U never ever leave that much money like that. Always hand it directly to the person responsible for what you discussed

This is why I don’t go to any family functions. I befriend any Hmong people. Times have changed and Hmong people are no longer need families to help with farming or to solve their problems. Here, it’s meka country, meka laws, and everyone provides for themselves.

My mom always tell me go and zeem neej tsa, but I never care to do so. I know deep down that they'll always treat me as an outsider so why should I care to treat them like my own.

hehe. Txiv coj xaiv, peb hais yeej muaj ib toom hais "Nej niam hais tias kaj ntug tagkis nej tawm rooj li plaws, nej mus pom luag niam los txhob mus muab luag niam hlub tshaj nej niam, nej mus muab luag niam hu ua nej niam luag tsis teb nej los tsam nej tu siab, luag lam teb nej. Thaum zoo ces zoo2 kawg, thaum tsis zoo ces nej tsis yog luag roj los luag ntshav luag txawm hlug nej los hlub mus tsis tis txhav no mog."

Yog kawg, muaj tseeb2 nawb. Txhob ntshaw zeem kev neej kev tsa mog. Tau zoo nyob yus nyob yus twm zeej li Meskas los kav liam zoo dua ciaj yeeb ncuab.

Me ntxhais kuv twb kawm cauv qhov no lawm hos.

True they should not steal from u but u too stupid to love too deep n never trust your money with anyone just because u know them for a long time a big lesson for u n ppl out there😂😂😂🤣

Wow !! Xav paub seb koj pab neej tsa zeem no nyob qhov twg yog pab pawg twg cas yuav txawj sib hlub sib pab ua luaj li tiag yus tus tub laib nyiag los tseem tsa cai thiab zoo tiag tiag cov neej tsa zoo npaum no mas muaj zog npaum ib xub ntab li oh!!! 👍😆😆😆😆

Tu viv ncau koj thiab koj tu txiv neb taj dhau tseem ua thaj ntseeg2 koj cov niag neej tsa qaib qu kos thiab nas. Twb nyob teb chaw America es tseem ntseeg luag yooj yim ua luaj tseemmuab neb li ID tso rau lawv thiab os. Ntse mi ntsi thiab mas.

😢 sad story I've been married to my husband for 20years and moved far far away from my family the day I got married. I have never ever mus zeem anyone of my surname to be my neej tsa. My parents tells me to but I dont care too. They will never treat me like I am their very own. Like I tell my little kiddo, "lawv yog Hmoob xwb..." 😂

Yog kuv los kuv yeej chim thiab nawv, tim neb ib niam txiv nej!!! Neb muab nyiaj mus faj ua dog dig li hmoob hais tsi paus tsi ntsis nawj, qhov no neb yog 2 tus ua teeb meem rau lawv nawj.

Tsis hais neej tsam / phoojywg/peb niam peb txiv yog peb muab nyiaj rau lawv peb yuav tau muab cob kiag rau tus neeg ntawv ntag. Yog nyiaj ntau lawm tseem yuav tau muab suav kiag thiaj li tsis muaj teebmeem. Vim tej zaum twb yog yus suav yuav kev nes. Nyiaj txiag yog teebmeem xwb. Yog li ntawv peb thiaj li qa dlaim reviece rov los rau luag ntag.

A very good lesson to learn from

Never trust other than your own family. Smh

Koj tsis muaj nus es koj thiaj ntshawv nus, kuv muaj nus thiab tas sis pom lawv cov siab phem3 tsis txawj hlub peb cov muam ces peb yeej tus siab tsis xav muab leej twg los ua nus thiab los ua vib ncau nrog kuv kuv tsis xab tau phooj ywg los nrog kuv li as, thiaj tsis muaj kev nyuaj siab.😢.

Its okay who ever took the money karma will get them . Leej twb Noj qhov nyiaj tag cev yeej kawg tuag xwb os .

Viv ncaus tsis txhob mus zeem neej tsa qus li os lawv yeej tsis hlub yus tiag li os viv ncaus yus cov niam txiv ib plab kiag tej tus twb tseem noj tau yus nas es yuav hais mus zeem nas

My mom has never told me this, thankfully. She herself always said if its not your immediate family, they won't love you. I agree, and this story proves right.

