@Getitgirl816 4 жыл бұрын
That was one of the things my Great-grandmother taught my Mother and she taught me, NEVER TELL A MAN ALL YOUR BUSINESS BECAUSE HE WILL NOT TELL YOU ALL OF HIS. Great-grandma was a Master Teacher!
@fngm48 4 жыл бұрын
Realest ish ever!!
@michelleapple1214 4 жыл бұрын
and they will throw it back up in your face..trust me.
@lindawaweru74 4 жыл бұрын
Truth
@presidentialsuite6406 4 жыл бұрын
I agree with all of you 1000%
@nattieboo9683 4 жыл бұрын
Or They Will Use It Against You In The End 🤦
@MsElaine0035 3 жыл бұрын
Mouth closed, legs closed, make standards and stick to them! I'm learning Tony.
@Raminakai 2 жыл бұрын
That’s right - and why we need the strength of the Holy Spirit to keep us from caving in- we can’t keep up the standard without Divine Help!
@borababie9364 4 жыл бұрын
theres a "psychology trick" that says that if u ask a question a person will tell u their answer, but after they say it, you stare in silence long enough without reacting & they'll keep on talking until they spill all the beans. sometimes that's how u gotta interact with ppl. keep it cute & don't spill too much, and eventually the man u dating will tell u everything u need to hear.
@Wachera 3 жыл бұрын
I’m gonna start doing this
@user-zx5xw4yw2e 3 жыл бұрын
@@dangdeionn Don't count on it. These guys have game and lies for days. As u stare in silence they'll just tell ya more lies, that's all.
@Armondboyy 3 жыл бұрын
This is so true
@smarke76 3 жыл бұрын
Come on now. Y'all be knowing. My grandparents always told me that it wasn't a such thing as a good person being with a bad person for long. Both people are bad 100% of the time. It's just that one or both parties will play the victim. 🤷🏿♂️
@TotiaunahRanzy 3 жыл бұрын
It's true I do it and don't even realize and when I tell you men I date tell me everything plus some lol I just listen, nod and take notes🤣
@Th3lite 4 жыл бұрын
I’m about to start practicing the art of silence, then I’m going to practice being a mystery. Then I’m going to work on myself so I’m not so available. I’m going to become a super listener. I’m holding “the gold” for the prize.
@cringeproof100 2 жыл бұрын
I love this comment! I hope you're doing well sis!
@luash5073 4 жыл бұрын
When you’re quiet, the guy will eventually tell on himself.
@DanielleGillmoreJohnson 4 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY!!
@ImNaturallyFabulous 4 жыл бұрын
Every time!💯
@keychabudgets 4 жыл бұрын
Lu Ash AMEN!!!!
@annettesolomon1347 4 жыл бұрын
He always does
@cubbiesmith4505 4 жыл бұрын
Yes. Please don't tell me about any females you claim did you wrong red flag he's a list trying to get over being sensitive if you talk down about a female then what was the reasons the five you tricked with kicked you to the curbside pickup with the trash dumpster.
@DynamicallyDC 4 жыл бұрын
"A man falls in love when you let him do the work." Let him work for your heart, stop revealing all your business. Let your past work for you and not be used against you!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽
@jackseve 4 жыл бұрын
🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤
@ladennayoung2939 4 жыл бұрын
This is a good comment. God bless you. Enjoy your evening.
@DynamicallyDC 4 жыл бұрын
@@ladennayoung2939 Thank you & many blessings to you too!!
@patwilson1257 4 жыл бұрын
Very sound advice. Thanks, this is what I need right now.
@altheahenry9257 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly, I no longer tell a guy what am looking for in a man I just watch and wait. Actions speak louder than words.
@dshon2234 4 жыл бұрын
Men do judge...My husband tried me on our 2nd date, that wasn't happening and a month after we married he told me if I had he wouldn't have married me, nor spoke to me again. 3 months into our relationship he asked me to marry him....15 years of marriage
@fruitfulone7993 3 жыл бұрын
So you slept with him on the 3rd or 4th😏?
@seraysese2995 3 жыл бұрын
@@fruitfulone7993 lol
@sibymathew7859 3 жыл бұрын
Hmm
@julieevans3110 6 ай бұрын
Who Cares, he proposed within 3 months! 😄
@gwendolynrobinson3725 4 жыл бұрын
It takes to much energy to deal with these so called men creatures. I'm starting to realize it's more important things to worry about. I just do my best and let God do the rest.
@queenpisces9741 22 күн бұрын
@@gwendolynrobinson3725 ‼️‼️
@sehkanchance5360 4 жыл бұрын
I do not tell my man about you because everything you share and tell me is my WEAPON TO HELP ME, you hear me!!
@trsarahkwikiriza9828 4 жыл бұрын
You are correct 😉
@acienagolden30 4 жыл бұрын
This the one !!
