Your point on ssa not being a sin unless you act on it is so important! Many people seem to forget this.
@Bishop4722 жыл бұрын
Agree 😁🙏
@rafaelvelasquez54553 жыл бұрын
“When a man loves a woman, he has to become worthy of her. The higher her virtue, the more noble her character, the more devoted she is to truth, justice, goodness, the more a man has to aspire to be worthy of her. The history of civilization could actually be written in terms of the level of its women.” ― Fulton J. Sheen, Life is Worth Living
@dgar196911 ай бұрын
Amber Rose you are wise beyond your years. I was a teenager in the 80's and my life would have been better if there was you tube and someone like you to talk about these things.....but we are lucky to have you now and i'm going to mention you to my niece Jamie so she can use your wisdom to help raise her kids!
@Ela06_193 жыл бұрын
Yesss, long ago I had doubts with this theme Thank you for the video and your effort
@Mauser_.11 ай бұрын
What a delightful and very enlightening video. Thank you!
@charlesquinn15263 жыл бұрын
Regarding mixed marriages: Before Vatican two, the biggest cause of Catholics losing the faith was mixed marriages. Mixed marriages have the highest rate of children loosing their religion. Even two Protestant parents have a lower rate. Of the mixed marriages I know, the vast majority of the children have lost the faith. They don’t work because they can’t work by their very nature. How can they work? How can a mother or father teach children about Our Lady, purgatory, the state of grace, the Rosary, confession, the Blessed Sacrament, if he or she doesn’t believe it? Children pick that up. Then there is the issue that protestants have a different understanding of marriage: it’s not indissoluble and doesn’t have to be open to life. That can effect the validity of a mixed marriage. A Traditional priest told the true story of Richard Reader. He was a catholic who emigrated to America in 1900. He got married to a Protestant girl. At Richards death, he had 180 descendants, and not one of them was catholic. He said Romeo choose Juliet over the faith. A Traditional priest friend of mine said that after 7 years nearly all of the people who converted to get married went back to the way they were. He warned that before marriage, the devil does all he can to bring two people who shouldn’t marry together, then afterwards marriage does all he can to tear them apart. And usually does. When I asked my friends who are married for 20+ years for advice about marriage, they always say, marry a Traditional catholic, only a Traditional catholic. Some of the unhappiest and stressed people I know are in mixed marriages. If your in a mixed courtship break it off. Trust God. God will provide. I know people who were in relationships they knew were dangerous or bad, they broke up and God, who wants our good, sent them a good catholic spouse. It’s often a test from God after which he will bless you.
@marthacisneroslarsen9594 ай бұрын
Totally agree.
@SteReso2 жыл бұрын
Amber: we basically are looking for saint Joseph Me: sure ok, no pressure at all lol Jokes aside I have developed my devotion to saint Joseph in the last 1-2 years and I clearly feel it is making me a better man. I hate when they use the expression "putative father" like he was some kind of substitute; God wanted a true and complete father and a true and complete husband because Jesus had to grow within a true and complete family. Saint Joseph was not conceived without sin like our Mother but he just overcame literally every temptation with his incredible strenght. We don't have a single word spoken by him but we can clearly see it in his actions. He triumphed on pride, anger, egoism, envy, jealousy even before he was made aware in dreams of what was going on; lust and concupiscence, because he stayed a virgin; sloth, indolence, fear because he was always industrious and ready to change his life to protect his family. Following saint Joseph means aiming at mastering all virtues and doing it in silence. I really hope to come closer and closer to my model saint Joseph and I would encourage any man to do the same, so we can truly deserve to love the women God will put on our side. And yes I agree, all of you women who would like to find love, should ask for nothing less
@lylahjoan1353 жыл бұрын
Sorta kinda early lol I love your KZfaq channel. I've had some questions and you answered them even tho i didn't ask anything. (I remembered you had it yesterday)
@citlalyrendon87933 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video!!! God bless!!!
