VA LONG-TERM CARE BENEFITS- Step by Step Application Process-2019 (Aid and Attendance)

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4 жыл бұрын

The VA long term care benefits can be so confusing and applying for veterans benefits can be a long and stressful process! So many veterans are not receiving the benefits they deserve; benefits that can pay for home care, assisted living, nursing homes and even adult day care! Our family members who were war time veterans sacrificed so much for family and for our country, now it's time that they receive the veterans benefits that they so much deserve!
In this video, you will not only learn about the veterans Aid and Attendance program, but you will learn how to apply, step-by-step. This information was not available when I was applying for Aid and Attendance for my dad earlier this year. A video like this would have made it so much easier!
The Aid and attendance benefit is notoriously difficult to apply for, but it doesn't have to be. Follow the instructions laid out in this video and you will know exactly how to prepare and get your application reviewed as quick as possible.
THE FOLLOWING ARE ALL THE LINKS TO FORMS AND WEBSITES MENTIONED IN THE VIDEO. Note: All forms are directly linked to those available on the VA website.
To order DD214 Seperation/Discharge papers- (note-website not providing service at this time, but it may at some point in the future)
www.va.gov/records/get-milita...
Request Pertaining to Military Records - Form SF 180
www.archives.gov/files/sf180-...
Obtain copy of your Social Security award letter:
www.ssa.gov/myaccount/proof-o...
Intent to File a Claim for Compensation and/or Pension, or Survivors Pension and/or DIC Form 21-0966
www.vba.va.gov/pubs/forms/VBA...
Authorization to Disclose Personal Information to a Third Party - form 21-0845 (CAUTION: THIS FORM HAS EXPIRATION DATE OF 9/31/19-THEY HAVE NOT YET POSTED UPDATED FORM)
www.vba.va.gov/pubs/forms/VBA...
For information on becoming Fiduciary:
www.benefits.va.gov/fiduciary...
Application for Veterans Pension - form 21P-527EZ
www.vba.va.gov/pubs/forms/VBA...
Request for Nursing Home Information in Connection with Claim for Aid and Attendance - form 21-0779
www.vba.va.gov/pubs/forms/VBA...
Examination for House Bound Status or Permanent Need for Regular Aid and Attendance -form 21-2680
www.vba.va.gov/pubs/forms/VBA...
Find the Pension Management Center (PMC) in your area:
www.benefits.va.gov/PENSION/r...
Find the VA Regional Office near you:
www.benefits.va.gov/benefits/...
Apply for Aid and Attendance online at the VA website:
www.va.gov/
Find your local Veterans Service Organization (VSO):
nvf.org/veteran-service-offic...
VA Helpline:
800-827-1000
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@SofiaAmirpoor 4 жыл бұрын

Don't let the process of applying for the VA Aid and Attendance program intimidate you! It can be less stressful and you can get a decision in just a couple of months. This video will show you the process, step-by-step! Let me know if you decide to go for it! How Confident are You as a Family Caregiver? Take the Quiz www.sofiaamirpoor.com/Home

@swaHedo 4 жыл бұрын

Sofia Amirpoor thank you very much can’t wait to finish the vid. 8 months is bad but i guess when going through VA stuff that 8 months is pretty good especially for applying on your own. Good job again and congrats.

@magalover2024 4 жыл бұрын

Sofia Amirpoor in home attendant who signs form? If it’s a family member as an example.

@evilload 3 жыл бұрын

@@magalover2024 the in home attendant would sign the form.

@jennijun 4 жыл бұрын

This was one of the most helpful videos I've come across in all my research. Thank you for taking the time to post and organizing your video very efficiently.

@SofiaAmirpoor 4 жыл бұрын

I'm glad you found it so helpful! Are you getting ready to apply?

@Lauren-yu4xk 3 жыл бұрын

I couldn't thank you enough!!! This is an amazing video and I appreciate you caring enough to share this with everyone. I have been gathering the forms and information piece by piece but this video summed it up for me!!! GREAT JOB!

@SofiaAmirpoor 3 жыл бұрын

You are so welcome!

@trishlivingoutloud6582 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this video! It was very informative! You really helped me to gauge where to start, and how to get organized for the application process to help my dad! You are truly a blessing!