@EduardoOliveira-zx9ju 4 жыл бұрын
I can see your browsing history Sehkan. I want a divorce!
@kimmie5626 4 жыл бұрын
Funny
@foxywhitetip7387 4 жыл бұрын
You can’t tell them everything .
@justbeingme-83 4 жыл бұрын
I no longer have 3 brothers. I now have 4 and Tony is the fourth one! Thanks for dropping these gems. You are truly a fresh breath of air. 😄
@kimberlyrene2757 3 жыл бұрын
I learned this a while ago and after 13 years of being single, when I began dating again and met my current boyfriend, the first thing I asked him was if we we were gonna date exclusively or dating others people while getting to know each other. (although I never dated other guys) LOL This was my way of letting him know that I was aware of some of the male mindset & that the playing field was gonna be level. His response was no, he was just trying to get to know ME! I never told him what I was looking for in a man, I let him figure it out but this was only after learning the hard way through other dating experiences. Then I watched his behavior. We're still together 3 years later. We don't have to do what men do , we just need to call them on to their stuff. Ladies always maintain your dignity. Thanks Tony!👍🏾
@perfectDOE Жыл бұрын
😂
@susanmadison6466 3 жыл бұрын
And never tell a man about your vulnerabilities....in my grandmother's words....never give anyone a stick to break your back.
@MyCrownstar 4 жыл бұрын
Tony, you’ve mentioned a few times that woman shouldn’t do online dating. Would you please make a video on this. Ladies, please thumbs up this request so Tony see this. 🙏
@AM-eu6qc 4 жыл бұрын
Tony already has 2 videos on his channel about online dating. Just wanted to let you know, ive watched them several times myself.
@adabekeethefirst8705 4 жыл бұрын
A M what’s their titles please?
@tammaramencias495 4 жыл бұрын
@@adabekeethefirst8705 just type his name + online dating
@MyCrownstar 4 жыл бұрын
Pls provide titles please. I haven’t seen. Thanks
@AM-eu6qc 4 жыл бұрын
@@adabekeethefirst8705 The truth about online dating
@haquino 4 жыл бұрын
Me cringing at all the mistakes I’m doing 😫
@cedtriciasgymjourney9614 4 жыл бұрын
Harriet Aquino it’s all good. Bro helping us 💪🏾
@CeeceeH1819 4 жыл бұрын
At least u recognise the mistakes, so u learning
@sheryllynrivera6391 4 жыл бұрын
Lmao!! Ditto! Same here girl. Man I wear my heart on my sleeve, been told that several times by the guy I like.
@haquino 4 жыл бұрын
Sheryl'Lyn Rivera yes, I do too. Something I need to work on now. Haha never realized that wasn’t a good thing
@RT-gu3kc 4 жыл бұрын
Wake up before it's too late!!
@huyana-takoda 4 жыл бұрын
This makes a lot of sense. I have spent the past two decades telling men my life story.. & it's never worked in a positive way.. so I need to do more listening. And I'm glad that I can say that I've never had casual sex.. never have, never will. I also never agree to meet a guy for a date straight up.. I always wait three weeks after starting to talk on the phone, because in those three weeks, they ALWAYS show their true colours.. & then I haven't wasted my time meeting up with a jerk.
@mscustomerservice 11 ай бұрын
“…3 weeks of talking before going on a date”…Great advice. Thanks for sharing!
@catherinekisumba 4 жыл бұрын
Honestly, I’ve made these mistakes so much because I didn’t know I was worth better. The Holy Spirit is a great teacher and comforter I’ve noticed these exact habitual patterns, so thank you Tony! Thank you for all your videos my goodness, the need to experience love shouldn’t be greater than honouring yourself as a woman. Purity is the standard.
@blackhalfpint1608 4 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣 I also tell my friends to stop telling men why your last relationship didn't work out even if your ex was no good.Let that man" think" he was a good man so he will not start off slacking in certain areas.
@clarkclarke 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly...just like you don't go on a job interview and tell them all the negative things that happened on that last job...
@Jaz-px5pr 4 жыл бұрын
Right like if you tell a man you never had a Valentine's, he will do the bare minimum and give the basic bear candy and flower gift
@blackhalfpint1608 4 жыл бұрын
@@Jaz-px5pr Yes that's what I'm talking about. I believe when we start dating our behavior and our words can send the wrong message if we are not careful. So if a man know you accepted your past man with all his foul behavior he may feel he can get away with it too. Women go into too many details about the failed relationship just tell the man it didn't work out period. Let that man believe your relationship was good. I tell my friends keep your ears open, legs closed and mouth shut.
@fiona1407 4 жыл бұрын
Haha
@amberlagore1095 4 жыл бұрын
Big facts!!!
