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Okay but like the irony that a bartender is incapable of realising/admit that her husband is an alcoholic is low key funny… like the denial is real

FYI robbers don’t care if you have kids. They’ll take junior’s iPad right along next to your grandma’s jewelry. TF is this lady smoking.

The fact that she keeps saying, "this is why he doesn't drink" is such denial. Babes, if he doesn't most of the time, but then occasionally binge drinks, then yes, he DOES drink. This is enabling behavior, and its not good for any of you.

The bartender genuinely concerns me because she showed all of her security and has a baby

the way she tells a story about her alcoholic husband almost getting them robbed well they have a toddler in the home like it’s a quirky lil story is actually insane like what if she didn’t wake up? what if they took the child?!? like wtf!

She is like: “Omg my husband is so quirky he lacks empathy, selfcontrol and endangered our well-being.” Bruh. Paired with her lack of common sense I wouldn’t be surprised if they got ‘Open Season’ doormat on their front porch with key and alarm code underneath it./s

Honestly, if she's going to keep a fully stocked bar in her house when he clearly has a drinking problem, not focus on getting the strange man out of her house before dealing with her husband, rant about how people perceive what she shares and try to gaslight her followers, and THEN shares her entire system like a blueprint... then she doesn't deserve the followers and in my opinion, it's survival of the fittest.

At 33 I really don't think it's that bad to jump straight to divorce, at this age you really know what you want and you realize how useless men can be, and I'm not here to fix someone. I'm here to be in a relationship with a capable adult.

Why do married people immediately go to the “you’ve never even been married” argument? Even in this case, she doesn’t know that person to assume that they’ve never been married

Woman: "My husband doesn't drink." Husband: *gets drunk* Girl, come OOONN.

Your husband being silly, kind of a dummy and funny is him putting salt on a coffee. Not this.

her giving the step by step on how to rob her, i guess both their functioning can be called into question

If the lady at the bar knew these men were planning to rob that drunk guys house, why didn't she call the police??? What does he mean "she begged them not to"???

Pleeaase don’t stay with a terrible partner just cause you’ve had their child, like it isnt better than divorcing. Divorcing IS the better answer. I am so happy my parents divorced instead of staying together

Posting your security system online WITH explanations on how it work is literally the 101 of "what not to post online", it's essentially like posting your address and letting the door open for everyone to come in like what?? How did she film it and think "yup, none of my viewers will have any malicious intent when seeing this"

Unrelated, but the filming in public thing bothers me, mainly because of a real life experience I went through. During highschool, I had this classmate who used to bring a camera to school, and vlog everything- including during class. And I’m positive that I’m in the background of his KZfaq videos somewhere. It still bothers me to this day

“once I taste it I wanna drink everything around” is exactly how I explain my alcoholism 😭 like shawty! ur hubby is an alcoholic! like yes I have made mistakes when i drink THATS WHY I DONT DRINK!! like i’m not even an adult and I know I cant drink. he’s a grown ass man with a wife and kid and he didn’t know not to drink? Did he actually have to put himself and his family in extreme danger to learn he has a problem!

I can't imagine how crushed I would be if my partner just fell asleep while I was in labor. Like I would want that to be a very intimate time with a partner like cheering me through the pain. This woman's standards are extremely low.

her recent video where she shows where all her security cameras are located…

I was induced *WITHOUT* an epidural at my ex’s insistence. He went home and got 🌱 several times while I was in labor. 18 hours in my Ob/Gyn made me have an Epidural and I bawled because I felt so guilty. My ex told me the day we came home from the hospital he didn’t actually care about epidural hurting the baby, he just wanted me to feel the pain, to punish me for getting pregnant

plz plz never stop doing these unhinged drama videos

I mean this is the same chick that told bartenders/waitstaff to commit bank fraud. She said that if a parton's card gets declined charge their card just 1.00, then write in the tip for the rest of the bill including gratuity.

So, 15-20 years from now, when her children are over on reddit asking "AITA for going no contact with my mom because she enabled our dad to rob us of our childhood with his drunken binges?", she'll still be defending him. I have seen first hand what happens to kids who have to grow up with this crap in their lives. This woman is just enabling him with all the excuses she makes for his dangerous choices, defending him when her viewers try to point out reality to her. I wonder how many more kids she will bring into her crapshow? This kind of stuff just makes me see red.

