I'm happy you found a family who doesn't judge you for your past. I happy you've found a whole new family who loves you dearly

Peb cov txiv laus2 yeej hlub pojniam dua. Txhob xaiv nraug laus. Zoo siab koj nrhiav tau txoj kev kajsiab rau koj thiab pab tau koj cov yau.

Tus me viv ncaus aw!! Txoj kev ua ntsuag yeej tu siab tshaj mog yog leej twg tsis tau ua ntsuag ces yeej tsis paub li mog es kuv twb tau ua ntsuag dua los lawm thiab es thiaj paub txoj ua os mog kuv pab hlub koj os mog . tab si koj twb muaj hmoo es tau lub neej zoo22 lawm es sib2 hlub xwb mog. Es koj ua ntawv mus tos koj tus niam hluas tuaj nrog koj nyob teb mekas no es kom nws tsis txhob txom2 nyem mog .

Peb ua neej nyob tsis pom txoj hmoo, zoo siab koj tau lub neej kaj siab luag nrog koj zoo siab !❤

Niam laus aw zoo lawm o lub ntuj yeej muaj qhov muag nrog kj zoo siab qhov muaj kj tu txiv lo rub kj tes es kj thiaj li hlub tau kj ob tug yau ces zoo lawm o

Nrog koj zoo siab os sister. I support you doing whatever it takes to survive. Poverty is REAL. Many of us never experienced that and so its easy for us to pass judgements.... you don't have the luxury to think of "Self Respect", your main focus in life is to survive and when people pass judgments without attempting to step in ur shoes, I really don't understand what they're trying to achieve. I'm proud of you. And ur decisions to end up where u are in life!

Wow! Thank you for sharing your story. It helps us to understand things from a different perspective. And .. That is one wicked step- mom you got!!!

I'm sorry that you went through a very bad hardship life....your dad fail you...your dad suppose to protect u as a young girl. Remember...all this bad things happened to you is never your fault....don't blame yourself. I'm so happy that you find a way to survive and support your siblings...it is very blessing. Remember..don't lose hope and God is with u....blessing u well. Stay away from negative pple who not in your shoes. I'm very proud of you as a strong woman. Keep your head high and continue to be strong. May God bless u sister.

You did what you have to do to survive and support your younger siblings, you are not to blame. Your dad failed you guys. He should be ashamed of himself! It's great that you found someone who loves you for who you are.

Nws ua yog lawm os good job.

Yog tsis yuav hmoob ces xum yuav tus dawb zoo tshaj, I support you. Wish you happiness.

ua siab zoo rau koj tus txiv vim muaj nws koj thiaj tuaj tau zoo lawm os mog

Sometimes sacrifices are necessary to survive another day. You know the reasons why you make your choices. No need to apologize to anyone and you don't owe anything to anyone. Just focus on yourself, your family, and those who loves you. For those that mistreated you and abused you, no need to give them any attention.

What is past is past. I applaud you for your courage. No one can judge your life because no one was in your shoes. You had to do what you needed to do to survive period. Bravo!

Koj ua yog lawm os tus viv ncaus.

Sister, you been through so much and suffered greatly as a daughter. You have no debts to your father and stepmom whatsoever. Some of our Hmong stepmother and stepfather are terrible people. Glade that you’re able to find love and peace in America. America is the land of laws. No one is above the law…wish you luck and peace 😩👍🤠!

Txhob tu siab os.nrog koj zoo siab hmoob lub neej ces koj hais tsawg los paub ntau os.tsis thas hlub los yeej tau.koj ua tau zoo kawg raws kuv siab xav ntag.nej cov hmoob nplog mas kuv tsis nyiam kiag li lawv yog neeg dag noj dag haus npav lub yeej yim kuv ntxub dhuav tshaj plaws.

Zoo siab nrog kj o tu me viv ncaus aw txom2 nyem thaum me thiaj kav yus laus os

I am sorry you went to such a hard time. I am happy you found someone that loves you. Go and live your life. Do ever feel sorry for yourself and your life. It’s your time to shine and be free. Sending love and hugs.

Me ntxhais aw.. kuv nrog koj zoo2 siab kawg os hlub2 koj tus txiv os mog Thov Vaj tswv hlub koj tus txiv neb ob leeg mog

Nrog koj zoo siab koj xaiv koj tus txiv tsis yuam kev li os.. peb cov txiv Hmoob khwv heev rau lawv thiab laj tiam heev!

