I can't believe how people don't see the athleticism needed for ballet. To me it's obvious how much it takes to do ballet.

My ex boyfriend is a professional ballet dancer & he's straight.

So taking off a dance belt is the equivalent of taking off a bra

Who ever said that ballet isnt athletic???😂 i feel like its one of the hardest sports

I must say, I’m a male ballet dancer and I agree with most of what your saying and I love the vid but I do think that in general there is a lack of male ballet dancers in the industry. I think that bullying is a really bad thing and mostly breaks characters rather than builds them. I know so many boys that quit ballet because of bullying and it’s a shame because ballet is an incredible sport that everyone should appreciate not bash.

Most jocks would cry if they had to do what male ballet dancers do every day. The muscle control is brutal.

honestly as a ballet dancer i can safely say BALLET BOYS ARE HOT and cooper nielsen from centre stage is amazing

Honestly I find it annoying how a lot of people find all male dancers gay or assume that their gay. it’s annoying

As a straight girl i find that boys doing any form of dance is very impressive. The athleticism and discipline required for dance seems to outweigh other sports in my opinion. In other words, my monkey brain is more inclined to be more impressed by a guy who dances than a guy who plays football (no hate footballers, maybe its just the footballers ive met)

i feel like ballet and figure skating are two of the hardest sports because you have to not only be extremely athletic and do these amazing sporty things, but also LOOK good while doing it! it’s a huge extra level of concentration and perfecting your performance. this video has inspired me to look into maybe doing ballet in the future :)

His shirt really brings out his eyes. Also this aesthetic is everything

My straight guy friend: *does ballet* Random dude: G A Y Me, a girl: *in ballet* Same random dude: wanna go on a date? Me: nah I’m gay. ok so update, im not actually a girl, i am non binary... but imma just leave the comment to say girl....

My father in law, who is going to be 90 years old later this month and having been the first non Russian ever to train at the Kirov made a lifetime career in ballet. He always said that not being gay meant he had a unique introduction to so many lovely women ballet dancers, needless to say including my mother in law, who was also a dancer! No, not all male ballet dancers are gay but it has always been a special profession for embracing gay people as professional equals, for which it deserves credit. Good luck with the new company. Huston was a good place to start. I saw them come through London's Saddler's Wells maybe ten years ago and their premier ballerina, a rather statuesque woman of color, was sensational!

I guess my son was extremely lucky in the fact he was never bullied, he was in a private boarding ballet/academic school, where his peers male and female were all doing the same, so bullying just didn't happen. He schooled from the age of 7 until 21 in his chosen ballet. Being an athlete is for sure needed in order to accomplish a professional career, you simply will not become a dancer without that ability, athletic injuries are just that, be it a ballet dancer or NHL skater, football player etc., they all suffer the same injuries, male & female. My son (non gay, maybe 1 in 5 at his school) after 14 years of hard schooling, was rewarded with a contract with a US Ballet company. 14 years to be a dancer, you must love it, because not many professional anything! requires that much training, or money to finance it. We love all ballet men, understanding that many were abused by ignorant persons, too uneducated and closed minded to respect what they do. Hope you don't mind the long message, I'm a very proud mum. Good luck with your career young man, you have obviously worked hard too. X

Anyone that’s ever actually looked at the body of a male ballet dancer or understands the strength required to jump that high should never question the strength needed to dance.

in cheer often people think all guys that do it are gay and that it isn’t a “sPoRT” but it is actually pretty hard :/

I’m a gymnast and one day we were deciding whether football was harder than gymnastics. Then one girl said, “but we all have to agree that ballet is the most hardcore” Mad respect for anyone who does ballet seriously because the discipline is too much for me 😂

I am 63 and I was a ballet dancer growing up. I had to hide this from everyone at school. I was also a really good swimmer, that is, a really good athlete. In my day, men had it much easier in ballet because there was such bias against it. I never paid for a class during my training and I was able to get most gigs for performances. I am so glad that male ballet dancers are more accepted now. European male ballet dancers were even back then were more accepted. I agree that I am glad that I was subject to bullies then. I learned that bullies are simply cowards and always, always cracked when challenged. That helped me during my later life when dealing with bullies in other contexts.

"Susi" is short for "Suspensorium" which is the term used in German for what English speakers call a jockstrap (or dance belt)

omg i didnt know ur studying at john cranko !! so fancy 😙😙

i love how u explain everything

I did ballet when I was a kid and its difficult, people need to stop thinking just women do ballet. They're professionals, respect their work. Stop assuming their sexual preferences.