@stilldmp7891 4 жыл бұрын
God will deliver to you what’s for you ‼️
@Ms.Jamieh297 4 жыл бұрын
Yasss... He will🙏✔💯👏
@erica-marie 4 жыл бұрын
Amen
@PriyankaGupta-ew1li 3 жыл бұрын
😩😩
@mabotho8282 4 жыл бұрын
Please talk about the importance of singleness, too often when you're living a single life you get into pressure and make quick decisions about getting into marraige just because you fall into pressure etc. Its great to be single and a time to love yourself. Singleness is best! Let's also promote it and not let people rush into things.
@mkb5984 4 жыл бұрын
Agreed. I've even had to slow down in my current dating life because i'm working on some important life goals.
@Rigoletta53 2 жыл бұрын
I’m not looking for a “relationship” & certainly not marriage! I want respect, I want quality time.
@rmbunton8092 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Tony for saying that - DO NOT TELL ALL YOUR BUSINESS!
@natashaoliveira5941 4 жыл бұрын
Tony is a low key comedian. I love the boxing analogy 😂
@sscott504 4 жыл бұрын
Nail on the head!
@leilahadams5560 4 жыл бұрын
Love that about him. And all the jargon.
@personaldiva6813 4 жыл бұрын
Tony is a comedian 😅
@nikkirowland 4 жыл бұрын
Yess!!
@mmommo2025 4 жыл бұрын
"at age 22, [he] had more miles than a 67 chevy"
@Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect 4 жыл бұрын
'You're the reason why the caged bird sings" LMFAOOOOOOOO I am totally guilty of being too honest and not knowing how to swerve around answering certain personal questions. You're the 3rd man I have known who advised against giving out too much information and it's the truth. The guys I let talk more than myself always lasted the longest in my life. Keeping my mouth and legs SHUT.
@gabrielarodriguez2434 4 жыл бұрын
Omg he’s so funny the way he’ll say things keeps me entertained.
@sylviasylvia8551 4 жыл бұрын
Yes, totally agree. When I thought I was being a 'real lady with respect' and being honest 'those gentlemen' were not being honest. It took me some time to understand most males (in general) are not honest and very selfish with their 'truths'.
@Metaphysicalmindspace777 4 жыл бұрын
Ms. Perfectly Imperfect we’ve all learned from those young years that women talk waaaayyy too much. Men have mastered sharing only certain things.
@Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect 4 жыл бұрын
@@Metaphysicalmindspace777 yup, they are masters of omission. I'm following suit because they like mystery and it's hurtful to have your business used against you.
@nikkyshamz2696 4 жыл бұрын
👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽💯💯💯
@stef9229 3 жыл бұрын
FACTS I'm naturally quiet/introvert but also an extrovert lol but I am extremely observant and the less I say...men are anxious because they say I am ambiguous and they dont know what is next. Lol I have also been told 'oh u dont talk much' so that means to them I'm compliant and easygoing. When I'm really squaring you up and getting so much information I just hmm and ahh and say oh really, oh is it lol my favourite words.
@asiamonna5289 4 жыл бұрын
I like this man and his wife they are a blessing😂🤦🏽♀️🥰🙌🏾💯
@earthlover4real448 3 жыл бұрын
💯
@sandrajones6605 2 жыл бұрын
He is a blessing telling us woman the truth.God Bless u.
@flawcoaching 4 жыл бұрын
This video is worth watching several times. You must watch this one to the end. Powerful words, "Turn Your Pain into Purpose." A relationship with God is so important. God said put him first and all other things will be added to you. Seek him, get healed, and then think about dating... or not! Thanks Tony.
@talicialee 4 жыл бұрын
This goes for friendship's too. I asked God why I was always running into the same friendships with women that tell your business or use it against you and the Lord plainly revealed that one of the reasons was telling people my business too fast & telling too much. I feel that God tell us to communicate with him without ceasing because only he can answer, handle our problems, & give us the best advice. Humans will play on you when it comes to the information you tell them.
@nikkisherwin1088 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I got the same revelation
@marshaholmes8412 4 жыл бұрын
THIS is a word!
@saforniajohnson1676 4 жыл бұрын
True
@calashibryant295 4 жыл бұрын
Amen!!!!!
@venda1008 4 жыл бұрын
I have learnt to move in silence and stop telling people my business ,being to open makes people know ur weakness easily and it will definitely be used against u
@InTheRecoveryRoom 4 жыл бұрын
( lean in ) -“He doesn’t know you “..... “ that’s not your friend”- I HOLLERED !!! ... not at the topic but at the emphasis.. Gullible, naive, frustrated, insecure, trauma -- is what he hears because HES NOT YOUR FRIEND
@m.a6797 3 жыл бұрын
I’m crying too 😭😭😂😂
@lovelight2919 4 жыл бұрын
LADIES! We are the GATE. Just keep it locked 🔒
@jnt6928 3 жыл бұрын
YESSS!!! Very well said! We need to start a petition or something off this. Keep the gates closed!
