Vili Fualaau on Mary Kay Letourneau's Final Moments | Dr. Oz Exclusive Interview

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Vili Fualaau on Mary Kay Letourneau's Final Moments | Dr. Oz Exclusive Interview
Mary Kay Letourneau became a household name after she had an affair with her student who she later married. Now, her husband Vili Fualaau breaks his silence about her final days battling cancer and their life together.
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@amywaters1962
@amywaters1962 3 жыл бұрын
People say age is just a number, but sleeping with a 12-year old child is perverted & disgusting.
@rondagantt485
@rondagantt485 3 жыл бұрын
AMEN!
@annakullmann576
@annakullmann576 3 жыл бұрын
It’s more about consenting adults and also knowing what’s happening unlike children who don’t understand
@katet5116
@katet5116 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed! Age is just a number, when you are of legal age..
@Victoria-uq8mf
@Victoria-uq8mf 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@lavanyayulia3162
@lavanyayulia3162 3 жыл бұрын
But he married her in 2005
@emilbrandwyne5747
@emilbrandwyne5747 3 жыл бұрын
I have nothing but respect for this man. He dealt with his whole situation like a responsible being putting his children first.
@martintucson7244
@martintucson7244 2 жыл бұрын
Yup he was a victim and sadly she only serve 7 years
@paulharrisonadventuregearm5457
@paulharrisonadventuregearm5457 2 жыл бұрын
He also put his wife Mary first.
@voltanhawk1505
@voltanhawk1505 2 жыл бұрын
@@paulharrisonadventuregearm5457 He did it for the daughters, for Mary and for himself
@Vivi-sx8yp
@Vivi-sx8yp 2 жыл бұрын
He loved her and said she was his best friend it was difficult for him to be interviewed
@voltanhawk1505
@voltanhawk1505 2 жыл бұрын
@@Vivi-sx8yp He always loved Mary despite of their separation
@cvnkj4032
@cvnkj4032 10 ай бұрын
This dude is world class from beginning to end. He’s beyond his time.
@jonnyfendi2003
@jonnyfendi2003 8 ай бұрын
The f you on??? Hope your damn husband cheats with a 12 yr old girl and leaves you then what u gon say???
@GameChanger597
@GameChanger597 6 ай бұрын
​@@judymarshall1581Thank you for being the voice of reason in this warped situation. You are 100% correct. Just bc this 'relationship' lasted decades doesn't mean it was healthy or right. Lots of abuse victims have long-term "relationships" with their abuser. Just the fact that he says there was nothing perverted about their relationship tells me he was manipulated from beginning to end without ever having realized it as an adult bc having a sexual relationship with a 12-year-old child has everything to do with perversion. Extreme perversion. I would guess that MKT as a child likely dealt with her own perversion through traumatic abuse that she unknowingly oppressed and tried to subconsciously emotionally repair by seeking after him as a way of regaining self power and self-protection
@eccentricityxoxo5378
@eccentricityxoxo5378 5 ай бұрын
I've always felt that about him!
@petergriffiths5537
@petergriffiths5537 3 ай бұрын
This kind of validates mary k's claims lol that he was 12 biologically but wise beyond his years. Weird case, this one.
@cvnkj4032
@cvnkj4032 3 ай бұрын
@@petergriffiths5537 not weird she was an adult an her job was to protect that innocence not violate it. She was to nurture not take advantage of. She was in the position of authority an abused it. There is no excuse for what she did. He was a child. She needed to have self control. She basically abused him til the end. She was predictor. It was involuntary by him. He was a child he went along because she had full co control ova him. He had no free will. No rights to make his own decisions. Even after he become an adult it was too late. She manipulated an force him into adulthood at an early age robbing him of his youth. I hope now this young man is at peace and finally can live for himself an find happiness a solace. Not weird she was a predictor. It makes me really angry just thinking about it. He was so robbed of a life it makes me sad.
@profvonshredder2563
@profvonshredder2563 8 ай бұрын
Villi was a pure soul…you can hear it in all these interviews. The fact that he went back to take care of her in her hour of need shows the kind of loving soul that he was
@j.s.4819
@j.s.4819 7 ай бұрын
Love, or addicted to being attached and caught
@JD-yj8bw
@JD-yj8bw 6 ай бұрын
He had Stockholm syndrome. He’s a victim to her predatory behavior.. it’s sick and sad. There was no love.
@kateashby3066
@kateashby3066 6 ай бұрын
You’re delusional. This man is a victim with a trauma bond. This was NOT love. 🤮
@melissasaint3283
@melissasaint3283 6 ай бұрын
Both can be true. He can be a decent, loving 35 year old man, And a child who was manipulated and harmed. I feel for him every time I see an interview with him. I pray for healing and peace for him and his daughters.
@avamasquerade
@avamasquerade 5 ай бұрын
It also shows exactly why she selected him.
@alicat7281
@alicat7281 3 жыл бұрын
I think he sounds like a very decent man. The fact that he took care of her in her final days says a great deal about his character.
@DDavis-mi2cg
@DDavis-mi2cg 3 жыл бұрын
Yes but not so much of his character, of his real love for her.
@robbb416
@robbb416 3 жыл бұрын
What would have not made him a decent man. He wasn't the one who raped and molested a child. He was always a decent good person. Smh
@susanneanderson1235
@susanneanderson1235 3 жыл бұрын
Definitely a decent person no matter how they got together in the beginning. They actually seem to be the real deal of love.
@moonshadowessentialssoapsn5287
@moonshadowessentialssoapsn5287 3 жыл бұрын
Had he been a 12 year old girl who’s 34 year old male teacher was screwing her and then come to find out knocked her up twice before age 16 everyone would be singing a different tune. If ur sister or daughter was 12 and her male teacher raped her because convent or not it’s rape at the age of 12 and then went on to have 2 kids and then married him I don’t believe ppl would be this sympathetic. Ppl would have been calling for his beheading in the streets. Child rape is not ok because the rapist is a woman and not a man. There is a huge double standard with men and women and children and it’s bad enough for a man to do this to a 12 year old but I expect more and I’m 10 times more outraged that a teacher did this and no less a mother of 4 and a married woman! I am so sorry his daughter’s are hurting it’s not there fault and I’m sorry he is hurting but he has the worst case of brainwashing and child abuse I’ve ever seen and that’s why my heart breaks for him because he is a molested child and a victim of child rape. That’s why my heart breaks for him and his daughter’s and my heart bleeds for her x husband and her other 4 children because I can’t imagine what they went through especially in school after there mother raped a 12 year old child and then said in court she felt she did nothing wrong because she loves him. It was all about her. If u watch the interview from Australia 60 minutes. It’s on KZfaq when u get the whole story and u watch how she speaks to him u will think he has great character u will see he’s been exploited molested and abused. U gotta watch it. It was creepy!
@robbb416
@robbb416 3 жыл бұрын
@@moonshadowessentialssoapsn5287 excellent comment.. I agree 100% with everything you said. The comments are pretty baffling and disgusting. We, americans in particular are huge hypocrites. The double standards are huge here in the states.
