*Yessss!!! We definitely need a PANEL on the topic of MASCULINITY 👏👏 Rix, a modern dad, a traditional dad and a PSYCHOLOGIST😊*

I am glad that women who came before us fought for the right to education and the right to work. Without that, the only choice would have been to rely on a man 100%, which would mean giving away my freedom. Working (outside the home) gets me paid for what I have rightly earned, and no one can claim the right to control that, unless I let them do so. This money gives me freedom to make choices in a way that I could not, if I had to borrow money, or get a monthly allowance from a man. Even if I got a dollar-billionaire husband, I would still build something of my own, even if it is an online business or a flexible consultancy job, or I could run the philanthropy part of his career life (like a non-profit). Also, if we did not get the right to paid work, I would be labouring on a farm, tending to goats and cows and many kids, in a small village close to where I was born.

Wueh, the fighting for the right to work for women was more about getting compensated for work done, and access to white collar jobs, than about women WORKING. Otherwise African women especially, have always worked. Our grandmothers and mothers tilled land, planted crops, bartered items, and even sold chang'aa to educate and care for the children and the homestead. We really need to stop saying that women did not work in the past (this might be true for the suburban white women whose husbands worked, and even for them, this was a terrible arrangement for the most part, to the extent that most abused antidepressants, alcohol, etc to deal with the boredom of being home all day) ,,, because women have always worked... even the enslaved African American women worked, they just were not compensated at all!

Women do not get enough credit for the mental load they carry in remembering tasks, organizing schedules, and anticipating the needs of family members. This cognitive burden can be exhausting and taxing on mental health. most employers don't give enough credit to women's professional achievements and most times women get paid less compared to their male colleagues.

Not me listening while lying in bed simply coz I woke up in my pees, headache & fatigue. I got 3 black dresses that are a code of saying don’t dare cross my lane, gladly someone understands the language of those dresses. If there’s no cooked food someone has to figure out & that person is not me In my next life I want to be a tree & leave a 100yrs

19:27- men perpetrate about 95% of domestic violence. Literature suggests too that men are LESS likely to interrupt sexual and relationship violence when they see it occurring compared to women. e.g if your drink is drugged at a club, is a woman more likely to inform you of it or a man? if your child is getting groomed, (by a child abuser), who , between a man or woman is likely to recognize it and bring it to your attention? Women are protectors too. It's not only a quality that's biologically innate to men. 58:35- I think the conversation should be more along the lines of; would these men in my life who offer me a sense of security , evoke the same feeling in other women? Because your husband who is your sense of security, may be the guy at work that I never want to be alone with.

Bien and Shiv would be good contributors for the 'things men don't get credit for' topic. Loved this conversation. As always i love how you inject banter, empathy and candor in these conversations. ❤

Lyd just gave us a new phrase without putting effort...shokwo ni thayu😂😂😂😂

Wednesday is here again,let me be on my earphones cause from the topic feminine energy is loading and am at work😂

Not me visualising Lydia pregnant while hosting the show 😂😂

This setup is GIVING!!!! The lighting, the deco and the glow glow on you baddies…🔥🔥🔥

You ladies look stunning❤ Lyd, this hair is your signature now. You look so good ❤

Great comments on the previous episode but ilikula time ya topic ya leo(jamani 30 minutes eii🤣😭😭)😢😢😢😢😢part 2 please

This conversation was such a trigger, when I was approaching my due date with my first born, I happened to mention something about how I longed for maternity leave, how I would rest and not want to strain🤔🤔🤔🤔heeee, bro inlaw who was at our home chastised me telling of how women in shags get babies and go to the farm the next day, if looks could kill, he would be an ancestor as we speak🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣I agree with Murugi, God's children need rest, plenty of rest

I just came in here to this beautiful topic.. let's get in our element 🎉

Not Murugi calling Zach a cow😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂she was so mad saying it

Loved the convo - very informative. Love how you balance each other out.

My podcast for life✨😌❤️

I enjoyed the episode. I thought of Georgie as well, as a guest for the men's version, please make it happen 😊

Ooh wow . Excelling raising a human ❤❤❤ that should be on a tshirt.

Enjoying the comversation, 2:36 not to deviate from the focus but I'd like to give another perspective on work. Work in the 21st century has been made to look like a forced thing for survival and pioneer consumerism. I celebrate the women who fought for our right to work. Think about women who are in a calling may it be healing or teaching or mission work. They're not driven by money or needs. It's more of passion. May we value passion driven workers who don't view work as many would rather a purpose driven commitment. Great conversations as always 😊

Lydia is wise fr

Lol I'm with Murugi for that last point. Because you're giving them credit for making you feel safe from WHOMST? Men. Goodnight.

Hi ladies.tuned for tmi..kindly put your seats close..we miss .your close high 5..n affirmations touches😍💖..p

Right within the hour😊💃🏿.Topic moto moto to warm up my Wednesday. It's Definitely TMIIII ❤️.

it is always a pleasure hanging out with you here .

This should have been a reaction video...so much to dissect.

So my dad was a fam to table guy, I can slaughter kuku do everything, cook it etc. ALSO, I can change a tire... ni nini? Now that I can pay someone to do it, i dont,but I can. That episode really just shook the ground...in a good way. What cant a woman do? What cant a man do? Jiulize. Oooh also, trust my daughter (and i have one) will know how to get the chicken from farm to table. And so will my son.

Its definitely TMI🎉❤

Yes we should definitely get a week off work during our periods cause wow 🌱

Wueeeh the idea of pregnancy now makes me question the idea of masculinity. So now that you married a nurturer who doesn't have to provide, you have to work as usual till 8 months because now you can't expect Providence. In that case do we ask friends and family to pay bills and take care of maternity charges?? And still take care and support you after birth?? And babies are expensive. The idea of of a man who cannot provide and protect only makes sense where there are no kids involved. Otherwise, 😊😊😊😊. We all have choices ladies. Now here is where we have theory and what actually happens.

TMI FAN for life...l jst love ❤❤how you both lnspire me...l look up to you my role model

It's the outfit for me ♥️♥️

We need Zack in this platform ❤❤❤

MURUGI AND NEEDING MONEY FOR THE LIFESTYLE 😂

Hip hip hooray 🎉🥰🥰🤗 I'm happy

bring zack

Can Zach be a guest on this podcast? I'm sure he has alot to say. #zachzachzach 😅

Devil's in the details

Sprinkle Sprinkle girls you helped me get out of the dusty dusty

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❤❤ 5th minute

Firsttttt❤

I really wish TMI would do factual research before misleading a crowd that will blindly be influenced by the conversations. The narrative you have on work and women is so misguided. I cant help but question your socialization to work. Please shape a narrative that is helpful and factual