If u never felt heartbroken, you've never experienced the full potential of r&b music.

I didn’t realize I was in love with this girl till she broke up with me, over miscommunication tbh, and wouldn’t hear me out. I didn’t just cry, I completely shut down. Would randomly think of her for years. Then one day we met again and started talking as friends, then hung out and the flames immediately flames and we kissed and started dating again. Now we’re married 4 years and barely argue bc we both worked on communication, honesty, and improving with compromise.

"my boss sent me home cause a tear dropped in the soup" 😂😂

My man that got sent home for crying in the soup made me almost fall out my damn chair😂😂😂😂 chin up buttercup 😂

The gas lighting by his mates is a double hit. Trust issues forever after that one

I cried in Ikea after a breakup. Lol I was helping my best friend shop for a bedroom set with her husband. I set down on a mattress to test it and just broke down lol

“i was down bad but it was all lies” james 😂😂😂

The dude with the girlfriend that had sex with ALL his friends.... How did he find that many "ain't shit" people at one time? Normally, a person has one or two dirt bags in their midst at a time. But somehow this poor guy gathered a lifetime's worth of buttholes into one situation. He needs some discernment and fast. #BlessHisHeart 💔💔💔💔

Man the friends gaslighting him was soo fricking sad. God I hope the dude is with better people now. Yikes, people suck sometimes.

The “let me read it again, James…because it baffled me, too” SENT me!!😂😂

This Era of dating is legit disgusting. There's men n women cheating on their partners that starts the whole cycle of them becoming heartless n end up doing it to the next smh 🤦

This break up stories is what we call in Kenya... " character development" experience.

Making a dude pass out between sets at the gym… ruthless. You know how hard it is to find a good gym and she just ruined that place for em

This was about 2 months after the break up, I was sitting the Bus Station waiting for my bus and the public radio decided to crank out a song I had picked out to propose to her but this was before the break up. It was "our song" and I knew every single flipping word of the song. When it got to the part where I had planned to get down on my knee I burst out crying, in a bus station full of strangers.

I don’t think I have been loved this much ...911 ambulance 🚑,passing out, starring at nothingness,...🥺wow I pray all these men get the love they deserve ❤

The grandfather and lil bow wow concert took me out. What grandfather would have that as a dying wish. That’s game right there😂😂😂

The "love of my life" dumped me after a couple of years and then started dating a new guy after a couple of months. I cried everyday for 5 months and had to go on anti-depressants. When I found out he's a cheater my depression suddenly disappeared for some reason. It will be years until I'm truly over her though.

What kind of stroke leaves you on the floor crying?. I can't breathe. These stories are outrageous but James and Fuhad's laughter is so freaking contagious.😭😭😭. I take it back the bow wow story had me on the floor.

That whole 3 month pregnant thing had me space out for a sec. Then realized I think she did it because she thought she could basically cheat as much as she wanted too raw without any concequences as she's already pregnant to her husband/bf. Extreme amounts of sex after finding out your pregnant is what you usually do with the person that got you pregnant in the first place. She had other plans......

Watching these makes me really wanna tread more than lightly into a relationship now. Makes me question just how much more perceptive I have to be in order to know she’s loyal

I love the way these two love each other. You can see how much James hated to see him hurting.

This is the first podcast starring men that I'm subscribed to. I like the way you guys tell the stories from men and women without malice. It's just hilarious and reminds me that we're all just humaning to the best of our capacity. Also makes me happy to be single lmao 🤣 good job you guys 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

CRYING IN THE SOUP 😂 THE SOOOUUUUPPPPPP

I like how it all started with "This is a safe space" 😂😂😂

Ah that poor lad who was gaslit by his mates and his girl. That's so sad. I hope he is OK. I don't think someone would ever trust again after that. Quadruple whammy.

For those that don’t know Panera is an American restaurant that’s basically a cafe and they serve a lot of soups and breads, so he was probably preparing a soup and the tear dropped in it 🤣🤣🤣🤣

The one about the guy who was betrayed and gaslit by his gurl and "friends" is just heartbreaking. So awful and traumatic.

As a women, some of these are funny; however, I can’t imagine ever doing that to a man. No one deserves to be treated like that.

Sitting in a panera eating and laughing with this video and just got to part about the tears in the soup

Don’t EVER look at your phone in the gym 😂

As a woman, we do not claim the cheaters/users. Women AND men, have your fun out of relationships with whomever you want but if you are in a relationship and can't stay loyal.. be honest and end it. These poor dudes and what they must have gone through but still, the soup line had me crying with laughter.

"She belongs to all of us" 😂😂 James nooooo 💀🤭

"let me read that again James because it baffled me too" 💀

I want to hear James and Fund's most painful breakup stories

after watching this….i can confidently say I’ve never been in love 😂😂 cause the passing out and sobbing ting is wild 😂😂😂💀

By the way, I am 5ft2 and 110lbs during my pregnancy I only started showing at 6 almost 7 months pregnant. I was actually able to hide the pregnancy for about 7 months. I started to show at the end of august and was due end of September but no one knew I was pregnant all summer. I actually have photos from July of that year and my stomach was flat so definitely possible that she was just able to hide it

These heartbreaks are brutal!!! I’ve come to the conclusion that heartbreaks are not for men. This part of life ain’t for us.

