I feel like there is more to this story. A restraining order is quite hard to obtain just for fun. If your Nyab asked you to stop dropping off your kids why couldn’t you respect her wishes and boundaries. Maybe you would still have a relationship with your family. People need to stop having a bunch of kids they can’t attend to and expect their elderly parents to care after, while living in someone else’s home.

Stories like these makes me appreciate the love my sibling have for each other and also the love my sister in laws have for me ❤️

tu siab kawg os yug los yog ib leeg ntxhai qhua txawm ua zoo thiab khov npaum twg los yeej tsi zoo li cov tub niam txiv yeej tsi tiv thaij li cov tub os tu siab tshaj npaws lawv pom yus phem xwb yus yeej tsi zoo rau lawv li os txhob tu siab mog niam laus kuv lub neej zoo li koj thiab os tsi yog koj xwb os😢😢

Every family has issues. There is no perfect family. At the end of the day, it’s all about forgiveness. I don’t know any family that loves each other and get along. There is also always a black sheep that has beef with everyone.

Txaus tu siab kawg li. Tab sis tej zaum thaum pib yeej yog tim tus muam pheej niaj hnub mus niam tais yawm txiv heev dhau lawm ua rau meem txom tab kaum tej nyab tej nus heev. Tsis hais los zoo li kuj tsim nyog hais, hais los tus muam tsis yuav ces ua ntau tauj ntau thiaj muaj kev tu siab sib ntxub sib txiav li ntawd lawm. Mloog mas zoo li yog li ntawd.

Koj cov nyab cov nus yog neeg khib khib pom koj zoo lawm cais lawv thiaj ntxub 2 koj os MI muad txhob tu siab rau cov niag neej ghau ntawd mog

Honestly, if you need your parents to watch your kids, you need to pick up your mom to have them watch your kids at your house. My in laws live with me and my home is my quiet place and sanity. You should have more common sense that people need peace and quiet. There is more to this story.

Mloog ua kev kawm nawb, nej cov nus uas mloog mloog poj niam txw los ua phem rau cov muam na.

I believe that your parents played a BIG part in you and your siblings not getting along. This is what's happening in a lot of Hmoob families. Parents live with adult son and his wife. Other siblings have the parents babysit their children, and the live-in son's and wife's life gets disrupted. The siblings that do this have total disregard to their live-in brother and SIL. Just because your parents say yes to babysitting, be respectful, and ASK your brother, especially your SIL. That's their house too. If your brother/SIL says "no," respect their boundary, and DON'T bring your kids over.

Ntuj aw hmooob leej twg tsi tau muaj nyab thiab tsi tau nrog nyab nyob ua ke ce yeej tsi paub li o sim neej no yuav tau cov nyab tsi nyiam yu ce lawv ntxhub2 li ntxub yu muab yu cem rau tu ub tu no tia yu phem npaum ub npaum no Tab si qhov tseeb tiag ce yu twb g tau ua ib yam dab g li tu ntxub thiab phem ntawv ce twb yog nw ntag tu siab tshaj li o hmoob aw

Love those who loves u, no matter blood related or not.

All I can say is people dont hate each other for no reason. Sounds like there’s no mutual respect among the siblings . Sometimes best to walk away and keep peace .

Tus muam cov nus uas coj nyab cov nus uas coj li koj cov ntawd tsis nyog. Ua ntawv tiv thaiv koj lawm os nawb kuv yog ib tug nus tab sis kuv twb tsis txaus siab koj cov lus no li thiab

Cov Nyab cov nus zoo li no , muab lawb dab

Tus muam koj cov neej tsa no kuv meem txom heev koj txhob tu siab nyob twb ywm

Tsi tau pom dua ib cov nus ntse li koj cov nov li os viv ncaus tsi txhob tu2 siab mog lawv tsi hlub los tsi txhob tu2 siab yus hlub2 yus tus txiv thiab tej me xwb puam chawj cia koj cov nus lawv ua raws lawv lub siab xav os mog.

