🚫STOP COMMENTING if you haven’t watched or finished the video. I 100% can tell when you do this so instead of looking like a fooI, STOP COMMENTING things like “we shouldn’t talk about this” cause that’s literally what I say in the whole video. STOP COMMENTING your petty opinions on who you think tops or bottoms cause it’s counterproductive and stupid. GOSH!!

Honestly i don't really care who is top or bottom, just seeing both happy, i think that's enough because their love is so pure and i really admire it 🥰🥰

In my opinion it has to be tae.. ,.. Jungkook gets extremely nervous in presence of tae... He even fails to make an eye contact with tae when tae looks at him directly.... U could see the same in the 2022vlive of jin hobi tae n kookie.... N tae is so possessive of kookie he looks almost possessed when kookie is busy with his 97 line

This is a subject that I just pondered and came to the same conclusion while watching a male taekook content creator. What we, as woman, find attractive about men in general are definitely not the same. As I watched the same content on his channel that I have 100x, I was conditioned to think the same general narrative.. But his approach was really not the same as the "Cutsie" or " look at our babies" or even "thirsty" kind of analyzing ...well from his straight to subtle approach , I concluded that what qualities men find attractive about themselves are projected into what they will seek in another man. I think curiosity and fascination about questions like who's on top is that we can't even attempt to wrap our heads around . How can we know what are the dynamics or subtle differences when they are behind closed doors .. Or about how these two can be so caring and gentle with each other yet retain their masculinity is mind blowingly so beautiful and pure! The feeling emanates out into the world and killing us - we are dead!! Lol No really- Love is love .. It genderless and all encompassing ... Taekook are a gift and lesson for humanity ... I will always love their energy💜💚

I don't have an opinion, I have a preference. There's a difference. I prefer top Tae, but in actuality I have no opinion since it's not my place to have one

I'm with you on this subject and why is it even a subject. I mean who cares what they do in their private lives. Do we want people asking us about our sexual preferences? I would think not! I love Taekook and really have never cared if they are top or bottom. Up to them not me..... 🤨

1. It does my Queer Heart proud to see how far you've come with your videos; and the fact that you're one of the few who will actually branch out on the topic of Queer identity and community. Thank you for that. 2. Thank you for reminding shippers that at the end of the day, TaeKook are REAL HUMAN BEINGS who deserve privacy and respect. We don't need to know their private business beyond what they're comfortable showing. 3. YES, say it! Toxic Masculinity and heteronormativity is still very out there and we need to slowly break away from that and realise humans are humans and what makes us happy, makes us happy. 4. There are quite a few K-Channels now that do broach this topic from a Korean perspective, so thanks for showing at least 1 of them.

I totally agree assuming and asking about positions is a little to much. Watching their interactions I just go with they are both equal in their relationship and that's how it should be.

Top TAE 😘 babe

I think taehyung'behavour towards jungkook is like top and that's why some people may say taehyung is top and if you pay attention to taehyung'personality he is not shy despite jungkook but at the same time jungkook'body , tattoos and abs looks like top and if you pay attention to taehyung'clothes he always wears colorful clothes but jungkook's clothes are always black . Jungkook likes doing exercises and taehyung doesn't like . I want to say that taekook are completely different that's why they are attractive to each other and for top or bottom I say jungkook is more top but taehyung is dominant one in relationships . at the end you are right it's their personal life and it's not our business, taekook are happy together and we should support them no matter what.

I loved this video. It was so informative without any sort of "preference propaganda" or subliminal messaging. A very frank & factual accumulation of all the realities that the LGBTQIA+ community have to face just cause most cis het women/men have never actually seen how queer relationships work outside movies, dramas or fanfics. I hope whoever sees the video learns to become more sensitive towards taekook as just their unique selves and the 🌈 community in general. Thank you for this. 🥺💜💚 As a side note, would love it if fans (mostly taekookers) stopped being so held up on JK's tattoos and piercings as a "confirmed" sign of his preferences in bed, calling him the paragon of masculinity just cause he likes dressing up in black. And vice-versa for Tae and his choice of colourful & soft tones of clothes. 🌝

