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James Arthur Ray | Dangers of Spiritual and Motivational Gurus

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Dr. Todd Grande

Dr. Todd Grande

3 жыл бұрын

This video answers the question: Can I analyze the case of James Arthur Ray? Ray was featured in the documentary: “Enlighten Us: The Rise and Fall of James Arthur Ray.”
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@Gallop4Me
@Gallop4Me 3 жыл бұрын
Next time I catch someone in a lie, I'm going to look them square in the eye and calmly state, "You have a poor relationship with the truth." Can't wait to watch their reaction. 🤔😯😕
@Room-uc5se
@Room-uc5se 3 жыл бұрын
Using this
@JustDr.S
@JustDr.S 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@colinesquire2480
@colinesquire2480 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣
@georgehasleftthebuilding6621
@georgehasleftthebuilding6621 2 жыл бұрын
Right!!! I got this one locked and loaded, timing is everything. lol, That's a good one. Thx Dr Grande🌵 I'll be sure to footnote you afterwards 💫😀
@lakenwaters8704
@lakenwaters8704 2 жыл бұрын
Epic lol so am I
@TankUni
@TankUni 3 жыл бұрын
'Ray made ponchos available for $250 each.' You've got to admit, he didn't miss any opportunity to separate the rubes from their money.
@Tgogators
@Tgogators 3 жыл бұрын
He should have worked in the investment field. He would have made a brilliant private equity executive.
@Chaz_NFQ
@Chaz_NFQ 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@tinawindham6958
@tinawindham6958 2 жыл бұрын
I think Martha Stewart made ponchos while she was..uh, away from home for several months but I don’t believe she sold hers.
@flotreize3447
@flotreize3447 3 жыл бұрын
"Gurus pretend to have figured out the meaning of life when really what they have figured out is how to separate people from their money. To be fair, they are brilliant". Very well said Dr Grande ! If you think you are not vulnerable to these gurus, think twice. Greetings from Europe, France.
@jms1086
@jms1086 Жыл бұрын
What a great video Dr. G! During “The Secret” heyday, there was another guru who encouraged people to pay him $4,000 for the opportunity to sit in his Rolls Royce. He claimed if they could “feel” what that was like, then they would manifest money faster. Thank you for bringing attention to the grifters in a well thought out way, while tossing in some fun puns. 😎👍
@bradsanders6954
@bradsanders6954 10 ай бұрын
Some are readily vulnerable, some are not at all. I am not buying into some cult bull$hit.
@BigZebraCom
@BigZebraCom 3 жыл бұрын
Just a reminder, I'm not diagnosing anybody in this video; just speculating what could be happening in a sweat lodge like this.
@anonymousstrangeness7348
@anonymousstrangeness7348 3 жыл бұрын
Lol !!! That made me laugh coffee out through my nose 😂
@blueeyes6852
@blueeyes6852 3 жыл бұрын
@@anonymousstrangeness7348You haven't been watching the Doctor too long! I have no nose hairs because of him! 👃 It's all good cuz I'm female! Lol❣🤭
@mikem3695
@mikem3695 3 жыл бұрын
When will Oprah Winfrey be held accountable for unleashing all these frauds on society and giving them credibility? This guy, Dr. Phil, Dr. Oz, etc., etc.
@ericka7086
@ericka7086 3 жыл бұрын
Wow!! That was a good one!!
@OceanicMind
@OceanicMind 3 жыл бұрын
Good one hehe .🤣
@jordanlever7857
@jordanlever7857 3 жыл бұрын
People who have suffered a recent loss or trauma are especially vulnerable to cults and gurus.
@LisaMaryification
@LisaMaryification 2 жыл бұрын
Or people feeling disenfranchised.
@brynnmcdonnell2260
@brynnmcdonnell2260 3 жыл бұрын
I'm such a skeptic and it's so hard to understand how people fall for MLMs and gurus at this point
@rosewhite259
@rosewhite259 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad I'm cynical. It's saved me thousands of dollars.
@EasternDreamer615
@EasternDreamer615 3 жыл бұрын
A lot of people don’t realize that getting rich quick is pretty rare and usually an unreliable path to success.
@MelissaGal1
@MelissaGal1 3 жыл бұрын
They say you can be “incredibly intelligent” and still become the victim of a cult, but I think that’s BS. No way am I worshipping any human being.
@SueP-D
@SueP-D 3 жыл бұрын
Same! If you are aware of anything at all, why on earth would you buy off on these things?!?!
@jade4025
@jade4025 3 жыл бұрын
Because you’re rational and of sound mind, often times these con artists prey on those who’re going through a difficult time and thus aren’t thinking clearly and are easily manipulated. It’s all very calculated, these ppl know exactly what they’re doing
@SethMacLeod95
@SethMacLeod95 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve NEVER seen a more accurate example of a person who is “a wolf in sheep’s clothing” That is one dangerous human.
@marino3974
@marino3974 3 жыл бұрын
He is not dangerous, he is just funny... It's the followers that are the dangerous one's. "Wich is worse? The crazy or the one's following the crazy" - some smart guy said that - 😜
@The_Red_Pill__
@The_Red_Pill__ 3 жыл бұрын
@@marino3974 they are BOTH (or all) dangerous, but the ConMan is more dangerous one, as he is leading many to danger. Funny? I think you need a more fitting adjective.
@marino3974
@marino3974 3 жыл бұрын
@@The_Red_Pill__ But if you look at them without the followers they'r just clowns shouting nonsens in the dark.. Just like dictators, cult leaders and and such... Only when followers puts them in the light they become dangerous. You saw it with Trump recently, he was just funny at first🤡 then with backup he became dictator like😵, wanted to ban free press if they didn't like him, conspiracies, kids alone in cages, some dying! Himself("I'm the chosen one")🤭& followers said he was sent by God and got people killed in the end... as his followers believed they could ensure his power with a capitol riot... But before all that in 2016 you just laughed at him right, like "Trump, President? Yeah right" 😂.. and 2021..😲
@nataliesue2485
@nataliesue2485 3 жыл бұрын
Oh there are so many more out there. 😳
@anish10242
@anish10242 3 жыл бұрын
@@nataliesue2485 Check out one of the douchebags in India, his name is called swami nithyananda, he redefines the laws of physics, and there are so many people who fall for his bullshit.
@scottmatznick3140
@scottmatznick3140 3 жыл бұрын
Great videos lately. I always watch after a shower, because your humor is so dry, it cuts down on towel wash cycles by 37%.
@annemiekvdbos
@annemiekvdbos 3 жыл бұрын
Hahahaaa😂
@geekdivaherself
@geekdivaherself 3 жыл бұрын
nnnNice.
@JustDr.S
@JustDr.S 3 жыл бұрын
Good one! 🤣
@dortesandal4303
@dortesandal4303 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂....Will try that Scott!! 37%,,,I mean that is quite substantial!