@Silvia-jy8zc 3 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@andrewevans7992 3 ай бұрын
Ya but theres so many single moms 😂😂😂
@angelicaangel2624 4 жыл бұрын
A masters in medical science? That and being a wife and mother altogether is an amazing accomplishment. Mrs.Gaskins is an inspiration to women everywhere ☺. You two are just the bomb. Many blessings.
@dadecountess8 4 жыл бұрын
“So many women choking on microphones “. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣that has to be the best metaphor ever . So true tony !!
@bre_s9164 4 жыл бұрын
😂🤣
@jackseve 4 жыл бұрын
🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤
@ladennayoung2939 4 жыл бұрын
That is related to the Jill Scott video.
@nameless7550 4 жыл бұрын
I thought I heard it in that movie Best Man Holiday. No matter still funny.
@womanofgod2948 4 жыл бұрын
Sis....forgive me...what is choking on the microphone???? I'm from the Caribbean. 😮
@Themostmercifulrabb 3 жыл бұрын
This education is priceless! Healing so many woman, tony ! Thank you 🦋💯
@jackiek4159 4 жыл бұрын
Amen to this! Never tell all of your business to a man, let him do the work for you and level up from your past and past mistakes! 🙏🏻🙌🏻
@gorgeousmone6151 4 жыл бұрын
In so many words... it’s called being MYSTERIOUS!! 💋I’m living and learning!!
@strictlyfortherating 4 жыл бұрын
Tony’s “girl voice” cracks me up but message received.
@CreativeJourneys036 4 жыл бұрын
That voice is better than SIRI and ALEXA combined !!! -
@denisegladden-peters4435 4 жыл бұрын
Yup 🤣
@keychabudgets 4 жыл бұрын
Wellllllllll... 🤣🤣
@angellg25 4 жыл бұрын
I live for it😂😂😂😂😂
@Kemly_ 4 жыл бұрын
Facts 😂😂
@msvalderrama1 3 жыл бұрын
I am a gay men in a great relationship that has lasted nearly 13 years now. Some of what Tony says applies to the mindset I had when I was single for (what felt like) an eternity. I constantly revisit this video (some other TG videos too) because it's so funny. I have also had a lot of female friends and relatives who have made the mistakes that Tony tries to help prevent. I would really like to share this with a few women who would probably learn a lot from these videos (more so if they apply the advice) but I don't want them to get mad at me since, "a hit dog holler." I know they have repeatedly allowed sex to become easy to get from them. Let's be honest: if a woman is already giving up the sex, she is not going to stop giving the same man the sex. If anything, she might get angry and self-conscious when she realizes that giving up the sex has not resulted in marriage--the healthy monogamous type. Earlier generations of women appeared to understand that if you behave like a wife--but without the ring and commitment--he will probably move on and make some bs claim about needing a break or space. Contrary to the feminist message, women are better off making the man wait A LONG time.
@nzingahoney Жыл бұрын
They told us we are equal to men, and they told us not to play games and manipulate with sex. So we put out. Well, not anymore!
@la6136 10 ай бұрын
I love listening to gay men talk about these things because they say the truth that straight men will not tell women!
@ladyburton7085 4 жыл бұрын
The trauma in me needed to hear that one free message and it helped. Thank you
@vernita0216 3 жыл бұрын
God bless you sista!
@shellyd38 4 жыл бұрын
I judge a man if he tries to sleep with me too fast.. I judge a man if he tries to probe too deep.. And honestly.. I judge a man by his initial response and conversation..
@mejustbeingme1207 3 жыл бұрын
Check all. This is me. I can read a man very easy.
@agirlwholovesgod1645 3 жыл бұрын
@@mejustbeingme1207 what if he’s being too eager? I’m about to be 17 and I don’t want to get into the dating stuff until I learn more about guys
@mejustbeingme1207 3 жыл бұрын
@@agirlwholovesgod1645 hopefully he's your age or only 1 year older than you. If he is older than 18 please stay away from him. Dont ruin your young life and get pregnant or abused. You are only 16 just chill. But ya continue to watch these vids to have an early start on game. As for the young man tell him to wait if he acts like he can't wait then he's impatient and only wants sex. Period. Men or young boys that act like they can't respect your request STAY THE HELL AWAY FROM THEM ... They can be abusive emotionally, mentally or physically
@ericacrayton8615 3 жыл бұрын
@@agirlwholovesgod1645 i think that's a wise decision wait..
@Video23280 3 жыл бұрын
@@agirlwholovesgod1645 me too lol
@shaneekaraybe4919 4 жыл бұрын
There are levels to a relationship. Trust and respect must be earned!!!!. Let time pass before certain details are revealed because not all men are truly and deeply interested in you.