My homie said, “damn, I ain’t ask for a boat ride wit your crying ass” got me rolling

Some of these guys got some movie-level drama in their lives😂 They should write a book or somethin

It’s so sweet that they know each other’s heartbreak moments

The way they be talking and laughing, is this really a safe place?😂😂😂

their laughs are contagious!! 😂😂

You don't necessarily show at 3 months when your pregnant. My first pregnancy I didn't show until 6-7months along, and I went out to everything social related, dancing, you name it, all the way to the end. My boyfriend and his friends would laugh every time someone would try to hit on me. And when I tell them I am pregnant they didn't believe it. And the second time around lol the only reason people knew is because we revealed we were expecting again at our 1st one's 1st bday party, while being 6 months pregnant again. One thing men forget too, is you could have some serious morning sickness and loose so much weight and don't gain it until the end sometimes.

Trust me you don’t wanna know how it feels! I used to cry so hard I would throw up

I'm just WAITING for them to talk about the elephant. THAT WOULD BE SUCH A GOOD EPISODE 😂😂😂

I am currently going through a breakup and I’m heartbroken. This is making me laugh thank you guys

"Let it go," "on a Frozen thing" omg

This perspective is interesting. When I broke up with my bf, I was well and truly done. There wasn't a reason, it wasn't his fault, it just wasn't enough. Most girls ask for a break at this point thinking they'll have a chance at a better guy and still have a fallback in case it doesn't work. But if you're not satisfied with your man and you'd rather play games and have it both ways, grow up.

If I seen a dude crying at the range I’m definitely calling the manager 😂😂😂😂

😂😂 He cried into the soup

no way he started crying because he saw someone acting like his ex😭😭 lmao like I hope to fall that hard😂

A teardrop in the soup is crazy 😂🤣

This is kind of nice to hear, cause I don't really see heartbroken men, like guys don't come to me to vent about it, and the few hearts I've broken obviously didn't come to me about it. It gives me hope that men can feel emotion. I think the issue is in how they deal with their feelings though, turning to anger or suppressing their emotions. They harden their hearts and it messes them up for the next person they date.

I came back from my cousin's funeral having messed up my phone the previous night I used my other cousin's (deceased's brother) phone to call my girl tell her I'm coming back. I was proper feeling the shock of seeing my close family in that kind of emotional anguish. So I got back home, girl told me she coming in two days to see me. I thought it was to like show love, get the t-shirt with his face on it that I got her specifically, a little extra cash wouldn't hurt, coz she support me right. When we sat down she started doing the shifty eyes thing... Bro she didn't even have to say it.. but she still said she can't be with me anymore... Legit felt the floor open up the way my heart sank. I doubt I can trust a woman like that ever again. That shit stays with you for life. RIP Neville

Y’all accent, slang and jokes make it sooooo much better! Obviously from the US! ❤❤❤

7:41 "She's not your girl bro" 😅😂 then, "She belongs to all of us" 😂😂😂

My girl broke up with me. I was getting ready to drive up to her uni to see her and try n get her back. I walk back into my room but remembered I needed something out of the bathroom as well. In my haste and flustered self I ran into the half open door, then into the wall, back into the door, into the wall. I must have repeated the cycle 5 times, banging my head on the surfaces every time before I finally stopped and took a breath. My friends I was depressed for 5 years after that day 🤣

James humming I’ll be there is taking me TF out🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

girls care less when a relationship ends because we can tell where it’s going and we detach ourselves from that situation before they can even catch on. i do it unknowingly like ik i do it but not until after ans i put the dots together. i’ve been better with communicating how i’m feeling so i don’t do that and thank goodness i’m still in my relationship with my bf almost a full year of talking and we’ll be one year of dating in september

“They organize breaks”🤣🤣🤣

I related to some of these and I’m a bisexual woman 🤣🤣. Girls are heartless when they want to be done with you.

3:32 Fuhad saying ‘hold on’ 😂😂😂 killed me

Last time I cried was when my role model and grandfather passed, he was a real man's man. Tow truck driver in Houston, punched an ostrich, looked like an Italian mob boss. Miss you pawpaw

I just want to hug these guys. It physically hurts to hear these ppl be sad like this

"A tear dropped into the soup" 😭

"Safe space"🤣

Yall needed to keep this same energy for the dude you gave advice to who literally went out and got a side chick because his pregnant wife couldn't f him daily.

After my ex broke up with me I got into habits I never had ie drinking and hooking up. I felt myself unraveling more and more and I've always been strong and got over things but I couldn't get over that and I decided I needed therapy and antidepressants before something in me permanently break. This was in 2021.. 2023 I'm good, even better due to me seeking the help. I am more comfortable and love myself truly and what I realized that if I was in therapy and on meds before my ex, I wouldn't have dated him. Moral of the story... Heartbreaks hurt, and the mind is fragile, so take care of yourself.

