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@peace4mefinally1144 жыл бұрын
“Your view of me is your business not mine” love that!!
Love this Jack, you have such a compassionate and diplomatic way of conveying the truth. Thanks for being care-full with our hearts 💙
@thejackbutler4 жыл бұрын
You’re very welcome, happy it occurs to you that way, it’s a reflection I appreciate 🙏
@francesrios89323 жыл бұрын
I guess 7 yrs is time to know he's not my guy 😭
@thejackbutler3 жыл бұрын
Alas, 7 years is a long time 🙏
@a.k.40854 жыл бұрын
Love it when he said: "Pen pal guy", ' Drop off guy", etc...love that ! The descriptions.
@thejackbutler4 жыл бұрын
Glad those namings help!
@angelae.campos1794 жыл бұрын
Jack he’s not my guy. - Another One Bites the Dust
@thejackbutler4 жыл бұрын
Good clarity - may something better come your way!
@MS-ns4ki Жыл бұрын
I’m very well aware that the men who is my guy loves me and does things even if they are busy they can make time or show an effort to care . I do not want to give myself to anyone .
@christylynnhogan4 жыл бұрын
I already know this inside, but I listened to it twice in a row just to keep reminding myself. 😂
@thejackbutler4 жыл бұрын
Appreciate your diligence 🙏
@Elizabeth-fw1ut Жыл бұрын
Your videos help me immensely. You speak in a language that is very accessible, understandable and compassionate. Your teachings are helping me to let go of anger and really practice acceptance. You have a gift!
@thejackbutler Жыл бұрын
Thank you, I appreciate the reflection. Happy you’re putting the teachings into practise, keep going! 🙏
@LouRegina4 жыл бұрын
Places that are leaking energy takes energy from the main event... I deleted a bunch of useless dating sites that were energy vampires, nothing quality transpired. Using my energy to focus on a new connection with a grown-up man who is taking things very slowly. I'm not used to that but I'm learning to enjoy the process as it unfolds.
@thejackbutler4 жыл бұрын
Good work! Yes to focusing energy
@aziebtefferi63764 жыл бұрын
TIME IS YOUR FRIEND! I LOVE the way YOU break down men's BS.! 😂 Good to see you Jack, The background is LOVELY! Thank God for your wisdom! ♥
@thejackbutler4 жыл бұрын
Glad that piece resonated! Yes one of my fav parks!
@LynnMcAllister4 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this as I was going back and forth on a penpal. Even though there’s substance, it’s still a basic connection. I appreciate the clarity 👏👏👏 TYSM.
@thejackbutler4 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome! Happy you are discerning what’s serving you 🙏
@sarahakines6274 жыл бұрын
This is so helpful. Ive been putting so much energy into men that were so not my GUY! I settled for so much BS!!
@thejackbutler3 жыл бұрын
Happy this helped! 🙏
@a.k.40854 жыл бұрын
The more I listened, the more impressed I was with this guy's knowledge. Whoa.
@thejackbutler4 жыл бұрын
Appreciated, thanks for listening in 🙏
@healingypsy6 күн бұрын
I hinted to a guy I feel like we are pen pals. He responded with a long text continuing to text about himself and asking me more more questions we could be doing F2F. I never responded to him and felt so good about doing the right thing. I thank Jack Butler because he taught me how to be sober emotionally with a guy
@thejackbutler4 күн бұрын
Happy you have your sobriety!
@healingypsy4 күн бұрын
@@thejackbutler Thank you and Amen !
@christinajackson34614 жыл бұрын
His bit during minute 16 was probably the best. Something like "What if you haven't had that constancy before? Just trust yourself that you haven't had it and know that it will feel different."
@thejackbutler4 жыл бұрын
Yep! Permission to learn
@shakira58724 жыл бұрын
What an aha moment I just had!! Thank you so much... A guy that is really interested in you will invest consistently in you.
