I went on a date with a woman and the whole time she complained about how bad men are and how we are worthless. I ate my meal, paid for my meal and she looked at me like I was an ahole for splitting the check. I told her I'm not paying for your food because you sat here all night telling me how much you hate all men. I'm not paying for someone who hates me.

Oh, it’s quite simple, no self-respecting man would want to be with someone that views them as an enemy

The three “A’s” that ALL modern feminists want: 1. The authority of a man 2. The advantages of a woman 3. The accountability of a child

I lived with a feminist in a share house for 3 years. It was exhausting every conversation or argument came down to male VS female as if we are competing. Eventually I stopped negotiating my point and I just started saying what I really thought even if it hurt her feelings. In hindsight I am better for it though 👍

I was married to a feminist for 10 very unhappy years. Never again. The single thing she did that damaged our relationship the most was told me how I felt and what I was feeling. Even when she was 100% wrong, she insisted she knew better than me what was going on in my head... and punished me for it.

There are more than four reasons. 😂

Why in the world would I ever want to come home to somebody that views me as an oppressor and competitor? I'm totally not a masochist.

Five minutes into a date with a feminist I had a great idea. I asked her do you consider yourself a feminist. Yes. Then i wouldn't dream of insulting you by paying for you. It went downhill from there. Engaged to a woman who lived with me. She expected me to come home and help her. She would do nothing all day until I came home. Yea I'm single.

The social media thing is huge for A LOT of men. We dont want our girlfriends and wives making TikTok videos and broadcasting our lives online to a bunch of strangers. Its a HUGE liability and just flat out childish. The attention seeking behavior is on another level these days.

My Mom and Dad were born in the 1920's, and lived through both the Dirty 30's, and Dad and all of Mom's brothers were WW2 Vets. Dad explained their relationship as "He will make the Living - but MOM Makes the Living WORTHWHILE." Men and women are different - They don't COMPETE, they COMPLIMENT each other. The Human Species (or any other sexual species for that matter) Can NOT SURVIVE without BOTH.

Never date a feminist! Just working with them is enough. Why'd you want to come home to something like that is beyond me!

I've heard that the #1 cause of divorce is contempt. Not cheating, not financial problems, but contempt, and it's almost always done by the wife, but for some reason, when a woman does it, she's praised by her peers, and told "You go, girl!", but if a man does it, he's a controlling monster.

the irony is they say they dont need a man and then complain that men dont want to date them. Im totally all for womens equal rights and being respected, but I really dislike the whole 'man bashing' brand of feminism. Men and women are equally great and should be treated as such. Just because some men have treated women badly doesnt mean that ALL men should be demonised. There are so many lovely men out there!

There's a feminist at work who has a crush on me. She is cute, but she is constantly calling men trash, bragging about beating boys in soccer and never takes accountability when she messes up. (Which she does alot) Feeling the need to compete with us, disrespecting other men and never taking accountability. Those are my top reasons to not date a feminist. And it's interesting, because when women have pleasant attitudes, take accountability when they're wrong and are a joy to be around, they are often the most attractive people in the room.

I dated a feminist, didn't really understand just how radical she was when we got together. She would bash me and men in general constantly. A few years later, I took my stuff and left. Being in a relationship with a man hater is not healthy.

As a man I'm not going to try and find out that the feminist I'm dealing with is the good or bad type. The moment I hear 'I am a feminist" is the moment I'm gone. Life is too short to waste trying to figure someone out. And there are also plenty of women out there who don't identify as feminists. I am in a wonderful relationship with a non-feminist woman for the past 4 years and life couldn't be any better.

I refer to this form of toxic feminism as "equal as I wanna be"

For number 2, it blows my mind how this isn't more obvious to more people. A man doesn't want to date someone who hates him and all men, anymore than a woman would want to date a man who abuses and hates women. As for number 4, this is huge. The relationship can thrive if each one takes on tasks and helps the other. Too many times, people post online about how much they hate doing things for their partner. But why? Don't you love them? I would think that the effort would come naturally when it's someone you care about.

It's better to be alone than to be with someone who doesn't value you or hates you.