@SofiaAmirpoor 2 жыл бұрын

Glad to help! Good luck!

@momdaddaniel519 2 жыл бұрын

Very thankful for all this info. I will begin the process now. Most helpful is the initial intent to file form that I didn't know about. Thanks.

@SofiaAmirpoor 2 жыл бұрын

Glad to be helpful! Good luck !

@k.m.5087 3 жыл бұрын

Great video! You explained the V.A. Aid and Attendance Benefit like a professional!

@SofiaAmirpoor 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks Kevin! I think the website has changed a bit since I made this, I should make a revised one!

@jeanburke4730 Жыл бұрын

THANK YOU FOR THE INFORMATION! Going to give it my best shot!

@nicollerochelleofficial 3 жыл бұрын

WOOOOW this is so much and so complicated thank you sooo much for taking the time to help others with this!!!

@SofiaAmirpoor 3 жыл бұрын

You’re welcome!! The VA website has changed a bit since I made this, but the process should be the same. Good luck!

@barrylitchfield8357 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing this story of your struggles with the VA. My story about trying to get benefits from thevVA. It lasted from 2013 until 2022. I learned that hiring an attorney would make things move along much faster, and would result in the maximum VA benefit. Yes, the attorney received 30% of my back pay, but that's a whole lot better than getting nothing and being frustrated every day of my life.

@mariah6871 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this!!!! I’m the ONLY family member for my 80yr old father who’s been living with me and my family and I am completely lost on how to get him the living assistance he needs.

@jimhedges4907 8 ай бұрын

Sofia, I'm so glad to have found you. Your videos are great. Do you have separate videos for applying for Survivors Benefits?

@skyebaloo6171 27 күн бұрын

You're AMAZING!! And soo kind....thank you sooooo much for your help. I'm on top of this to file......Good luck with your journey as you care for your father also

@SofiaAmirpoor 27 күн бұрын

You are so welcome!

@ekim12709 2 жыл бұрын

thank you so much! So helpful and gave me the confidence I need to fill out this form.

@SofiaAmirpoor 2 жыл бұрын

You're so welcome! You've got this!

@tubbykramer 3 жыл бұрын

thank you thank you thank you! Great video. Very reassuring and insightful.

@pcsocoronel5753 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you. I can start filing. Now. Thats great info.

@balladlaura7090 3 жыл бұрын

Inspiring to Veterans to be informed. Thank you.

@SofiaAmirpoor 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you . I appreciate you watching!!

@CycoPatPonfe 3 жыл бұрын

thank you for a very helpful informative information!

@belindahoosech7827 2 жыл бұрын

God Bless You for posting this. We are starting the process and were told that it was best to let an attorney handle this. Unfortunately, our loved one does not have the luxury of spending any unnecessary funds...we are trying to squeeze, stretch, or save every nickel we can...sounds like this will help us save them ~30,000 nickels!

@SofiaAmirpoor 2 жыл бұрын

@Belinda Hoosech that's awesome! If only I had a nickel.....! The website has changed a bit since I made that video, but this will still help you a lot. Good luck with your application process!

@ketatlanta Жыл бұрын

Great video! Thanks for sharing!

@vincentsmith5130 2 жыл бұрын

I greatly appreciate your time, this was very beneficial

@SofiaAmirpoor 2 жыл бұрын

I’m so glad to help!

@Ruthyism- 4 жыл бұрын

THANK YOU!!!!!! Very informative and helpful!

@SofiaAmirpoor 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks Ruthy!! I'm glad you found it helpful! Are you getting ready to apply ?

@Ruthyism- 4 жыл бұрын

@@SofiaAmirpoor Hello Sofia- I work in the health and aging industry and I'm trying to help some of our senior vets get this benefit. There are lots of "sharks" out there that are just after their money, so I figured, maybe I can learn this and offer it. I know I'm ethical- but I'm not sure how to navigate the VA (it's a BIG animal!) so this video was EXTREMELY helpful. I'm teaching myself so I can help senior vets with a limited income get some help. It's my way of giving back.