@janahcoaching
@janahcoaching 3 жыл бұрын
He said in an Interview that he did want his daughters to have a real family, because he never had that. So he gave his daughters a normal childhood. But as he grew older he realized how strange it all had been...I think he is a very decent person.
@teresahowick5197
@teresahowick5197 3 жыл бұрын
He’s very decent. He’s a victim of many years. It’s very sad.
@apriadisaulek6823
@apriadisaulek6823 3 жыл бұрын
Really so sad
@Askalott
@Askalott 3 жыл бұрын
Which interview was that? Where he talked about realizing how strange it was? I'm super curious to hear about that.
@divinerae4966
@divinerae4966 3 жыл бұрын
I agree
@caribgirl726
@caribgirl726 3 жыл бұрын
You can tell he’s a good, decent human being.
@nishaunwaddell5605
@nishaunwaddell5605 6 ай бұрын
And he’s still only 40 years old. He’s had a rough life and has handled it with such grace. God bless him and his children
@YelloLibra83
@YelloLibra83 6 ай бұрын
His bday is 6/26/1983 …he is 40 not 35
@nishaunwaddell5605
@nishaunwaddell5605 5 ай бұрын
@@YelloLibra83 the video is old. Either way you got the real point of my comment. I edited since you were bothered😂🫠
@dinajones2761
@dinajones2761 5 ай бұрын
He’s aged a lot for 40 - you can tell
@aprilsummers6447
@aprilsummers6447 5 ай бұрын
​@@dinajones2761 not really. He looks like his age to me.
@SpecialBlanket
@SpecialBlanket 3 ай бұрын
he has a chance at a great life and future still. my partner is only 40 and romps around like a child, and we have plans to do all kinds of different stuff and move a bunch of places and run a bunch of businesses... when i think of how long our future is going to be together, i realize that he also has a chance to do all that
@francinesanchez5402
@francinesanchez5402 7 ай бұрын
I loved when he said he couldn’t speak for his daughters, as they were their own people. He’s learned a lot. It’s a beautiful thing to see.
@shaylarz
@shaylarz 3 жыл бұрын
He's a good man. I wish him and their daughters peace.
@apriadisaulek6823
@apriadisaulek6823 3 жыл бұрын
Everybest wishes for vilis family
@adha2870
@adha2870 3 жыл бұрын
Aameen Aameen Aameen summah Aameen Rabil Alameen Allahuma Aameen 🤲🏼🤍💦
@Lora_M_NY
@Lora_M_NY 3 жыл бұрын
shaylarz he IS...and appears to be strong & sensible
@jeanthree
@jeanthree 3 жыл бұрын
They are beautiful the daughters
@patrishanotpatricia6456
@patrishanotpatricia6456 3 жыл бұрын
It's weird that they show pictures of her they didn't talk to her
@jant3528
@jant3528 3 жыл бұрын
No tissues for mourning guests on this show?! They just let him wipe his tears and nose with his hand! Where's the hospitality, DOCTOR?!
@vnessa06vf
@vnessa06vf 3 жыл бұрын
I was kind of shocked myself
@jzwalz51robin45
@jzwalz51robin45 3 жыл бұрын
@@vnessa06vf Maybe they were thinking of her first four children that she abandoned and saving their sympathies for them...
@stefanopatton1809
@stefanopatton1809 3 жыл бұрын
JZWALZ51 ROBIN what’s that got to do with the child she molested and trapped
@lordshango4184
@lordshango4184 3 жыл бұрын
The producers of the show should be ASHAMED for this omission!! It’s strange and surprising that the guest was sitting there sniffling and wiping tears from his eyes/face and not a SINGLE person on the set had the good sense and decency to provide him with tissues!!!! What horrible way to treat guests to the show. Btw, he’s definitely a very decent man.
@CassaundraBabe
@CassaundraBabe 3 жыл бұрын
They should be giving him free therapy for life for having been victimized and unprotected by one of then world's most vile pedophiles. Instead, he's being put on this show like this relationship was normal. He was a victim of sexual molestation. This is truly vile that this man is now being used to get ratings by this show. No mention of his victimization and no discussion of how disturbing this relationship is. They're normalizing pedophilia. And these comments are even more disturbing.
@EricaChavira-on4oz
@EricaChavira-on4oz 10 ай бұрын
He didn’t get to have a childhood, she robbed him of that… such a heartbreaking situation all the way around. Most people wouldn’t be as resilient as him but he came out of that situation with so much strength and grace, he genuinely seems like such a beautiful and caring person. Wish him and his kids all the best. ❤
@alperwolfie
@alperwolfie 9 ай бұрын
I disagree with robbing his childhood.. they were sending in letters while she was in jail that she’s fine with him “dating” living his “youth” etc. she’s not a bad person. She didn’t abuse him. He has the free will to leave anytime given “when he had the chance to” but he never did and when he did get a divorce on her I can tell that he still has deep love for her as if he lost his soulmate. No one is going to ever love him like the way she did and he knows that and that’s why they were “bestfriends” You clearly don’t understand their mindsets.
@EricaChavira-on4oz
@EricaChavira-on4oz 9 ай бұрын
@@alperwolfieyou are right, I do not understand the mindset of a convicted child rapist.
@ms3d921
@ms3d921 9 ай бұрын
​@alperwolfie Sir something is seriously wrong with you. She stole his childhood. As a legal age adult she held the power to put a child in his place. She programmed his mind with lies & its a sad situation all around. I blame his mother because ain't no way you're going to have access to my child at that age. Not once but twice. I'd be sitting in jail with her after beating her behind.
@Gifty1345
@Gifty1345 9 ай бұрын
She robbed him of his childhood giving him 2 kids at 13/14
@EricaChavira-on4oz
@EricaChavira-on4oz 9 ай бұрын
@@ms3d921👏🏻👏🏻
@Manda-wg6wj
@Manda-wg6wj Ай бұрын
Im from England and this Oz show guy is such a monster. Asking him extremely hard questions when hes been threw so much, no tissues no nothing. Bless him and his children. Hes an amazing Father and noone can ever that away from him. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
@abeltesfaye_
@abeltesfaye_ 2 жыл бұрын
Every adult in this man's life failed him! You could tell he had made sense of what happened to him and was angry, rightfully so, after he made sense of what happened to him. I pray he & his daughters live in peace the rest of their lives
@IkesPimpHand
@IkesPimpHand Жыл бұрын
Man i loved most of Last FM
@sumayyahadetunmbi4347
@sumayyahadetunmbi4347 5 ай бұрын
fr, they really failed him
@Michael-uo4hv
@Michael-uo4hv 5 ай бұрын
The one and only adult that failed him and continued to fail him, was the sick delusional Mary who pursued a delusional Cinderella love story with a 13 yr old kid, her own kids age, 🤢🤮🤮 which was actually a pure evil LUST STORY OF GROOMING AND RAPING A 13 YR OLD KID!
@ghostdoodles
@ghostdoodles 5 ай бұрын
​@@sumayyahadetunmbi4347He definitely rose above it, quite a remarkable man.
@Cocochantelle
@Cocochantelle 3 жыл бұрын
He has a lot to process. That was his wife, his teacher, the mother of his children and a mother figure to him all in one. And this person took advantage of him, but he still loved her. So processing her death has to take all of this into account.