The absurdity of men wanting peace in their lives and to be left alone to work hard and protect their families…

My gosh, such good stuff. I had an awful relationship before where she would just HATE seeing me sit down after I got back from work. Would find some chore or something for me to do. I was just never at peace in that relationship, nor did she care to be my peace, or let me be at peace. It was just constant high stakes. Dealt with that for 6 years. I stuck it out for a long time until I was finally done. Staying single until I meet someone worth it who actually cares about what im feeling.

Women getting mad at you for resting/recovering from an illness has perplexed me over the years. I’m looking for a woman who will let me take a nap.

What messes me up is my ex called you a "pick me girl" and completely wrote everything you say off just because you stand up for men's feelings and value.

I think that most men believe that women should have equal rights and equal pay for equal work. But modern feminism isn’t about that. It’s just basically trying to create an environment where women have a winning situation no matter what happens. Men are still required to maintain the traditional role. Even more so because we have to be perfect and not have an off day. We don’t have to just be the alpha dog at work, but now we have to compete for that at home. There is no actual human respect for men anymore. Men are now supposed to be submissive when she wants to be in charge and dominant when she doesn’t. And then later said men will get left and/or deal with disrespect for allowing her to dominate ever in the first place. It’s just thoroughly exhausting. It’s a very emotionally unsafe environment for a man. Men are not as emotional as women are in general but we still don’t need to be in a home that minimizes the feelings that we do have. It’s not pleasant. Not to mention that the fact that we still have to argue about personal hygiene and shaving with feminists that think it’s fine that they can ignore their own fitness and appearance and health while they require their men to be in the fittest shape with the perfect beard and haircut and level of body hair they so desire. Men aren’t stupid. We know that women make sure they look good for the man they care about. If a woman really wants a man she’s gonna shave and stay fit for him instead of acting like any effort whatsoever is a problem.

Appreciate your content Emily. Positive thoughts for you and your growing female viewership.

Without seeing the video I can say: - I do not want to be with someone who hates me. - I do not want to be with someone who sees me as the enemy. - I do not want to be with someone who does not need me.

What feminists don't realize is if they cherish a man they are with, then 99% of the time, the man will do EVERYTHING AND ANYTHING to make her safe and please her any way he can!!!

My now X girlfriend joined a feminist corporate group three months ago. We broke up two months ago. The amount of brainwashing in a short amount of time was astounding. When we met, she was a very balanced, almost conservative leaning and that shifted insanely fast and then I turned into I'm the enemy.

For me it’s because GENERALLY you can’t have a conversation or tell a joke or any real moment without the woman turning it into a battle. They get combative and need a fight to win. They seem to be always “on” ready to fight and never seem happy because there is always a problem with SOMETHING.

My first wife HAD to have her way in EVERYTHING, even costing me jobs. I finally just gave up. I have (for the past 27 years) been married to a lady (and I MEAN A LADY). Real love is caring more about the other person than you do yourself, without losing who you are. We have found ways to combine our interests, share the positives with each other and to value each other. I support and value her feminity, and she values and supports my masculinity.

7:16 This describes my wife and I perfectly. We're at 28 years of marriage and 23 of those years I was the single income provider. During that time my wife was a Stay-At-Home Mom who actively raised and homeschooled our children. After our youngest left home for the Marine Corps, my wife returned to the workforce as I continued working full time. Her return to work was four days per week so that on the fifth she could care for the home - this was her idea. This resulted in bringing in additional income + giving us weekends with one another because she bears the responsibility of household chores (dusting, vacuuming, laundry, bathrooms, errands, etc.). This is the ebb and flow Emily is referring to. It is the 100/100 effort from each person. It is both partners rowing in the same direction for the collective benefit of the household. 50/50 will result in 100% failure. Imagine doing an oil change...does he jack up the car and she puts the jack stands in place? Does he release the oil plug and she manages catching the oil? Truly consider 50/50....it doesn't make sense folks. 100/100 effort moves the needle of your relationship long-term.