@amparohonaker59733 жыл бұрын
Another awesome married saint is Conchita (Consepcion Cabrera) she had 9 children and was widowed at an early age !
@sophialtaif30773 жыл бұрын
I got a Mormonism ad on this video 🧐😅
@DMG1183 жыл бұрын
Same here.
@antoine29822 жыл бұрын
Mormons are not Christians, they believe in Many Gods. If anyone is curious.
@The_DrivingAddict10 ай бұрын
This video, a St Francis quote (today being his feast day), a video on the 54-day Rosary Novena, and several occurrences in life have come about recently. I feel I'm being sent a message and being told how to receive it.
@pigeonpea62753 жыл бұрын
Great!! Podcast! You are Terrific Influencer!!
@davidlabedz20463 жыл бұрын
Good advice and showing you have prayerfully discerned your answers.
@DMG1183 жыл бұрын
I'm honestly dreading the day you might become an atheist or something, I pray you don't give in to secular propaganda, you are such an inspiration for Gen-z/Millennial Catholics, and I'm sure older Catholics as well!
@veniceangelidelacruz29882 жыл бұрын
No no noooooo😢😭😭😭 I wouldn't be able to get over it if she strays from the Church - - - - - - Let's pray for her and all the other devout Catholics round the world and ask that they continue to remain loyal to Christ 🙏🏼🌍 God bless us
@nathanchurchill37533 жыл бұрын
Great video! God bless! ♥️
@RaulSGarza3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your insight Amber!
@lylahjoan1353 жыл бұрын
Sorry for commenting again but my mom was protestant and my dad catholic but then my mom converted before they got married
@lylahjoan1353 жыл бұрын
@@Juno_Beach what?
@veniceangelidelacruz29882 жыл бұрын
@@lylahjoan135 nah, I think he meant: I don't know the whole story and I don't even know your mom or what she's like, but I'll just assume that she made a mistake because my opinions are more important than the facts...
@MartinGonzalez-rt5dd6 ай бұрын
Exodus 20:7 You shall not invoke the name of the LORD, your God, in vain
@topdoglogistics14063 жыл бұрын
If u love something set it free, if it comes back, it was ment to be
@danielr66253 жыл бұрын
Love this channel so much
@socratesandstorybooks11093 жыл бұрын
More married saints: St. Margaret of Scotland Blessed Anna Maria Taigi St Isidore and St Maria de la Cabeza St Thereses parents Im pretty sure are at least beatified??
@rafaelvelasquez54553 жыл бұрын
I also Recommend Amoris Laetitia by Pope Francis, I Read this book many times. It's a wonderful Insight on Love and Marriage in the Family as well as Relationships who are preparing for Marriage
@justinitsthatguyme0103 жыл бұрын
It really is. Not to mention Pope Francis in this book years ago already that gay civil unions are not valid or to be blessed but nobody cared to read that part them before they panicked a few months ago lol
@rafaelvelasquez54553 жыл бұрын
@@justinitsthatguyme010 Lol
@luis_techie3 жыл бұрын
Need to get some food while I watch because this is a long one 😅.
@ralph49533 жыл бұрын
Wisdom beyond your years!!!
@jonathangoodwin646 Жыл бұрын
One year before I met my wife I used to Drink but I don't do that no more I was clean when I met her I don't use drugs I don't smoke no addictions .
@franceskaufmann9933 жыл бұрын
Great advice!! Where did you meet your bf? And what made you discern that he was the one that God is calling you to?
@haydongonzalez-dyer272711 ай бұрын
Cool
@catholicfemininity21262 жыл бұрын
What if you want to date a strong CAtholic conservative man but Catholicmatch isn't working and neither is other dating sites or young adult groups?
@charlesquinn15263 жыл бұрын
Regarding when to court, the Traditional and correct teaching is that a man’s first duty is to establish himself, that is, he must finish his training/education, get a proper job and then bring a woman into his financially stable world. If your not in a position to provide for a wife and children, it’s a sure sign your not meant to be courting. When those rules are followed, boys wanted to get their act together and make themselves in strong independent men. It’s because these rules were forgotten that we have boys living at home in the basement for years playing Xbox, working in Burger King while dating a girl aimlessly for five years.
