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"And then be that list" Welp that took a turn lol. Was not expecting that.

My dad always said everyone wants the perfect person but they never want to be the perfect person that really inspired me to better myself for others

Don't find someone who just makes you happy find someone who makes you a better person

his 'best relationship' advice was fabulous. it's called 'taking responsibility.'

That "be that list" is such a great twist and an honest advice to apply tbh. Because you simply can't demand something from someone if you aren't capable of delivering the same thing. And if "you are" that list, then the process of dating gets easier because you get to save your energy.

Worst: Make it work no matter the situation. Best: Find someone who challenges you to be the best version of yourself, but won't bully you into being someone else.

Be that , be what l look for... Awesome advice

If you want to find a 10, you must become a 10

"Find someone who loves you more than you love them." Here is my perspective; if you know you're generally the type to prioritize your partner's needs and have this nurturing personality towards your lover but these same things were hardly reciprocated in your past relationships then I honestly see where this advice may come in handy.. I mean everyone deserves to experience the positive things they contribute in their relationship be reciprocated. It's like hey I am a passionate lover, natural giver but it will be great to find someone who loves me more than I love them, so I do not "overdo" things in my relationship.

Agreed on the worst advice I was in a relationship with a person who loved me And i kept saying to myself it’s ok as along as they love me I’ll learn to love them… Spoiler alert , i did not love him in the end My heart was not happy I wasn’t happy there was something missing I didn’t know… This was my first relationship,,, I am still waiting for the right person💜 I learned that you are not obligated to love someone back this is something i struggle with i feel like i always should give something back to please others.. You’ll lose yourself. Don’t do that Accept your feelings and learn to put yourself first

this got me in the feels. the guy asking the questions is so gorgeous!

True That. The first part. Heard it so many times. Its not great to be in that position. You marry Someone who loves you immensely and you don't feel the same and you feel bad for not being able to give back the love you are receiving. :(

"...and then be that list" It's so cool how a few words can have such an affect and deepen the strength of such a clichéd idea

Mine would be; Love yourself enough to have a defined relationship with the person you want. Make sure there's an alignment to vision and set your priorities right. You both should also be ready to put in work.

Leaving a relationship you’re not happy in is much easier than emotionally damaging someone. But selfish people don’t get that

BE THAT LIST⭐

My best advice was find someone who loves you at your worst

Number one i stan for that. I dont think it is a bad advice. My boss also told me that same quotes.... find someone who loves u more than u love him. I nvr listen cus duh i just cannot be with someone i dont like. I always reject guys i never like and i did not give them a chance and go for the one i really love the most. I broke that pattern I am with handsome man, generous, supportive, loyal, honest , rich and he propose to me at age 30 yrs old. At first i didnt fancy him ( didnt like him) but as time passed by. I start loving him . So much so that were finally married. And he spoils me lots just like how i spoil him And yes love do grow as time passed by. I dont see that quotes as negative unless u r with a person for hidden agenda then thats just being fraud, user.

"And be that list," that hits hard and very enlightening. Thanks again.

The first advice is not the worst. It actually works..

What I got from this video is that #1 real love is equal from both the sides, not more or less on one side or another #2 you don't get what you want instead you get what you are .Thank you .🥰

The person that cares most always loses

Someone who can laugh and roll with my odd modes and humor, who won’t get mad that I walk into stuff and forget things a lot. Someone who never makes me feel like my innate playfulness is annoying or too much or god forbid, immature in some way. Someone who genuinely wants to explore life, try new things all the time, and who is eager to please me. (Because I’m always the one that is more eager and thoughtful). Someone who is good with where their money goes, and who wants with all their heart to be the best human (and parent and friend and partner) they can be. Yeah, I guess I do have stuff to do before I am matched

That is so true. Me and a woman had a discussion like that years ago. She said list everything you want in a partner. Be honest and check how many of those things you are. Most people are not what they want in someone else.

Its kinda good one because those are the people who'll never leave you, will try understanding you better atleast. There are 1 in a million chances that two people love each other equally. So if you gonna find someone you love more , you will easily be manipulated in the future.

