I've been traveling in my SUV for years now and stay at alot of truckstops. Many times in the morning coffee rush, I am the only woman in line. A long time ago a nice cashier suggested to me that it is a good idea to buy 2 cups of coffee...then it's not so obvious that I'm alone. Made sense to me. I put the 2nd cup in a thermos once I'm back in my vehicle and enjoy it later on in my drive.

There are so many risks involved in living in your van. I lived in mine for close to 3 years and NEVER had a problem, because I followed my instincts. Every thing she said was what I did except # 4. The number one thing in my book is to never look like your living in you Vehicle. Keep your car looking clean, inside and out, keep yourself looking clean. Eliminate all clutter that can be observed by anybody walking past your car. Always allow enough room where you park for an emergency exit. Another words if you’re parallel parked allow enough room in front and back of you vehicle to escape quickly if you are in danger. It is a good idea to also know in advance what gas stations are open 24 hours how far away they are this can be a lifeline for many reasons not the least of which is having to use the restroom if you don’t have the means to do so in your vehicle. Also when in danger, any public place that is open and well lit with cameras is your friend. If you have the opportunity to scope out a potential sleeping area do so at various points in the day & night. Take note of what kind of activities are going on outside. A really uncomfortable situation is being in the back of your vehicle and a whole group of people nearby engaging in loud conversations and potentially illegal activities. That leaves you vulnerable to being caught up in their risky behavior. I didn’t travel around the country I stayed in one city and I had a list of no less than six places that I can go to. Rotate your sleeping area’s so as to not Arouse suspicion. People have a tendency to call the cops for the slightest inclination that somebody is up to no good. I had only one encounter with the police, because a homeowner saw me eating chicken in my car. Yeah like I said people call the cops for everything. I’m a guy and have far less fear living in my vehicle, I suspect women have far more to worry about. Girls have your head on a swivel if it feel even slightly wrong my advice is leave! I associated with other car campers and I met a woman who was raped by a guy who had told she was living in her car. She made herself a target. Tell no one your living in your car, # 1 it’s none of anyone’s busyness. If you follow all safety rules you needn’t live in fear.

Great advice and very well spoken as always! I had an experience one time with a hotel in GA, so it doesn't just happen in a van. I booked a hotel thru' a travel agent and when I got there, I picked up my key and ut ohhhh! There was a bunch of real rough guys outside messing around and to get to my room, I would have had to walk by them. They were drinking and loud and boisterous, so I turned right around, went back to the office and asked for a refund. I went down the road a ways and found another hotel where the desk clerk was very understanding of the circumstance and said, "I will put you on the second floor here, high enough to make you feel safe, but close to the elevator and office." I was there for a long 4 day weekend and he watched for me everyday, checking on me and asking if I was okay. So yeah, it's not just camping that a woman alone has to use good sense and trust that gut feeling. You have great videos.... very detailed and so well spoken. Thanks for sharing!

Good advice Dee. Here's a few more tips; a pair of men's boots outside your door, dog barking app, police siren app, car alarm app, gun cocking app, set up 2 camp chairs. Smile and enjoy yourself.

My Mom taught me another fantastic idea to use if you need protection! She said to keep a can of wasp spray handy! It shoots farther then pepper spray and would stop anything, animal or human! Never tried it on either myself, but always sounded like a winner to me!!

A former Manager of mine at a security company, who was also a retired Police Sargent, Had a saying " Just Because You Feel Safe, It Does not Mean You are." Basically know your surroundings.

for self defense a good choice also is a fire extinguisher. a good fire extinguisher works on the principle of suppressing oxygen. if a person or an animal is unable to breathe they immediately forget about their original intentions. a fire extinguisher is not restricted anywhere. in fact, in europe every car is required by law to have one.

I'm seriously considering van life when my daughter goes to uni next year. This was a fab vid for single people.

Keep your key-fob to your vehicle close by when sleeping, and if you think someone is threatening, set off your vehicle alarm. Other people close by may hear it and come to your rescue. Pepper spray is a must, and a spray can of Wasp and Hornet spray is nice because it has a stream of 12-14 Ft. Aim for the eyes. Recommend that you practice spraying it. These recommendations would apply at home also.

Excellent video. My same rules. The half tank one saved me. I got very lost once outside Yosemite. My other rule is , if I'm not in a place to sleep before dark. I get a hotel. I don't deviate from that. One other good thing , is to program your car lock system to only unlock the driver side front door. No one can jump in your car that way.

Good advice! We often think of threats as human. However, safety in terms of weather disasters is something we should all be increasingly prepared for. A video on this topic would be good. Ideas on where and how to prepare and seek shelter when you are in a vulnerable vehicle would be helpful.

Great information! I was in a campground and parked facing into the spot rather than backing in. I wanted my back doors to be visible to others if I had to press the alarm. Had I backed in, my back doors would have been hidden from all other vehicles. My safety plan always depends on my circumstances! Love your channel! Thank you for posting!

