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I totally agree! It is the responsibility of any adult to develop the art of conversation for dating and dining, business and pleasure. Have some clean jokes, some fun stories and interesting questions for your guests.

Ha! Loved this! I honestly disagree with the "I don't know if I'm gay" one though. I've been openly gay and confident for years now, and I think our community can be quick to call out straight guys who might be insecure, worried, come from a negative home life, who maybe are wanting to see what it would be like to go on a date with a guy. I just say this as I think it's something important for us to reflect on as most of us came from a point in our lives where we were calling ourselves straight. Let's create a more welcoming and supportive environment!

Don't bring up your ex...

The past guys I have dated before usually asked me ALL OF THESE QUESTIONS. But I swear this one guy came to me and we are together now for 2 years and he's so good to me. He never asked me things that is really weird. And yes before we become official, he courted me for 4 months. Oohhh those were the dayssss 😊😊😊

Two things. One. when they are texting on their phone most of the date. The point was to meet and get to know them not see how fast they can text or check social media. Two. And a guy did this to me on a coffee shop date. He got all angry with me because he asked where lived and what work I did. He called me rich, spoiled and entitled because I have a decent paying blue collar job, my own house and a paid off 13 year old car. I learned he walked or took the bus and lived at the Y. Not that I cared about his current living situation but honestly don't just get but hurt if someone is more well off. I paid for his drink and food and left him. I don't think I want to hear about their politics or stance on social justice or judged by it like this guy did.

I have definitely experienced everything you have said and more like one time a guy told me how many men he had sex with. He really thought that was sexy as if it was going to turn me on or something, but disgusted me. And yes, yes, and more yes about the courtship. I'm not gonna lie, American guys are pissing me off now - It's always about stupid sex. I'm not a prude but I'm looking for a relationship and you're wasting my damn time by pretending to want me but actually just looking for a good time in bed.

Charm and class make a difference!

Check please! If they say I’m on the DL or not sure I’m gay if it’s a date and not a hook up. Dating those types never end well.

Like the rhythm on your outro song. Meanwhile, yes, I hate it when guys want to kiss me on the lips on the first date. A hug is good.

Do people actually date today? My last coffee date was about six years ago and he was more interested in his phone.

good work

I agree with you, however if you are a bottom for example, how would you want to create this connection or why, only to discover that you are actually not compatible. Most bottom guys are somewhat easier get along because in my experience they are more sensitive and caring but it can't go anywhere or would cause issues if the top/bottom thing comes up only later, don't you think?

I never really know what to say to some of the sex questions like, how big is it? What's the best answer? Usually I just say if you're lucky you might find out. I think people that find it required to ask must be searching for a big one..

Thanks for your tips 😊 I always remember and do all your tips😊 thanks again . Carla ladyboy from Philippines 😊

nice speech 👌

Is the music necessary? The content is great but it's like listening to someone speak inside a bee hive. All of the questions you say not to ask on a first date should be already answered in either their profiles or before you go on a date. Why would you spend the time and money on a date with someone with whom you are sexually incompatible?? Sex is an important part of a relationship for most men. There should be no shame attached to these questions. I thought you were going to say something like "What is your sign?" or "Have you ever been in jail?" or "What is your credit score?" Nevertheless I like your bravery in making these videos and am subscribing.

Nice one sexy Kevin but you never answered all of those questions, would be great to know. 😁😁 unless I have to find out 👌👌🤔🤔. Missing you 😘😘

Its unfortunate that we hav normalised casual sex, top bottom non sense, sharing nudes like chocolates..... no wonder most gays are lonelier, anxious, suffer from insomnia at night.... or jus plain habit of hooking up which has become a sort of addiction. I wonder what these ppl do when they turn 45 or 50 s with no physical charm left to woo ppl on hook up apps... always invest in ppl who add value to ur life. U always get something wen u seek for it honestly.

These are all pretty obvious things not to say on a first date. Although I guess some people still need to be told. If someone asked me on a date "How big is it" the reply might be "My dear, you'll never know".

Ok pls someone respond... so grindr is for sex only and tinder is more for dating? Right? Because Grindr doesn't seem to bring me a boyfriend in my life.

I personally don't get this top/bottom you have to be one way or the other. If you are really compatible with a guy and y'all are attracted to each other you can make adult fun time work!

superbe! 😮💪

“How big is it” is something to discover, not ask lol. I think people should just have sex and get it over with to find out if they are compatible. That’s a good way to start a first date!

youre so right! another thing to avoid saying, and ive had this plenty, "youre so cute, i cant wait for you to meet my husband" bitch if youve got a husband, why the hell am i here????

God , that happend to me, he ask me, when's the last time you had Sex !!

i'm in my 50's and never had a gay first date, i find it a waste of time, i would rather have sex first.

Just would luv to have a drink or two w/u...someday ?