@justbu3797 3 жыл бұрын
Bingo
@jem5750 3 жыл бұрын
Men definately judge women and make grand assumptions based on how we do things with them. My spouse and i were intimate before marriage and i got pregnant, he felt like if i was sleeping with him that way, i could do the same with another guy, and he made me get a DNA test. I never really gave him any induction that i was a sleep around or a serial dater even...except for the fact that I had done it with him. Men see things in black and white, it doesn't matter how good of a girl or woman you are when you meet them, they will assume that they must not be the only one enjoying. (Which could be an indication that they dont even see themselves as a catch, just getting what they can.) Lol Women will know the worst and overlook it, underestimating the guys ability to be the worst.
@Zolaandwele 3 жыл бұрын
😩He said, “ you went on one date and now you’re a relationship coach for your friend who is single and stressed out” 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@katrinadodd9015 4 жыл бұрын
I'm dying. I can't. Tony just spoke in fake tounges. 😂🤣😁He is so hilarious. Thank you for the knowledge Tony. Be Blessed!
@mntw6062 4 жыл бұрын
Katrina Dodd “sharrrrrrondo!” Lol 😝
@ulricka2131 4 жыл бұрын
Comedy is his hidden talent for real. So funny yet very honest😁😁
@adreneblake5570 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂🤣
@Wealthybaby 4 жыл бұрын
I know dudes be mad with TONY 😂😂😂 they game weak already, but now the naive women finally listening
@nikkyshamz2696 4 жыл бұрын
Facts 💯💯💯
@nikkyshamz2696 4 жыл бұрын
They will be forced to come correct.
@ghisellesimon162 4 жыл бұрын
I wrote for you at the top concerning a comment you made a woman was desperate girl this is KZfaq if anything no woman is better than anyone we all got played at one time in our life’s and if you haven’t it will be your turn humble yourself yourself because a real woman would have picked anyone who made that comment and spoke with respect to that lady . We all been a fool don’t come on KZfaq or social media and say that can never and that’s will never bevause even tony has Said it y’all come here and say that will never and that has happened this KZfaq. Don’t get a little knowledge and act better than anyone because you have your days we all had and we wisen up I hate woman like that
@miriamjackowitz2800 4 жыл бұрын
Ditto
@katc6812 4 жыл бұрын
He has real fortitude. He's a rare breed
@cheekscheeks5840 4 жыл бұрын
My past is my past but some men want to know all your business n hush on their business 🤔 to use against u down the road smh . Tell NOTHING just listen
@AllEyezOnMeTMC 3 жыл бұрын
You are so real and hilarious!! I needed my father, uncles, brother, and cousins to give me the jewels you drop in your videos. THANK YOU!!
@clancyfreeman5668 4 жыл бұрын
Sometimes WE learn the hard way, but WE do learn...so Preach!!
@keychabudgets 4 жыл бұрын
Tonyyyyyyyy! My Mama used to say a man and a woman can do the same thing last night but that man will wake up smelling like roses and a woman WILL NOT! Be blessed!!!!
@childofgodskingdom8403 3 жыл бұрын
My GOD that hit differently.. I don't know why your likes and comments ain't on swole. I Super agree, that's why us ladies can't do what a man do. Point blank!
@syneetrawilliams3165 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your presentation encouraging women to refrain from talking too much. In my distant past, I have been guilty of that very thing. I learned that it is much better to be an active listener. I met a nice man who does most of the talking, and it is rather refreshing for a man to share so many wonderful things about himself. I am looking forward to getting to know him better.
@shesvirtuous Жыл бұрын
Same here
@SermonsSubtitled 4 жыл бұрын
The question is, why do we women even seek/need the approval from loose men that we are not loose like them? We fear rejection from someone who judges us on a higher standard than himself. He can have had 1000s of one-night-stands, yet he looks down on her even if he's her FIRST one-night-stand
@simplybeautiful9885 3 жыл бұрын
Yes Ms. Linda B!
@essiethebestie1 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly. The people who hold me to higher standards than themselves can't tell me ish about morality. As far as THEY are concerned, I'm better than them that's why they EXPECT better from me. So I will act accordingly and disregard validation from someone who is inferior to me.
@latanyar9377 2 жыл бұрын
I agree. It's scary how men can judge on the higher standard doesn't fear God and committing the same sexual sin and think that God only judges the women. If a man like that doesn't want me I will rejoice!
@valerie. 7 ай бұрын
and this is where princella comes in.
@valerie. 7 ай бұрын
and a man that would use the fact that you slpt with him after 1hour as a reason why you deserve XYZ. how comical.
@mollyheadley6031 4 жыл бұрын
You are a gift to the body of Christ. The Lord bless you
@nickbry7357 4 жыл бұрын
Amen
@patwilson1257 4 жыл бұрын
I sitting here listening to you talk about how a man will turn your abuse against you to get what they want. You are 100% RIGHT.
