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The Minimal Mom

The Minimal Mom

Күн бұрын

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@courtneyannephd2618
@courtneyannephd2618 Жыл бұрын
My farther in law worked for Toyota and my husband explained that they use “5 whys” to problem solve- so if there’s an issue, they ask “why did this happen?” 5 times to get to the root of the issue. I’ve applied this to my house and it usually comes down to having too much stuff. For example: why are my mornings so chaotic? Because breakfast and lunch take forever to make. Why? Because I can’t find the utensils or ingredients. Why? Because they are in a stuffed drawer or a too-full fridge? Why? Because we have too much stuff in them? Why? Because I thought I needed these things and I don’t! It has been so insightful to see how having too much can be the root cause of soooo many problems!
@alicecarroll2007
@alicecarroll2007 Жыл бұрын
Very insightful-thanks for sharing!
@keerthi9907
@keerthi9907 Жыл бұрын
True.. thanks for taking time and texting in detail…❣️
@sk8oasis788
@sk8oasis788 Жыл бұрын
Thanks 😊
@breannaneville4332
@breannaneville4332 Жыл бұрын
I love this!
@AcreWood-ns5gt
@AcreWood-ns5gt Жыл бұрын
Thank you, this is a great concept!
@brendagomez5726
@brendagomez5726 Жыл бұрын
My question is 'If I moved (to a different house), would I take it with me? Yes- Keep it No- Say good bye to it☺️
@ameliat8981
@ameliat8981 Жыл бұрын
I recently got my husband on board with this argument. Pretend we have to move in a couple of weeks, what would you really keep?
@sheilakeeler2178
@sheilakeeler2178 Жыл бұрын
I think what items would I keep if we had to move to a two bedroom apartment! Or “if you could only keep one banker box of stuff from each room, what would be in it?
@susieadams1553
@susieadams1553 Жыл бұрын
That's genius Brenda 😀 . Going to adopt this 😘
@millerville2000
@millerville2000 Жыл бұрын
Yes! I think "Do I want to pack this?"
@mmm_smores7655
@mmm_smores7655 Жыл бұрын
Would I run in a burning house to save this item? If not-it gets donated!
@DawnH123
@DawnH123 Жыл бұрын
Your sweater with that sofa could not could more perfect together.
@aprilyeno1919
@aprilyeno1919 Жыл бұрын
Don’t step down from that soapbox!!! That is your tool and your passion. Thank you, Dawn, you challenge me to go further and be better every day. Energy, resources, stamina, are all finite. You call us to treasure and protect them for what is truly important and possible. ❤God bless! ❤️🙏🏻
@franmcdonald4702
@franmcdonald4702 Жыл бұрын
I, for one, need to hear this more than once. it is encouraging and takes me to deeper levels each time I listen.
@juliatepe5760
@juliatepe5760 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely! I'm happy with the progress that I've made, still working on it a little at a time. Thank you so much for the encouragement Dawn!
@graceherrmann4784
@graceherrmann4784 Жыл бұрын
I need this❤
@TheMinimalMom
@TheMinimalMom Жыл бұрын
Thank you April! This means more than you know 🥰
@beckyt7057
@beckyt7057 Жыл бұрын
I can’t tell you how much you inspire me! I am getting a very small 640 sf house, so I am in the process of paring down everything in my current 2,000 sf house. WHAT A JOB!!!! Thanks to you and the wealth of knowledge you share with us my job is easier. I ask myself the questions and make a very quick decision about items all the time now. I love your videos, and your family is just precious!
@korab.23
@korab.23 Жыл бұрын
here's what helps me with "someday" stuff... it gets ruined in the meantime. I really struggled letting go of baby things from my oldest BUT the things that were stored got water damaged, the things in the closet were ruined by mice. the things I let go of got used by someone who needed them. 💛
@Jessymack
@Jessymack Жыл бұрын
Ohhh yes! I love this so much!!!
@karinlovesjedward
@karinlovesjedward Жыл бұрын
Something similar happened to my boyfriend, he wanted to keep a pair of shoes he never used, and then seconds after he said that he found out that the soul was damaged because it hadn't been worn for such a long time. That really opened his eyes, because he said these were good shoes that could have been used by someone else the whole time. He now understands what the reasons are why I have been decluttering every day now. I finally see the light at the end of the tunnel :D
@ShortyCatRamblings
@ShortyCatRamblings Жыл бұрын
I was thinking about this while watching this video. I've been decluttering and finding pieces that I've saved and never used that are now trash because plastic gets brittle, elastic degrades, styles change, etc. etc. and it's sad to know that I've wasted things that could have been used by someone else and they've just taken up space in my home.
@ArrowHillCottage
@ArrowHillCottage Жыл бұрын
You always have a way of breaking down the complexities of minimalism in such a simple way. Just ONE question!
@stephsnow2643
@stephsnow2643 Жыл бұрын
I totally agree! I'm trying to live minimally in all aspects of our life, Dawn do you have any advice on tackling social events that don't add value to our lives in the way we would like? For example Stag Dos, Hen Dos, colleagues weddings, not only do they take our time away from family but also mean we must reallocate funds from family time too.
