This makes perfect sense and unfortunately no one's honest nowadays sot he fact he is honest that's very attractive in itself

FFS what a load of bol🔒

@Dr Joey oh gee thanks EASIER SAID THAN FUCKING DONE!!!

Even Mike Tyson said his fear helps him out & still faces the challenge like a man unlike people who have to join some crew to have their beans sprout.

It was probably Master oogway of course

Be you don't quote

YAa

Nelson mandela

Good luck man, a more positive life is coming to you 👊

Keep moving forward brother 💪🏼👊

Yes that makes sense and I can relate to some of it.

Good for you. Glad you found your hidden power.

I overcompensate and will talk to anyone and everyone, which sometimes gets me into trouble. If I want to talk to a woman then I will do and then I’ll walk off, it confuses my friends and even the woman in question. Now I was the fat kid at school who knew the cool kids but I wasn’t respected by them or even the opposite sex. I’ve learnt that the people I grew up with could just put on a better false sense of security and hid there problems, better then I could. Nobody is born wise but you can become it. I am 35 and learnt a lot of things after turning 30, I make mistakes everyday but I try not to make the same one twice and I use the word try as some things are out of your own control.

Confidence is just an aftermath feeling that comes from past success nothing more nothing less. For an example if a person was able to attract someone that they was interested in than that person has gained past success which is what established and contributed to their confidence in the first place.

@A.J. I do believe That my description of confidence is more in depth and scientific but I do hope That you have a good day and a great life sir.

@A.J. Me, personally I can be a well rounded person to The full most but definitely not "confident", I am just speaking for myself.

@A.J. I was just about to say the exact same thing that you said here in your message.... Well spoken... Also, I think it can possibly be a fleeting confidence that comes when a person feels good about themselves because of compliments they may receive about they're looks or getting a promotion at work. When you gain the kind of confidence you get from a long, hard life, and your still kicking after one setback after another. It creates a feeling of invincibility. Not to mention, you just dont give a F**k, so much any more of what people think of you. Because you've come to Love yourself.

@@pamelaweinberger3373 The magnitude enigma of self hatred can be a very deep thing, deeper than what many people can comprehend or understand, I am just speaking for myself, I am 35 years old by the way, Black American male.

I just reread this 8 hours back. From the book.

Man I need to start reading those books. Ned was cool as fuck stoic took John in as his own and took one for the team to protect him screwing up his marriage in the process for that secret

"A man is only able to show bravery when he's afraid." You could have cut that much shorter, but nice comment

@@SavingPrivateBob It’s quoted from a book.

@@BriLoveMusic what is the name of the book?

Confidence is just an aftermath feeling that comes from past success nothing more nothing less. For an example if a person was able to attract someone that they was interested in than that person has gained past success which is what established and contributed to their confidence in the first place.

@@VoidDweller86 that's cool and all, but ai like mine..... think I might keep using it.

This is what I'm working on. I'm trying to change, to finally be true to myself and face my fears, but I feel like people around me don't want me to.

@@HomicidalxPanda don't worry about them. Any voice telling you not to work on self improvement is not a voice to listen to.

@@HomicidalxPanda yea dude who cares what other people want/dont want for you? You want it for yourself, that’s all that matters. Keep striving.

I'd rather fix them than accept them.

@@saltykraken9471 often you cannot

@@saltykraken9471 ive always dreamt of it that way and hoped it was that easy but i hate to break it to you that isnt always the case for people. Some people move forward and accept it. Some continue living their lives with hate and anxiety for who they are. The moment you realize that nobody is perfect and that just here breathing on earth is a blessing then the only thing left is to find it in yourself to be grateful for who you are and to make others feel heard and understood as well. Yet thats what we do as humans though right we judge we criticize we compare . For what to make someone else think your good enough. It may seem hard for a person with so much anxiety to feel confident but its more so about FEAR. Its all in your head. May you find peace within yourself and love your life in ways you never thought possible

You start workout and use good quality face/ skin/ beard care product and whoala you can looklike him and having confidence

@@fullfradi95 Stop coping, Tom Hardy has confidence because he is attractive, has received constant positive affirmation, and is famous. You’ll never look like him no matter how you trim your beard.

@@user-nz7mv2iy6d "never going to look like him" " trim your beard " , okey sure.... if you say never going to look like him cause of the triming , im out

@@fullfradi95 Re-read my comment.

