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Ex got into a rebound after 4 years with me. She got into it a month after the break up. 3 months later she’s crying calling me telling me they’re done. Rebound relationships are trash.

Hi all! Great info here. However, if your ex feels comfortable leaving you behind...DONT ACCEPT THEM BACK INTO YOUR LIFE. You're showing them how they can treat you. Don't reward bad behavior with your presence.

Truth be told..it didn’t last..none of them ever has..well said.

My has been with his rebound for 8 months. On Thursday he is going to introduce her to his parents. Last week he asked me to go on summer holiday together. I lost emotional self control about all these mixed signals and am going back into radio silence. I have been strong for a long time but after he asked me for this holiday together and changed his mind about that a week later I lost complete control. It is really important to stay strong and be careful when they have their weak moments. Take care guys. I would love to have another video on rebounds. Amazing channel!

My ex has been with his best friend's ex for 5 years. He's been mailing me gifts and says when he retires in 24 months he wants to travel with me and move in together in a new home down in south carolina. He's absurd. I've learned to LOVE being single. Being with someone who CAN'T be alone is madness. I used to be crazy in love with this man. Now I wish him well. All the desperation I once felt is now how he feels. Learning to let go was the most painful experience of my life. ...but worth it. (Also, hearing you say "shitty" in a French accent was adorable)

And now they’re engaged

sometimes a girl who just broke up will just lie about it. one of my ex gfs did just that. when we met she said her last relationship was years ago , and after we were together for 5 months, she said actually when we met she just left her bf of 3 years 3 weeks prior. And of course she wanted space. as you can well imagine , i was none too pleased and she broke up with me soon after. what a see u next tuesday.

Thank you for all stuff in one video!!! Yeah, it was super helpful!!! I appreciate you sharing such valuable info with us! 🙏

Hello. My ex broke up with me about 5 months ago. He showed all the signs early on, how he was happier and that life was so great now. There is a rebound involved as well. I knew about it from the start but I've never said anything, and he hasn't mentioned being in a relationship. I went No contact, but he has reached out several times. At first it was just getting some of his things. But more recently He wished me a happy Birthday back in october, and contacted me about some random things. Like he knows I work at a hospital, he had his son there to see a DR and said If I was working and wanted to see the boy I could. Its not my child but I still love him. We were together for almost 2 years, had a house and built a life. When I saw him with his son that day he talked to me about his life. That he had been feeling sick and that he had a new job. I just nodded, smiled and mostly interacted with his son. I guess I'm just a little confused on what I should do. I'm working on myself regardless, but I'm hoping for some advice

I am still struggling letting gonof my marriage. It was difficult for two months before he left, He moved out in January, met someone in Feb and moved in with her and her son in March. They're planning to get married when we divorce. Not a rebound. We were together 12 years and like that it is gone. I miss him terribly and would still have him back tomorrow. Me and the children are trying so hard to move forward. I think this is the hardest thing I've ever been through and still I hold on to hope which is what is killing me most.

We were together 12 years. He was in and out of my life for the last two years and trying with others. He has now got with someone, who has a child from another man. My ex is now going to be a dad. They have had a few split ups since they met, but now have been 3 months in a steady relationship. I think she has trapped him. Do u think he will regret this???

It ok for me that my ex wont come back if you alex be mine.. lol ..

I rebounded once, with a friend who had been in love with me for some time. The ex I was rebounding from was just a fling but I was devastated (I was very young). I was not in love with him and I knew it. I just couldn't be alone (it was a very hard time in my life). It lasted a good 6 months, I then moved on to another guy. Still haven't found a good relationship though, 8 years later.

My ex went from her rebound straight into another relationship. Was seeing the new guy while still with her rebound. And we were spending time together last summer between her first rebound and the one she was seeing in between. Then she went back to her original rebound.

Me and my ex went for 1,5 years together, she have sadly borderline, we had a amazing time together, now she is a rebound relationship with a guy, when she broke up with me 1 months ago she said that she thinks that she was not good for me, and after that she was in 1 week already this the other guy, I really hope she will come back in my arms. Sometimes she send to me angry texts because I have still contact with the friends of us. I hope you can tell me what is gonna happen with us, thank you so much

I don’t know if this a rebound but me and my ex were ldr for 4 years. We broke up in April of this year and we didn’t talk again until may when my dad died. I asked her to come to the funeral and she was excited to telling me she can’t wait to be together and wanting to go on dates. Week came and we had a great time together we kissed , cuddle and everything a couple does even though we never talked about our relationship. Come June she was telling me she wants me to come stay with her and how much she loved me. Then later that mouth she starred texting me less and she went Mia for 4 days. When I finally asked her she told me she wanted to be single, then Teri weeks later I found out form her mom she introduced her to a new guy and then In augs she moved in with him and they been together ever since. She blocked me and told me she moved on with I asked her about it.