Louder!!! Well said👏👏👏👏👏👏 I was hesitant to click on this video even if I watch all the others on your channel, but glad that I did and I loved it. Thankyou for addressing this topic as the way it should be💜

Yes it's Taeyung, even the members call him Kim Jungkook (JK). He also limps sometimes and we know why but most of the time i think they switch

I believe that their dynamics are showing they balanced for each other. From Tae, he's showing more feminine energy, while JK is more masculine. You simply can even see that dynamic from their behaviours, gestures and looks/ fashion style. To me, Tae looks like he's the bottom and JK is the top. Also, Tae is more sassy dominant and JK's showing more submissive traits. However. They can *switch* tho. Looks like they're balancing each other. They're really the definition of "a worthy opponent" for each other. A compatible counterpart. Power couple. That's the way I see it from my not so innocent and naive soul. Thanx for the video. 🐰🐯

when taehyung kisses jungkook's neck at the concert and jungkook is immediately embarrassed i think taehyung is on top🤭

Sooooo well done !! I really think this could blow someone’s mind and really enlighten them. I think most of us do have to break through with this understanding at some point, bc we aren’t born with it among the rest of our prejudiced/influenced ways of thinking. I definitely had my moment of oh yeah you shouldn’t ask ‘who’s the guy’ on tumblr years back and since I’ve made friends w a fair few gay men which I feel has grounded my perspective on gay male relationships quite well. Honestly I write fanfic and in it I pretty predominantly make tk switch bc I just see such a perfect dynamic for them in that - tae’s playful dominance but also his coy baby moments, like wanting his food made, says dominant to me for the most part, whether top or bottom !! And then jk certainly likes to serve and please, but all in all the top bottom thing is literally just a physical sensation you prefer. Dynamics are totally different. And even THEN we of course know shit and never will :) we don’t even know if they have any romantic sexual relationship between them at all.

I've always believed that Tae is Top and Jungkook is Bottom, but currently I don't know.

Thank you so much for this nuanced and well-researched video. Loved hearing your perspective! 👏

Btw this video is literally a MUST WATCH for every shipper, period. Thank you so much for making it!

Good job! Yeah people with experience do not ask any sort of questions. Because it just happens at the moment! whatever people at the moment! Asking is really rude.

Tae is definitely top. He speaks so manfully to Jk.

Just wanted to say thank you for this very informative video. I love Taehyung and Jungkook and I am sure they are life partners. I love watching their interactions and I am always in awe of their talents and looks. Whatever they do behind closed doors is none of my business, I just wish them neverending passion towards each other. Borahae. xoxo

Very informative😊👍I think RESPECT is the key in understanding ones gender or sexuality

Well done. It's nobody business but theirs. Just love them from afar and stay out of their personal/sexual lives. Let's just work on changing attitudes about what gender and sexual orientation truly is and why society needs to acknowledge it.

thank you for this amazing video.

THANK YOU! Like, can we please stop painting EVERYTHING with toxic masculinity (otherwise known as misogyny)!?! The whole idea of heteronormativity assumes that the female is less than the male; subservient, submissive, and just less powerful. That there is something shameful about being a female, or feminine. That two people cannot be truly equal in a relationship and that it's the woman's job to defer to the man. On a related note, it really makes me sad when I see "fans" get upset on behalf of our boys when their sexuality is called into question. 1. That's a real person they're talking about and they don't get to decide that everyone is straight just because its the "default". 2. Thinking that the guys need to be defended in that way implies that there is something wrong/bad/lesser with a person being anything other than cisgendered and straight. Like, please check your internal biases and tell me what would be so wrong about any of them wanting to have $ex with another man, or why it matters if one of them receives rather than gives. Tell me why that makes you uncomfortable or mad and then examine your internalized misogyny.

I absolutely loved this video. You are right about “top/bottom” thing in queer relationships, getting that kind of questions are very uncomfortable for us because it is a stereotype in het relationships… Thank you, as a part of lgbtq+ community and a taekooker I appreciate you talking about sensitive topics and spreading awareness about it.

