True.

Even Dave is guilty of click-bait titles.

@@memberofthelambily1340 yeah to think that dave himself runs the channel hahaha

And you clicked and commented... helping spreading the video even more. So that’s why clickbait exists, it works.

Your assumption seems to be that their 5 million in assets is just vehicles, real estate and other such possessions. Cash is an asset within total assets. She noted that their assets are in retirement so this implies invested cash in an IRA or 401k but they definitely have other non cash assets given their home is paid for and they have no debt.

😂😂 oh pls stahp

E. Smith Was it at the laundromat...cuz if it is that’s mine!

Tori Ellise no lie! I’m 0-3 but I be trying though lol

Allis Possible *readies thumb* come get this work lol

Don't spend it all in one place

That is very scary 😨

3Birds1Nerd that’s why they have money.

Sounds controlling.

No that's exactly why they have 5 million.

@@cortezbaylor1054 and are not even enjoying it.

ABSOLUTELY! Partners in financial matters, awareness is key. Especially for a widow or widower who must live on without the other.

Common sense really. Have account numbers/ usernames/ passwords saved there. Start dates end dates. List all assets/investments and debts also.

It’s just a cunning bait title

In their retirement....same!

N SR and she wants more lol

Sounds like he is reinvesting most of it or keeping most of the returns in the accounts

The standard rule is to draw 4% per year and the investment should grow to keep up with inflation. I presume that's also where Dave came up with $200K.

3% is a lousy return on investment

@@badactor3440 They're old and retired with assets of $5 million, I don't think they need to worry about making money hand over first at this point.

What do you mean? You're implying being on the same page is important and that this married couple Is not on the same page yet somehow they have 5 million in assets and no debt. If anything that shows you can become successful with 1 person handling the finances does it not? I'd question myself if I get a literal example of 2 people not on the same page being successful and then begin to use that as an example of how being on the same page is important. What makes this funnier, is that if she simply didn't care or agreed with the husband, they'd still be in the same scenario with 5 million assets and then you'd say, well see, they are on the same page so that's why they are successful LOL The only reason you are saying this is because she wants to do x and he does not want to do x. Do you think people are always going to agree all the time? XD

@@mrfred1000 it's not about what they have and how successful they are. It's important to be on the same page when large financial decisions are made because there's two people in the marriage and its important that they both have a say In how they use the money

It looks great on the surface but there are a few indicators that he may not be that nice. She calls herself an “idiot.” She has no clue where the money is or how it’s being spent. That COULD be considered financial abuse. Not all 41 year marriages are good ones. Of course I’m making assumptions, and I hope I’m wrong. But it doesn’t sound awesome to me.

Marshall work

How can we appreciate it is she’s not happy

Mallory May “Financial abuse?” Apparently you missed the part of the call where she said she was terrible with money. Ever examined the possibility that they would in all likelihood be bankrupt in 6 months if she were 100% in control of the money instead of him? Tell me again about this financial abuse now. None of this “could” nonsense. Just own your comment.

I agree HOWEVER...They are from a time when divorce is not going to happen (which I agree with) but also the man convinced the woman that she has no say to the point where she helped him create an income one way or the other and she isn't even confident the number is 5M

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Shane Hummus My eye socket is out of joint

Threw up my lungs

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It's clickbait. It's a $5 million net worth, not a $5 million budget.

Helena Geyer you’re exactly right!

So true but unfortunately men who has control over the money like this usually will refuse to get marriage counseling. Smh

Do you have $5,000,000?

If you listened she said she is bad with money so he took over

This happened to my grandmother. It's a real thing!

Dexter Morgan I'd like to hear what the dog has to say.

@@y2ksierra He's complaining about the budget too. lol.

Dexter M. Right!!

On every call! There's two sides and then the truth

I mean, she said she is bad with money. There's no side to hear. I agree with her husband.

princessdyn because for 41 years she has suffered under verbal abuse from the bully.

That is a very good point actually

She is repeating what she has been told. Only someone with low self-esteem would put up with this arrangement in marriage

Nancy Wilcocks or maybe she is intelligent to know she’s not good with money and it playful about it in a self-deprecating way. Many ppl are like this to feel better about themselves this does not automatically mean some “bully” is the cause of it.

@Julie No it's really not. There are many people out there who are just like that. But that's her problem idc tbh

For sure

@@Nobody-xh5qe she needs to educate herself and then take a few vacations lol

As long as the "giving" doesn't go to charities. I never give to charities, only to individuals.

@@ivarlosna6516 some charities will do better with it than some people.

@@tonypeters3320 and lots will do way worse

When would she have to sign? I've managed both accounts for my partner and I and haven't had to sign anything. It's all online. Transfers can go straight to my bank.

