TOXIC Self Care OVERCONSUMPTION is keeping you BROKE and UNSATISFIED

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Overconsumption has distorted the true essence of self-care into a commercialized trend that keeps you spending leaving you unsatisfied and broke. Selfcare has hijacked been by consumerism when originally that was not the goal.Let's discuss practical self care steps to reclaim genuine well-being without breaking the bank and going broke for these toxic trends.
Sources:
The beauty market in 2023: A special State of Fashion report
www.mckinsey.com/industries/r...
New Mindbody Data Reflects How The Pandemic Has Renewed Interest In Self-Care
www.forbes.com/sites/jesscord...
Selfcare equipments during Pandemic Surged
www.cnn.com/2020/09/11/busine...
Chapters:
00:00 Intro
00:26 Historical roots of self-care (Socrates, Audrey Lorde)
00:59 Contrast with modern consumerism
01:32 Commercialization of self-care
02:20 Pandemic's impact on self-care trends
02:53 Rise of consumeristic self-care
03:20 Retail therapy pitfalls
04:35 Influence of social media on self-care trends
05:17 Pressure from influencers
05:43 Commercial tactics and commissions
06:29 Critique of influencer authenticity
07:26 Dangers of following trends
07:57 Self-care's personal nature
08:25 Emotional impacts of overspending
09:15 Regret over viral products
09:44 Coping mechanisms beyond spending
10:10 Financial risks of retail therapy
10:45 Sephora shopping regrets
11:18 Use of credit and buy now, pay later options
11:48 Concerns about financial responsibility
12:19 Social media influences on spending
12:49 Caution against keeping up appearances
13:21 Temptations of afterpay and similar services
13:54 Balancing luxury with financial stability
14:22 Non-materialistic self-care practices
14:50 Evaluating sustainable self-care
15:20 True self-care vs. consumerism
15:48 Seeking happiness beyond material goods
16:13 Products vs. long-term happiness
16:39 Encouragement for meaningful chang
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@SocialSymone Ай бұрын

Do you think self care is really now consumerism and overconsumption? What is your meaning of self care? Also what percent is your phone 🔋on right now? I'm on 64% but it's 10:40 p.m. lol

@Queen-xq4dj Ай бұрын

I remember when my self care routine used to be one body lotion and one face cream. I was even using my body lotion on my face. Ever since I started doing the whole scrub, cleanser, serums thing my skin in now f$&ked up more than ever. Now I keep having to change products to correct the problems the previous products have caused.

@michellep1405 Ай бұрын

Real self care is eating ice cream at 2am in your underwear and not caring about what anyone thinks haha. (My phone is on 10%)

@SocialSymone Ай бұрын

@Queen-xq4dj I have had a similar experience when I was younger. I have VERY SENSITIVE SKIN and spent so much money trying to clear it up in the past with products. I now seem a dermatologist and aesthetician because I have no clue what I'm doing. I do understand this is a privilege to see my aesthetician for treatments and not a necessity so I'm am blesses and grateful. I hope you are able t find something that works well for your skin! I know how annoying this can be.

@SocialSymone Ай бұрын

😂 I think I'm Lactose. They taste so good but give me gas lol and 10%!? NOW, YOU KNOW BETTER!!! 😂

@vvitch-mist20 Ай бұрын

I def think self-care is more about trying to impress others.

@anyaconda3155 Ай бұрын

Self-care = being financially literate and financially responsible

@kellygreengables3936 29 күн бұрын

This 100%! There's no sort of habit you can support if you literally have no money. Material things don't pay the bills.

@queenofpents3442 23 күн бұрын

Facts! This is the real definition

@ashtongoh7110 15 күн бұрын

Great point!

@helenarichard 13 күн бұрын

Ikr. Started investing instead of consooming and for the first time in my life I actually feel like I am doing something for me. I wish I could get the money back of every product I ever bought, it was worthless. Except for books and some pretty clothes, and my all time fav essential makeup, it all wasn't worth it.

@brittanyd3527 7 күн бұрын

Yes! This!

@sd.092 Ай бұрын

Comparing the influencers to used car salesmen makes so much sense!

@SocialSymone Ай бұрын

I'm glad that was helpful! It helps to now how to better del with what we see that way. 💕

@donnac.3273 Ай бұрын

Exactly 💯

@kenzyhuggard6733 29 күн бұрын

Oh my God, this is a perfect comparison!

@mayasphere 26 күн бұрын

did anyone notice the clip of the girl with the 17 step skincare routines skin color go from her normal tone to fire red…that can’t be safe 😭

@RoseMari888 25 күн бұрын

NOW THAT IM WATCHING IT AGAIN I JUST NOTICED THAT PROBABLY ISNT SUPPOSE TO HAPPEN😭⁉️ like miss girl glycolic acid is suppose to remove dead skin cells not melt off your skin

@elana._.6911 20 күн бұрын

@@RoseMari888RIGHT she probably using every single day too which your not supposed to do 😭😭😭😭

@meganmckay8115 18 күн бұрын

That was my first thought is her skin is sooo red it’s so irritated

@CJAmara 17 күн бұрын

Her skin looked super irritated

@Ajae78 15 күн бұрын

I noticed that right away! Skin turning light pink is normal but her face was bright red. I don’t know what she’s doing but it doesn’t seem healthy.

@kawaiimombear Ай бұрын

I've challenged myself to use what I already have. I recently finished a ChapStick tube and I am so proud 😁

@shironerisilk Ай бұрын

It's sooo satisfying! I recently finished a gloss and some perfume and I was so happy. It's even better than buying new stuff.

@jessicaharrison4719 Ай бұрын

I got so close, and then I accidentally washed and dried it because it was in a pocket. I was so bummed!

@Ashisnotashamed 29 күн бұрын

I always lose mine before it gets finished 😅

@grapekart 28 күн бұрын

that is so impressive dude I've never been able to finish one I either lose it or drop it on the floor 😭

@adrianataboada5680 28 күн бұрын

I love this, it’s such an underrated feat

@SarahPaceSings Ай бұрын

Honestly i feel like im just looking at a bunch of hoarders

@SocialSymone Ай бұрын

I can see why you may say this. Sadly alot of people "see more products" as "aspirational".

@donnac.3273 Ай бұрын

Exactly I am trying to get out of it now. It is like an addiction. People trying to convince you hoarding is a Hobby or collection but it is really is hoarding. I am realizing this.

@donnac.3273 Ай бұрын

@@SocialSymone People also fear if missing out too (FOMO) on items that has gone viral. That is a while other video though.