For me, TAEHYUNG IS TOP✊🏻💜 Nowadays, Taehyung is more like a daddy material. Jungkook's always pouts when he needs attention and he's kinda cute when he is jealous. But when it comes to taehyung,his jealousy is dangerous and he is more dominant than jungkook. We can't define who is top and bottom by analysing thier bodytype. Anyways keep supporting Taekook ✊🏻💜💚

honestly loved your video 👏I noticed somethings... 1. I think they don't speak a lot about their intimate moments with their hyungs(when they tease the couple they rather act oblivious or get shy and stay quiet) but people think they will share these topics to the world when they come out, like seriously?? I saw come comments like "when they come out we'll ask them" just imagine their faces when they come across these questions from their supportive fans??they might share cute funny moments but NOT these stuffs they are and will be a private couple. 2. I love art and appreciate ffs and fan arts but some are really uncomfortable explicit yet segcy also. people should put them in their shoes and think about the feeling when they see their own explicit fan arts ... no hate just think (this is for a real assumed couple if it's reel then its disgusting for them) 3.my own life-people say I'm cute and tiny with my bf but when alone my baby boy calls me mommy he likes to be controlled and I control but I submit too we both have desires. these common theories doesn't fit in hetero relationship either then how does it fit in same relationship??people will understand only when they experience in their own lives. 4.body language experts says V is dom(leads the relationship) and tops often.I think V(likes to control but also to be manhandled) tops 75% and jk tops 25% cause both have desires.

Thank you for this. I love Taekook but would never consider their private life to be a subject of discussion. The way you show how different life is for the LGBTQAI+ community is great assuming their lives are the same as heterosexuals is just wrong. It shouldnt matter to us what their preferances are would we discuss a famous male/female couple like that? No I dont think so. They are our idols but they are also private people and deserve our respect as such. Anyway loving someone isnt just about s.x. passion can die down but a relationship built on many aspects of each other survives. I applaud you for talking about this x

La verdad es que no se como pueden preguntar cosas así.. me parece tan ilógico...soy mujer hetero y casada hace mas de 20 años y si me preguntan algún día algo como quien es el dominante en la intimidad de mi dormitorio o quien es el más pasivo..los mando a la mierd...como voy a preguntar a ninguna pareja algo así.. me parece tan inapropiado....me da igual de que genero sean..son una pareja y su intimidad..como a nadie le interesa "mis historias de dormitorio" a mi no me interesa la de los demás 🤷 🙃 es de locos que aún existan personas que hagan esas preguntas tan íntimas a nadie..

YAY A NEW VIDEO!!!

N I would like to add that it was entirely my opinion... I love em the way they are.... Apart from our opinions, it is their choice that is of sheer importance.... People should respect their privacy and should love their bond rather than their own opinions about em

I enjoyed your video ( I always enjoy your videos) and I share the same opinions as you… I believe it doesn’t matter it’s their private life to choose how they relate to one another behind closed doors and I believe they show equal reactions towards each other in the long run of both feminism and masculinity just at different times that suits them… top… bottom… really shouldn’t matter to anyone but that person at that time when it warrants it… keep up with your great videos 🥰

Hiiii I missed you, and your updates 😭😭💜

This is clearly the most accurate and informative video about this matter I ever seen around youtube. ÝKpop industry and their "reality show cameras everywhere " made us think as normal the fact we are intruders in this kpop idols private life , learning about his deepest secrets and life aspects as we have the right to know. Seriously their sexual life must be private as we expect ours to be. We know nothing about their preferences, so we are nobody to opine about what they likes in bed. Enjoy they careers and love them as beautiful people, but we need to learn respect....

just love how people watched this video and still missed the point lmao. The video states we shouldn't use harmful stereotypes to label these men. Yet y'all are in the comments saying "tae is like this so he definitely must be this" or " jungkook is like that so he definitely must be that" like just stop it. Having a preference for who tops or bottoms when reading fanfics is so much different from actually labeling these men (which a lot of y'all are doing in this comment section) its harmful and disrespectful because we can't just go around assuming peoples actual sexual preference since its their private life. Let's keep it fictional please.