@kathryncarter6143
@kathryncarter6143 3 жыл бұрын
Ha ja
@lesleythompson6801
@lesleythompson6801 3 жыл бұрын
"He thought of himself as a victim, so it was always about just one victim." This is true about so many people.
@kati-ana
@kati-ana 3 жыл бұрын
What's really amazing to me is how gullible people are, especially when it comes to religion, politics and money. Lastly. Once Oprah shows interest in someone run in the opposite direction.
@harmlesspotato2973
@harmlesspotato2973 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@Hollylivengood
@Hollylivengood 3 жыл бұрын
Omigod yes! nd I really used to like Oprah. But here's the thing about the gurus, and I've had lots of practice observing, being a child of the '60s, why does no one work out that if a person is offering you a higher spirituality no money should be involved, right? Why is this hard to see?
@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823
@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 3 жыл бұрын
@@Hollylivengood Wut? May I introduce you to any church...? Biggest scamners of them all. Lol. Child rapists'll never get a dime out of me.
@Hollylivengood
@Hollylivengood 3 жыл бұрын
@@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 Worst ones. Worst gurus you can find.
@gia7698
@gia7698 3 жыл бұрын
Their called Democrats!
@keitumetsem1344
@keitumetsem1344 3 жыл бұрын
He had a poor relationship with the truth hahaha.....that's very nice of you dr Grande... hello from Johannesburg South Africa
@nasiphigwiji2411
@nasiphigwiji2411 3 жыл бұрын
Hello from Cape Town
@neonhlapo2596
@neonhlapo2596 3 жыл бұрын
Hello fellow Joburger, from Nepal
@calboy2
@calboy2 3 жыл бұрын
Hello from Joburg too!
@masterblaster5705
@masterblaster5705 3 жыл бұрын
Jo toooown
@opaljk4835
@opaljk4835 3 жыл бұрын
Hello from Prospect Park
@kkheflin3
@kkheflin3 3 жыл бұрын
Oh Dr. G.. Master of understatement as always. "Some people accuse Ray of having a poor relationship with the truth." What a nice way of saying "Ray is a damn liar!"
@janedmunds4218
@janedmunds4218 3 жыл бұрын
lol
@keddy5627
@keddy5627 3 жыл бұрын
Dr G is a Master of the Understated Euphemism!!! 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
@robertplatt1693
@robertplatt1693 2 жыл бұрын
They use his full name to distinguish him from James Earl Ray, who only killed one person.
@rosemarymills1671
@rosemarymills1671 3 жыл бұрын
We joined "Chapel of Light" in Lake Whitney TX many years ago. It was New Age and it made no sense to me and I was not liked as a result. There was a woman who said I could quit taking meds for epilepsy and my husband convinced me to do just that. The lady who balanced swung a stone of some sorts over my head and she said I was healed and stop the med. Well of course I had a seizure and finally my husband saw the 'cult' for what it was and we were ostracized. These folks would have nothing to do with us because we opposed what they were doing. They always wanted money. And they always were smiling and happy. made me want to pull my hair out!
@JustDr.S
@JustDr.S 3 жыл бұрын
Interesting comment. While I'm sorry you had a seizure, and could have died....that experience helped you dodge a huge bullet! Glad you refused to be a victim of this huckster! ❤🧡💛💚🖤💙🤎
@margaretjohnson6259
@margaretjohnson6259 3 жыл бұрын
it's the "always smiling and happy" that makes me want to run fast, run far.
@marciabradley7660
@marciabradley7660 3 жыл бұрын
I too had a friend tell me that she was so proud of her son for stopping the medication he was prescribed in the hospital after an assessment for depression. She supported him in “beating it” with Jesus help. I was speechless, but now know I would have asked if she could follow her own advice and beat her serious heart condition without her medication? She had medical issues and was religious about her medication and Doctors recommendations.
@sheilagravely5621
@sheilagravely5621 3 жыл бұрын
Sounds like every church I've ever been to.
@mwilson7842
@mwilson7842 2 жыл бұрын
Many wolves in sheep's clothing in religious groups of all denominations. It's like evil knows the best place to do it's nasty work.
@RikodiusRex
@RikodiusRex 3 жыл бұрын
You’re the most hilarious stoic I’ve ever heard. You’re so casual about the quips! 😆
@Lovelytrini82
@Lovelytrini82 2 жыл бұрын
And he does it so timely and effortlessly. Imagine conversations with people he doesn’t like. He would shade them so casually not sure if they would notice until after the convo was over LOL. I love listening to him LOL
@rochellekramer2080
@rochellekramer2080 2 жыл бұрын
I keep having to go back to the beginning of the video to play over and over. So funny
@roge69charger
@roge69charger 2 жыл бұрын
I know luv it
@traceynomatterwhat383
@traceynomatterwhat383 3 жыл бұрын
I didn’t think you would ever do a video about someone I had personally met! I’m no longer involved in anything remotely connected to JAR, but this is going to hit home. I’m going to be taking slow, deep breaths while watching, as my friend & mentor, Liz, was one of the people who died tragically ... I can still picture her wonderful smile, and hear her voice on my phone during our calls. RIP dear friend. You are missed. 🙏🏼💔
@traceynomatterwhat383
@traceynomatterwhat383 3 жыл бұрын
I did the board break challenge at a Harmonic Wealth Seminar in 2007. Thankfully, first try, and no pain or splinters in my hand! Thank God I didn’t go further...
@landofthelivingskies3318
@landofthelivingskies3318 3 жыл бұрын
@@traceynomatterwhat383 ....how much money did it take to break that board?
@traceynomatterwhat383
@traceynomatterwhat383 3 жыл бұрын
@@landofthelivingskies3318 I don’t recall, as it was 13 years ago, but I assure you it wasn’t anything like the Sedona level stuff! That would have been have been over a year of mortgage payments!
@isabellaleifsdottir
@isabellaleifsdottir 3 жыл бұрын
💔 I’m so sorry for your loss
@denisenilsson1366
@denisenilsson1366 3 жыл бұрын
Please accept my most sincere condolences on Liz's passing. I send cyberhugs to you and your family and friends. 💔😪💔😪
@toniemorrison4263
@toniemorrison4263 3 жыл бұрын
I won't be wasting any money on, "The Secret." Dr Grande, you're explaining the sociopaths, debunking the myths, exposing the fake gurus and teaching us a bit about ourselves in the process...👍
@eileenkyle7892
@eileenkyle7892 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the ❤️ much appreciated. Eileen. U K
@bobbyologun1517
@bobbyologun1517 3 жыл бұрын
i read that silly book when it came out. i was astonished anyone could fall for such nonsense.
@Ron4885
@Ron4885 3 жыл бұрын
@@bobbyologun1517 I watched the video. That little kid wishing for the new bike. . . That never worked for me. :)
@marciabradley7660
@marciabradley7660 3 жыл бұрын
There was a time no matter what was going on around me my thoughts and feelings were stifled with “think positive”. I now know it meant to deny reality.