@SofiaAmirpoor 4 жыл бұрын

Ruthy, that's awesome! I like how you say the VA is a big animal.....you couldn't be more right about that! Your senior vets are so lucky to have you! Let me know if you have any questions, I can try to help.

@MrSausage19 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this video. Well done and to the point.

@SofiaAmirpoor Жыл бұрын

Thanks for saying so!

@jerryarchable3905 3 жыл бұрын

Great help, thanks!

@indymac7 15 күн бұрын

Very well said. Thank you.

@SofiaAmirpoor 13 күн бұрын

Very welcome!

@virgiecutbirth700 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for all the information

@carolinekinikini5448 9 ай бұрын

Thank you so much you helped me out a bunch!

@janetsingleton9141 3 жыл бұрын

Many thanks! You have helped me so much!

@SofiaAmirpoor 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks Janet ! I think their website has changed a bit since I made this video last year. Thinking about making an updated video, but this one should give you a really good idea of the process. Good luck with your application!

@drusilaibanez385 Ай бұрын

Thank you for the information!

@SofiaAmirpoor Ай бұрын

You’re welcome!

@georgebanks8804 Жыл бұрын

Thank You ! Very Very & Very Helpful ! Thank You !

@carolineyoneda6716 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this video. Very comprehensive. My family is applying for our mom, surviving spouse of a deceased veteran. Any advice or resources to share?

@SofiaAmirpoor 2 жыл бұрын

Hi Caroline, thanks for your comment! I think I put everything I know into that video! The VA website has changed a bit since I made that, but once you are able to navigate to the correct area on their site, the rest should be the same. My advice would be to have all the documents and forms you need ready and organized before you start the application…the process will go much smoother. And if you get hung up or have questions, call the VA helpline that I included in the description of that video. They actually answer right away and are very helpful…surprise, surprise!! Best of luck in your application process for your mom! I’d love to hear how it goes!

@Mr.Oct___ 3 жыл бұрын

Hi Sophia...Wonderfully helpful vid. Thank You, & Congrats on dad's approval. My question is, does this benifit extend to the survived spouses of veterans? My grandma will be 94 next month. I'd like to get her set up.

@SofiaAmirpoor 3 жыл бұрын

Yes, as long as the veteran would have qualified himself, then his surviving spouse should qualify too, as long as she meets the criteria for homebound or needs assistance with ADLs. Good luck!

@djlevert1 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you l will complete it ASAP!

@SofiaAmirpoor 2 жыл бұрын

Good luck with your process. Keep us posted on how it’s going!

@pjbell1398 8 ай бұрын

Sofia, great information you shared. As for statements from banks, credit cards etc - do you black out the account numbers?

@SofiaAmirpoor 8 ай бұрын

I did black out the account #s

@earlbrown8126 2 жыл бұрын

Hi Sophia, thanks for your wonderful video! I have a question and a comment: 1) I haven’t filed income tax returns for years. My income wasn’t enough to qualify. Will this be a problem? 2) I was talking to a lady the other day and happened to mention I was in the military. Instead of saying “Thank you for your service”, she said “Thank you for my freedom” What a nice response!

@SofiaAmirpoor 2 жыл бұрын

Hi Richard. My dad also hadn’t filed for many many years and it was not a problem. And thank you for all that you sacrificed so that I could have the privilege to live in this beautiful country! I appreciate you so much! Have a lovely day!

@giosolly1 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so very much for sharing your insights! I was so overwhelmed when I heard about the application process but now it does not seem so insurmountable. I do have two questions, if I am filing an application online do I still have to mail the various forms to their respective offices? Second question, my dad is currently in a skilled nursing home, his Medicare benefits have been exhausted and we are looking at an additional 4-6 weeks of care due to stage 4 wounds. Once he's fit for assisted living, he will be moving to a different facility. That said, what facility do I list for application purposes, the skilled nursing home or the assisted living community, or both? Thank you so much for your help!

