UNREQUITED LOVE

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6 жыл бұрын

well... i made another video to vent again. that's my new coping method lmao. but anyways.. i always find myself in situations of unfortunate unrequited love.
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he won't ever see this, but kenneth i made this for you. hopefully in the future, our paths cross again. maybe you'll rethink about just being friends. or not. i'll always wait for you, though.
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@exhalence 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you to all who watch + support this video. I made this to vent about my current unrequited crush at that time... Feel free to rant about how you feel with someone who you know you can never be with. I know the feeling is painful.

@Fara-ja 5 жыл бұрын

Hey... I really like the audio effects. How can I have them on my phone. Could you share?

@alexanicole9563 5 жыл бұрын

Hi! I struggle with this so much so I really appreciate this video. Every. Fucking. Time I put my heart out on the line, I am never liked back. I'm attracted to guys, and guys never, EVER, think of me the same way when I think of them in that way. It is so frustrating and painful to constantly go through. I wish more TV shows more accurately showed unrequited love. I totally think that people do fall in love, but to show real struggles is so important. So thanks for this. And remember that the self love and self sufficiency gained being single is so so important. THank you.

@syedtalha7972 5 жыл бұрын

@@alexanicole9563 can you please tell me the movie titles?

@1987ducanh 4 жыл бұрын

I just broken up my girl friend about 4 months, I did everything I can to keep her around me, but can not change. Can not see her anymore, so much pain. Hope everything becomes better. @exhalence. I hope U keep stronger and can be happy in the future, I love your video.

@jamieochoa5773 4 жыл бұрын

so about two months ago my ex broke up with me, mind you this was my first "real" relationship, i didn't know how to love or i didn't know someone could love me in that way, we dated for two months and then broke up with me claiming there was too much problems going on and he wasn't healthy to be around which i understood because he was going through a lot. we decided to remain friends but it didn't really felt like it. after two weeks i swiped up in his story because he seemed like he was going through a hard time and i thought i could console him and maybe even help. and i did, i helped him a lot but after he told me that he was still in love with his ex and that she made him the happiest man alive and he loves her so so much. he met me after a month of breaking up with her(after 10 months with her) so i understood but i was so broken. because he lied about saying he loved me, even though he said it first and i would write about not being the one no matter how hard i tried. he claimed that he loved me too but i just didn't understand it. after that he swiped up in my story telling me he is still here for me if anything and send me a stranger things meme. after that i saw him while walking my dog and he freaked out in front of his friend so i just walked my dog the other way. i couldn't let go of him so i unadded him like 4 days ago. I'm doing better now. if anyone is going through a breakup just know that its going to be okay.

@gryffindorprincess4019 5 жыл бұрын

‘Those of us who fall in love alone.’ It’s just so sad, and so true.

@mayurnathreve4688 5 жыл бұрын

Ironically many of us fall in that category, thus we're not really "alone"

@gryffindorprincess4019 5 жыл бұрын

Mayurnath Reve I think feeling truly alone is usually an internal feeling, and when the person you want doesn’t want you - no number of people around you, even those who feel the same, can make you feel any less lonely.

@mayurnathreve4688 5 жыл бұрын

@@gryffindorprincess4019 I could not agree with you more 😎🙏🏻

@annc7739 4 жыл бұрын

That’s always been my case. 😢💔

@LimeMermaid 4 жыл бұрын

@@gryffindorprincess4019 That is what I experience but I don't think many people understand. Its good to know I'm not the only one.

@rhapsodydevil7500 4 жыл бұрын

“Romeo and Juliet are the exception not the rule”

@toomuchiridium 4 жыл бұрын

rhapsody devil probably the only decent line in that show

@nathalie3601 3 жыл бұрын

that monologue from veronica are like the ONLY good lines in the entire show

@nathalie3601 3 жыл бұрын

@@mika-tw6sd yeah that's why I said only that monologue was good...? bc every other line including the daddy ones are trash lmao, and not just from veronica but like every character in the show

@nitishanagpal8633 3 жыл бұрын

☺️☺️☺️☺️

@iamb34 3 жыл бұрын

maybe that's why it hurts so much: their love corresponded, and they died.

@KIMKIM-op3dj 4 жыл бұрын

"I TRIED SO HARD, BUT I'M NEVER THE ONE" this one felt like a slap on my face. Reality hit me hard

@ayushakhalid 2 жыл бұрын

Same*

@lily-chan Жыл бұрын

could not argue with that

@hero0fqower 2 ай бұрын

IN THE END---IT DOESNT EVEN MATTERRR-EER ERR

@reese.mckayy 4 жыл бұрын

Isn’t it crazy how we can fall in love with someone who doesn’t even notice that we are there

@bigboi6970 3 жыл бұрын

Ik this feeling I loved someone it was 6 years ago when i meet her and i didn't tell her about my feelings only met her in school for 2 year's things happened so i moved to other city but i didn't forget her i keept searching for her online and found her after 4 year's of locking that was 2 days ago.. I told her everything but ..it didn't go well for me she said there's already someone in her life when when i asked her if she had any feelings for me before and what she said hurst's me she said she don't want to hurt me but she 'never felt' anything for me ...all these years...i reject alot of girls just looking at other girls made me hate myself for being unloyal even tho she's not my gf or anything i still thought that she's the one but truns out she's not...i can't forget her idk if i can.....and sry about my shiity english not my language

@UNKNOWN-hf9mn 3 жыл бұрын

Its like ur inlove with an idol...much worst,he Doesn't know u exist.