@@user-nz7mv2iy6d nah, you are the one coping. You can look like him if you put in the work. I don't know you but I suspect you are just lazy and irresponsible. You definitely can't look good with that attitude. Your attitude is a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Is the other Leo?

Tom hardy,leo and johnny depp...cameleons of acting

My favourite actor os Boris Johnson

Pleaseee 🤦🏼‍♂️ legend, legend? Legend status is Clint Eastwood, these actors nowadays don't come close to legends like Clint.

Cillian Murphy

What's his full name

@@greenjupiter who? Tom Hardy? Is it necessary? He can be googled.

@@lilxsweet googled my ass. Not every English speaking person is from USA or Europe. I don't have an effing clue who tf he was until I checked some other comments to check his full name duhhhh

What are you even on about? I'm very confused by your agressiveness. Not all English speaking person is from the US and blah blah the what now? What? 🤔 Where did that even come from? LOL Do you even know why you're angry for this reason? You need help. This will be my last reply to you because you are just not making any sense. I hope this is not your passing enjoyment, because it is such a sad existence.

@@lilxsweet I think they just wanted to know his surname because it wasn't mentioned in the video. Their response was a bit over the top though. Seems like people thinking the world revolves around the US or UK really gets to them (not saying you think that btw).

Let's keep it that good way let's hope that real men will exist and feminism will disspist.

@@IsraelCountryCube what feminism has to do with Tom Hardy

Interesting...

Woww

Society raised people to think tattoos are 'scary'. Much like everything else society taught me: that assumption was completely wrong and for years did me a disservice of not talking to people simply because I was scared of them.

I got tattoos because of my insecurities and now I'm insecure about my tattoos, amongst many other things. Lol. Whoops.

People who end up in jail usually are very insecure peoples with unresolved issues, so yes void of confidence

I am going to listen to that album with this in mind

That is an awesome album and was well worth the wait imo.

Such a good album..we waited so long but it was worth it

did you observe he is a high status Chad as well?

I'm afraid of men I can't talk to men

@@teresadownes2422 just try small talk or simply saying hi. Baby steps. 😊

@@teresadownes2422 we can chat under this thread , confirmed man here 👋🏻. what scares u about a guy?

Right?? I feel like I could be watching a Brené Brown video or something

This is true I was so obsessed with these "self-help/improvement" so much that my thoughts pattern seem crazy as I try to be perfect every second I becomes aware later on that my insecurities only grow bigger and bigger.

@@bew5230 life isn’t easy brother, especially nowadays. Just be yourself man. 💪🙂🙏

@@paulpelle3046 Thanks man 🙏

@@bew5230 you’re welcome bro 🙏

That man is fine af

@@nonelikememe it’s a female-to-male transgender

Yes he only needs some dental work

@@ldfab3609 he was born Edward Thomas Hardy?

@@davidguliver8929 some imperfections are fine in people

No need to look flawless but I wouldn’t say zero effort in your own appearance is good either.

I hate suits. But there is specific ones that enjoy wearing I don't have any suits. But that does look cool sometimes concrete dust on your shoes paints on your pants and shirt. Working boots. They don't know what it's literally the feeling of working in construction. If you feel tired and it's not necessary to be dressed properly wherever else you're going other than work then I think it's comfortable. I can't look flawless with my hair standing up all the time so I shave my 4th dimension hair off and as of now I'm not bald because currently I supply my body to my scalp the nutrients it needs to literally keep my hair and not go bald lol. I sometimes hate the hair on my scalp. I hate cutting off my hair and I hate growing it but sometimes it looks good and I look good. But I'm unhealthy af right now so I had to cut it because it was literally dead human hair seaweed on my scalp which no longer had a good reason for being there and had to be cut down.

Wow, what a hero. Someone making 10 bucks an hour had to clean those floors and I'm sure they were real happy for you about whatever dumbass epiphany you had while you were tracking mud and concrete dust everywhere. I hope eventually you had the "I'm kind of a huge asshole for not taking 15 seconds to wipe my filthy fucking boots, maybe I should do that" epiphany.

@@lotsofciggies Yeah sorry if you and your family had to clean that up bud.

@@mrchaotiq the fact that you think insinuating that my family members were janitors is some kind of insult tells me everything about you. Sometimes confidence is unearned.