@SofiaAmirpoor 3 жыл бұрын

Hi Lisa, I'm glad that this video made the task seem a bit less daunting! Do be aware that this video is about 2 years old and the VA website has changed a bit since then, but the process should be pretty similar. If you are applying entirely online, don't start the process until you have all your documents in order. Then you can scan all your documents and save them onto your computer, then upload them all at once onto the VA application site. Super easy! Regarding which facility to use on the application, I'd say use the nursing home for now and you can always change it later. My dad had to move during the application process and I just gave them an update. 4-6 weeks may not be enough time to heal a stage 4 wound, so his stay there might be longer than you expect. If you have other questions you can always call the VA helpline at 800-827-1000. They are very helpful answering questions about the application process. Good luck, and I'd love to hear how it goes!

@5Nutthouse 2 жыл бұрын

You are so thoughtful and kind to share this information Sofia. I went through a similar process as yours to get my Mom approved (very recently) to receive benefits as a widow of a veteran. Do you happen to know if we have to re-qualify each year for the benefit and also, if I am my Mom's primary caregiver, am I supposed to keep records of the activities, etc., that I perform on her behalf? In other words, once approved, will the VA ever ask for proof (receipts, etc.) that the benefit is being used specifically for her needs? I am confused as to how tedious I need to be keeping up with receipts, records, etc. Do you do this with your Father? Thanks for any advice!

@SofiaAmirpoor 2 жыл бұрын

Hi Lisa Nutt, I have not kept track of one expense or time and the VA has never asked. This money is to be used for any need that your mom might have, period. She can use it for anything. Whoo hoo!!!

@karenquinn6680 3 жыл бұрын

Hi Sofia, What a GREAT, helpful video! I'm helping my brother apply for VA Pension and A&A. Did you also include in your application the "Statement In Support of Claim" form #21-4138?

@EdwardCullenseyes 2 жыл бұрын

This form can be helpful, however it is not required. With this form you support the claim by including a "buddy letter" from a family member, friend, etc that details your issues. I am currently working on a claim for someone and I am having his daughter write a letter detailing why her father is in need of assisted living, such as accidents, incidents or need for assistance with ADL's. You do not use this form unless you are providing additional information such as the letters.

@heatherhebl4260 2 ай бұрын

You can look up your local county Va office. And they will assist you with 100% of everything

@ladickinson1 Жыл бұрын

Hi Sofia, I echo all the comments about how wonderful this video is - thank you! A question for you, was your dad already in the VA healthcare system? My dad gets his healthcare through a private insurance right now and I was rather hoping I could 'simply' apply for aid and attendance and not have to apply for VA healthcare...Thoughts?

@SofiaAmirpoor Жыл бұрын

@ladickinson1 Good question! No, my dad never used the VA health system, it is not required. Like your dad, mine just went to his private doctor. This video is a few years old, so their website has changed a bit, but I think you’ll be able to figure it out, the forms are the same, that’s the most important part! Good luck!!

@sarahb8983 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for all you do Sophia. Does the aid and attendant benefits cover surviving spouses ? My dad was a war time vet who passed in 2020 and I’m taking care of my elderly mom, I hope this is something I can look into for her.

@SofiaAmirpoor Жыл бұрын

@Sarah B yes! As long as they were married when your dad passed away and if he would have met criteria for service, and if your mom Currently meets the criteria regarding her needs….then it sounds like that may just work Out for her ! Good luck with the process and let us know how it turns out!

@sarahb8983 Жыл бұрын

@@SofiaAmirpoor thank you again for your hard work and experience. Your videos are so important and encouraging.

@pjbell1398 7 ай бұрын

Question: I listing out all the expenses, would li include the prepaid funeral costs? Also in regard to medical and care giver expenses out of pocket, HOW FAR BACK CAN I LIST? Expenses within the current year? Thank you in advance and so appreciative of your timley response.

@cyndeewenzel6439 3 ай бұрын

Hi, thanks for making this video! So first off I have a couple of questions...The first line asks for the "Veteran Beneficiary Name" ?? Is that the actual veteran that I'm applying for? But Section 2 asks for "Claimants Name" ?? I'm assuming the claimant is the spouse? Thank you.

@supergirlhungry44 4 жыл бұрын

I just watched your step by step. I called the va hotline they told me to only submit the 2680 the doctor filled out and they would contact me for additional info he is already getting disability compensation they said not to fill out the 527EZ he is 87 my mom has Dementia

@SofiaAmirpoor 4 жыл бұрын

Awesome! I'm so glad you got your answer!