@sweta_barua 3 жыл бұрын

And even if they know you exist, you will be always like the wind that touches them but they would just forget about it very soon..

@05videos6 2 жыл бұрын

@@bigboi6970 can relate to every point this is what exactly happend in life

@bigboi6970 2 жыл бұрын

@@05videos6 hope things get better for you my guy im already over it 👊 one day you gonna find your true soule mate

@liyahm9905 5 жыл бұрын

“Sometimes the people we like don’t like us back” so relatable unfortunately..

@junglethemednightclub831 5 жыл бұрын

liyah m “most of the time”

@mohinic5 5 жыл бұрын

All the time***

@ashleymichelleperezrivera686 5 жыл бұрын

liyah m true...💔

@arvinsim 5 жыл бұрын

"Most of the time"

@lovelymurillo5855 5 жыл бұрын

what's the movie title?

@bk7962 5 жыл бұрын

The “you don’t even know me” from paper towns RUINS me

@borkoforkocherry1742 4 жыл бұрын

I know right 😭😭

@renskemdb2442 4 жыл бұрын

I get you💔

@abbiegailwylie9504 4 жыл бұрын

I never found it sad at all it was a really bad film in my opinion

@christina_0 4 жыл бұрын

@@abbiegailwylie9504 have you ever been in love ?

@urbestamericanboy6457 4 жыл бұрын

@@christina_0 haven't watched it but isn't the point that it isn't love. You like the idea of the person not the person themselves(just like 500 days of summer). They like the idealised version of the person,something they've made up to fit a narrative. That isn't love.

@xOnlymeMonax 4 жыл бұрын

But the fact that caroline lowkey was talking about Stefan here and they end up marrying each other makes this kind of ironic and gives me false hope

@cloda1729 4 жыл бұрын

even though she married him she wasnt “the one” to him, it was always elena and i think deep down caroline herself knew that too. stefan sacrificed everything good he had with her for damon until the very end when he sacrificed himself on their wedding night

@ymn5201 4 жыл бұрын

Caroline was only “the one” for Klaus. Her and Stefan were never an epic love

@aliciabea1598 4 жыл бұрын

You can marry someone without being inlove

@nitishanagpal8633 3 жыл бұрын

😊😊😊😊

@user.004 3 жыл бұрын

@@aliciabea1598 He loved her but she wasn't his ultimate love. His true love.

@kwek2243 5 жыл бұрын

*my first love was the curse of a one sided love.*

@MaddySinead 4 жыл бұрын

me too, that’s the one that stings the most 😔

@annc7739 4 жыл бұрын

Mine too

@takiyadoss958 4 жыл бұрын

@@annc7739 same

@bean2467 4 жыл бұрын

Same

@kojikuza4661 3 жыл бұрын

i can almost taste it gonna be the curse for the rest of my life,

@summerghost6551 5 жыл бұрын

This video is for the people who got frienzoned and received no love in return, not only the boys but the girls as well.

@elaine8013 5 жыл бұрын

25 years. Still in love with my best friend.

@mayurnathreve4688 5 жыл бұрын

Shocked to hear that girls get Friendzoned too 😮

@53bload53 4 жыл бұрын

@@elaine8013 25 years? I'm so sorry...

@summerghost6551 4 жыл бұрын

@@mayurnathreve4688 it's rare to know a girl does get friendzoned, and that's why it's embarrassing and more painful than when a boy gets Friendzoned

@leak.9822 4 жыл бұрын

@@mayurnathreve4688 dude. all the fuxking time 😂

@samah6871 5 жыл бұрын

"I'm never the one "men that's my life in sentence

@mayurnathreve4688 5 жыл бұрын

Same here 😞

@aishwarya4157 4 жыл бұрын

Mine too

@justangel0000 4 жыл бұрын

Same

@ashleymariealcantara4370 4 жыл бұрын

Same

@annc7739 4 жыл бұрын

Mine too

@ashley7203 3 жыл бұрын

''Most love stories are about people who fall in love with each other... what about those of us who fall in love alone?'' This is so accurate to me, I'm crying:(

@michellevv5352 4 жыл бұрын

He never gave me the chance to love him

@annc7739 4 жыл бұрын

My online crush didn’t give me a chance either since he was so in love with his on and off girlfriend

@AmalDuthe 3 жыл бұрын

And for that, he'll be the one at loss.

@martinemaryhernandez729 3 жыл бұрын

@@AmalDuthe Yeah Right... When the man your interested in is in love already it doesn’t matter what you do...it still won’t be you....