@paulharrisonadventuregearm5457
@paulharrisonadventuregearm5457 3 жыл бұрын
Incorrect they took advantage of each other. Stop making her into a monster...she wasn't. It's a VERY unusual case of what you would technically term pedophilia... however, it was and is ultimately NOT to described that way.
@barefootgirl67
@barefootgirl67 3 жыл бұрын
@@paulharrisonadventuregearm5457 If a teacher did to my son at age 12 what Mary did to Vili, I'd be in a jail cell smiling in my mug shot. Give me a break
@paulharrisonadventuregearm5457
@paulharrisonadventuregearm5457 3 жыл бұрын
@@barefootgirl67 you are correct. EACH situation has its own dynamic and merit however
@paulharrisonadventuregearm5457
@paulharrisonadventuregearm5457 3 жыл бұрын
@@barefootgirl67 That's just pointless ...violence or bad behaviour doesn't solve anything...just makes things worse ..the end. You might want to reevaluate how you see the world and people. Nothing is black and white
@barefootgirl67
@barefootgirl67 3 жыл бұрын
@@paulharrisonadventuregearm5457 seems like every time I comment it's being deleted. ???
@ray-hv3zn
@ray-hv3zn 6 ай бұрын
The part where he says that she was his best friend and the only one who really cared was extremely sad to me. To think that he felt that this person who took his childhood away from him was the only one who really cared is just awful. She cared more about herself than destroying his life
@ecalose6785
@ecalose6785 6 ай бұрын
She absolutely stole his childhood and if you watch her interview with Villi, and she’s adamant she did nothing wrong and he was the pursuer and n charge. It’s truly unreal. He was 12 or 13 when he had a baby.. She said he was not prepubescent. It’s truly unreal how selfish she was and will interrupt him . He does say he would never be attracted to a 13 yr old. It just is not something that would interest him. She’s very defensive and says it wasn’t illegal and the interviewer said yes it was illegal. She says not at the time fr women. She was unreal!
@ronswansonsdog2833
@ronswansonsdog2833 6 ай бұрын
Idiots
@ispeakcll8152
@ispeakcll8152 6 ай бұрын
He knew she was batty but it looks like she was all he had It is sad
@PerryEllis.365
@PerryEllis.365 6 ай бұрын
@@ispeakcll8152 and that was the reason she was able to get away with it. Nobody cared enough but her.
@angelsasmrchannel
@angelsasmrchannel 6 ай бұрын
You can only say that up to a point. It's not like she held a gun to his head when he decided to marry her at 22 years old. In the end, it was his decision to continue down that path with her.
@justineharper3346
@justineharper3346 10 ай бұрын
They had such a complex relationship. Based on interviews I’ve seen, I think he knows it was wrong, but doesn’t regret it because he loves his daughters and obviously does have a deep love for Mary as well. He seems like he’s grown up to be an amazing dad, husband and man. I wish him nothing but happiness
@eveali3177
@eveali3177 10 ай бұрын
Imagine if the situation was reversed a girl contacting her teacher who made her pregnant at 13 and she wants that rapist in her kid’s life
@princesskunji
@princesskunji 10 ай бұрын
How crazy!!! He was a victim trapped in this situation. How can you even commend his greatness when he was literally stuck. And he filed for separation....so yeah he wasn't in love with her.
@janeking4059
@janeking4059 10 ай бұрын
​@@eveali3177I believe...the DIFFERENCE here is that the two rapists were opposite sexes..
@livelovely4681
@livelovely4681 10 ай бұрын
​@@eveali3177 a similar scenario would be Celine Dion and her late husband. They met when she was 11. He also died with her.
@bsociety4647
@bsociety4647 10 ай бұрын
Does no one remember that she was married and had like 4 kids when she started preying on Vili? She was a messed up person... Vili was a friend of Mary's son
@deborahreed4338
@deborahreed4338 3 жыл бұрын
Amazing man who deserves to be remarried and happy for the rest of his life.
@voltanhawk1505
@voltanhawk1505 2 жыл бұрын
Mary will always have a special place in his heart
@harperstacey9604
@harperstacey9604 2 жыл бұрын
His life will never be the same. From Ms. Harper Stacey.
@enagrubesic6080
@enagrubesic6080 2 жыл бұрын
@@voltanhawk1505 uh no. he only stayed with her because of the kids
@voltanhawk1505
@voltanhawk1505 2 жыл бұрын
@@enagrubesic6080 That's why he was near to cry and said he was missing her
@voltanhawk1505
@voltanhawk1505 2 жыл бұрын
@@enagrubesic6080 All of his closest friends can confirm that he loved her and i think they know him better than you
@barciebeejay2331
@barciebeejay2331 3 жыл бұрын
He's so HANDSOME and Smart. Thoughtful and seemingly kind. He deserves all the joy the universe has to offer.
@catme8049
@catme8049 3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@BarrywHiteFTW
@BarrywHiteFTW 2 жыл бұрын
Why do his looks have anything to do with it? I mean, all caps? Really?
@user-ri7cl8ws8q
@user-ri7cl8ws8q 3 ай бұрын
That GOD has to offer. The universe doesnt have a spirit nor can it care to spare Blessings.
@NicoleLilliansemakula-zm2gf
@NicoleLilliansemakula-zm2gf 10 ай бұрын
Respect to my boy. Even after all that lady put him through, he still respected her but you can tell he's broken inside by their life journey
@MariaG-mp3bd
@MariaG-mp3bd 10 ай бұрын
Well said ❤
@puanani_usa
@puanani_usa 9 ай бұрын
Maybe he doesn't look at their relationship the way you do. Live and let live as they say.
@emilys8072
@emilys8072 9 ай бұрын
@@puanani_usa what happened is she is a pdf-ile. No other way to look at it.
@puanani_usa
@puanani_usa 9 ай бұрын
@emilys8072 I can appreciate your straight foreword answer. And it is truth in its most basic form.
@ElaAusDemTal
@ElaAusDemTal 9 ай бұрын
How is he "your boy"?
@longstrangetrip9920
@longstrangetrip9920 9 ай бұрын
I can’t imagine being 12yrs old and having an adult who’s pushing 40 engage in a sexual relationship with me. Stockholm Syndrome is heartbreaking and I hope Vili has been able to heal and live the rest of his life with his daughters happily doing everything he’s always wanted to do in his life.
@MikeHawk-yg3gk
@MikeHawk-yg3gk 9 ай бұрын
why not? you didn't have any hot teachers when you were 12 that you fantasized about? Mary wasn't hot so I don't get it.
@longstrangetrip9920
@longstrangetrip9920 9 ай бұрын
@@MikeHawk-yg3gkkeyword FANTASIZE* also I’m a girl so are you saying at 12yrs old I should’ve been having sex with my grown teachers just cause prepubescent hormones?