@Circle1Auditing 7 ай бұрын

Thanks My pops is 80 He never applied for VA He served in 68

@rvogt4441 3 ай бұрын

4/2/24 where do I send a hard copy of 21-2680? Thank you for all the info you are providing.

@gdgirouard 3 жыл бұрын

Does the spouse if a deceased non disabled veteran need to be at poverty level to qualify? This is what we were told.

@ricfoss7479 3 жыл бұрын

Hi Sofia, thank you for the great information. If I started the online application do I still need to send the Intent to file claim form 21-0966? It seems like the online application is time stamped.

@SofiaAmirpoor 3 жыл бұрын

Hi Ric. I think you are right, it is more useful for paper submissions. But it certainly couldn’t hurt to submit online. I’m one to always cover my rear!

@Marcothemillionaire 3 жыл бұрын

What if I only want to apply for housebound and not aid and attendance

@TC-ef2pp Жыл бұрын

Thank you!!

@TacticalPAPA Жыл бұрын

Does anyone have images of a filled out form especially examples of the ADLs? There’s so much mixed info out there.

@pjbell1398 8 ай бұрын

Sophia, SO DO I include a copy of the most recent filed TAX return? Thank you in advance !

@SofiaAmirpoor 8 ай бұрын

I honestly don’t recall. My dad didn’t file for years , so it wasn’t an issue. But for others, I’m not sure. Sorry.

@jimlewis5477 6 ай бұрын

Thank you for your video. My mother will be applying for benefits as a surviving spouse sometime this year when she falls below the current net worth of 155,356.00. She is currently living in an assisted living facility. She was in the Womens Army Corp for two years herself but did not serve a day during time of war. My father retired with 20 years of service and he was in the Korean Conflict and Vietnam war. My question is what bank records and proof of financial income is needed. Thank you very much.

@iadorenewyork1 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this. I am nearly done applying for my 88 year old dad. Does he have to sign it, or can I do this for him and sign it for him? You don't mention any attachments. Should I send his insurance papers? Thanks!

@SofiaAmirpoor 4 жыл бұрын

Hi Sally, if your dad can sign, he should, even if it's only an "X". If an "X", there should be a place for you to sign as witness. As far as insurance papers go, I would send in a copy of proof of any premiums that he might be paying since that would be counted towards his medical expenses. Otherwise, no, I don't think so. You can call the VA Helpline at 800-827-1000 to make sure since I'm not an official expert, and it looks like their forms have changed since I went through this process for my dad, so I don't want to give you wrong info. Good luck with your dads application process.....I hope it goes well!

@RowenMyBoat 6 ай бұрын

Can a veteran with service connected terminal cancer and does not need to be left at home get Aid & Attendance and also Caregiver support?

@jkadude2010 2 жыл бұрын

Do you have a video or how to complete each section of say the 21-680 section by section if completing for someone else. We are trying to obtain Aid and Attendance for a veteran relative with worsening Dementia currently in an Assisted Living facility hoping to avoid her having to be sent to a nursing home where she doesn't belong, 8 months from now when all of her money is gone except her social security monthly check. I am also concerned about the "Claimant section" and who fills that part out? It asks for the phone number but am afraid to put her phone as she doesn't always answer and won't remember speaking with anyone. Same for mailing address vs. address where she resides (assisted living facility) because she doesn't always get her mail. My relative served during the time of the Bay of Pigs, but the VA Benefits representative encouraged me to apply as did her VA CSW. On the 966 form there is a section for Claimant and one for the Veteran. Which do I complete? Should I do both? Again they ask for mailing address, phone, etc. You mentioned the VA doesn't recognize POA, however section III Declaration of Intent asks for name of Attny, or Agent if a valid POA has been completed, which it has. I am POA for my relative. Sorry for so many questions and for making this great video! I feel like I am doing this alone......

@surfngolf4382 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this video! I do have a question about assets. If they're over the asset limit is there a way to spend down? Will they still qualify? I'm getting ready to apply for my dad, but I don't think he will qualify. Thank you so much.