We definitely organize the break. We actually call it when the plan is in order😂😂😂😂😂

Was having a rough evening & randomly came across this video & it instantly cheered me up. Hate to know people went through these horrible things but the commentary was hilarious. Thank you! 🇧🇸🤍

When a women’s fed up.. no matter how you feel. Their ain’t nothing you can do about it… y’all know who said it 😂😂😂😂😂

12:00 was jokes omg!! I love it when these two wheeze together!!😂😂

my best ''ive been down bro but it was all lies'' 😅😅😅

The way James gets shocked 😂😂😂

This just shows that there are some horrible people out there causing people some serious hurt. Absolutely disgraceful.

Neither men nor women have the monopoly on being an asshole. I really wish ppl would stop taking sides as though one gender is somehow the better human. Assholery is an all inclusive personality trait. All humans feel emotional pain and carry around past trauma! We should all engage with one another under that premise. Just thought I'd mention that because a lot of ppl seem surprised that men would cry after a breakup as if women are the only ones that have bad experiences in relationship. It doesn't make sense to me that is even a valid thought for anyone.

Why am i laughing this hard to their pain?🤣😅, oops a tear has fell in my tea, from laughing too hard

The most hilarious part of these videos is both of them laughing 😆

You guys never fail to make me laugh. love you guys😂😂

That camera angle on Fuhad is looking juicy!!!!!!!

I love how he has to start over every tweet 😂😂😂💙💙

thank you for this! My husband just announced he's divorcing me. I was blind sided (still am), I wish I would've been dramatic and passed out like the guy in the gym! Thanks for the laugh during my current heartbreak!😀

Damn, I didn't think the meme about men being completely broken by a breakup while women are completely fine with a new haircut, would be so damn true! 😂

This has me contemplating the guys though. Women will put up with so much bs and try to express the way they feel and after it gets overlooked so many times, they eventually have to move on because the man they’re with doesn’t seem to care. These have me wanting to hear both sides 🤔 Although, there are some women who just don’t care about anyones feelings but their own. Same thing goes for men occasionally

Just found this video and wanted to share I was leaving for the marines and my girlfriend at the time thought it would be a good idea to make me watch Dear John before I left for boot camp. I should’ve known something was up when I stopped receiving letters from her. I get back home in time for her birthday (I planned it out to surprise her). My FATHER pulls me aside on my first night back before I went out with my friends and shows me screenshots of my ex with another women that she posted on her IG while I was GONE. My young and dumb self still went to her house for her birthday and forgave her….🤦🏻‍♂️ fast forward 2 months and I was away again across the country and I was getting my first tattoo and she texts me telling me that she wanted a break while I’m mid sesh on the table.. after I paid I sat outside on the parking lot crying while my friends were getting their tattoos. I road back with them to the barracks and I was silent the whole ride back 😭 I have since moved on and I’m in a very happy healthy relationship with the one I told her not to worry about

If you ask me, when people that start seeing someone else a couple weeks later, they weren't shit. It sucks but it makes you glad you didn't waste anymore time on them if that's as long as they needed. 15 years is hard to reconsile with tho. I feel for him.

See my only argument is that y’all gotta take note when they say “my ex” vs “someone I’m seeing/dating” cause sometimes we don’t think we’re really dating these men

Staxx clearly doesn't know where her bread is buttered. Missed opportunity for staxx.🤣😆

(Let me preface by saying i am a divorced 50yo single mother to 4 grown men) I raised my sons to be gentleman. If you ask a woman out, it's your obligation to pick up the tab BUT I also told them that if they want to meet good women who will be equal partners in any relationship they have, they should never pay or buy them things that they demand. In the past girls have asked them to pay for their nails, their hair, their rent, their car payments etc. They took my advice to heart and went through a lot of women who expected them to be their own personal ATMs. The first time a woman would ask them to pay for something other than dinner if they had been asked out, would get dropped. They are now all with really good girls who support and respect them. Only one of their girls have ever cheated on them or done them dirty. The girls that they're with now are strong independent woman with good jobs, good morals and respect for my boys who can take care of themselves but they know that my sons have their backs just like they have theirs. If you guys want good girls and a committed relationship this is the way to go. If you just want a bunch of hos that you can get off with, keep paying for their luxury items and expect to be cheated on. And then don't act shocked when she dumps you cuz some other guy can buy her more/better things. Relationships are not a monetary transaction. They should be based on mutual love and respect.

the lil bow and the grandfather. lollllllllll.🤣🤣🤣🤣

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The girl that invited the dude to her birthday party to be hugged up with another dude and act like he wasn't even there is beyond disrespectful! I'm ruining the whole party that shit ain't going down like that you ain't gonna play and disrespect me lol I'm destroying all the presents

You know how much it takes for a woman to actually be that done with a dude, and to be that heartless...

Lmaooo it was the tear in the soup for me. I love the wild rice soup!!!

Not I stumbled walking out...😂😂 That's crazy

Some of these stories should be on How Villains are Made!

This is what I needed today :)

She's not your girl, she belongs to ALL OF US..🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Im dying

You guyses podcasts have really been helping me thru it . 😂😂😂😂

Gotta go into work soon… definitely will be a good day thanks to y’all!!!🧡