Been almost 4 months since she left me, dating this guy from her work but he’s recently moved away, messages from her Sunday saying he’s trying to break up with her. Tried being supportive but just seems that she really wants to work it out with him so now I feel like an idiot for being there for her

Great video, Alexis! I chat sometimes with my ex, who is now in a rebound relationship. Can I tell her that I think a couple should work on their bond rather than choosing the easy way and flee the situation by meeting and now dating a new man? We stopped talking for a month because I wanted everyone to be for themselves. I was not aware that she would react during the silence with meeting a new man.

Thanks for the video, very interesting. How long can a rebound relationship last? Unfortunately my ex stays silent since 5 month. Thanks a lot.

Please,make a video about rejection of our exs when they reach out to us.....is it a weapon of strengthening their coming back????

33 sec is gold 😂♥️😎🎊🦕

I was together for 8 years and she went to her country and broke up with me and we had argument and she broke up

Great video👍🏻👍🏻

My ex has contacted me 2 times in 3 months while in her rebound but its in a weird way, she will say things like she is happy in her relationship now without me prompting her like she did on the last call (told me like 3-4 times she was happy) but then said she missed me and said she was sad talking to me. So, its odd. She waited until she left town for work to contact me and i actually even tried to get out of the conversation with a text saying thetr was no reason to talk and I wished her well yet she called me anyway lol. She just wanted talk to me because she hadnt talked to me in 2 months. She also told me in the beginning of the csll yhat their relationship was "moving quickly". I guess insinuating engagement? But after 3 months and where she travels and they only see each other on weekends? And then told me that she wished i would have sat her down and told her that i want to marry you and that its going to happen, which she knows it was now because i had an engagement ring for her. I didnt want her to know. She still didnt come back. She sounds conflicted.

My ex left me 3 weeks ago after 4 years and got into a rebound. I am devastated. I’ve been in no contact with her for the last 6 days, mainly because she just stopped answering me. I did a little bit of begging, pleading, and stalking for the first week of the break up, then just trying to get closure the second week. Now I’m in No Contact. It’s the worst. Does anyone have any success stories of an ex coming back after a rebound?

My husband got into a relationship in less than 30 days after our separation. We been married for 18years. Is this a rebound too?

I think my ex is calling me restricted late at night and she is in a rebound relationship

Dont take em back. Move on

Mines cheated with someone for talk to someone for about 2 months than he dump me for her so I don’t know if it’s a rebound …

What if the rebound relationship is his ex grilfriend that he was with for 5 years, and he was with me 2.5 years? He used to say she was very crazy and manipulative, I can't believe he went back with her..does this lessen the odds of it working or will it work!??

Hi Coach. My father and my ex (5yrs inrelationship we have 1 yr old son) got into a fight then he broke up with me but after an hr his with his prev. ex now they are living now but after 20days of no contact he reached out and he wants to fix everything because he realized his mistake but after 3 days he left me and we got commotion then after the call ended his with his ex again. Is it a rebound relationship coach? Thank you.

After 3 years she broke off with me; i went into NC for four months, she then sent me a test saying "I am moving on I met someone" Is that still a "rebound"? She said it took her four months to get over our three years.

What if my ex girlfriend is combbateb with her new rebound?

hello, i just wanna ask.. i my ex rebound after a few days break up, then i do the no contact since i got to be hospitalized, the after im back, he rushed to contact with me , n wanna become my friend, but i didnt want to , bcz i think he only take granted if he doesnt get the love he get from their rebound, he will came to u, that will make him doesnt get any lesson or losing . did i do a good action by cut off to be friend? sometimes i think i would lost the opportunity, but i think it is the right decision since i dont want him take granted of me, and he mad at me bcz doesnt want to be his friend n deleting again my number .. lol, any advice?