@SofiaAmirpoor 4 жыл бұрын

Hi Richard! From what I understand, the VA no longer looks at assets, now they use “net worth”. A home (on less than 2 acres), a car and personal items, furniture and belongings are not counted. I believe the cut off for net worth is around $125,000. If your dad lives in assisted living, nursing home, attends adult day care or uses a home care agency at home, then the cost can be deducted from net worth. And there are lots of medical expenses that can be deducted too. There is a 3 year look back period. I’m sure that you are allowed to spend down, but I’m not familiar with the list of things you are allowed to spend on. I recommend that you call the Help Line that you can find in the description of this video, they can answer that for you. If he is close, but not sure, I’d apply, just so you don’t always wonder. And you might get a happy surprise!! Good luck, I’d love to know how it goes!

@evilload 3 жыл бұрын

@@SofiaAmirpoor No. Cost for assisted living etc... is deducted from income. Net worth is different. Over the "cut off " is an automatic denial. You have to reapply and prove that your net worth is under the cut off.

@rickyreed48 10 ай бұрын

Perfect 👍

@SofiaAmirpoor 10 ай бұрын

Thank you! Cheers! 😃

@cgonzalez0401 3 жыл бұрын

Tanks...

@hq7108 Жыл бұрын

Thank you

@samanthadaniel7130 2 жыл бұрын

I think I am going to have a similar problem as you with the marriages and divorces as I try to gather the documents to apply for my dad. Am I reading question 22 correct that I have to list if his spouses were married before as well? I know the names of his 2 wives and 2 divorces. But am I reading it correct that I have to list if his ex wives had other marriages?

@SofiaAmirpoor 2 жыл бұрын

@Samantha Daniel I honestly don’t know the answer. But if you call the VA Helpline, they will answer that for you. Here’s the # 800-827-1000. Good luck to you!

@BrittnieLatrice 4 жыл бұрын

Hello Sofia! Your videos are very informative! My mom already receives DIC compensation after my dad passed last year. To file a claim to receive SMH (Aid & Attendance) do I have to still send all the documents I've already provided them when I filed for DIC compensation? Are just the form to file for Aid & Attendence?

@SofiaAmirpoor 4 жыл бұрын

Hi Brittnie, I honestly don’t know the answer to that question. Here is the VA helpline phone number, I’m sure they will be able to answer your question. 800-827-1000. Good luck!

@BrittnieLatrice 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!

@SofiaAmirpoor 4 жыл бұрын

@liv tellez I'm not sure about that, here is the VA Helpline: 800-827-1000, they should be able to answer your questions. Good luck to you!

@Delivery111 3 жыл бұрын

if you have ,100% permanent can you apply for pension and a and a ?

@evilload 3 жыл бұрын

@@Delivery111 Apply for whatever you want. You will only get the greater of the two benefits, not both.

@eerokartiala5957 11 ай бұрын

Is the VA Aid better than IHSS? Father-in-law is a veteran and is 91.

@kathydotson960 11 ай бұрын

Thank you for the video. I am getting the forms together for my mom, a surviving spouse of a veteran (my dad). Do I have to input my dads info on all the forms under Veterans name etc or can I leave it blank. He passed away 38 yrs ago. Thanks again.

@SofiaAmirpoor 11 ай бұрын

Yes, put your dads name on all forms. Good luck!

@kathydotson960 11 ай бұрын

Thank you.@@SofiaAmirpoor

@LMSing3 2 жыл бұрын

Where is the description box you’re talking about?

@SofiaAmirpoor 2 жыл бұрын

Under the video.

@marissamcgough3579 Жыл бұрын

I am helping with the application process for my grandmother. If she decides to sell her house, which is in a trust, would that count towards her net worth and disqualify her for the benefits?

@megancrowell1685 2 жыл бұрын

My father is currently in a skilled nursing facility which medicare and tricare for life are paying for but only has about two weeks left. It looks as though he'll need to be going into a group home after this. He's the veteran and lived in AZ, I'm trying to help my mom with this from across the country :( Should I fill out this VA-21-0966 form now or do I need to wait until he's been transferred into a group home before filling out the intent to file form?