@thejackbutler4 жыл бұрын
Boom! Great to hear 🌟
@f.t.98894 жыл бұрын
I looove this superhonest and clear non-BS advice! ❤❤❤ And the check list is amazing too!
@thejackbutler4 жыл бұрын
Yay! Thanks for downloading it! 🙏
@chiablum14532 жыл бұрын
Just found your Chanel & it's like therapy. You give a deeper perspective than just the mind games explanation. As an idealist & fantaziser, I love your talk about being in the present, in the reality of the process & his actions. Makes me want to relax & bring the Disney story down.Taking notes 😆
@thejackbutler2 жыл бұрын
Love hearing this. And welcome!
@chiablum14532 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🌞
@avgonyma13 жыл бұрын
I find that the issue and the price of sticking to a guy who doesn't behave/show up the way you want (and knows it, and doesn't step up) is fewfold: 1. Not getting what your heart desires (settling) 2. Ignoring your intuition may silence / shut it up temporarily. 3. Lack of inner guidance because you didn't honor it in this field. 4. Disregarding yourself means: not honoring yourself. Ultimately leads to an inner conflict, where you're doing sth that you intimately is not good for you or in your best interest. 5. Lack of confidence, as a result of not being your own best friend. (Talking from personal experience.)
@thejackbutler3 жыл бұрын
Love all this, thanks for writing it 🙏
@avgonyma13 жыл бұрын
@@thejackbutler welcome. I am writing it on this "wall" to remind myself to do the step..... (All these points describe my situation). Btw, i would potentially love to work with you. (When the point is ripe, perhaps pretty soon). I may fill out a coaching request. I do admire your work and feel it close to my heart and mindset.
@AndreeaPrisacariu4 жыл бұрын
We like it! Andreea from Romania Sending thanks and appreciations. Your words have met me in a needed time. Thank you. I have remembered things long forgotten.
@oscarwilliamson12644 жыл бұрын
Andreea Prisacariu,you look stunning 🌹 🌹🌹🌷 🌷🥀🌹 🌹
@thejackbutler4 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Happy to hear! Yo to Romania!
@amyflow39724 жыл бұрын
Perfect wording in where I am. I’ve not allowed my time and energy for pen pal guy but have gotten nasty resistance and such good reply suggestions! Brilliant ‼️ We do go through different spaces in time. Time is key. Thanks Jack 👍🏼
@oscarwilliamson12644 жыл бұрын
Amy Poe,you got a pretty smile ☺️ lol😁🤙
@bobbyfrank9612 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being on point and helping us to reach clarity through sobriety, and be true to ourselves as individuals...safe gaurd where we channel our energy, otherwise it's just not worth it...a great emphasis on your part in positively waking us up to reality , you exude that honesty in wanting to empower us, your energy is very clear...I feel these reflections are important for you too, so you are able to see how we are absorbing your output...it is also an appreciation of your intellectual energy...and as you say, when one is in tune with themselves, you can sense how someone is coming across to you...I trust myself and trust the journey, self soul searching as we call it ...as you know I've been watching many of your presentations, and like all things it has been great food for thought lol if I call it...if you and your wife ever come to Kenya you are welcome 🤗
@thejackbutler2 жыл бұрын
Clarity and sobriety are under used words in my experience! Thanks for the reflections. I'm no longer partnered but I did really enjoy the beauty of Kenya and the friendliness of the people when I spent time there several years ago!
@rebecca99492 жыл бұрын
Jack Butler aka "emotionally intelligent guy" is NO LONGER PARTNERED YALL
@jckasugatan68103 жыл бұрын
He told me I was being high maintenance several times. Now I know. Thank you.
@thejackbutler3 жыл бұрын
Happy this supported your knowing 🙏
@deea7453 жыл бұрын
Wow! today is my 63rd and I have been a widow for 14 years and I have never talk to any man like that. Thank for your wisdom .