@tasneem6427 3 жыл бұрын

@@annc7739 same 😭

@loyaltyoptimismversatilityerud 2 жыл бұрын

Me too, that guy is stoney so he refused me.

@galacticwildfire 5 жыл бұрын

It hurts most when you are completely in love with someone who loves you and one day they just stop loving you. A part of you always holds onto the hope they made a mistake, they needed space and they’ll come back. They get with someone else and it ruins you. They end and you hope he comes back. He was everything I ever wanted and now he’s gone. I see him almost every day but he won’t speak to me. And it kills me.

@ubaidrazaq8809 5 жыл бұрын

courtofangels yeeess...it hurts more than anything... More than unrequited love

@rymesweet9008 5 жыл бұрын

It hurts even more when he gives you mixed signals then suddenly stops caring about you. All the flirtateous messages suddenly come to an end before he stops contacting you altogether, and you're left wondering where it went wrong and if you just misinterpreted his words and actions, you think maybe there was nothing there in the first place.This state of confusion and all the things unsaid hurt like hell.

@samara6189 5 жыл бұрын

this just happened to me today.. he broke up with me, said he fell out of love and didn't see a future with me. Ive loved him every second and saw a future with him, but he didn't feel the same way. It sucks.

@layladuskstar7834 5 жыл бұрын

So relatable...

@mohinic5 5 жыл бұрын

Been there

@cieldemeraude 5 жыл бұрын

It’s shitty to love someone who doesn’t love you back, and it’s _always_ going to be shitty. But, as somewhat of a connoisseur of the subject, it’s never something you should let decide your life. If the one you want doesn’t see what an amazing, gorgeous person you are, then you don’t need their love. Truly, the only love you _need_ is your own. And if it takes you a while to find that, to become whole without them, then that’s okay. You take as much time as you need to become your own soulmate, because in the end, you should be. I know it’s silly, commenting on a KZfaq video thinking it will reach anyone, but I wish someone had told me this when I was in pain over a person who wasn’t worth my effort. _You are wonderfully and lovingly crafted, full of light, and deserve to give yourself the love you think you have to give someone else._

@ulrohermit1369 5 жыл бұрын

It reached me at a difining moment of my life friend , thank you

@cieldemeraude 5 жыл бұрын

mohamad hoseyn nadarlu You’re welcome, remember that you’re worth it

@saltytsukki4232 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you, it reached me too 💘

@cieldemeraude 5 жыл бұрын

daegu panda ♥️

@laurahos2001 5 жыл бұрын

... Thank you

@meowsan127 3 жыл бұрын

loving someone who doesn't love you back is like hugging a cactus . the tighter you hold on the more it hurts😞😞

@oisinreilly2639 3 жыл бұрын

To be honest I'd laugh if someone told me they liked me back. I've been rejected several times that if someone told me they had feelings for me I wouldn't believe them 😂😂

@alicia4324 Жыл бұрын

@@oisinreilly2639 🙋🤣🤣🤣

@hkaysyedhazique1291 Жыл бұрын

@@oisinreilly2639 same😂

@user-fd1hi7rr6e 4 ай бұрын

You are right it hurts so much.

@sarifahmahesti5408 3 ай бұрын

Its feel like you feeling down but only cactus can you taking.

@hotarushulamite6461 4 жыл бұрын

You know that feeling when *you love him, but you're forced to let go* *you have to let go* *i have to let go*

@scottshenton6099 10 ай бұрын

Yep

@AmericaWest90 5 жыл бұрын

"i'm happy that you're happy, i am when i see everything that you have your boyfriend your home your kids your life it makes me feel so alone that I want to die" Sums up my life and the continuing direction I'm going

@Sunshine4 5 жыл бұрын

AmericaWest90 what program is that from?

@samaradauphine3680 5 жыл бұрын

@@Sunshine4 the vampire diaries

@ellalane573 4 жыл бұрын

AmericaWest90 I’m in love with my guy best friend and I don’t how to tell him because he has a girlfriend

@r0ninh01 3 жыл бұрын

Mine too, it's how I feel literally all the time, my parents were already married and already had me when they were my age, I don't even have a girlfriend and it doesn't look like that's ever gonna change.

@mischiefmanaged1591 3 жыл бұрын

@@ellalane573 I hope uve told him by now

@arim2011 5 жыл бұрын

As someone who knows about this issue firsthand, I have to say there’s something more profound about looking at these stories from this angle. People usually don’t. You did a great job of connecting all of these into one great video putting out something that I’m sure many many people can identify with.

@exhalence 5 жыл бұрын

thank you very much!

@user-jt3dw6vv4x 6 ай бұрын

I agree, this video was everything. Watching the video and hearing the voices of the characters was so cathartic for me. You bring up an interesting point about exploring stories from this angle. For me, I wish there were more forms of music that focuses on unrequited love. Surely there are singers out there who have mostly ever experienced unrequited love, I wish they could sing for us - the unloved ones. I know if I was a singer, all of my songs would be about unrequited love, falling in love with someone you can't have, letting go of an unrequited love and about trying to persevere through unrequited love and finding the joy in being single.