@stephsnow2643
@stephsnow2643 Жыл бұрын
Oops sorry bachelorette parties* 😉
@reneeroberts3319
@reneeroberts3319 Жыл бұрын
I love your soapbox! Thank you for your thoughts & passion!
@hangingfromtrees
@hangingfromtrees Жыл бұрын
@@stephsnow2643 ppp
@kidandcollie4916
@kidandcollie4916 Жыл бұрын
I'm working on a whole house declutter to prepare for the holidays. I got rid of 34 things from my bathroom yesterday and was so proud of myself. I watched this video for a second time today and got rid of three more things. Thank you for all your help!
@lindaanderson3973
@lindaanderson3973 Жыл бұрын
I think this is your best video to date. I am struggling with becoming more of a minimalist and this helps a lot. I cringed when U said, “I feel like I failed when the product didn’t meet my needs” as this is something I never realized (or admitted). Thank you!!!
@TheMinimalMom
@TheMinimalMom Жыл бұрын
Thank you Linda, I really appreciate this, and I’m excited for you, it gets easier and easier and better and better! ❤️
@tanguerafeliz5096
@tanguerafeliz5096 Жыл бұрын
I love this question of value. I wish more people emphasized that. My multi surface cleaner does not bring me joy or beauty in its cheap plastic spray bottle that I've reused so many times but boy oh boy is it valuable! Wasn't it you that also shared in an earlier video about the messages our items tell us? Because of that video, I finally donated my brand new only ridden once bicycle to underserved kids over the pandemic. I didn't enjoy feeling like a lazy bad person for not riding it every time I saw it. So I changed it's purpose and message. I accepted I'm not a bicycle person and gave it off to have a life with someone who is and maybe can't afford one. No regrets.
@Rosie_C
@Rosie_C Жыл бұрын
I can relate - I hate to part with clothing I purchased that at one time I really liked but I never wore it much. A recent habit I’ve started is to take clothes that are in good shape that I don’t wear anymore to church, and let the girls my size look through it and see if anything will be useful to them.
@OtherDianne
@OtherDianne Жыл бұрын
I love how you brought in the marketing side of this and the stories we tell ourselves. That's so helpful!
@simmiedavissimmiesings8185
@simmiedavissimmiesings8185 Жыл бұрын
Dawn, at least once a week, I am quoting your thoughts about " you can't wear All the shoes, all the clothes..you can't have all the identities we once planned out. So helpful! Keeps me in decluttering mode and not just trying to stash every single thing I was ever attracted to. Keep saying these things in different ways. You are helping me so much!
@rosywilson3076
@rosywilson3076 Жыл бұрын
Oh that hit home - “trying to stash every single thing I was ever attracted to” Thankyou!
@bonesareheavy
@bonesareheavy Жыл бұрын
@@rosywilson3076 Yes! I have been working very hard on my stashing problem. Great line to remember.
@cin4195
@cin4195 Жыл бұрын
Yes and 'too much inventory to manage'. Dawn is amazing and an inspiration for sure. God Bless
@kmars3239
@kmars3239 Жыл бұрын
Oh this has helped me too, I have to ask myself will I wear this or was this purchased for my fantasy self? 😩
@michsmo2883
@michsmo2883 Жыл бұрын
Me too
@TheJorgSacul
@TheJorgSacul Жыл бұрын
Stack up another soap box on the one you're using, and shout it to the rafters-- your message is SO needed and VALUABLE. I watch your videos over my lunch hour at work sometimes, and the other day you motivated me to clear and organize my office/work area... to the point where one of my coworkers thought I was leaving 😄😄😄😄
@aliciamarin5226
@aliciamarin5226 Жыл бұрын
I did that too! Haha! Of course, I do want to leave... 🫣
@TheMinimalMom
@TheMinimalMom Жыл бұрын
Lol, love this!! Thank you!!! ❤️
@altheamcnabb2829
@altheamcnabb2829 Жыл бұрын
LOL.
@mmut8602
@mmut8602 Жыл бұрын
🤣
@pamp212
@pamp212 Жыл бұрын
I imagine myself passing something I don’t use along to somebody who might find it at Goodwill for very inexpensive that wanted to try it but couldn’t afford it at the full price. Things are meant to be used! That is a perfect statement. If you bought it to try it but are not using it, move it along to someone who it may bless their lives! ❤
@JG-mc9hl
@JG-mc9hl Жыл бұрын
I do this all the time too! And Giodwill need money to operate!
@marilynndesilva7620
@marilynndesilva7620 Жыл бұрын
Yes! That is what makes it so easy to donate an expensive or unused item. I like to think that someone in financial straits will be pleased to find something they could not otherwise afford.
@margscheffee9084
@margscheffee9084 Жыл бұрын
I give my stuff to the Salvation Army thrift store. Goodwill has a ceo that makes millions in wages whereas SA uses the money for doing good.