@l.w.paradis2108
@l.w.paradis2108 3 жыл бұрын
@@marciabradley7660 Purveyors of positivity are hiding extreme viciousness. Who could possibly believe pediatric cancer is a result of "attracting negativity?" Or some sort of personal failure? (Did the mother fail? Did the father?) Were the people who died on 9/11 all on a negative trip? And our troops who died in Afghanistan and Iraq? If only they had read The Secret, they'd all still be around, attracting abundance.
@Sacred-Heart-of-Jesus829
@Sacred-Heart-of-Jesus829 3 жыл бұрын
One thing I might add about these motivational "Gurus" is that they need narcissistic supply, because most of them are narcissists. I like what you said about how their focus is on positive thinking, which in of itself is not bad; but can also be an avoidance of pain like you were saying in your video.
@asryn96
@asryn96 3 жыл бұрын
Most of them are COVERT narcissists. As HG TUDOR call them: "Mid-rangers".
@s1ck-s1de39
@s1ck-s1de39 3 жыл бұрын
Every psychopath is a narc but not every narc is a psychopath
@Eredeana
@Eredeana 3 жыл бұрын
If any of Dr. Grande's viewers get arrested now, you're obligated to become a prison keynote speaker to "unlock your inner cell" or it's negligent comedy
@teresamessenger5399
@teresamessenger5399 3 жыл бұрын
Lol!!
@kkheflin3
@kkheflin3 3 жыл бұрын
Priceless. Absolutely priceless.
@anonymousstrangeness7348
@anonymousstrangeness7348 3 жыл бұрын
Wow !!! 😂 😂 😂
@MamaPinks
@MamaPinks 3 жыл бұрын
The video had an abrupt edit right there too. I think he may have actually laughed and took it out so as not to ruin his image😂🤣
@Eredeana
@Eredeana 3 жыл бұрын
@@MamaPinks the couple videos where he has this those outtakes at the end are *chef's kiss*
@leximari
@leximari 3 жыл бұрын
My jaw DROPPED when I heard how hot the lodge was. Wow.
@rosewhite259
@rosewhite259 3 жыл бұрын
It wasn't even a real sweat lodge. No Native American would use a plastic tarp for a sweat lodge. It's supposed to "breathe" and it's also not a "contest" to see who can tough it out the longest.
@maureeningleston1501
@maureeningleston1501 3 жыл бұрын
I live in Scotland, I didn't even know temperatures like that existed !!!!
@leximari
@leximari 3 жыл бұрын
@@rosewhite259 he had everything all wrong! What a reckless fraud
@lanceanthony198
@lanceanthony198 3 жыл бұрын
Look up Coffeezilla’s interview with the victim’s mother. James Ray killed a young woman and then gave her grieving mother relief money that was less than her daughters cost of attending the event. So he essentially still made money off her dying
@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823
@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 3 жыл бұрын
@@lanceanthony198 Apparently, these people don't know how to call Visa and dispute a charge...lol
@MH-ds8cb
@MH-ds8cb 3 жыл бұрын
4:33 “‘The Deception” would’ve been a more accurate title than “The Secret.”’ 🤣
@code-52
@code-52 3 жыл бұрын
Oprah Winfrey's involvement in this is sadistic.
@lindaedvardsson4218
@lindaedvardsson4218 3 жыл бұрын
.. hmm🤔.. YES.. but it can always be a secret for those who not knowing their being decieved.. tho.. even for the deciever in some cases. Soo.. secret can absolutely be a word of use here.. as long as we not knowing the faulty cause...😁😖.. kind of overexpainatory but ”technically the truth”.. 👋🏼😌🇸🇪
@carolineobrien6301
@carolineobrien6301 3 жыл бұрын
@@lindaedvardsson4218 The Secret helped me when I needed support.
@lindaedvardsson4218
@lindaedvardsson4218 3 жыл бұрын
@@carolineobrien6301 ohh..😌👌🏼.. nooow we talking..😅. I know exactly what You mean by that.. My explanations was just mine.. also, to hep me and support my understanding..👏🏼😊.. Thank You😌.. And sorry I ”kind of” throwed Your joke away..🥴.. That was not my intent tho.. You took this just as I wanted to.. so Thank You//be safe//👏🏼😌🇸🇪
@juliannefarmer6303
@juliannefarmer6303 3 жыл бұрын
@@carolineobrien6301 There are probably many such situations where the conditions allow people to let down their guard. I too have attended seminars, one anyway, and it was just full of stuff I already knew.
@brunaperussello4259
@brunaperussello4259 3 жыл бұрын
First time I saw him on tv I thought "Whoa, what a sociopath! How can people not notice those deceiving eyes?".
@rosewhite259
@rosewhite259 3 жыл бұрын
I can't ever figure this one out. Why can't people tell people like him are completely deranged?
@darlalathan6143
@darlalathan6143 3 жыл бұрын
@@rosewhite259 Because most of us aren't licensed, therapists.
@globes179
@globes179 3 жыл бұрын
a lot of people don't understand even basic human psychology. People often confuse narcissism and confidence for expertise and wisdom. And the biggest problem of all - people want quick fixes. As a teacher I've seen it a thousand times; anything that says "quick and easy," "every other system is doing it wrong," or "here's the secret you need to see," will make a lot of money. As long as people want something other than hard work and determination, they'll jump in and pay good money for it.
@marino3974
@marino3974 3 жыл бұрын
And the smile, that creepy, human mimicking smile.. Brrrr🤪
@dianacassinelli3600
@dianacassinelli3600 3 жыл бұрын
Still creepy
@davidmcc6666
@davidmcc6666 3 жыл бұрын
I'm using the LOA to manifest a Porsche 550 Spyder for you, Doc.
@kathrynj.hernandez8425
@kathrynj.hernandez8425 2 жыл бұрын
What? Dr. Grande wants a James Dean car? I've been researching Dean's life and learned all about his purchase of the 550 Spyder. The whole story. I've spent hours and hours...never knew about him. And I'm 67 years old!
@batrobbins1890
@batrobbins1890 3 жыл бұрын
An excess of faith in anything can be a problem. There was the time an old man was in bed passing away, his sons were in the room, while his wife was in the kitchen making cookies. The old man could smell the cookies cooking and says to one of his sons, "Please bring me a cookie. I must have one last of my wife's cookies before I die." Son leaves the room and returns. Old man says, "Did you bring me the cookie?" Son says, "No, mom says they're for after the funeral."