@SofiaAmirpoor 2 жыл бұрын

@Megan Crowell. Fill it out now. You have 6 months to complete your application, and the earlier you submit it, the farther back the retro payments will go. Once he is discharged from the nursing home and is in the home, their administrator will need to fill out the form for assisted living/group home to verify his needs….along with the form that his doctor fills out….(I’m sorry, I don’t remember the names of the forms right now, but they are mentioned in the video). But even though he is still in the nursing home, there is plenty of work that you can start doing to start gathering documents. I’m sure it will go smoothly. Good luck to you and I’d love to hear how it goes! Please tell your dad that his service and sacrifice is so appreciated and never forgotten 😊

@SirShoddrick 3 жыл бұрын

DD- 2, 14. That was hard being a Veteran hearing her say “ DD -2,1, 4 “. 😖😖😖

@SofiaAmirpoor 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for correcting me! No disrespect intended. I am not a veteran. I'm just a lay person trying to help other lay people with a very foreign and complicated process. Thank you for your service!

@SirShoddrick 3 жыл бұрын

Sofia Amirpoor haha, no problem, that’s just a term ( DD Form ) EVERY Veteran knows very well!

@rwaynem 3 жыл бұрын

I'm starting this process for my 93 yo mother. In this case it is a spouse of her veteran husband. Is the process the same?

@Desminique09 3 жыл бұрын

Yes ma’am.

@pw603 3 жыл бұрын

I am trying to apply for aid and assistance for my mother inlaw ,her husband is deceased and was a ww2 vet, do I need a dd-214 or is everything I need on his discharge papers?

@SofiaAmirpoor 3 жыл бұрын

As far as I understand, the DD214 is another term for the discharge papers. If you already have the discharge document than you should be good!

@pw603 3 жыл бұрын

@@SofiaAmirpoor Thank you very much Sofia

@ginahebert3839 Жыл бұрын

My 90 year old mother is the surviving spouse of a Veteran. Would this info apply to her?

@SofiaAmirpoor Жыл бұрын

Hi there! Yes!!!

@melissapolom3075 2 жыл бұрын

If I am applying for a surviving spouse, do I still fill out in the same place online?

@SofiaAmirpoor 2 жыл бұрын

@Melissa Polom yes I believe you do!

@myshisaiah 3 жыл бұрын

What if the the surviving spouse need services could we fill out the information the same. My grandfather passed but my grandmother needs the services.

@SofiaAmirpoor 3 жыл бұрын

The form Examination for House Bound Status or Permanent Need for Regular Aid and Attendance -form 21-2680 has a place for both the veteran's info, as well as a spouse who is applying. But because I don't want to provide incorrect info, I recommend that you call the VA Helpline at 800-827-1000 and ask if you also need to complete the Application for Veterans Pension - form 21P-527EZ. Good luck!

@myshisaiah 3 жыл бұрын

@@SofiaAmirpoor thank you

@jeaninecousin8916 2 жыл бұрын

I keep hearing that my Dad can not participate in this program because he is not 100% (disability rating percentage) disabled. Is that true that a veteran can't even participate in this program or be " qualified " if he or she is not rated 100% disabled by the VA ????

@SofiaAmirpoor 2 жыл бұрын

Hi Jeanine. I think that your dad might qualify if he currently needs assistance, however, I am definitely not an expert at all the criteria. I recommend that you call the VA helpline, they will answer that for you. 800-827-1000. Good luck!

@gk_filer 3 жыл бұрын

Mom was approved from Dads service but died before she got a dime. Any recourse for the siblings. She spent 7 mos in Assisted living. died Dec 2019. Intent to file acknowledged may 2019

@SofiaAmirpoor 3 жыл бұрын

Hi Greg, sorry about your mom. I would have thought that she could be paid for May-December, since it should be a retro benefit, but I'm not 100% positive. And since it's been 10 months since she passed away, I'm not sure what they would say. If you haven't already, start with calling the VA helpline, maybe they can help answer this. 800-827-1000 Good luck!