@SarahPaceSings Ай бұрын

@@donnac.3273 i hope you have a great day. 🌸💕🫶

@wiseone9061 19 күн бұрын

I don’t look at myself as a hoarder. My cousin did tell me I was a hoarder after I let her come in my bedroom. She saw all of the fragrances and the baskets of products from Lush that I had bought during co vid. A hoarder doesn’t give things away they keep everything. I have given away lots a lots of new items that I bought and never used. I never invite people in my bedroom anymore 😂

@Es24688 8 күн бұрын

My self care involves being debt free, growing through reading books and listening to helpful podcasts or videos, having a tidy and clean living space, getting plenty of sleep, eating at home as much as possible, and enjoying simple treats like a cup of coffee or tea and a homemade goody.

@geneticbricabrac Ай бұрын

That girl at 11:27 who said after pay will put her in debt one day... You're in debt now. You're $741.40 in debt.

@SocialSymone Ай бұрын

SERIOUSLY!!! She is in so deep she may not even notice. SHE HAS BEEN IN THE DANGER ZONE!

@neonradius 25 күн бұрын

I’m not sure where she’s from based on her accent, but at least in America I feel like that’s because debt is so normalized. Everytime I use my credit card, I enter debt. It’s encouraged to enter debt to go to school. Most people won’t be able to buy a house or car without entering some sort of debt (a loan is a form of debt). So while I don’t know if she was raised in a similar environment, but at least for Americans, I completely understand why they don’t see stuff like afterpay as debt- it’s just like a credit card, and your parents needed those to get approved for a home loan, so what’s the big deal? (sarcasm, in case you didn’t realize, 740$ in afterpay is a big deal).

@aesinam 22 күн бұрын

@@neonradiusso true because outside the west (U.S especially), where credit cards are not really a thing, debt is mostly from loans and such so it's easier to see those as debts but when you're used to needing to have a credit card just to get a credit score to buy a house etc, it can be difficult to understand

@sc6658 22 күн бұрын

DUDE this is why I don’t trust afterpay. I remember I started seeing it as an option and immediately distrusted. Like if I am going to go into debt over something… it’s going to be a large purchase like a car (and even then my ass is avoiding those luxury vehicles that put people in money pits 😭). I’m not gonna finance some name brand slides or some BPAL perfume cause if I don’t have the money for it then I don’t need it right now.

@rizzobeloved 19 күн бұрын

I did AfterPay twice for some bigger tech items (my computer needed replacement parts) and even though I could afford the payments, it felt like my soul died every time that pay date came

@maytaw2877 Ай бұрын

I think “self care” has really become a way of consumerism and overconsumption. My definition of self care is just that, things to take care of myself such as basic hygiene(toothpaste, body wash, shampoo, etc) and gym membership. When I buy these self care products they’re $20 max and I buy them every 3-4 months, only buy when I run out.

@SocialSymone Ай бұрын

It's refreshing to see someone with a practical approach to self-care! It's getting wild out here. By all means if people can afford it TRULY I see no issue but MOST can't keep up with all these products coming out and luxury services.

@donnac.3273 Ай бұрын

Good plan.

@donnac.3273 Ай бұрын

@@SocialSymoneExactly hopefully you can make a series of these videos to keep us on our tolls. The way people are bombarding us with consumerism is wild. We need you to knock us back unto reality.

@SocialSymone Ай бұрын

@donnac.3273 That's a great idea! I may have to! These videos seem to help alot of people. 💕

@designereyebags 29 күн бұрын

yes! self care isn’t buying $100 skincare, it’s brushing your teeth twice a day so you don’t spend thousands on dental care later in life or getting a physical from your primary care doctor every year

@rikkifashionhouse6592 Ай бұрын

Instant gratification will be the downfall of many people.

@sonyaberry9805 Ай бұрын

Thank you. I need to work on letting go of instant gratification

@docfabz 10 күн бұрын

It's bc we live in the internet age where we get things so much faster. Online shopping is my struggle (but also going to stores lol) oh well im working on it

@juliajs1752 8 күн бұрын

I agree. I had a period of not being able to delay gratification after a sudden death in my family - I took "buy it now, what if you're dead tomorrow" to the extreme. Luckily I went nuts on craft supplies that I still use today, and not perishable overpriced trend products. Still, not being able to wait for something or try out something else is really bad, because the next "what if..." is always right behind it.

@maddie8415 Ай бұрын

Self-care has been twisted into a strategy to get people (often women) to buy things they don't need and weren't even thinking of buying. Really crazy how much these impulse purchases are usually the opposite of self-care in the end. Recently I'm also seeing the word "hygiene" being used in the titles of videos of this kind, while showcasing products that aren't even remotely necessary for basic hygiene. It's all manipulating people into feeling that splurging on this stuff is a good thing. PS: the girl in the video adding up the list for "the cost of being a hot girl" needs to realize that none of this is "the norm to get in your 20s". Most people in that age range don't have the disposable income to do that. I wish people like this would join the real world. Oh, and if your forehead slightly wrinkles when you move it, that means you're a normal young human, not that you "need" botox.

@SocialSymone Ай бұрын

I couldn't agree more! It's like they're trying to convince us that buying a face cream will solve all our life problems. If only skincare could pay our bills or helps pay for all those products too 😂

@evaphillips2102 25 күн бұрын

This one girl tried to sell her audience a “tongue scraper”….like do y’all not use your toothbrush to clean your tongue?

@Lifewithlayyy_ 24 күн бұрын

@@evaphillips2102they say we aren’t getting the same results cuz we aren’t getting “deep” like bby atp go to the dentist

@Maialeen 24 күн бұрын

I think it's designed to keep women from accruing wealth.

@__VR__8 22 күн бұрын

@@Lifewithlayyy_the fact is that’s completely wrong. brush does a better job than a tongue scraper

@vannisworld Ай бұрын

As a recovering shopping addict, I am on a strict no buy to pay back some debt (incurred from self care products). Now that I'm looking at what I actually need and should spend my money on, I only use maybe 5-6 products versus the 20 I was using before. My skin and Wallet are much happier.

@papa.cakes1248 25 күн бұрын

HELL YES!! As someone who has a job in sales with skincare/cosmetics, I love hearing that people will actually use the things that they buy until they run out. I’m so proud of you!

@TheRealCatof 21 күн бұрын

That's good, but do you really need 6 products?

@vannisworld 21 күн бұрын

@@TheRealCatof for day and night, yes. Do you have a skin care routine?

@TheRealCatof 21 күн бұрын

@@vannisworld No, I'm probably not the target audience for this video. I mainly just have shampoo, body wash, and sunscreen for when I go outside haha 🤣

@Kittykat79NY 12 күн бұрын

The guy who said "You shouldn't be going nowhere if your bills aren't paid!" Facts!! This guy should be a financial advisor.. I'd be his client!