Oyo, some people just have too much time playing the victim game. This lady spends too much time worrying about sh*t she have no control over. If everyone hates you and you see everyone as a problem. You probably are a problem and is the cause. Work on yourself, grow up, and keep your eyes on the prize.

Peb mas nkauj muam nraug muaj 2 3 tug xwb peb sib hlub kawg li thov nej sib hlub mog

Koj twb dhau lawm os niam laus. Tiam sis peb tseem tab tom nyob li koj qhov chaw😢 yog peb tus nus txawj xav,tias peb pab pab nws saib thiab tu peb niam ces nws twb yuav yog tus protectes peb ntawm xyoj kev taug xaiv ntxeev xaiv, tiam sis vim niam muab ntse dhau ua ruam ruam es thiaj li tig los ua plaub rau yus.

Tej tsiaj tseem paub hlub neeg. Tej niag nus ntshaw lub npe tabsis ho tsis hlub luag. Txhob tusiab koj niam twb tseg koob hmmov rau koj lawm es lawv thiaj li tsis Kom koj poob nyiaj.cov neeg tsab ntse ces zoo li ntawv los ma

Kuv nrog koj tu siab os! Ua cas lub neej nov tsis Fair li. Tus muam zoo los tau tus nyab phem. Tus nyab hos zoo los tau tus muam phem. Li cas los zaj neej neeg nov yog koj zaj ces kuv nrog koj tu siab thiab los kua muag os mog.

Niam ghia xwb vim txoj kev sib ntxub

Tu siab kawg li tim koj cov nus lawv tsi kam txo lawv lub fwj chim kom los sib haum xwb ma

Phem kawg jov nus nyab kov

Muam phauj noj ntsev hais lus khev. Yog muam tsis tau ua txhaum ces nws kuamuag poob yeej npam xwb2.

Omg this is my story with my brother and sister in law. My sister in law broke up all the relationships with our siblings. My brother said if he dies to not go to his funeral. I’m sadden but know that he is paying for his sins and karma is with him daily. My mom stays silent because it’s her oldest son and she lives with him. She’s afraid of being kicked out so she complies. I feel this ladies pain.

Yuav txawj sib hlub ces yuav tsum txhob txwm hlub thiaj yog kev hlub.

tau cov niag nyab phem nkawg xaiv ua2 tej muag nug tu siab tas li kom.yuav tuag kav tswj tuag kom tas 😅😅😅

cov muam mas tseg kiab qhov pheej coj mi nyuam mus rau niam tais zov nawb kuv los tsis nyiam cov muam zoo no thiab

Vidncaus, vim cov nus mloog puabtais hais ces thiaj tsis ntseeg nej lus. Kuv yeej pom & paub coob tus nyab nus, nkauj muam sib ntxub tshaj plaws cuag yeebncuab xwb.

Koj ruam xwb pob Yog koj tsi ruam ces yog koj phem xwb pob Koj tham zoo li koj ruam koj uv tab si cas mloog mu mloog lo koj kuj tsi ruam tab si koj ua dag xwb tsi lam muaj ib cov neeg tsi nyiam yu li o yog yus zoo tiag na Mloog tej zaj no tsi muaj dab tsi pab tau o

Cia tus neeg zoo zoo xwb cia tus neeg phem tuag mus kom tag … ib co nyab nus zoo li no xwb txhob ntshaw cia ntuj sau cia lawv txoj kev phem coj lawm. Tej laus tias ua neeg zoo tau kev dav ua neeg phem tau chaw ti. Good story

Cas yuav phem ua luaj li os hmoob os hmoob.

Where there's no love and respect between sister in law and brothers is very sad. I feel for you sis...love and respect those who love you, dont matter blood not. Sorry to hear ur brother and sister not strong enough

Reflect what you do and didn’t do that made people hate you.

