Too Much "Yes" | How to break the cycle of toddler overindulgence

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We all want our kids to be happy and we all hate tantrums.
But how much "yes" is good for them and when does appeasing to avoid tantrums start to damage our parent-child relationship? Weaving in lots of practical support and encouragement, Jess and Layne dig into why it feels impossible for some of us to stand up to our demanding little ones. We talk about ways our own childhoods affect our personalities and impact our parenting using examples that have come up recently in the community like:
What to do when a breastfeeding toddler is refusing to wean?
How to hold set limits and hold boundaries when I hate conflict?
How do I respond when my child scratches and bites me?
How to course correct when a child is showing signs of entitlement?
… and more! ☺️
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Пікірлер: 14

@Dana-mb1hd 14 күн бұрын

You 2 help me TREMENDOUSLY thank you both ❤ I feel less alone because of you 2

@TheJRen6 6 ай бұрын

I am having a very hard time as a toddler mom, doubting myself and just your calm voices made me feel SO supported. Thank you❤

@Cleoramarie 6 ай бұрын

Hi there! You should join our community at Very Good Mothers Club with Jess if you’re struggling! We are all toddler moms navigating together and we have multiple zoom calls a week!

@mylou1231 6 ай бұрын

Wow! Thank you so much for the image about decisions! I have 7,5 months twins who LOVE discovering and I want to be prepared 😍

@melphillips8121 6 ай бұрын

I loved your story in the beginning! I just finished watching the Crown and I said to my husband what an amazing lady the Queen was. I repeated your story to him and he thought it was such an amazing story as well. Thank you for sharing it! Also thank you for all the great podcasts !!!❤

@Dana-mb1hd 6 ай бұрын

As a mama to a toddler i feel lost some days… this was very helpful thank you both ❤❤

@Cleoramarie 6 ай бұрын

Hi Dana, we are all toddler moms at Very Good Mothers Club with Jess! We have multiple zoom calls a week where we talk through mothering toddlers! ❤

@tamara7008 6 ай бұрын

Such a good episode!! I loved the practical tips you two shared. I'm definitely saving this episode to refer back to ❤

@melodycottrell8914 6 ай бұрын

Thank you so much! This is super relevant for me right now and I'm grateful for everything you have shared ❤️

@savannahscott6965 6 ай бұрын

This was so good!!!!!

@jessicam8346 6 ай бұрын

And tips on night weaning as it's tough to be very direct with a drowsy barely conscious toddler? I feel like my little one is really understanding and easier to manage when awake, but in the middle of the night when we're both not in our right minds, it's very tough.