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Even if they leave a thumbs down, please write an explanation of why to help improve our future! Shhh Pea, this way you still get the credit for the reply no matter what they say! LOL! It is always good to hear constructive criticism! :-)

Thanks for taking the time to make such insightful videos, they're much appreciated. 👍😁👍

OMG ,.,.,,,THE ENDING -> SO JEALOUS after you cut off your fingers and he wanted to get your Pinay doctor ha ha ha ha ha ha ha

I am curious what you think about this video: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/b82Zp8Sf0KeyaKc.html

It's never not been my fault. But I personally don't feel that's the case. lmao

I was thinking the same thing. Just like ALL women. They want us to sweep it under the rug when they do something wrong. Lol

Great point, But Not only that. If an issue can't be addressed, worked out and agreed upon, how is it suppose to go away? It's only a matter of time before it happens again.

@@Ron-rk6iz hell yeah

Ahahahahahaha, RIGHT!!??

Thanks SNZ! Yes, I’m a workaholic 👍😊

Agree 100%.....my exa filipino changed so much after she got her visa here. Plus it was always her yelling at me.Not all of any nationality are good or bad.Cheers.

Well don't get a philopena most are like that i have met. if your dating them. But you want too be taken care of there the best.

I did it for 25 years. I came home from Iraq in 2010 to a waiting divorce and lost everything. She was diagnosed as bipolar and it was true.

I don’t know where you’re from but us southern men it’s habit we call women ma’am, hun, sugar it’s in our genes, nothing disrespectful in fact right the opposite. It shows we respect women because we were raised that way.

@@gongme Filipina, they’re the best

YES, upfront is best - always!

Your situation is different. There is nothing that equals a soul mate relationship. Those are very rare.

I’ve never heard a Filipina that was offended by that 👍 We say “my foreigner” too 😂

Thank you so much, Wm! I may have to use that definition of “hostile silence” because that’s exactly what I consider it - a dishonest form of anger! 😊

I've been married to three western women, one American, one Native American from Canada and one western Canadian woman, I found that the silent treatment usually meant that as long as I went about my business the next few hours to days it somehow got resolved and they'd start talking to me again or they'd come at me full on battle ready for an argument until they'd had their say, once they ran out of wind I'd reach up and pretend to turn my Miracle Ear back on (hearing aids) and say "sorry, did you say something?" by then they were done with it, got it out of their system and things went back to normal, or I ended up sleeping on the couch which really wasn't punishment it was kind of like camping without the bugs and weather and I had full control of the tv remote.

You just described most women.

A form of "Passive Agressive". Ignore it. Keep your frame.

A man that doesn’t know how he hurt his partner and can’t figure out what make her angry why the women gave her a silent treatment is an insensitive man that’s my opinion. A sensitive man know immediately his in trouble, he immediately aware what he has done. Especially a man that really loves and cares to his partner.

Oh yes! And learn to use your peripheral vision so you don’t show any head movement (we look for slight turning of the head) Hahahahaha

But at least now we can say "Babe, I can't help it, Pea says it's an Involuntary Glance!"...lol

I learned early on its best to keep your head and eyes forward and pretend you have blinders on

@@TheFilipinaPea Pea you should do another channel for stand up comedy too, seriously! haha

@@TheFilipinaPea or wear a neck brace to go with those shades....

Meh, with the right person even the challenges have value.

THANK YOU, John - that’s exactly what I’m here to do! 😊

True I can imagine with all those expats and locals relationships are fragile Your treatment of these topics is great !!

Aww THANKS iomtilt! Yes, a fine line indeed, and just pray you don’t end up with the gaslighting version - those can be HELL 😆

@@TheFilipinaPea Been there, seen it, done it, have the T-shirt 😁👍

Hey don't call Pea a "working girl." 😠....🤣

A local? THANKS! I’ve been hoping more locals would find me 😊

You’re not a foreigner? According to me, you possibly are for me; that’s if you use the definition of foreigner properly. I don’t know your country of origin, so I can’t say for sure if you’re a foreigner.

I will tell my fiance in the Philippines and my children in the Philippines to subscribe to your channel Pea

Hello from the Philippines! And thank you very much 😊

@@TheFilipinaPea I was stationed there while I was in the Marine Corps. I was raised just like the culture- all about family and treat each other like a king and queen. I hope I find one someday. I have a friend living there that was in Marine Corps too. I hope to come back also

Bonao, in the house...lol ... trying to decide mil Isla or quisqueya.

That actually makes me so happy, JD!! 😊

Dr Phil .... Here comes your replacement 🤗

Great advice! Now just get your Filipina to agree 😆

@@TheFilipinaPea Sound more like "Mission Impossible" to me , hahahaha

If it were that simple. That's how I used to see it.

@@MVProfits Well did your girlfriend actually agree on you with this?

I’m sure glad you found me too! 👍😊

Thanks Dale! I really need to thank my old boss for hiring me at the call center - he gets a lot of the credit 😊

Maybe a good theme for a video Pea. .?

@Dale Daniel...I have made a similar comment about her awareness of western culture...it is truly amazing because I am pretty sure she has never lived in the west and she sometimes references some pretty obscure stuff. She is a sharp cookie.

@@TheFilipinaPea That call center was an "actor Studio" mixed with "Immersion in American Culture"......your partner is really lucky!!!

FILIPINA PEA, you don't become that SAVVY by working at a call center - no freaking way. That, too, is impressive!

Wow, Yeshua, I’ve never been a secret weapon before! I love it! 😆

Thanks so much, Christopher!