First, I loved your video, thanks for do it I think that talk about the sexuality of someone is really complicated, but especially talking about LGBT+ community not just queer persons, because a lot of people can't understand that in fact being a top or a bottom isn't about a position and neither about being a woman or a man, It's more about a role in the relationship and every partner has them point of view, I can't speak for everybody or for every relationship but I think the almost everybody just want to live that bond, not define a role.

I fully agree with you!! Their intimate life should only matter to them, would you like which position is the one you like the most in bed? No one should care about that! 🤬🤬And for me Taekook is a beautiful love relationship consolidated over the years (or at least that's the theory I support) and although I understand that sex is part of any healthy relationship, it's a subject that only concerns him to 2 people... let's support the boys always giving them the privacy and respect they deserve!!💜💜💜

Thank you for this video, it is clever, informative and complete, I think you did a great job and it's obvious you gave it a lot of thought. I was actually a bit sick and tired about this endless topic : e.g. people asserting JK is the dominant one because he's often perceived as more masculine, or Tae being top because he's more prone to touch JK in front of the cameras... Like what happens in front of cameras would allow people to draw conclusions about their sex life, I mean, come on! I'm really happy you brought it up and I hope your vid will get many views and make a lot of people think twice about imposing on them heteronormative roles. They are two adult males, I guess they know what they like, it is completely private and we, as Taekookers, have to respect some boundaries. Since I really think Tae and JK are - very probably - life partners, I consider my attitude towards them to have nothing to do with shipping culture : support and respect is what they really need from Taekookers. You mentioned it briefly in the beginning of your video, and thank you for that too : fluidity is something that can (and should!) be expressed in a queer relationship (and questions like "who's the man?" shouldn't exist), but it is exactly the same in heterosexual relationships. All in all, these heteronormative social and sexual roles happen to be toxic for everyone. It is high time to break free from these stereotypes, in order to stop micro-agressions (to anyone, really) about intimate life and, perhaps most importantly, to be able to perform freely the gender one identifies with. Again, this performance doesn't have to be the same everyday, with everyone and in every situation. And that's perfectly fine. (I mention gender identity as a social performance, but understand it is really not reductive and doesn't negate individual subjective experience at all. on the contrary, it is a complex question that has been developed by the feminist author Judith Butler).

I was scared when I saw the title, lol. I was like "not you too". But then I watched the video and it was so inormative

I think what needs to be normalized is that it is 2 people (no matter sexuality, race, whatever) being in love. That is what needs to be normalized. Thank you so much for this video and I hope that people have learned a thing or 2 in just letting people be happy with who they are, and not what society thinks is right or wrong. I think that Taekook is something beautiful, and if they are happy I will always support them. That goes for anyone, if you are happy being who you are, you 100% have my support. Can be a family member, a stranger, doesn’t matter. You are amazing, and thank you again for sharing your opinion 💜😊

Can I just say, yes? A big fat YES. Because when I go to read fan fictions and see the way fanfic writers feminise either Tae or Kook I am severely concerned and immediately have to close the story, like why do you need to make this hetero? Like they're literally men. I don't mind if it's a story where they explicitly explore different gender identities through Taekook (eg transitioning) because these stories don't seem to be written with the forceful intent of seeing Tae or Kook in a hetero relationship, but rather the sweetness Taekook still have regardless of what they go through together. In that sense, I also respect that we don't know enough about Taekook to know whether or not they identify as cisgender. So thank you for putting this beautiful video together, I think it's so important that people see this, regardless of if they're Taekook fans or not.

Good job !!!

A true and beautiful love doesn't have to do with who's top or bottom. Both could be a top or a bottom. The reason why they remain strong is because they've mastered to downplay the role.... meaning the importance is not in the role but in the give and take process of fullfilling their fantasies. Enough said.