The first one actually applies to men, because men are incapable of growing to love a woman, they do or they dont, nothing in between. But a woman can grow to love a man, thats why its important for women to make sure he likes het more than she likes him. Its literally life saving for the woman, because a man you love more will annihilate you especially if youre self sacrificing. Ive seen it time and time again and my mother almost lost her life over loving my father too much.

This is the best advice actually.Find Someone who really loves you and love them back in equal measure.For as you go through life you will realize how hard and rare it is to find such a person.

Best advice I got is love slow it go love fast it won’t last

I’m the list for every person I meet. Doesn’t mean those people stick around…

My Mum always used to say that about #1. But after 30 yrs, I discovered it is true because you will grow to love that person. ❤

I am what I am looking for.... that's why it's hard to find someone

Wow I accidentally took that best advice in high school then lol. I put all my effort into being "that person" and I met "that person" soon after I graduated. Without entertaining anyone else beforehand. Fast forward some years, we are currently engaged.

i noted down what i want in my partner, and i tried being that , like 5years.... i was in toxic relationship, believe me if they don't share same feeling, it's not worth it... never over love someone never

Yes, that was the worst relationship advice. My ex boyfriend never made me feel loved because he never loved me inreal. He was with me just because I loved him, not because he feels for me. It was his first relationship, and one day I had asked him that why we are together ? He said that he have heard somewhere that "Be with someone who loves you, not with someone whom you love." That killed me from inside and outside.

THIS is why I love your channel Matthew.

I think the ‘worst advice’ mentioned is the best advice. You want someone who adores you and if they don’t, you should run.

I am the list already. Faithful, honest, respectful, genuine, physically attractive (i am told), sex drive, keep myself in shape, work to pay my own bills, kind and funny. And I’m alone at 38. So sick of this.

True love is good

How honestly he answers 🥺 we can clearly seen in hies eyes

This is the most BADASS advice about relationship ever. I heard that once that you should become who you want to have in your partner.

Thats a good one..I think the (one) will come into your life and just makes you exceptionally better..without even realizing it..

Make sure you still have your life/goals/dreams, don't become just apart of someone else's life... Self love self respect comes first.. if you dont love yourself, dont expect anyone else to... .. if your partner doesn't respect you..than they won't/dont love u.

Wow! That second answer was so unexpected and got me choked up.

Thank you so much for posting this💯

I always follow the best relationship advice ✌🏻 If I wish a person to have some habits or qualities, I adopt that habits and build myself according to that.

Pufff, that's exactly what I got out Jordan Peterson talks.

Do onto others what you want them to do onto you. Is like give and take. If you don't show yourself as an example of something good, you can't expect the other person to do the same.

Perfectly said,, Praise God,Hallelluiah!❤❤❤

Wow !! best relationship Advice....

Worst advise is to compromise. This word.means so many things and it includes one giving up something but the other spouse doesn't.

2nd was really great advice, you shouldn't want anything from love, instead you should just love them. By following that advice, you can love someone instead of wanting/needing someone

Love is not about finding the perfect person. Its about seeing an imperfect person perfectly

Hahaha the worst advice example is what my mom’s always told me 😂

Only God loves you more than you love Him. You need to love others the way you love yourself. It works perfectly 🥰

I literally figured the best one he said at the age of 20 and been doing that and telling others ever since. It’s the most important thing to know yourself before starting

My mother told me back then, find someone who loves you more than you love him. Maybe that has subconsciosly stayed in my mind.. Because I have been very sad and unhappy since as a teen, and it’s getting worse every ear. My previous relationships were very toxic. Now 23 soon 24 and I thought that I found the love of my life.. Kind way this is toxic too because my man got mental issues but he’s more suicidal. He’s trying genuesly best that he can to meet my needs. But I’m so broken because Im scared of him, being with him and I feel like emotionally abandoned because these no room for my feelings. I have developed a fake smile at home as it was long previosly at everywhere else. Thank you if you read this, im sorry if you’re broken too❤️❤️

Seriously 2 best answers

Non of those is important. You decide to be with someone because you just appreciate them who they are and they appreciate you as well.