Walk softly and carry a gigantic mag light. Another great video. I usually say "be safe" but looks like you are. So have fun.

Hey girlfriend, Loved the video.putting those wireless cameras on top of my list. That mag light will be there too. Being an X truckdriver l have my 25 yr.old tire thumper. Talk about getting someone's attention with that. GREAT JOB.

Very helpful! The mini security camera item was on my wish list for the future build. Agree 100% about the gut check meter. I’ve moved many a time on a gut feel and thankfully to date don’t have a “I had a gut feeling and didn’t heed” story. Have fun! Be safe!

See, thank you so much!! I love how concise you are with the information you share with us. I am easily overwhelmed and I never feel like your videos are too much. You ALWAYS have great information and do such a wonderful job explaining things! THANK YOU AGAIN!

Flash 'em and bash 'em -- gotta love it!

I like the gas tip. You should never go lower than a quarter of a tank to prevent your fuel pump from burning out. I've been in places where I'm the only camper. But I have 2 dogs. Once at a truck stop, someone was skulking around my mini. Emmy started growling and barking and scared them off.

Good info, thanks. Have to check out cameras. Dad always said keep 1/2 tank gas and bought all girls pepper spray

Thank you for always leaving information in you description. I love having your information at my fingertips and ears! D from Okc

Excellent video, thank you! Love the positive encouragement and your bright spirit 💖

Another great video! I love your attitude of not letting fear control you.👍

Ty very much for taking the time in putting these helpful tips together. Quite eye opening, indeed.💐

Thank you for making this video 😊 it’s much appreciated ❤️

Great advice. Thank you for sharing. I’m very impressed with the huge flashlight!! 😃 stay safe.

Another awesome video, and some great advice about being prepared so that you can still enjoy life. 😊

Thank you for your sage advice. I respect and admire your reassuring, practical manner.

Wow, I’m so amazed in your blog Lady Bugout…👌👌👌👏👏👏

My goodness!!! Thank you for the information. Starting my van build next week. Saving this to my folder of "things I need".

I like the new background curtain! Nice!

Yup - “Trust your gut” is very important for all of us. Great video with great advice….thanks for sharing.

I am always looking forward to your next video. This one was one I needed. I have thought about car camping but a little scared and unsure about places to stay and if I would be safe. Thanks again for a great video

I might say of all the videos I watch about cargo van live yours has been the most informative. I am researching collecting information and deciding which van I really need to hit the road. Thank you for who you are and all your willingness to share.🚗

Great advice Lady Bugout!

Great tips. I love the idea of a spy camera. I hadn't heard that one before and the flashlight baton is great. Happy travels.

Thank you for sharing safety tips, very sound advice. I am such a scaredy-cat and it has many times stopped me from enjoying my life to the fullest. I will definitely keep in mind your words of wisdom x

Loved what your mom said about saddling up anyways, and that you decided not to let fear control you. Also props to your stepdad! When I worked as a fire fighter EMT we always carried one on questionable calls. I love the red color! ❤ great suggestions. 😃👍

Yes please stay safe. You are living the dream.

Mag lites are oldies, but goodies! I have always carried one, got one for my daughter with her first car, and will be getting one for my granddaughter in a couple years with her first car. Great video & safe travels🥰

HI there.. caught part of your interview with Ray @Vanliferocks.. Looking forward to catching more of your vblogs!!! Great advice!!! Always trust your gut!!!

Thank you for the good advice. With every video I find something useful! I am looking to get a tiny van, but am weary of getting a used one. I am glad yours is working out.

Great tips and good advice Dee! Thx

Hi again DEE Great info for self protection! Just being self alware and having plans for safety are a good start. Commonsense and keeping a level head as possible with a controlled response will be an important beginning to moving forward with a plan. Like that amazing flashlight bat! Thinking that one could really sting lol lol! Thx for sharing once again your super good ideas. Stay safe and enjoy!

Very good safety tips for anyone. Thank you.

Thank you Lady Bugout 💙 great information my friend - Ray

All good tips! Thank you for sharing!

Really great safety tips Dee. Look at your channel exploding! I am so so happy for you! Good job!

Mag lights are great and make a good club. For truly blinding light, get an Olight or Surefire or other 21st century flashlight. Just one will light up a cathedral and completely blind a 4 or 2 legged predator.

Great info beautiful lady, thank you so much🙏🌹

Thank you for the good advices.

Viewing this a few months on, but Great advice! I’m a guy, but I totally agree with the precautions you take in sizing up a location. I’ve always found it’s always easier to avoid trouble, than to try and fight your way out of it! I travel in a Transit Connect too (2012). I carry some things you don’t, but I’m very impressed with how much room you’ve squeezed out of yours! And while I sometimes wish I’d gotten a full size van, with the price of gas right now, I’m glad I’m driving a Transit Connect.