@thejackbutler3 жыл бұрын
Happy belated birthday! 🙏
@positivevibeskx110211 ай бұрын
For 3 years time he is sending me a message once a month,he didn't give up but nothing more happened,he is living in another country but so clear he keeps me like option and I still waiting for for his message to come
@thejackbutler11 ай бұрын
Have you thought about cutting contact off?
@positivevibeskx110211 ай бұрын
@@thejackbutler Thank you so much for your answer,I am truly grateful!Lately I consider this ,but for me is very difficult because he is very polite guy, psychologist,and he never promised me anything but somehow there is a little interest I guess,also he is very successful guitarist, respected from many people,I am sure he has many options available....it is so difficult for me because I don't have anybody close to me with his qualities and that's makes me a bit scare ,I mean he gaves me just a little bit but not having anything at all I am thankful to the crambs.....
@thejackbutler11 ай бұрын
@@positivevibeskx1102 I hear you. Something can be better than nothing. But often you have to let go of something in order to receive more.
@positivevibeskx110211 ай бұрын
@@thejackbutler Thank you Jack ,I will try to not answer him when he write me next time ....,the thing is he do it in a friendly manner explain something about what's going on with his life and I don't know do I have to not answer at all or to tell the reason first and then cut contact
@kimlarge40773 жыл бұрын
My pen pal got scared when we were supposed to meet, his idea. Now my pen pal is a ghost 👻.
@thejackbutler3 жыл бұрын
Sorry. At least no more time invested
@kimflannery20474 жыл бұрын
Really appreciate your insights and honesty from a male perspective Jack while you also frame it in such a proactive and positive way for women! Had a few lightbulb moments just now.. definitely clarified a lot and sobering video I'll be watching more than once ..Thank you from Perth ☺️
@oscarwilliamson12644 жыл бұрын
Kim Flannery, you look gorgeous 🌹 🌹🌷 🌷🥀🌺🌺
@thejackbutler3 жыл бұрын
Clarity and sobriety - yay to those! Happy you're gaining insights here 🙏
@tajha1234 жыл бұрын
Loved finding your video this morning deluding and rationalizing about a connection. Time is on my side and waiting for that 6 month consistency. My discernment is getting better and better 🙏🏻💕
@thejackbutler3 жыл бұрын
Yay to ever-improving discernment! 🙏
@Diana-kh9wf4 жыл бұрын
Side gigs. Love it and so true. Thanks, Jack!
@thejackbutler3 жыл бұрын
You're welcome!
@2wyn3794 жыл бұрын
Jack,this is so reassuring. I've been clear and honest with men(and myself). And now I see it not as a loss but,as clearing the way for the connection a different guy is also looking for. Thanks for the honest talk and helpful tips.🙂
@thejackbutler3 жыл бұрын
Really happy this was reassuring and helpful 🙏
@wildwoman49114 жыл бұрын
Thanks Jack for the richness of your explanation. Your talk makes me realize the difference between what I have been experiencing from my ex-husband's courtship of me. He told me on our second date that he wanted to marry me. At which point I exclaimed "Are you nuts? You don't even know me!". Very different than the last guy who was a pen-pal guy. This really helps me understand your response to my comments under a video of yours a couple of years back, when you said the man I was mourning wasn't my guy. It's so much clearer that "my guy" would want to clear up misunderstandings and hurt triggered feelings. Ah, so much to learn when one had a dysfunctional family of origin.
@crystalgoodgion2813 Жыл бұрын
This really helped me gain some perspective and understanding. Thank you for sharing!
@thejackbutler Жыл бұрын
Yay! Happy to 🌟
@violets7114 жыл бұрын
Preach!!!!! Mergey guy, pen pal guy....
@thejackbutler4 жыл бұрын
Preach!! Thank you :)
@shirleyross67004 жыл бұрын
Amen! Great way to get down to the bottom line of different types of relationship opportunities and stages, and recognizing what you want and need- and then sticking with that. Awesome summary.