@longstrangetrip9920
@longstrangetrip9920 9 ай бұрын
@@MikeHawk-yg3gkand you’re right Mary wasn’t hot, basic blond white woman who had sex with a kid who wasn’t even close to being mentally or PHYSICALLY developed, so hot
@longstrangetrip9920
@longstrangetrip9920 9 ай бұрын
@@style_muse34 = close to 35 = 5yrs away from 40!! who gives a damn how I phrased it the principle still stands. Y’all make me sick
@marialacorte4126
@marialacorte4126 8 ай бұрын
Lol well all you need is one more number to be able to round it up!😂 I hope Mary taught her students how to round.
@TheCandiceWang
@TheCandiceWang 3 жыл бұрын
This is wrenching. Look at him. His greys. He's about the age she was when she began their affair. The life he's had to live. The words of grief and loss. Her still being his best friend despite all she did. Pray for this soul. He needs extra love care and prayers for strength. Pray for their entire extended family. He still wears his wedding ring.
@gypsywoman9140
@gypsywoman9140 2 жыл бұрын
How could he not view her as his best friend? She did wrong, yes, but she has been the most consistent person in his life. He's known her since he was a boy. She obviously never treated him like a kid; she treated him like an equal for as long as he can remember. Whether or not we agree with it; that is his reality and he's lost the one constant he's known since boyhood.
@gracielasilva6905
@gracielasilva6905 2 жыл бұрын
I adore your love story....one of a kind,,,, unbelievable....Be strong life must go on
@portcityminis
@portcityminis 2 жыл бұрын
I think he was trauma bonded
@shawnburford4791
@shawnburford4791 2 жыл бұрын
Wow.
@johnnykarate57
@johnnykarate57 2 жыл бұрын
@@gypsywoman9140 no. she did not treat him like an equal. watch their interviews together. its disturbing. i feel for vili, but mary kay is a wicked, warped woman who stole a boy’s innocence and life. vili was taken advantage of by mary kay, and was one of the only consistent people in his life, but she was still an abuser. she preyed on him and groomed him. thats why she is his “best friend”. disgusting.
@dlh032766
@dlh032766 3 жыл бұрын
Am I the only one who thinks Dr Oz shows the compassion of a fork ? He shows zero sympathy or emotion.
@bigNo13
@bigNo13 3 жыл бұрын
He is probably a narsasasist
@kathleenpatricia3794
@kathleenpatricia3794 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@copperlight
@copperlight 3 жыл бұрын
I never noticed it before. But he is not a great interviewer
@carolynsmith9972
@carolynsmith9972 3 жыл бұрын
Dr. Oz is NO interviewer. He has a terrible voice, he mumbles and always talks to fast. Stay at the hospital working as a physician/ heart surgeon, not a tv host!
@carolinaonerealestatebrigi4867
@carolinaonerealestatebrigi4867 3 жыл бұрын
@@carolynsmith9972 thank you. I have never been able to understand him. His speech impediment doesn't work on TV.
@RapnuzeI
@RapnuzeI 6 ай бұрын
'When we had first met, when I was a lot younger, she was ripped out of my life at that time. There's not gonna be another letter and there's not gonna be another phone call or a text.' Their instances of separation had taken heavy tolls on him, and the fact they'd always managed to maintain contact each time they were apart can only make the finality of her passing that much more difficult for him. I hope he finds the strength to overcome his loss.
@AllieThrifts
@AllieThrifts 7 ай бұрын
He is a handsome man and truly handled this situation with such strength and grace. His daughters must be very proud of him and all hes been through.
@utubebroadcaster
@utubebroadcaster 3 ай бұрын
Would you say the same if it was a man who was almost 40 doing the same to a 12 year-old girl?
@drknow1997
@drknow1997 3 жыл бұрын
This guy has always amazed me. Had to grow up at such a young age.
@natividadnazario4046
@natividadnazario4046 3 жыл бұрын
Hope he gets a long life to enjoy His life.Inocent good man. Who assume responsibility with his daughter s. That is what a man does go to work and be there for them. (no Abortions). He will have them at his bed side when he reach 80 years old. The re recreational Therapist will not have to bring a barking DOG At his bed side to scare them. He is an example for the humanity. Life is long No regrets when you embrace The respinsability
@traceycook7136
@traceycook7136 3 жыл бұрын
He didn’t have to he wanted to
@septembersapphire347
@septembersapphire347 3 жыл бұрын
@@traceycook7136 exactly. He chose her from age 12 on.
@vickyandersen8660
@vickyandersen8660 3 жыл бұрын
@@traceycook7136 he was just a kid. He didn’t think straight. He wasn’t old enough or mature enough to understand that the lady actually groomed him
@TheHappyMedic23
@TheHappyMedic23 3 жыл бұрын
@@vickyandersen8660 exactly! That woman was sick!
@ghel8104
@ghel8104 3 жыл бұрын
He was deprived of his childhood but look at him grown up into a good, loving and decent man.
@ang2gee
@ang2gee 3 жыл бұрын
Didn’t she groom him tho?
@evamajok07
@evamajok07 3 жыл бұрын
Say that again
@MUNIZTWINS
@MUNIZTWINS 3 жыл бұрын
Well...she's gone, and now he has full responsibility for the girls. He looks and sound like a man that was madly in love with her. I am not going to Judge her because I have been on her shoes. Might she rest in peace, and everyone will move on with their life's.
@patriciapadilla2022
@patriciapadilla2022 3 жыл бұрын
How exactly have you been in her shoes and in what way? Did you have and illegal immoral sexual relationship with a child when you were 35 and the child was not even a teenager and only 12 year old? Just curious how have you been in her shoes? Or were you a school teacher or did you have colon cancer? Or did you just recently expire?
@patriciapadilla2022
@patriciapadilla2022 3 жыл бұрын
@@MUNIZTWINS WOW!!!! YOU'RE KIDDING RIGHT? So exactly how have you walked in her shoes? Did you have a illegal sexual relationship with a minor child when they were 35 years old and the minor child was not even a teenager they were just 12 years old? Are you a teacher ? I'm dying to know how you walked in her shoes, are you suffering from colon cancer? Maybe you've recently expired? Is that the commonality.?
@orsolyaritter7292
@orsolyaritter7292 6 ай бұрын
Rest in Peace. He has been really doing his best since he was 12. His situation has been very difficult. He raised his children even though he was a teen himself. Then he married her to keep the family together and finally he took care of her in her last months. I hope he will be able to start a new chapter. An amazing guy.
@ageivy5658
@ageivy5658 6 ай бұрын
rest in what? she should burn in hell. she groomed him and he was brainwashed into loving her
@LiveConcertJunkie
@LiveConcertJunkie 6 ай бұрын
@@ageivy5658literally, I have no idea who this guy is doing with saying RIP
@ecs3821
@ecs3821 6 ай бұрын
Idk about the whole rip part. She was a horrible human all the way up to her death. She doesn’t deserve peace she ruined lives and never once felt any remorse for her actions and blamed the 12 year old boy. Definition of a sociopathic narcissist
@helenvinson-xv4uq
@helenvinson-xv4uq 6 ай бұрын
3821
@who9105
@who9105 3 ай бұрын
I’m sure she’s looking up at us 😇
@tdanielle23
@tdanielle23 Жыл бұрын
I am so glad he was able to go on and even had a new baby girl. He deserves a life of happiness.