@haute03 29 күн бұрын

I paused the video at 3:30. Getting botox before the age of 25 is honestly so nuts. Not only is her face going to be permanently frozen in certain areas once she hits her mid-40s if she continues to get injected regularly with that toxin, she also will have spent thousands upon thousands of dollars on a treatment she never needed in the first place. The beauty industry has to be growing rapidly with the rise of social media and increased pressure to look "perfect."

@shannonnero 24 күн бұрын

It won’t be permanently frozen, it will just be very soft and squishy 😅 Muscle atrophy, The dynamic wrinkles will look like a Shar Pei dog.

@prettylove621 11 күн бұрын

I agree

@DevHazy 11 күн бұрын

It’s pathological at that age

@PolinaM13 8 күн бұрын

It’s actually not about her age. All people age differently and have diffenent muscle movement, so one person can really have those forehead wrinkles at 20 if her muscles are very active and another person will not have those wrinkles visible at 30.

@celestialbunny 8 күн бұрын

to add on to the person above me, i have always have smile lines. bc i well, smile a lot XD. but i don't like them. they've always made me look old so i get her wanting botox at such a young age.

@Hahalolbea Ай бұрын

The finger tapping on products drives me insane😂 maybe because I equate that with something they are trying to get you to buy, not sure but I hate it lol

@Laurelend Ай бұрын

It's soooo annoying, same with the gross lotion sounds . Influencers are just sheep.

@chainmosses5389 Ай бұрын

It's the equivalent of someone jingling keys in front of your face.

@UltraViolet666 25 күн бұрын

@Laurelend the worst part with the lotion sounds is that they're squirting out at least 5 x more product than you actually need to use at one time, just for the sound + to shove it in your face even more

@toscafasso2081 24 күн бұрын

@@Laurelend ughhh i'm so glad it's not just me. Gave me the chills in a bad way

@gameone5522 22 күн бұрын

I thought it’s just me 😂 i am fed up with those finger tapping. Every single video 🤦🏻‍♀️

@sameenrizvi9224 25 күн бұрын

I'm turning 27 this year and I can't deal with the shame that comes with being broke all the time. All my "nice things" don't fix the financial insecurity and shame.. and this video made me realise just that! Girly thank you so much! You gave me an epiphany and inspiration to be financially responsible. THAT is self-care!

@kasiakuzniar4213 20 күн бұрын

❤❤❤yeah

@_smartyshorts Ай бұрын

I hate those asmr videos. I immediately skip when they start tapping on the package 😂

@Flowers0603 20 күн бұрын

Same

@moonshineaudios5740 17 күн бұрын

I actually like watching them (I don’t pay attention to the product) because i go through bouts of depression and seeing such gentle care makes me inspired to care for myself even if it’s just for a day or two. But i don’t normally focus on the products i just like the lighting, soft sounds and texture they show me.

@_smartyshorts 17 күн бұрын

@@moonshineaudios5740 I don’t mind the self care part, and that’s wonderful that they can help you in that way! Sometimes it’ll remind me to do the same. But the constant tapping and scrapping, and rubbing irritates me like no other. I might be broken idk lol

@laprimo21 8 күн бұрын

@@_smartyshorts Same, the noises drive me crazy 😆

@wnddyer 6 сағат бұрын

Me too!

@adnaloy9025 Ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing! Consumerism is terrible for the environment too. We don't see the trash after we get rid of it, but it goes somewhere and the planet and our future generations of humans will suffer.

@donnac.3273 Ай бұрын

Exactly if you return something to Sephora or Ulta is goes in the trash.

@maurao6287 6 күн бұрын

@@donnac.3273omg!! I just can’t imagine all the waste and pollution!!😮

@bleeka325 29 күн бұрын

Self care is not hygiene. Self care is learning effective communication, financial literacy, prioritization. If you struggle with cleanliness then self care would be working through finding the root of the issue and ways to mitigate it; it’s not the actual bathing part

@CH-jj8wk 2 күн бұрын

I agree AND disagree. My bath routine is 100% part of my self care. It helps me relax, helps me sleep...but it's because of what I do, not because of what I buy. I light candles, I read, listen to music or watch TV on my laptop. I massage my head when I wash my hair, I slowly massage my face when I wash it. I don't think these people understand that it's not what you buy but how you treat yourself. But I am also prioritising the things you listed too! As with everything in life, it's all about balance!

@thenamesilkmoon1366 Ай бұрын

Can't self care just be putting lotion after showering? And the face mask once in a while? That's all i ever did. And taking therapy

@aesinam 22 күн бұрын

It definitely is. Just taking a shower is self care because many depressed (and others) people can't even manage that

@MargaritaThePerfumista 21 күн бұрын

This!!❤

@nez82 16 күн бұрын

Yes it is and can be! 😁👏💜

@Skatelifefool 5 күн бұрын

The lotion is a luxury.

@CH-jj8wk 2 күн бұрын

I don't like showers at all so I take long baths every other day. I light candles, I read, I listen to music, I watch KZfaq or Netflix, I shave, massage my head, slowly wash and massage my face, just sit and breathe and think and relax. None of that requires specialist products. At all! Just time to myself 🥰

@zabaziomalka Ай бұрын

I recently found out that I don't need all that products that influencers are trying to sell us. I was shopping at mall, looking at clothes, haircare, skincare, makeup, perfumes, and thought "this makes no sense at all, it's all the same and I have these things at home already". Because who needs 10 th crop top which looks almost exactly the same? And who needs a thousands of different blushes, when an old eyeshadow palette does just fine? Why would I buy hundreds of skincare products, when my skin is not very problematic? It all just takes space.

@tryphenarose384 10 күн бұрын

Honestly, this is why me and my family shop at thrift stores for clothes. Sure, places like Goodwill don't have as much quality control, but there are plenty of places like Savers for example, that do. And you get those products cheaper than you would get them new. Especially, ESPECIALLY when it comes to kids clothing! I have a 1 and 2 year old, and we've never bought a new outfit for them, because the prices for new baby clothes is INSANE. You go to a used kids store, which we have 2 in our area, and the clothes are usually in like-new condition. Not shabby at all - again because of good quality control. People don't need to spend as much money on new things, as they think they do. And it certainly won't add to long-term happiness and fulfillment, because at the end of the day, it's just stuff.

@celestialbunny 8 күн бұрын

the blush thing is true. i have an eyeshadow palette and i use a magenta and light pink mixed together as my blush :D. looks really cute. and is always my go to

@michellep1405 Ай бұрын

I really appreciate these videos. I'm 34 and I love that you're targeted to young women that you don't need to keep up with social media and the rest of everyone else because what's seen as "normal" is just really fake and mostly these people are in debt.