There has to be more to this story than what she’s telling. There’s no way all the brothers and nyab hates her but not her other sisters. If one don’t like you then it’s understandable but for all to hate you, there’s more to it.

Omg you’re not alone, my siblings don’t know how to love one another

If one person hates you, I can understand, but if everyone hates you, then theres gotta be a reason.

peb muaj 6 leej kwv tij peb tsis muaj muam tsis muaj yawm yij li ov, tab sis tsaws li pom los thiab nov tej neej neeg tham los mus mas cov nus yog 8o% yog cov phem rau cov muam tsis txo fwj chij vim lawv yog tub caag, tsis hais txog kab tshoob kiv kos kev nruam sim cov dab laug yog cov phem thiab lim hiam dua, cov Muam phauj cov yawg laus lawv, tsaws li pom los mus tam 21 no tsis kkk txog cov tib neeg phem ntawd,

Qhov teebmeem no yog nej niam thiab nej txiv txawj coj ces tsis muaj tej no tshwmsim tabsis yog muaj lawm ua ib siab. Leejtwg yog tus ua txhaum nws yeej yuav tau sau yam uas nws cog lawm. Koj tsis need lawv yog koj muaj koj tus txiv hlub hlub koj.

Txhob tu siab os lawv ua phem li cas cia ces yuav tau sau li ntawv rov ib hnub xwb koj yog tus phauj lawm yeej yuav tau txais txhuas yam li qhov lawv tau ua cia yeej khiav tsis dim li txoj kev phem na

Family feud everyone has it best thing is to keep your distance just take care of your own family don’t worry about other people

Hauv ntiaj teb no muaj ob yam ntub ntawm kev sib ntxub ntawm yus pab nus muag. Ib yam ces yog yus yeej phem2 yeej tsis ua ib yam zoo rau cov niam ib plab yug tab sis ho mus ua dev hlub tub rau tus sab nrauv kom luag teb qhuas2 yus li koj hais nej cov nus muag. Ib co ces yeej yog lawv siab phem es koj ua txhaum me2 xwb los koj yeej yog tus ntxim ntxub. Mloog mas ntshe yeej muaj tej yam koj ua rau lawv es yeej tsis muaj neeg yuav tau lawm es lawv sawv daws thiaj li ntxub koj npaum ko. Sad but llife goes on and just love yourself!

Every family has issues or there is a time that we get mad at each other. but just remember that when time are rough, Family is all we got. And wasup with all these sisters in law that don’t like the husband sisters? I love all my sisters in law and they also have love me as well.

As the oldest, I wouldn’t tolerate any gossips and hatred between our brothers, sisters, and sisters-in-law in my family. Sounds like the oldest brother has no guts to put his foot down to stop this hatred between the sister-in-law, brothers, and the sister… Sounds like your brother are a bunch of idiots or you guys were enemies in the past life…😩!

You're not that innocent. Hnov kiag xwb there's lots of questions. Nobody hates anyone THAT MUCH for no real reason. Not saying the nyab is perfect but I'm sure she has her own reasons you're not addressing in your story If i was innocent I will NEVER EVER leave my job willingly.

Koj cov nus twb tsis txawj coj thiab twb tsis hlub koj. Koj cov nyab twb tsis yog neeg coj zoo. Hlub Tus hlub yus zaj maim no.

Cov neeg ruam ruam thiaj tseem ntseeg tej niag lus dag

Kuv qhov kev xav mas Tej zaum yog tim koj thiab txawm li cas los yuav tsum hu yus Tus nus yog nws tsis kam tuaj hu tus sab nraum thiaj tub qaug nws vim Koj cia li Mus hu Tus sab nraum lawm qhov nov tsis yog lawm nawb yuav ua kom tau cai mas phem zoo los hu nws ua ntej os viv ncaus

Yus g muaj nyab nus niam txiv ib plab yug los g tu siab mloog zaj no tag nas

Muaj tej cov siblings mas muam yeej tsi nyiam nyab kiag li thiab.