@legoqueen2445
@legoqueen2445 3 жыл бұрын
Lol
@tabby73
@tabby73 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@JustDr.S
@JustDr.S 3 жыл бұрын
ahahaha! 🤣
@aruvielevenstar3944
@aruvielevenstar3944 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂🤭
@soulovelee_2433
@soulovelee_2433 3 жыл бұрын
Honestly, books from Louise Hay have helped me more than therapy.. therapists don’t seem to be interested really helping you.. they just listen and ask stupid questions. But in the books of Louise Hay there she gives you help, for example "we are all victims of victims" meaning, we think our past was bad, but if go back a generation and we try to think what our parents had to endure, it puts everything in perspective. Also she says to imagine your parents as 4 year olds and to hold them and say it’s okay, they don’t have to be afraid...etc..this helped me sooooo much more than a therapist who would only tell you :you can’t change your parents you can only change yourself, and leave you hanging with that hole in your heart...
@asalane20
@asalane20 3 жыл бұрын
If people thought for themselves more, they wouldn't be so susceptible to the "answers" provided by others.
@colinesquire2480
@colinesquire2480 3 жыл бұрын
Seems a minority generally
@danp1471
@danp1471 2 жыл бұрын
I like that. so true
@MamaPinks
@MamaPinks 3 жыл бұрын
I can honestly say, at least for me that I used to be a very angry person. When I decided that I was going to be consciously happy towards people, I found I was attracting more joyus type people. I can also say, that I am truly happy in my thoughts now. It was like my brain was trained to be angry before, it was easy to be angry. Now, it's easy to look at brighter sides, respond with positivity to negative comments, and I think I retrained my brain to start with joy first, then anger if needed. It's gotten me a long way in the last 13 years! (A whole lot less drama too😉🤭 Edited to say, I'm only rich with happiness, otherwise I'm broke AF. 🙃
@bethheizer2886
@bethheizer2886 2 жыл бұрын
I did that to! It saved my marriage 💑
@msmongooseable
@msmongooseable 2 жыл бұрын
It's true - being forthright and positive means people like that will want to hang out with you. People like likeable people, and you'll like yourself more, too x
@Dan-ud8hz
@Dan-ud8hz 3 жыл бұрын
"A stupid person is the most dangerous type of person." - Cipolla's Third Basic Law of Stupidity
@blueeyes6852
@blueeyes6852 3 жыл бұрын
Excellent comment! 💗
@yasuke9317
@yasuke9317 3 жыл бұрын
I have been paraphrasing this all my life and I've never seen this before nor was aware of the Author.😁
@5p674
@5p674 3 жыл бұрын
No, the most dangerous person is the follower
@Room-uc5se
@Room-uc5se 3 жыл бұрын
Amen.
@rejaneoliveira5019
@rejaneoliveira5019 3 жыл бұрын
I completely agree with your closing statement-“never listen to spiritual and motivational gurus.” I think a major contributor to their success is the fact that many people enjoy the feeling of belonging to a community that shares the same values and ideas. So, even if something may look a little off, that might be overlooked if a group of people is endorsing it. That’s sad and dangerous. Thank you so much for addressing this important topic Dr. Grande!❤️
@colinesquire2480
@colinesquire2480 3 жыл бұрын
I just think most humans are very gullible
@kathrynj.hernandez8425
@kathrynj.hernandez8425 2 жыл бұрын
Jim Jones' followers felt the camaraderie. To the very end.
@noprimadonna3048
@noprimadonna3048 2 жыл бұрын
Dr. Grande is my favorite "Guru" 😉 Happy New Year 2022 to all🎉✨🎇
@crongusclips7836
@crongusclips7836 2 жыл бұрын
There’s nothing wrong with wanting to belong
@rejaneoliveira5019
@rejaneoliveira5019 2 жыл бұрын
@@crongusclips7836 I never said there was
@orelonsidney724
@orelonsidney724 3 жыл бұрын
So, he understands quantum physics, but doesn’t know that people die from exposure to near-boiling temperatures? I ad a friend give me The Secret decades ago. How I actually finished it, I’ll never know. That friendship ended.
@pinkwakabeagle
@pinkwakabeagle 2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣 Did your friendship end because of the book?
@orelonsidney724
@orelonsidney724 2 жыл бұрын
@@pinkwakabeagle Well, it was definitely the beginning of the end. Too much woo woo for me.
@ferociousgumby
@ferociousgumby 2 жыл бұрын
@@myunknownland9272 Oprah is the WORST New Age charlatan-guru of them all! I hope he does an episode on HER.
@Dan-ud8hz
@Dan-ud8hz 3 жыл бұрын
“Responsibility is a unique concept... You may share it with others, but your portion is not diminished. You may delegate it, but it is still with you... If responsibility is rightfully yours, no evasion, or ignorance or passing the blame can shift the burden to someone else. Unless you can point your finger at the man who is responsible when something goes wrong, then you have never had anyone really responsible.” ― Admiral H.G. Rickover, Father of the US Nuclear Navy
@tonka9573
@tonka9573 3 жыл бұрын
wow, that`s a pretty good quote. copy and paste
@laura2842
@laura2842 3 жыл бұрын
My sister and I participated in a sweat lodge ceremony (for cleansing purposes) and we were told explicitly that if we felt uncomfortable we should leave the tent (they showed us an exit) and go to the lake to cool down. It is a very hot environment and the complete darkness is ore daunting!!! Glad we were cared for in our experience. It is very intense and not necessary to thrive!
@latinaalma1947
@latinaalma1947 3 жыл бұрын
IN Guatemala called a Mayan sauna....loads of young people wanting to pretend to be woke hippies of this generation partake when they visit.
@joego7924
@joego7924 3 жыл бұрын
U drank the cool aid and survived!
@laura2842
@laura2842 3 жыл бұрын
@@joego7924 hehe, you know what I minded the most, was the mud that we were sitting on, we had towels to sit on but YUK! lol the heat part was great, every now and then somebody would add water to the fire pit and gosh I wished they had it again really!
@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823
@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 3 жыл бұрын
This dumpy tent was huge, tho...I can tell you, if you're ready to pass out, you might not have enough time to GET out. Just saying...
@kathrynj.hernandez8425
@kathrynj.hernandez8425 2 жыл бұрын
@@joego7924 Kool Aid
@autumnedwards4448
@autumnedwards4448 3 жыл бұрын
I can't believe how callous he was in talking about the homicides! Such a tragic case! But thanks for the guru roast Dr Grande!😉💙💙
@Brutus1580
@Brutus1580 3 жыл бұрын
I knew a family that believed this man and his spiel so much, they would spend their last few dollars on lottery tickets. The would meditate all night on the ticket really believing they would win because they believed they would. Then next day, they would start all over. Broke and trying to buy more tickets because JAR said they would be rich if they only believed it. Whew. What a road.
@SueP-D
@SueP-D 3 жыл бұрын
I just don’t understand how grown adults fall for this
@Jinxiefoo
@Jinxiefoo 3 жыл бұрын
@@SueP-D because hope springs eternal!
@SueP-D
@SueP-D 3 жыл бұрын
@@Jinxiefoo Lol 😂. Yup I guess you’re right
@latinaalma1947
@latinaalma1947 3 жыл бұрын
What is really scary is the belief tyat if youmare positive enough you can heal yourself....eg of cancer...or if you take y cobunations of herbs...or holy water...you will be cured.