@thejackbutler3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! 🙏
@karenfischer4 жыл бұрын
Yay Jack! You just started showing up in my KZfaq feed, again 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 I’ve missed your teachings....glad you’re back! Thanks for your advice in this video.
@connierempala12694 жыл бұрын
Wonderfully stated! Thank you for reminding me of what I already knew, but continue to refuse to face. Deeper feelings were starting because I'm a romantic at heart. ❤️😎
@thejackbutler4 жыл бұрын
I get, I am too 🙏. And romance within something which can go somewhere is real romance in my experience 🙏
@valb99632 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this information 💁♀️ 🙏
@thejackbutler2 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome 🙏
@dawnv41674 жыл бұрын
Just had to exit out of a distraction of 6months of inconsistency. I didn't want a relationship because of a previous breakup but overtime, this inconsistent distraction just made me miss my ex more. Thanks, Jack! Spot on yet again!
@chrisjenkins40354 жыл бұрын
Wish it wouldn't have taken me the last 30 years of being single to finally 'get it.' But I really do believe that I finally not only know it in theory, but am self aware and strong enough now to not spend months, or even years with men who clearly aren't interested enough to truly invest, be present, consistent, and open in all areas of their life with you, then they just aren't 'your guy.' When its the right guy, for the right reasons, at the right time, there will be very little question of his interest and intentions, because he will be willingly showing through his actions that he WANTS to be your guy!..No convincing necessary.
@thejackbutler4 жыл бұрын
Yes to this. No convincing necessary - I like that!
@kimgordon36953 жыл бұрын
Self aware INDEED 💙
@regenpilateswellness60263 жыл бұрын
Your so awesome, Jack .I'm still single because I have been able to recognize drop off guy, penpal guy, and hot and cold guy thanks to your work. But, I'd rather do me and wait for the right person than continue to have an arrested nervous system chasing drop off guy. Thanks for all your doing to help women empower themselves to choose the right thing!
@thejackbutler3 жыл бұрын
Yes! Love how you talk about an arrested nervous system chasing drop off guy 🙏👊
@tajha1234 жыл бұрын
Such great advice I’m gonna have to replay this one very valuable discernment for me. I’ve been prone to covert narcissistic codependency working on my part of those choices. Your content was much needed and appreciated 🙏🏻🌈☀️💕
@thejackbutler4 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Happy you want to replay!
@jesabelkunzel90903 жыл бұрын
That was absolutely brilliant. Thank you so much.
@thejackbutler3 жыл бұрын
Yay! You’re welcome
@johannafjrd19364 жыл бұрын
You are just simply perfect! Thank you for this 🙏😊
@thejackbutler4 жыл бұрын
Aw thanks ☺️
@Sara-yi6dq4 жыл бұрын
Love this! So clear and straight to the point! All women should listen to this, really!
@thejackbutler3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your reflection!
@lyndamcmullen94104 жыл бұрын
You are right on with this. Thanks Jack ♥️
@thejackbutler3 жыл бұрын
🙏🙏
@queenr.4802 жыл бұрын
Brilliant advice thanks Jack!
@karrynlipsett51874 жыл бұрын
This is the 1st iv seen or heard anything from u & I hav 2 say that u make so much sense & I really fkn like ur perspective on this shit.👍🏼🙂
@thejackbutler4 жыл бұрын
Thanks - I appreciate hearing that ⭐️
@isabelrojas313 жыл бұрын
Thanks to you Jack I've gotten smarter in this type of relationship that come along just to be pain.
@thejackbutler3 жыл бұрын
Good to hear this 🙏
@brandeestevenson69982 жыл бұрын
I tried the lovership situation after 7 months I fell for the guy and it's clear he don't want more. I told him I had to end it because I was falling in love and the longer I stay in it the more I will end up hurt. I told him if in the future he wants to try again we can but he definitely isn't ready to settle down and that's okay.