ScarletNight my advisor makes us both sign and we are both updated. I think it’s shady when they don’t. We both have to agree to everything. Of course we still have over 20 years before retirement so we save like crazy and my husband always includes me in his thoughts or changes. It’s dangerous when only one person knows the amounts and it’s pretty old fashioned. We also have a child with special needs so maybe we are on a different track than you.

@@amylukenash4048 I see. I've tried to involve my partner but she's just not interested enough to be involved. Anyway, best of luck to the both of you.

Me too

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Where do I sign up please ?

5mil in assets does not mean 5mil in bank account.

Yep, this is so true. My grandmother struggled with her mental health a little over a year ago, and after she admitted that one of her concerns was dealing with finances if anything happened to my grandfather, as he had done that for most of their marriage. He went through it all with her; their exact income, savings accounts, expenses, pensions etc. Its something all couples should do, but especially when older

She needs to take responsibility to inform herself about how money works. He can teach till he is blue in the face, but it is a waste of energy if she is too lazy to learn.

He is a Christian, and probably wants to give it to charity. I know that that doesn't occur to most people...

Ali Abrahem ramen and beans

Deliver pizzas!

He didn't said that

Beans and rice rice and beans you have an income problem

and get a good church

Treasury bonds? Your real assets go down every year with inflation.

I love it too! And that we are his support group - classic!

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Danielle: you are right. Mine didn't get it until we had the 'conversation'. It started like this: ME: "I don't want to be married to you anymore." What a shocked expression on his face. He couldn't imagine anyone not wanting to be married to him.

She would blow through 2.5 million in a decade and he would build his 2.5 million back up to 5 million in a decade.

@@censormedaddy If he's investing in "no risk" investments that probably means CDs, which usually get just enough interest to counter inflation. So in a decade he'd probably have like $3 million. If she invests intelligently she could average 10% returns pretty easily, spend half ($125k a year) and reinvest the other half.

@ Amy, how is your brother liking working for Dave?

@@nuttcrew He loves it! Exciting atmosphere, great compensation, gets to do what he loves, and gets to enjoy various Christian speakers throughout the week.

boogie The term of the budget is the rest of their lives

Agreed

boogie, bump

If you havent caught on by now KZfaq is 90% clickbate, even from the channels we like.

It's only clickbait if you think it, 5M budget is correct when we are talking retirees

Renee Barlin you are firing shots??

She said herself she is terrible with money.

@@Excalibur2 she also made it pretty clear her husband rules the roost and she doesn't have a lot of confidence. I imagine after 40 years of that she'd sadly believe she had no skills if she was told so. I doubt her husband ever gives her a chance to try, he doesn't sound like that sort of person from the phone call.

He is a bully and a tightwad. He likes that he has full rein on the money. I doubt he would be willing to teach her. He should be teaching her so that when he dies first(I hope) that she can continue to make good financial decisions, that she decides are good.

I wouldn't be surprised to hear that he TOLD her she's bad with money over and over again until she believed it. Even IF she was 'bad' with money or made some poor decisions a time or two, it doesn't mean she will always be bad with money. He should have worked WITH her to get her to be better. If she was truly 'bad' with money. Control freak and probably manipulates most things in her life.

@@n.w.414 That seems to me like an really unfair comment. She says NOTHING that points to him being a bully towards her. Him controlling the finances does not automatically make him a bully, especially given their age. I suspect it is an old-fashioned notion that the man handles the money and that's part of looking after his family. It is entirely possible it is more a sense of pride for him, taking care of his wife well by building up and looking after that fortune. Why you go directly to assuming he's a terrible man, husband and human being, I don't know.

She's a Woman. Of Coarse, she wants to spend more.

Yeah, sounds like she married a grouchy miser.

Doubt you got out with 5 million in assets though. *Eye brow raises". I'm waiting to see where in the video she said she's miserable, he cheated, she hates him, it's a bad marriage or he beats her? Did I miss something? "My husband handles all the financials, and he's being a little stingy with wanting to do more stuff" That's all this video is. if you divorce because of that, you don't understand marriage, nor do you know what it's purpose is. I mean I can tell that from your comment to be honest. Most of us at some point don't understand what marriage is or what to do in it, we think it's dating 2.0. LOL "You got out" says a lot. Sure he could have been horrible, but this simple call and saying she sounds like you when it wasn't even bad suggest something more. You don't "get out" of marriage like some break up or something. Smh

@NurturingTalents Eh, it depends on the marriage. I've seen some where they never should have gotten married in the first place, and both were happier apart than they ever were together.

