So tue

Never thought about it like that...but it’s true.

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So true

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I agree, and would also add that depleting the planet they will inherit abrogates this duty.

@@mattcrouch9348 HA true Matt!

Amen!!!

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Right about that. They should Google Joan Rivers to find out what ended her life? COSMETIC SURGERY.

This was my first thought as well. I wouldn’t want to co sign and then regret any medical consequences of an elective procedure.

That’s how I ultimately lost my grandmother at 83 :( (Wasn’t elective surgery though)

Being that it is dental work, it’s not that “MAJOR” of a surgery.... I’d assume the “cosmetic” surgery is for her to get IMPLANTS.. from an insurance standpoint, insurance companies won’t typically pay much $$$ towards those types of procedure since other, CHEAPER alternatives are offered (example: such as a dental bridge or dentures). Now, getting dental Implants themselves is a very MINOR outpatient surgical procedure. The only way it become a “major” procedure is if the women has traumatic dental issues (such as infections OR maxillofacial related issues OR a chronic illness that comprises the immune system).

Cam Being that it is dental work, it’s not that “MAJOR” of a surgery.... I’d assume the “cosmetic” surgery is for her to get IMPLANTS.. from an insurance standpoint, insurance companies won’t typically pay much $$$ towards those types of procedure since other, CHEAPER alternatives are offered (example: such as a dental bridge or dentures). Now, getting dental Implants themselves is a very MINOR outpatient surgical procedure. The only way it become a “major” procedure is if the women has traumatic dental issues (such as infections OR maxillofacial related issues OR a chronic illness that comprises the immune system).

K S never loan anyone money either

@@johnallen3497 I always say, give people whatever you want, never expect them to repay you. I gave each of my 3 kids one car. I told them never ask for another. I liked giving them cars because I never wondered when they would make payments, they could not destroy my credit for not making payments. My father was a banker. He said the sure fire way to destroy any relationship is to cosign or loan money. So give or not, but never ever cosign or loan anything to anybody. It always ends with grief.

K S Who hurt you? Please tell me your story.

@@speakingtruths4215 My life is good. I am a quick learner. Loan someone money, then they make lots of excuses why they are late paying you back. Then when you insist they honor their agreement and pay you back, then go on and on about how mean and out of line you are. This only happened to me one time. My father did the I told you so speech about if you want to lose friends, loan them money. If anybody would ask me now to loan them money, my answer is, If I give you my money then I will not have it and I am the one who earned it. So I trust in your ability to handle you own problems. I do not loan. If someone is in a horrible position, I have given money and told them never pay me back. That way I never have a reason to get angry at them and vice versa.

Agreed, and I’m paying back a loan my mom co-signed for me years ago. I would NEVER sign for anyone else tho.

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I had Dave’s same reaction initially 🙈🙈🙈

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Good analogy !!!!! Never thought of it like that. Thank you !!

That’s exactly what it is !!! You are 100% responsible to pay it back regardless !!

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Lol so juvenile

The immaturity of these guys makes me think they’re narcissists.

That’s sad and funny at the same time. 😩🤣🤣

Shady

Seriously!!!

I agree with you. It's crazy that she would even consider it. Since it's cosmetic and dental, I'm guessing dental implants. That's a pretty invasive procedure and a difficult healing process even for someone who is 55 or 60.

Know Nonsense Yes! Elective surgery at 80 is insane.

Kelley Fisher not so much if she’s gonna pay for it:her money, her risk, her life.

Being that it is dental work, it’s not that “MAJOR” of a surgery.... I’d assume the “cosmetic” surgery is for her to get IMPLANTS.. from an insurance standpoint, insurance companies won’t typically pay much $$$ towards those types of procedure since other, CHEAPER alternatives are offered (example: such as a dental bridge or dentures). Now, getting dental Implants themselves is a very MINOR outpatient surgical procedure. The only way it become a “major” procedure is if the women has traumatic dental issues (such as infections OR maxillofacial related issues OR a chronic illness that comprises the immune system).

@@ryankelly8077 Don't they have to implant at least 4 metal studs up to the jawbone? I mean, she's 80. Either way, she needs to finance this herself or not have them.

the answer is always no.

He wasn't asking a yes or no question he already told his mom no the question was about boundary issues and his parents were mad at him for not saying yes.

@@krystalhugo629 sorry I didn't watch it.. I am in the middle of hurricane Sally and was hoping for a distraction.

@@anniesshenanigans3815 hope you stay safe out there that's scary

@@krystalhugo629 thanks its finally quieted down.

The only thing I need from a narcissist is DISTANCE!

Having dealt with a father who would most likely be diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder(if he'd go to the doctor) you are spot on. They get upset when you finally realize they are using you and then try to guilt trip you about everything. Cut them off years ago and it's been one of the best and most freeing decisions I've ever made.

TeKnoVKNG23 I believe both my parents were narcissists which means I probably am too. My mom was the worst. I did not grow up with her and met her when I was 23. She was HORRID. I have always been passive and wary of conflict. I try to keep my distance from people and people please so I am not a controller. There is no treatment for people born with this condition. Staying away from people as a probable narcissist is good for humanity and my duty. I like keeping to myself and the few times I interact with people it is fun and pleasant. Funny, my husband is a narcissist but is a kind soul. But I reject all hateful narcissist by staying as far away from them as possible. Peace and be safe.