@lyndamcmullen94103 жыл бұрын
I just watched this again. Fabulous and powerful. Thank you. ♥️
@thejackbutler3 жыл бұрын
Awesome, thanks for the rewatch
@monikalange72432 жыл бұрын
Your flight upgrade scenario is pure gold
@thejackbutler2 жыл бұрын
Aw thanks!
@mojavebohemian8143 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@thejackbutler3 жыл бұрын
🙏
@lyndamcmullen94104 жыл бұрын
Thank you Jack ♥️
@donnaocasio454 жыл бұрын
Excellent advice . So glad to have this video suggested.
@thejackbutler4 жыл бұрын
Happy to hear
@megyerizsuzsadora4 жыл бұрын
Welcome back, Jack! Happy to hear your thoughts🤗
@thejackbutler3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@jeannejones54492 жыл бұрын
Thank you Jack. This is so helpful.
@thejackbutler2 жыл бұрын
Happy for that
@twainslureca4 жыл бұрын
What’s so difficult is I made it clear multiple times my endgame is partnership, he always said, “I need to take this very slow”. That was his reply multiple times each time I checked in to ensure I wasn’t in a lovership. It kept me and it makes me upset at myself for wasting my own time, bc he was never truly clear and that was the answer that kept me around. I don’t think it’s okay, why not, “I don’t want partnership, I just want casual”. But he didn’t and it kept me for months hanging on until I had enough. What can I do in the future if another guy says this, “I want to take it slow” after multiple times of me stating my intentions and the slow means they don’t deepen the connection, they don’t show up more, it just stays on his terms . I want to learn from this failure.
@TheSandyDal3 жыл бұрын
I seen this 4 months after it was posted so need to watch this a few times.
@thejackbutler3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for wanting to re-watch!
@78beckyboo Жыл бұрын
This is such amazing advice!!! I was in a lovership but was missing emotional connection so I ended it because he wasn't fulfilling my love languages...it was a great experience and taught me a lot about being in my power. Thank you so much Jack 😊
@thejackbutler6 ай бұрын
Glad you have found more of your authentic power
@heathersantesteban98383 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Jack!! You are amazing. So insightful, logical and clear.
@thejackbutler3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, happy this was supporting clarity & landed logically 🙏
@tajha1234 жыл бұрын
Your videos are such a valuable resource that I’m grateful for🙏🏻 I won’t share how many times I’ve replayed it so my subconscious hears. The reprogramming has been a struggle but I’m working on it. The reality and sobriety check of lowering the trust I have within myself hit pretty hard as I’ve done that as long as I can remember. I pray that my efforts won’t feel like one step forward three steps back..Eventually solid bricks will be on a level surface to build upon🙏🏻💗Thank you🌹💕
@topcat20333 жыл бұрын
"it's better for you to invest in guys that are investable".....tell like it is sweet guru of love 😂👍🏼
@thejackbutler3 жыл бұрын
Ha! That made me smile. Thanks for catching that piece!
@topcat20333 жыл бұрын
@@thejackbutler You're awesome Jack 🙏 p.s hello from Australia ✌🏽 😎🌊
@thejackbutler3 жыл бұрын
@@topcat2033 Hey to down under!
@h.a.nicola-heather-anne14263 жыл бұрын
Blow out the pipes 😭🤣😂 that’s funny
@klaudialacayo23334 жыл бұрын
This is one of the best videos. Your analogies help make things so clear! Thank you Jack!!!
@thejackbutler3 жыл бұрын
Awesome to hear
@j.f.49263 жыл бұрын
A checklist!! You are fantastic Jack!
@thejackbutler3 жыл бұрын
⭐️
@jcanangel2 жыл бұрын
I'm so late but super happy I've found you now Jack! 🤍
@thejackbutler2 жыл бұрын
All in right timing!