18 years ago I was a classic, left my girlfriend - I was a mess didn't know what I wanted, thought I wanted something different. Got into a rebound - this lasted four months, it didn't work - was single for a couple of months and all the time I was thinking about my first eks and how my rebound really make me think about the qualities about my frist ex. After being 6-7 months apart, we got back together. We had two beautiful kids, were together for 12 years after that, before leaving each other on good terms, after we both sort of lots love for each other in the dayli- duties etc. So I can resonate with everything. Now I hope that this will repeat, because Now I'm the only who's been left, very suddenly after a 3½ relationship, which were very good, deep love, deep understanding and shared secrets/wounds etc. However, she's a very strong Fearful avoidant and she broke up with me many times because of her deep wounds of abandonment and 3 weeks after she left she got into a rebound relationship with the polar-opposite op me ... he's not intellectual, he's taller, a bit overweight, bald and no beard, where as I'm intellectual and good with words/conversation, long hair and large beard which she absolutely loved, said a beard was the most sexy thing about a man, so a grew a beard for her, and now she's with him. Everything screams of deep, deep desperation and extreme hurt even though she's the one who left me and blocked me everywhere. Any thoughts?

She left for another guy About 5 months ago, around 3 months ago, she started contacting me like every week, kinda like a breadcrumb and sometimes deep conversations saying she missed me and hadn`t forgotten everything that was great in our relationship, tried pulling back but started contacting me again, now it`s been about 2 weeks and she hasn´t contacted me, is it alright for me to initiate some of the interactions at this point?

My ex was always madly in love with me then I broke up with her because I didn’t feel that way, 2 weeks later I reached out because I started to feel intense love for her as well. 5 days back in the relationship she cheated and we broke up. I sent way too many messages she blocked me on everything and even threatened to report me to the police.. btw she was dating some other guy like 1 or 2 weeks later. We broke up 2 months ago how can I get her back?

Hi Alexis, thank you for your videos! I have a question for you. My ex of 1 year and a half broke up with me out of the blue with the only reason that she needed something different. I accepted her decision but told her I wanted for it to work on things. She said she still loved me and had the same level of attraction torward me. I went no contact for 2 months... a couple of days later I bumped into her on the street and we sat for coffee. We talked a lot, eventually she told me she started dating a guy from work only 30 days after the breakup (ouch it hurts). I can't stop thinking of them having sex and everything. I told her I wish her well and left peacefully, but she saw that me knowing she was with this dude so fast after the breakup affected me... I'm back to no contact. Is there still a chance for me to do something about it ? Thanks a lot

I think it's fine to be honest that you're hurt so long as you don't blame your ex for that pain.

3 weeks ago me and my ex had a very sad break up talk, (we had an amazing weekend 2 weeks b4 lots of laughter and him telling me he was in love with me and out of the blue 2 hours after getting home he wanted to split up) i didnt want to break up but he said due to the age difference (even tho he liked that i was older which is why he wanted me to begin with) we couldnt be together after 9 months of being exclusive he broke up with me multiple times but always came back very quickly because he said he loved me/missed me and we had such an amazing time together so 3 weeks ago we were both crying spent the night together lots of "i love you's" from both sides and he told me that he needed to move on but it wouldnt be for a while and i said well as we both love eachother i hope not, i did say for him to let me know if he met someone as after what he said i figured this wouldnt be for months and it would give me the closure i needed we saw eachother 2 days later for a walk lots of hugs kisses and 2 more days of nice texts, about 5 days later of me not messaging he went cold and his texts were some cold some ok, he then said for us to stop messaging as its making him feel horrible i then decided to go no contact to give him a chance to miss me not being in his life fast forward 2 and a half weeks and he messages out of the blue to tell me he has met someone 3 weeks b4 he was crying his heart out because he "loved me so much" but he felt he couldnt be with me and he has already found someone else?? so im in shock i feel lied to i feel like i meant nothing and this new person is going to get all the love and commitment whist im having to take anti-depressants to deal with the break up, its so shit

Je l’ai vue hier avec quelqu’un sur Instagram (son compte est public). Ça fait un mois qu’on s’est séparé. On a vécu ensemble pendant un an. Ça m’a fait mal de u cœur honnêtement mais je suis dans le radio silence. Je travaille sur moi. Je n’ai pas besoin d’elle.

I saw randomly my ex on a video on YouPorn... She doesn't seem to miss me. What should i do?