@euphorbia3565 4 жыл бұрын

Maybe the reason why we can't move on from what's making us sad is because it was the only thing that made us happy... Maybe the reason why we don't want to heal is because the pain is the last link to what we've lost.

@jatinsingh4193 3 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@alessiodelcastillo1613 Жыл бұрын

@@jatinsingh4193 ye

@gringofett3944 Жыл бұрын

Sometimes you hold on to it for so long that its just part of you and to let it go would be like losing ANOTHER piece of you. You already lost the piece you gave to them once.

@shasha3654 3 жыл бұрын

The worst Feeling is Feeling unwanted by the person you want the most.

@reneeshoregirl8526 Жыл бұрын

Omg my heart. There's a hole in my heart

@xelmers-marie6136 5 жыл бұрын

ughh, I know what unrequited love feels like.I, unfortunately, fell for my best friend, and he did not return the feelings.Infact, he admitted that he liked my other best friend.

@tejaswinibalaji6162 5 жыл бұрын

Sameeeeee

@sabinekim6159 4 жыл бұрын

same here but i’m not giving up hope

@Nadine10098 4 жыл бұрын

omg same here! I though I was the only one 💔🥺

@michaelc.5809 4 жыл бұрын

Massive F in the chat

@anandhu5082 4 жыл бұрын

How do u feel now? After 9months?

@reginamariano7727 4 жыл бұрын

I’m in love with my guy best friend - its painful, watching and listening to him talk about the girls that he falls for, especially when I’m the one that’s right in him. It’s just... painful.

@sharand3016 3 жыл бұрын

I know it's really late but how are you keeping this inside? It must be really painful. Do you see him everyday? I get to see him everyday and I can't quit it until the next two years complete

@tanaypandey1771 Жыл бұрын

Oh I really like this one girl who is a friend of mine . But ofc she has a bf and they are happy together . Idk if I should talk to her or what now a days . It kinda kills me inside , none of options end up in a good thing for me :/

@natalialuna3976 4 жыл бұрын

“Those of us who fall in love alone” wow that hit different

@bendy.symphony 3 жыл бұрын

True

@renskemdb2442 4 жыл бұрын

One sided love There’s this other type of love that doesn’t come dressed in everything you’ve ever wanted. It isn’t every dream coming true. It isn’t waking up one day next to someone and realizing the only thing that matters is them. It’s opposite really. Yes, it’s everything you’ve ever wanted standing right in front of you but they aren’t yours to have. It’s every dream you thought of, imagining a life together but the closest you’ll ever get to it is when they meet you in your dreams. It’s waking up alone and looking over at a bed you wish they were in. It’s your heart breaking but you can’t even say anything because how do you explain or justify heartbreak when it’s someone you aren’t even with? But the pain is real. The love is deep. And it cuts you to a point where you’re on your knees crying alone because the only thing that hurts more than heartbreak is finding the right person when you or they aren’t ready for it. It’s hard to come to terms with love being both beautiful and heartbreaking. But that’s the reality of loving someone you can’t be with.

@laura2372 3 жыл бұрын

You said this very eloquently. I'm an older lady compared to the younger crowd here but being unloved can happen at any age. I'm proof of that. I have loved a gentleman from afar for some time now yet we have never met. What keeps me from introducing myself to him is that I love him so much that I have to leave him alone. I know, crazy talk, right? Well let me explain. He has a perfect life. Beautiful wife, sweet kids, lovely home, awesome career and many people around him that love him. He is out of my league on so many levels and I could never be good enough for him. He is intelligent-I'm average. He's gorgeous-I'm not. We would be considered an odd couple if we were ever to date. That will never happen but on a spiritual level I feel very attached to him. What I lack in beauty and intelligence I make up for in spiritual traits. What I'm trying to says is, sometimes no matter how connected we think we feel towards someone-we have to leave them be. He is so happy with his life that disturbing his perfect existence would be harmful to him and everyone around him. I adore him too much to interfere with that. He is precious to me and i will love him until my last day on earth but sometimes truly loving someone means leaving them alone to live their life and be happy. That's what I wish for him-true love and happiness. If he's happy-that makes me happy. Besides, when he's happy his smile is stunning! Blessings to all of you and good luck in love!💖😉

@taseennujaira5799 3 жыл бұрын

Beautifully written!❤️

@daksh_chouhan 3 жыл бұрын

You sir have rendered me speechless❤️

@p_e_s4413 3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely ryt

@danielarodriguezoropeza9008 2 жыл бұрын

There's no better way to say it. Thank you for your words

@eveee1110 5 жыл бұрын

I praise you to god because you put the iconic greys anatomy quote into this video

@musicalava4224 4 жыл бұрын

Don't you dare tell me it's just infatuation Don't you dare tell me it's not a real feeling Don't you dare tell me that what I feel for him is not real Don't you dare tell me that I don't know what love is. Because I know it what it is. I know that the love I have for this person is worth every ounce of pain behind it. But he doesn't know. And it hurts that he won't. So I will put on my smile. I will laugh at his jokes. I will support his choices Even if it hurts me to do so

@Zoogor95 4 жыл бұрын

The girl I'm in love is in love with my brother. And my brother likes her back. I feel happy for them but then some days it's just too much to bare. I never told her my feelings because I love them both and can't buy my happiness at the cost of theirs

@namka8588 4 жыл бұрын

💜

@kishan-lm4ef 4 жыл бұрын

@@Zoogor95 u r a beautiful human.. God bless

@jeema9056 3 жыл бұрын

That's exactly what i feel

@qhasxismoua5497 3 жыл бұрын

Y is this so true, like I'm crying rn, it's so true! It's so cruel!