Siouxanne Buehrer I don’t understand why the word “Narcissist” is so “in” these days. Boarderline personality disorder or Histrionic personality disorder might apply to this individual. I don’t mean to jump on you personally, but I think it is wrong for the public to apply a diagnosis based on a five minute snippet on KZfaq.

Tully Bascombe You make a very sharp point.

And be covered by Medicare dental plans typically.

Makes me wonder if she wants dental implants or veneers.

Implants are wonderful.

Yes, as long as you can afford it and you are not blackmailed.

Hahaha truth!

Dental surgery is different! But it shouldn't need a co-signer! Unless, she wants the full mouth implant!!!

@J K , hat tip to Jeff Foxworthy! 😆

Now I have to pay royalties lol

Well i figure if I put some new lights in the house, you might stay in it longer than 2 minutes...

It was dental surgery.

@Luis Maybe dentures would work for her I'm sure it would be a lot less expensive.

Luis Several thousand per tooth. Could be like buying a new car for the whole mouth.

@Luis - REALLY? Several thousand per tooth? Is that what those ones advertised on tv charge? Wow!

Oops, I should have responded to herbielina.

In the previous call, she refused to give up getting her nails done while they couldn’t even afford their mortgage.

Ain't that the tooth 🤣🤣🤣

@@joetamzarian1817 lol. I see what you did there.

Stupid people get old too.

@@joetamzarian1817 Good one! 😂😂😂

Maybe not, Sponge Bob. People can learn from being dumb when they were young and wise up.

@Sponge Bob Passive-aggression knows no bounds

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😂 can you imagine implants or lipo at 80

Shut Up And Eat!! ASMR I wouldn’t want to 😭

Agreed!

Do tell!

Yes, it's a shame to destroy a relationship with elderly parents and he should be respectful when saying no.

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They wanna look good for the casket 😁

Repossess them at the funeral 👍

You're not seriously bringing reason into this, are you? These are not reasonable, normal, non-toxic people.

Medicare does not cover dental work. They would need to buy a Medicare supplement for that.

How do you overcome systemic racism?

Mahogan e-mic I just live my life & be the best version of me I can. 🙏🏾

The B Hayes Show It sounds like self agency and an internal locus of control goes a long way. Way to go, I’m rooting for you!

I worked as a dental receptionist. 90% od the time the cheques bounced or the CC was denied.

​@Big Bubba the problem is that sometimes necessary surgery is called "cosmetic" when is not covered by an insurance. For example if she needs a teeth replacement and she can't eat, well, that is considered cosmetic for several insurance companies unfortunately, is quite expensive and makes your life miserable. I just hope he makes the right choice :)

@Big Bubba not for the insurance companies.... that is for sure... I'm talking from experience....

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Great comment! Made me Imagine Dave with Gordon Gekko slicked back hair and a $2000 tailored suit...tootin’ blow with a rolled up c-note while listening to Night Ranger on the giant stereo speakers.

Yes, that’s him!

And now I just found out by listening it's about her teeth..he should probably help her with that if she can't do it! Would be nice.

Karen Rankin Under your logic, which I’m sorry to say is atrocious in this specific case, my dad should be expecting a new Porsche 911 just because he paid for my college 27 years ago. Good lord. My parents would never take or expect the money back. They just want me to live a good life and be good to them, and I have been in both cases.

Parents aren’t entitled to anything. You chose to have children and raise them. We appreciate our parents but if my mother ever said “ YOU OWE ME FOR CATHOLIC SCHOOL” that she put me in I would laugh. I’ll do anything for my mom but my mom would never ever ask for anything from us. Ever.

If the parents gave gifts to the son, but they expect payment back, well, like Ramsey said, it was a transaction, not a relationship of gift. As it is, we know from the son's previous call that the parents had out of control spending on themselves.

@Carole W. under my logic.... no, not my logic... just trying to imagine the shoe being on the other foot. I was blessed with wonderful parents who are still married. My mother will take my youngest most anytime I need to ask (though I seldom do because she has done so much for me in years past). My Dad has mowed my yard and helped me with what he could around my house not only when I was a divorced mom and now that I am widowed with an added child. My parents would never ask me for money because they have more than me BUT if I had it to give (and I did when my late husband was living) and they needed it I would give it to them. I would give them the shirt off my back. I take them food because they wont accept money as payment for anything. They are the epitome of what parents should be according to God's word and according to God's word I honor my mother and father. Again, I don't claim to know the perfect answer to this guy's question but I do know that we don't know enough of the backstory to make fair judgements or assumptions. Perhaps Dave knew more. I don't know that either. I know it is a rushed process when you call in because I called once ti ask a question on air once. They called me back while I was driving my late husband to a chemotherapy appointment on a two Lane highway. I had to dash into a drive somewhere quickly and be on my toes. I wasn't and thought after I got disconnected... oh why didn't I mention this or that?!! So, again, I know the hurried process and well the son didn't go into specific... does the mom need teeth pulled which is why she needed dental work? What if her insurance won't cover it all? I could go on and I know there are so many variables for all sorts of reasons. I just say as a grateful adult child if I had it to give free and clear I would give it!!!