@breannaneville4332
@breannaneville4332 Жыл бұрын
I definitely relied on thrift shopping for many years and I always found things I needed that would have cost me so much money brand new!
@Rosie1987.
@Rosie1987. Жыл бұрын
@@margscheffee9084 same reason I no longer donate items to Goodwill. I give to Salvation Army or a thrift store that uses its money from selling donated items to help women currently in or about to leave domestic abuse shelters.
@daniellevilloria227
@daniellevilloria227 Жыл бұрын
I started a new habit of decluttering 5 items every time I watch one of your videos. Keeps me moving forward in the journey. Also, I rarely stop at 5 once I get going, but on busy days it’s still progress. Keep the motivation coming please! ❤
@christinedisneyqueen5746
@christinedisneyqueen5746 Жыл бұрын
So true about sentimental stuff…it can get to be a burden. 😢
@Minimadaa
@Minimadaa Жыл бұрын
I’m a 27 year old mom of soon to be two kids, and although I have been a “minimalist” my whole adult life and don’t need guidance like others might, I love watching your videos to continuously remind me to keep going! I am so grateful to have learned these lessons while I’m still young, but maintaining truly never stops. I recently put the “time will tell” strategy into place which has helped immensely with that last annoying bit of clutter that I struggle to deal with even as someone who aggressively declutters.
@ashleythompson7456
@ashleythompson7456 Жыл бұрын
100%. I just decluttered and donated an expensive juicer that was only used a few times. I hated looking at it because it made me feel like a failure for buying and not using! I realize now that someone else can use it where I wasn’t!
@kimgordon3695
@kimgordon3695 Жыл бұрын
If it makes you feel any better humans aren't created to drink juices. & If it's not free of pesticides it is toxic anyway. Eat organically. xo
@pbear7814
@pbear7814 Жыл бұрын
And I bet you don’t even miss it!
@connieoermann3592
@connieoermann3592 Жыл бұрын
Dawn, you deserve your 600K subscribers. You honestly care about helping others..and you have. May God bless you and yours and continue to bless your message💛
@TheMinimalMom
@TheMinimalMom Жыл бұрын
Thank you Connie, that means more than you know!!! 🥰❤️
@tracey1782
@tracey1782 Жыл бұрын
Thanks again for the very helpful video! I keep playing your videos in front of my husband who has a huge stash of “stuff” both inside the house and in the garage. I think it is finally starting to hit him that it is pointless to keep it. We’re both in our early 60’s! I consider you a life saver!!! You’re awesome! 😊
@ritadyer3770
@ritadyer3770 Жыл бұрын
I had to buy an extra chest of drawers because my husband keeps so much junk inside he had no room for clothes! He thinks he has to have 40 pair of underwear and as many socks. I don’t get it. Honestly, I counted his briefs one day and I think there was over 50! I can’t get him to see he needs less!
@accidrainn
@accidrainn Жыл бұрын
I keep doing the same with my partner...You should show them the videos of: "Do it on a Dimes" (or "But, first coffee" )"I tried Swedish death cleaning" It's not as bad as it sounds .. But, it made me think about my things a lot more differently.. I'm glad you're taking steps to help your family.. My father passed away & we were tasked with moving (all his "stuff")out of my now just my mothers home .. Do we sell, donate or trash? I don't think she understands what all her stuff will do to me when she's gone(she has way, too much for a single human), nor do I think she cares 😭 P. S. She made a video on it too lol !
@libbykat3958
@libbykat3958 Жыл бұрын
Ahaha I too just "happen" to play Dawn's videos within earshot of my husband, hoping the indirectness will avoid a defensive reaction.
@hildab555
@hildab555 Жыл бұрын
@@libbykat3958 Same!!
@andie3131
@andie3131 Жыл бұрын
@@libbykat3958same!
@jennybird2770
@jennybird2770 Жыл бұрын
So many lightbulbs went off in my head during this video. Thank you Dawn. Another thought I had was: You know the saying that "people come into our lives for a reason, a season, or a lifetime" ? So can stuff. And like Marie Kondo said something to the effect of when you let something go and feel guilt because you didn't use it and spent money- that item taught you that it wasn't for you. Thank you Dawn for your videos! Very inspiring stuff :)
@crterwil
@crterwil Жыл бұрын
Yes yes a thousand times yes!! At 58 I embracing this more and more. The older we get the more conscious we are of our precious gift of time. God bless you! Keep preaching! I still need the motivation!!
@Nina.177
@Nina.177 Жыл бұрын
Congratulations on 599k subscribers, Dawn! You still feel like a hidden gem on KZfaq.
@trishweber9695
@trishweber9695 Жыл бұрын
It is absolutely mind blowing how keeping extra things in your life eats away at you subconsciously. The guilt for not using them the hopes and dreams that have died and you are reminded of every time you see them. The anxiety it creates feeling like you should be making more time for those things. You are right on in saying that it is sooo freeing to accept the seasons of life as they come and to have a much better focus by saying good-bye to those things that just don't work right now. That has become my new saying is "buy things that work" because cheaper is not always cheaper in the long run or useful. Thanks for your videos they are soo soothing and simplistic as they should be for those of us trying to live a simplistic life-style.