That’s so sad. They all knew the son took it but they still deny & go against you cuz you not blood related. Also since you knew the son is a bad person, you still left the money there. So it’s partially your fault. Never ask let anyone else buy you plane tickets or anything else, you should do it yourself. Hopefully you learn your lesson. Karma will get them for what they did to you.

Lesson learned. Continue to be a good person but have boundaries. Don't let others wrong doing turn you into a bad person.

Neej tsa yog neej ghau xwb os , nyiaj yog poob luag tes lawm cais txhob ua npau lawd 😂😂😊

Cia saib yuav npam leej twg sai sai xwb os vivncaus aw muaj lub ntuj thiab tus tswv yeej khiav tsi dhau tej kev npam li nawb mog.

Viv ncaus koj pab Viv ncaus hais lus mos2 ko mas yog cov tuaj2 pos ntag

Tus tsis yog niam txiv yug ces txawm hlub npaum cas los lawv tseem hais tias u tsis hlub lawv os txhob tu siab nawb

Kuv nrog koj mob siab ua luaj os sister. What u say is true, when problem arises they will always side with their people whether their people is right or wrong. They only love and care for u when they can benefit from you. The son sure took your money..claiming he didnt see no envelope, that, right there is already a straight up lie and he knows it. Being the theif that he is, i wouldnt be surprise if he get caught for something else later in life. Its ok, no need for these fake asss neej tsa.

Viv ncaus koj mas tseem yog ib xeem xwb kuv mas yog ib pab kwv tij yug kiag ib tug tuaj tau ib tug tsev kiaj nim no luag tsuas hlub tus muam ntawm lawv xub ntiag xwb txhob cia siab lawm os

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Qhov teeb meem no yog tim Ntxhi xwb, tsis tim 36:30 Maiv Neeb, vim Ntxhi nqa nyiaj mus cev rau me nyuam laib 2 txhais tes ne.

Tsi txhob thab kiag nawb cov me muam mus zeem luag ces rau yog yus ua neej zoo thiab pab luag tshaj xwb yog yus txom nyem luag yeej tsi hlub yus nawb example kuv niam yog ib tus tsi muaj neej tsa nyob mekas li,kuv yug tau peb 4 kwv tij 3 tus muam peb hlub niam kawg kuv twb tsi zeem los hmoob yaj tseem hais tias kuv niam yog niag hmoob yaj hmoob dub xwb tsi yog hmoob yaj xeem

yug nrog yug nruam as.

kuv twb kawm tiav xyoo 1988 kuv tuaj nyob qaum teb lawm os lawv aw

This lesson is absolutely true. Relatives will stick together even through criminal activity to save face. However, you should never leave that much money with anyone, especially a criminal. That's was a stupid thing. Another lesson you should have learned.

It's a hard lesson learned. To always hand money directly and make sure it's counted. I don't believe anyone who always say I don't need to count it, I trust you. And good thing u didn't back down with the brother because if ya don't cut them lose and they know u gonna be forgiving. They would eventually take advantage of you.

Paub neeg tsis paub siab! Trust no one! I never go “zeem Ua neej tsa”

My mom says the same when I married far but I knew that it's not the same so I kept my distance. Anyhow, I think this could happen to anyone, whether real family or not. It was careless on your end. What goes around will come around so be thankful it only cost that much to reveal their true colors. It could be more.

Hlawv xyab hlawv ntawv com noj koj cov nyiaj tag ces kom tuag tas

Cias ntuj mam txiav txim os. Never ntshaw ntshaw Sister, cousin, brother. Ntuj pub nus muag viv ncau lis cas rau yus, yus yuav lis ntawv xwb ok.