@mizzyuk8697
@mizzyuk8697 6 ай бұрын
Is he in another relationship now?
@BethyKable
@BethyKable 3 жыл бұрын
I think she took gross advantage of this young,gullible boy but he clearly grew up to be a fine young man with a strong character and good values. He has my respect.
@soledisciple
@soledisciple 3 жыл бұрын
She raised him
@lindanewkirk668
@lindanewkirk668 3 жыл бұрын
As wrong as it may be bc of the age difference, there was obviously more to this than lust, or being a weirdo...who are we to judge their love, it was obviously real, look at all they endured, & the years they stuck together...is the beginning ideal, maybe not, but their life had substance, it wasnt just a passing fancy...
@soledisciple
@soledisciple 3 жыл бұрын
@@lindanewkirk668 They only endured because she groomed him as his teacher and she molded his affections from the age of 12. I believe he stayed because she took his virginity and he had a physical/emotional connection there, plus he had children he probably didn't want to abandon. She was also like a mother to him because of the age difference. She became his main support system and it must've been extremely difficult to gain independence. He eventually left but only returned because she was dying. She represented too much of his life for him not to return and take care of her. It was twisted, demented, and abusive on her part, but it was confusion and obligation on his part.
@PolyMathWannaBe62
@PolyMathWannaBe62 3 жыл бұрын
I absolutely agree with what you said 100%. I think he is a very good father and didn't want his daughters to grow up in a divorced family.
@sereneblossom2951
@sereneblossom2951 3 жыл бұрын
@@lindanewkirk668 not trying to be rude but i’m just wondering what people will say if it was the other way around
@srgcall
@srgcall 3 жыл бұрын
Dr. Oz seems like he’s interrogating Villi rather than interviewing him. There’s a lack of compassion and understanding.
@AgnettaBradshaw
@AgnettaBradshaw 3 жыл бұрын
DR OZ HAS LOST HIS WAY, BRAINS, HEART AND EMPATHY...CLEARLY HE FORGOT WHERE HE WAS AND WHOM HE WAS INTERVIEWING...A GRIEVING HUSBAND NOT JACK THE RIPPER!!!!
@HerMajesty1
@HerMajesty1 3 жыл бұрын
Dr oz is clearly a psychopath
@lizethhernandez6716
@lizethhernandez6716 3 жыл бұрын
Was just thinking the same. Sounds like a police interrogation
@aletheasimpson8886
@aletheasimpson8886 3 жыл бұрын
@@lizethhernandez6716 00pm
@KaranSingh-po7fx
@KaranSingh-po7fx 3 жыл бұрын
offcourse this is what my man got .and what doc oz didnt get 😁
@tiffanyr8990
@tiffanyr8990 Жыл бұрын
Vili used to be my friend on FB, I was going through a really rough time and and He left me a really heartfelt comment. I was with the love of my life since 6th grade and he became abusive, no other guy left a comment. he is a really good guy, his dj Skills are amazing too!
@MSUSPARTANS1973
@MSUSPARTANS1973 5 ай бұрын
I remember Dr. Phil addressed his concerns about Vili very early on doing his show. He predicted what Vili would face later on in life, and he was dead on. He said he’d most likely fall into addiction, have severe depression, anger, etc. I remember him even saying Vili would always have a love her because she was the only one who paid him attention, yet he’d also have major resentment towards her simultaneously for taking his childhood. It’s wild Dr. Phil predicted this almost 15 yrs before it all came out.
@carmenhuff4805
@carmenhuff4805 3 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry, but Dr.Oz asked some of the stupidest questions.
@deborahmartin3140
@deborahmartin3140 3 жыл бұрын
Totally
@skyeblu1722
@skyeblu1722 3 жыл бұрын
Carmen Huff No, you’re stupid as well....Mary Kay made Villy a better man..Futuristically he will be a more mature and evolved and wonderful partner to the right woman, because of Mary Kay.....Say what you want about Mary, but she truly loved this young man throughout the duration of their relationship...They had family and joy and hardship and in the end separated out, but remained friends and mentors....Nobody’s business but theirs....Not to mention the terribly painful colon cancer she endured with hope....Most of you woman on this site would have been the ones to burn woman at the stake during the Salem witchcraft era! Geez!
@jerseygirl7288
@jerseygirl7288 3 жыл бұрын
@@skyeblu1722 Stop defending Mary Kay, would you feel the same if a man her age had gotten a 12 year old girl pregnant? i think not. Stop trolling.
@vabl894
@vabl894 3 жыл бұрын
I came to comment the same. Terrible questions, terrible interviewer 😩
@crespo0519
@crespo0519 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed!
@fredarobertsonhall1532
@fredarobertsonhall1532 3 жыл бұрын
God be with Vili and give him peace.
@wendyellis3738
@wendyellis3738 3 жыл бұрын
He seem so unhappy as he got older with her
@ipetmermaid8039
@ipetmermaid8039 3 жыл бұрын
What a wonderful thing to say Freda Robertson Hall !! God bless YOU for your kind words✝️
@Willie-go6dc
@Willie-go6dc 3 жыл бұрын
AND HAPPINESS
@karencamp741
@karencamp741 Жыл бұрын
I feel so bad for him. He has grown into such a good hearted man. I hope he finds happiness with the remainder of his life.
@FreedomsChild1
@FreedomsChild1 6 ай бұрын
This man stood by his children, even though they came into the world in such a way. He was well and truly trapped, but he stood by his children. Deadbeats dads of the world, take note.
@TrueCrimeTalkWithTaves
@TrueCrimeTalkWithTaves 3 жыл бұрын
I don’t like how he was treated here. It’s not his fault what Mary did. At least the dude stuck around for his kids.
@sosweetbaby4
@sosweetbaby4 3 жыл бұрын
He loved that woman regardless....
@TheThought2be
@TheThought2be 3 жыл бұрын
@@sosweetbaby4 He was a child. She was a grown woman.
@dankprincessbeauty8538
@dankprincessbeauty8538 3 жыл бұрын
sosweetbaby4 ever heard of Stockholm syndrome?
@Iamaconnotanssadvisor
@Iamaconnotanssadvisor 3 жыл бұрын
I don't think anyone is blaming him. It sounds like most comments are people having compassion for him. Mary Kay, that's another story. She wronged her 4 children with her husband and what she did to Vili. She was wrong in every aspect.
@RichelleRichieRockstarr
@RichelleRichieRockstarr 3 жыл бұрын
Right ...more EMPATHY please
@kingmewo4957
@kingmewo4957 3 жыл бұрын
bro this mans personality wtf utterly amazing, i pray he have his happiness
@Iris-gy2mi
@Iris-gy2mi 3 жыл бұрын
For real, I'm literally speechless. 😯
@Jkstolz
@Jkstolz 3 жыл бұрын
He's a great guy.. anyone who knows him knows why Mary loved him. He's an old soul.
@59thanks61
@59thanks61 3 жыл бұрын
He will get it back after a while.
