When you have your own money, you can say no anytime and leave, and they do not like it. My friend is very wealthy and what did he do? Has chosen impoverished and disfranchised women from Ukraine and Russia to date, because they literally had no money and could not leave him, also for visa purposes, he told me that in my face, same with passport bros going through oceans to find a poor girl. They just wanna exploit you in the end.

Well..rich and successful men mostly don't even try to find average looking, loyal women. They want women for their ego. They don't need a cook..they hire it. They don't need a nursing woman, they hire a nanny, they don't need housewife, they pay somebody else to clean and maintain their property. So, the only thing they "need" is somebody for pumping up their ego. No victims in that game. Both sides know very well what they do and what they want. I also think that neither between average women and males the victim side exists, in general. We can talk only about individual cases. Men are triggered with s3x and physical look. Yes, they talk about wanting only great personality, loyal woman who will clean, cook and be great mother. They say that that's the ideal woman. Yet, I've never seen a poster of that "ideal woman", a lovely mother, in long skirt,standing near the cooker in men's garages or in their lockers. Women just give to men what they dream about and use it for own benefits. Right or wrong, that's the game in which everybody know very well what they do, but both sides pretend being victims.

She hit the mark on so many until she said any 32 year old man can hop on tinder and have a woman. She has clearly never experienced Tinder as a man.

I think this really depends on the definition of high value man. A high value man in my opinion is not someone who has height, money, and muscles but nothing else. He is someone who might have those things but character and integrity is what truly makes him high value. And a man like that does not love or choose a golddigger.

Omg Sadia, you are the first first woman who ever exposed this truth.....yes woman pays for man they desire. I've done it multiple times and I had no idea why I was doing it. It did give me kind of control and sadly- higher my self esteem. It is so weird and tricky but its really this way. Thank you for this content

“You are paying for violation.” DEEP!!!

"You're taking advantage of their bad financial decisions, of their low self-esteem to pleasure yourself." By that account, you should imprison every sales person.

this woman does not miss with her takes on anything she talks about 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

Pay attention guys! Don't be so stupid as to think that you can buy real love. For real love and loyalty you have to be willing to work on it with your heart. No short cuts.

Sadia: I've never seen you stumped by ANY question. So valuable.

The comparison with fast fashion makes it easier to understand. People that buy fast fashion also don't "vet" and do no research about how the fashion was produced. So high value means "highly busy" or "hyper busy" 🤔 Good to know.

So paying with your time, energy, and attention is not considered paying for sex? Time is more valuable than money.

Average men can be successful to in their own way....

But men violate woman anyways. They lie about wanting to be in a long term relationship in order to exploite her body. It's sickening and disgustingly disrespectful. In this sense I think men who visit a sex worker is more respectful, he pays to emotionally abuse the woman but at least he doesn't waste a woman's time and lie and make her think there is a future together.

Pre-nuptials don't mean you don't love her, it just means she can't ruin you.

3:48 "Tell them what they want and leave them alone." That's what immature men want. Mature men value genuine connection and actively showing true love.

If he really loves golddiggers, then it's not a high value man...That's simple af 🤷‍♀

Sadia khan, you're the most intelligent woman I have ever seen. Love your content, love you so much. ❤

Class is in session 📝👂🏽👂🏽

A high value man will never love a golddigger. The suitable title should have been why high earning men love golddiggers maybe...

This was fantastic advice about the high caliber man not seeing the women over time and they can’t really vet them enough. Cause they are too busy.

Keep doing a great job! Your insights are on point and you have a very sophisticated beauty.

I AGREE WITH EVERYTHING THIS WOMAN SAID! SHE’S SO RIGHT.

Beautiful woman that she is

Beautiful message❤️ TY All learning about relationships has benefits no matter who you are

Nr.1tip! If someone gives your a compliment..NEVER trust it. It can be truly ment, but most of the times its ment for a reason!!

Could listen to you for hours. This is really interesting, clear, insightful. Thank you!

I love this so much it’s so true!