@A.J. lol which is basically what you are doing here. the guy is a high status Chad (ie highly attractive). that's the lesson here. normies can't get away with acting like a snowflake.

@A.J. 'praise given to attractive people'

@A.J. you don't get it do you? just like the video creators, you are under the illusion that behaving one way or the other is of influence on how confident a high status Chad like this actor would appear. you are in fact implicity praising this guy for his looks and status because you genuinely think the reason he comes across confident is not the fact he simply is a good looking Hollywood figure, but that he shows a certain (supposedly vulnerable) demeanor. that's a fallacy called the 'halo effect'. dude, you are not Tom Hardy. I am not Tom Hardy. don't think we can emulate everything such people can get away with. regular men will simply look weak, especially to women, when behaving like this.

True

He's nowhere underrated. He's starred in indie films as well as blockbusters. Respected and admired by his peers and fans. He's just not a famewhore getting "candid" pap pictures. He belongs in the Christian Bale and Cillian Murphy class of actors: true talent and doesn't give a fuck about celebrity.

@@benjaminroman916First off he's nowhere underrated make No sense but he doesn't get mentioned when people talk about the great actors they always mention Denaro, Pacino,Hanks but never him and he is every bit as good as them and he deserves an Oscar but he doesn't have one does he no there for he is not getting the credit he deserves so he is underrated he may be getting the work but he isn't getting the credit

@@brianlittle9202 Oscars are overrated and it takes years of butt kissing and expensive campaigns to win one. See Leo. Also those actors you mentioned have decades in the business and he's not there yet.

@@benjaminroman916 Well the man has made over 47 movies and has been making movies since 1998 which is long enough for anyone to judge his work and while Oscars may be overrated to U and I if U busted your ass at any career and was among the best in the world at it U would want the appropriate raises and or credit U deserve. I know Hollywood is a filthy out of touch even satanic sh*t hole but none the less right is right and he should get what he deserves if U were an actor who was that good U would want that Oscar especially when U see some of those who have reserved it in the past.

Not really.look at all the pretty people with major issues. Just ad money does not make you truly happy. It can make life easier but it does not make you good person

not entirely true

To admit weakness takes courage and courage = strength. I commend you

It's all biological. A weak person in a society back in primitive times were a liability. Weakness meant death. It imprinted in our DNA to never show weakness and this is something that cannot be erased. People might say it's okay to cry or show weakness as a man today but people will unwillingly judge that man subconsciously, which is sad really but that's life. Nature is brutal and always have been. Everything becomes easier to understand when you study humanity objectively through the lens of nature and biology.

You shouldn't show weakness, you should work on not having any, not saying you should be perfect cuz no one is, but work on being the best you can be at everything.

@@killerrmaaniac, that’s solid.

Think this is super ingrained in men part society part biology. The funny thing is soon as you start being more accepting and forgiving of your flaws and less self critical what you can actually achieve skyrockets. All the energy you were devoting to beating yourself up for 'being weak' or 'failing' can just be expended on getting on with things.

Everyone needs to shut up

This video is actually good advice tho

This

Umm tom hardy has a point its not all about fame

I agree! Sarcastic but true 🤣

Im not learning how to be myself. I'm learning how to not try and be someone else.

😂😂

U love me too

Exactly. But no one would give a shit otherwise.

@@A-RJ Yeah exactly. Think anyone cares to hear a fat, unattractive, poor, bald man talking about his fears? My guess is no. This is kind of stupid

Super models are literally paid to be beautiful and still have body confidence issues and eating disorders.......your logic is flawed.

@@yanceyboyz oh boohoo. Try being an ugly person who isn't treated like there a king every day of their life. We all have problems but beautiful people have such an advantage its crazy.

Exactly what I was thinking. He can afford to come out and say that he's scared of everything. It's charming, instead of lame, for someone in his position.

@@thomash7252 I think what most people want is to just be authentic to who they really are. I would find it absolutely charming if a “street dude” said these things as long as he was being real

Being authentic works for everyone.. there is no self development without being honest about yourself

Yeah seriously! Whoever made this video has a huge hard on for Tom Hardy!! This was lame...

It’ll work for everyone. Definitely easier for him, in ways, but possible for anyone

@Omari L thank you. It is the truth. You just have to pick up the pieces and move on… make yourself happy in life