@limskk3452
@limskk3452 3 жыл бұрын
@@59thanks61 I love Mary Kay🥺❤️
@Jenniferbluefire
@Jenniferbluefire 3 жыл бұрын
Maybe that is why and what Mary love him for
@TheIsaNva
@TheIsaNva 7 ай бұрын
I hope he is ok, and that him and his daughters are happy. He deserves so much more, the entire system failed him. The school system, his community, the judicial system, the media… they did not handle her crimes or her abuse with the severity it should have been dealt with. They took one look at his size and his skin color and treated a little boy like he was a consenting adult. Vili, you are a strong survivor ❤
@andreajowrey2720
@andreajowrey2720 Жыл бұрын
Very decent man. I hope he finds unconditional love
@Sarahd1021
@Sarahd1021 3 жыл бұрын
Do you miss her? WTF kind of question is that? Clearly, he’s hurting & emotional.
@daffodilrose1950
@daffodilrose1950 3 жыл бұрын
Sarah1021 OZ what has happened to you? You call yourself a doctor...being so insensitive in asking these questions to this man. Your show should be canceled.
@lanaemathis9473
@lanaemathis9473 3 жыл бұрын
Dr Oz lacks compassion and is completely disconnected from his guests. His only concern is entertaining! I rolled my eyes at the question.
@jzwalz51robin45
@jzwalz51robin45 3 жыл бұрын
How about the children she abandoned?
@jzwalz51robin45
@jzwalz51robin45 3 жыл бұрын
@My Own Private Idaho Now THAT is a point well taken.
@mobutter2879
@mobutter2879 3 жыл бұрын
The Good Doctor, was not feeling this interview..😂
@susanb598
@susanb598 3 жыл бұрын
What a caring man he is..bless him
@mmichael6108
@mmichael6108 3 жыл бұрын
He seems truly hurt and he grew up to be a good guy .I feel this is a love story .I dont know if anyone picked up on this but she also had a very child like way about her too.RIP and prayers to him and his girls ❤🙏
@yeseniaanaya9884
@yeseniaanaya9884 3 жыл бұрын
M Michael 🤮🤮🤮 she literally GROOMED a child.
@susanb598
@susanb598 3 жыл бұрын
@N.N Lee hes a good good man 😂
@GemGemMarie2162
@GemGemMarie2162 3 жыл бұрын
@@mmichael6108he is a good guy! It is normal he feels sad, after so many years with her! However in another interview (from a couple of years ago)he says he understands the relationship was seen as weird and mostly stayed because he wanted to give his girls a family. Something he says he didn't have. I saw another interview here on youtube and you could tell that this woman was very much in control. I believe he said he suffered from depression as well. I wonder if everyone would feel the same if it was a man grooming an 11 or 12 year old girl!! Neither is ok!!
@annagottman8927
@annagottman8927 3 жыл бұрын
@@GemGemMarie2162 right. And because they married when he was 21 doesn't make that relationship honorable. I don't understand why adults fancy children as sexually appealing and act in it. I don't accept her 'childlike' persona either. She just red flagged in my opinion, she was not mentally well.
@MeganSin
@MeganSin 7 ай бұрын
While I feel bad for the fact that she misused her relationship as teacher student, you have give his a round of applause for being an upstanding person and taking care of her in her final days. It’s still crazy that he’s only now 40. He was forced to grow up early because of what happened to him but at least he turned out as well as he did. I think he’s a great dad and was even a loving husband and caregiver
@jessicaabbassi1140
@jessicaabbassi1140 8 ай бұрын
I 100% think now that she’s gone he will start to think about more and truly realize how wrong that woman really was and the intensity of what she did to him. I pray for him and the children. He seems like a good person who unfortunately was robbed childhood because of her.
@jessicaviscariello4317
@jessicaviscariello4317 3 жыл бұрын
"Was Mary a difficult patient?" Seriously Dr. Oz. You used to be compassionate.
@BethyKable
@BethyKable 3 жыл бұрын
Jessica Viscariello Dr. Oz was digging for dirt.....what a scum bag.
@cherbear1996
@cherbear1996 3 жыл бұрын
Dr Oz is a trump supporter..expect any less?
@dawnegan3984
@dawnegan3984 3 жыл бұрын
All people with all types of cancer are difficult all judgemental people never knew anyone with cancer
@dawnegan3984
@dawnegan3984 3 жыл бұрын
Dr oz the Dr
@samsam6535
@samsam6535 3 жыл бұрын
@@cherbear1996 Is he? Isn't his background Iranian?
@laentertainmentgroup777
@laentertainmentgroup777 3 жыл бұрын
Dr.Oz racking up those ratings. He never once offered a tissue. So sad, lack of compassion! Villi is a remarkable man.
@christinesorensen8050
@christinesorensen8050 3 жыл бұрын
But there were 4 commercials in the first 7 minutes!
@tinamorey120
@tinamorey120 3 жыл бұрын
Ahh come on...leave Dr. Oz alone...some men don't want their TEARS pointed out !
@1965pitthigh
@1965pitthigh 3 жыл бұрын
I said the same thing. I just knew somebody would come out with a handkerchief or box of tissue. This man is in pain from grief and past trauma.
@JasmineLAllen
@JasmineLAllen 3 жыл бұрын
Who cares
@adouglas8405
@adouglas8405 3 жыл бұрын
Thought Dr Oz was about health and nutrition. His show getting as sad as Oprah’s did, dragging people’s emotions all over the stage
@dsnnamdinetwork4595
@dsnnamdinetwork4595 9 ай бұрын
I’m amazed, intrigued and loved by his thought process. He is simply a Man with dignity even as a young man. I respect him 💯
@PH-pq3vq
@PH-pq3vq 9 ай бұрын
Hes such a beautiful person, it hurts to see him suffering so much and I hope he finds someone in time to share his life with. He deserves some peace and love in his life 🕊️
@allisonrae4828
@allisonrae4828 3 жыл бұрын
You can tell he's so overwhelmed by grief. My heart breaks for him. My husband currently has stage 4 cancer. Each day is a gift.
@latangelahigginbotham293
@latangelahigginbotham293 3 жыл бұрын
Blessings to you and your family may GOD be with you.
@r.gertse742
@r.gertse742 3 жыл бұрын
may God be on his path and may every day be a blessing with your husband🤗😇love from South Africa 🇿🇦
@strmbourne2379
@strmbourne2379 3 жыл бұрын
May the LORD ALMIGHTY JESUS send miracle to you🙏🙏
@allisonrae4828
@allisonrae4828 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you I believe in the power or prayer 🙏
@strmbourne2379
@strmbourne2379 3 жыл бұрын
@@allisonrae4828 yes, believe in the LORD ALMIGHTY JESUS and HIS abilities for HE has power over death and life 😇😇
@pompokkko
@pompokkko 3 жыл бұрын
The fact that he's crying and emotional about it, and didn't become cold-hearted after everything that happened to him, thank goodness he turned out "fine" and still decent.
@gigiitsme7236
@gigiitsme7236 2 жыл бұрын
Or we think he fine... People always look fine but deep down they not. We don't know.. situation super confusing. I got nothing to say but it is what it is.. confusing as is.
@themostbeautifulwomaninthe9160
@themostbeautifulwomaninthe9160 2 жыл бұрын
Nah he ain’t fine.