The "cherry picking" is so true. Also, the excuses for the cherry picking. Back in the 1950's, when women didn't have jobs that paid much compared to the men who asked them out, it was wholly reasonable for a "man pays" attitude. However, if the woman has income that is approximately equal to that of the man with whom she's going out on a date, then they should each pay their own way.

So once i marched with a feminist friend of mine on a women's rights meeting. I was wearing a sign "women had enough". I was thinking "i had enough". Later on i asked her to a date, she tapped me on the shoulder which is in mans eyes the biggest rejection you can face. She would put put guys into the friend zone like it was a punishment for them for not being "man enough". One time a couple of us were on a drink. So i got my chair and went to get me a drink, she came to the table with our friends and put her bag on my chair. As a gentleman i took another chair brought it to the table for her and put her stuff on her chair and sat on my chair. Other lady friends reacted like i did something weird. When she came and realized that i moved her stuff from MY chair she said " you do not do that to a lady". Do what ? Bring you a chair you can sit on? Do not worry i wont anymore. A lady would have said thank you, a feminist would get her own chair. Maybe she did not know someone was sitting there , she should have asked or someone should have told her. She left a boyfriend because he liked other girls Instagram while later on she was talking about how she is going to post picture of her but on Instagram to make money - a sign of a true lady.... So its ok if 10 000 people like her but on insta but if her boyfriend likes someone else its not ok. She was 30 then and no she was fairly mild with her feminism. Now i read this and think how old are these people 16? No its the 30's for both of them. This shit is real. I feel exausted from life from this bullshit double standards and i don't even have kids yet. The biggest thing is when a man sees this kind of behavior he basically looses respect for that person and her fight. I mean how can i support feminism if feminism tried to take away the chair i was supporting it from. I support the underdog, i support the troubled and the wounded , not some self absorbed, inconsistent , self proclaimed queen which is neither a lady nor a feminist (equality). I feel bad for myself for being disappointed in women in general... I think you ladies are great, the strongest person i knew was my late aunty. But ladies these days have filled their head with bullshit that will ultimately have a negative effect on themselves. All in all dodged a bullet there....

Top 1 reason: I don’t want to have a constant stick measuring contest about “who’s the man.” The last girl I talked to, it felt like it was everything, bc she didn’t need her life “mansplained to her” (actual words spoke….)

Yeah that happened to me a lot. I usually work very hard at work and at home. But as soon as I take a rest. Omg! It hits the fan.

Me I'm just glad I live alone. No wife no girlfriend. I'm a lot happier. My house is my house. It's payed for .my jeep is payed for .no one to answer to just my cat .lol .and she's cheap. I have a good life. 👍 thanks for your time .I like what you said .Emily

What a breath of ocean breeze you are. Listening to you actually makes me very grateful to be single again ( widower who was married just shy 25 years to an angel) i would much reather remain in a free peaceful single life than spend one second with a cold blooded man hater. No thanks. And btw I have always been for equal pay for equal effort.

I LOVE your content. We need kind and understanding women like you in this world more than words can say. My mother was an angry feminist type who made hostile comments about men and me for being a male all the time while raising me. That gave me a terrible sense of self-loathing about being a male that used to make me fantasize about a sex change as a boy. I could never be with an extreme feminist. I hate it when women are okay with unfair double standards that show poor morality and when women have anger issues.

The sick thing hit home. If I got the flu, she'd leave a gallon jug of water and a box of crackers in the nightstand and leave town for a week. Once she put me outside for the day in 100 degree heat. I thought I was gonna die. I found her texts later. She and all her friends thought it was hilarious and wished I'd die for daring to be around where she might get sick.

Good stuff. I dated a lot of feminists in the United States over the years before settling down with a gal from the Philippines. (I'm an American btw) A big reason why I eventually gave up on dating feminists was we just wanted different things. They wanted short term relationships and/or casual sex, whereas I cannot have sex with someone unless I completely trust them and have a deep emotional connection with them. They were hesitant to get married, if they wanted a long term relationship at all, marriage was something in the far off future, not something they wanted to consider in their 20s. In addition, many of them were not willing to change their names even if they were interested in marriage. That was a deal breaker for me, my wife needs to change her last name so that she really becomes part of the family. It is symbolic, but the symbolism is important to me. Furthermore, a lot of feminists have very toxic attitudes towards sex, they use sex as a weapon, and they think that they can use sex to get what they want. They also view sex as a "chore" or a "favor", which is not exactly conducive to a healthy sexual relationship. Lastly, and I think this is most important, a lot of these women don't want kids. That is an absolute deal breaker for me.