@Carolmaizy
@Carolmaizy Жыл бұрын
Dawn, you always make so much sense. My home is not very cluttered anymore, but I still listen to your videos. You motivate me to keep up with accumulating less, and your videos are always calming.
@dstafford9868
@dstafford9868 6 ай бұрын
WOW! I'd never thought about the fact that if I let go of something, I was admitting I was "wrong" in assuming it would add value to my life. Just admitting it would mean I had a real reason to let it go. But I hate being wrong. I hate being told what to do. I hate wasting money. But you're helping me to realize this is where my mindset is getting in my own way! Thank you!!
@rochellevidal
@rochellevidal Жыл бұрын
Everytime I watch your videos, I'm itching to go and declutter! So inspiring and I thank you :D Now I know where to go when I need a little kick to go and remove those pieces that no longer bring value to my home
@delindacurtis6344
@delindacurtis6344 Жыл бұрын
Finding your short videos on decluttering and the head trips we take having these ‘things’ consuming our energy has been a huge motivator for me! As a 64 year old, I’m freeing myself from a great deal of self criticism. The boxes of pictures I didn’t craft in a fancy album, the many notebooks of random thoughts I thought would be a book, the shelves of self-help books that I just knew I would reread for that final, better result, the left over curriculum ideas from 40 years of teaching middle school English. It’s a ‘progress in work’ and you have been unknowingly mentoring me! Thank you!
@TRUTHisTRUTH70
@TRUTHisTRUTH70 Жыл бұрын
"value in this season of life" = the golden solution to decluttering!
@eliztaichamarrero5792
@eliztaichamarrero5792 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for helping me let go of my instant pot (2 years ago. ) I have never regretted that decision.
@victoriaelisapeta
@victoriaelisapeta Жыл бұрын
I get so excited every time I get that notification!!! Thank you for all you do 🤍😇
@pstogs516
@pstogs516 Жыл бұрын
Me, too!!!
@victoriaelisapeta
@victoriaelisapeta Жыл бұрын
@@pstogs516 yassss
@libbygerald3169
@libbygerald3169 Жыл бұрын
Sameee
@sara_xoxooo3548
@sara_xoxooo3548 Жыл бұрын
Yep
@jessicacislo5847
@jessicacislo5847 Жыл бұрын
Very time
@deborahs2593
@deborahs2593 Жыл бұрын
I like this question so much. It helps me a lot more than "does it spark joy"? To me- joy is a rare but celebrated feeling and doesn't apply much to stuff . Thanks for this, Dawn.
@kathysheeran6589
@kathysheeran6589 Жыл бұрын
Your gift is the way you explain methods to us. And no shaming. Continued blessings to you Dawn. I really enjoy your message. I’m a work in progress but got you with me. ❤🎃
@bonniejeanschmidt4255
@bonniejeanschmidt4255 Жыл бұрын
I agree! If it isn’t adding value, it’s detracting from our quality of life. Life is too short to manage stuff that we don’t need. 🥰
@teresastorms3774
@teresastorms3774 Жыл бұрын
Thank you! I am so overwhelmed with my mess that I just sit here. I'm so grateful for your channel and your positivity! Love you all as if you were my own family!
@bcvahsfam
@bcvahsfam Жыл бұрын
A thought I had while watching this is... The house I grew up in was basically a minimalist type home. We had small closets and not much stuff. I didn't have a lot of toys as a kid. It wasn't as easy to buy things as it is now. I do think it was better then. As kids we played outside more and used our imaginations. Life was just simpler.
@terriblue9792
@terriblue9792 Жыл бұрын
I’m on the other side🎉 SO much freedom in lots of areas! Not just in the home🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽🥰🕊️✌🏽☮️
@WoodlandDance
@WoodlandDance 9 ай бұрын
Sometimes an object in my kitchen is not so much a tool, but a reminder and connection to my great-gram, grandmother, and/or aunts. Something they used to prepare meals, especially during holidays. So although an item might not be used much it adds value. Not so much as a utility, but by having it in my kitchen it helps keep them close, reminds me of stories about them, happy times, and my connection to the chain of ancestors.
@chicane7752
@chicane7752 Жыл бұрын
As a family with medically complex children, there has never been a time where a routine or schedule wasn’t upended at a moments notice. This translates into the inability and lack of time to go through things- and a very cluttered and overwhelming house. Most slogans and “motivational” videos assume it’s a lack of motivation or a personal obstacle- not life and just trying to keep our heads above water. The marketing just makes things worse because “fast” and “easy” was what we needed. I almost passed over this video but this is the first one that MAKES SENSE - with one question that really adds value to our life. Thank you❤ For the first time, I have hope that our lot in life is NOT to just survive, and maybe our home can be more than a crash pad; maybe between surgeries, recoveries, and out of town appointments it can be peaceful and beautiful like I used to dream about. Maybe my dream isn’t dead…. 🥹 Please don’t get off your soap box. It’s the only way we can hear your voice above the crowd.