@bayoolatunji3996
@bayoolatunji3996 2 жыл бұрын
I mean he did love her to an extent 👀🥴🤷🏿‍♂️
@rafterkid3613
@rafterkid3613 2 жыл бұрын
I wonder if his positive outlook was the only way he survived it all
@joshsantor8727
@joshsantor8727 2 жыл бұрын
He’s been through a whole lot. For him to stay solid like that throughout the whole video shows that he’s gotten stronger and more resilient from all the obstacles he was put through since the beginning.
@mariagill5183
@mariagill5183 9 ай бұрын
He was not ready for this. Heartbreaking. Admirable but so wrong at the same time. Hope he gets remarried and gets to experience real happiness with a real life soulmate
@marimar2525
@marimar2525 9 ай бұрын
He came from a broken home. She groomed him. That’s all there is to that. Awful for him. She was a manipulative narcissist. Shameful
@daniels4474
@daniels4474 6 ай бұрын
Definitely a narcissist. She couldn’t image herself dying.
@cupcake2009ist
@cupcake2009ist 5 ай бұрын
Exactly you said it the perfect way to put.
@MegaGood5
@MegaGood5 3 жыл бұрын
You can clearly tell he’s heartbroken. This poor guy lived in such a traumatic life.
@susannaaivajeedas9492
@susannaaivajeedas9492 3 жыл бұрын
Villi has proved himself to be an exceptionally kind and amazing gentleman.
@harperstacey9604
@harperstacey9604 2 жыл бұрын
Villi is a well-adjusted human being. From Ms. Harper Stacey.
@zoiefinnian3540
@zoiefinnian3540 2 жыл бұрын
It’s no wonder she loved him so.
@rantingintothevoid
@rantingintothevoid Жыл бұрын
He didn’t have to prove anything. He was groomed. He was molested.
@sharonjackson268
@sharonjackson268 Жыл бұрын
I still say he was too young for her.
@k88m1
@k88m1 Жыл бұрын
Everyone forgotten she's a child predator
@You_Tube000
@You_Tube000 9 ай бұрын
As a man myself, Vili truly is inspirational. Particularly to my ethnic minority community, where legions of men leave their girlfriends pregnant and single, meaning these men do not support the mothers of their children. Vili is nothing like these men who are majority losers, drunks, addicts, criminals . Vili is a real man: a man of all men.
@Blandpotato99
@Blandpotato99 Жыл бұрын
I really pray that this man has the best therapist. He deserves a lot more. He is a truly damaged person that needs to be repaired.
@b2sasmr203
@b2sasmr203 3 жыл бұрын
This was so hard to watch. Don’t do these type of interviews if you can’t show some form of compassion. Sheesh
@debbymabalcon2789
@debbymabalcon2789 3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@jomoland
@jomoland 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed. I feel like there were so many moments where Vili really just needed a hug, some kind of comfort even a few caring words. Dr Oz just ignored all those cues.
@ogrettahannibal1735
@ogrettahannibal1735 3 жыл бұрын
Facts
@ogrettahannibal1735
@ogrettahannibal1735 3 жыл бұрын
Facts
@lordshango4184
@lordshango4184 3 жыл бұрын
True dat!!!
@lisasharples5654
@lisasharples5654 3 жыл бұрын
His pain is so clear...devastating...
@may5588
@may5588 3 жыл бұрын
This is heart wrenching. None of us will understand any of this except that his pain and grief are palpable. My sincere condolences to Villi and family. May MKL Rest In Peace now......
@LivingLoud1974
@LivingLoud1974 3 жыл бұрын
None of this is devastating. Now he can move on love his life
@linanicolia1363
@linanicolia1363 3 жыл бұрын
You can feel his devastation. He seems dead inside. Poor guy.
@humptydumpty5791
@humptydumpty5791 3 жыл бұрын
@Sequoiah Dreams finally someone who actually sees the way I see
@bigbambi718
@bigbambi718 3 жыл бұрын
@Sequoiah Dreams No if you look at certain interviews she was manipulating and wayy worse. She played with his mind and kept doing that for years causing him to lose himself. This woman is disgusting.
@Em-im1yz
@Em-im1yz 2 ай бұрын
This man is a real one. He deserves kindness. If he wrote a book id read it
@CookingWithDee_
@CookingWithDee_ 9 ай бұрын
I really feel so sad for him. He’s a wonderful father and deserves a life of happiness and peace. I hope he finds someone who will love him because he deserves love.
@Vibewiththelee
@Vibewiththelee 3 жыл бұрын
This man is clearly so heart broken and deep in the belly of grieving. I hope he finds healing and peace and lives a full, happy life with his girls.
@mightygeshe
@mightygeshe 3 жыл бұрын
She was able to live in deep, deep denial. Denial that she raped a child, robbed him of his childhood, then kept the denial train going, married him, then denied she had terminal cancer convinced herself she a miracle would occur and the died saddled him with the grief her death. This poor man.
@lesliepena6638
@lesliepena6638 2 жыл бұрын
I’m not sure if it’s true but a friend of hers said that she allegedly accepted her wrongdoing and apologized to a lot of people around her for what she had done
@carlafulton2473
@carlafulton2473 2 жыл бұрын
So many judgmental Christians!
@christiank6840
@christiank6840 2 жыл бұрын
@Carla Fulton so only judgemental people believe pedophilia is wrong and have compassion for the loss victims suffer??
@alyssac0
@alyssac0 2 жыл бұрын
@@carlafulton2473 where did that even come from
@malloryg4251
@malloryg4251 2 жыл бұрын
@@carlafulton2473 Uh......what does being a Christian have to do with calling out a child rapist??
@FreddieCuellar
@FreddieCuellar Жыл бұрын
What a sweet guy! You can see the pain in his eyes. He really loved her all the way to the end.
@taf7ylandy913
@taf7ylandy913 5 ай бұрын
It shows yet people sweet this under the rag
@Xtheearthchildx
@Xtheearthchildx 7 ай бұрын
Wow watching fight through those tears show just how strong he is. He can really hold it together. I hope he is at peace
@Bringmecoffee108
@Bringmecoffee108 3 жыл бұрын
Why so cold towards this grieving man sir? Shameful
@sheillaen2
@sheillaen2 3 жыл бұрын
Nope not cold toward him. Most just think he doesn't know better at this point, because he still mentally a victim of a penophile woman. Does not matter much he tell him self he love her, he been brainwash and groomed by her for too long.
@missjo174
@missjo174 3 жыл бұрын
Yes no empathy whatsoever. Disgusting
@carlosarmas1442
@carlosarmas1442 3 жыл бұрын
Honestly, y’all are disgusting. Dude did experience a handful of mental and emotional abuse. Look up battered wife syndrome, he has the opposite of it.
@missjo174
@missjo174 3 жыл бұрын
@@carlosarmas1442 yall ???
@kathylucas6587
@kathylucas6587 3 жыл бұрын
He wasn’t cold….nothing shameful….but interviews are not Dr Oz strong suit.
@GABRIELLADARLING
@GABRIELLADARLING 2 жыл бұрын
regardless of everything that happened, the fact that he was with her during her final days, only shows his character. He's an amazing person and father who deserves to be happy.