I have a parent with drinking problems, so this resonates with me. Family of addicts can be very defensive and protective but they also know they have a problem. It’s. A complex issue for sure without involving social media

Her thinking this is a fun little story, because her husband is just ✨ quirky ✨ like that... No. The audacity of him during the birth. The recklessness when he drinks, even though he knows how bad he handles alcohol!! Run girl RUN Edit: who gives these kinds of clear instructions to their security system?? No wonder she is still with her husband, when the lights are on in her head but no one's home

I would absolutely have left him. Not necessarily divorced, but I would NEVER allow anyone, even my husband to endanger my kids like that. If he chose to get into treatment maybe the marriage can be saved but a scew up like THAT is not gonna be fixed with "sorry, my bad". I'm going to need to see some action.

Bar lady.. the internet isn’t the place to air your husband’s issues!! WTF!

The incompetent husband during labor story was actually even worse: he sent photos of her during labor (naked body exposed) to the group chat without clearing it with her first, and SHE actually brought the protein bar to the hospital...and he asked her to split it with him.

I remember that video! The woman, making jokes on how her husband was "silly and clueless" with her pregnancy, and the punchline being, men, am I right? The lack of care and attention he had with something so important, I felt so bad for her and how some people see that as normal.

i was so confused on this drama so glad my girl is here to explain for me 🥰

The kid who got shot in a mall still didn't learn. We're doomed lol

hearing about that protein bar thing is making my blood boil even without all the pregnancy side effects. if i was her i would’ve had to be restrained. i truly can’t imagine having to experience that treatment right after birth… like damn at least get me something from a vending machine?? i just carried your child for 9 months, pushed its big head out of my body after hours of labor and you can’t even give me your protein bar… dawg- no. no no no. absolutely not.

And then she overshared by SHOWING HER SECURITY SYSTEM!! You should never ever do that. Telling them exactly how many cameras and where they're located etc. is super irresponsible and makes it easier for them or anyone else (since she consistently doxes herself) to plan a break in. I just hope their baby stays safe.

how was the husband bringing a stranger into her home NOT the last straw?? putting aside the obvious safety risk on her, THEY HAVE A BABY ! who is going to protect that child from an intruder because it sure isn't going to be the intoxicated husband who cant form coherent words much less figure out how to walk straight, and it isn't going to be her when she only has so much strength against a full grown man at 3am and tired on top of it.

Her defense being "we are stressed out" as to why her husband drinks is blatant "hes an alcoholic" energy

Yeah robbers don't care if you have a child

very concerned for the child tbh. she keeps a fully stocked bar when she knows her husband has a drinking problem and thinks that getting a security system is going to fix the situation. like m'aam the call is coming from inside the house.....

if her husband regularly just goofs up that’s one thing. NOT SUPPORTING YOUR PARTNER WHILE THEIR GIVING BIRTH AND NEARLY GETTING YOUR HOUSE ROBBED WHILE THERES A SMALL CHILD IN THE HOME ARE NOT SILLY LITTLE MISTAKES. I HATE it when people immediately resort to the divorce comment but this man has repeatedly failed his wife and family multiple times. to be fair she’s also putting her child at risk with the security system video so like maybe they deserve each other. feel bad for the kid tho.

She also posted a video a few days ago saying where she got a job including the name, city, and entire address as well as details on how to find it with google maps😀

if my partner FELL ASLEEP as I was giving birth I would actually never talk to them. They better not wake up from that fucking nap. Also you better fucking be bringing me *everything* I want. side note its not that u can’t eat sushi, the long list of stuff that u “can’t” eat when pregnant is stuff that could be potentially harmful. Mostly only if you eat it in high amounts but there is basically no way to ethically test the effects on infants so no one really knows how much alcohol/sushi/coffee etc. you can eat so doctors say to not eat any to eliminate any risk but small amounts of stuff it mostly fine as far as we know (there is a lot more research on alcohol tho, u should probably not drink or do drugs ofc)

People really forget that what you post online can have real world consequences. The bartender was stressing me out so much! Why would she show where the cameras are?!?! She even showed which side of the house it was on. It makes me think of that one content creator that reveals people’s filming locations (with consent) by analyzing every background detail! She gave out way too many details without thinking about her baby :(

To be fair, lots of people hit rock bottom and can become sober people afterwards, but I hope she and everyone involved stays safe.