@Noname_24079 2 жыл бұрын

"And I tried so hard and it was never me" that hits hard

@reneeshoregirl8526 Жыл бұрын

It hits me hard too

@Jeng4280 4 жыл бұрын

My problem is getting too emotionally attached and letting it consume me internally. I shut down and only think of them and it can be very difficult to get over because of too much time invested. I’ve been practicing self love and since then I’ve felt a bit better about my situation. I honestly don’t think our paths will ever cross in this lifetime so I may have to move on from it and do other things to perk myself up. I’ve wasted too little sleep, too many tears and too much time on someone who doesn’t even care in that way about me. His heart belongs to someone else and it’ll never be me. But those looks he gave me...those looks of raw hunger and desire, is just all it is: looks. Nothing will ever come of it. I do slightly hope to at least see him once again when I go on vacation in two weeks time. I can only hope-but never expect.

@g.1260 9 ай бұрын

Not sure how your story ended...but hope that you have found the love and happiness you deserve. I am going through a very similar experience right now and feel very much alone. Describing your story here has been a comfort. Thank you!

@aimannurh 5 жыл бұрын

'Im never the one". This line is absolutely related with me.

@joysbrightsmile4189 4 жыл бұрын

"Those who fall in love Alone" ~ "I’m never the one" ~ Describes my whole Heartbreak.

@memechan888 4 жыл бұрын

It sad that ppl that we fall in love never want us 🥺😭

@annc7739 4 жыл бұрын

That’s true...😔

@kojikuza4661 4 жыл бұрын

well i guess what else can we do, it sucks but love is a mutual feeling, if not all we can do is let it be,

@anethla7733 3 жыл бұрын

@rohitbhandwalkar282 4 жыл бұрын

Feels so..... Less lonely to know there are others like you, those who share the same pain. It feels so relieved to know that there are more people who are victims of one-sided love, especially when everyone you know is getting on with whom they love

@vishakhagoel2603 5 жыл бұрын

'And then there is another kind of love, the cruellest kind; the one that always kills its victims. It's called unrequited love. Of that, I am an expert' Damn. Straight through the heart. 😔😔😔

@nittoburn4 3 жыл бұрын

*"Those of us who fall in love alone."* gut wrenching

@adrijac 5 жыл бұрын

Seems like us one-sided lovers should unite for a sad party 😅 P.S: Hoomahhgooddd I literally forgot that I had made this comment and now it has 1.5k likes. Thanks that ya'll agree too 😂

@gaurigarg8663 4 жыл бұрын

Sort of a crying session lol?🌚

@mistral9215 4 жыл бұрын

I'll come over just drop the sched. already

@makylee9696 4 жыл бұрын

lmao

@gaurigarg8663 4 жыл бұрын

@@mistral9215 Lmao really? I'm quite serious 🙂

@rimikasiangshai2962 4 жыл бұрын

Yes you're right 😂

@rakii5264 4 жыл бұрын

"I tried so hard but I'm not the one."

@raisaafra8003 3 жыл бұрын

As a past unrequited lover. I can say it's very difficult to watch that person (whom you're in love with) is already happy with another person but always remember nobody is alone in this world. God has also made someone for you who is gonna love you unconditionally despite all ur flaws.. She/He's gonna your knight in shining armor.... Nd ur gonna met that unexpected person at the most unexpected time... U all have to do is wait for that moment.... So guys be positive in your life. I hope we will all meet the unexpected person sooner or later

@sedrahsubh1964 4 жыл бұрын

Caroline: I'm never the one Matt, Tyler, Klaus, and Stefan: aM I a jOkE tO yOu?!

@em7836 3 жыл бұрын

Gold.

@mjm8949 2 жыл бұрын

Literally 😂 but to be fair she said that before she got any of them and I think the writers cheated Caroline because why make her feel that way if she was going to end up with him anyway. They also let her have Stefan and then took him away again. They did her so dirty.

@tahlia8817 4 жыл бұрын

*"I'm happy that you're happy, I am. But when I see everything that you have... It makes me feel so alone that I wanna die."* I felt that so strongly.

@raeanne9246 5 жыл бұрын

I was always falling for unrequited love. Both with good friends (so friendship love) and then... romantic love. which destroyed my heart more because well I thought that being his friend was enough. And yet... my heart began to hurt even more and i knew that i couldnt go on hiding. I decided i deserved a love that was given back to me in the tenfold. And so... I removed myself from the situation. And yeah, i lost a friend. and a love. but i would rather that then lose my heart to a life of pain while watching them be with someone else. when i know the green eyed monster is my only friend during then

@blank789 5 жыл бұрын

Im failing to remove myself from the situation T.T I dunno what to do now

@trinalopez4198 5 жыл бұрын

I'm so proud of you. Way to take care of yourself!