@leighs3439
@leighs3439 Жыл бұрын
I just want you to know I feel this in my soul. We don’t have medically complex kids- but my dream of a peaceful home isn’t true right now either!
@SweetStuffOnMonarchLane
@SweetStuffOnMonarchLane Жыл бұрын
I feel for you and thought of my grandma as I read your comment. Three of her 4 children had a rare disease, required a lot of care, and died way before their time. I cannot even imagine the stress and grief she experienced in her life, all while continuing to be the sweetest person. I just wanted you to know you're in my thoughts and prayers today. I hope your children get better every day and that the peaceful home you dream of becomes reality very soon!
@AnnaBee5171
@AnnaBee5171 Жыл бұрын
I love this question! Your videos always add value to my life 😊 I recently decluttered my kids wardrobe. I donated it to foster kids. Knowing that it was going to someone who really needs it along with Knowing it is less inventory, less washing, less folding, etc, made it easier to let go.
@TheMinimalMom
@TheMinimalMom Жыл бұрын
This is so awesome! Way to go!!!!
@karenhoward8542
@karenhoward8542 Жыл бұрын
Great to see the doors out of the dining room--smile
@angieineverettcust2934
@angieineverettcust2934 Жыл бұрын
If I don’t know if I want to declutter it, I set out and usually after looking at it for several days I end up saying “I don’t really need this thing” and it goes into the donation box 😅🎉
@debbiekelly-snow3868
@debbiekelly-snow3868 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for getting on your soap box! We need to be reminded!
@carrottop5783
@carrottop5783 Жыл бұрын
Your point about marketing is so true. SO many things I've purchased due to social media - it is sad. Clothes, makeup, handbags, shoes, KITCHEN appliances. When I think back to print media advertising, it was a problem, but nothing like today. Funny how my Grandmother was a wonderful cook with a few pots and pans, and how she was loved and admired with home sewn dresses and only a few pair of shoes, all lasting years. Meanwhile, my latest appliance is a Ninja Foodi - I rue the day I made that purchase because I've not found it an improvement to cooking, yet it is still in holding because of the cost...
@kirstenjohnson1952
@kirstenjohnson1952 Жыл бұрын
Best video EVER! This is exactly what I've been trying to tell my people! Keep these videos coming, they are great reminders of why I'm doing this.
@Lcshell
@Lcshell Жыл бұрын
I love your sweater! Also, I never get tired of the decluttering methods that you share with us. The more I hear it the more stuff I decide to get rid of. I’ve still got a ways to go but I’m getting there! Thank you so much for continuing to share with us!
@amywilloughby8019
@amywilloughby8019 Жыл бұрын
You nailed it Dawn, NAILED IT!!
@victoriacrozier8134
@victoriacrozier8134 Жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness!!! My life is changed for eternity’s sake 🤗 Praise the Lord! I’ve had the best day being released by the “things, encumbrances “ that were weighing me down and the sun is shining ☀️🌻💝😄 Thank you so much for sharing your passion and gifts 🎁
@muchadoaboutkovu
@muchadoaboutkovu Жыл бұрын
This is a small thing, but I had a garlic press and I hated cleaning it. It was convenient but it caused stress to clean. Got rid of it then looked up ways to mince garlic without one. I can use my mortar and pestle or a cheese grater and those things I use way more and for multiple things! And easier to clean. My goal is find effective ways of making cleaning and such easy. It is so wonderful to breathe. My husband recently said “I know I can be a pack rat, but I really like not having a lot of stuff and have the breathing room.” It was his way of appreciating what I’ve done to make cleaning up easier and not our main focus of our weekends.
@mianeculcea6789
@mianeculcea6789 Жыл бұрын
I gradually got rid of almost all of my kitchen stuff. I only prepare simple and healthy meals and I do not need anything more than the very basic things (I do not have a cheese grater, I buy it already grated, I do not use garlic at all because of the smell (sometimes I use the garlic powder) . I feel soo good and my kitchen looks wonderful. I do not cook sweets because they are not healthy so in the rare ocasions ( christmas) I buy something and that's all. It's true I don't have a passion for cooking, but I really enjoy cooking some simple meals and I do cook our dinner almost every day.
@juliegrossman3733
@juliegrossman3733 Жыл бұрын
Dawn, this is another great chat. I was especially touched by the segment on sentimental items. I am 58 years old, had a great childhood, lots of super memories of just everyday life with my 6 brothers and sisters and family. One of those memories involves regular (I remember it as every Sunday afternoon, but maybe off on that) picnics at a nearby state park. It was a relaxing afternoon, with playing in the stream, walking, swimming in the summer, my dad reading the paper or listening to a baseball game on a transistor radio. Even picnicking in the winter, with cocoa, apples...All of this to say, I have the picnic basket we used. It's missing a handle, is a little worn. I've seen others in pristine condition, but I don't want those--they aren't ours. And our family uses a cooler when we picnic. I have a few photos taken on these everyday picnics, and they mean so much to me. I think I can let the basket go now, and let the photos be the memory-prompter...this came to me during the video. Or use the basket to store picnicware and table cloths.