Lol. That's kind of like asking if hip hop dancers or any other category dancers are all straight. Good luck on your graduation. Can't wait to see which company you join.

A professional male dancer really puts all other athletes to shame. Years ago, football players used to take ballet classes, not sure if they still do. Male and female ballet dancers rock! Nothing gives a beautiful body like ballet.

I had a male friend in my school class who did ballet with me and he didn't care what anyone said, he also did all of the "normal" boy things like soccer and stuff

so no ones gonna talk about how Call Me by Your Name is chilling on his shelf up above

I read the thumbnail before I saw the title so I fully thought this was going to be a philosophical video. I was ready to be like "yeah he has a point maybe everyone ~is~ gay" LMAO

Congratulations in advance for graduation and your future company. Also learned some stuff about ballet so thank you for that.

Being bullied should make anyone more determined and successful in life and you are proof of that and a good example to others who have been love the video and always much live and success to you.

Rock on! It takes so much strength for ballet and being a male dancer in that world is even more so. Not saying being a female dancer is easier. But still you are awesome. Just wanted to say keep fallowing your dreams

I’m a male figure skater but I really love ballet and learning about it. It’s really funny to see that the two sports have a lot of the same myths! XDD

I’m so confused as to why people think that boys who do ballet are gay...it’s literally a form of dance! Humans really annoy me!

After living in Europe for two years, is there a difference in how the general public views men and women in ballet as a profession there as opposed to the US? I’m a dancer in the US and find it’s always kind of awkward to explain that it’s actually my job to new people I meet because they usually don’t know that it can be a “real” job.

I did ballet for years as a kid and stopped doing it bc bullying and I wish I never quit

Ballet is equal for everyone. A female can do masculine ballet and a male can do feminine ballet! It’s just like dancing, people, to do what you want, flow with the waves. Ballet is something magical, beautiful, and ballet is something that needs to be appreciated more, because it shows who you are, the beauty inside of you. It’s elegant, light and do not even try to bully a ballet dancer, they’re creating arts, not something funny like the hard trendy dancing these days.

I used to be a gymnast, and taking off our leotards after every competition was pretty much the equivalent of taking off a dance belt. The relief was so just satisfying

I love watching the horror on boyfriend's faces when I explain actually what male dancers do and go through. Kudos to you lot, you're the ones who are supporting us on the lifts and getting us up there, while making it look seamless. The amount of times I've accidentally kicked my partner in the balls with my pointe shoes is infinite, yet he still keeps it together. As a ballet dancer, we appreciate you

So I’m a female ballet dancer and I was talking about ballet with one of my new guy friends and we started talking about sports I said I did cross country and ballet his response of course “BALLET ISNT A SPORT” I then tried to teach him some very basic ballet moves and he fell on his face yay I won and he bought me a coke to apologize so we all good😽

I think this is a very Interesting topic and would love to hear more. I dont know how anyone could ever say that ballet is not athletic. Some people are so ignorant.

I do ballet and I think ballet should be a national sport bcs like it uses alllll your muscles and strength in the body and worst part is .. we also need toooo make it look elegant👌 + we need more male ballet dancers....

im a ballet dancer myself and every thing he said was a hundred percent true and i really enjoyed watching this video

I wish u talked more about how ballet is challenging emotionally, and how the ballet community totally pretends this is not an issue.

MALE DANCER CAN IMPROVE HIS PERFORMANCES IN MANY SPORTS; MARTIAL ARTS, FOOTBALL, BASEBALL, BASKETBALL, BOXING AND MORE. WITH STRONG LIMBS A MALE DANCER CAN SPEED THROW A FOOTBALL OR ABLE TO JUMP HIGH OVER FOOTBALL PLAYER AND SCORE A TOUCH DOWN. WITH AGILITY, HE IS ABLE TO MOVE FAST IN BOXING LIKE DODGING HITS OR SIDESTEP KICKS IN MARTIAL ARTS. WITH FLEXIBILITY HE CAN ESCAPE FROM PHYSICAL HOLDS LIKE WRESTLING AND MORE.

My brother does ballet and used to get bullied for it. I feel really bad for people who have to go through that just because of the sport they do. There is nothing wrong with ballet! It's beautiful! (I used to do ballet until like 1st grade but I stopped because I thought it was hard, I still regret that decision) Anyways, my brother's friends from ballet are really sweet and I don't know why everyone hates them so much!

I really really admire the craft of being a ballet dancer, you guys are just the embodiment of perfection. I've always been fascinated by all the movement and all the exquisiteness of ballet performance. Please never leave that beautiful art.