@SocialSymone Ай бұрын

No problem at all! I am so glad these type of videos are helpful to you. My goal is always to help SOMEBODY and I am grateful to be able to do that and appreciate you for listening. You are VERY correct, nobody has to conform to that madness. People who really like you, will like you for you regardless IMO. I hate seeing the youth overspending to keep up with what's online. 💕

@donnac.3273 Ай бұрын

@SocialSymone Exactly, please do more videos like this one. People are trying to keep up with the "Jones," but there are no more "Jones" to keep up with. Thank you for trying to help up keep money in our accounts.

@SocialSymone Ай бұрын

@SocialSymone I will, I am so glad you find them so useful! It's hard to keep up with all the madness somethings cause there's always something lol 💕

@donnac.3273 Ай бұрын

@SocialSymone Especially with Tictok selling and making things go viral for extra consumption. It has become a home shopping network on that app. I am glad I really don't use it.

@lunaskye621 29 күн бұрын

This is why I only take advice from dermatologists and professional makeup artists. I feel they’re more real and less about shoving products in your face. I don’t follow any of these influencers anymore. I stopped following the beauty community in 2018 because it was too much over consumption and I had thousands of pounds worth of expired makeup and it was a disgusting waste and disrespect to the planet.

@sadmimashahrin6769 19 күн бұрын

My only skincare routine is cleanser moisturiser sunscreen. Thats it. Maybe weekly homemade facepacks or scrub for good skin health. I even saw a tiktok where a lady used at least 10 products JUST FOR SHOWERING like lade why you need body butter on top of ur moisturiser and body oil? Now yound girls will think they will need these stuff to look better

@Ajae78 15 күн бұрын

What’s interesting is a lot of professional makeup artists will say, “You don’t need all this unless you’re building a pro kit”. They also tend to rely on much cheaper products - think William Tuttle foundation or Cetaphil. I’ve never seen many say, “You NEED the biggest jar of La Mer!”

@donnac.3273 Ай бұрын

I am learning this over consumption. I have minimalist journey in January. I am moving, and you all should see things I haven't even touched (makeup, skincare, and perfume (in which I was avid collectors of over 400 bottles). I have stopped purchasing so many items. I have unsubscribed from emails and Facebook groups to help my transition.

@SocialSymone Ай бұрын

That's fantastic! Simplifying your life can bring so much clarity and peace. Best of luck on your minimalist journey! I had a similar thing with hair products. I was shocked how deep into it I got. Being conscious is the best thing for you in the end. 💕💕💕💕

@kellygreengables3936 Ай бұрын

Wishing you luck on your journey to minimalism!! Just remember that it's a process and that it looks different for everyone ❤

@donnac.3273 Ай бұрын

@@kellygreengables3936 Thank you so much. Very appreciate your support.

@JVlk-tw6fs Ай бұрын

Good luck! :)

@girlinterrupted9792 29 күн бұрын

I wish you the best of luck in your journey! Whew chile, them moves can be an eye opener, can't they?! Been there and here to let you know it gets better🙂

@meredithduke8688 Ай бұрын

Self care is so much more than physical care. Ultimately if you are stressing yourself out by trying to fit in your everything shower into your schedule, or stressing yourself out from the financial situation you’re putting yourself in due to the self care, you are not truly caring for yourself. A lot of us need to invest in therapy, meditation, and prioritizing peace.

@dynastyandrews2416 24 күн бұрын

Y’all ever notice how things that are considered “self-care“ are just normal things that people should be doing as part of their daily lives? Grocery shopping for healthier foods and cooking at home, going for a walk, socializing with family and friends, dedicating time to hobbies and passions that you like. Modern society treats self care as a luxury and not as something that is vital to our well being. The better we take care of ourselves the better we can take care of those around us.

@KChrisWatching 23 күн бұрын

Your skin is your largest organ and your first line of defense. If you don’t buy the marketed overpriced items and instead comparison shop for the same ingredients, you will be healthier and wiser.

@jamesandrew9868 Ай бұрын

The idea of self care being tied to consumption has such a strong tie to the idea that you can buy a persona. Like, its no longer a slow roll of building up your likes and dislikes, its micro trends, destash, haul, restock, destash over and over, fast paced as hell with the rise and fall of different aesthetics. They both rely on insecurity to drive sales on the newest shiniest thing, make sure to use their promo code! Its so draining emotionally and financially, but then it sucks you in by promising to remedy that with an even newer and shinier product.

@NicoleStrauss-lr6tv 17 күн бұрын

Underrated comment

@xragdoll5662 Ай бұрын

Self care to me is taking my epilepsy meds and making sure I eat daily and having a decent sleep schedule 😂 I’ve always had a decent skincare routine since I was a teen in the 00’s to keep my eczema under control and I keep saying it’s INSANE to me that people think 20 different face oils and supplements is ‘self care’ and I see the constant shorts and they remind me SOOO much of the used car salesmen that you mentioned that my dad always warned me about and oh boy does the finger tapping annoy me 🙈🙈 love your videos, can’t believe I’m this early haha

@SocialSymone Ай бұрын

You are doing things that really help YOU be the best you. I like you aren't looking for this world to tell you how to do what you know is what works for you. If people can sell you to a "t" how to be THEY WILL! Sadly, so much of our youth doesn't know better BUT it not too late for anyone to become aware. And they are the real used car salesmen, Gotta avoid 'em at all cost 😂 And I feel you on the tapping! I get MAD when I hear it, it's unsettling! lol and I appreciate your love and support, it am truly grateful. And yes your are EARLY!! I am usually in the comments a lil right after the video to chat with yall so I hope to see you again in a future one 💕💕💕💕

@mariadiscordia 23 күн бұрын

Rel so much! I’m also on epilepsy meds, going to reformer pilates class, trying to start jogging with the focus on limitating the shopping spend.

@nickievison1134 Ай бұрын

I've learnt the hard way that buying the latest product doesn't actually make life better in any real lasting way.

@SocialSymone Ай бұрын

This is true!!! 💕

@elenaespinoza8158 21 күн бұрын

True and sometimes you don,t use it

@HopeGrant423 Ай бұрын

It's a never-ending cycle because there is always something new. The same thing with makeup and hair. Remember the natural hair product junkie craze? All the makeup palette releases? Now it's body care and fragrances! All of these errands are just spending more money.

@annapetryk 21 күн бұрын

Yes, and then all those de-cluttering videos, which I truly hate. So stupid and wasteful.

@Sinthecity Ай бұрын

I feel like it says a lot that “self care” is almost entirely centered around visible self improvement versus things like, oh idk, recognize what behaviors we accidentally hurt people with or learning how to let go of childhood shames

@LyndsayO-tb2dx 28 күн бұрын

Well put. It’s become just another check mate in the capitalist book of screwing people over for gain.

