You're not qualified

You're a 304 Dubai

I'm with a married Pakistani man

@@rabiaahmed7659 don’t be jealous honey

like you, but you come obviously from a different background, culture

Grounded and relatable.

Intelligent? Intelligent is nothing without knowledge and critical thinking and some talent/ abilities. Its much more but of course very rare- she is smart and wise and insightful. In one word- nice girl xD She is able to understand what I really say... ;) Its very rare.

​@dhimancini1162 does she speak your language?

Really? She’s pleasing on the eyes and ears, and she’s very skilled at attributing certain traits and characteristics to men and women without real grounds to do so. In my experience, women are just as quick to abandon in order to prevent being abandoned, if not more so. And the crucial choice between being a problem creator or problem solver would definitely be a good one to ponder for ALL of us.

Listen to Esther Perel :)

Lol. She herself said that if she was left to her own devices she'd make horrible decisions. The between the lines is she knows this from experience making her like most out there. She leans on family, friends, and religion to not do so. Though I will relent the self awareness and leaning into that which keeps her on a good path, or perception that she does instead of doing bad all by herself as most do nowadays is massive.

Very beautiful woman and more importantly very feminine.

sorry bro, she's doing it for the views and money

@@vladmihai306 yeah. Still adding a!perspectives. And still really feminine. Huge improvement on feminist

😂😂😂 if a talking head on the internet gives you hope you have bigger problems than finding a woman

Unfortunately common sense has become wisdom and wisdom has become utopia ...

Or after years, find that person had a mask so you pull back.

Sadia, Hello, you're wonderful opinion on this subject , we live for the day , yesterday is gone , tomorrow is not here it'll take care of it's self, respecting , honar up lifting person in a relationship , communication these go along way in life , you learned a lot , but wisdom caring come from with in ones self there is one thing that makes you different from the rest and that's right in front of you? Thank you for letting me text .

It's not a unique perspective but hasn't put into a book

Why did you choose celibacy? It sounds a bit like denying yourself to the extreme so can enjoy a big reward at the end. If you starve yourself long enough, anything will taste great. What is the lasting reward?

I would only disagree when it comes to one person completing abusing the trust in the other e.g cheating behind persons back or keeping an important secret from them etc - if trust goes it’s awfully difficult to get that back and you won’t ever get it back 100% … plenty people don’t respect themselves enough and just accept the person back only to regret it several years down the line

Difficult time is not only related to cheating. Life in a relationship is, of course, complex, especially in the long term. There will be ups and downs, and like with anything else, we should put our effort and love to make it work. Children are a blessing for couples, and it is worth fighting for them. They deserve to have parents who love each other and are willing to put them at the top of their priorities. That is what will make our world a better place.

@@InterviewswithEd I agrée on effort whole heartedly but it I personally wouldn’t stick with someone if they abused my trust in a significant way - kids or no kids. I wouldn’t want to be a door mat to anyone.

Let's ask people in a long-term relationship, like 20 or more years. Passion comes and disappears in a different life situation. But a soulmate comes once in a life. We don't have to put our pride on top all the time; sometimes, we must accept the reality, like it or not. It is powerful when you don’t have expectations and, at the same time, do your best. That is a formula. Of course, if nothing doesn't work, we should stop that kind of relationship, but that is usually easy to detect in the first few months and years of a relationship

Some things she said is alright like watching porn is bad, but some things she says is absolute garbage

@@JeesusChrist I've been hypercritical of her in the past regarding things like age-gap dating, passport bros and male nature which she has big blindspot about. I noticed that she also attacks and insults, viciously, anyone who happens to disagree with her. I think she got reported and maybe that's why they took down her Instagram page. So probably well deserved. So I understand your feelings. Believe me I went in hard on her. But she was in top form in this video 😂

@mann8098 yeah but shes been defending onlyfans models on this video and host immediately called her out saying that of models knows about the consequences to their children but dont care, shes just beeing very polite to him but i can tell she wasnt very happy with him, she is double faced, i can smell it

She projected many common female faults onto men like she often does right at the beginning. She also goes about telling the guy how men should 'fix themselves'. Any man who's been around the block a couple times can see that one coming from a mile away. She also completely failed on the definition of marriage and what it is for at the beginning. Marriage is for children and family. It is not about love, or forever, or the duty to the other person, it's about children and the raising of them. All of those other things you definitely hope come with it, and they do with work from both sides, but they are NOT the reason for it. She recovered a bit at the end telling the couple to stick together if there are children involved. This woman isn't original, nor correct, much of the time. And an overwhelming number of statistics about failed relationships and marriages bears that wrongheadedness out. She's pretty, can speak well, and has a British accent. Because of that, people are receptive to some of her message. And the part they like has been said by men for more than a decade+ in greater detail and in a more astute way.

@@JeesusChrist like what exactly?

She's bad ass

Yawn

Wow. Well said. I despise the hypocritical ones. I have some therapists in my family and they suck at personal relationships

The more beautiful the woman, the higher the chance of self esteem issues. I’ve dated a couple super beautiful women in my time and they have the worst issues with self esteem. It is so sad to see and even harder to be the person to help them through their constant self doubt. They almost never see what others see in themselves.

It's often the unfortunate reality for many overly analytical, perfectionist types that still struggle with self esteem stemming from unresolved childhood experiences. "Ask me how I know?" - Garth Brooks @@Guwapo77

I was so shocked she's gorgeousss

She doesn't even have a degree

How do you know that..?

