they're kiss lashes avant garde!! amzn.to/4bStDMe (I get a small commission from the link) but omg I WISH my lashes were naturally that pretty hahaha

@@glowynectarine17 tysm! I'll definitely give em a a try. You go girllll!

lol...don't know about you but I can tell if the lashes are fake or real... but you don't care. Just wanted to say that.

@@juleeanng 😭

lol fr

Wait I agree 😆

Wait omg I don't have the speed on??🙀🫢

@@rubyteha3936I thought I did to-

Ok but sameee only my “ex” best friend (we’re still friends ish) can speak at a pace my brain likes and she’s one of the only ones who can understand what i say the first time I say it

nothing makes me more irrationally irritated than a long intro, I feel you AHAHAH thank you for noticing heheh

@@glowynectarine17appreciate, such a rare treat to find a short intro on recommend girl!

i love her sfm for it lol:,).!.

thank you sm!! and thank you for telling your experience too! fr the most INFURIATING thing is when the people who've never been heavier go on and on about how wanting to look a certain way is fatphobic or wanting to lose weight is fatphobic.

@@glowynectarine17 exactly, we got to listen to our body and do what's best for us🫶🏻✨

I totally agree 👍

Yeah please try not to trigger an ED though. Sometimes when people lose weight it's still not enough and end up starving themselves to lose more

@@anotherhuman9071 girl your story is so inspiring!, I plan on losing weight because I am tired of judging myself to other skinny girls so if you have tips I would love to hear some!♥️

Thank you 💖🫶🏻

Well Do you like it or hate it?

​@@thealchemist1951 she likes

I’m sorry you didn’t get that when you were heavier. Pretty/skinny privilege is definitely real…

​@@motivationalspeaker7145 normal

that’s because of your face not your body. i’m slim and have a good body and have always had a naturally good slim body, but also always had an ugly face, and i get treated the same way that heavier people are saying they do

Okay I'm not gonna say ur body WILL change, but it can! I was really chubby in 2020-2022 bc I want done with puberty but now I'm slimmer in some areas!

When I was 13-14 I used to be way heavier and bing eat all the time. By 15-16 I naturally slimmed down without doing anything or cutting foods. Sometimes it’s puberty/early teenage-hood.

I am obese AND im only 13....but,i have been working on it so yayyy!

You guys can do it!!! I believe in yall!! =DDD

you can do it!!

how??

@@Angel-fv2iw I lost weight in the unhealthiest way possible since I was being basically b*llied. I would not recommend doing that because I’ve developed an eating dis*rder and had great hair loss because of it .

​@@Your_local_MOA I'm sorry you had to go thru that I hope you get better

@@HotpplstanWonyoung I’m in recovery and even tho it’s not easy, i hope to get better 🫶🏻

@@Your_local_MOAsame😞

ahh thank you!!! and you got this!! sending you sm love, thank you for watching

Please seek therapy. 😔😔 ur mom is probably also disordered, please try to live healthily, skinnyness ISNT life.

Girl edtwt and all that stuff is not good for your mental health pls get off of it and refrain from looking at it. U don’t need that negativity girly. Jesus believes and thinks you’re beautiful❤️. Turn and go to Him instead Queen.

@@ariellaallen2856 thank you so much for your sweet words❤️ I'll definitely try to get some help :)

​@@mama-wh3dvyes definitely try to find a good therapist and you will get through it

I have some images/knowledge BURNED into my mind after somewhat dabbling in ED circles. PLEASE don't do it, it stays with you. At one point I was in a restrict and binge cycle for maybe 2 years, and gained weight. and honestly, if I just kept a regular healthy diet, I would have been at the weight I originally wanted anyways. But I was too into a quick fix I didn't realize this shit sticks with you for a long time.

AHAHAHA THANK YOU ILY

@@glowynectarine17YESSS omg i do dw all thanks to you literally

it’s annoying because i began to lose weight because i wanted to fix the way i thought before it spiralled into something bad, it helped me but it also is quite upsetting to witness in real time that when people say you are treated better when you’re skinnier is true

AHAHAH thank you

HAHAHA do I really talk that fast 😅

i literally did the exact same thing 😂

The food is even more important than the working out. Good luck, hun

I agree

Don’t be scared! It can actually be really great, I’m starting fr tmr and I can’t wait to see what it does for me!

@@dakotatoneyu can do this!!

For everyone it is lol

REAL I DONT WANNA LOOK THE SAME

I only need to lose 10 pounds but these 10 pounds don’t suit me they truly make my face look so different and puffy ! I want to look skinny like a Kpop Girlie

Do you have any tips for losing?? Proud of you ah!!❤❤

@@Raya-fm2mz Thank you so much!! Honestly for me it was working out in my room every day and cutting out harsh things like alcohol and junk food. It was rly hard at first, but finding alternatives to the usual things I ate ended up being easier than I thought! I will say though, one cheat day a week saved me from going back to eating everything I ate before lol! I think we all deserve a treat once in a while c:

@@triplehearts914 do you have any alternative suggestions? im really struggling with cutting back in the dieting part of it, but im super determined to lose the weight 😭😭😭

i can probably tell you why youre ugly. youre not. youre being blinded by all the "tiktok pretty" girls and youre probably comparing yourself. you might not notice but youre definetely attractive. nobody nowadays is actually straight up UGLY. once you improve your self esteem and confidence, youll magically notice how truly beautiful you are