@joelallgaier2626
@joelallgaier2626 3 жыл бұрын
"If I claim to be a wise-man, surely means that I don't know."
@davidwhitney1171
@davidwhitney1171 3 жыл бұрын
"Though my eyes could see I still was a blind man(or woman)- though my mind could think I still was a mad man(or woman)"- this seems to be the type of person who falls for s*it like this, as well as so many other cults...
@nonnobissolum
@nonnobissolum 3 жыл бұрын
So so so true..
@knitter4years
@knitter4years 3 жыл бұрын
I learn so much. I finally can explain the phenomenon of chicanery involved in these fraudsters. Thank you so much Dr. Grande. This situation is tragic.
@rejaneoliveira5019
@rejaneoliveira5019 3 жыл бұрын
Dr. Grande, I believe you your channel went from 700k to 712k subscribers in only 9 days! That’s amazing! I hope it continues to grow at this amazing pace, I think very soon it will reach 1M subs. 🙌🏼
@kkheflin3
@kkheflin3 2 жыл бұрын
Hello Dr. G! One of the things you say that I love the most is that someone "has a poor relationship with the truth!" I use that all the time because it sounds SO much better than "he was lying." As a teacher it's very hard to say to a parent that their child is "lying" to them but they take it much better when I say "they have a poor relationship with the truth!" Thanks for this little quip!
@maric820
@maric820 3 жыл бұрын
I hit the 'like' button even before I start the video. Dr Grande's content is quality! Hard work shows!
@Mountlougallops
@Mountlougallops 3 жыл бұрын
Always!! 👍🏼🎯
@SethMacLeod95
@SethMacLeod95 3 жыл бұрын
PREACH!! We do not deserve a guy like Grande.
@maureeningleston1501
@maureeningleston1501 3 жыл бұрын
I think he was a conman with a giant ego, exploiting very vulnerable people.
@aruvielevenstar3944
@aruvielevenstar3944 3 жыл бұрын
I did a sweatlodge once and I got heavy extreem migraines, and also almost died of hyperthermia . The Shaman told me it was normal and to stay in the lodge, but I really got very sick and felt like my head explodes. He encouraged me to stay in and thank god I said: no, I am going out now. I really think if I stayed longer I would have had serious injury. Or worse. I had an extreme migraine for a week after. Sweatlodges are not healthy! It should be foribidden. You are forced to stay in and the whole group encourages you to stay in, but your body screams that you should go out now! If that isn’t intuition enough, I don’t know what intuition is. I was in the spiritual world ( New age world) for a whyle but since the Corona pandemic, I saw how dangerous these gurus are, telling everybody to don’t weir masks and that the Corona virus is fake, and that your should rebel against the rules and the gouvernement, and if you get the vaccine you will have a deadly cocktail put in your body and all that nonsense. And I was shocked to see how many people believe this. I lost a lot of my spiritual friends in this pandemic who believe this shit. I think they are completely insane and like if they are in a cult. They were very kind and nice people but now they seem schizofrenic.
@splijter
@splijter Жыл бұрын
sweatlodges are around for hundreds, maybe thousands of years. the benefits countless people have from sweatlodges is immense. then aruviel evenstar comes and says it should be forbidden. delusional you are.
@lauriecosme6025
@lauriecosme6025 Жыл бұрын
Look for truth in the Bible. People can get way off track apart from God’s word.
@kimwhatmatters4085
@kimwhatmatters4085 Жыл бұрын
You know spiritualism is a aspect of the occult. It’s about oneness once you empty yourself that’s when you’re enlightened all the meditating is just calling spirits (demons) to you. Same with the death of yourself. Christian do it but are filled with the holy spirit( happens by being dipped in water)but in new age it’s demons but you’re told it’s oneness and we’re all god. Once you’re possessed if you can control it you can’t become successful from the supernatural help or you’re ruined star hearing voices so you start doing drugs or want to kill yourself.
@ELECTECHNUT
@ELECTECHNUT 3 жыл бұрын
"Why do people believe this stuff?" That's an easy question! People of all ages EAGERLY believe in simple/easy (and nonsensical) answers that mirror their desires; or promise to take away some type of pain. (Emotional or physical) As you know Dr. Grande, delusions often surpass the intensity of the original pain, and spill over like dominos in to other areas of delusion. Thanks for the interesting video!
@cccCCCccc123ccc
@cccCCCccc123ccc 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve done a sweat lodge before (not his of course) the leader told us to to leave anytime we felt we needed to. I made it through all rounds. It was hell. However, it was a good experience. I did mine with an actual native. No compensation was asked for.
@BugzKiller
@BugzKiller Жыл бұрын
Just don't go to this guy's house if he invites you and tells you he has a sauna
@muellerphyllis
@muellerphyllis 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Dr. Grande! I fell into “The Secret” for about a year. Led me to a serious downer the next year. (I am not bipolar).
@Liz.cotugno
@Liz.cotugno 3 жыл бұрын
Laughed out loud for real at the "unlock your inner cell" comment!
@joetaylor486
@joetaylor486 3 жыл бұрын
Another analytical slice of good sense, served with a side of pithy humour from Dr Grande. Bravo!
@tomcunningham8935
@tomcunningham8935 3 жыл бұрын
Nothing shows wealth more than paying nearly 10k for a retreat!
@bthomson
@bthomson 3 жыл бұрын
Although I am not spiritual, I love the way fans of this channel support each other with condolences and good wishes! Dr. Grande - you are creating an environment that fosters care and consideration of others and that is sorely needed in today's world! Thanks!💎
@tinawindham6958
@tinawindham6958 2 жыл бұрын
He’s a guru, ponchos are being crocheted by the minions😼
@thelocalmaladroit8873
@thelocalmaladroit8873 3 жыл бұрын
“Why do people believe all this stuff “? Once again, Dr Grande nails it!!!
@muellerphyllis
@muellerphyllis 3 жыл бұрын
People are looking for hope and happiness.
@dreamzofhorses
@dreamzofhorses 3 жыл бұрын
Idk that’s why I’m here hoping Dr Grande can tell me!!
@Fettclone1
@Fettclone1 3 жыл бұрын
He went on to list his theories about it. They way you've posted it makes it sound like a judgment call.
@marino3974
@marino3974 3 жыл бұрын
"The road to hell is paved with good intentions " - Someone, somewhere -🤔 😜😄
@mcd5478
@mcd5478 3 жыл бұрын
Oh wow. Didn’t know this sweat lodge guy was also The Secret guy. Eons ago I bought the book...a few years later I attracted 25 cents back when I sold it a garage sale. 😆 Interesting video 💖💕💖👍🏼
@janesmith9628
@janesmith9628 3 жыл бұрын
Wow I couldn't click fast enough to hear what you are going to say about this one!! This story has fascinated me since the beginning and might even grab my attention away from which cacti are on, today! Thanks, Dr Grande.
