Niam tsev turned niam dev yog hom txiv neej ntshaw ntag.

There is nothing wrong with wanting to look good. Setting boundaries is an important part of life. Your problem is that u set no boundaries.

I'm confused, why is being pretty also to be lazy? I know so many women who dresses well, work, have kids and still have a clean house. Most importantly, they are good people. Please don't label beautiful women as poj laib or lazy.

He got what he wish for 😂😂

You're both at fault. He for forcing something onto you, and you for taking the extra steps. He was stupid to think that once a woman pretties herself up that she's just going to sit at home doing nothing but wait for him to oooh and aaah at her! You were stupid to think that just because he wanted you dolled up that he was okay with you partying it up! He's guilty for trying to turn you into someone else, and you're guilty for your own actions as a fully grown adult! No winners here, just losers!

Little did he knows he created a monster. 😅

Nyob zoo os kab lia kuv mas mloog koj txhua2 txoj neej neeg li os tab sis 1 qho ntawm kuv ma kuv kuj nyiam2 saib koj cov khaub ncaws hmoob thiab koj phim cev khaub ncaws ris no kawg li os

He wanted a trophy wife who is docile, so he pushed you into the wrong circle. There’s a difference between trashy sexy and classy sexy, sister! His beating was unacceptable and unjustified. It’s a blessing that he realized you were his failed experiment and divorced you! Hope you find the right crowd to hang around and find happiness.

Good job niam tsev siv nws cov niag nyiaj kom dus lug mus nawb nws thiaj paub nawd

Very good 👍

Sister, I’m glad you left him. No person should be hit or abuse. Who cares what people say. Be happy and make a life for yourself & become successful. Don’t blame anyone, own your own mistakes and learn from it.

Don't blame him completely. It's your fault too. U went clubbing and lied to your husband.

A good lesson learned for a man who wants to train his wife to be wild…women can’t control and can’t set a boundary for themselves…! He got what he wished for…👍😩🤠!!!

no hairy woman for me either lol. Tsis yog koj tus txiv cob2 koj thiaj liam o. qhov koj tus txiv xav kom koj ua 95% pojniam lawv yeej ntsaw ua. koj yeej yog neeg liam los yog koj txhob txwm ua kom liam twm koj tus txiv. You can still dress sexy and be faithful. how you play with your husband behind closed doors is your secret.

Yog lawm txhob ua ia niam tsev sawv days awd..... yuav paub ua niam dev mas txhuav2 viv ncaus.

You can’t win with these type of guys! Do good, complain. Do bad, complain. Maybe he’s mental!! Best to stay far away from ppl like him. Hope u find better guy in future bcuz when u do, life is soooooo much less stressful n happy! I feel bad for those who haven’t experience real love n understanding husband! There aren’t that many out there….when u do find one, catch it, n don’t let go! Good luck!

Niam neej vam aw koj hnav cev tawg paj dawb koj mas phim2 koj kawg li os tshiab2 thiab zoo2 nkauj kawg nkaus li os ❤❤❤

Great story! There's definitely some men like this out there, and some are worse, too.

Kuv kawg ua thiab vim yog kuv tsis ua ces yuav tau niam yau ces kawg ua dev vwm xwb....lol....YOU ADDICTED TO MUS UA POJ LAIB MUAJ FUN NONE STOPPED SO TXHOB TU2 SIAB OS

Cas peb xav tau tus txiv li koj tus peb hos tsis tau na😊😊😊

Thaum luag zoo yus tsis cia luag zoo, ua ua txog thaum kawg lub neej puam tsuaj tag ces lig dhau hwm lawm ces yog li no tiag.

Txiv neej hmoob mas siab phem heev nawb lawv yuam koj ua zoo nkauj tabsis rau lawv xwb ov yog koj hla ciaj ciam ces lawv muab yus lawb dab kiag thiab os! Pab koj chim siab thiab os tabsis zoo mas dim plaws los zoo kawg os😊

Cov niam tsev es mus qhov twg mus ib pab ces yog tib co maum dev xwb nawb lawv aw...

Tus neeg liam ces yeej liam xob mus hais tias nim yog koj txw kuv txw!

Lesson of this story is just be you. Never change for someone if you know it's bad.