Tus me ntxhais, yuav haiv neeg twg los tsuav yog nws hlub yus thiab yus hlub nws os mog. Peb muaj mekas yeej muaj tej tub ntxhais yuav lwm haiv neeg coob coob kawg, tus zoo kuj muaj tus ho tsis zoo raws siab los kuj muaj os me ntxhais es txhob tu siab txhob xav tau…yus twb muaj tej me nyuam ces yus tso siab rau yus tej me nyuam hlub yus thiab yus hlub lawv os mog ❤️👌

Txhob tu siab nawb mog…thov kom koj tsuas tau kev Kaj siab

koj zaj dab neeg tu siab heev li o viv ncaus aw, koj niam tshiab siab Phem dhaus tsi txho Pu ib npi rau ntaws kiag nawb ,

Sister nrog koj zoo siab ua koj tau lub neej kaj siab lawm nyob ntiaj teb no ces yus niam thiaj yog tus neeg uas hlub yus tshaj plaws

pab koj zoo siab kawg os

Zoo siab koj tuaj tau neej zoo lawm os tus vivcaus aw…

Sister I'm so happy you are so loved right now. You deserve nothing but love. Don't be ashamed for your strength and resiliency. Be proud. I am proud of you.

Koj xaiv yog lawm os tus ntxhais aws txhob tu siab os, koj neej twb zoo lawm pab koj zoo siab.

You did what you did to survive when your father failed to protect and support you. I’m glad you were able to get yourself out of poverty and created a good life for you. Be happy and continue your life. No need to look back at your dad and stepmom.

Txhob tag kev cia siab mog koj txiv lawv tseem npab nauj dhau lawm xwb uas tsis nkag siab txog txoj kev koj ua tsis muaj leej twg xav ua txoj kev koj taug ntawd zoo siab koj tau tus laus2 los hlub koj mog peb hmong meskas tsis khe txog cov ntxhaig yuav2 hom neeg twg los tsuav lawv sib hlub xwb os niam tshiab yeej limhiam os

Me niam hluas aw hmoob hais hmoob yus tsis muaj neej tsa lo tsis care kav tsij hlub koj tus txiv kom tsim nyog qhov nws cawm koj tuaj es dim plaws txoj kev txom nyem xwb os mog..hlub tus neeg cawm yus txoj sia es thiaj tsis muaj kev npam mog..

Pab hlub koj thiab koj cov siblings dhau lawm os. Yus tej neej tej tsa tsis hlub yus. Tus yuav hlub yus ces yog yus tus kheej xwb thiab yus tus txiv xwb. I’m happy you found happiness and love. What everyone seek is love. Some that seek money is never really happy. Nej yeej tsis npam ib zaug li os sister aw. Nws lub siab tseem lim hiam tshaj qhov lim hiam lawm thiab os.

I cried listening to this!!! The past is the past. What you have accomplished today is because of your hard work. I'm so proud of you sister

You did the right thing.. Live a long happy peaceful life!

Txhob hlub leej twg lawm tsuas hlub koj tus nus thiab koj tus niam hluas nrog koj tus txiv nrog koj cov me nyuam xwb txhob tu siab os mog

Life is unpredictable. Everybody has their own dark and shine light. Your light is shining super bright now. Congrats 😘😘💘🌞🌞

You did what you needed to survive and saved your younger siblings. I’m glad you made it out alive and living a good life now.

Nrog hlub nej cov me nus muag ntsuag yav thaum nej tiv thaiv tsis tau nej tus kheej. Zoo siab koj tau lub neej zoo lawm mog tus vivncaus. Koj yuav leej twg los tsis tseem ceeb. Qhov tseem ceeb yog koj tau lub neej kaj siab. Hlub tus neeg hlub koj xwb mog. Tus neeg tsis hlub koj thaum pib los koj tseem ua zoo rau los yeej tsis muaj nqi mog. God bless you.

Txhob tu siab os txhua leej neeg muaj kev tu siab thiab yam tsis zoo.....Hlub2 koj tus txiv xwb os......Yog yus ua neeg zoo ces txog thaum kawg yus yeej tau yam zoo xwb.......

Hauv qab ntuj no ces cov menyuam ntsuag tsis muaj niam tsis muaj txiv es raug tej niam hlob txiv hlob, los yog niam ntxawm txiv ntxawm tsim, los tsis muaj tus niam es raug niam tshiab tsim, thiab tsis muaj txiv es raug txiv tshiab tsim mas thiaj mob ti txha nkaus li no tiag. Yuav luag txhua tus Hmoob yeej tsim menyuam ntsuag li no. So sad, but I’m glad you found a loving husband and having a good life! God bless you and your family!

