem to live a certain lifestyle that you can speak to as well. Like I said. I'm here for it!🤗

We have 7.5 children 🤣 where they are gonna go?! Margarita, you are definitely doing everything right. They are talking about you and attracting even more attention to you. Being married with children and slavic (in UK), what you are saying is very useful for me and reasonates with me nicely. My husband is occupied with some project I don't believe in. It has started arguments, since it's the only thing he wants to do. I now remember how I supported him always and it has paid us back nicely and have multiplied our collaborative energy. So why break now what was working nicely? We also know there is nothing wrong about lavish lifestyle, if I can get it by listening to you, so be it.

Can you do a video on mamas boys & how to deal with in-laws who actively try to sabotage your relationship. I recall a tiktok you did about how you don’t owe anyone anything & to not go around family that is not kind to you. I would love something more in depth about this topic if you wouldn’t mind. Thanks so much for your videos!

They did you dirty on that article. A complete twist of words. Such a shame what they do for clicks and views nowadays. On a side not~ I am so freaking excited to hear this news! I love your content and lessons on Tik Tok and I have implemented a couple of things in my marriage already and I have noticed a definite change is our relationship and in his confidence and masculinity. Thank you! Tik Tok videos are not long enough! I am excited that your bringing this side of you over to YT.

Hi Margarita, I started calling you “the goat of feminine coaching” on Tiktok, just checking you out here. I think the press can be wack and it’s just designed to build you up and tear you down, I suggest you ignore the haters and out of context criticism; treat them like the other girl a man might be checking out. It’s bound to happen, be prepared and stay in your confidence and power. What I wanted to mention is that I took your advice on embodying feminine energy and how to navigate male/female dynamics-and I saw results almost immediately. So haters can say what they want (they’re just doing their job😑) but I find value in your content and perspective esp if it’s result driven. I think I was getting caught up in a certain type of aggressive energy or just “calling out” stuff and even if you’re right-nobody wants to hear it. People don’t respond well to it, especially not men. When I listened to your advice and leaned back into my feminine, focused on me, improving myself (and how i present/look) and pretty much didn’t nag, chase and became “bored” and uninterested-suddenly there’s more texts, phone calls and wanting to show up. It’s just facts; dynamics between men/women are real and often predictable. Even in a fast paced, modern and evolving world--some aspects are just not cut out for women so knowing how to act and respond can really change or improve the energy or way you move in life as the fairer sex. Just wanted to give you some feedback and let you know your videos helped and that I also don’t think you should address the haters at all because there’s more coming and you need to be unbothered or just act like it. Only address something if it’s really crucial, relevant or important. Get used to being a star 💫 and keep shining bright 🌟. Thank you 😊

I am sooooo happy that I found your channel! Thank you thank you! I’m learning so much.

By encouraging each others 'dreams' that are 'practical' and making him believe in himself is a good thing. You play to a person's 'strength'. You both need to be 'content' and 'happy' in 'who you are'. All you need in life is for someone to believe in you, and together you 'both' make a difference. May we 'respectfully' support each other. You 'amplify' each other. Both 'compliment' each other. Everyone has naracistic traits but if you get to the end of the spectrum you have naracistic personality disorder. You have given 'suggestions'. Is giving 'suggestions' manipulation? We need to have 'mature' relationships based on mutual respect. The male and female compliment each other. When you combine these qualities things happen. You are 'giving' your man space. You need to 'keep yourself special'. Men only respect 'special' women. You 'support' your soulmate who is 'worthy' of respect. Keep yourself strong and remember that there are real gentlemen and real ladies in this world despite what the media seems to portray.

Wow wow wow!! This is absolutely amazing advice….I dunno but the way you put information out there is so wonderful and easy to see how it would aid a relationship. Thank you for sharing this!

I would definitely love to see more videos on your channel talking about the topics addressed in this video!

I definitely need a dive into divine femininity

WE MISSED YOU MAMA❤️

Thank you for this video. Beautiful message.❤

I love that Margarita. It was my pleasure to listen to this whole video and say to myself I absolutely agree. 🎉🎉

I've always saw you as an inteligent woman, who advices your audience with the best advices,acording to your experience, i always loved your videos and i don't understand why it is so difficult for some people to aknowledge this and support it,to more women like you!

So glad I found your channel🥰 Love the content. You make me feel “normal” 😅

Forget manipulation. Just be encouraging and supportive. And make good choices in men as early if life as possible 💀 It's not hard if you don't make it hard.

im so grateful to have found your channel!!!!!

You're so enthralling; love watching your videos! 🤩

Sooo awesome to have you back here and I fully agree with what u said re supporting VS nagging❣️I have been married for 20yrs and it took most of those years to fully understand that if I really listen to him, give him the voice that I might have taken from him over the years by eyerolling at his outlandish ideas, I have helped to build his confidence to the point that he now successfully attempts projects that neither of us thought he could accomplish.

I didn't want to watch this video bc of the title, but it's gold

Completely agree with everything you said!! Love your energy!