Pob ntseg kub2 es nim yog yuav muaj teeb meem na yuav muaj teeb meem mas yog yus qhov muag laim2 pob thiab yeej tim koj mas yus twb paub tias lawv tus tub tsis tseem ceeb es yus ho muab nyiaj tso rau dabtsi naw yuav pib nyaj hoom xwb es yus nim yuav tsis tau nim yuav tso2 siab tag npaum rau lawv nyiag pawv ces ham tsis tag dawb xwb ua li mes kas hais koj tsis muaj proof ne es koj nim xav hais tias cov neej tsa viv ncaus/nyab nus zeem ces nim hlub koj tshaj no thaum zoo ces lawv sawv daws hlub ov thaum ib nyuag muaj teeb meem es koj twb tsis yog luag tus kiag hauv tsev es luag puas yuav pab koj puas hlub koj naw 1 txhia es koom niam koom txiv kiag tseem ua plaub qees twb tsis sib hlub sib hwm tseem sib txiav tag li na es cas koj nim yuav zoo2 siab tso2 siab tias lawv hlub2 koj es koj twb tsis quav ntsej txog cov yus koj txawm nyob deb npaum twg los 1 xyoos kuj mus saib tau 1 zaug los pos. Kuv li dhau cov ntawm yus koom niam koom txiv yug thiab cov niam hlob txiv Ntxawm es yog 1 tse neeg koom dab koom qhua yug lawm ces Kuv yeej tsis mus zeej leej twg kiag li nawb txawm hais tias kuv 1 leeg twm zeej xwb los Kuv yeej tsis lam mus zeem leej twg ua viv ua ncaus ua neej tsa hlo li nawb vim Hmoob lub siab phem2

That's why I choose to be a loner because I don't trust anyone enough to try to replace my siblings, parents or family. I just stick to myself, less disappointments and expectations.

Koj es nim ntshaws ntshaws tej niag tsob zeem neej tsas es $2000 xwb es kuj zam kiag los paub. Ntuj aw maum dev liam aw. Koj cov niam tij niam ntxawm kwv tij nev pog vwm. Nqas nyiaj mus es twb paub ntsoov tias niag tub laib es tseem txhob txwm muab nyiaj tsos tseg rau es. You now learned your lesson right. Naws naws zeem lawm los paus. Nes nes koj niam tij niam ntxawm nes. Nyuam qhuav ntxim.

Laus li no kuv yeej tsis zeem neej tsa li vim kuv yeej paub qhov koj hais ko lawm kuv tseem tsis muaj neej tsa los kuv xum nyob li no xwb koj mas ruam thiaj mag ntag lau

It has nothing to do with unrelated neej tsa. a mother will always protect her children no matter what. You should of never put that money there and you shouldnt go as far as accusing them of cheating you. The son most likely took the money but you knew better.And now you made everyone mad and not trust you.

Teeb meem yog yus xwb. Tej khoom tseem ceeb yuav tsum cev kiag rau tus need los sis cev rau tus ua yuav responsible. Koj muab tso ntawm tej xwb ces luag tsi lee lo pab tsi tau,

Never trust anybody, know your limits.

leej twg hai tsau neej hai tia lub xeem yog 1 tsev neeg nas dag xwb

Yog tim neb thiab ma vim neb yeej tau nqa nyiaj mu rau tom lawv tiag tab sis tus laib ho tsi qhia lawv ho neb lo ho tsi hu kiag xov tooj tam sim mu rau tus niam tias muaj nyiaj tso qhov twg tiag thiab ne twb ntev lawm ma yog kv lo xyov yuav cas thiab as yog tus tub tsi lees Pom ma yeej txiav txim nyuaj thiab os

Tsi yog neej tsa koj mus zeem tau cov tsa nees xwb

Es cas yuav pib thiab ua passeport xwb yus ho tsis mus ua yus es ho nqa nyiaj mus pub lawv.

I never care to do it. I have my husband’s family. So Im good, the love isnt the same as your own family.

It's nobody's fault, but your own. You knew that the son was a gangster, but you still left the money at their house, and you even mentioned the amount. You should've waited to hand the money directly to the mom even if that means you would have to go back to their house another day. I hope you learned your lesson and keep your circle small!

When it comes to money, I don't trust anyone

Sadly, its ur fault that u should’ve trust ur instincts. Moreover, there are family members like that who one dislike u then all dislike u..and they dont care if there is justice or not. These people are very immature people. Yes, take it as a lost and learn ur lesson. No matter how hurry u are, money is very important, and do not depend on anyone to handle the responsibility for u. Trust no one but urself to get the job done. And like ur mom said..not all families are like that.

Tim koj xwb os, koj tsis muaj cai cem tias lawv siab phem. Lawv yeej siab zoo es lawv thiab suav koj los tau ntau xyoo. Koj yog tus tsim tej teebmeem no thaum koj muab koj qhov nyiaj cob rau tus tub laib tuav. Twb tsis muag neeg pom ua lavtham mas koj yog tus liam txim rau lawv tus tub ces koj yog tus tsim teebmeem.