The same happened to me when my teacher said me and my husband we don’t have any faith (non religious) I was about to cry deeply, after that in on other days later, she invited me her home for lunch and she cooked ground beef 🥩 , I asked her is it halal? I can read her face, she was too angry, she replied ‘ when someone invites you, you have to show respect, well I simply said to her am not allowed 🚫 finally she said I respect you faith, what else can I cook for you? I said just vegan 🥗

@@ahmedosman4423 Yes, I agree with you. That's sad when people can't respect the religion of others.

acutally these days it is sadly a contract.

If only the people getting married knew that. And it can't be sacred if the government is involved. Plus, males more than females don't understand what is sacred.

@@ntitus3025 the last part is why I don’t entertain relationships/marriages.

Like Alan Alda said “a deals a deal”. Whatever you tell yourself is ok by me.

It is both for some faith groups. The first is spiritual: aspirational and inspirational, the second grounds it in reality.

She’s amazing. She’s the reason I quit porn a month ago and it’s been amazing. I heard her speak about the harms of watching porn in a video. I hope a lot more people get the help they need watching her videos.

@@conman00007❤love this

@@sadiapsychology thank you Sadia. You’re amazing. Keep up the good work.

If you can make it at your age between wet dreams with no other relief, you are amazing. Especially if sex drive is wicked and just goes away once you stop using it. A breakthrough in human physiology, I would imagine.

​@@sadiapsychologyTy sooooo much for your answers. Wow did it all hit home. My ex is a pornhead and I've felt its the cause of his inability to live in real life. So pleasant to hear you a professional confirming that. Ty🌻

Agree

the muslim?

Who is the guy. Strong scouser accent. He said he was a footballer.

Not useful advice in a secular society.

@@jayextermapest765 I simply mean that western countries (especially Western European ones) no longer have a religious worldview. This make it difficult to apply relationship advice predicated on religious views in those places. In fact, most western nations have substituted relationships for religions, which makes applying such advice even more difficult.

Exactly. All I heard from him was, "I'll create drama all the time." I swear, modern man got it wrong. No wonder women don't want to follow them. For me it's simple. Be a man and lead, and make her be a woman. Cooking for you, taking care of the house and whatnot. She will stick around.

@lutherjacob You shouldn't have to make anyone do anything. If she doesn't immediately fall into that roll for you.. either you're not full filing your role... or she wasn't raised right. Ive never had to tell any woman in my life what to do. The one's that haven't naturally fallen into that role get replaced expeditiously lol

​@@501Labsboth pattners have ro take care of each other

Yh the typical ‘Im not worth it’ rhetoric

If that's what you heard, please try to go on the deeper end of the pool. You're clearly on the shallow side.

Move on there's billions of em

Did this dude just say "I love fucking hard, maybe that's my downfall." Wtf? Im guessing that means something different in UK or Ireland than in America. Because that seems really forward statement that only works in a porn podcast, not a.dating podcast.

who owns the porn industry?

Damn right!!!

What about having wonderment, like kids together. What's with all this value shit. It's all assumption. Short-sightedness. Imagine having the time of your life because you're not shut off to all that can be.

Teenagers maybe. Grown women need more than a super model for a boyfriend

There you go 💯

​​@@moee_thyself All they need is is wallet. Fact that most young women almost universally go for the hot guys tells you all you need to know about genuine desire and attraction. It's only when women realize that they can't retain these kind of men that they just opt for a guy that can offer them financial stability but the problem is that most women lack the genuine desire for those kind of men which can lead to infidelity down the road. I see that a lot of the blame gets pushed on men but women also need to be more up front about what their true intentions are. There are tons of women with men that they don't really like because they offer them financial stability and that in itself is a problem for long-term relationships.

Sad.

Exactly modern woman. She’s career oriented, material driven, and SINGLE 😂

That's not her name!

Ya me two lol

She's blessed / challenged with ADHD, and I do see that. She's also just very sharp, God bless her.

"she is NOT always on the side of the truth" Thanks ! Happy to read a man who didn't fall for all that comes out of her mouth ! 👌🙏 because it started to make me sick...

@@MsSimpleMovies She's self aware and isn't afraid of admitting where she needs to work on herself.

Whoch part is not on the side of thw truth

@jarkachalmovianska7812 I watched plenty of her videos and in every one she has theories which she is very confident of, maybe even cocky, but NOT all she claims are facts. Just because you might "dig" her, doesn't mean she knows everything- she is to young for that. Not every claimed reason why women or men do what they do have the basis in her reasoning....I don't 100% believe people who are as cocky as she is

it is a form of abuse. It's totally unacceptable.

It depends on how you define the word 'arranged'. If we are talking about family introducing you to people who prima facie have things in common with you, but without any pressure to marry them, then it might work. But when force or pressure is involved, it is abusive.

Agree 😅

Lol

Apart from his swearing he was difficult to understand.

Only boys if you are losers ever present think that most families look for education and a respectable family

​​​​​@@sadiapsychology All the education infers is that they have the ability to make money. you can keep trying to reframe it any way you want but basically you agreed with this viewpoint that it comes down to your potential of earnings. He makes a very valid point which you kind of just dismissed about how many modern women only value men for what he can produce and don't give a c*** about his morals or values. That's why you see so many women making babies with men that have no intention of marrying them or from men that are criminals.

She is a 304

@@SylvesrerSam just like your mother

@@sadiapsychology😂😂😂😂

​@@SylvesrerSamWhy that number?

Not everything is narcissism.