All those "strong, independent women who don't need no man" will grow old and alone without a man, and have no one to blame but themselves.

Feminist means, "i will lie, accuse you of abuse, and take everything from you. Im an empowered woman."

My ex blasted men a lot. It got exhausting. There's times I'd ask her, why do you even want me? I don't know. Not sure she ever had a good answer. That dislike of men got dumped on me a lot. It's part of what poisoned our relationship. It's tough to be around that constant negative attitude.

Dated a feminist once. Only once. She felt Father's Day wasn't something that should be celebrated because fathers were not needed, and when we had a pregnancy scare she said she would consider keeping the baby... if it was a girl. After further discussion, I found out she felt she had every right to abort any boys she might get pregnant with, because it was "Her body". Needless to say, we didn't last very long after that.

Next episode should be why mice do not hang out with cats.

I just don’t want to date in general. I don’t like how are dating society is, less stress in life being single, don’t have to pay a bunch of money for a wedding, don’t have to worry about being cheated on, and don’t have to get approval for anything I want to do. Also seeing of y’all share your experiences and seeing a couple of my friends getting screwed over by girls rn, think I’m making the right choice

Women being angry at you because you're sick, seriously injured, etc. is depressingly common.

Great points, enjoyable video watch as well. Thanks!

Yes!!! I have been saying that relationships are not 50/50. Relationships are 100/100. Because if all you’re putting in is 50% and you expect the other person to match you with 50% that still means both of you are not putting the other 50% into the relationship for each other.

I read some of these stories and I am so happy that I'm single. I never been in a serious relationship, only the on and off kind. I never met the girl of my dreams and probably never will because they don't exist. I'm old now but free from any obligations to a wife and kid(s). I do whatever I want whenever I want spend my money on whatever I want.

Keep it up Emily. Great information in your videos. Subscribed.

Why date someone that bashes you all the time?

Alternate headline: "Why men don't want to date people who hate men"

I drive around all day I truly enjoy hearing you smile in your videos…thank you!

That first one hits home really hard. so sick of the outright double standards.

I had enough of my mum and sister telling me I was useless, I got rid of them, so WHY would I want another 🚩 in my life???

I lived this!! Glad I’m single now n decided to stay that way.

My dating days are over and gone a long time ago, Emily! But I have 2 adult sons who have been dating - the youngest has recently found a special lady, thank God - and what you are saying is absolutely true! Thank God for women who think like you!

That is one little boy who is on the right track. Legend Beginner Kit

While my ex wife had a huge double standard when it came to being sick. When she was sick, she was the most helpless human above the age of 3 but when I had a migraine I got attitude about how long was I going to be in bed trying to sleep that off or it figures you'd finally get up about the time I'm going to bed. Interestingly my migraines went from multiple a week to when weather changes come through a few weeks after she left for the last time. The stress of never being good enough or making enough money was crazy with her.

Our differences complement each other and strengthen each other.

My ex who is a feminist, once said to me ‘what is even the point of masculinity?’ I’m glad it’s over. No one should be discriminated for their gender or made to feel shit or pointless

Excellent video, new subscriber.

Some people calling themselves feminists actually do un-ironically hate men.