I love you Sadia You speak so much sense

Whew ! Sadia has a lot of insight........

Amazing Video!

Great conversation. Social media has messed up a lot. The entire video I was reminding myself to stay close to Allah.

HVM love goldiggers because they can rule them, and use them like a toy.

She is so smart and gorgeous and confident. I love listening to her speak

She is so on point 👏👏👏❤️❤️❤️ love you Sadia

a 32 year old man can jump on tinder... um unless he's a Chad

From my own experience... everything she said makes sense and is true... Very good analysis Sadia...

Love her! She has the best insight on relationships.

The bigger question is "What does she bring to the table?". A high value man wants a high quality woman

So true. I’d hate my man to be away all the time. I like proximity

I agree with most of this! I don't agree with what Mark said about these girls only respecting their pimps. Honestly, SWs either (1) respects any man who treats them well or (2) have a jaded viewpoint on men as a whole. But truly, it's not even about the man. Deep down, it's how she feels about herself. If a woman consensually gives a man money, especially if it's a pimp or an unfaithful man, she doesn't actually respect him, but it is a sign of low self-worth. A lot of "heaux" deep down feel that they are unworthy of love because of their actions (very few of them truly don't care), and so she would rather stay with a man who mistreats her. He is familiar and she has convinced herself that she can't have it all, both money and love. It is NOT true, but sadly the scarity mindset has many men and women believing this lie. Gold diggers who believe they CAN have it all are treated the best and gain and retain the most money, hence the popularization of the "levelled up" woman which is legions ahead in confidence, self worth, self esteem, and mindset than the average gold digger. HVM like the average gold digger, but ADORE and only respect the "leveled up" woman. However, this is the rarest type of women. When people think about the million dollar sugar babe, the ruthless gold digger, the spoiled wife, the $ex worker turned wife, the maneater, they are thinking about ths type of gold digger--i.e. the rarest one. She is extremely seductive to men and women which is why level up coaches are super popular. However, despite the popularity of these coaches, only few women will ever reach this status. But it IS possible, and honestly, you don't even have to be a SW, although that's the easier path to take.

She is truly amazing

Well said ❤

You are a very smart and beautiful woman. God bless you!

This “high value” dialogue is getting really boring and it doesn’t exist. To me, You’re either a nice person, or you’re not.

High value man love women like Sadia. You only attract what you are!

I love to hear you talk, one talk or comments on the Kim Kardashian/Kanye West marriage, where both individuals were hyper successful

"Rapists with loopholes."

Love you momma, ❤love you Sadia. I love the blue but green is my beautiful on you.❤

As Chris Rock says, at least gold-diggers have goals....

brilliant aspects on this issue

Interesting, thank you

It's opposite, Gold digger love rich men...

Very true. My ex fits 90% of theses red flags. Two weeks after we broke up she found an older, rich, less attractive and naive man. Plus, she's got two kids, bipolar disorder, borderline disorder, huge debts and abandonment issues. How do you people think this is gonna end?

brilliant and outstanding elaboration of this topic with valuable insights about the way sexworkers think. Thank you very much.

Protect this woman by all means necessary. ❤️ #love you Sadia

Source is our matchmaker

what is the difference between paying the waiter/boutique or paying her directly?

Brilliant 😊

High value men want high value women. "High value" in a woman means the best looks, sex appeal and youth. Understandably, some of the women that posess those will want to capitalize and they become "golddiggers". Nothing strange in the whole dynamic. The only problem that I see is if the HV man marries her.

I kinda WAS against what you were saying but I am starting to see the truth in what you are saying. 😮

I'm under 30 seconds in and my thought it, "Men love gold diggers because they think they know her 'addiction' and when you know what drives someone you can control them." So, these men think they have a tiger under control, basically. The man is choosing an addict , (a person incapable of uplifiting them, and only takes, pushes and pulls, ) who doesn't love them but loves the feed of their addiction which the successful man can do.

Is that Mark from soft white underbelly youre speaking with? I liked the conversation. Bless.

Even men that have lost it all can create deep relationships with highly successful women. This can happen many times over.

