Hi mam, Thankyou for educating very informative mam . struggling on this issue for since 26 years without knowing it .what you said in this 3 parts is absolutely true .THANKYOU MAM🙏

3 videos ഉം കണ്ടു,superb👌.20 വർഷം ആയി toxic parenting അനുഭവിക്കുന്ന ഒരു young adult ആണ് ഞാൻ.എത്രത്തോളം toxic ആയിരുന്നു എന്ന് വെച്ചാൽ ഭൂരിഭാഗം "തെറി" വരെ പഠിച്ചത് parents തമ്മിൽ വഴിക്കിടുന്നത് കെട്ടിട്ടാണ്.പിന്നെ സ്ഥിരം വഴക്കു പറയലും ഉപദ്രവും,അംഗീകരിക്കാതിരിക്കുകയും ...പക്ഷെ അച്ഛൻ വളരെ toxic ആണെന്ന് എനിക്ക് വളരെ നേരത്തെ മനസിലാക്കുകയും ഞാൻ "അച്ഛനെ" എന്റെ life ഇൽ നിന്നും almost 11-12 വയസായപ്പോൾ virtually avoid ചെയുകയും ചെയ്തു.ഒരിക്കൽ എന്നെ ചൂലിനു അടിക്കാൻ വന്നപ്പോൾ defend ചെയുകയും അങ്ങനെ ബന്ധം വഷളവുകയും ചെയ്തു.പക്ഷെ അമ്മ comparatively better ആയതുകൊണ്ട് അടുപ്പത്തിലാണ് പക്ഷെ still എന്നെ തരം കിട്ടുമ്പോൾ ഒക്കെ ആൾകാരുടെ അടുത്ത് തരം താഴ്ത്തും, എന്റെ introvert നേച്ചർ ഉം body shaming ഉം ഒക്കെ തന്നെ ആണ് subjects.ഇപ്പോൾ ഞാൻ അതിൽ നിന്നും ഒക്കെ പുറത്തു വരാറായെങ്കിലും ഇപ്പോൾ എന്റെ മാനസികാവസ്ഥ വളരെ മോശം ആണ് ഞാൻ emotionally നല്ല weak ആണ്,anxiety disorders at peak ആണ് കുറച്ചു ദിവസം മുൻപ് depression ഇലേക്ക് പോകുന്നുണ്ടോ എന്ന് വരെ സംശയം ഉണ്ട്.

Very Helpful video, I am sharing this to my friends who have kids

3 videos um kandu so happy to know that what i assumed about my parents was so right. ullinde ullil njn enne thanne blame cheyyumaaryrunnu. i am still living with toxic parents … i have to depend them for my living ( im 16 yrs old ) mathramalla im constantly trying to stay with my grandmother who understands me a lot better than my parents even though we have a big generation gap. But ende parents enne avide jeevikkan sammathikkula. i was losing hope ….. but now i am confident and sure that i can be a good personality when i grow old

Oru veetil thanne aankuttiyodum penkuttiyodum 2 reethiyil perumaarunna veedukal enick ariyaam. Penkuttikalodu aanu ente arivil parents kooduthal toxic.

4:50 Couldn't hold my tears! I'm a 29yo who was a bit late to understand there was something wrong; currently in the middle of turning around my career and whole life post that realization, staying away from my parents. Waiting to meet my fully authentic self :)

എനിക്ക് ബോധം ഉണ്ടായിരുന്നില്ല. മനസ്സിലായില്ല. ഇപ്പോൾ അവർ എന്റെ മക്കളുടെ parents ആവാൻ ശ്രമിക്കുകയാണ്. അറിയാത്തതു കൊണ്ട് തന്നെ അവരെ നല്ലോണം depend ചെയ്തു ഞാൻ. അതിന്റെ ആഫ്റ്റർ effect

Im an mbbs student who is undergoing treatment for mood instability because of ptsd.. all i could say is that this video is a great realisation of what happened to me and what i can do until i become financially independent which is possible after 2 years.. thank you so so much ma'am for this and i aspire to become a mom like you ❤

Next topic should be grandparenting please. How to gracefully or diplomatically stop toxic grandparenting.

Be financially independent and get out of it... But What if parents are not in good health condition and they need our care?

What is boundary of toxic parenting??? Traits of toxic parents???