@stevenromo903 жыл бұрын
I think the economic collapse of post-industrial capitalism has a lot to do with the "men sitting in their parent's basements" problem. There are quite a few factors involved in the destruction of the economic situation of a large percent of the population, it can't really be boiled down to only a moral failing on the part of the young men. Also, I'm wary of the modern trad-Catholic trend of declaring those in poverty as morally bound to celibacy.
@charlesquinn15263 жыл бұрын
@@stevenromo90 Yes. You are right. That is true. The big companies that could pay men a living wage and allow them to support a family have gone to China because the labor is 1/10 the price. I don’t think you need to be rich or have a prestigious job to get married. My friend is from a family of 13 and his father ran a gas station. E Michael Jones talked of a man he met from a family of 10 whose father was a janitor. My friend who is a priest told me his father worked in a factory and bought a house and raised all the children comfortably. Money is money, and I don’t think it matters too much what job you work to get it. The important thing is stability and financial security. The most cited reason for marriage break up is economic strain. Father Isaac Relyea said when a couple gets married with debt, that after two children in a marriage the couple starts contracepting because of the economic pressure. So money is important. Partly due to the reasons you mentioned, I floated in financial limbo for years believing it wasn’t possible to establish yourself without a university education, until I watched Dave Ramsey. A man can still get himself established. Even today, there are jobs that people can work that will pay them very well, but they don’t want to do them; they want the prestige and social status of a university education, even if it gets them into $10,000s of debt and doesn’t set them up with a good paying job. Most men who put their head down for two years of hard work in their 20s with deliveries jobs could establish themselves. The video below shows how much money you can make just delivering food. And to practice what I preach, I delivered food and vapes last Friday and made over well over $200. kzfaq.info/get/bejne/i7iAe5Sj27-RdJc.html But there isn’t much motivation to do these types of things, because men have a woman and roof over their head already; they have the benefits of marriage without the burdens.
@lylahjoan1353 жыл бұрын
Also catholic match is how my cousin found her boyfriend he's pretty nice he goes to the tlm. I want to go to tlm but the closest one is 2 hours away....
@alwayscatholicknight79203 жыл бұрын
It Should Be "Courting" not really dating
@jeffthomas97682 жыл бұрын
You shared so much great advice! Everything was just, *Chef's kiss*, I loved everything you shared. I've gone through a couple TOBET classes and the main thing they teach as a difference between Men and Women are that Men are Protectors and built to do hard physical labor and Women are Hiding and Providing. Women are a mystery to Men, that's how they're Hiding, and they give Comfort and Support which shows how they are Providing.
@christianhenson6924 Жыл бұрын
I agree with most of this but I strongly disagree with 1. Thing guys don’t be her friend 😂 what I mean by this is be friendly of course but no don’t try and be her friend be her friend and that’s what you’ll be a friend so yeah be friendly but try to make it clear that your into her hopefully that’s what she meant but I thought I’d give my two cents just in case 😅
@jonathangoodwin646 Жыл бұрын
Me and my wife when we 1st meet . She was Catholic She have good standards. We got married right away because she's fun to Philippines 🇵🇭 ins wanted to send her back to the Philippines 🇵🇭. So that wouldn't happen we got married right away within 2 weeks She'll be got married In the courthouse After that We went to the priest To do the wedding ceremony over again . Eventually I became a Catholic. I left the church for A Whil . I just recently returned to the Catholic Church did my confessions Is going to mass every Sunday . Taking the Holy communion. That was a big mistake won't when I left And my wife stay married to me So I go by myself to the Catholic Church And she stays home and watches mass On the TV.