I spent some time as one of those fools who dated a man hating, though more and more I realize I was just simping on her. For personal reasons I could understand a lot of where she was coming from and the more extreme bits I guess I brushed off to hyperbole. There was a lot of me having to separate myself from what she was saying since she was with me. I worked landscaping and this rich client was making me do a job that required heights and I have a fear. I went on a little rant in a text about rich people at my lunch to her. Her family is wealthy. She got upset with me for generalizing a group that she was a part of and informed me so fairly vehemently. I responded with Babe I'm not including you or your family but on the whole rich people suck and one of their jobs is going to get me killed. I then said I don't hit you with not all men everytime you talk about how all men are evil and worthless. She put us on a break, and after a little bit of time I deepened the break saying we shouldn't talk for a month to figure things out. at the end of the month I said i didn't want to get back together. I moved into a trailer in the mountains outside of Santa Fe had no car went for groceries once a month, made 400 bucks a month, gardened and took care of dogs. Found a peace I'd forgotten possible while I was with her

Nice video, you're always very acurate with this stuff :) Number four really spoke to me and being 100/100 all in the relationship. I was married twice and now single for years. I like it but I'm also realizing this may go on for a long time, I was out running recently and shifted my eyes around to see my surroundings and got looks from someone cause they thought I was checking them out. Anywhere I go it's as if I almost feel attacked by the opposite sex.

I was under the impression that extreme feminists didn't want men to date them.

These points are 100% correct! 1.) If you don't "need a man," don't pursue one. Live your life alone and happy. It's your chosen path. Embrace it. 2.) If you want to compete or keep tallie. Being with a man isn't gir you. You can call it "roles" or "a niche." But, people have to acknowledge they have different duties to split and take responsibility and accountability by actively making a choice. 3.) Acknowledging our different strengths and capabilities is not to diminish or admonition anyone. It's simply a fact of life, and working as a team completes this "circle." 4.) I would never accept a woman who remained on social media platforms. (If I were to consider her for a long-term relationship) I'm not talking about what you (Emily) do on social media. These are important messages and need more coverage. As for your 6-year old. You are correct. You need to support his healthy view of himself at this stage. You can explain the different ways that boys and girls are strong, when you think he will be receptive to it. Teaching healthy gender roles is not confusing. Especially if you allow for variation and not make the structure super ridgid. Thank you!

You know, the more I listen to your content? The more I like what I hear. You make sense and you're being fair and balanced in your assessments and your statements; you're not saying anything that's not true. I'm sure there's lots of angry MRA types out there who are calling you a "chameleon" and angry feminazi types calling you all the horrid names they reserve for women who don't toe their party line, and they're blinding themselves to what you're saying. I couldn't agree more with what you said in this video, especially #2. When I was dating "feminist" women? I felt horrible all the time, like I was an inch tall, and to be brutally honest? They're not any better in bed--in fact, most all of them are false advertising in that realm. Trust me, I know. I don't date because if I can't find someone who is a good partner as opposed to a competitor who is out to tear me down, I can't be bothered. Simple as that.

Thank you. Thank you for making this video. It was incredibly validating and is helping me heal

I appreciate this video. Than you for posting it.

I'm 40 and from India. My mother's generation were the first to go to work (born in the 50s/60s). None of them women in my family ever behaved as if they were better than the men. My mother and her sisters and my father and his sisters all worked and still adhered to their gender roles. Even today after retirement, my mom cooks most of the time and of course my dad helps in the kitchen everyday and he does the shopping, paying utilities and all the physical work. Of course my father also cooks once a week just to give my mother a break. My uncles are the same. Modern women have lost the plot. They think they can do all on their own. This whole "strong independent woman" charade is unbearable to be honest. I am single cos I refuse to deal with modern women BS and the laws/court will screw me over. I am now firmly on the MGTOW way of life. And you think it is bad in the West? It is insane in India. Here women are increasingly using false dowry cases, harrassment, marital rape etc to swindle men for shit ton of money. Also we have an absolutely insane law which says that it is rape if a man "promises" marriage and gets physically intimate. It is just pathetic. I urge people to watch the documentary "Martyrs of Marriage" available on youtube.

I genuinely believe when I say it, that when I see my partner succeed in her life, that's the greatest joy I can have. Seeing her grow, into a productive, happy person in the world, is nothing but happiness in my eyes. After all, she is happy, has something for herself, we can both share our stuff and feel accomplished, and that is healthy. That being said, I pity the women that just outright hate men. I am not talking about sexual attractions or anything, just the pure unfiltered hatred that men should all die. Those types of crazies bug us. Not the women that just want to be a part of the world, and have a job they like and be responsible and equal to us. That's ok. Empty hatred just because I was born with a penis, is unnatural and unnecessary.