@Emilymk97
@Emilymk97 3 жыл бұрын
This was the first time I noticed them.
@lnc-to4ku
@lnc-to4ku 3 жыл бұрын
I remember when The Secret exploded onto the scene.... and I remember researching him a bit and just getting a questionable feeling about him. I sooo loved your advice when you said "It's their certainty that is so worrisome." Brilliant line Dr. Grande.... never put absolute faith into someone who claims to have all the answers to life's mysteries!
@GrafStorm
@GrafStorm 3 жыл бұрын
It is a sad fact that people in need, be it spiritually, emotionally, or perhaps psychology, are venerable . This case illustrates how common sense is lost when desperation cancels reason. Ty Dr. Grande
@karolyn8644
@karolyn8644 2 жыл бұрын
@@marythomas1198 Maybe autocorrect is to blame for that one.
@Astra_Dystopium
@Astra_Dystopium 3 жыл бұрын
As I started this video I immediately thought to myself “if he diagnosis someone in this video and doesn’t speculate what could happen in a situation like this I will immediately turn this off.” Luckily Dr. Grande, in his wisdom, did the exact opposite of that.
@roxzannezook3269
@roxzannezook3269 3 жыл бұрын
"The take easy to please to a new level." Dr. Grande has the politest disses.
@catic6587
@catic6587 2 жыл бұрын
😂
@JennyT101
@JennyT101 3 жыл бұрын
The Secret was the best thing that ever happened to modern con artists!
@punkylilkid
@punkylilkid 3 жыл бұрын
I would enjoy you doing a broadcast on Carlos Castaneda, where a UCLA anthropologist becomes guru of a ‘Yaqui Way of Knowledge’.
@tinawindham6958
@tinawindham6958 2 жыл бұрын
Oh that sounds like quite an adventure.
@harrietkaufman3862
@harrietkaufman3862 3 жыл бұрын
I used to believe in a bunch of this stuff plus more back in the 90s. Now I don’t believe in anything, so much more relaxed and happy.
@geekdivaherself
@geekdivaherself 3 жыл бұрын
_[laughing]_ Oh hello, mind twin!
@lisamcdonald2877
@lisamcdonald2877 3 жыл бұрын
I think many of us have been temporarily seduced by such lovely nonsense. I was in the late 80s. Like the op, I can't say I truly believe in anything now, other than to be kind.
@audralynn7454
@audralynn7454 2 жыл бұрын
WOW! Thank you for covering this! I remember when this happened! I was attending cosmetology school from fall of 2010-spring of 2012 and we had a 45 minute class called Salon Success where they used The Secret and 212degrees to get us "fired up for success". The funny thing is, most of the young adults in the class thought it was a waste of time and made fun of it. But the older students seemed to get really excited about it. I found that intersting and have a few theories, but too much for a youtube comment.
@alice5515
@alice5515 3 жыл бұрын
Shit! On behalf of Australia, I apologise for The Secret. I had no idea it was us 😩
@DrogoBaggins987
@DrogoBaggins987 3 жыл бұрын
I've read a lot of self development books and The Secret is the worst bit of victim blaming trash I have ever read. You just wouldn't believe how far it went in blaming innocent people for their own misfortune when they could have done nothing to change what happened.
@bernardsmith1230
@bernardsmith1230 2 жыл бұрын
The ‘power of now’ is my worst.
@andybrown3016
@andybrown3016 2 жыл бұрын
@@bernardsmith1230 why ?
@bernardsmith1230
@bernardsmith1230 2 жыл бұрын
@@andybrown3016 I actually used to be obsessed with it and Tolles teachings. Now I find it and Tolle very cult like. On a surface level some useful things that even a psychologist would recommend but beneath that very manipulative and potentially dangerous. In fact in cult forums Tolles name comes up often where people have experienced depersonalisation and are suicidal after what initially felt peaceful to eventually turn out disastrous.
@bernardsmith1230
@bernardsmith1230 2 жыл бұрын
@@andybrown3016 also what sort of activism is Tolle involved in apart from sitting around ignoring everything. Does he care about starving children or our future planet ect. He’s pretty cashed up and could actually make a difference if he actually cared. Im guessing not as the future doesn’t seem to matter much to him. The point is that he is just a con artist like the rest of them and has probably get another side to him which people would be shocked or even horrified to discover. These sort of people almost always do!!
@andybrown3016
@andybrown3016 2 жыл бұрын
@@bernardsmith1230 I actually agree with you that making a vast amount of money (Tolle is worth an estimated 70 million dollars) is rather contradictory to the core principles of spirituality. But it is not just him who is benefitting financially it simply goes with the territory if you are successful and have a big audience. Essentially if he really practiced what he preached then yes he should use that money to help other people. I know I would if I had that wealth but everyone is different. Also the point you made about depersonalisation can’t really be directed at Tolle in particular for what he teaches.And that is because this is something that is well documented within spirituality in general often referred to as the “dark night of the soul”. It is very common. And yes it is potentially even worse than normal depression. I have experienced it personally. This deep existential angst accompanied by depersonalisation and derealisation is a dark side of spirituality that is not often acknowledged. I agree people should be made more aware of this. But what Tolle teaches is not revolutionary, he is not saying anything new. His teachings and concepts are really a rehash of Buddhist, Taoist and Advaita Vedanta philosophy. He simply introduces eastern spirituality to a western audience.
@barbskeelcsw
@barbskeelcsw 3 жыл бұрын
Dr.Grande, One of the reasons I appreciate your videos is because of your authenticity. I feel that there is no question that I can trust you and your efforts. I related to the way you spoke about making a decision to focus on what you love even though it it may mean sacrifice. I agree. I love my work as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in private practice and I love serving all people. Fairness and diversity is a moral necessity in my life. My practice is the most meaningful thing in my life-so being unattached isn’t as hard as other people imagine it must be-no partner, no kids, one dog. Right now, that’s plenty! Thank you for doing this work. It’s just nice to watch a trustworthy male figure sharing the topics that interest me. I find your presentations to be so interesting and helpful, and you, as a presenter to be a pleasure to watch.
@Jinxiefoo
@Jinxiefoo 3 жыл бұрын
Okay . . the snark was SPOT ON with this one! I can't pick just one! Started giggling at "Oh! Like a pyramid scheme!" and just kept on from there.
@ambera5448
@ambera5448 3 жыл бұрын
I still can't believe Dr. Grande has a family. In my head, he was a single guy. Mind blown. Love the content :)
@AnnMarieKing
@AnnMarieKing 3 жыл бұрын
Much of our life experiences are based on our perceptions not our reality. And this is what spritual influencers - from new age gurus to good old-fashioned prosperity preachers - prey upon: The power we have given to material wealth and money through our perceptions.