Great idea about those wire less camera and i like your idea about motion sensor lights. Thank You

Great tips! Thanks Dee! I was afraid of living in my RV and I'm so glad I didn't let that fear control/stop me! "Courage is being scared to death- but saddling up anyways" YAS! ❤️ Red

You always give great insight. 💕

Your space looks so comfy, cozy.

Very well said touched on many good points

Good information young lady thanks for sharing, keep smiling 😊.

Your Gut is Strategically closer to your Feet than your Brain for a Reason. When your Gut tells you to Walk Away do so, because by the time the Message from your Brain arrives, it might be too late.

Great information especially about the gas and cell phone topics.

Great video. Thanks!

Thanks for the great information! You gave more than most!🙌

Love the flashlight! BOOMMM!!!

You so sweet and kind to share your knowledge. Thx to your channel

Really important tips, thank you so much! 😊

Found the link to the mini spy cameras, thank you so much. Your videos are such a breath of fresh air and I love all your tips.

Awesome info!😍Thank you!

Excellent advice. Thanks.

Well done, great advice!!!

Those are all great safety tips, Dee! Your first one is crucial to your safety...trust your gut. I'm well prepared to defend myself but I would rather not be involved in any confrontation. If I feel or see a situation that could evolve, it's time to move on. Perpetrators strike on easy targets; taking the paths of least resistance. If you look confident and you seem to be aware of your environment, perps will go elsewhere. I have a sticker on my van that says, "Never mind the dog, beware of the owner." In 63 years of backpacking, hiking, car camping I've only dealt with one incident involving a mountain lion. I stood my ground, raised my trekking poles and yelled for the cat to go away. I used your Aootek light tip mounting one on my windshield and one on the back door of my van. While boondocking a wild horse activated the windshield light but it just continued to graze.

love the advice!!!💕

Thank you so much for sharing this info.

Thank you. Helpful points.

TY for all the gr8 tips! Bless you & TY😊👍

Thank you for the valuable advise.

I worked heavy highway construction for 30 some yr..Was majority of the time the only female away from home,working,staying by myself.. My crew I worked with were great.. But they were not always in the same location.. Yes. Definitely yes... Always trust your gut.. Happy traveling my friend.🚐❤

A friend told me about the app Life360! A couple of family members always know where I am and even if my phone is going dead so they can hollar at me (and they have) to CHARGE MY PHONE! I also have motion sensor lights and cameras!! You rock, Lady! Love your smile and knowledge.

Best public service video for females traveling alone educational and realistic to work with Thank You.

Going to get me one of those flashlights, great idea!

Great vlog LBO, came accross your channel after gutted as a subscriber of Bunny plays here (The Bunsta). Also thought about van locks? Lots of different ways and companies to do it, not only for personal security but for your "mobile" home security too. Be well and keep rollin on.

Great video! I am interested in what else you learned from your stepdad. Awesome Channel, your so down to earth. I love it. Thank you for sharing.

Very well stated. Thank you!

I have been considering adding security cameras. I would like the ability to see what is around my van (whether beast or man) without having to take down privacy shades. I will probably have to get at least 2, 1 for each side of the van. Thank you for the recommendation, going to check for any KZfaq how to and review videos next!

Great tips, thanks 😊

Great tips!!!

Great tips. Thanks.

Always great advices even for me who doesn’t drive :) thank you , I would get a loud siren to go along the cameras and flash light :) love your adventures , from 🇬🇧

I just found yoir channel, and I love it!

Great information/tips! Never let's down your guard and when you have no fear, you are about to be in trouble!😉

ty for the great information!!!

Thank you so much for sharing this great advice! I'm not yet in my tiny-home-on-wheels but hope to be in the fall (or at the very latest, by spring 2022). One other great form of protection is dogs. I currently have a Chihuahua, who's a great "alarmist" (no need for a door bell)...but once I'm in my tiny-home-on-wheels, I will be getting another dog, one that's more intimidating and will make someone with ill-intentions think twice before confronting me or trying to get into my rig :-) Thank you again for sharing and hope to meet you on the road some day :-)

Excellent advice!😎😎

Thanks for the fantastic tips, Dee! I spent my first night in my van last night and thoroughly enjoyed it! The only thing I wished was different was my ability to see what was outside. I am definitely going to get a couple of those cameras! Stay safe and enjoy, beautiful lady!

All great tips 🚗🐞♥️

What a lovely life you have nice to watch You and listen to your everyday adventures Thank you lady ☘️☘️☘️

Great video!

Wow! that was some talk! all of it so true and very wisely given, you are a very wise lady and very brave. I think I will park near you and you can protect me oop's he he only joking!!! this has to be one of the best bits of advice for lone travellers. best wishes Ken

Thanks for the video. Good info.

Terrific advice, great presentation, thank you! You just got a new sub.

Thank you your video are great. Stay safe bless and healthy 🌝

Excellent advice, thank you. ☯️