Wow. Really learned a lot from this video. Also, it's good to hear your voice again 💕💕 miss you

Yup I totally agree. Personally I never cared about who's bottom or who's top. I just feel happy whenever I see them together. I have some taekook friends and they sometimes ask me, "who do you think is top? Or who's bottom?" This question always makes me frown, like i dunno why people care about that. I just answer "i don't care" And truth to be told, we should not care about their personal life, we have no right to do so. It's their lives, they'll decide how they want to live it

Taehyung is top and no one gonna change my mind

Whether Tae is on top or bottom he need to be respect as a human being..... I love V among them.. Sorry

A person can appear to be very confident and dominant within their daily life so much so you wouldn't even argue with them but be the total opposite in the bedroom and vice versa. It really isn't anyone's business what goes down in anyone's bedroom unless they want to tell it. I think you have raised an important issue in the sense that are showing that the stereotypes are outdated and people need to think more carefully on how they speak.

I understand what you meant and yes it's really uncomfortable to see how some fan arts cross lines and some videos too , no matter who's top or bottom it's their life , they can be switch, because as a bisexual person who has a girlfriend, and I can confirm that most people in same gender relationship are mostly likely to be switch not just top or bottom.

Trixie and Katya example is everything. Love them so much!

No joke, every Kpop shipper whether it’s WLW or MLM needs to watch this cuz not only is it good to apply this to Taekook, but it should be the standard for other ships as well. For too long people have done this and frankly it’s annoying. And I thank you for calling attention to it in fun way. Thanks for another great video and for all the clips of Tk being absolute kings. Yes KINGS, not QUEENS. That’s also another thing pls don’t refer to them as woman they are not women, they don’t want to be referred to as a woman, just don’t do that, it’s icky (unless they themselves say otherwise later). I’m sure most of you wouldn’t want to misgender someone who’s trans or enby so don’t do it with someone who’s cis either. Practice with people you don’t know so you can be ready for people irl. 💜💚 And on another note someone pls burn all the 18+ shipping fanart in a fire I swear- I cannot find my cute chibi TK stuff without running into them doing the dirty, ON SAFE-SEARCH. Can we pls do something about this ;-;.

Thank you so much for letting me know all this. For opening my eyes. I was in the wrong. Love you ❤

🍑Remember not because I posted the video it means that I’m 100% right and that there’s no room for improvement… if you have ANY input on the matter, feel free to comment it here🤍 ily and take careee Hiii! Sooo, I was feeling really nervous about posting this video but I decided to not care if people misinterpret my message… tysm to Siri for helping me with the script and ty to Tanya and Geraldine for helping me feel more at ease about posting this video, ily guysss🥺🥺🤍🤍🤍

I'm absolutely agree with you. No one should be judged or questioned like this. Only a shame gender couple know how does it work on bed. So yeah, thanks for clearing some of the misconception that many Taekookers have... 💜💜💜💜

I mind less about what you said, and focus more on this clips are amazing 🤭

Respect is key ...n we should do this

No matter who is in top. Taekook should stay together happy and forever. Their love is sooo eternal. Taekook forever 💜

Applause. That's all I need to say, applause for this video

Hi hon, so glad you're alright! Well the drag queens were enlightening lol!! Such a good video as always, Borahae!! 🥰🤗💚💜

They’re versatile kings! 😌

Thank you for this, please can you kindly complete your time line videos. I really miss them. 💜💚💜💚

Iam glad I saw this video for ones someone talking about important topics as long has we keep it respectful for me top or bottom i don’t personally care I mean in the comments hear if your married or have a boyfriend I don’t think you go around talking about what happens in the bedroom I know I don’t lol we can have opinions has long has we respect them they are two beautiful grown men there private life is just that the video is very tasteful and well done thankyou to me they seem very happy lately I wish them all the best in this world

Tae bottom is jeon top😍

Thank you. This was needed and many fans, including Taekookers need to draw boundaries and respect choices and privacy.

I love how you are showing both sides of them in this video. Their duality is incredible. Also it’s really good and necessary to talk on the subject, to bring up awareness of respecting boundaries. But my question is, could you please tell me the name of the song and the show at 13:14? 🙏🏻 Been trying to find full video, but without any luck so far.