I saw you at the open rehearsal dancing Spanish dance like two weeks ago - it was great, you were so good :)

This was very informative. I can’t believe people think that it is not athletic

Tristan.Your videos are never too long.It’s a pleasure watch you talking about your life.Live you from Brazil.

ballet is such a gorgeous sport, i applaud you for sticking through with it despite all of the negativity you've received in the past :)

Even though my boys don’t want to dance, they know my love for and background in ballet. I am teaching them how to appreciate the art form. I show them all my favorite dancers from Baryshnikov, to Acosta, to Stiefel and so on (soooooo many) when they are interested in learning.😄 I like to show them the athleticism and artistry of the male dancer. I love to inform people about ballet-I’m always amazed how little people understand the art. Well done informing people! You are a very level headed guy and thanks for sharing! Great video. 👍🏻

that moment when you say "im gonna show you what we wear" and not "im gonna model you what we wear" 💔😭

You are my FAVORITE human being on this earth. UR SO PURE😩😩

Oh an PS my friend started her own ballet school and wanted to attract more men, I told her to approach the football team and offer them a "beefy ballet for blokes" course and to do the first one free so she did and they did it "for a laugh" but it was so good and they felt like they got so much from it she paired up with the coach who made it compulsory to attend and basically paid her way through college on that alone plus she got interest from other men who now saw it as a sport rather than a "girl's thing" so that just shows you perception is everything! Ballet is a sport and it's harder because as Tristan said, you have to look good doing it! Could you imagine applying those rules to Rugby? lol!

No matter what subject you choose to talk about in your youtube videos, it's always entertaining, inspiring and overall pleasing. Keep posting because we love you Tristan 💗 we hope you get well soon xx

Guys dancing ballet is the most manly thing ever lets be real, anyone who has the balls to do such a hard sport is awesome af

I’m in England and have always loved to watch male ballet dancers, I think they look incredibly beautiful and artistic

I think the only thing your channel is missing are videos of you actually dancing. I think that would be awesome!

I love hearing about ballet dancers moving abroad to Germany or Russia for example. I think too many Americans stay in their own country and never get to see what it's like to live somewhere else. And boys shouldn't be bullied for dancing or anything else that's traditionally considered feminine!!!

I really do hope you realize your ballet related dreams, you are such an inspiring dancer and human being and you deserve all of the success you receive. Good luck for the future 💗

I dans ballett an i am a boy. You ar en legend for me

Thank you Tristan. Wonderful video debunking the myths surrounding the dancing world. I wish you the best in your career. 🙏❤️

We, as a society, need to normalize boys and men taking dance in America. The amount of athletic ability needed to dance - ballet in particular - is astounding. Bravo to all the male dancers out there!!!

this is so interesting!!! the voices of male dancers tend to get lost in the dance world

I respect you all totally. Just How much they have to bear to get that personality, to be flexible, still and steady. These things really requires courage, commitment, dedication and hardwork. I have always liked Ballet and Ice skating. Cause they just look soo beautiful and worth watching to me ❤️❤️😍😍

So I'm 15 and on this party GC and this guy said "sorry, I can't come, I have ballet". U realize that I have really awesome friends and they're super accepting but I was surprised that everyone was impressed and interested.

It's a comment on how successfully you hide the hard physical effort that ballet requires that makes people think it's not athletic! Grace and lightness come across...not sweat and struggle! Good for you!!!

“If you don’t wear this, everything will be moving inside...” lol

Thanks for posting. I have a male ballet dancer son and its great to educate people on what its like for male ballet dancers

Everyone at my freaking school says “cheerleading isn’t a sport” yet when I easily do a backflip and amazing dance moves( I’m a male and I do cheerleading) during halftime and the game I’m “ really good at what I do” yeah plz just shut the hell up

I have a lot of respect for all the dancers, I just watch your videos about a typical day is for you and I’m tired! And I think ballet (or dance in general) is one of the hardest sports

I had a boyfriend who was a ballet dancer. He is straight

Other sports you can get away with moving your muscles without intent at times. In ballet every movement has to be with intent. The added resistance means that even if a ballet dancer moves less than a running sokker player, a ballet dancer uses about the same or more energy and muscle power in less time.

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Thank you for clearing up all of the misconceptions! As a male dancer myself, the things you talk about affect me every day, and I am grateful for your vulnerability and openness in discussing these issues.

A dance belt is like a male bra. It is padded, makes the lines clean, keeps stuff in place, feels good when taken off.