Live your life sister!! God Is watching over you at all time!!!

Dang I crying 😢 😭.. neog nej tu siab tshaj. My dad love me even my ex left ne.. my dad help me out watching my kids for me to go work. I'm lucky one, but so sad my dad he passed away last year 😢.

ຈັງແມ່ນປານຊີວິດຂ້ອຍເນາະ

Sister don’t worry about your life in the past what you did we understand you. We say you did a very good job, and you so lucky come to United State of America. Don’t ever think about your husband is too old, he’s not your nationality. You really need the one he loves you, don’t worry about what peoples said it’s your life.

Sister don’t worry as long as you n your husband love each other don’t care about your parents if you read this statement you are not ALONE I’m also Hmong too i married to Hmong man but my parents are real parents not even step parents but they don’t love me as the other siblings they only want to suck your money so don’t feel bad feel disappointed your fortune happy what you have and continue love yourself since I came to America almost 30 years I NEVER go back to my old country so love your husband your kid and the most is yourself happy start from you…. No one understands you if they are not on your shoes

I’m glad you found your happiness. You are a strong woman and you deserve the best. Don’t ever stop believing in yourself. I too have a wonderful quiet life with my American man. I have to say I’m the luckiest woman. I understand why you don’t go around the Hmong community. They always have something to say, and it’s not nice.

Tsis cem koj os tus me ntxhais, tsuas yog nrog koj tu siab rau koj zaj neej neeg xwb os, txoj kev ntsuag tu2 siab, leej twg tsis tau ua ntsuag ces yeej tsis paub os mog, tus ua ntsuag thiaj to taub koj txoj kev ntsuag tu siab xwb os mog!

Wow! Sister May, this story is one of your best IMO. The sister in this story was so brave in my eyes. She loved her siblings so much she was willing to sacrifice herself to support her family. Love has no boundaries. Age is only a number. She made a good decision to marry the one who showed her love and support. I wish her nothing but the best. ❤️

Tus mi ntxhais nrog koj zoo siab tias koj tuaj tau lub neej zoo lawm os. Yog kawg koj txiv thiab niag niam tshiab ntawd tsis tsimnyog tau koj txoj kev kiag li nawj txhob xa mus pab kiag li ntag

So happy that you found love. Your story is one of survival and perseverance. Be happy. That is the best revenge in life!

Ca peb hmoob es feem coob kv yeej pom cov coob es yog thaum twg yus muaj nyiaj cev rau luag thiab muab rau luag tas li xwb es yus thiaj li yog tu zoo xwb os...... Yog thaum yus tsis muaj nyiaj lo yog tsis muaj rau luag noj ces luag yeej tsis xam tia yus yog luag neeg li os tu siab tshaj li os peb hmoob tsis txawj sib hlub

Koj ua Yog kawg lawm os sister, tsis npam li os. Tug neeg ntxub yus Thaum me, niam no yus loj hlo tsheej neeg lawm. Lawv mam tig los hlub yus thiab kom yus pab ces lig lawm. What you do is right sister.

Lawm hnub kj txiv tuaj txhob pab nws tuaj txhob pab thiab cia ob tug txom nyem o

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Omg that's so sad, im so glad you are here in America for better life!

Kuv yog txiv neej tab sis kuv yuav tuaj tus muam no tog kuv ntxub cov txiv neej ua tsis taus txiv li no thiab kuv ntxub cov poj niam siab lim hiam li no tus muam koj tsis yeem xa nyiaj mus rau ob tus neeg tau tsim txom koj dhau los yeej tsis npam koj ib zaug li o nawb

tu me viv ncau. cas peb cov ntshai es ib leeg nim muaj ib txoj ke tu22 siab li os yom. 😭😭😭

Tus niam laus aw kj muaj peev xwm heev li os

Sister everyone who doesn’t have parents to guide them, education, and role model, can make mistakes. Don’t let your mistakes define you. I am very happy to hear of your happily ever after. Happy you can be a role model for your siblings, because you had to walk the mistakes to learn to guide them. Don’t worry about the Hmong community, they don’t deserve you that is why God gave you the a different community.

That was sad. I'm glad you have a better life now! You are a very strong person!!!

There is nothing to be ashamed of, you had to do what you needed to do to survive. You are kind and loving. And sacrificed a lot, for your brother to have a better life and future. You deserve, to be loved and treated well.

Whatever happened in the past is history. Let them be a lesson to learn and teach your daughters to be a better person. No matter what storm came through your way, you are strong enough to fight through it.