@@mrfred1000 You think every victim KNOWS they're a victim? A lot of victims don't say they hate their partner, or even know they're getting abused! Instead, they slowly rot away. She self-deprecates in her way of talking constantly. This man has obviously broken down her self-confidence. She's not good with money so he should manage everything? That's something they need to work on together since they're in a marriage. She doesn't even know how much money they have. That's disturbing!

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Hero “you bet” lol

She was. Pay up.

Chris Invests - Personal Finance Videos she probably didn’t make it.

Chris Invests - Personal Finance Videos Sometimes the husband doesn’t want the wife to know about their finances, I have seen this firsthand.

My grandparents are like this, but it's my grandmother who "holds the purse strings" so to speak. My grandfather has no clue how their money is manages other than that he's given a certain amount in cash and can fill up the gas tank when he needs to. They went car shopping this weekend and he kept trying to go out of budget because he legitimately doesn't understand their money.

My husband is the same way, been married 32 years

Probably because she doesn’t make any maybe he’s the sole breadwinner who knows.... She does seem very very clueless though.....

Derrika Cruickshank spoken like a women... lol

@@aaronosborn7395 No, spoken like a HUMAN who has lived a long life, has not been doing anything for all those years, has loads of money saved up, and wants to enjoy it before dying.

When he passed away, my grandma realized they had sooo much money stashed in bonds. She knew about them, but didn’t know how much. We found keys to locks with cash stashed. Unfortunately, she became extremely ill on the day he passed away. She hasn’t been able to splurge on her money, but it doesn’t bother her bc she hoards money as well. I hope the caller in this video gets to enjoy their funds while living!

thehALomolov2 That’s not living off him. Many men actually prefer to be the one working and like to leave the wife in the dark about their finances and stay at home.

I agree, even if he was exceptionally frugal I cant see him not going on vacations etc with a 5 million dollar net worth.

Lived off of him? Lol you are an idiot

Men prefer to work because if they don't work women won't stay with them. Women who don't work and get to stay home get a great deal, live off someone's hard work and do a few easy chores a day.

@@Excalibur2 I'm a feminist, but I admit you have a valid point. I would never be with a man that doesn't work, that's crazy talk lol. Many stay at home women are raising kids, which is like being a circus tamer. A woman without kids and not working? Yeah that's the life lol. I have been a single mom for 17 years. Dont assume all woman want to live off men

You don't know what he does with his money. He teaches people to give generously. He gives millions to ministries which is storing up treasure in heaven.

J Pep The comment you’re responding to is referencing the caller’s husband, not Dave, lol.

Could be, and that would be normal in a secular view, but they claimed they are Christian, leaving millions of dollars to your kids to make their life "easier" is not what you should be aiming your life at as a Christian.

It is foolish to assume someone is a demon because they are rich especially if your motive behind it is jealousy.

Uh what? I am not calling them demons they are Christian's. I fall short in plenty of areas in my life and need godly counsel as well. And believe me I have zero jealousy of there money, that is not one area I struggle with.

Or her husband convinced her she was.

She needs to learn because if he dies she will not know what to do 😲

True, I so wish I had five milly.

Or maybe she's terrible because he never let her know anything about it.

@@poodlegirl55 Of course, she's a helpless fawn who can't learn anything on her own.

@@s4nder86 if it's all in his name and/or the relationship was always structured in a you better trust me with the money or you don't love me kind of way. It sounds like a long time of hearing and being treated a certain way that she believesv it's not that bad or normal. Does this mean she shouldn't have seen this and questioned and possibly left this dude? No maybe she needed to. But being gaslighted and convinced you are the crazy one is real

Women do this to all the time, they take the man’s money without accountability

@@AlexPerazaTV are you kidding me? Why make this about men vs women? It goes both ways and there are plenty of very well balanced relationships when it comes to finances. This is one of those blanket jerk statements. You’re either a troll or extremely toxic and closed minded.

She just hear "5 million" and started orgasming... sweating.. and her palms got itchy. The usual

Trouble is always brewing as long as you have a woman in your life.

Charmaine Blackie what are you actually trying to know or figure out? I could possibly give you some tips or put you on the right path.

@@ryanhanson937 how much should I be spending on food once a week. I seem to always run out and how can I save better. I can never make ends meet and I am a single mom

@Evan's Gaming Channel$ 2200 a month???? That's hardly enough to live on after $1000 rent.

@@lenas5613 I am on welfare. Long story domestic violence survivor. It is all I get

@Evan's Gaming Channel $70 a month?? I am feeding myself, my 9 year old daughter and 1 year old daughter. I dont think $70 a month is enough

windsongshf You don’t have to....just 👂

windsongshf I said the same thing before I clicked?!?