Thanks Rogue - I just LOVE my new green screen! ❤️

@@TheFilipinaPea gotta get the shoe on the other foot tho... for us guys in the USA...aim a video at getting a pinay to understand our side plz🙏 communication is the key to a successful relationship but my pinay drives me crazy at times even tho I do everything in my power to make sure that she is happy and extremely spoiled 😋

I’m so sorry for your loss, Francois, but I’m glad my video reminded you of the good times ❤️

Thanks Corey - I’ll remember that 😊

Just think about literal vs. figurative. For example, there's literal uncles and aunties (siblings of your parents). And the figurative uncles and aunties (every other relatives (or neighbors) who are about the same generation as your parents. Another example, literal "kuya and ate" or brothers and sisters (your siblings and sisters). Then there's the figurative brothers and sisters who are everyone else older than you but within your generation. If above your generation, then that's already uncles and aunties. One other example that's the most confusion, I have 3 children which is 10-year old boy, 7-year old girl, 3-year old boy. Even though they are all my children, I would sometimes call the 10-year old boy as "kuya" (big brother), the 7-year old girl as "ate" (big sister). Isn't that confusing as hell? Haha! That's our way of instilling into their minds about their role in the family. By calling my 10-year old boy as "kuya", I'm teaching him that he has siblings younger than him, and the other younger 2 children would also know that they should address him as the "kuya" (or big brother). The same reason for calling my 7-year old as "ate". We can also call them by their names or call them "anak" meaning son/daugter.

And your compliments are equally priceless - they make me happy that I do what I do ❤️

Well the MGTOWS call me a chameleon, and fortunately those DO regrow their fingers, so I’m hopeful 😆

Wow, you found a keeper then! 👍❤️

Well thanks, Nathan!

I often say that dating us Filipinas is like walking on a tightrope suspended over a minefield ..... with a ticking bomb on your back. But at least it’s never dull! 😆

@@TheFilipinaPea After bomb disposal training, getting the sniffer dog and balancing pole through customs she better be worth it 😊

"The reason men are so good at playing dumb is because most of the time, we're not playing." Larry Miller

And I totally understand that many times, you really Didn’t know what you did wrong (and many times it was so trivial that when you found out what it was, you just wanted to laugh - but didn’t dare) 😆

It sounds like you had to go through Filipina Purgatory a few times, but it’s nice to see you made it out alive! 😆

@@TheFilipinaPea I would do it all over again. No regrets. Now I know the ropes. I’m an old cowboy and I’ve learned when you fall off the horse you just get back on again till you get it right.

That’s Wonderful and exciting, Paul - I wish you both the best ❤️

Aren't internet brides great...!

@Paul Brown. It's almost 12 months later. How's the relationship going?

We are complicated creatures, but worth it! 😊

@@TheFilipinaPea I have two questions for you: 1: what does the Pea stand for in your title and: 2. What if the Filipina brings up previous women in my life???

All of that plus nowadays for even the most mediocre women....

That's the truth

THANK YOU!!! 😆

I agree 100%.

Agreed!!

I’m so glad to hear that, Ron! I’m honored to be your gem 😘

@@TheFilipinaPea no the honor is mine. To meet someone that genuine is something thats truly rare. Thanks for all your humorous advice and hopefully i wont make any future mistakes with my wife lol. Thankfully shes been ofw for many years and is very forgiving of my mistakes hahahahaha

Any time, Brian! Thanks for always watching, and I’ll be getting some new endings sometime soon 😉

@@TheFilipinaPea Something fun and Christmassy perhaps?

Amen Keith,,,,well,,,unless you like the quiet life that is,,,,,,,lol.

Hahahaha Yup, that would work too! 😆

ignore tampo!! your not 12 so tell them to grow up or leave you will see a drastic change .

Tampo is easy to deal with,just go out for a drive for a couple of hours.when you get home she will want to talk and know where you have been lol.also you would of both cooled down and given things some thought and can work things out.

Lol

Oh yes, we Filipinas can get into tampo fights with each other, and they can last a lonnnnng time 😆

Exactly, Eric! 😆

What did she gives to you on your birthday? Probably nothing...”walang budget “

If Jesus loves you, he’ll give you tunnel vision, yes 😆

@@TheFilipinaPea Maybe his girlfriend can get the eye doctor to give him the wrong eye prescription? ;-)

If that is your prayer, give up, you are not worthy.

@@TheFilipinaPea But, lead me not into temptation because I can easily find it myself.

Lol

Exactly, Taku! I never said it was fair, just that it’s the way it is 😆

Is it still good?

Awww darn - I forgot that one! 😆

@@TheFilipinaPea Next time!!

Now Im curious ......

Hmmm

Any time, PTF! It’s my sworn duty 😆

@@TheFilipinaPea 👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿❤❤❤🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭

Anytime, Gordon! (It’s my job) 😊

Lovely arrangement. A 50-50 sharing is needed to run a home.

I disagree. You need to have times when you are doing your own thing.

You foreigners are so darned nice! ❤️ (and it drives us freakin’ crazy!) Hahahahaha

Same here Roy but I will just explain to my partner (when I have) that's it's just my personality & nothing is meant by it. At the same time I would always make my partner know she meant everything to me & in every way possible.

@@TheFilipinaPea The country & part of where I come from is known for people being very friendly, it's in our nature & is why visitors always comment on it as being welcoming. It's not at all flirting, it's just sociable, friendly & accomadating to others. Great video again Miss Pea :-)

She wouldn’t be upset unless you personally knew women around the world that you were chatting with, and called them your ‘friends’ 😊👍