@gk_filer 2 жыл бұрын

@@SofiaAmirpoor well the va said that since we paid the assisted living with my mothers home equity instead of our own accounts that we were not eligible for reimbursement from the va. Only if we were a dependent at the time

@trdrockwarrior_sport4432 Жыл бұрын

im a vetran i'm trying to apply for aid and attendance i dont who's the benaficiary who's the benaficiary

@bawiin2 9 ай бұрын

How were you able to find a copy of your parent’s marriage certificate? Both of my parents have Alzheimer’s and they don’t know of the info that we need to even search for it….i even went to a couple of some paid search sites and none were even able find the info….

@SofiaAmirpoor 9 ай бұрын

@bawiin2 if I recall, they didn’t actually need a copy of the certificate. They only needed the names, maybe birthdates, date and location of marriage and/or divorce. Maybe other family members can help with this info. Hopefully, this makes it easier. Good luck!

@arturorobles1989 Жыл бұрын

Can you be any sweeter?

@LMSing3 2 жыл бұрын

Can I hire you to do this process for my parents?

@SofiaAmirpoor 2 жыл бұрын

@Laurie Hi! No thank you😊! I don’t think anyone is allowed to charge to help with this process. The hardest part is gathering all the documents and getting your parent to the doctor so they can complete the certification paperwork….only family can do these things. If you need help with the forms, you can call the helpline, or go to your local VA service center. Good luck!

@olgaharris1103 Жыл бұрын

Can a vets wife qualify?

@SofiaAmirpoor Жыл бұрын

Yes!

@SpaceRanger187 Жыл бұрын

Good luck, even with a tbi and not being able to use my right hand they are giving the run around.. I literally need a baby sitter.. But I can go live in a nursing home, home nice of them..Im only 40 i dont want to go live at some nursing home or have to pay someone out of my own pocket.. Then again I forgot bread is only 10cents so why am i complaining.. Forgot being 100% means your rich balling out of control. Time to go pick up my lambo..pssh.. wish I never would have joined and gone to school like everyone else

@robertmarkiamonlyakjvbible3739 4 жыл бұрын

I am 65 I am on social security disability I was award social security disability in 1989 I had my award letter from social security administration but my ex-wife threw all my paperwork out in the garbage when we separated in 1993 I send away for my military records I live in the Philippines I send the social security administration here in the Philippines at the U.S. Embassy they sent me a email and told me they can't retrieve my social security disability award letter I try to go no social security website my social security account it wouldn't let me because it said you need a U.S address if I get social security administration to send me a letter berify that I was awarded s social security disability and the reason and the date would VA accept that

@SofiaAmirpoor 4 жыл бұрын

Hi Robert, I'm not sure about that, but if you call the VA Helpline, they could probably answer that for you. Here is the # 800-827-1000 Good luck to you!

@robertmarkiamonlyakjvbible3739 4 жыл бұрын

@@SofiaAmirpoor ok thanks but I live in the Philippines I don't think you can called a toll free number from the Philippines but thanks

@robertmarkiamonlyakjvbible3739 4 жыл бұрын

@@SofiaAmirpoor I went on social security website and try to do my socia security account but it wouldn't let me because it said you have to have a U.S address thank you I keep trying to found out

@SofiaAmirpoor 4 жыл бұрын

Hey Robert, I found this page for VA benefits where you can submit your question online. I don't know how fast the response will be since many government offices are closed for awhile, but at least it's something! iris.custhelp.va.gov/app/ask/

@alfrede.neuman8898 Жыл бұрын

Use the DAV to file for A &A they are experts.

@wecountingmoneyoverhere2517 7 ай бұрын

U better don't.

@alfrede.neuman8898 7 ай бұрын

@@wecountingmoneyoverhere2517 You are totally WRONG

@charleshowell6097 4 ай бұрын

They VSO’s work for the VA, not you. Who do you think they will be loyal towards, you or to the people that pay them.

@alfrede.neuman8898 4 ай бұрын

@@charleshowell6097 The DAV DOES NOT WORK for the VA. You are completely WRONG. The DAV is a veteran service organization and NOT in any way a part of the VA. Call them. You have totally WRONG information.

@charleshowell6097 4 ай бұрын

@@alfrede.neuman8898If you care to read my comment again, maybe slower so you get the whole jest, I was talking about the VSO’s.