The problem is the definition of a "high value man." What makes a man valuable? Is it his money? Or is it his character? Oftentimes, these two don't go together.

Someone need to send this video to Myron

Facts!

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Sadia is like an oracle, beautiful and streaming wisdom out boundlessly. How much more attraction, can you withstand? She's at the risk of being a proverbial Goddess. Can I make make these comments, hope its not made inapproriate

Having dated a few highly successful men and I'm pretty convinced they just want arm candy and have girls on the side. Funny thing is, I did marry a personal trainer.

Looooove your top @sadia ❤❤

When being so authentic about being inauthentic is a seen as a positive is where I take a long break from dealing with attractive women. What a headache.

So true

9:20 reminds me of "sally brown" and whys she in every other sea shantie

True!

I think they deserve each other

There is a very successful youtuber man in the entrepreneurial circle, he is from Spain in China who got married years ago, and in recent days his wife died. He was very sad, wondering what was the purpose of all his hard work and all that money saving. He made all his videos private, except for a goodbye video. He did not need the toxicity of the web. He said he would need to decide what to do with his life. He left China, probably it was too painful for him to remain there with all those memories. He went to take care of his mother, probably spend more time with her.

100% correct

Well, if he’s not making time for a woman he’s interested in. 9 times out of 10 he’s just not into her. You’re not busy 24-7 lol. You will find a way if you really want the woman.

Golddiggers are easily controlled

Omg this woman is a gift from god full of wisdom I wish I could marry her

I love her outlook amazing

Terrible way to cut the video at the end

Are porn addicted men emotionally unavailable (and maybe have avoidant attachment)? I think thats the case and therefore they have problems with feedback after sex with a woman that does not work in the sex industry. A childhood where they have been emotionally neglected or abused, and learned to self-sooth through masterbation at a young age. they don’t learn to open up to others emotionally and intimately, give and receive emotional support or nourishment.

You need a smoother bra. Just helping another woman. I like your wisdom!

Hi Dr , you are amazing with your videos . I have a situation where i want to enjoy life traveling but have a girlfriend that cant for visa purposes . I am more for companionship in relationship but want to be alone at the same time . I find it difficult to to let go after 16 months . What should i do

Please interview Shera 7 !!!

For women, a man with money is what a sexy woman is for men. Bad men would take advantage of a sexy woman as a trophy or just use her body. A similar problem happens to men with money. This is why modesty for women may work better, because beauty does not get in the way when trying to establish a relationship. In the same sense, money should not get in the way of a man who needs to be modest regarding his wealth to find a woman who does not look for his wealth.

Could we clone you Sadia across the globe?😂❤ 🧚‍♀️🔥🕊️

The thing I'd say about men and cheating with prostitutes is that it comes with no strings attached and is unlikely to affect his relationship. However, she was on the money when she said a has no problem with cheating down when the woman is grateful.

I disagree with her completely,there are still women who stay loyal to husbands, if there upbringing is right, like us.

they know where they stand

I assume that’s because they are experienced miners and gold has been going up in price since 2010. Gold is always a good investment.

By high value she means a man who has a lot of money. Not high value in morals and values.

This happened with Destiny. Melina was living with another man paid for by him

I have seen this to be true: the more atracted the woman the less the man has to invest. It then makes me wonder on the cultures with dowries where a man needs to come up with a large sum to make the wedding happen. In those cultures there is strong insistence on the dowery or it gets skipped depending on the couple. Knowing this already tells you alot about the couple.

I was dating a successful business man and I couldn’t do it. My family and love ones still don’t understand. I got to a place where I started thinking well I can just create a whole life outside of the relationship if we were married and then was like no I just can’t do this. He was too busy and I needed consistency, time and attention.

13;55 love it. I'm gonna visit my regular place next week again and keep this in mind. Toilets will remain toilets.

I like smart and confident, successful men with a purpose and go after it. Ambitious I think that is attractive in a man.

Goldddiggers give you the ultimate gf experience. You get your money worth.