I have always admired male ballet dancers because they go through a lot and their determination is inspiring. Dancing is an art but also athletic. it takes great discipline to achieve both. I always wonder why people think that its feminine, dancing is an art no matter what the gender of the person is and it takes great strength to express your passion! Thank you for your dedication!

So what you’re saying is that dance belts make you look like a Ken doll...

I spent so many years going to the gym, but I'll never forget my days practicing ballet. God! Was one of the hardest exercises I have ever done

I'm not even a guy, I don't even do ballet, yet youtube recommends this??? I watched the video anyways, it never hurts to learn a little

You should do a video of your dance journey! Like how did you made it to Germany, on that prestigious school, how do you maintain yourself, where are you living, etc. (btw I’m a dancer and I would love to know what is it like having those experiences) ❤️

good information to know about the ballet world. thanks for sharing your journey with us. good luck on finishing your training and joining a company ! ! ! ! !

Hats off to you for this great video!!! I'm an old ballet student. My teacher was a famous Russian professional dancer and I learned first hand about the world of ballet. It has always annoyed me the ingorence of common people about ballet so this is truly refreshing and informative. I love ballet😄. Keep up the good work and good luck with your career!!!

I loved your video, especially when you mentioned eating disorders! A documentary called "Dying to be thin," addresses that issue because of the pressure to be thin and the fierce competition to achieve within a limited number of years. I appreciate the candidness to share about your body dysmorphia issues! Had you not said it, NEVER would have guessed!!! Best wishes for a very happy life and a wonderful career!!!

It is interesting you spent time in Houston. I was glad to hear that. You are close to graduating too. You are on your was Tristan. Watch what the world shows you. I thank you for explaining the ratio of gay to straight dancers and knocking down stereotypes and explaining the clothing and why it is significant. I like that you explained your experience and how you pursued your choices.

Definitely agree with male ballet dancers and masculinity- look at Carlos Acosta and so many of the other top guys!

I find your description of the ballet world fascinating. When I was a kid, my aunt was a dance teacher, and so naturally I got roped into taking classes. My sister did the whole spectrum. They tried me on ballet, but it didn't take. I did do tap, though. I still remember at 80yo the steps, though I doubt I could do them anymore. So I understand the discipline.

Looking forward to hearing what company you will be dancing with so hopefully I can come and watch.

I go to an art school and I’m a dance major and sometimes we study ballet, and it’s so frustrating when other people at my school assume that every male in dance is gay. And then proceed to bully them and mock them because they are “gay”. The style of dance you practice does not determine your sexuality. That’s just not how that works.... edit: I’m a girl.

I really want to get anyone who says ballet is easy to take a class and just watch them struggle

Great point about bullying building character. Almost every kid gets bullied at some point in childhood. You have great maturity to see it and build on it!

I dance ballet and I love your channel, kisses from Brazil 🇧🇷

As a ballet dancer I have a lot of respect fo male ballet dancers they are probably the nicest people I have ever met so ty

omg I am from Stuttgart germany. And love dancing ballet one of my friends also goes to the John cranko school.AHHHH this is literally so cool. :)

I have 3 male dancer sons and my husband is also a dancer. All 4 are straight. We also love and adore many gay male dancers that we have met along the way. That’s just silly that people think about the sexuality of other people. My husband is also a male nurse. Sexuality is not based on profession or activities. Good grief. I’m sorry people even asked that.

When my daughter started volleyball, we had to adjust to a huge increase in needed calories. I would think with the extreme amount of ballet practice required, ballet dancers would need a lot of calories. What is reality?

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My son is interested in ballet, I am encouraging him as I want him to do something that will keep him fit as I have seen that fitness is a habit that stays with kids for life. He can change his mind when he's older but for now he's enjoying ballet. We also live in Germany, we are also black and my black friends think I'm "turning him gay" and there aren't a lot of black ballet dancers for us to reference. Either way he's doing what he loves and that makes me happy.

Why I have a feeling like you’re applying for Houston ballet 😃 well we might see Rhys or Harpers in your channel one day (finger crossed)

My 3 year old son is in love with dance and ballet. He already takes direction so well and he's super graceful and focused 😳 if he became a professional ballet dancer me and his dad would be front row of EVERY performance. Beyond proud!!! Congratulations on your commitment and amazing skill ♥️

Would love another video! Curious to know can ballet level flexibility be achieved as an adult, or do you have to start out as a kid otherwise you can never be flexible enough? Any additional details about how flexibility is involved in ballet would be great