I think your reasons are spot on, especially when you talked about competing vs. partnering. In a marriage/relationship, you have to work WITH your partner, not against them. If you're constantly worried about whether the other person is doing enough, the relationship isn't going to last.

You are able to put into words what we often cannot or haven't been able to clearly put into words . We thank you .

Yeah dating someone who dosent need me? NOT APPEALING.

I know this seems like a matter of semantics, yet for me this distinction has helped immensely in wrapping my mind around the current trend and expressing how I feel about this double standard. As you said I feel that "feminist" refers to those who support and work for the rights of women and celebrate those marvelous and miraculous attributes of females in our world. Regardless of how it starts, if the bias is skewed in the direction of negativity towards, prejudice against and hatred for men, this is no longer feminism. It is "misandry" and those that hold these negative attitudes, angers, and prejudices against men are "misandrists," exactly as men who hate women are "misogynists." I think what I find most telling and horrifying regarding this recent trend is that "misogynist" is a common word in our culture and yet "misandry" is all but unknown. The balance of having both of these words to describe the tragedy of gender bias should exist and, in my opinion is necessary. Yet "misandrist" is rarely taught, as if a large portion of our social culture wishes to remain blind to it while man-haters hide behind the more positive sounding description of "feminists." Hate is hate. Perhaps if people were taught the correct word for the hate and how to recognize the difference it would expose the truth, although I doubt it would help the haters recognize themselves for what they are and how their hate affects those around them.

Always tell him, his strength is for doing good.

Emily absolutely great video,God Bless you 🙏

Very vocal feminists have been known to date guys that fit the machismo stereotype. I can't tell if they preach what they preach because they hate the fact that they are dating such a guy or if it is a defense mechanism such as a mate guarding tactic. If other women are afraid of men, especially the sexually arousing muscular hunks, then she doesn't have to worry as much that another woman will steal her man away. The problem is that the "dangerous" guys is also the viscerally sexually arousing guy. Because he has the capacity to be dangerous he has the capacity to make her feel safe. So in a sense she is effectively promoting to other women to chase after her man. But a part of the message is to not make long term relationships out of such men. So these sloots might sleep with her man, but hopefully wont attempt to have any kind of long term relationship. I think people who are not confident in themselves and their ability to communicate with or keep the attention of someone of the opposite sex engage in mate guarding tactics where they shame others for being sexually appealing. And so with women its why they tell women to be the opposite of feminine, fit and friendly. I think that is why the more feminist a woman is the more masculine, fat and confrontational she is. She has been trained, by less confident women, to be unappealing to men so that those unattractive women can have a better shot with the men they desire. I think guys do a similar thing when they tell guys not to be the vain jerk. What is this guy? He is good looking because he eats well, goes to the gym and cares about his presentation so he doesn't dress like a 2 yo. Also he has probably practiced talking with other people so he is likely socially competent as well as potentially competent in his life in general and such that confidence leaks into other things. This is practically everything that every woman wants and so for the loser men to get more female attention they need less men to be like this so they instead tell men to not do these things. To not get money or muscles, or to practice frame or game. Why? Because to be appealing to women is to manipulate them. Or so they say.

Start at 1:50 Nr. 1 = Men don't want women who want 'equality' without being equal. Nr. 2 = Belittling or harassing men, even the BF. (Men need to agree) Nr. 3 = I don't get this one and don't agree with what she says. See for yourself Minute 4, something like men want to work and not raise their kid and she has to agree. Nr. 4 = Men want partners not competitors, you do something nice I do too without keeping a count or expecting something from both sides. Nr. 5 extra = No nagging, men want to have real conversations over problems.

100% spot on with everything on this one! 👌🏼

Very good advice, thank you!

It doesn't even have to be extreme feminism. I married a relatively conservative woman 10 years ago. I watched her change into a masculine, bitter, combative, sexless NPC. We are going through a divorce right now. Luckily, I convinced her to let our son live with me. He needs his masculine father, not a mother who is going to demean and belittle him for being male.