Hle ris tsho rau thaum laus yuav hmoob meskas nyiaj, tuaj mus muag cev…….nej cov poj hmoob nplog yeej ua yam num no….thiab npaj rhuav luag lub neej

Nrog koj zoo siab rau koj lub neej os. Peb tib neeg nyob ntiaj teb no muaj tus phem los yeej muaj tus zoo thiab. Txoj kev npam yog yus tsis muaj kev txhaum ces yeej tsis muaj kev npam. Happy for you

Nrog koj zoo siab nb me sister

Hmoob hais tias tus nab Ntsuab tuag los yeej muaj tus dav tus Iab los nqa

Tus me niam aw niam tshiab ces yeej zoo yam txhua 2 tus li os peb cov niam tuag lawm ces yeej ntsib txhua yam koj tshib los ma yus tus txiv ces yog tus hlub tshaj xwb os

Damn.... NAS FORREAL.

Viv ncaus aw...tsis hais leej twg li yog u ntsib txoj Kev txom nyem ces yeej ua 1 yam li os mog peb hmoob ces yeej 1 txwj tsis txaej xav ua dab tsi Los lawv tias u rhuav lawv ua rau lawv txaj muag no xwb tab sis xab maim no leej two ua yam two Los tshuav u muaj peev xwm os mog txhob tu siab os zoo siab rau koj lub neej niaj hnub no xwb txhua yam phem tso pob tseg os mog .

Tsis ua li cas os... Niam ntsuab teem aw... Koj yog kuv ib leej muam hauv peb tsev xeem hmoob vaj uas piav neej neeg pub rau peb ib tsoom hmoob tau muaj kev paub pom dav ntawm kev ua neej thiab ua neeg mas nws yog ib yam muaj nuj nqis tshaj pub rau peb tsoom hmoob lawm os mog... Kuv lub kaus mom xwb twb tseem pauv tsis tau koj ua muam lub lu lus pev neej neeg pub rau peb hmoob tau muaj kev kaj siab no nawb mog... Ua tsaug os...

No matter what u do. Good or bad, people will always judge. Your not the only one who had to do the things u did to survive and support your siblings. A lot of young women’s in the Asian country works at places like this to help support their family. Its sad your dad didn’t stand up for you but im glad your siblings are still apart of your life and that your married to someone who loves you. Glad you have a better life now.

Nyob lub ntiajteb no, yeej tsis tau pom dua. Tsis muaj ib tug NiamTshiab/NiamYau Hmoob es yuav hlub cov minyuam ntsuag li os Hmoob siabphem limhiam DEV. Hos peb cov Txiv Hmoob mas, thaumtwg nej tau kiag ib tug pojniam tshiab, ib tug niam yau kiag lawm mas, nej tej noob-qes ploj tag. Ua tsis taus txivtsev li. Cia cov niag PojDab niam tshiab niamyau tsim nej cov minyuam.

Yus yeej los ua Niam ntsiab tabsi cas tsis muaj lub siab phem npaum li cov Niam tshiab nyob tim nplog thiab. Pom lawv cov me nyuam ntsuag2 nos es yus twb pab2 hlub tsis ntxawj tas li. Rau tus Niam tsev nov, koj yeej ua Yog kawg lawm…tseem ua Niam ntiav tseem zoo dua muaj tus txiv Hmoob es tus txiv Saib tsis taus yus. . Ua Niam ntiav yeej yog muaj pheej xwm, yog ib txog haum lub xwb thiab tau nyiaj los Pab yus cov nug muag, Yog muaj hniav txiv es yus hmag deev tsuas2 hmo los twb tsis tau nyiaj tseem tau ua nws qhev ua rau nws noj thiab. Zoo siab ua kj tau ib tug txiv hlub2 kj lawm, thiab cawm tau kj tuaj nyob Mekas theb no lawm. Yog kawg tsis hlub kj txiv thiab Niam ntshiab los yeej tsis npam vim lawv ua rau yus ntxom nyem txaus2 lawm. Ua li koj ua mAs yog kawg li lawm os. Tseem yog kuv los ntshe kv yeej yuav ua li thiab mog.

Koj tus hluas nraug dag koj thiab rhuav koj lub neej, koj tsis muaj zoo neej ua, tus neeg no lub ntuj yuav tsis zam txim rau nws, ib hnub twg lub ntuj yeej yuav npam xwb2 li

Koj ma ua yog tsaj li lawm os koj xaiv tau txoj ke yog taug lawm peb nyob mecas no los peb yeej yuav mecas ib yam! Me ntxhais xaiv txoj ke kaj siab xwb mog

I understand about your life. I imagine if I wear your shoes, I could have done the same sister. You did and are doing great.