What is flirting? People use to have different definition. What is the real meaning of it. What is the difference between friendly flirting and intimate flirting? Why sometimes it end up in sexual harrasment? Could you please answer my question

Thank you so much 🙏❤️ cheachy thankyou so much ❤️ I'm very relaxed now

Go for that book. It's great!

I can tell you from my personal experience about toxicity now. My mom is no longer toxic because we have had conversation on this a few times when I let her know how toxic she was when I was growing up. But she is mostly respectable to me. But sometimes when she says something it really triggers me and gets me angry. If the same thing was said by someone else I wouldnt get angry, but she makes me angry. Thats the problem

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Toxic parents ullavar ee 3 part videos um share Cheyd kodukku😁😁👍👍👍

Being a younger child, I have to look after them. 😶

There are parents who know they are toxic and continue with these behaviors. Please do not sugar coat the truth. There are also parents who doesn't know they are toxic. And most of the time people don't change unless they want to change. But that doesn't excuse the parents behaviors'. And it is not the responsibility of the victim to pity them or find excuses or even try to treat them. However they should understand the behaviors' is toxic and stay away from them. Intention doesn't matter if the result of the action is bad.

Hi Swathi, very informative content in all 3 videos. This will really help children or young adults or may be even some of these toxic parents who atleast have some kind of rethinking about what they do. But I would like add this point here..toxic mindset can be considered as an emotional disability, just like any physical disability. Though these children have to help themselves to be self reliant, instead of thinking of leaving the house or getting out of the house and solving the problem, they can always treat these parenting behavior as a health condition. So, when you try to treat this whole situation as an emotional health issue of the parent, the whole outlook changes, though they have to struggle themselves through it, instead of practicing these self help measures with a hatred towards their parents, they can have a positive approach. Toxic parenting is no one's fault. As you rightly said, the parents who are toxic are not aware of what they are doing. The whole practice might have come either due to what they observed and learned in their young days or complete ignorance about what is good parenting. So, if the children are able to or helped to treat this situation positively, by considering it as an emotional health issue of the parents, they can be more empathetic towards the situations and can remain more positive and helpful. Love to hear your opinion!

How to overcome Trauma Bonding. Toxic or traumatic environment ennu arinjittum..athil thanne nilkan ulla mentalitty or preference varunnu ...why ? How ?

പെൺകുട്ടികളെ വളർത്തുന്നതിനെ കുറിച്ച് കൂടുതൽ വീഡിയോ create ചെയ്യാമോ mam.... Please ഒന്നും അറിയാത്ത കൊണ്ടാണ്, 0-18വരെ എല്ലാം വേണം

Relaxing... ❤

Very nice speech .

I should come out from these toxic things.

Superb talk 👏👏👏👏👏👏

Thank you so much 🥰💖

Thank you

No one understand me... It feels scary

ശരിയാണ് എന്ത് പറഞ്ഞാലും കാര്യമില്ല ഞാന്‍ ഒരുപാട് ശ്രമിച്ചിട്ടുണ്ട്

Very helpful video's...

Can someone be toxic to one child and authoritive to other?

Hi Swathi, i felt so relatable with these 3 videos. Felt good to alteast understand that this is not just my issue and may be a generation's common trouble. I wish to share my experience regarding communicating to my parents. It was nearly 8 years ago that I once attempted having an open conversation with them. Dad rejected instantly; may be because he knew that I am confronting him. Or may be he hasn't had that patience to hear and admit. Such conversations never happened in our life and I still struggle to understand him. But regarding mom, it is very similar to your friend. She yelled, complained, and finally settled. More than that, I have witnessed huge change in her during the past few years. We continue to talk as woman to woman. As a person, i think, she has better understanding of herself and her choices now, more than passing own traits from her ancestors. She is surprising me as an individual every minute eventhough I failed to connect to her as my mother ...

Very helpful,see you in glory 😊🙌

Hi mam one and half year old baby aanu oru 2 weeks aayit temper tantrum kanikunne, like he is hitting his head to wall, or floor, kanumbo pedi aavunnu how to handle this? And one more now I am a single parent becz of some problem with mother in law. But my husband and I are in good terms. He is there in his house, he will visit both of us in atleast thrice a week, ee seperation okke kondaano kunj engane? Ple give me a rply mam🙏

Is there any way I can contact you personally?

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