Dev ib txwm noj quav yus txw dev noj qhauv tsam no txhob hais dab tsis lawm txaj muag

Tsis yog koj tus txiv to taub yuav kev yeej yog li koj tus txiv xav lawm vim koj twb tias musb2 ces muaj yees lawm koj thiaj nyiag kev nrog lawv mus no ne

Tsis lam muaj ib tug txiv neej zoo li ko pob yog muaj tiag ces yog cov tsis txwm pua lo yog cov neeg xiam hlwb xwb mo zoo li ko ces muaj laim rau thoob khib nyuab kiag xwb ma

Txhob Tias lawv txw yus, yus yeej yog poj niam Liam xyob txhiaj

I think she needs to come out and be proud and dress up. I would like the hubby who encouraged me to be pretty for him.

Zoo mloog kg

When good girl turn bad there is no turning back. Lol There is nothing wrong dressing sexy and nice but that doesn’t mean you can go behind your husband back to go to the club. You can atlease let him know.

You are right sister! It’s his fault but he still didn’t want to work out the relationship. Be glad he divorced you, don’t feel bad. You’ll find someone else better then him.

Hahaha!😆! Great job!!

Nothing wrong with dressing up and looking pretty but it's the crowd u are with that things like that happens. Learn to be with the right people. Take care of yourself.

Kuv xav mas tej lau lawv yeej hais ib lo lu tseg tias kub tiag ces txawm muab fau rau hauv av ntev npaum cas lo yeej tsis xeb ov ho yog muab fau tsis ntev xwb es twb xeb lawm ces me muam yog kub cuav xwb os

Zaum no ces xob nroo tsis txawj los tsev lawm txiv yawg kawg em nlauj

All I say it his fault so don't put blame on her...

I think you're confused. Your husband wanting you to take care of yourself and looking sexy does not mean he wants you to go out to singles clubs without him. Your husband asked for one thing and you took it a whole other level. Looking beautiful for your husband is not the same as dressing up and acting single. That's why you got divorced.

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This is what happens when you don't tame your pet. Lol 😅😅😅😅😮😮😮😮😂😂😂😂

Niag Xwm aub ko es txws txws koj nes. Npuag kom nws ntseg muag ntsoog kiag xwb mas niam tsev zoo aw raug Niag Xwm dev Liam qias neeg

ua li ko thiaj zoo mas

Your husband is not the brightest and you were always for the streets...you just needed a little nudge from your husband for you to reveal your true nature.

I didn’t know such group existed.

Yus yuav ua kom haib mas ua haib rau hauv vaj hauv tsev es muaj noj muaj haus los yus mus pab mus nrog tej neeg zoo tej neeg tsim txiaj pob es yus mus kawm qhov haib es mus nrog cov neeg mus bar mus club li ko xwb ces thaum kawg yus tau qws noj xwb mas

Tos poj nraug coob li coob. 😁

He created a monster lol

My husband wanted me to dress like a ratchet too but I won’t. I love dressing up but I like to be classy, not trashy. I guess if you hang out with ratchets, you become one 😂. He wanted a ratchet, he got one! Serves him right!

50:21 Ntshe kuv yuav tsis pab koj lauj.

One thing I do agree with him is that y’all went clubbing without permission. Looking sexy and going clubbing without permission are two totally different things

It’s the husband fault

Geesh this guy if he wanted a wife like sexy why he don’t marry all his ex! Oh well now time to go party hahaha

I want to hear his side of the story 😂😂😂

Haha 😂 koj tus txiv ua hauj lwm tau nyiaj ntau tsawv tab sis siv CREDIT CARD 💳 CHARGE khaub ncaws hnav xwb, ces txhais tau tias lam ua thaj haib2 xwb tshuaj khib twb tsis qab ntsev mas😂

Bottom line, you had succeeded the destruction to your marriage, and will venture into the unknown leftover. Please share what you will find out. Good luck.

Nah, koj liam vim koj yeej liam sav. Lam ua txuj nkaum nkaum thaum pib xwb, and you claim you were ‘ntxhais txim txiaj’ 🤣 Thaub tsuas txw koj hnav khaub ncaws thiab ua sexy xwb. Mus liam was your choice.

Pretty is subjective. The actual pretty Hmong women I’ve known are humble, kind, and are hard workers. It’s the ugly ones that are always doing too much, unfortunately.

Be happy you divorced him...he was a loser....😂😂😂...and you didnt have his kids...

From listening to your story, your husband has a mental issue. Asking you model clothes for him to look at is just weird.

How become a b...

😅 it good he only ask and want his wife to do it for him and does not seek for other. And it good he give u and tell u what he like instead of seeking other women.

No sympathy for either of you..changing is a choice, being a niam dev is a choice stopped making excuses