@ramchandrai7551 Жыл бұрын
💓💓💓💓💓
@thatguy90883 жыл бұрын
Anyone with even a cursory level of knowledge about the current marriage and fertility rates today might conclude that marriage and even the notions of wedlock are quickly becoming outdated. In my humble opinion, "dating" isn't the problem. Personally, I don't have even the slightest interest in dating whatsoever. But to each their own.
@jonathangoodwin646 Жыл бұрын
Me and my wife when we decided to get married I was 50 years and she was 29. No My wife is 45 years old and I'm 66 and I'm retarded . And she's from the Philippines.
@mohamedaboalkasem35223 жыл бұрын
Lovely
@Mr_Fairdale Жыл бұрын
The Catholic view on sex within a marriage is never for pleasure alone? It has to be included with procreation? Both aspects or none?
@topdoglogistics14063 жыл бұрын
I’m glad I’m debt free and stacking $$$$ money is the ❤️ of all evil
@zakiyawiltz3 жыл бұрын
I think I definitely having giving up on dating lol imma just start taking care of myself🥰🥰🥰🥰
@kamilzabiegala1649 Жыл бұрын
well everyone has student loan debt bro
@sitka492 жыл бұрын
I realize this video is a year old so I don't know if it pays to even comment but here goes anyway. You made a comment that NFP was referred to as Catholic birth control, I wouldn't go as far as to say that because there are people / that use it that are not Catholic. Well , it's actually it is type of birth control I mean you can use it for getting pregnant and not getting pregnant, I mean let's face it if you're going to manipulate the outcome of an event ie pregnancy whether it with hormones or with information your controlling the outcome. And people that promote NFP claim it's 98% effective if used correctly ( I think it's a bit of a bias statistic ) maybe one too many drinks on a Saturday night and viola, 39 to 40 weeks later parents
@charlesquinn15263 жыл бұрын
You probably didn’t know, as most people don’t, including me for most of my life, but kissing is a mortal sin. Any kissing. Pope Alexander VII: “It is condemned to say that it is only a venial sin to kiss for the pleasure arising from the kiss, even if there is no danger of it going further.” The last girl I courted took a vow to only kiss her husband. I never felt such respect and reverence for a girl. I thought it was so beautiful, I decided to do the same. Padre Pio recommended it to all teenage girls.
@neverloseyourvoice52633 жыл бұрын
Im confused how is kissing bad?
@charlesquinn15263 жыл бұрын
@@neverloseyourvoice5263 That’s a good question. The way I would explain it is like this: If a car salesman sells you a bad car, and shakes your hand, looks you in the eye and smiles as he does it you know he is lying to you with his body. They are merely bodily functions, they have a meaning and express something. It is the same with sex. God designed sex and love between a man and a woman to be a gift of self that is among other things total and faithful. The human heart was made to love one person exclusively, totally and permanently. That is the love the heart longs to receive and give. He made sex to be the expression of this. The nature of sexual physical affection is that it creates bonds that are not meant to be broken. Kissing is the beginning and part of that physical action that glues a man and woman together emotionally. Research shows the more sexual partners someone has the less they bond with each successive one. It’s why people find it harder to forget their ex the more physical they have been with them, and think about them even when they are going out with it or even married to someone else. It’s also why women, who bond more during sex than men, find it very hard to leave a man, even if he is abusive. In God’s plan you would first discern whether this is a morally good person and they have the qualitys and virtues of a good husband or wife, then when you are sure, have decided to commit, and are in a financial position to, then you would add the emotional superglue of sex in marriage. But what happens is people don’t do this, they start being physical and their perceptions are skewed by the emotional glue. They don’t marry the right person, or they marry a bad person. The marriage breaks up after a few years, or the woman gets pregnant and the man leaves soon after, or they decide to leave after a while because they never intended it to be permanent. God didn’t tell us to do things this way to make us unhappy, rather the contrary. He wants to protect people, especially women and children who suffer more than the man, from this pain and trauma, and set them up to have the happiest, strongest, committed enduring marriages they can.