@roband2000 4 жыл бұрын
Yessss I've seen this happen and it is VERY traumatic. Be careful with sharing this info with others in general.
@Joythealchemist 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah I cut him off for that and don’t tell hi why
@elizabethschilling7178 4 жыл бұрын
Life is not fair!! Stay off your back!! So true. thank you brother for being our spiritual big brother and being honest, transparent, and real! We need this. I love the part of making him work for you.
@1.goodie 4 жыл бұрын
“eating peach cobbler and singing on microphones” take me out everytime 😂😂
@MsLovelylady32 Жыл бұрын
Listen this guy is funny... 🤣🤣
@Longliverey 4 жыл бұрын
Why Tony’s girl voice always start with “Ohhhhhh” 🤣🤣
@missmarymack3457 4 жыл бұрын
Reyaunna Williams lmaoooooo
@venda1008 4 жыл бұрын
True 😂😂😅
@keychabudgets 4 жыл бұрын
Always!!!!!!! 🤣🤣
@vchild 4 жыл бұрын
Sha nay Nay did that... LOL
@nikkyshamz2696 4 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂
@lizzylewis5793 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the confirmation!! Hallelujah! No matter what it look like God got me and He got somebody for me. Whom God puts together no man can put asunder. A thousand may fall at my right 10,000 at my left but no harm shall come to me. Ladies keep believing and have faith in the Almighty! God got you and God got someone made just for you! Be Blessed!❤🙏
@krissyaguilar1814 4 жыл бұрын
Yep I’m becoming more reserved now , nobody need to know my business 😌
@emilydavenport5121 3 жыл бұрын
I needed this video so bad. I knew I was bad at dating but damn I've been doing everything wrong 😭. You are the best Tony! Im definitely buying your books.
@Moonpiebye 4 жыл бұрын
Keep your class LADIES 💥
@sibel3795 4 жыл бұрын
I absolutely can not get enough of your videos, praise God for your word.. I don’t care how long your videos are because I could listen too you all day.. I’m learning from you every day 🙌 Thank you so much, God bless you and your family
@nickbry7357 4 жыл бұрын
Me either girl
@sis_yd_jesuschrist 4 ай бұрын
Tony's the big brother we never knew we needed. I have so much respect for you brother Tony. Your message brings so much healing ❤. God bless you and your family.
@LB-fc8pj 4 жыл бұрын
Your women impersonations have me crying laughing every single time! Lol 😂
@michellelogan9177 4 жыл бұрын
Listen ladies! I made the biggest mistake listening to this podcast while driving, Tony had me screaming at him 🤣😂🤣 this man is hilarious 😆
@mariadelagarza0928 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂🤣
@natashabrown41 4 жыл бұрын
You’re absolutely about a man losing respect for you when you have sex too soon it has definitely happened to me but you have to be honest with yourself to heal
@Morgan24_7 3 жыл бұрын
The part that kills me is...they act like they didn't sleep with you. It took 2.
@lucyphilips 4 жыл бұрын
Your my testimony. It's never too late to change for the good. Be blessed Tony.
@GodsChosen321 4 жыл бұрын
I appreciate how you deliver wisdom in with comedy but most of all in GRACE🙏🏾
@TeraChantelle 4 жыл бұрын
"ALL HE CARE ABOUT IS WHAT THAT MOUTH DO!!" LOL I'M IN TEARS!
@kelleybright3113 4 жыл бұрын
Kids lmao
@TeraChantelle 4 жыл бұрын
Kelly Brightness GOD BLESS EM’😂
@ferreroreshell9476 4 жыл бұрын
Fr I can't deal with Mr. Gaskins😂😂😂
@aisha_lovely 4 жыл бұрын
"I was just Basking in Beethoven" 🤣😂🤣😂 I gotta shut my mouth, I agree. It's hard when the chemistry is amazing and conversation is just flowing.
@shareewalls6032 4 жыл бұрын
He don’t care about your mind!! 😂😂🤣🤣🤣
@ketakool11 4 жыл бұрын
That's so true ..as soon as I start praying before I eat when were having dinner. All of a sudden the next time is see him He rocking Kirk Franklin 👀 naw brah been there done that smh
@karynoghogho9302 3 жыл бұрын
Dead🤣🤣🤣😂
@FB.2002 4 жыл бұрын
I keep bursting out laughing while walking around the store listening with my Bluetooth, I know they think I’m crazy😂🤣 You are so funny!!!
@aliciawoods8925 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 I kept busting out laughing at work and smiling super hard looking all crazy lol
@FB.2002 4 жыл бұрын
Alicia Woods I’mma listen again, I’m at work & it’s slow for now. It’s good information and entertaining at the same time.