I cut my family off and have not seen them for the last 10 years. It was the best decision I every made. Went to college and got my degree. Started a good career. If I was still with that circle, I'd still be drinking every weekend and sleeping until 3pm.

Phem npaum li ko g tas hlub li o

Ladies, have kids when you can afford and/or work with your spouse to accommodate all your kids’ need. Be independent and stop relying on others. You will be much happier when you can solve your issues and complete your task on your own.

Tus sister zoo li Koj tsis Khov txau xwb txhob TuS siab os

Xyov yog txoj hmoo dab tsi thiaj tau yig los ua ib zaug nkauj muam nraug nus xwb cas yuav siab phem ua luaj na nej cov niag nus muag lim hiam aws pab nej tu siab thiab txaj muag kawg li

Sister don't feel bad, I have alot of brother and sister too..they don't know that o exists, they never include me in any of their events..no one ever come visit me,,including my parents,,,I feel sad to but I don't care anymore, because all I need is my husband, thank God, that my husband loves me so much...all I need is my husband, even my family don't love me, I am used to it already...I'm ok..all I need is my kids and my husband,, I am married for 40 years now, and never once my siblings and my parents call me.only me that go and visit, I am so done...

Luag tsis hlub yus ces yus thiaj tsis tshuav lawv nqi os mog

Tus niam tsev tim koj pheej coj coj me nyuam mus rau koj niam zov es koj tus nyab thiaj li tsis nyiam koj peb ua muam nyob txhob ntsaw ntsaw luag kev hlub mog peb yuab tau lo hlub peb xwb koj tus nyab ko siab phem rau koj xwb koj twb paub luag ntxub koj npaum ko cas koj pheej tseem mus mus tim koj niam tsev ho koj niam nus lo yog hom txov tsev tsis txwm puas thiaj ntseeg ntseeg koj tus nyab cov lus dag os

Your brothers just wants to make things hard for you. Just leave them alone. U don’t need them. Remember that in this country, peb cov poj naim ces neej tsa yog teeb liab teeb ntsuab xwb.

I believe you did ruined your relationship when you kept dropping your kids to your parents to watch. You should find your own babysitter. My SIL used to do the same shit to us too and it's annoying as heck. Our relationship dwindle from there. She will drop her kids off Monday thru Friday and then come back on the weekends to watch sports too. She did it for years. I got so tired of her bring her family over every day. I would purposely go out of my own house just so I don't see her.

Kav liam ntsov nyuj dov rau thoob khib nyiab tsawg tus tsawg txoj hauj lwm poob nyiaj tsawg os los

Cas yuav tu siab kawg li os tus vivncaug aw😢😢😢

Tus niam tsev koj tsis txhob ntsaw ntsaw mus saib koj txiv lawv os koj ua zoo xav seb ypg tim koj lo tim lawv thiaj muaj teeb meem li no

I blame the oldest and the parents…gotta put the foot down and restore order before all hell breaks loose.

Nej tsob hmoob kov yeej yog cov hmoob phem cov nyob rau Peb Sab teb chaws los phem ib yam li os tsi yog koj xwb muaj coob heev li os

Yus tej nus muag noj 1 lub mis hlob koom 1 txoj sia, yus thiaj tsis sib dag tabsis niag nus uas nws xum mus ntseeg nws niag poj niam es cia li Tu siab rau Tus Muam ces yog niag nus ruam.

wow tus niam hmoob qos no cov ntxhais loj tuaj ntxim hlub ualuaj li lawm os.....niam moderator koj lub pobtw chom tau ntximnyiam heev li os

Koj zais koj qhov lawm koj tsis kam qhia koj qhov txhaum.