@apurvabhandari543
@apurvabhandari543 3 жыл бұрын
I would really like Dr Grande to break down philosophical theories as well. anyone agrees?
@rejaneoliveira5019
@rejaneoliveira5019 3 жыл бұрын
Dr. Grande, I just received your book! I am so happy, this is the best part of my rather blah day. Well, I guess the night is young for me. I won’t be able to wait until tomorrow to start reading it.😅📖📚
@galatea742
@galatea742 3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on your book! I just saw your video in which you announced it, and I’m definitely going to be picking one up!
@LunaLu-00
@LunaLu-00 3 жыл бұрын
what is the name of the book? 'The Secret"? hahaha
@ritagoforth2317
@ritagoforth2317 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I've seen a lot of positive beautiful children in the ER! It's so sad that people fall for that crap! Once again thank you Dr. Grande for your insight. 🙏❤️
@JiveDadson
@JiveDadson 3 жыл бұрын
Has the doc not-diagnosed Depak Chopra, only speculated what might be going on with a kook like him? I would enjoy that.
@petertreid
@petertreid 3 жыл бұрын
Chopra's niche in life is reassuring rich Americans that he knows how to (and can teach them how to) sneak their elephants through the eye of the biblical needle.
@JiveDadson
@JiveDadson 3 жыл бұрын
@@petertreid Didja know? The "eye of the needle" was a small door in the wall around Jerusalem. For a camel to go through, the beast had to crawl on its knees.
@jguenther3049
@jguenther3049 3 жыл бұрын
@@JiveDadson Did you ever try to get a camel to crawl on its knees? Did you ever see a camel crawl on its knees? Probably not. Camels have no knees on their back legs. The "eye of the needle" gate is a myth. The Aramaic words for camel and rope are very similar [G'aMLoA vs KHaB,LoA]. More likely the quote is a mistranslation of the more logical "It is easier to get a rope through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter [heaven]."
@petertreid
@petertreid 3 жыл бұрын
@@JiveDadson Sounds feasible, alright.
@colinesquire2480
@colinesquire2480 3 жыл бұрын
🤔
@elainegilsdorf451
@elainegilsdorf451 3 жыл бұрын
Just watched Enlighten Us on Prime! Since living in Arizona I have been following this case. Thank you so much for posting your opinions on that documentary. It always surprises me how people are so willing to follow someone who they think has the answers. I was fortunate enough to take a course on positive psychology at WNMU undergrad for CMB thinking it would be an easy A elective. What I didn’t realize was how much it helped me personally. Considering the tuition for that college I feel like got off easy. Thanks Dr. grande for the excellent content!
@Chris-wj4ze
@Chris-wj4ze 3 жыл бұрын
The problem here is that people skipped form the Harmonic Wealth level directly to Spiritual Warrior. Common sense tells you not to skip levels like that! Think, people.
@SueP-D
@SueP-D 3 жыл бұрын
Ah, so! Thank you for clarification
@geekdivaherself
@geekdivaherself 3 жыл бұрын
You need a firm foundation for your pyramid scheme experience.
@farmalmta
@farmalmta 2 жыл бұрын
Common sense would tell anybody that the terms "harmonic wealth" and "spiritual warrior" are bullshit marketing terms devised to make weak people feel good about themselves without having to earn it.
@JennWatson
@JennWatson 3 жыл бұрын
You would make a great judge- You’re logical and fair. I’m hoping that you bring the spiky floor plant back to balance out your stage setup 😊
@AMYBIERHAUS
@AMYBIERHAUS 3 жыл бұрын
Another fabulous video, but of course! PS Please add the *coffee mug* to your store. Thanks, Amy 😍
@thinkingmoment
@thinkingmoment 3 жыл бұрын
It is very much, Dr. Grande. I have recognized the case when I have seen that part with camps. Your analysis is truthful and people should see this. Cacti🧡🧡 Thank you, Dr. Grande.
@anonymousstrangeness7348
@anonymousstrangeness7348 3 жыл бұрын
A VERY interesting account of this "guru's" self-centered career, Doctor Grande. -- So much strange information, given to us in a clear, concise manner. A fascinating analysis as always!! 👍--This one really has me thinking, about how EASY it is for people to assume leadership roles, even though they are not qualified.
@AxelordSMIJES
@AxelordSMIJES 2 жыл бұрын
I love how incredibly snarky AND dry Dr Grande manages to be at the same time. It's sheer brilliance.
@maureeningleston1501
@maureeningleston1501 3 жыл бұрын
Good timing Dr Grande, just put my feet up and got nice and comfy for the evening.
@therealbs2000
@therealbs2000 3 жыл бұрын
3:21 the self satisfaction dr grande gets when he sets up and executes a good punchline is why i am here
@blueeyes6852
@blueeyes6852 3 жыл бұрын
Rational, fair and cute! Our Doctor Grande! Couldn't agree more!
@gregmezera6571
@gregmezera6571 3 жыл бұрын
Nice deadpan delivery. Dr. Grande is either a sociopath or secretly hilarious.
@ivaylot9452
@ivaylot9452 3 жыл бұрын
Love your jokes with a straight face. Humor reinvented! Unlock your inner cell Ha Ha!
@dkeith45
@dkeith45 2 жыл бұрын
It's known as 'Deadpan' or 'Dry' humor, lol. And the Doc is a master.
@balthazarvorobeitchik7169
@balthazarvorobeitchik7169 3 жыл бұрын
Your quality of reasoning and your calm approach is both reassuring, grounding and instructive. What I enjoy the most is the low key humor here and there. Please analyse Charles Sobrhaj in connection or not with The serpent
@markusheld3910
@markusheld3910 3 жыл бұрын
That strongly reminds me of my highschool years. At German primary and secondary schools students have compulsory classes either in theology (catholic, protestant, or muslim) or ethics. A very important subject in the catholic theology classes at my time was how to recognize cults, to understand their social and economic processes and how to defend against their manipulation techniques.
@galeocean4182
@galeocean4182 2 жыл бұрын
isn't that the pot calling the kettle black?
@dakrontu
@dakrontu 3 жыл бұрын
This is a brilliant and perceptive video, with a little subtle humour thrown in. It provides a lesson that sadly will be lost on those attracted by New Age gurus (ie conmen) because as Dr Grande says they are in a comfort zone that is preferable in their minds to facing truth.
@zenawarrior7442
@zenawarrior7442 3 жыл бұрын
OMG!! LOVE YOU DR G!! Been asking about the LOA (the Secret). The "deception" so accurate. Thank you thank you!!!🥰👍💚🌺❤👏🌼🥂🏜
@jenniferkindschi755
@jenniferkindschi755 3 жыл бұрын
Your info on James Arthur Ray and Eckart Tolle are very interesting. Would you consider doing a video on Byron Katie as well?
@melissadicampli
@melissadicampli 3 жыл бұрын
Yes please!!