Thank for sharing your story. I'm so heart broken and what you have to go through. But am also happy you found happiness and love. Anyone who bashes you obviously have no brain. As for your younger sister because they have such a wonderful older sister who love and support her please advise her to study and work hard for herself. Not all old people are good. What's best is she becomes independent and doesn't rely on anyone. Become a necessity and not a want. Best of luck to you and your family ❤️

Viv nej txiv tsis muaj qaud

You are free now and live your best life

Everyone has made a lot of mistakes in their lives. Nobody is perfect so don’t worry what others say or think about you. What’s important is that you’re loved and you’re happiest than you’ve ever been. Sometimes the families are the ones letting you down and hating on you. Don’t let them get in the way of your dreams. It’s mostly your dads fault for not defending you as he should be. He just let your stepmom have her ways. How dare she abuse you like that. It’s ok to cut out toxic people out of your life, even family members. You deserve to be loved and have a happy life for yourself. You are absolutely right! You don’t need others approval on how you live your life. If they can’t accept you then cut ties with them. Im glad that stepmom and dad are suffering they’re own karma for not loving you and your siblings.

Ua txhua yam tsuav tau noj tau haus thiab nyob zoo xwb vim koj txoj kev tws tsis muaj niam txiv hlub thov Vajtswv hlub koj xwb

Koj txiv ces tsua muaj rab qau yug tau nej xwb o yeej hlub g tau nej

Tso yav tas mus es Koj lub siab thiaj tsis nyob nrog yav tas, ua koj lub neej rau ziag no, thiab hnub no xwb, txhob tu siab mog, peb cov hluas ziag no cov siab zoo ntau dua cov phem lawm, thiab niam tshiab tsis yog phem tas tus mog, kuv yog ib tug niam tshiab kuv xav tias kuv tsis phem li koj tus niam tshiab thiab ov. Let go of your bad past, live your life of today

Tus viv ncaus koj yeej tsis hlub koj tus kheej thaum pib lawm thiaj tau lub npe liam....txom nyem npaum cas los yog ntxhais muag cev lawm ces yeej yog Neeg tsis muaj siab ntsws Neeg liam

We both love your story. Thank you for sharing.

Tu me viv ncau kj lub neej tu siab heev kv mloog ma ib ke mloog ib ke quab vim kv lub neej tseem nyb rau txoj kev txom nyem ntawv khwv nyiaj txhawm rau tej yau ua hnub ua hmo xb os

Tu siab heev li og yog leej tws thia paub og

just be happy with what you have now and appreciate those who pulled you out from the pit of sufferings. love those who loved you and move on away from those who hates you.

Kuv xav ma koj yeej ua yog lawm os mog

Thank you for sharing, yus txoj hmoo yeej coj yus mog txhob Tus siab ov

Nrog koj zoo siab os koj los tau lub neeg zoo thiab zoo qhov koj niam tshiab tsim koj los nws twb tau npam lawm es nws txhiaj mob npam..

Ca koj zaj neej neeg no yuav tu siab ua luaj li o viv ncau aw hai txog txoj niag kev ntsuag ce tsi quaj lo kua muag poob li o

No matter what the situation is then I hope you are doing well today and living the dream. I hope you do yourself proud, if not for anybody. If you have fulfilled your dream that's all that matters. Live it up, life is short, and enjoy life while you can.

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Zoo kawg li os cov neeg siab phem ces tab tom phim xwb os nawb

Tus ntxhais koj muaj hmoo ua phem tub sis tau zoo ! Tsis yog phem rau txoj Liam tab Mas phem yog txiav txoj kev txom nyem xwb koj o k kawg , Txhob hlub niag thaub laus uas yug koj yuam kev mog ob niam txiv dev laus ntxim ntxub kawg

Viv ncaus ua li koj ua yog lawm qhov loj yus yuav tsum hlub yus tus kheej yog thaum yus peem tau mus rau qhov zoo lawm nawb cov neeg phem ces koj ua zoo npaum twg los yeej tsi muaj nqis rau nws tsuas muab los lus los hais zoo 2 ntxias kev hlub ntawm koj xwb phem thiab zoo los nco ntsoov hlub koj tus txiv xwb nawb

Move on and forget the past. God forgives all

Gurl...u have my 100% support... luv comes in different colors and races... I'm so happy for you in finding happiness