Ua cas u mus ua luag tu nyab xwb luag tu nus tsis hlub luag los u ua nyab u yuav tau hais u tu txiv thiab pob ua cas u tseem yuav mus ua ib nqag ntxw luag kom luag tej nus muag sib ntxub thiab txawm yog luag tu nus nws ntxub nws xwb los u yog tu los nraum los ces luag yeej ntau nqi tias txw xwb no mas peb mus ua luag tu nyab xwb tsis txhob mus ntxub luag mog txawm koj ntxub luag los koj ua koj lub neej yeej tsis txog twg thiab os kom peb hmoob paub ntshais tias muaj ib yam dab tsi tsis zoo ces tsuas muaj yuav mus Hu muam phauj tuaj tsawm xwb no na es mus ua luag tu nyab yuav tau coj zoo yog luag tsis tau ua dab tsi txhaum rau u ces ntxhov luag los txhua yam yuav rov los rau u xwb os viv ncaus txhob tu siab os mog mus ua neeg ntsiag to xwb kaw rooj ntis tsis txhob xav txog tej nyab nus es u ua u lub neej thiaj kaj siab xwb os viv ncaus aw..

Tus niam tsev ntse tim koj lawk pob ntse koj tsis txawj ua muam thiab es koj cov nus thiaj tu siab tsis hlub koj pob vim koj mus hlub hlub cov sab nraum tshaj koj cov hauv tsev na tos lawv cem cem koj lo ntse tim koj lawm os

Txhob nyuaj siab mog viv ncaus cia nkawv ua nkawv koj yeej yuav pom qhov tom ntej no nkawv yuav tau txais os mog

Peb ua neeg nyob yeej muaj ib txhia nws los yog viv ncaus yeej siab phem li no vim nyias ntseeg nyias tus txij nkawm lawm Tsi zoo li qub thaum muaj ib leeg ib lub qhov ncauj tom qab ces muaj ib leeg ob lub qhov ncauj li tus brother hmoob thaib hais lawm os

Koj niam thiab txiv hais tsis tau ces nkawv tuag nkawv mam qhia xwb ces yog lawm os

Koj tsis yog niaj hnub khiav niam tais yawm txiv, koj niaj hnub siv niam tais yawm txiv xwb. Mus txhua hmo yeej xuab zog lawm. Nyob Nyob neeg lam ts cia li ntxub yus, qhov zoo koj yuav tsum hais kom koj cov tuaj hais thiab tias koj phem li cas lawv thiaj ntxub koj npaum no. Koj hais tias koj tsis muaj nyab nus zoo, ua cas koj cov Viv ncaus ho pom lawv zoo zoo thiab

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Tus niam tsev tim koj xwb vim koj pheej mus mus tim koj niam lawv vim lawv twb tsis nyiam koj lo koj tseg tsis taus lawv ces nyuam qhuav ntxim koj twb paub luag ntxub ntxub koj lo koj mus nyob noj tom koj niam tag li ces ua rau koj tej nyab kuj ntxub koj xwb peb ua neeg nyob txhob ntsaw ntsaw mus cuav zos mas

Wow sister cas koj cov nyab thiab nus yuav txawj hlub koj txog qhab uas ua ntawv tiv thaiv tsis pub koj mus xyuas koj txiv lub ntees na los. Sister aw..cov niag nyab nus zoo li koj cov no xwb ces txhob ntshaw os mog. Mus zeem cov sab nrauv lawv tseem yuav hlub koj dua. Koj cov nyab ntxub koj los tej zaum nws cov nyab haj yam ntxub nws thiab txhob tusiab kav tsij hlub koj tus kheej nrog rau koj tus txiv nkawm thiab neb cov me nyuam xwb. You dont need family like them around you and your family.

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Hmoob hais tias tsis txawj ua nyab no ces yog koj tus nyab no mas, vim nws yog nyab phem nyab siab ti ne yog nyab phem li ko dab laug phem li ko ces tsis thas hu ua nyab ua nus lawm od mog.

Stop giving people the reaction they want. If you know its not true, just let it be. If people are curious and nosey, sure, speak the truth. Who cares what other people believe. Do you.