Youve now made your INCOMPETENT husband an INCOMPETENT father. I love the bluntness Sometimes people need to hear it.

My waters broke naturally and I can confirm is WAS like the movies I nearly died 😂

The lady responding and saying the alleged robber had morals because he saw they have a kid and dogs lol. She must be living in a different reality because she's lucky as heck that he didnt just unalive her and everyone else because she saw his face. People have done more for less. Sounds like she's naive in a lot different ways considering she doesn't want to admit her husband has an alcohol problem.

Influencers: Let me tell you, a personal story. Dr Evil: HOW ABOUT NO!!

her mannerisms are so telling of how she views her life & the world. so far detached from reality it’s scary!!

My fiancé was literally hovering around me in a panic the entire time from the first contraction to the emergency c section. He got me anything I needed and could not sleep until we knew our daughter was fine. And even then he stayed with us the whole time and did all the work to take care of her because I’d just been split open. Lol

The way this woman is so delusional about her marriage doesn't mean we gotta feed into her delusion.

So glad I live in Europe where it's illegal to film people to put them online without consent! It is horrific to see things like "the people of walmart" online from the US. We have the "right of our own image" which means you can only photograph other people if they are in a larger crowd or if they happen to be on the picture but are not the central motif of the picture.

I believe he knows he’s an alcoholic hence why he doesn’t drink lol

This bartender also admits to charging fake tips on receipts

The Bristolian comes out when you're mad 😅 where I'm from our accent puts a lot of emphasis on "er" sounds too 😂 i feel your pain

Ok she keeps saying ‘this is why he doesn’t drink’ while telling this entire story of him drinking && then continues to say this is why he doesn’t drink. Also, provider? He charged a bunch of drinks on HER card for an escapade she wasn’t there for which, i could overlook w/o the rest of the story. To think you’d do all that with a BABY && your wife at home!! It’s not a frat house. They just moved, i would not feel safe. I bartended/ran restaurants for two decades, I’d never bring a stranger over. Even when I was young. SoOo scary.

i do miss youtubers’ drama but i also enjoy listening to all this petty drama so much

She shouldn't have put their business online if she didn't want people to comment. Duh!😂

i was literally just watching a greenisnotnick video on the exact same topic lol my two favorite youtubers combine

Her tiktok reply about getting a divorce sounds like slam poetry

The fact that I know exactly what this lady’s security is bc my mom has the exact same one. Had she not included the ‘front door’ audio/explanations of the system she’d be golden lol. What a dingus

i hate how she says "sigh that's why he doesn't drink" so many times HE DOES HE LITERALLY DID

Her using the excuse of “Oh my husband has never lived in another city he doesn’t know any better 🥺” is so baffling because Charlotte is the biggest city in NC (and has about 8x the population of Charleston) and has a reputation for having some really sketchy areas. Like, he’s not some sheltered guy from a small town moving to the big city.

Imagine having TWO babies to raise? At least her child would grow up eventually

It seems like she doesn’t want to be married anymore but is incapable of making that choice. She’s posting this stuff to get validation for what she’s going through. But she’s still pretending to be fully in it because she doesn’t know what else to do

This sounds like a woman who hates her husband and is "punishing" him by telling on him to all these people. She says all the things hes doing wrong and but then making it sound like its not a big deal and then getting upset when people suggest the obvious thing she should do. Some part of me says she does it for attention from the internet.

Yeah I'm sure the would be burglar saw her and was like "oh, she's spunky I better think this through."

She then posted a tiktok saying exactly where her new job is. Exact location and schedule for her first two shifts so fans could meet her. I genuinely thought it was satire at first. Like her making fun of herself a bit. BUT NO she was fully serious. What is wrong with her 😭😭

I kind of feel bad for her. Shes so deep in denial. She needs to open her eyes and force her husband to get treatment, or leave for her and her child's safety

My first husband was so drunk when I went into labor with our first child (on her due date, no less) that I had to call my parents to drive me to the hospital. I was in labor for 12 hours and he finally showed up right as I started pushing. My dad was there holding my hands and coaching me through the breathing instead of my husband (he was passed out on the chair next to my hospital bed at that point). I was naive enough to give him 2 more children before I finally left him. Now we are 40 and he hasn’t even made contact with the kids for years even though we all still live in the same town (I work for an attorney and see his name pop up on the criminal court dockets every so often). You would’ve catch me slipping and making excuses for him, but I may have done so for about 7 years when I was in my 20’s.