@AmythefirstA
@AmythefirstA Жыл бұрын
If I were you, I would use it as decorative storage, lovingly put on display (if you have the space). :)
@cchaffincc
@cchaffincc Жыл бұрын
Keep it!
@ShelleybutyoucancallmeShell
@ShelleybutyoucancallmeShell Жыл бұрын
You should give yourself permission to keep a few things that hold special memories for you. Just try to find a new use for it!
@juliegrossman3733
@juliegrossman3733 Жыл бұрын
@@ShelleybutyoucancallmeShell thank you. Right now I am thinking of possibilities for this basket...
@juliegrossman3733
@juliegrossman3733 Жыл бұрын
@@cchaffincc Thank you!
@Nina.177
@Nina.177 Жыл бұрын
I love the way you help us see the freedom we can gain by letting go of all the what-if stuff in our lives.
@skyedaisy4007
@skyedaisy4007 Жыл бұрын
This! Yes, such freedom. If you want to fly you have to let go of everything that weighs you down.
@flynn1a
@flynn1a Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your passion regularly. As much as I am already sold on minimalism, I still benefit motivationally from your periodic pep talks and insights.
@sarahaas3182
@sarahaas3182 Жыл бұрын
I feel like you're saving my life and I'm just a week in. Thank you for the way you word things that actually makes sense to me... nothing has ever resonated with me before. And I've been looking for help for years. Great work 💕😊
@Joyful_Michelle
@Joyful_Michelle Жыл бұрын
Thank you! I recently downsized (unexpectedly) and am left with extra stuff I didn’t have time to sort through before I moved. This helps me think about how to approach sorting.
@lauragarn8822
@lauragarn8822 Жыл бұрын
I think this is THE MOST IMPORTANT video you have ever made!!!! Thank you for this!!!!! ❤️
@lizziemcdougall2767
@lizziemcdougall2767 Жыл бұрын
I appreciate how you turn to values to explain the purpose and outcome of minimalism and decluttering. These videos are a big help. Thank you!
@robinbaker7735
@robinbaker7735 Жыл бұрын
You share so much wisdom, it is liberating because the mind is the battlefield. If we can change our thinking, we change our lives! Thanks Dawn! You have helped me so much♥️
@TR-id5pd
@TR-id5pd Жыл бұрын
Dawn, you are my hero. I have learned so much from you and you share in such a down to earth manner that there is no judgement - just a desire to share what you know with others. Please come to my home in TN. I so need guidance and support to get my house decluttered and organized. I’m not on Facebook so that’s not an option but I’m at a point where I no longer want to or can manage my ‘stuff’. Both my parents were hoarders in different ways. One kept everything and the other couldn’t make decisions or stick to a project. They are gone now but I think my worst fear that I would become like them has come true. I tried hiring an organizer but she just helped me move things around and now it’s worse than before. If you can’t come, can you put me in touch with someone in the Nashville area? Please keep doing these videos, your passion and caring is inspirational. ❤
@TastingParty
@TastingParty Жыл бұрын
The question I ask is “Will I miss it if it’s gone?” If “No” it goes!
@pamelaq6185
@pamelaq6185 Жыл бұрын
Once again, spot on and hitting it home. Thank you Dawn ❤️
@janethunt4037
@janethunt4037 Жыл бұрын
You nailed it, Dawn, with this question!!!! I'm going to ask this as I continue decluttering. I would love to know more about your memory boxes. What size are they? Where did you get them?
@susanshea4679
@susanshea4679 Жыл бұрын
Just awesome, dawn! Dawn, the wise philosopher! really, u think deeper than most which is so refreshing. i thank u!
@hanado1335
@hanado1335 Жыл бұрын
Definitely hitting home on this one! Need to reprogram my thinking and re-assess the true value of everything in my house and life. Now if only you could help declutter my mind😁
@liap1293
@liap1293 Жыл бұрын
That was SO well communicated, Dawn! Thank you.
@chrys77cross
@chrys77cross Жыл бұрын
Your sweater and your couch - perfect match!
@nuvoclassic
@nuvoclassic Жыл бұрын
'That 1 ? 'is it adding value?' is spot on - tfs!
@Magdalena287
@Magdalena287 Жыл бұрын
The instant pot will always be a staple in my home it can cook frozen meat and dry non soaked beans in less than an hour! Lol
@swtstlr
@swtstlr Жыл бұрын
Same girl same.
@melindajean5452
@melindajean5452 Жыл бұрын
Luv my instant pot
@jlc9294
@jlc9294 Жыл бұрын
I have two instant pots rice is always in one we use them all the time
@AmythefirstA
@AmythefirstA Жыл бұрын
Yeah, ours is indispensable. It makes the most perfect hard-boiled eggs!
@kristinesharp6286
@kristinesharp6286 Жыл бұрын
I will never buy one. I do have a rice cooker though. I use it multiple times a week.