@cosmicbeauty5682 Ай бұрын

At one point, I just referred to this as being a product junkie which I have been guilty of doing. I still have things to throw out, and heck that could be done today. Half of the stuff I don't use because they don't work, but some influencers swore by them...

@SocialSymone Ай бұрын

I was too! I feel EVERYTHING you said! Wasted so much for natural hair care it's a shame! I could afford it, but I hold myself accountable for buying things to find the better or best stuff. I never want to do that again!

@cosmicbeauty5682 Ай бұрын

@SocialSymone exactly 💯 like honestly once I stopped over spending I found the products that work for me and now I just stick to those (praying to the high heavens that they don't change the formulas or discontinue them). Just find what works for you and stick to them, you'll save so much. My hair and skin routine is so simple now yet it actually works

@SocialSymone Ай бұрын

Amen! Less is more 💕 Definitely money in your pocket 😉

@pepperandplatinum 22 күн бұрын

Unfollowing anyone that tells me that something is life changing or that I "need" something - is my own self care. I run my life, I control what I view online. I would rather buy groceries and meaningful things that bring me happiness (traveling without using debt, journaling, painting, dancing). That is self care. Do not fall for the crap online, use your head, use your own judgement.

@palasiksivain 26 күн бұрын

i always go back to maslow's hierarchy of needs. at the top we have self-actualization, and that's what i've been striving to achieve in the past few years. maybe it's through therapy, but i've learned that what self-care truly means for me is discovering who i really am as a person and doing things that make me feel better mentally: making art, journaling, connecting with my ethnic roots, reading. even with all the struggles i have, i've found that self-actualization is what has made me happier than every purchase ever has.

@senselessplace Ай бұрын

the people who are like ' how did I spend $$700 at sephora??' Do they need to learn self-control? I'm hoping it's an act really. I think the term self-care is losing meaning. I never really saw all of this as self-care, only as overconsumption. Going on a nice walk, I'd like to take someone's dog with me self-care. Taking an Epsom salt bath with 1 candle and meditation music playing, self-care. Bringing a charcuterie board, bottle of wine, 30 candles, and two movies, excuse me what? I like baths but, not bath bombs, and sitting in the bath too long is bad for your skin.

@zvezdoblyat 25 күн бұрын

"how did I spend 700 dollars at Sephora and return all of this shit in two days?!"

@alyssabachas2955 10 күн бұрын

The $75 girl I got bc my hair was falling out and I got some k10 Oil and serum $75. I cried but my stylist suggested it. Hair fell out anyway

@user-po9ne6tx1c Ай бұрын

As a proud Sephora shareholder, this video depresses me and makes me feel good at the same time

@zoeoneeva6397 29 күн бұрын

I’m an ELF shareholder. No guilt and I’m very happy with my gains. ;)

@introvertednigeriangirl4865 16 күн бұрын

How do you become a Sephora shareholder?

@cheslxy Ай бұрын

Self care is where you take your time with people around you, reflecting, doing hobbies, hanging out with friends, cooking and cleaning. Not buying stuff or doing things for yourself only.

@SocialSymone Ай бұрын

I hope somebody heard you today!! 💕

@hmacklemore2226 27 күн бұрын

I think self care can definitely include things only for yourself ❤

@DevHazy 11 күн бұрын

@@hmacklemore2226exercise

@sannidhib7756 9 күн бұрын

i see what you mean, but a 30-second clip solely focusing on skincare is not representative of the other things an influencer does in a day :) do u get what i mean?

@CH-jj8wk 2 күн бұрын

No I need my alone time. I'm a teacher, I spend time with people all day. I come home and need that time to myself 😂 if I had kids of my own, I can see how cooking for them, doing hobbies together etc would be nice too...but my baths are just for me and that's okay

@MyMelody5 23 күн бұрын

I really had to check myself to stop buying another lip care product and realized I don’t need so many to keep my lips hydrated… those influencers really just promote toxic over consumption.

@chloeplaysacnh 19 күн бұрын

I remember when the self care/improvement posts on social media were workout challenges, reading more, learning a new skill, etc. Now it’s just about spending more money on products you don’t need, which is insane in this economy

@HereticHousewife Ай бұрын

I've heard/read influencers talk about elaborate skin care routines being an "investment" that will save you money in the future. Invest hundreds on skincare products now and save thousands on cosmetic procedures later. It's a classic sales tactic to make people justify a big expense that they don't have an immediate need for.

@girlinterrupted9792 29 күн бұрын

As someone who is STILL dealing with an online shopping addiction, I just want to say thank you for this! While I've gotten considerably better over the years, it's a CONSTANT battle. I recently got an offer for free shipping on a product and was ecstatic and immediately went to my cart and filled it up. Old me would've hit the checkout tab and went on about my day. Luckily reformed me has decided that I am going to use that offer for the one item I initially wanted but couldn't find at the store and didn't want to pay shipping for. I reminded myself that before this offer I truly only wanted ONE item. I will purchase it (on sale!) and be content😌

@mybdayis420 Ай бұрын

self care has turned into treat yo self.. there is no difference

@SocialSymone Ай бұрын

I agree!!!

@Jane-ss1pg Ай бұрын

Skip the products everyone, and with the money you save, buy a gym membership. It will do so much more for your body and mind than any product ever could.

@Abbyyena Ай бұрын

So true!

@SocialSymone Ай бұрын

I agree! HEALTH IS WEALTH!

@farahng2867 25 күн бұрын

Or take a nap. Nobody gets enough sleep anymore.

@cebile1493 24 күн бұрын

True enough sleep, gym, healthy eating will save you alot@@farahng2867

@Maialeen 24 күн бұрын

Sure. But that doesn't mean people don't need moisturizers and sunscreens. Just don't go extreme in any direction.

@Sessae 21 күн бұрын

As someone with adhd buying stuff DO scratch my brain sometimes but I am so happy you didnt just say DONT BUY STUFF as it really does feel like an itch sometimes. The going an buying a coffee or a pastry is such a good option as you do scratch the itch and whilst you enjoy the loot you also get a moment to reflect

@TheQuietRiotProductions Ай бұрын

I only use face wash, vitamin c serum, moisturizer and SPF. These work well on my skin. I’ve tried different products and routines. Something’s minimal skin care routines are better.

@doeeyes2 27 күн бұрын

Sam except i also use tretinoin (retinol) at night.

@sc6658 22 күн бұрын

Same but I use a gentle (drugstore) retinol and a salicylic acid serum. It seems to work very well for me and everything I’m currently using in my routine I’ve repurchased… so I have very much decided it works and I like it, and I’m maintaining the same routine and not out buying random new stuff.