Yog tim neb xwb os, neb twb paub hais tias tus tub ntawd tub 2 sab no neb tseem muab tso rau nws thiab, yog tsis ntsib nws niam ces npa rov qab thaum twg nws niam los mam li rov qab nqa tuaj dua xwb… Tus tub sab ntawd ces tsis nug los paub zoo lawm los mas… tab sis lawv siab phem tseem npog lawv tus tub sab ntawd tab sis ntuj pom os nawb…

I never understand why some women feel like they need to mus zeem neej tsa so much. No need to zeem anyone.

23:50 Koj tsis ntse os. Koj muaj 2k es koj tso siab rau menyuam xwb!?? Ruam dhau!@

You should've have been so trusting but in all, my parents always taught me, never bring it up in a situation like this if you have no proof. It's not their fault

Koj twb paub tias nws tu tub zoo li cas lawm koj tseem muaj nyiaj rau thiab ces koj tshuav nws nqi xwb....nws tu tub thiab koj nws yuav cawm nws tu tub nawb...

Sorry sister you should have take the money directly to the person that buy tickets for you. It’s your fault to leave money without see the mother.

Tim koj mi ntsis lawm vim koj twb paub tias nws niag tub laib tawm nkuaj los xwb. Cas koj ho tsis nqa kiag rov los tsev los Yog tos kom 2 niag laus los mam muab.

I don't understand why Hmong people are so desperate to have relatives that they willing to make strangers becomes their relatives. This country, you can do anything on your own without having the number. Love your self and most importantly, respect yourself or no one will.

You may be honest and truthful, but you should have been careful since you were aware that her son had records, in and out from jail.

Tus neeg ruam siv tswv yim yuam ua neej ces nws thiaj pluag dua tus neeg ntsev lawm ntau kauj ruam. Tus neeg ruam no yog koj lawm ntag. Maiv Neeb tus kheej twb tsis ntseeg nws tus tub laib no los koj thiab koj tus txiv tseem ntseeg tus neeg laib no thiab.

Tus vivncaus cas lub sij hawm no nej tseem kawm tsis tau thiab yog yus tus txheeb zes npaum li cas los yeej tsis ntseeg li lawm nawj yuav xa nyiaj rau tus neeg twg yuav tau siv Zelle lawm xwb txhob muab nyiaj ntsuab lawm thiaj li muaj copy hauv yus lub bank lawm os

Let this mistake be a lesson for you. Why would you even leave that much money on the table and not directly to someone?

All your fault all your fault. Koj ntshaws ntshaws lawv es koj ho tsis zam naws $2000 xwb pub kiag rau lawv los mas. Nyob deb nyob ze los yuav tsum hlub fwm neb li neej tsas nkaus xwb ho. Neb tej niam tij niam ntxawm nes.

The fault is yourself for leaving money with a felony. Doesn't matter even if it was your own son can still stab your back too. Once they have that bad habbit they can always do it again. But listen learn.

Shouldn’t have left that much money especially if you knew the son’s a criminal. Your own fault for being careless.

Ua cas yuav pib dav hlau es yus tsi mus yuav yus nawj es yus tej ntaub ntawv los yus cia li coj mus rau luag tim neb xwb os ua dab tsi yus ua yus ho yus pheej mus thawj luag tim neb ruam li lawv hais.

leej twg hai tia lub xeem yog tseev neeg

You knew how he was but yet you chose to leave the money with him and not wait or come back later. Family or not.. if they steal, they will steal. Especially that much cash.

It's your own fault for trusting the money with the son because you already know how he's like. You should know nowadays it's best to hand it straight to them that way they can't say anything to you that they never received it.

Thaum pib yog tim koj tso siab dhau thiab koj lam tau lam ua li ko tsis lim xeeb kiag li ces thiaj muaj teeb meem lau..

Sister, it’s true only your blood siblings will side with you. Anyways, it’s your fault for not giving the money to the right person. Nrog koj mob siab.

It’s your fault. You knew that son is no good and still left the money with him. You didn’t hand the envelope to him. Maybe someone else took the envelope. You should have waited to give to tais Neng or call her when you were in the house with the son and have him acknowledge on the phone with the mother counting the money. Your 4 eyes is just 1 set because you are a couple. Just curse whoever took the money.