Sometimes you need talk to a person in a certain way to get them to understand. If your calling that manipulative then so be it. I’ve seen this with my mum. She’ll say something to my dad. He goes in defence mode thinking she’s nagging. Then I say the same thing but worded in a manner that he understand and if he thinks I’m right then he’ll agree with me. I’ve told my mum and aunt dad’s sister. With my dad you need to word yourself strategically . So you can’t be blunt and say whatever thing you want in a straight forward way. Where’s with my bro he doesn’t like that you need to be blunt. Just like how everyone has a love language. Everyone also has a understanding language too. My friend understands what I’m trying to say because when I talk to her and I’m trying to get my point across I give her examples. I Have no children she has 2 but I did help my mum with my bro. So if we are talking about children I use my own experience or from my bro. She’s a female, when I talk to my bff from high school I’m 30 now so I know her for 15yrs. Again I’m direct with her but also tone into my emotions more. Because she’s a compassionate person too. So understands better if you talk emotionally. I don’t know what you call this or even if there’s a name for it. But that’s not me being manipulative . Because I have no bad intentions when I’m doing this. This works for me on men and women. All I’m doing is understanding any individual understanding language. For me it only works if I know the person. It would be wrong if I was trying to brainwash someone but even for that the individual has to use their own mind.

Margarita I love you thank you so much 💗 for coming on here and sharing

In my opinion, you shouldn’t even apologise…it’s in vain! They are not going to understand and you are wasting your time! I think you are very brave and your guidance is correct!❤

The more success/influence you have the more resistance you will face

I came across you today and fell in love with your content. I pretty much binged on your videos for the past few hours because it's so good and it speaks to my reality and life right now. Anyway, I never read this news article about you (they clearly didn't really watch your content to know what you stand for) but I want you to know that your content has blessed and quenched my soul and is helping me to not only survive my past traumas and relationships but it's helping me learn how to thrive in life and in the wonderful relationships that I have now. Please keep making this wonderful content. Sending only blessings/good vibes your way.

I manipulate everyone. I love it. I take advantage of everyone in my path.

I was with an abusive psychopath for 21 years. Left him 6 years ago and not dated since. How do I not talk about it?

Thank you for the Tips 🙂

You don’t have to wear makeup honestly not many people express that quality. The beauty is defined in you

Margaritas, you are Hilarious, and the near absolute confidence is inspiring...

Im truly in love with you! you really break things down into real realities. I must say since watching, listing and implementing the suggestions from your video's, there has been a threshold of shifts in my mindset. as for the media? well ? what did you expect? handle it as you always handle everything else, with style, grace, sass and being unbothered.

What a great video thanks so much for sharing. I don't use TikTok but glad to see you on YT and Instagram. Have a great weekend.

Avoid using expressions that lead into dark places. Wanna improve you life experiences with your relations or improve the honesty with your partner? - Start by cleansing this toxic linguo and be mindful of the energy you send out with the power of your voices (because its vibration). We need to be aware on how the language is currently twisted and promoted to create more problems for the collective.

Anyone who actually watches your video's will already know that it is full of uplifting content. This negative press could actually peak some people's interest and get you more views on your channel. Even negative press can be used to your advantage. Celebrities and Political candidates use this to their advantage all the time! Negative gossip has been around for thousands of years, but those of us who really know you, know the real truth. I subscribed to your channel only with in watching just 3 video's. now i will do notifications too, just to spite the negative press.😊😊😊😊

Interesting that on dating apps all the women are saying what they like doing (camping, traveling etc.) rather than saying what they can do, like homemaking skills or business skills.

These stars on KZfaq help more than online therapist.

New subscriber 😍 followed on Tik Tok and now we here. I appreciate the videos and wisdom you share amongst us woman. Thank you❤️🙏 so glad to see you on here.

I am with you Margarita all the way, keep doing what you are doing ❤

How to let go of the fear and lack of trust after husband cheats. If you stay together

Can't worry about what haters believe. It's to bad they waited until you weren't busy with what you were doing but that's how bullies operate. Your doing a great job and I appreciate the content you bring us and I'm sure there are many of us. How your words were twisted. Keep up the good work girl!

please do more content here bc i don’t get enough of you on tiktok 😂❤

Hi Margarita. Thank you for your videos. I am learning how to use my voice. I notice you have a strong voice. I feel awkward around people. They think im fake when i get excited. Much kove ❤

Margarita you’re a bloody genius I love u! I’m so glad I found u on IG! New sub ❤❤❤ the problem is people love to hate because having opposing opinions makes them feel powerful. They don’t truly dig deep what ur content is actually about. If u ask them what it is they oppose to well quickly realise they don’t even why they are hating 😅

Omg this actually worked and literally the next day

To have self esteem and to feel good about yourself is not narcissism.

Encouragement and manipulation are two different things. Strong minded men don't need either to achieve their goals.

Love your energy, love your content. Keep posting videos, you know your shit. I find it beneficially entertaining 😆

My husband is in therapy and it doesn't seem to be helping him much, he doesn't do any extra work or practice. Me on this channel and other, ex. put the shovel down, have help the most. It is like dog training, you need to teach the owner to be effective in training a dog and give it a healthy environment to grow. Having these women help us understand and handle our men properly is key. They are happier and healthier and so are we. They will have triggers hit a lot but use this time to enhance your emotional intelligence and work on yourself.

What you're saying is all true!!!👌

You partner does need to know certain inner gritty stuff etc. To understand you but they need to earn that right. You need to form that trust before you deep dive in that direction. You can’t deep dive on the 1st, 3rd date. You owe them nothing and they owe you nothing.

I followed you on TikTok and was soo pleasantly surprised to see you here on KZfaq!

I find this woman humorous. She does videos on a general subject that consist of stream of consciousness rambling without ever actually explaining anything in any detail. And all the while she acts as though she is some kind of authority on everything. It’s perfect for an ADHD audience. LOL!

I’ve always loved your fashion content and I’m loving this new content as well ❤