@nnss7728 Ай бұрын

Self care can be so expensive for me, i am definitely cutting down on a lot and only sticking on things that i know work for my skin, being acne prone has led me on an expensive journey to find a solution 😅 but i also learning to cut back and just enjoy life

@SocialSymone Ай бұрын

I feel you, I've done the same before. I just see the experts about it now, saves mkre time and mkney cause I dont know what I'm doing 😂 But i hope you find what works best for you 💕💕💕

@littybritty9983 23 күн бұрын

Just deleted a bunch of things off my Amazon list I was about to buy. While listening to this I realized the gratification would only be temporary but I’ll be permanently out of that money. So thank you ❤️

@HM-pw8it 29 күн бұрын

I started getting a massage every six weeks to help combat chronic stress. Is it expensive? Yes, but it’s actually something beneficial for my health and mental wellness so I consider it to be a good investment 🎉

@Eddysig Ай бұрын

I always leave this comment on these types of videos and so I'll say it again: anyone who knows anything about psychology or therapy would know that self-care contains at least four parts and only one of them is the physical element of it, and at the same time, that physical element of it is not having every smell of the same soap, it is genuinely taken care of yourself in a way that is needed or relevant or Etc. I'm so ready to leave therapy buzzwords behind in 2024, as an educator that's my take

@SocialSymone Ай бұрын

Very good take here! 💕💕💕💕

@slackira 20 күн бұрын

Im so happy someone spoke on this. Im tired of these shorts with girls slapping products worth 1000's of dollars. It's all an illusion and totally useless.

@sj3695 17 күн бұрын

Honestly, this is why I quit Sephora and this whole influencer thing makes me sick bro. I could not in good faith sell products to ppl genuinely struggling I knew would not work or they didn’t need. The best makeup artists literally reccomend using blush as lip stick, vice versa, eyeshadow as highlighter etc. you do NOT need a product for every single step. I hate this omg. Thank you for this video 🙏

@lightlessmoons 12 күн бұрын

If we deleted and got off social media, we would know exactly how to care for ourselves and realize none of them would really cost anything. We wouldn’t be looking to influencers or advice from TikTok/youtube/ig. Society no longer knows how to think or care for themselves without the opinions of others and that’s incredibly dangerous.

@cameronwhite9742 15 күн бұрын

I don’t know if you will see this but I really needed to find your channel. When I was laid off last year I used self care to spend 20k plus using credit cards and my savings. I am now making more money and I have a fiance. He pays our bills and I am paying my debt off. I wish I would’ve seen your channel first. You are such an amazing black women!!

@JVlk-tw6fs Ай бұрын

700$ debt for "self-care" products?!!! I've spent the same amount in 2023, and that's including vitamins, paracetamol and other stuff for my 1st aid kit, contacts and compression socks. And I still think that I've overspent. 😅

@sc6658 22 күн бұрын

Not gonna lie the afterpay shit makes me SO happy my parents instilled the fear of credit cards in me at a young age even if that’s also caused me a lot of anxiety (granted, anxiety that has probably kept me in less debt than I would have been in but still). I saw that the first time and I was like “fuck no”; if I can’t afford a moisturizer or something right now I do not need it. I will be saving debt for the big ticket purchases I can not afford to buy outright if I need to go into it.

@janea8093 Ай бұрын

Thank God I have sensitive skin. I could never use more than 3 products cause my skin would freak outtt

@elenaespinoza8158 21 күн бұрын

Same girl same my picky skin don,t need bougie they need no fragrance and a reasonable price

@leashines9937 4 күн бұрын

I deleted my social media accounts for the overconsumption that was put on my feed. I even changed the content I consume on KZfaq to avoid finding out the new trends. I already know what works and don’t.. No need to change..

@siofit8593 22 күн бұрын

When I need to pamper myself I mostly go to shops like Dollar Tree or 5 Below. I always have some self care stuff, but never got broke. 😀

@SheLovesFubu 18 күн бұрын

Your video is godsend. I have been craving buying stuff and it’s now obvious that my social media needs to go (except for my KZfaq subscriptions which don’t include anyone pushing me to buy stuff).

@Om29410 Ай бұрын

Watching you changed my perspective, I’m currently strategising on how to pay off my car faster. I started spending less too. love from South Africa ❤

@BrittSaysHey Ай бұрын

It’s always a new skincare product every week they throw at us 😒

@ailsalivingstone5249 12 күн бұрын

Great video. I've been operating on the mindset of I'm generally miserable so buy a little treat, a reward at the end of the week. I then lost everything I owned and justified excessive spending with well I meed to replace. But ultimately none of it was making me happier, the new skincare item didn't work any miracles, the expensive pretty shampoo from japan nothing more than any other I've used. And I look back and see money spent. Thousands that could have probably bought me my own home, a major need now. I see my path but everything is honestly so fucking depressing it's hard to stick to.

@vvitch-mist20 Ай бұрын

The idea of buying and using 17 beauty products as an act of self-care is insane. Like sure if your skin is THAT bad, but like her skin just looked slightly irritated. The only cost I have for myself is my nails. I would love to do them on my own one day, just because I like doing things for myself, but as a single mom not needing to do anything at all for like two hours and focusing only on myself during that time is vital for my mental health. What I do as a form of self-care is create. Like making a bracelet for myself, or even editing my stories. If I don't get out my creativity somehow it ends up making me sad and depressed.

@SocialSymone Ай бұрын

It was getting irritated, she did a followup video and she has calmed down on all the products. She says she was pretty much trying to figure out what works for her and made a mistake doing all that. I applaud her her her accountability and honesty! I'd love to know how to do nails too! I just wear mine bear, but I used to keep them done but I was looking for ways to save and it was THE 1ST things to go lol. I hope you learn, it could save so much! These are some great ideas! The creativity is a great outlet! I like using it as a release as well 💕

@vvitch-mist20 Ай бұрын

@@SocialSymone Oohh! That makes a lot of sense. I hope so too! I haven't found regular polish that LASTS and since I get gel nails I don't necessarily wanna do that at home. I'd rather eat the cost, then risk getting an acrylate allergy. I don't think enough people make art and it shows. So many more people will be happier if they drew or painted regardless if it's good or not

@mossthebryophyter 8 күн бұрын

My self-care is continuously buying pounds of peanuts to feed my local crows and get feathers and eucalyptus seeds from them. They recognize me and follow me for blocks and they bring me a lot of joy with their silly antics

@SpitGoblin Ай бұрын

as much as i loveee a facemask and a lil treat.. that's not what self care really is... self care is sleep. self care is eating good foods. self care is meditation, taking breaks, showing yourself love and compassion when you're feeling down. it's awesome to buy things that make us feel good, and make our skin look good, and our hair smell good.. but maybe we should consider spending your money mindfully and not over consuming as self care as well!