👉 lt's your mistake, lady! Learn your lesson. You have no evidence to go after the boy and his mom. Be smart!

You were seriously at fault for leaving the money with a kid who has a criminal record. You have to put yourself in their shoes. To them, you’re accusing them of taking your money and they have every right to because they didn’t see it. Everyone protects their own. I’m sure the kid took it. You can’t just accuse someone being a thief. You should’ve let it along and took a loss. I’m not sure why you even brought up this story but in my opinion you were 100% at fault. Even if you accuse your close relatives for stealing, they will still be upset at you.

You are being too careless to leave that big amount of money to the person who had a gangster son. If it was me I known that they had that kind of son from prison there is no way I'm going to leave my purse or anything laying around when I go over to visit. That was your own fault. 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

I’m sorry but I’m a very stubborn person. I never zeem anyone that doesn’t zeem me. My life is very private and I don’t care to zeem anyone unless they come up to me and tell me they are my relatives. And I don’t like to go cuav zos and taug xaiv either. Because I like my private life. No one is paying my bills/ putting food on the table for my family. I don’t care for it unless they are my siblings. (BLOOD) You just think to much.

Thieving Âza hmoobS. Thiab G muab country hus yus li !!!

Why did you leave money to her son?

Well you know that her son has a criminal background and cannot be trusted yet you made the lazy choice to leave $2k with a criminal kid. That is your fault as well too. Of course they will side with their own. And who doesn’t count money when leaving it with people?

Mloog mas yog tim koj os tais Ntxhi. Txog txij lawv tsis tuaj koj tog los xyov koj twb hais li cas rau lawv lawm. Tsuas hnov koj lus xwb tsis hnov tog tod lus.

Wait, at first your husband was too busy so you went alone with both of your IDs and money. When the money was gone, you claimed, both of you went and 4 eyes saw?

Even my moms own sister did me wrong and I’ve blocked her and her daughters. We try to give people a benefit but when they burn you that’s when you really know who they are. All the sweet talk is nothing but crap and the moment they have a chance they will stab you

Tsov yeej tsis tom tsov. Koj ruam kawg koj thiaj li hais rau lawv niam thiab lawv tus nus hlob. Koj ua twj ywm thaum xub es ris siab ces twb tsis txob kev sib ntxub sib ceg loj loj

Sorry but to stupid to leave that much money. Family or not never leave it like that.. your fault so can’t say much..

Those ppl are evil. This story made me think of my parents but in a good way. My parents are the opposite of those ppl. They are more afraid of the more distant relatives being sadden or offended then their own children. They always said tus tsis yog yus yug ces yuav tsum tau hlub tshaj los luag tseem tu siab hos tu yus yug ces yus tsis tshua hlub los nws yeej tsis pom qab tu siab . My parents have always loved others more. That's also sad.

Why would u leave that much money to a criminal person? U were very stupid. Ur husband was right. 1. The son gave the money to the parents n they denied it. 2. The son stole the money n used it for himself. He lied to his parents that he didn't see the money. Now, u know their true colors. 😥

Tim neb xwb, vim neb twb paub lossis hnov lub moo tias neb tus viv ncaus qaib qus tus tub laib nyuam qhuav tawm nram nkuajj los es neb ho yuav tso siab muab ob phav nyiaj ntsuab tso cia rau hauv lawv tsev rau tus laib ntawd paub thiab pom naw.

cv nj tsano siabphem tiag2 yom 3 cv kwv t ua g yg niamtxiv 1 plabyug mas phemtib ym li cv nyavnoj ng (nj tsano) zoo duaces hmoob vj rovsib yv kuj hajyam zoovim g txheebne yg nebnyiam plaubli lawvces hausdab kiag g ntevces pom qhv tseeb lm mas

who said last name are family

Txhua yam yog tim neb 2 niam txiv lam tau lam tso nyiaj raum2 li ko cas tsis tos nqa ncaj qha rau tus neeg ntawv xwb??

Txhua yam yog tim neb 2 niam txiv lam tau lam tso nyiaj raum2 li ko cas tsis tos nqa ncaj qha rau tus neeg ntawv xwb??