@einsteindarwin8756
@einsteindarwin8756 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely. That one is way overdue!
@bernardsmith1230
@bernardsmith1230 2 жыл бұрын
People were very upset about his opinions on Tolle. Tolle has many sheep.
@sandyshorewalker5364
@sandyshorewalker5364 3 жыл бұрын
As a person who has been in a hot room of 39 to 40 degrees Celsius practicing Bikram Yoga for 90 minutes, I can say their experience in that sweatlog must of been very taxing to the body. I had a mat I could rest on my matt and two liters of water to drink. I had an attentive instructor to watch over me. The amount of sweat soaked my entire body. This sort of challenge should not be attempted lightly. What was he thinking? Interesting Video Dr 👍
@SueP-D
@SueP-D 3 жыл бұрын
I don’t understand the sweat lodge part 🤷🏼‍♀️
@legoqueen2445
@legoqueen2445 3 жыл бұрын
I did sweatlodge once, we were told to drink water all day, which I did. The leader may have even told us an ammount to drink but I can't remember. Ofcourse drinking so much water means peeing a lot. Which was fine during the day but once in the sweatlodge you're not meant to pop out for the loo. We were told to just sit in our urine if we had to pee. There was some sort of prayer/ritual aspect to it, it was incredibly hot and I had to get out after 30-45 minutes. I can't remember how long the whole thing went for but sitting in my own pee in incredible heat isn't my idea of fun. I paid $350 for the experience and the leader accused me of being weak for not staying in the Lodge longer. Overall my experience with New Age taught me shiny happy people can be dodgy as all hell and spirituality shouldn't be expensive.
@tonka9573
@tonka9573 3 жыл бұрын
main problem here was the sweat lodge was covered with plastic tarp. that`s a big no no. It is supposed to be covered with cotton tarps, so the air can circulate. I was dozens of times in a sweat lodge and very thankful for the experience. Not because I was enlightened after. More because it can be a very pleasant way to bring yourself down to earth, to see what really counts in life. It´s a beautiful ritual, if done well. But this guy really messed up in many ways. But just one factor changed (the plastic tarpet) nobody would have died. He was really reckless. sad event
@einsteindarwin8756
@einsteindarwin8756 3 жыл бұрын
Landmark did help me get out of my fear of being fired from my job. I was afraid to stand up for myself even with the support of the union. There are some good parts, like people sharing their experiences. I was always told not to talk to people and I never learned who I could trust. Now at least I know that there are good people who are just trying to do the best they can in life and everyone is human and makes mistakes. I think when people see that you are authentic they will want trust you. Unfortunately, there are too many con artists who can get into any organization. So I’m done.
@moonchildmari
@moonchildmari 3 жыл бұрын
Good day, Dr. Grande! Happy to be here so early 😸
@sue487
@sue487 3 жыл бұрын
Can you discuss the case of 10 year old Robert Thompson and Jon Venables who lure and killed 2 year James Patrick Bulger, I was always wondering what would bring children to want to kidnapped torture and kill a toddler listening to there confessions tapes was so crazy to me and also how there where barely punish at the center they where sent to in fear it Willard them worse as adult
@betterbee1304
@betterbee1304 3 жыл бұрын
"as always, I hope you found this topic to be enlightening, thanks for watching" 🤣🤣🤣 love the puns
@deemariedubois4916
@deemariedubois4916 3 жыл бұрын
I try to understand people joining cults but I admit it’s difficult for me. Maybe it’s because I’m not a joiner. Never have been but I also hear the words of whatever group, whoever is talking, whether religious, political, or new wave, and think, what BS. The first time it dawned on me an adult was telling me BS and just expected me to accept it because he was a Preacher, I was 13 years old. I knew he didn’t know the answer. Just saying I don’t know might have given me a different life perspective. I’m glad he gave me a BS response.
@JP-wx6uh
@JP-wx6uh 3 жыл бұрын
Ray seems like a real genius. Associate degree and he understands quantum physics. Oh and he seems like a real "safety first" kind of person.
@lc4011
@lc4011 2 жыл бұрын
I am a Lakota from a tribe in South Dakota where the Inipi (sweat lodge) originates. We teach that at ANY TIME during the ceremony ANY PARTICIPANT can say "Mitakuye Oyasin" (All My Relations) and the ceremony will temporarily stop, the door man must open the door, and the participant is allowed to leave, no questions asked, no harassment, no teasing, no negative connotations are imputed whatsoever. This guy was WAY out of line.
@wildbillslunksauce7621
@wildbillslunksauce7621 3 жыл бұрын
The psychology of Darth Vader would be a great topic for a future video!
@tgs5725
@tgs5725 3 жыл бұрын
Ooo we need a video talking about both Anakin during episode 3 and Vader during episode 6! Since those are when he goes through his major transformations
@wmdkitty
@wmdkitty 3 жыл бұрын
That'd be a fun one!
@vickikay25
@vickikay25 3 жыл бұрын
I feel so sad that people lost their lives because they were seeking "success". Everyone knows in their heart that there are no "shortcuts" , but it's just so tempting to b
@vickikay25
@vickikay25 3 жыл бұрын
Believe in these criminal con artists and they are criminals. This ole boy should have been locked up for a hell of a long time.
@PrincipledUncertainty
@PrincipledUncertainty 3 жыл бұрын
When will Oprah ever face consequences for promoting a long series of grifters to her gullible audience? She has done immense damage to a lot of vulnerable people, indirectly, yet seems to be immune to criticism.
@josephramone5805
@josephramone5805 Жыл бұрын
She's part of the Liberal Hollywood cult. She's well-protected from any harm.
@Shottie78
@Shottie78 3 жыл бұрын
Dr. Grande, I love your content, I watch it a LOT. Your voice is so soothing, I think you should read sleep stories as your next KZfaq gig.
@sammyandoliver7522
@sammyandoliver7522 2 жыл бұрын
Yes his voice would be good for sleep stories but not for trying to pay attention to his videos. It's too monotone.
@carmelhughesparolya899
@carmelhughesparolya899 3 жыл бұрын
I always thought ‘The Secret’ was a pile of 🐂 💩, thanks Dr. Grande, really enjoyed this one 💗❤️
@zenawarrior7442
@zenawarrior7442 3 жыл бұрын
I agree. Really enjoyed this one too!!😁🥳❣💯💫
@eetadakimasu
@eetadakimasu Жыл бұрын
I'm from Oklahoma and I swear, People from Oklahoma are so eager to follow anyone who got famous and is from there! Thank you for calling this guy out!
@bertrandlechat4330
@bertrandlechat4330 3 жыл бұрын
This was told to me many years ago as an old Persian proverb, but i cannot vouch for its provenance: he who knows not, and knows not that he knows not is a fool. Shun him. He who knows not and knows that he knows not is a child. Teach him. He who knows and knows not that he knows is asleep. Waken him. But he who knows, and knows that he knows is wise. Follow him.
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