Me encantó

Wow! After watching this I realized it never really matter to me about top and bottom issues. I just like the way that this video gave me a better understanding of things about LGBTQ+ community. Thanks I'll be looking forward to seeing more of stuffs that'll educate me. ☺️☺️☺️💜💜💜

im so glad that you have made this video and i totally agree to your opinion. wearing makeup or having dainty habits doesn't make a man less of a man. bun and bear are men. portraying them as women is definitely offensive and wrong.

I felt love from this video, thank you very much. Sorry, I'm using a translator. I'm a kookv shipper ( taekooker ) in Japan. Most of the fanfiction that Japanese people make about taekook sees Taehyung as the bottom. Perhaps this is because people hear about the experiences of Japan gay people when they have s*x, and from the bottom person getting bigger and bigger in the ass with s*x. It seems to make Taehyung the bottom. But as this great video says, I think it's different to say how they spend their nights in fashion, gestures, appearances, etc. LGBTQIA+ is still immature in the world, that's why there are differences between countries or cultures. Taehyung and Jungkook are not yet speaking directly to us about all things about gender identity, sexual objects, and s*x positions. One thing I can say before that time comes, is that it is important to love and support them in whatever form they take. And there is only one thing we can confirm about them, that taekook may be in love with each other !!!🥰😘✨

I love how you state your reasons and have evidence to back it up. You discussed the dilemma vividly, so everyone sees things both ways (I hope that makes sense). I can tell you did your research by the fact that you had very clear examples of what the LGBTQIA+ community thinks about those kinds of questions. And the whole thing about "who tops or bottoms", I have always found it unreasonable and outright inconsiderate. Like every time I'd see the question, the only thing running through my head is: why would you want to know about their positions in bed? (although it necessarily doesn't have to have sexual connotations). In the end, it is none of our business.

bestie, im so glad you posted this video, my queer lil heart is so content and i was getting really tired of cishet people trying to project heteronormativity on queer people. 💜

Wow que gran vídeo, hay que respetar yo ya lo había pensado anteriormente, esto es realmente bueno ojala mas personas vean esto. Estoy completamente de acuerdo contigo en todo lo que haz expresado en este vídeo, Taekook por siempreee 💜💜💜💜🐻🐰👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻 Bravo bravisimo 👬💯

Also i wanna talk about this fanfiction thing. It's true most writers make one of them feminine and the other masculine. They write it, it's their preferences, but I've seen some fanfics where the write as well as the readers fetishize the couple, and that couple is being taekook. I don't feel it right, people should stop. There's always a limit about what we do as fans, but these writers and readers, they write and read for their own physical pleasure, crossing all the limits..... honestly this disgusts me

La verdad q lo q menos me importa es su condición sexual,yo hace poco comencé a segir al taekook,me apasiona ver el amor tan puro q hay en ellos,miradas,toques,todo.Me hace ver que todavía queda personas q aman de verdad,calculo q no les debe ser fácil ya que son mundialmente famosos pero se les nota demasiado el amor q se tienen y me da envidia Jaja,los amo así tal cual son💜💚💜💚💜💚

Согласна с вами 100 💯

Thanks for this post! Personally, I think Taekook are versatile. They both display feminine and masculine sides to themselves. And, as you said, vers is the more "progressive" position. Taekook are of this modern generation who don't conform to traditional or established roles. Perhaps I am projecting but, this is one of the reasons I love them: They balance each other perfectly! 💜💜

Wow.. 👏👏👏👏💜💜💜💜

Love is love. Who cares about positions

I MISSED U MAY

It they are real , I trust they switches😂. So I don't care about it. I want them happy together💚💜

It's not our business 💜

the only one who should want to know is the persons in the relationship

I think taehyung is top and dominant 🙌

I don’t know who’s top or bottom and it doesn’t really matter to me. I read fics and view fanart of both. I am just happy to see content of them together. I never really could say with certainty who was what because you literally can’t tell just by how someone looks or acts. So I’ve decided to believe they switch around depending on the mood or who initiates. 🤷🏾‍♀️