"this is why he doesn't drink" meanwhile he's fully drinking and actively endangering her and the kid's lives

Loving the Raycon sponsorship for you and your channel. I was silently crossing my fingers for Wild cause I'm running low haha

Yeah when I went into labor I didn't know what to really expect either I was 32 and never been pregnant in my life didn't think I was going to have children. It was the most excruciating back pain I had ever had in my life I thought my back was ripping apart and said something's wrong take me to the hospital and when I got there they were like yeah you're in labor but my water never broke

His wife knows me from tiktok... So you dont know the lady well enough and her husband is installing your security system

My water didn't break with either of my kids... and this situation is insane

I have yet to see anyone ever make a video about this creator so I'm excited to hear this one.

The problem is the drinking cause yes maybe he learned don’t bring home strangers but he has a drinking problem and regardless of when he uses that crutch he can’t control himself and they have a child and I can tell you that “let’s go play with the baby at 3 am” is going to eventually be a lesson and that is the real problem. I’m not saying they need to get divorced but I am saying one being married to a bartender is not going to help his sobriety and two they clearly need to be separated because she is enabling his behavior and that can’t happen if he is serious about getting help and making sure this never happens again

My friend gave birth to her sac and the nurse had to pop it 😅

Wild to me she thinks the problem stems from him bringing someone home and not his drinking that got him there (oh wait, he “doesn’t drink”…). It’s great that he “knows” not to do that, but what about when he gets too drunk to remember? Or does some other dangerous thing? Feels so strange to even be commenting about a stranger’s life like this though!

I can’t get past the fact there was a baby asleep in all of this 😮 an actual child

I am so over these men, he got off easy bringing home a thief and not a rapist serial killer. How does she not know her life could have ended?

This is got me thinking this story could be bullshit and elaborate ad for the security system

Hey, just wanted to say your skin/makeup is so pretty this video! ❤️❤️❤️

10:23 Straw testing is a huge part of any bartending job, lots of pregnant people do it; uninformed people need to chill. The alcohol content you get throughout the night is about the same as using mouth wash. I think I remember you talking about this before and it making me mad back then lol

Imo if you really loved your husband you would get rid of all of the alcohol in the house and urge him to go to rehab.

Ok...I bought earbuds and couldn't be more in agreement re the public videoing with the intent of causing trouble for content. Great video...miss sweet Phoebe. ❤

Wait so shes a bartender that doesn't necessarily need to bar tend. She has a fully stocked bar at home. Her husband is a function alcoholic/binge drinker. She actually is a pretty shitty wife coz if she truly cared and respected him she wouldn't have alcohol in the house and wouldn't be dogging him on the Internet.

Recovering alcoholic here, saying "I'm not an alcoholic, I just can't stop myself from drinking more if I have even 1 drink" is you being an alcoholic. If that's how you think you do not have a healthy relationship with that substance. I thought it was normal and there was a difference too.

I swear some people are addicted to oversharing lol I’d never trust any of them with a secret.

I love all the videos, your where I get all my internet news

"I think that's the problem with our society. We won't let our partners put our lives in danger at least once."

My waters broke while getting into bed 😅 it was like a waterfall for 24 hours out my hooha

This was sad and hysterical.

Can confirm. My water has never broken on its own. 4 kids in my doctor has broken it right before I pushed. 🤷🏼‍♀️

Can confirm my water DID NOT BREAK, 4 DAYSOF LABOR.. BUT MY DAUGHTER WASWORTH EVERY SECOND OF that 😊😊😊😊😊

“For worst” is better than till death do us part prematurely

This being local to me and happening around where i work. Hits to hard

Lol of course they named the baby Ryder

been waiting to hear about her

Relapses happen. I can understand relapse. But it has to be understood as relapse and not happen in the presence of a child.

i can’t believe i’m from the same state as these people 💀