@trinalopez4198 5 жыл бұрын

@@blank789 You can do it. Work on it for about 21 days, which is the time it take the human psyche to change a habit. Disgust is a powerful emotion that can change how you feel about someone. Think of the other person's disgusting features, beyond their imperfections.

@anethla7733 3 жыл бұрын

🥺🥺🥺🤧

@kelanievassor4253 5 жыл бұрын

Meredith's speech always breaks me!!!!

@theQueen. Жыл бұрын

"Most love stories are about people who fall in love with each other. But what about the rest of us? Those of us who fall in love alone?" This crushed me.

@idk-cs2vw 2 жыл бұрын

i used to watch this video over and over again. heart broken over a man who no longer wanted me. i thought ill never be in love again, he’s all i want. he was my first attachment. but we live for such a short period of time that it doesn’t matter anymore. there are 7 billion people in this world. after 2 years of non stop crying, ive finally found a man who makes me smile a lot harder than my first relationship ever did. trust me, just please be patient. you will find the right person :) there is someone out there looking for you too

@1nsertusername Жыл бұрын

Thanks, this gives me hope. I've been trying my best to move on but its been difficult

@bk7962 5 жыл бұрын

Man I hope Kenneth comes through

@exhalence 5 жыл бұрын

ash kelly LMFAO THANK YOY

@takeitbreezey 5 жыл бұрын

Dead ass that's my current crush's name

@handfulofbabycarrots9312 5 жыл бұрын

Good luck ✌ hopefully my Noah realizes how much I like him :)

@xfairy3800 4 жыл бұрын

Hopefully my Kenny knows how much I still love him ... ! 🖤🤞🏽

@nadiangeno4365 3 жыл бұрын

“Why didn’t he go for me, the guys that I want never want me” really hit different

@hurusii9005 5 жыл бұрын

Feeling unwanted is very painful. Almost like a dagger to the chest

@calculateddisaster7803 4 жыл бұрын

»The ones that fall in love alone.« DANG that hit me RIGHT in the feels

@pathfinder5843 3 жыл бұрын

No matter how hard we try , Its useless🤦🏻. The more and more we love them, The more pain we have to bear. I feel empty. I am like a dying tree🍃.

@angelinaklein6930 3 жыл бұрын

It's so true, I'm sorry you have to experience unrequited love too

@realatta4524 2 жыл бұрын

This unrequited love can be dealt with by letting out your feelings almost immediately after you find out you like the person so the love wouldn't have enough time to grow into something strong, which could easily break you

@blakesilvermark1 2 жыл бұрын

Its hard when that's all you've experienced. And how long you've had the feeling for as well.

@rainbowsalt4568 2 жыл бұрын

‘problems can be fixed. but unrequited love is a tragedy.’ - suzanne harper

@bobbytables658 2 жыл бұрын

the cruelest thing the universe is allowed to do is let us fall in love with someone that won't ever love us back.

@Ice.muffin 4 ай бұрын

Truly.

@danielle4245 5 жыл бұрын

What’s the monologue from, the one where it talks about falling in love alone

@exhalence 5 жыл бұрын

Danielle Lagnion The Holiday

@danielle4245 5 жыл бұрын

exhalence thank you!!!

@RA-hh7ji 5 жыл бұрын

I can't find It!!!!!!!!!!!! Help plz Put the link or something like that This text describe my hole friking life i need to find this text!!!!!

@xxshinypinkxx 5 жыл бұрын

It's on youtube.

@huhuhaha19 3 жыл бұрын

@@xxshinypinkxx Ik i'm a year late but can u or anyone please let me know where do I find this monologue?

@riddhidey8687 5 жыл бұрын

Reading the comments, I have come to know that there many people blighting inside due to unrequited love like me, and are very sad. What's sadder is I don't want to see so many people not get their love returned. I lose a little faith in love, universe and myself too. I pray with all my heart that all hearts with voids get filled up.

@anandhu5082 4 жыл бұрын

How do u feel now? After 7months?

@hannahasencio4340 4 жыл бұрын

To be able to love, it's painful most of the time. But you can't choose who you are attracted to or who you love. The understanding when someone doesn't and will probably never feel the same way you do and you can't stop thinking about them, it hurts. The worst part is when you can't make them fall in love with no matter what you do/did. That is the the different definition of falling in love. Where in that case, the falling leads to collapsing and collapsing leads to breaking.

@summer-wq4gz 5 жыл бұрын

i’ve watched this edit so many times. i always watch it every time i experience unrequited love, which is a lot. thank u for making this❤️

@hunterwilliams1910 3 жыл бұрын

that pick me choose me love me scene gets me everytime. the emotion she displayed is outta this world. when she said "derek, i love you" that was so raw.