@73kristilee3 жыл бұрын
My ex who keeps popping into my life every few months just as I'm getting over him is definitely a breadcrumbs and gaslighting guy. I've told him what I want, a committed relationship with meaningful contact several times a week. I've told him how I feel about him, that I do love him, deeply, & although things didn't work out & we broke up 3 years ago, (he moved on & had another very short relationship, I have remained single and celibate), I was willing to give us another go, taking things slowly, building a foundation of friendship again with plans to rebuild a committed relationship between us again. I've been not pushy at all but open and honest & firm in my intentions wants and needs. He isn't a great communicator, & isn't really able to talk about his feelings, but says he just wants a friendship at this stage, doesn't want to push things to where they can go wrong again were his words, but then he pops up sporadically every few months with hey how are you and small talk, comes to visit me, and ultimately wants sex, then leaves, not staying the night. I know I know, it takes two... but when you live someone it's very hard to say no and so easy to wishfully think THIS time it's different... So I told him recently that I was going to let this go, that I'd be interested & available to him if he was available and aligned with what I wanted, but it didn't seem he was, so I was going to let it go, to focus on things more aligned with what I want. Wished him well and said goodbye. He left it a few days, about a week, then came over & spent time with me, spent the night, which he usually doesn't, was more romantic, and yes we had sex, as I thought he realised what he wanted and wanted to give it another try. I asked him a few days later when he called & just gave me small talk, I asked what was this between us, where was this going in his eyes, what does he really want, as I'm not so interested in just small talk and wanted a deeper connection and some idea of what he was thinking, and his response, that I always push this, then stated that I didn't seem interested in talking to him, and promptly hung up on me. Fantastic!! Absolute gaslight tactic to say that I didn't seem interested... I have deleted all his photos, which is a HUGE move on my part, blacklisted his number, and am now REALLY ready to move on. It will be hard, not going to lie, as I do truly love him, and wanted more than anything for us to work out, to give us another try, BUT... I love ME and my needs and wants more, & realise I DESERVE more than what he is able to give me. So sad, why do men do this? Don't they realise what they have in front of them, don't they see when a good woman truly loves them & would be completely committed faithful and deeply in love with them. I would have married this man in a heartbeat, but his loss. Time to move on and find my guy who is ready to commit to me and give me the love, attention and respect that I deserve. Your loss Mr Breadcrumbs and Gaslighter, your loss
@thejackbutler3 жыл бұрын
Thanks your share. Think one essence of what you are pointing to here is the end of wishful thinking, typically that kind of thinking just keeps hurting us. 🙏
@GagaBambika4 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!!💜💜💜
@imwatching29604 жыл бұрын
Great thoughts!!! Thank you!
@helgad64014 жыл бұрын
Sooooo inspiring!!!!! I get more and more clear!! Thank you 🙏🏻
@thejackbutler3 жыл бұрын
To ever increasing clarity!
@barbaraschneider91044 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the good input. You are right. I recently met this guy who is showing me the big difference of a guy who is really into me and a guy who just likes me. I am so excited about the new season I am experiencing now. Keep giving this good counsel and mentoring. It has helped me to recognize what I really need and whom I really want to share life with.
@thejackbutler3 жыл бұрын
Happy you have experienced that difference 👍
@jill51884 жыл бұрын
Miss you Jack ✨
@2010damsel3 жыл бұрын
Wish there are more guys like you out there who has the same principles in life and treat his woman right.
@avac63323 жыл бұрын
I love your style Jack . I hear you. I get you. Thanks for sharing 🙏🏼.
@thejackbutler3 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome ☺️
@Astrologcomedy Жыл бұрын
Your content is top tier
@thejackbutler Жыл бұрын
Thank you - I appreciate that
@turkanismail18484 жыл бұрын
Your fantastic. Much appreciated x
@victorian49683 жыл бұрын
Thankyou..you are very helpful..
@diannaantes52624 жыл бұрын
Slow it down Yes!!