I don't really care they could be switch. But atleast there happy with each other so that's all that matters

Per me sono versatili E non per come si vestono o per le attività che fanno Ma per come si pongono uno verso l'altro Inoltre magari qui in Europa o in America fossimo più aperti a esprimere il nostro lato femminile/maschile Da donna quando ero più piccola essendo una persona no trucco e no vestiti da "femmina" mi avevano sempre classificato come una persona "lesbica" In realtà sono pansessuale e continuo a non amare il trucco o i vestiti da "femmina" Ed il mio migliore amico che è gay, da un lato è più femmina di me perché ama tutto ciò che non amo io ma a letto è una persona versatile anche se all'inizio pensava di essere il "bottom" perché ama il trucco e i vestiti da donna Essere come Jungkook non esclude essere un "bottom" o essere come Taehyung non esclude essere un "top" Ma come ho fatto capire al mio migliore amico, va a giornata e va al momento Si possono amare entrambe le possibilità o scegliere solo una... Anzi questa è la mia opinione e spero di non offendere nessuno che ne ha scelto una sola... È meglio una relazione versatile perché hai la possibilità di conoscere meglio te stesso e il tuo partner... Magari fosse possibile in una relazione eterosessuale... Chissà magari in un lontano futuro questi concetti cambieranno...

THANK YOU for making this video. There are such animals as "power bottoms." For those of you surprised by this phenomenon, just think a little.

Aunty u come back after 1month i was missing u,u know u are my fav analysis youtuber. I am girl but act like tomboy 😌😎

I remember a long time ago that BTS themselves also had a lot of toxic masculinity and heteronormativity in their worldviews. Especially if you see them off stage during their early years. VMin and RM especially were really bad in their younger years with how they felt masculinity had to be. JK was still figuring himself out. Suga gave zero Fs and I believe was one of the members who challenged BTS as a whole about the topic. The other member is Jin, who doesn't care about what others think of his love for pink and Disney Princesses, and that he's fine wearing make-up. And for me, Hobi, especially now, is probably one of the best to show what a male identifying cis-man is like who is comfortable in his own sexuality, whatever it may be. Actually, even in the early years he was like that as well, he just hated doing aegyo until he realised that he could help people feel better and smile. As a group, it's been amazing to see BTS go out there and learn more and defy social standards, even in Korean society, (remember, while the younger generation is opening up, Korea, like Japan, are an aging society; so there are a lot more OLD Traditional views), and to see their growth as they let go of the toxic masculinity and social standards.

I agree

Although there is no clear cut answer I do believe some traits are more common in tops and some more common in bottoms. Femininity, shyness is more a trait of bottoms than tops. A lot of times I feel like Tae likes to be courted by Jungkook. Loves it when Jungkook carries him or is romantic to him. Jungkook's mannerisms and behaviour towards Taehyung is something I associate with tops. My personal conviction is that Jungkook is undeniably a top. The other less likely possibility is they switch. But regardless of their roles, I want them to be happy together if they love each other and help each other become better individuals. Your bed role doesn't define your intelligence or strength of character so top and bottom isn't everything.

Girl, thank you for putting this video out. Why do, usually straight, people think it's ok to ask about gay or lesbian sex lives?? It's not okay.