@shivasthong4924 4 жыл бұрын

This is our destiny. To grow old, fade away, and die never truly getting to experience love.

@LifeisBeautuful Жыл бұрын

What transforms the pain is realizing you are gifting Joy to the person you love

@PelangiArumsari 4 жыл бұрын

I always been in "unrequited love" situations and now I don't wanna fall in love again

@johnnyw29 4 жыл бұрын

I come back to this video over and over again. I saved it in my “deep”-playlist and can’t get over how emotional and beautiful and fcking true it is. Thank you so much!

@danielle4245 5 жыл бұрын

Also I needed this, I fall victim to this too

@purnimadevilaishram8076 4 жыл бұрын

Comment section is more sad than the video itself 💔

@LClark-xk5pe 2 ай бұрын

The worst part is the hope I think. Knowing he doesn’t want me in that way, knowing he loves her not me, and that even if he didn’t love her, it still wouldn’t be me. But that tiny crack of hope when he smiles at me, when he laughs at my jokes, when he keeps walking the way I do instead of turning away. When he chooses me, just not in the way I wish he would.

@EvaLauraRauchle 3 жыл бұрын

This hit different. And I do have the cruelest kind of love “Unrequited Love”.

@bluevelvet1473 4 жыл бұрын

I'm in love with a person who doesn't even know I exist and it's painful but I'm still grateful for this love .This love made me get through alot .This love I have for him is the purest form of love ,it's the most profound and strong love you'll ever find .It has no guarantees it doesn't promise you a happy ending but you still choose this love over anything else.

@halfdemon4lifeintime 4 жыл бұрын

"I'm happy that you're happy, I am. When I see everything that you have: Your house, your boyfriend, your kids, your life. It makes me feel so alone that I want to die." That is so perfectly explained.

@piapond1531 2 жыл бұрын

This hurts so bad when you are in live with a clone friend for years with no chance of him feeling the same. But better having him as a friend in my life than not at all. He is just an amazing human being

@reneeshoregirl8526 Жыл бұрын

Same. :(

@loredana_lovegood9 5 жыл бұрын

I find myseld in the exact same situation, this video is so beautiful and really speaks to me

@egutie21 4 жыл бұрын

It's nice they had Kate Winslet's monologue from The Holiday on there. It's pretty perfect.

@ruthosunde2324 3 жыл бұрын

Some of us go through life loving so hard but being loved very little. It's not just the love you feel with people you're romantically in love with, it's your "friends" and your family. Constantly putting people first but not ever having anyone care for us the same way, trust me when I say we've tried to put ourselves first but it never works. So we're hurting while putting people first, loving them with our all but being in constant pain when there is no version of us for ourselves.

@Rosh_annah Жыл бұрын

Its not just the ones who got rejected that feels devastated but the ones who rejects too .... Its never easy to reject a person who has genuine feelings for you ..... Its never easy

@christinamitrovich7554 5 жыл бұрын

Find new love in order to move on and work on ourselves. We should be happy in our own company first.

@justethan2731 3 жыл бұрын

1:48 wow. I can’t tell you how intense and passionate and beautiful this part was. The music getting louder and louder and the tears in her eyes it was magic.

@mufidafathinabila3790 2 жыл бұрын

What is the movie title? Thanks!

@jiminpov Жыл бұрын

@@mufidafathinabila3790 greys anatomy it’s a show

@camillenevaeh 4 жыл бұрын

i love how you always include The Holiday. it’s always been my #1❤️

@omkarpatil32 4 жыл бұрын

How sad is that I come back here to listen and feel my own misery over and over again? I could never get tired of this video. ♥️

@lovemyself6441 3 жыл бұрын

Most saddest thing is A GAY falling in for a STRAIGHT He doesn't know I love him or the fact I am gay but I don't need him, to love him. It's beautiful and painful at the same time.

@oisinreilly2639 3 жыл бұрын

That's actually really upsetting. You probably feel like the gay crush you have on someone they don't feel the same way. I guess what I'm trying to say is that you could think the person is not in love with you but they still wanna be friends. Yeah I don't know what I'm trying to say, I'll shut up now 😂😂

@mjm8949 2 жыл бұрын

I love how you said “I don't need him to love him.” And I think that is so important because it shows that you really do love the person and not just want something from them whether it's love or attention. I think it's totally fine to love someone who doesn't love you back if they deserve it like if they are a good person and kind to you and they don't invalidate your feelings or make you feel small or stupid for loving them when they don't love you back.

@AMohamedAsif 2 жыл бұрын

Same here also

@aprilb2536 2 жыл бұрын

'It's called "UNREQUITED LOVE" and that I am an expert' killed my heart!

@grassaf4354 4 жыл бұрын

“Romeo and Juliet are the exception, not the rule” forgot Riverdale actually had good writing in season 1.

@patatasorigins9383 5 жыл бұрын

"I can't give you the answer you want" - that actually hurt. He once said to me "I don't have the answer that you're looking for". That was my breaking point.. That line managed to break me. That one fucking line.