@valeriecarmichael6603 жыл бұрын
Omw you are seriously the best dating coach I've listened to in a looooong time! This feels like advice from a loving older brother!
@thejackbutler3 жыл бұрын
Aw love hearing that 🙏
@valeriecarmichael6603 жыл бұрын
@@thejackbutler shared this video with other girlfriends and the feeling is mutual. All this "get the guy" and gimmicky advice is exhausting. Thanks for being genuine. Keep up the amazing work 💗💗💗
@truelovequeen38644 жыл бұрын
Thanks your and inspiration to us all my teacher
@lindazavala58943 жыл бұрын
Awesome presentation!
@christinefisher31094 жыл бұрын
Cameo! Thank you!
@thejackbutler4 жыл бұрын
Right? Thanks!
@dstuart96904 жыл бұрын
Thanks, Jack, for the refresher!
@cynthiahauk91773 жыл бұрын
Yes! I love how you framed this. ✨💖🙏
@thejackbutler3 жыл бұрын
Yay!
@gertrudehanchoko99394 жыл бұрын
Great advice thanks,learning alot👌
@barbarasettle17823 жыл бұрын
Awesome commentary, Jack. Thank you.
@thejackbutler3 жыл бұрын
Appreciated 😊
@dawnlindsey62893 жыл бұрын
Great stuff!
@thejackbutler3 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@CorineLaFont3 жыл бұрын
Oh yes Jack!
@thejackbutler3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@CorineLaFont3 жыл бұрын
@@thejackbutler You're welcome
@CorineLaFont3 жыл бұрын
@@thejackbutler You're welcome
@arpeemarkarian51303 жыл бұрын
This is brilliant.
@thejackbutler3 жыл бұрын
Appreciate that :)
@Dee010s4 жыл бұрын
I met someone on tumblr. We are both at the point we arent looking for long term. We get together when we can as we are across an ocean from each other and it works! We chat, video chat, watch movies together and he drives me around his country on video chat and we have a blast. Its been over a year now and we love each other very much. So much fun and laughter, so much in common. We have our disagreements about things but we work it out. One of my best friendships/lovers, definitely.
@thejackbutler3 жыл бұрын
Happy for you!
@salmaaengo26804 жыл бұрын
👌❤️from Tanzania 🇹🇿
@thejackbutler3 жыл бұрын
🙏
@lizmackenzie11654 жыл бұрын
Really helpful thank you
@stella745394 жыл бұрын
Thks you God is in control Peace and Love Glory be to God
@suemorse23914 жыл бұрын
I look forward to your insight and supportive words. I love the word “investing”... it is the best word! Thank you so much! ☺️
@thejackbutler4 жыл бұрын
Thank you & you’re welcome! 😊
@catb4453 жыл бұрын
Makes so much sense about the consistency of behavior, keeps it simple! 😊
@thejackbutler3 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@user-sy1yt9nk5c3 жыл бұрын
GREAT💗REAL💚PERFECT💛AWESOME💞FANTASTIC VIDEO & MANY THANKS for your CLARITY, Jack! LOVE,💞💚💛🦋
@SuzeKansas4 жыл бұрын
Could you possibly do a video on when a widower , who liked marriage, lost his spouse due to a long time illness may possibly be available to date?
@oscarwilliamson12644 жыл бұрын
Sue Jackson,So sad to hear your story 😪
@mariajoselencinaartigas86294 жыл бұрын
Simply G-E-N-I-U-S
@travelchannel3043 жыл бұрын
Id like to have a love connection thats not yet committee. to see how I behave,since ive finally realized ,The Why?in why i've been allowing myself to accept low expectations situations.
@thejackbutler3 жыл бұрын
Sounds like you've been doing good work 🙏
@felicitygrace51133 жыл бұрын
The more you know what you dont want the more you know what you do want. Do you have videos on what a healthy relationship is?