@sreed1981sr 4 жыл бұрын
Tony Gaskin= My secret weapon🤐🔫💣💪🏾
@shonaellington211 4 жыл бұрын
Boom 👊
@bscnyc9948 4 жыл бұрын
l A Humbled MomBullseye!!!! gv me the skull pls! 😜💀☠️😝🙏🙏!!!
@trsarahkwikiriza9828 4 жыл бұрын
Me too...
@RealLadi228 4 жыл бұрын
Bang bang!!! 😆 lol
@dancewithdiana5006 Жыл бұрын
You have changed my life, my eyes are popping out my head every video, like damn, I did that and that, and no more. Thank u, since I changed my input, my output has been diff. The world is kinder to me as I am kinder to myself with respect and boundaries and faith! Literally changed my life❤ Thank u!
@aliciaash8681 Жыл бұрын
Tony!!! You’re hilarious! 😂 I love how you speak the truth and add humor. Thank you for the uplift 😊
@tbakes1371 4 жыл бұрын
This is why when I'm asked what I'm looking for or what's my love language....I do not answer! Because they will adapt and be whatever you said LOL🤦🏾♀️
@HelpingHandsProject 4 жыл бұрын
Lmao they sound like the rona... just mutating 😆😅
@ena__we4205 4 жыл бұрын
This makes so much sense.
@Joythealchemist 4 жыл бұрын
Jeanett E say gifts
@MaisyMimi 4 жыл бұрын
And what you liked with one person isn’t the same multiplied... every person is different and old tricks get boring. I like to learn and them to learn me over time and experiences 🤷🏻♀️
@hotmama3172 4 жыл бұрын
Im learning that
@millz3444 4 жыл бұрын
Nah real talk we ladies need to stop mentally investing in these men we be knowing for 24hrs... “Mant of Godt” 😭😂
@Dearest_Kenyetta 3 жыл бұрын
"What do dat mouf do, and what can you do on yo bayack?"- Tony Gaskins. This had me rollin'. This is wisdom!!!
@ashleynicole1028 3 жыл бұрын
Ok, so I usually don't comment unless I'm saying "Be Blessed", but I have to at this point. You hit a lot of good points (as usual) on this topic and I had a literal breakthrough. Mentally and physically (physical being crying). I thank you for your knowledge and being a vessel for God. other than the faith I have in God and love, you give me that courage to not give up. Be Blessed!
@marshaholmes8412 4 жыл бұрын
News flash!!! Most of those male relationship coaches ain't living the life they preach but YOU ARE TONY and you have evidence to back it up. There's a lot of people out here making money off of pandering to women's pain, rage and regret. The difference is Tony Gaskins is trying to set the captives free. Big difference! Be blessed!
@angelabowden5648 4 жыл бұрын
Set the captives free
@jenowens9990 4 жыл бұрын
I can’t wait for a guy to ask me “are you going on dates with other people?” So I can say “of course, aren’t you?” 🤣🤣🤣
@tiox174 4 жыл бұрын
Girl I did that and the dude asked me to be his girlfriend the next day 🤣
@katc6812 4 жыл бұрын
Um, the answer is of course. If he responds with AGRESSION. His services are no longer required, lol.
@8adassa 4 жыл бұрын
I just Hollered
@ak-47intelligence75 4 жыл бұрын
Some men will swear on their mothers graves you've got him wrong and you're the " only one" he has and try to make you the bad guy.
@missmarymack3457 4 жыл бұрын
Lol
@lisademure9372 4 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh..how dare that woman tell her date about Tony Gaskins...she really slap crazy.. tony is a hidden asset to women and she running off at the mouth gollee....
@travelwithjasmine 4 жыл бұрын
This is so true. I’ve been out with guys who thought I was churchy and was super spiritual on the date but eventually showed his true colors.
@beauphomasterpiece3795 4 жыл бұрын
Tony always have a disclaimer for us : Now listen I can’t talk that long 59 mins later Now listen, you hear me Lol 😂
@toriyt2714 4 жыл бұрын
BeauPho Masterpiece lmao true but I love it!!
@MissPrettySweetC 4 жыл бұрын
😂🤣
@byhisgrace9777 4 жыл бұрын
You hearrrrr meeeeeee hahahaha love it when he says that cuz we know he real serious
@ashleyrolle2214 4 жыл бұрын
Kml yes! I could listen to him alllll dayyyyy
@ravenpn4275 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@cardiac711 4 жыл бұрын
Stopped talking so much 😔. Got it. Be blessed.