You have to be $kinny and pretty or $kinny and seductive to get people to treat you better (flirty if you want men to be better to you, and act innocent/cute/stupid to get women AND men to treat you better). I don't know how you look but I will speak from my experience and what I have noticed. I would say I am what society would consider pretty, somewhere in between average and stunning and I have been all different weights throughout my life (I am 26 now) and I was treated best when I was $kinny and seductive. But also throughout my life I have also had friends with all different weights and what I have noticed that those friends that were $kinny but u*ly or just not that pretty also didn't get attention from guys/people in general if they weren't seductive in any way and/or didn't know how to energetically attract people. I have learned how to do that and even when I was overweight I was able to make people like me and notice me (want to be with me/near me). Also when I was in school it was usually the u*ly $kinny girls that had most guys around them because they knew how to use their femininity to attract guys who were much better looking then them. Women have this energy that attracts because we are the receivers but a lot of women don't know how to use it to their advantage or they don't know how to use it at all. Honestly I had to stop using it (now I only use it when I need to) because so many people would notice me and look at me when I was outside to the point it started to make me feel uncomfortable. With great power comes great responsibility hahaha it's honestly true. It's all in you and how you attract people not so much about how you look but being $kinny is a good first step. Hope this helped you in any way.

Hiiii it got banned for minor safety AHAHA 😶😶‍🌫️

hiii late response and i know im not the person you directed your comment to but heres my advice. to get the guy you want, it might sound cliche but just be yourself. try to be more social, join clubs, go out more so you have opportunities to meet people. once you do find him, dont try too hard for him, but engage with him. make conversation, find similar interests, eye contact etc.. and it might not always work. sometimes you do have to face the truth and realize hes not the one, but give it a shot. you'll never know and you might end up as your happiest self. but before anything, focus on your priorities. your mental and physical health top any other problem. hopefully this helped

@@thelyachronicles ok but i dont understand why shouldn't i engage? if i like him shouldnt i be straightforward and show it? i planned on going right up to him and gelignite him i really really like you, and start off form there. and when you say use your eyes, do you mean keep eye contact at all times while i talk to him? i though of writing a poem for him so i have more to talk about when i approach him. should i do this?

@@gh-sb1dy i said you SHOULD engage btw😭 and starting off by saying you like him isnt a good idea, it might scare him off. But do your best to show interest! and yeah, when hes talking to you, listen actively and seem interested while maintaining eye contact. the poem idea sounds cute but maybe save it for his birthday or another special occasion, as bringing it up randomly might be a little TOO straightforward. but i dont know, it might work

@@gh-sb1dyIf you like him say yes go on the date but watch his actions and be honest if they are right for you

​@@gh-sb1dygirl no that is NOT how you approach men...he will run as fast as he can away from you. Men don't like women that come on to strong since you will end up looking desperate and that will scare him. He needs to chase you, you just need to be flirty enough that he sees you are interested in him but not so much that you freak him out. There needs to be a certain give and take.

😂😂😂🥲🥲🥲same girl

it’s different for everyone tbh tho. for me it did improve my love life. i never got romantic attention up until i was 17 which was the first time i had ever been skinny my entire life, and it was crazy bc all of the guys from school who used to make fun of me all of a sudden started sliding in my dm’s, which is so validating but it made me sad at the same time bc ppl obviously saw more worth in me js bc i was no longer fat when i was deserving of that even before.

Other than looks demeanour matters a lot like just the way you’re standing or speaking or presenting yourself in any given moment. Depends on if the guy likes timid or outgoing girls or is confident enough himself to approach a certain girl that he meets. But yeah lol looks matter THE MOST, and guys tend to approach people who they think is either at their level of attractiveness (what they perceive themselves to be is waaay higher than what they usually are) or they approach women completely of their league, never below. Those smug mfs☠️

It's how seductive you are. You need to learn how to flirt and how to be seductive with men and you will easily attract them. I did this in highschool and so many guys wanted me, even when I gained so much weight that I became overweight I was still surrounded by guys, every break they would all come to my table just to be near me even tho I never asked them to come over. Now I don't flirt with anybody unless I need something from them because I am tired of men and I don't want them to talk to me so nobody approaches me anymore. But if I feel like it I can still attract people because I learned how to do that.

I LOVE HER THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU 💖💖💖

No

Yes I think working out make you more attractive

it's the one in the thumbnail !! I didnt realize I didnt put it in until after I uploaded it , apologies :,)

@@glowynectarine17 haha i just noticed! thanks!

ahhh thank you so so much. ik im not a doctor but please make sure to nourish yourself and eat nutritious foods throughout this process (while not necessary, my biggest regret is not eating more nutritious foods when I lost weight. I've found it's easier to maintain when eating healthier too)!! thank you for watching :)

thanks so much for these helpful tips, I’ll try to finally try eating better 💕

Everyone can lose weight

Cause she’s American….

@@fruitlxxps3262 Americans don't sound like preppy white girls...

@@fruitlxxps3262 Americans don't sound like typical white girls..

@@Masterbaiter1000 bruh.. yes they do. They are the typical white girls!!?

​@@Masterbaiter1000weirdo

bro leave her alone

let her do what she wants bruh

​@@y.a.z.m.i.n.real