I appreciate your nuanced look at male and female relationships. As an lesbian woman who considers myself a feminist, I often find myself jaded at behaviors of both sexes. I hate the vitriol and misogynistic comments I read from, what I assume to be, straight men. I'm beginning to see that bad behavior exists on both spectrums, and that many women alienate good men with cruelty and double standards. I'm starting to appreciate that it's not always men being shitty, but that many women give them unnecessary grief.

Good work

Your man is fortunate to have you. Respect

Equal opportunity isn''t feminism. Its the law. And feminism has been so effective and pervasive that effectively everyone born after 1960 is defacto a feminist. The question isn't if someone is a feminist, but to what degree.

I love the point that you make of letting a man rest and take care of him. People heal QUICKER with care and men get back to the fight sooner if done properly. So, if a woman wants a man to get back at it, TAKE CARE OF HIM AND SHOW HIM YOU HAVE HIS BACK!!! He will be deathly loyal to you for this 😎👍

My sisters are both "modern feminists". One of my sisters is also a violent malignant narcissist who brutally physically abused me until I went full no-contact with her in 1994. Then she stalked me. For the next fifteen years. My other sister blamed the violence of which I was the victim on me. It was only after she exploded at me and then pretended that I was the one who had lost my temper that I realised she had brought her kids up to villianise me. So, my main reason for not only not wanting to date a modern feminist, but also to never even talk with one, is the violence and abuse. I'm all for equal rights and opportunities. I'm in favour of equal pay for equal work. But I'm also in favour of abusive women being held responsible for their behaviour

My wife is handicapped. When we were raising our daughters and both worked, we worked different shifts. I made more money but her money allowed us the extras we wanted. There was no my money or her money it was our money. I watched the kids on my shift and was almost as good as she was. This was a partnership not a feminist dictatorship.

Re: When a guy is sick... My ex would consciously or subconsciously, get sick or injured worse than I was, within ~4-12 hours of me becoming sick or injured. I am very sure that she couldn't handle the idea of being the one to caretake, and her only 'solution' was to be sick or injured _worse_, so that I was the more functional, and thus immediately the caretaker again. All sorts of toxic and abusive crap in that relationship, but this is one that pops up from time to time. Knowing that my partner is willing and able to caretake when needed is massive to me. Knowing that she can't or won't only makes me more cautious and afraid to get sick or injured.

What I don't like is when a woman has a victim mentality, lack of accountability, and an attitude that is more entitled than grateful. We're seeing a push back on this stuff because of the increasing number of former feminists that didn't like the results a career focused mindset brought.

this is refreshing. thank you for making these type of videos.

The more I see your videos the more I like the way you think. Thanks for being an advocate for men. Please keep producing your great videos.❤

Who would want to be with someone who lives their entire lives in spite?

Having to do all the work and assuming all the risk are the reasons I've given up on relationships.

And Emily, women don’t do infrastructure jobs, the dirty jobs, the hard physical labor jobs.

I dated a feminist, I was even engaged to her. I kept trying to talk to her so that we were on the same page and communicating. But she said she was sick of talking, it'll either work or it won't. Then she would say "maybe we should just break up!" But she never meant it. And I remember one conversation we had clearly. "I drive, cook, clean, go grocery shopping, bring in the groceries, fix whatever needs fixing, I deal with your family that hates you and am going to be working full time to pay off your debt while you quit your job once we're married. What are you bringing to the relationship?" I would've been very happy with something along the lines of having her full support no matter what, kindness, care, appreciation. Those things are all i need in a relationship. AND she had a pretty major disability that was only going to worsen over time. So i was understanding. But her answer made me sick to my stomach. She laughed. It was a loud, cackling kind of laugh. Then she said "Sweetie, it's the man's JOB to do those things! Besides, you know EXACTLY what I'LL be bringing to the relationship!" then she winked and did a little shimmie. She was referring to sex. -_- I still get the heebie geebies thinking about that conversation. We broke up that week. She was shocked and then started spreading all kinds of lies about me having lived with her without paying utilities and about how I just was lazy and didn't want to work. I never even spent a full night at her place. So glad I left.

Your content is spot on.