@je1636 23 күн бұрын

Soooooo true! To me that's real Luxoury

@elana._.6911 20 күн бұрын

I love this video. It changed my mindset as a 16 year old who is bombarded with videos like this 24/7 NO JOKE. I never really fell for it since I think really hard before I buy but I buy the products that I need and that’s it. Yesterday I was considering spending £20 on that “life changing” summer Fridays lip balm. I’m so glad I have control. If anyone wants a tip for online shopping put things in your cart then wait for a week or 2 . If you truly want it you buy it but usually by then you realise you don’t need it at all and you save money and use it for something important!!!! Ps. Your skin is glowing

@mallorydaniellemusic 9 күн бұрын

My tips: *Do not buy Anything Online! *Use cash only! *Do not splurge on yourself until all your bills are paid! *Do not borrow money or get loans for "stuff" *Do not shop when you are sad (or having a lot emotions that day) *Do not buy new stuff (as in anything that has not been out for atleast a year then read reviews) *Do not buy anything if you have not looked around, price checked and looked in 2nd hand stores first! Hope this helps and yes this is what I do ❤

@jeri3794 Ай бұрын

Thank you for shining a light on this. All you young girls need is a gentle cleaner and a good moisturizer with spf 30. Anything more is a gimmick. Once you get older then you can start adding hyaluronic and retinol.

@MarciaRain 29 күн бұрын

I cleared my face with working out, cutting out alcohol + junk food + sugar, and 4 products (toner, cleanser, vitamin c, sunscreen, & retinol @ night) anything beyond that is overkill.

@NicoleStrauss-lr6tv 17 күн бұрын

No moisturizer?

@soyjoyy 10 күн бұрын

That's 5 products and it's an overkill already. Anything beyond cleanser and moisturizer with SPF is. Eat vitamin C rich food if you need it so much

@dlilwon 7 күн бұрын

Girrrrlllll since i found put with don’t even really need toner i cut that out like 5yrs ago too. 😅 Mild cleanser, VitC&E serum, moisturiser, SPF night: Mild cleanser, Tretinoin, Moisturiser End off

@amandak.4246 7 күн бұрын

yes, everyone should try an elimination diet before any product because it is free! i figured out i am milk protein intolerant, and quitting dairy got rid of the acne i had had for like 15 years

@reagancouch7287 6 сағат бұрын

A few years ago I became severely depressed. I was so overwhelmingly tired when I got home I just crashed. Then I found “self care” videos. They said they knew how to get my life together. It became an obsession. I had a ton of products. If I didn’t do my routines I would feel so guilty. Even though they would just stress me out more because of my how busy I was. Eventually I got help tho and I’m better now. The products never made the sadness go away. I was only 14 at the time and still figuring out who I was (still am tbh). I looked up to the people I saw online, because their lives were so much better. I still have a busy schedule, but I have found a few ways to cope. When I do have a mental breakdown I at least know who can actually help me.

@ashbee468 25 күн бұрын

I’m 26, getting married in a few months. My future mother in law got some Botox done a few months ago, and she was speaking to the doctor about the next time she should do it because she wanted it done again before our wedding. So after they talked about it, the doctor was like “well what about the bride? Is she going to come in?” And my fiancés mom was like oh no, she’s too young for Botox, and the doctor was like oh honey you’re never to young for Botox… when she told me that I was like yeah absolutely not. I’m not at all concerned about aging. My paternal grandmother was like 65 before she started really looking her age. I think I’ll be okay 😂 But that’s how they get you.

@docfabz 10 күн бұрын

Wow that really makes me side eye the doctor for saying that lol botox is indeed not everyone

@soyjoyy 10 күн бұрын

You know they would inject botox into toddlers if they could

@_DEVILYCH 28 күн бұрын

Your videos help a lot that’s one thing I’m sure in! Something already broke inside of me, I would usually spend my almost entire pay check the day I receive it, for the last time it sits almost untouched, I only buy groceries and stuff that I really need, and it just feels so much nicer than having a lot of new junk products and no money. If you treat yourself all the time it just stops bringing joy. The rarer the purchases are, the more excitement they bring, because it’s something you really need/want and been wanting for quite some time, not an impulse buy due to some lunatic telling you “buy this shi and be THAT girl 😍💅”

@MoonDark9206 9 күн бұрын

this is why I hate tiktok, most of the women on there are already beautiful and ever had acne problems, like me. I've always struggled with acne since fourth grade, now as a 17 year old female I'm trying to clear up my skin. Another thing is that my mom told me a story of how she was in serious debt b 19 because she used a credit card and feel into the negatives. overconsumption is going to increase unless influencers realize they are telling a dream that is only gonna make them hated..

@klaudia_d 22 күн бұрын

I am so grateful for the algorithm that showed me this video! I can afford my consumerism-"self-care", but I definitely overbuy, or at least feel like I should buy something to make me feel good. And yes, I knew all the things you said in this video. But still, it was a great reminder of what really matters. Thank you!

@kimallnaturelle 29 күн бұрын

I thank God I'm a minimalist at heart. Aside from trying to find lower cost options of staples, I rarely buy new/trendy things. I only buy things I can test and return. Once I find something that works, I stick to it.

@azaliyahx 23 күн бұрын

Yesss this is such a good vid topic! What helps me stay in line w my spending is making sure I'm not buying smth I already have or can't finish before the expiry and doing proper research before getting a product so it's less likely I'll be disappointed with it and end up wasting it

@anaerobic Ай бұрын

I'm loving your videos! I've been building a playlist over many years of overconsumption and overspending videos and these fit perfectly. I've also found a few documentaries on credit card companies; the tactics they use to take advantage of human psychology are pretty shocking 😬😬 and that was before bn&pl! 😅

@SocialSymone Ай бұрын

Your support means the world to me! It's awesome to hear that you're enjoying the content and finding it relevant to your interests and helpful 💕 The buy now pay later stuff is wild and yes it's very shocking the mind games that are being played.

@ladywho900 7 күн бұрын

Thank you so much for talking about this, I’m so tired of overconsumption of products and life styles that it’s refreshing to see someone talk about anything else. I fell into that trap and now I’m slowly getting out of this hell, and I know I’ll feel better. Thank you again for reaffirming this, I really appreciate it.