@therights6794 4 жыл бұрын
LaT How it’s okay we’re all learning 🤗 the right one will listen to you all night, just take your time 😗
@sabrinawhitner3069 4 жыл бұрын
I have never laughed and "REWIND" laugh repeat so much in my life! I really enjoyed this and learned so much😃
@missyedwards55 4 жыл бұрын
Reminds me, met a guy, I thought he was the one, we went on 5 dates but 3 weeks later, he asks when are we going to have sex... He was like "sex is the foundation of love" 🤦.. Unfortunately for him ain't giving up my power and that hurt his ego
@RubyRoxxie 4 жыл бұрын
“Baskin in Beethoven” 🤣🤣🤣 that cracked me up!!!!! & YES!!! Say that!!! What God has for you, NO ONE can take away! Amen to that, Tony!!!! Be blessed. 🙏🏽
@Mksherm 4 жыл бұрын
Eating peach cobbler 😂😂😂😂 choking on microphones 😂😂😂 I cannot 🤣🤣🤣
@GoodGrief101 4 жыл бұрын
shermanmakayla I will NEVER look at peach cobbler the same.
@kelleybright3113 4 жыл бұрын
Quality
@lisascott1038 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@SharionB 4 жыл бұрын
I really hate that analogy. So disgusting.
@tanishastuart7925 4 жыл бұрын
Yes Tony , I love when you said , people say "I could care less" I love that you pointed out the difference between "I couldn't care less" because there is a difference.
@nzingahoney Жыл бұрын
me too i hate incorrect language like mosquitos singing in my ear
@bhmcommittee1826 3 жыл бұрын
Purchasing your first book in 3…2…1! Sherri just taught the truest lesson without even being in the video! Congratulations to you both. You both won!
@jeaninerichardson6668 4 жыл бұрын
I'm definitely the personification of being too honest and talking too much. Truth is Truth Help Jesus 😶🤐😊
@moniquem8581 4 жыл бұрын
My daddy told me the same thing about what men want.. let the truth continue to be told and believed.
@shaunoffrange8122 4 жыл бұрын
9 times out of 10 if her Dad was a decent man then she will want a decent man, but if she has a preference for a player type then 9 times out of 10 their Dad was a player. If he wasn't a player type then she was sexually imprinted by player types in her early relationships. Women are generally drawn to a man who possesses similar mental, psychological or physical characteristic of their Dad (or of the first few males they opened themselves up to sexually). It all depends on who IMPRINTS her first. The Dad provides the first mental, spiritual, psychological and emotional IMPRINT on his daughter(s). If this imprint is not wholesome and positive then once she opens herself up sexually she will be seriously imprinted by the first few guys she sleeps with and will for the rest of her life be drawn to that type of guy. This can be a positive or negative imprint. It's all in the type of relationship the woman has (or had) with their Dad that will go a long way in determining what kind of man she has a desire for. This is why some women will marry a decent man (but consider his selflessness, thoughtfulness and stability as being weak and boring), but will be drawn to and sexed on the low by the player. It's the reality of living in a world where men and women have choices.
@melaniemaldonado9281 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve done messed up way too many times 😵💫TONY I AM TAKING NOTES! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
@queenv2475 2 жыл бұрын
You are so HILARIOUS with some of your examples and stories and at the same time very inspirational, uplifting, and informative. Thank you so much for this message.
@sherrewebb1632 4 жыл бұрын
Tell the truth Tony!! Keep on speaking and teaching. I absolutley love it!
@marishalewis484 4 жыл бұрын
I knew the answer before you said it. We (women) talk too much! Lol! I been watching too many videos. Be blessed & Thank you!
@pamelaoviahon6604 4 жыл бұрын
Enjoying your REALNESS & your 'southern' accent!! 🤪🤪🤪 TY, Mr. Gaskins.
@shareewalls6032 4 жыл бұрын
I truly appreciate your videos, though I’m single and not dating EVERYTHING you address is just powerful!! Praise God for you sir!!🙏🏾🙏🏾
@AshBashOneOnly 4 жыл бұрын
That “Woman” voice takes me out everytime 🤣🤣🤣
@krhervey441 4 жыл бұрын
😆😂😂😂😂
@beauti2thecore 4 жыл бұрын
Fareal😂😂
@ravenpn4275 4 жыл бұрын
AshBashOneOnly 😂😂😂
@lesliethomas5088 4 жыл бұрын
AshBashOneOnly same here ! He is funny😂
@CaramelKissez 4 жыл бұрын
This was a lesson I learned in the early 20s. I wish I heard this in h.s. Everything mentioned was extremely powerful.
@CaramelKissez 4 жыл бұрын
Kiyana L0ve I use to hate the amount of things that use to happen. Now when I reflect it was the things that happened that grew my discernment and intuition stronger. I give it to God for my guidance, I didn’t have a human counseling during my times. 😊 thanks
@miriamescovar9786 Жыл бұрын
Tony. I don’t know why I am seeing this now. God has blessed you with so much wisdom. I appreciate your great advice and transparency 😊
@TaylorMCross 4 жыл бұрын
"stay off your bike" perIOD! You hear me? OhKayy! (love it! lol)
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