Thật may mắn vì đã biết kênh của bạn và đăng ký nó ngay sau khi xem 1 video duy nhất. Video của bạn làm tôi hạnh phúc, tự hào và ngưỡng mộ dù tôi không biết bạn là ai. Việc trở thành shiper hay văn hóa Đông Á chúng tôi có cụm từ khác là "Hủ" khiến cá nhân tôi khá xem trọng việc Top/Bot hay Dom/Sub hay Semen/Uke để phục vụ cho việc viết fanfic hoặc đọc fanfic theo nhu cầu của mình, và dù tôi có nghĩ bối cảnh về 1 cặp đôi nào thì tôi cũng có 1 vài quy tắc của riêng mình, 1 nỗ lực tôi đặt ra để giảm bớt tội lỗi khi thực hiện hành vi xâm phạm riêng tư người khác bằng việc cho phép trí tưởng tưởng của mình bay cao và va chạm với nhiều người khác giống mình. Tuy nhiên việc định hình Top/Bot có được video nêu ra không dựa trên hình thể, mặt trước, mặt sau. Đó gần như là yếu tố yếu nhất, chiếm % nhỏ nhất trong các tiêu chí lựa trọng vị trí T/B. Nhưng không phải không có. Tôi muốn chia sẻ quan điểm không phải từ shiper mà từ 1 người đã hoạt động trong giới LGBTQ từ lâu và có nhiều bạn bè, và 1 ít hiểu biết kinh nghiệm để phát biểu về kinh nghiệm mình có. Tôi muốn nói rằng việc T/B với người trong cuộc không quan trọng bằng D/S hay Semen/Uke (ngày nay nhiều người đọc man ga sẽ mặc định Semen là T và Uke là bot cho đỡ nhầm lẫn) nhưng những 2 cụm từ này của như D/S thể hiện vị trí trên dưới Top/Bot trên tinh thần hơn là trên giường. Tức là 1 người mạnh và kiểm soát hơn và 1 người yếu và phụ thuộc hơn trong mối quan hệ. Nó dễ dàng bị người kém hiểu biết đánh đồng với nữ tính và yếu đuối và phụ thuộc là xấu. Điều đó không đúng. Trong mối quan hệ, nhất là mối quan hệ tốt đẹp hòa hợp, việc 1 người chủ động hơn và người bị động là việc thực tế xảy ra và rất bình thường, chỉ là việc này có mức độ, và tùy trường hợp trong từng cặp đôi cụ thể. Không phải ai cũng phụ thược 100%, có thể mức độ chỉ có 55% và 45% . Và chắc chắn không quá cứng nhắc 100% nhưng việc quyết định D/S hay T/B phần lớn do nội tâm tính cách mỗi người hơn. Tuy nhiên vị trí đó vẫn có thể thay đổi nếu bạn đổi đối tượng và kiểu người yêu. Như tôi có bạn là gay từ thời cấp 3, và làm Bot suốt 10 năm yêu đương không ít nhưng chẳng mối quan hệ nào lâu dài, khi qua 30 tuổi, cậu ấy chán nản nghỉ yêu và chỉ tìm bạn tâm sự ăn chơi tự do trong 2 năm, cuối cùng người chồng cậu ấy lấy lại là 1 trong những cậu bạn trong hội bạn Bot của cậu ấy. Và cậu bạn tôi vì yêu mà sẵn sàng lên làm top dù không 100% toàn thời gian, họ có sự chuyển đổi ở đây dù không đồng đều. Trước hết 1 người nếu tự nhận thức và phát hiện ra xu hướng đồng tính của mình trước khi thực sự lao vào bắt đầu mối quan hệ yêu đương với ai đó, tự họ sẽ băn khoăn tìm hiểu cân nhắc mình sẽ thích như thế nào, ở vị trí nào, điều đó tạo nên xu hướng tìm đối tác phù hợp, nhưng khi cuộc đời đưa bạn rơi vào tình yêu với hình mẫu trái ngược với ban đầu và bạn thay đổi vị trí 1 cách tự nhiên mà không băn khoăn quá nhiều. Từ việc tìm hiểu bias và TaeKook nhiều năm. Tôi có thể khẳng địnhTae là 1 Dom mềm và Kookie là 1 Sub mạnh trong mối quan hệ của họ. Tôi không thể viết quá dài, nếu bạn có bạn bè là nhà tâm lý học, nếu có thể hãy trao đổi với họ để có thêm nhiều tư liệu. Nhưng tôi không chắc chắn khi giả tưởng về vị trí T/B, tôi thực sự viết fanfic và nghĩ ngoài đời họ luân chuyển, lý do như video đã đưa ra, họ không muốn có giới hạn để tạo ra nhiều niềm vui thích cho nhau trong cuộc sống.

I think they are switch 🥰 Taekook love forever and ever 💚💜🥺

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In a same sex relationship we can never tell only them knows.

We don’t ship we believe 💜

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