@May-qb3vx 28 күн бұрын

For me real self-care is getting outside and just listen to the birds and feel the wind on my face. Or pick up my fantasy novel and read the day away. Just unplugging. When I start wanting to spend a bunch of money on stuff, I know that’s when I need to get away from the phone

@innajakslova32 11 күн бұрын

It's really nice to see someone adequate and mature on KZfaq 😊

@hannah2012 7 күн бұрын

i am so grateful i found your channel! i grew up watching my mothers horrible spending habits & eventually adopted them, now in my 20s i am realizing how detrimental my habits could become and am working towards becoming more financially responsible. social media completely sets me back sometimes but your commentary is LITERALLY a breath of fresh air than what is normally pushed onto us!! you are amazing & deserve every ounce of support you get!! ❤

@jessiew4103 8 күн бұрын

Im on a long road towards learning what self care actually looks like in my life and slowly developing the capacity to care for myself in ways that will pay off in the long term. Growing up I was not taught how to care for myself properly and overspending, overconsumption and accruing debt were all normalized. Videos like yours help me to feel less lonely on this journey and remind me that I'm on the right path. I'm nowhere near perfect and I still struggle with overspending but making progress. Thank you for bringing all of your thoughts to this platform and helping us all see more clearly ❤

@Userunderstan1 Ай бұрын

Great job putting this together Symone. I always look forward to your uploads to help keep my friends and I grounded.

@SocialSymone Ай бұрын

Thank you so much, That was so nice. I am so glad you enjoyed this! I appreciate you for your love and support! 💕

@__VR__8 22 күн бұрын

Self-care can look different for different people. However, self-care is not over consumption. As a woman you need to find the routine and the products that work best for you and just stick to them. You need to keep yourself HEALTHY and clean. Take good care of your meals, oral and body hygiene, move your body regularly, read books , listen to music and honestly - that’s it! Nothing wrong with having a self-care routine as long as it’s only the products you need for mantaining a healthy skin, not some random serums.😭

@amyyluvr 8 күн бұрын

You’re video just came on my recommended and I understood what you said and loved the video. So you just earned a new subscriber:)

@pookieadw 29 күн бұрын

Still loving this series

@jessywanders8829 7 күн бұрын

I had a slight problem with overbuying skin care products. at the beginning of this year I made a promise to myself that I was going to use all my skin care that I have before I purchase anymore. The only thing that I was able to spend a little bit on was sunscreen. I had hundreds of facial masks and now I'm down to about three boxes. So proud of myself for using what I have first.

@Gladiator_in_a_Suit 23 күн бұрын

I love that you mentioned this, I learned the proper meaning of self-care in my college guide class course, which meant self-care means managing lifestyle in a healthy positive way that reflects it onto others, being organized, eating healthy, admiring the little things in life ( a tree blossoming) or nature in general, managing finances to lower debts and create more savings, cutting ties with people who aren’t good for you spiritually, mentally, and emotionally is also a part of self-care, which is something I’ve also done in managing my self- care, my class discussed this along with having a growth mindset to get through difficult classes-- I utilize what I have learned every day, and it’s helped me tremendously. Also, I am a minimalist 😊. Hollywood beauty oils in the 2oz bottles that are $3.99 make a great face serum, and doctor bronners Castile soap gives me soft skin when I use it with a bath sponge, I also use the soap in a spray bottle to kill fire ants. And witch hazel is a toner--no need to buy toners for $46. My witch hazel by Dickinson is $4.99.

@cookiecrumbs302 7 сағат бұрын

i’m glad people are finally talking about this, i struggled a lot with trying to keep up with the trends over the past 10 years especially in high school

@keciaaskew5166 16 күн бұрын

Some of those skin care products from Sephora cost a lot of money, and can damage your skin. This over consumption is a major problem. I agree, people buying these skin care products doesn’t pay your bills. It’s only materialistic things. I work, and I don’t go out and spend a ton of money.

@iamReptar Ай бұрын

The amount of self care steps for facial routine is baffling. The only barrier you are destroying is your skin. These facial products make it so that you have to go back for more. They ruin your face permanently for this reason.

@Schlumpfine-pl5yo 16 күн бұрын

Thank you for talking so much sense! Re make-up and skin care: I have bought a lot of products, so I am using them up and try to enjoy the things I have. A lot of make-up products last a super-long time. No need to buy more. And yes, it’s a satisfactory feeling, but very short-lived.

@carlottavaleri2579 7 күн бұрын

I love this video! Recently I realised that I’ve subconsciously started buying more and more stuff (mostly skincare and makeup), not in a concerning amount but still I realised that those products I bought three months ago are not even 1/3 used and most of the time I don’t see myself reaching for them. I also had a list in my note of all the skincare I wanted to try and some of them were really expensive (I try to really manage my finances cause I’m a student and I don’t have infinite money so thank god I didn’t buy those). The point is I finally understood that I was just wasting my money and good products, I stopped buying new stuff and I deleted that note (and I’m trying to stay less on social media). Now the rule is that I have to finish the product I already have before buying new ones! If you are struggling keep watching these videos, they will give you a dose of reality

@niyahlalli3633 7 күн бұрын

I also want to bring up the concept of race and self care. Women, especially black and indian, have struggled with being called gross or disgusting due to western ideologies. Its affected the way I've grown up because I am so worried about being called the smelly indian girl or the indian girl that stinks. Its become more of an obsession over others opinions on me and a need for constant validation by purchasing something. I’ve realized that I don't need an extensive skincare routine or a 10 stop body care routine to be clean. And finding beauty in your race will be more important then focusing on the flaws.

@kensiblonde4203 14 сағат бұрын

Women on the whole are told they stink. Look at all the “feminine hygiene” products. As if our privates are supposed to smell like sunshine and apples. 😂🙄

@julibealldunn Күн бұрын

Thank you so much for this video! I feel like even “self care” influencers who push you to live a better life somewhat trick their viewers as well, by telling them to live through certain routines that only influencers without an actual nine to five job can accomplish. Many people don’t have the time and money to live out these extravagant and privileged routines and find themselves unhappy. When stressed, they try to buy products in order to compensate for being unable to fulfill these unrealistic routines. This video I feel like is very truthful, and more scientific on a physiological basis. Self care isn’t the money you spend, how your body looks or the clothes you have. Self care is much more mental. And if you truly do want to have a better look on the outside, start on the inside and work outwards. I feel like the people many are drawn toward are both beautiful in and out.

@LacyyGerelli 21 күн бұрын

Video blew my mind on my overconsumption and I really enjoyed and appreciated your insight and great advice. Subscribing! Thank you❤️

@starchan2036 10 күн бұрын

Love the section about retail therapy. I never thought about how indulging in it trains your brain into accepting spending money as easy dopamine. This is a really thoughtful video

@corazon5929 15 күн бұрын

Glad I found your channel. This is the stuff I want to hear, tired of feeling like an underachieving outsider for Not being obsessed with tons of products and pretending Im rich.