Tus mes Viv ncaus ntawm zaj neej neeg no ua Cas kuv nrog koj tusiab ua luaj os

Tus niam tsev tim koj xwb vim koj pheej ntsaw ntsaw mus saib lawv as tim koj xwb twb paub luag ntxub yus npaum ko cas tseem ho mus cuav zos thiab tim koj xwb koj twb paub luag tsis nyiam koj li lo koj tseem tsis khiav lub zos ko ces nyuaj qhuav haum

Anyways, first of all family shouldn’t b working together

Sister is you not the only one I’m in the same boat

There’s always 2 sides of the story. If they don’t have any issues with your other sisters but just you then do take a look at yourself perhaps the problem is you.

I can’t judge anyone but sounds like whatever you do, your brothers will never care or love you. You are damn if you do, you’re damn if you don’t. How sad. Just let them go. What’s done is done. You can forgive but not forget.

Uag cas nej cov nus muag es yuav txawj sib ntxub ua luaj na vim koj tus nyab lub tswv yim phem xwb tiag thiaj ua rau nej sib tawg tag li kod los mas tus viv ncaus aw.

Koj puas paub hais koj yog tus muam phauj nawb! Hmoob li kev cai ces yog koj foom ces lawv txom nyem kiag nawb! Koj cov nus yog pab twg naj? Es peb ho tau caiv! Koj ua siab loj nawb koj yeej yuav tau koob hmoo zoo xwb os! Koj cov nus ces yuav maj mam ntsib ib tug zujzus txog thaum lawv pom lawv txoj kev nkaum kev npam es lawv tig rov los thov koj mas lawv thiaj dim nawb!

Very sad and unfortunate. I love my sister in laws even if they were in the wrong. My siblings went thru heaven and hell too. But in the end, we always have each other's back. Blood is thicker than water well in my family at least best of luck to you. Hope you all will get thru this too

Hmoob vwj los cas ho tias qhwv quav ne.

Tej niag koob hmoov los ntawm txiv xaiv ces txhob tos mog tej ntawd yog lus dag lus cuav xwb txhob ntshaw nawb

The problem of this family starts from the part when keep talking your kids to your parents for babysitting. You know your nyab don't like it you you that cause their's jealous. Shoe should stop taking your kids over when you found out. But it's your fault pushing the button too. Don't feel sorry, you started it lady!!!!!!

Sister, it’s ok to let them go. Your brothers are not men enough to act on their own so let them be. Hlub tus neeg hlub yus xwb thiab luag hlub yus li cas hlub luag li ntawd xwb os mog. Nyob teb chaws no koj tsis tos lawv noj lawv tsis tos koj noj es leej twg hlub yus yus mam hlub lawv xwb. Twb muaj lub ntuj pom cia lub ntuj mam txiav txim mog. Kav tsij rau siab ua koj lub neej xwb txhob quav ntsej lawv vim lawv yeej tsis hlub koj.

Love those who love you only ❤️

Twb nyob lu teb chaws vam meej lawm cas coj cai fab kis thaum ub xwb

This story sounds fishy! I think there's more to it than what's been told to us. This sister tells the story like she's super innocent. But I think she may be one of those people that think they never do any wrong. All your brothers and nyab do not like you? Hmmm???

This is why i never want to work with family. If they ask if my work place is hiring i say no. I am glad my work place has no hmong people. Your brother should stand for you too if it is not true. Let her leave, this is your parents house so she can't stop you from going over. Don't feel bad sister, sometimes just because it is family you can cut them out. Toxic people will only bring you down.

Koj cov nus dev uas yog koom niam koom txov yug ces yog dev siab xwb

Siab phem li koj tej nyab tej ñus ces mus ntsej Vaj tswv thiab khiav txawv lav os mog luag tsis hlub ces ua ib siab muaj tej cov tub ces nyiav tiab xwb es thiaj tsis txawj sib hlub