@dlarsen325
@dlarsen325 Жыл бұрын
Minimalism and your videos have really allowed me to stop looking at the past, but instead live in the moment I'm in with hopefulness for the future. ❤️
@marisacooper5364
@marisacooper5364 Жыл бұрын
I want to hug you! I value your logical breakdown, and your advocacy for time, positive emotional health, relaxing home, and connected family life. 💕
@connieburns4495
@connieburns4495 Жыл бұрын
I never get tired of your message! You inspire me!
@thebackpackfamily2836
@thebackpackfamily2836 Жыл бұрын
So glad you are wearing color again! 😂
@clusmanfamily1155
@clusmanfamily1155 Жыл бұрын
I think of things all the time that I got rid of but could use now (years later). Couldn’t care less! Totally worth the daily peace of mind and the clarity a simplified home brings to EVERY AREA OF MY LIFE.
@angelweengz
@angelweengz Жыл бұрын
You have so much wisdom and you are helping so many people!! Don’t ever get down from your soapbox. God has given you a passion for helping people and excelling in helping people in this arena in particular. You are a HUGE BLESSING to everyone that comes across your channel!!!
@supergran1000
@supergran1000 Жыл бұрын
Such good advice. I would just say that I was given an air fryer which I never learnt to use and which was taking up room in the kitchen. I was going to give it away, but then electricity prices skyrocketed in the UK. Using a conventional oven has become very expensive, so necessity has meant that I've learnt to use the air fryer (and a slow cooker). Much more economical.
@HotSzejk
@HotSzejk 9 ай бұрын
You're THE BEST ❤ Ive been on this journey since 2016 and the way you genuinely care for others to live minimal is insane. So grateful for finding you ❤
@kristywhited8857
@kristywhited8857 Жыл бұрын
Excellent question! That question takes all the emotion out of the decision, and that emotion is where we normally get tripped up. I traveled a lot in my younger years and had an entire curio cabinet full of mementos from places I had visited. I got rid of all it. I decided the memories were important, not the mementos. And if I needed a physical item to "remind" me of the memory, then how important was that memory really....if it faded from my mind without the help of a physical reminder.
@nicoleh3703
@nicoleh3703 4 ай бұрын
I literally put yet another thing in my donation bag while listening to this! These videos are addictive
@tempusfam
@tempusfam Жыл бұрын
Your best explanation yet Dawn!! So heartfelt and I’m totally sharing! Thank you for your continued inspiration and encouragement!! 🤎🧡🍂🍁
@tesshiva
@tesshiva Жыл бұрын
I believe this is one of your very best videos. Your message is simple, compelling and actionable by anyone, wherever they are on their journey. Embracing the concept of possessions serving you and letting go of those things that don’t, is to acknowledge what is truly important in your life. You learn a lot and you surprise yourself! Congratulations on passing the Subscriber milestone!
@garlicgalore
@garlicgalore Жыл бұрын
I remember once telling my 8 year old daughter about marketing, and I didn't even know that's what I was doing. It was just a thought that occurred to me while we were seeing an advertisement for some cool toy -and I said, "you know, the people who are trying to get you to spend money on that don't care if you have enough money for food." My daughter was shocked. I think it was her first time understanding that not all information comes from a loving source that cares about how we are doing. Thank you for putting out such a positive vibe and solid ideas about getting our inventory to a supportive and useful level. I watch you over and over and always seek out a video to watch when it's minimizing time!!
@aliciamarin5226
@aliciamarin5226 Жыл бұрын
Whoa, I need to borrow those words for my own kids. Great thoughts!
@MyMaxKitty
@MyMaxKitty Жыл бұрын
I just threw away a metal water bottle that I spend money on .... because I haven't used it in over a year AND it was just sitting there screaming "wash me!" ... when I have a gazillion other things I need to do in a day, I just decided to let it go. It's so freeing when the mental bandwidth clears!
@kjfisher2004
@kjfisher2004 Жыл бұрын
One of my most favorite videos yet! Preach on Dawn!! ❤ Watching & listening to you become so passionate about this is what makes you so motivating!! Thank you!!!
@madelinemaize1426
@madelinemaize1426 Жыл бұрын
My grandmother was wise. She told me " If you own too much stuff, your stuff will own you."
@ramonalofgren5552
@ramonalofgren5552 Жыл бұрын
Have photos ( heaven help me) and one part of my basement to go. Dawn you are a true friend to share your wisdom, nudge us to keep going and tell us gently what we need to hear! Bless you!
@lyndabrooks2064
@lyndabrooks2064 Жыл бұрын
I'm retired. I practiced “a place for everything and everything in its place. I feel happy with my ‘things’ all surrounding me. So homey. ❤
@JaneH3675
@JaneH3675 Жыл бұрын
All my junk has a place too. But it's just clutter. So I'm downsizing.
@imtherapycat
@imtherapycat Жыл бұрын
I absolutely love your message in this video! You've really hit the nail on the head, and you're right that this question can even be applied to sentimental items (this is an area I'm VERY overburdened with). I will take this to heart as I begin my decluttering journey. Thanks again!