He’s figured it out, very powerful

This has to be the best one ❤👏🏼

I wish I heard these advice when I first born. 😌

The worst: love ur partner more than ur kids The best: a good relationship is built off a good friendship

Find somone you love so much and that loves you so much that nobody knows who loves who more❤

It’s simply the law of magnetism. People don’t invest in it but want to benefit from it. Be the LIST

I don't agree with the worst advice. I think it's okay if you be with someone who loves you more than you love them. Love doesn't happen in a single day, it's a slow process, sometimes you fall in love almost immediately, sometimes it takes you months and probably years.

Wheeeewwwww!!!! He’s at it again 😮‍💨👏 love it

Whatever person in relationship that cares the least is in power in said relationship. Always be able to walk away!

Only the people who have been in the darkest valleys will know how maginificent it is to be on top of the highest mountain ❤️

Worst advice: Be in a relationship Best advice: Don't be in a relationship. Relationships I'd say is the worst thing someone can do to themselves. It's heart breaking and at the end there was nothing special about it. Because they'll turn around and find another person and you meant nothing. Everything you went through with that person good and bad meant nothing.

Love is not only a feeling or only about receiving.

Wow! Nailed It!

This is a 🔑, unlock your self, be that list! Profound and well said gentlemen! I follow material like this to arm me with material to guide my son. Thank you both !! for your individual work !!

U can't find someone who loves you more then you do love happens to u and stays in your life if it is in ur destiny n love is always equal from both sides if it is not equal it is not love there is nothing like less love or more love love is love

Number 1 is for women, because generally, men love disappear much faster, number 2 is for men, because generally women would give everything to the men they're with and stick to him no matter what

Relationships are complex.. people change over the period and if your lists still remains the same there is gonna be a problem... For me relationship is like a team working on a project...njoy and understand each other

"Find someone who's a good person" Love can change. More or less.

He is just making it up, nobody gave him those advices. 😂 But its not bad.

My granny told me “don’t bite off more than you can chew.” If you start your marriage doing everything in the house for your husband and he doesn’t have to lift a finger. Don’t get mad when you’re older and need help around the house and he won’t move. 😅

Bars. Simply put.

Be that list.... Best advise thust far.💜💜💜

I don’t want to be a tall handsome man though 😢😩😂

Im a 24 woman from algeria and im looking for a kind smart man

I totally agree with you on that. Because I believe that is the key to a perfect relationship❤❤❤

TRUTH!!!

Yes you find her because she loves you.. someone else will find you because you love her.. Cycle is never ending

Wow. I found my partner when I decided to be that partner I was looking for

"Be that list"-✨💛✨

I just love him each and every response each and every solution he suggest is sooooooo damn gooooood.. much love and respect for you 🤍

Heard the first one many times before. I think I realized though, for myself at least, I’ll do more my part if I’m into the person as well. If I found someone who is into me more than I’m into them, I feel I would let the person do the relationship work more of the time because I’d have little relationship motivation. I think I see the appeal to have someone do that work. I’m sure love can be grown over time for people with one person gaining a persons love through affection and acts of kindness but I prefer a mutual more equal relationship in the beginning. Id have reassurance for myself that the motivation to be with that person and love for the other person wouldn’t be called into question.

Find someone who loves you more than you love them is the BEST advice for women

I could listen to these two all day.

This is 💯 correct! Live your life EXACTLY in accordance to what you desire to attract. ZERO DOUBLE OR TRIPLE STANDARDS ✌️

Give love more and more but don't expect anything in return. If they love u truly u will recieve more than u have ever thought of. But there isn't any loss in giving more . Be happy make everyone happy,be kind and generous.

thank you ❤️

that's the truth. I find this very helpful

The best relationship advice I have heard was from my best Friends auntie who said “ it’s better have to loved and lost them than never been loved” ( I’m only a teenager so there probably more better ones)

Here's one from my side (I mean I read it somewhere lol): A good relationship is never 50-50. It's always 60-40 where both the partners try to give in the 60.

Worst =adjustment is the key for a good relationship Best= understanding is the best thing in a relationship

Heart melt😢 in this teenage gap life is really not understandable they are not guided properly most of the youth struggle so lot to go through this age guys be sharp we should take care of our lives by ourselves no one in the world will come and help you once we fall down we should know how to get up and go through life❤❤take care of your parents ❤❤❤❤❤saayonaara