@syd9736 5 жыл бұрын

The Holiday is such a good movie and Its my go to comfort movie because me and my mom used to watch it literally every Christmas Eve

@georgialmw8012 2 жыл бұрын

Sometimes being rejected by our unrequited loves is the best thing that can happen to you. It teaches you how to let go and move on to the people who love us back. The best love we can receive is the love we give ourselves. At least you loved.

@Thisissparta1972 3 жыл бұрын

when you love the wrong person so much imagine how you love the right person

@JessAyu 3 жыл бұрын

The worst part is, some of these people is not even a jerk...they even tried to let us in, they even apologize for not liking or loving us back....

@abinnk1542 3 жыл бұрын

The worst feeling is when you give all heart to that one girl and she doesn't even caresssss.

@cheshirerose2001 4 жыл бұрын

"How Come The Guys I Want Never Want Me" I don't think I ever could relate to something soooooooooo much in my entire life. I have the worst luck ever when it comes to guys I like, I wish I could just meet someone and not have to go through the bullshit I am going through right now. But hey at least it's good that I now know but I wish I knew sooner

@ashleymariealcantara4370 4 жыл бұрын

Miss Ace same...

@keithl2405 4 жыл бұрын

"Pick me. Choose me. Love me."

@r0ninh01 3 жыл бұрын

It hurts so much, I never thought I could ever feel that kind of pain in my life, I just want it to end, but it doesn't, it's like I'm cursed, destined to suffer every day, the truth is some of us just don't find love, some of us just stay alone forever.

@jonpowell4246 3 жыл бұрын

2:29 to 2:35 is my daily life from this man's point of view, it's the reason I hate seeing happy couples when I go places, why I don't wanna leave my apartment and why I don't even wanna wake up to this living nightmare called reality because when I see those lucky jerks with their lover's their wives, their kids, their families and all the beautiful things they have that they take for granted it makes me feel so alone that I wanna die.

@Ice.muffin 4 ай бұрын

Never, nothing more relatable in this catastrophe of an existence some have the audacity to call "life".

@jonpowell4246 2 ай бұрын

@@Ice.muffin amen to that friend, it's something people who have or have had someone in their lives will never understand from the perspective of someone who's had no one.

@nobody-eu5kw 4 жыл бұрын

It's almost been 3 years when I first lay my eyes on you and it may sounds cliche but when I first saw you, I knew that you were the only one who I would always, truly loved. I still held onto this love after all these years even though you are with someone else. But that's alright though, your happiness is my happiness and I wish you the best in life and I hope you will never feel this pain that i felt. I just hope that one day I would be courageous enough to tell you how I really feel before this unrequited love kills me inside.

@abhishekroy1339 2 жыл бұрын

You said it!!!.... Thank you 😭

@Anonymous-gr1cu Жыл бұрын

This might be another Long random message that someone might read but believe me ,exactly an year back I saw this video where a comment of a one-sided love striked my eye and had a screenshot of it during an era of my madness towards a person who just always considered me as an option and gave me the best reality check without a bare minimum respect. So plz never just have your own expectations and hopes coz it takes hell lot of pain that you can't explain to any other creature in this world and even if such storm breezes in your life build the strength to tackle your situation all by yourself !! Love you the most❤️ don't ever let someone decide your worth by your beauty , wealth or anyother stupid stuff! You are rare ✨ and you can be loved for the reason of just being you!!!

@littlekiwi8964 3 жыл бұрын

I haven't yet fallen in love yet but this video just made me cry... because if being ignored can make me sad then I can't imagine how much a person suffers when she or he is not Loved.

@dhanashreekadam5787 5 жыл бұрын

This is so beautiful. I was crying through the whole video. 😭❤️❤️

@anandhu5082 4 жыл бұрын

How do u feel now? Did u get over it?

@radhikakumari3645 3 жыл бұрын

I don't know... maybe it's a blessing that it was unrequited. Maybe being single is the best. But I love it this way. Figuring out self is best.

@dorothyprieto4950 4 жыл бұрын

“I tried so hard but I’M NEVER THE ONE” 💔

@nainasaggu 3 жыл бұрын

Could you tell me what movie is that dialogue from, please? ❤

@nitishanagpal8633 3 жыл бұрын

🦋🦋🦋🦋

@alinasabarova 4 жыл бұрын

oh that moment even when you get with this person in a relationship and you start to understand that still you are the one who loves between the two of you hurts

@blakieu 2 жыл бұрын

years later I still return to this because yet again I am unequited

@blakesilvermark1 2 жыл бұрын

Same

@vickieaf4380 3 жыл бұрын

That’s the thing about love - you can love somebody, but so can they.

@nt.guilty_ 4 жыл бұрын

Sometimes, no matter how hard we convince someone of our love n friendship. Our emotions turn out to be just a bunch of words... you can make yourself easily available for them anytime as u "love them so much". But they may not be, for they simply don't feel the same way... So better not to force them.. if they ever loved or cared about you, they would come back.if not, just keep loving them, praying for them that they don't have to suffer the way to you do... that's true love.... I will... Beyond infinity...