@korynordick40
@korynordick40 Жыл бұрын
I appreciate the reminder to keep consuming the good to fight the over abundance of marketing out there.
@faithfielder9493
@faithfielder9493 7 ай бұрын
This is the most brilliant and honest approach to minimalism I have ever watched or read. My take has been, "First part of life is Mergers and Acquisitions. Second part is Divestitures." But that left out the personal cost, and personal reasons, for hanging on. Thank you so much for sharing this with us!
@luciegallagher2710
@luciegallagher2710 Жыл бұрын
Listening to you really makes everything make sense. It’s so helpful to hear you talk through these things. Thank you!!!!!!! X
@anniefenter8697
@anniefenter8697 Жыл бұрын
Almost 600K Subscribers!!! Congratulations and keep it coming to motivate us with your Kindness and Gentle Pushes to a more organized and contented life!! 😍
@TheMinimalMom
@TheMinimalMom Жыл бұрын
Thank you Annie! I really appreciate this! 🥰❤️
@janiec3915
@janiec3915 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the excellent information on marketing. I've purchased plenty of items that has me feeling like a failure and I thought I was the problem. Now I'll be able to make a purchase more intentionally and really do some research before spending any money. But now that I'm on my minimalism journey, I shouldn't be buying anything unless it's absolutely necessary. Thanks again!
@lisamacit4545
@lisamacit4545 Жыл бұрын
Preach!🙌 I passed my instant pot on a few years ago and I have had to talk myself out of rebuying it! You make things so common sense clear, don't ever get off that soapbox! Thank you Dawn!
@nicolerinaldo9546
@nicolerinaldo9546 Жыл бұрын
I am always amazed how you are able to have so much value in every video on this one main topic. Thank you!
@cherylmayers5394
@cherylmayers5394 Жыл бұрын
I'm so happy I didn't fall into the "I have to have an Instant Pot" because I knew it wouldn't work for me! If I have to read and learn how to use a kitchen appliance I don't want it.
@33snowgal
@33snowgal Жыл бұрын
Yes!
@monetmd8024
@monetmd8024 Жыл бұрын
I got one as a gift, and it really didn't speed up dinner at all. Now, meat does turn out great using it, and there are things I still haven't tried cooking in it.
@janispope4295
@janispope4295 Жыл бұрын
I thought that about an air fryer but with the cost of electricity in the uk (our place completely electric) I got a second hand one to try and I love it
@rebekahphillips2334
@rebekahphillips2334 Жыл бұрын
To tell the truth, I had never thought about how marketing impacted my buying choices before watching your videos. It it SO HELPFUL! No joke. Having just that knowledge has helped me. I'm so thankful for you and your family. It's amazing how many people you are reaching! Keep it up girly!! ❤️
@SweetStuffOnMonarchLane
@SweetStuffOnMonarchLane Жыл бұрын
It's truly disgusting how much marketing we are bombarded with from the time we are born until the day we die, isn't it? Such a massive effort that companies put into getting our money. Too many people get caught up in it, not even realizing what is happening, because they suck us in from the time we are little children, often because our parents let it happen or just don't teach us about it. I hope more people will come to this realization and teach their children to be wise to these marketing tactics, as Dawn and Tom have with their children. I think our mental health and society in general would be so much better off, and resources put to much better use. I always think of the Kardashian empire and all the wealth they've acquired as an example. Why are they doing so well? It's all marketing and image-making of course. Meanwhile, they negatively affect girl's and young women's self esteem as they feel pressured to buy their products, trying to live up to their ridiculously fake images. All of this is just SO supremely wasteful and horrible for our environment too... as our landfills grow with more and more useless junk and low quality, fast-fashion clothes made of plastic (polyester). Corporations rake in billions of dollars and use that money we've given them to lobby our lawmakers... you know, that are supposed to be working for us... to make laws and give tax breaks in their favor instead of ours. It's insidious.
@lawaincooley6788
@lawaincooley6788 9 ай бұрын
Thank you Dawn !! You always express what we're thinking and feeling. I think guilt is a huge part of holding onto things that don't add value to our lives. You have helped me so much.
@sandyjoy3447
@sandyjoy3447 Жыл бұрын
YOUR ADVICE IS PRACTICAL, HEALTHY, AND SO NEEDED. I've been following you for about a year now. THANK YOU, DAWN!😇🙏 May God bless you!🌞
@savanahkaechele9061
@savanahkaechele9061 Жыл бұрын
I love your sweater! Thank you for always providing us with advice and support on our minimalism journeys!! ❤
@TheMinimalMom
@TheMinimalMom Жыл бұрын
Thank you Savanah! 🥰❤️
@Laura-zx1kf
@Laura-zx1kf Жыл бұрын
Love it too!
@MinimalistFriend
@MinimalistFriend Жыл бұрын
Dawn, you are amazing the way you explain things and provide hope! I love watching all your videos!
@samanthab3292
@samanthab3292 Жыл бұрын
This is such a great way to look at it. Now to get the stuff moved out!
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