@zhinozhwan8941
@zhinozhwan8941 Жыл бұрын
I don’t doubt he is a great person, but the reason why he went back to help is is because she groomed him in his most formative years and probably had some sort of trauma bond to her
@ladybug-mv8tn
@ladybug-mv8tn 11 ай бұрын
@@zhinozhwan8941 bolony
@carolinekamya2339
@carolinekamya2339 10 ай бұрын
she created him- he did what he was groomed to do 😞
@Mejiaelis
@Mejiaelis 9 ай бұрын
Regardless???? 🤦🏻‍♀️
@Tiffany-Rose
@Tiffany-Rose 9 ай бұрын
​@@zhinozhwan8941exactly. He doesn't know anything else. She got what she deserved, too bad it took this long. He is finally free though and I hope he can start healing, finally.
@margaretcurrie1198
@margaretcurrie1198 6 ай бұрын
What struck me is when he said she was ripped from his life. This is definitely an unusual dynamic between two people. He referred to her as his best friend. They raised 2 beautiful daughters. She was the person “who had been there for him the most”. It is actually a sad story. He never came across as a “boy”. She most definitely should never had engaged with him…
@carolyngarcia6292
@carolyngarcia6292 6 ай бұрын
He’s a good guy. I hope he has the best life for the rest of his life ❤
@MargauxHemingway
@MargauxHemingway Жыл бұрын
There is a 2017 interview where she asks him: who is the boss? Who is the boss¡ tell them you persued me¡ woman he was 12¡ He looked very upset at her. After that interview they divorced.
@gloriasaliba3395
@gloriasaliba3395 2 ай бұрын
I just watched that video
@jessicaramirez8143
@jessicaramirez8143 2 ай бұрын
I saw that interview. She was in denial smh she was a sick minded woman
@selfesteem3447
@selfesteem3447 Ай бұрын
EXACTLY! I had seen that interview not long after it first came out. Then, as it would go in my own life, I had studied psychopathy extensively and excessively. Really getting deep & deeper into knowing exactly what psychopaths and/or narcissist are all about, their Etiology etc etc and with that learning grew discernment of how to spot them a mile away. Then somehow I ended up back at that video you're speaking on, saw it up front & in all of our faces (her psychopathy) & I was soooo pissed. Then relieved to learn almost immediately after that aired, he had divorced her. Apparently he was finally able to see through her manipulation of him, her owning & controling his mind (Mind Control in it's finest) She was able to pick up on even when he was (what) a twelve year old kid, that he was sensitive and she knew if she got pregnant with him that she would have a tool, their kids, to hold on to him for life. I'm glad he got tf away from her before she died. And I can only guess the reason he went back in her final days to help her, was for his kids sake & because he is a sensitive Soul. I don't want to see that his being emotional here has anything more to do with the fact that it's just that he is an emotional person. At least he was definitely able to see the truth of her, through her Narcissism. Villi, just can't talk about it, in this context of a oz episode.
@GetALIFE8302
@GetALIFE8302 3 жыл бұрын
From the personal experience of seeing my mother pass from cancer......He truly loves this woman.
@marcypoe8552
@marcypoe8552 Жыл бұрын
This was the only way she was going to finally have to let him go. She had no choice. For the first time, she had no control over him. I hope that with time, he can heal. Hindsight is going to hit him pretty immensely one day.
@Leticia-rg8dw
@Leticia-rg8dw Жыл бұрын
He obviously loved her. You can see it when he was talking about never being able to hear back from her. 💔
@lilyr7221
@lilyr7221 3 жыл бұрын
Even though she took advantage of him at such age..it breaks my heart to see him hurt like this so much!
@20WUTEVER
@20WUTEVER 3 жыл бұрын
He loved her regardless of anything
@savannahherrera8280
@savannahherrera8280 3 жыл бұрын
@@20WUTEVER Nasty
@savannahherrera8280
@savannahherrera8280 3 жыл бұрын
True heartache! I have never cared for her BUT noone deserves to suffer in such a way other than the pure wicked. He lost his love, the girls AND the other kids lost their mother. I can't imagine how he feels, I was 16 when I got with my husband and I know I would be TOTALLY devastated.
@atlsongbyrd6084
@atlsongbyrd6084 3 жыл бұрын
He’s brainwashed
@helenemillar5175
@helenemillar5175 3 жыл бұрын
@@atlsongbyrd6084 He loved her, she is the mother of his children and he stayed with her until the end. It's called true love and devotion.
@ruesrevelations4340
@ruesrevelations4340 3 жыл бұрын
I can't believe Oz didn't even have any tissues to offer this man.
@artisthusnatalal3099
@artisthusnatalal3099 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@guitarrocker9848
@guitarrocker9848 3 жыл бұрын
Maybe Vili didn't want any... and the producers Just edited it out. I dont think for one second Dr Oz would be that bad to This situation.
@Estilove1
@Estilove1 3 жыл бұрын
Good call
@chocolatecity6488
@chocolatecity6488 3 жыл бұрын
That's ignorant!😟
@micklaube3750
@micklaube3750 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah how rude!
@silviaoino2648
@silviaoino2648 Жыл бұрын
She was a pedophile. He was and will eternally be a victim. Whatever he thought he felt for her was manipulated emotions by a predatory adult. She also never took accountability for sexually preying on a child. That inner child will forever be trapped on guilt and shame (and unfortunately the children that resulted from this). My empathy is with him. I hope he overcomes this grief and all he has had to endure and go through since his childhood.
@You_Tube000
@You_Tube000 9 ай бұрын
Those are very matter of fact comments that you needn’t have wrote. Vili knows better than you me or anyone else about his situation. You coming on in here with your weak last to cross the finish line remarks is very telling about you. Vili has children, and children do not need to read your vile diatribe that will make them feel bad.
@longstrangetrip9920
@longstrangetrip9920 9 ай бұрын
@@You_Tube000he was groomed and knows it. He stated in an interview if he could give his child self advice he would say “don’t do it” look into the case more cause there is proof this man wasn’t happy
@TheAaronChand
@TheAaronChand 7 ай бұрын
Pedophile is sexual attraction to someone who hasn't reached puberty sexual maturity yet. A 12 or 13 year old is in puberty and is a teenager completely different from Pedophile
@TheAaronChand
@TheAaronChand 6 ай бұрын
Pedophile is being attracted to someone who hasn't reached puberty sexual maturity yet Vili was a teenager in puberty different from pedophilia
@raerae4867
@raerae4867 Ай бұрын
When she was alive he was not as nice about her as he is now. There was a reason he filed for separation. He is completely valid in feeling sad and upset. She was a HUGE part of his life. There almost throughout all of it. And he stayed for his children and tried to make it the best for them. After they grew up and left home he also wanted out.
@lisab5904
@lisab5904 3 жыл бұрын
When he started to cry, it broke my heart. He truly loved her! So sorry for his loss and his girls lost their Mom.
@madikiestherkhiangte9884
@madikiestherkhiangte9884 3 жыл бұрын
@@Kate-zd5jj shut up!! he is an adult now not a robot.
@Yararar
@Yararar 3 жыл бұрын
@@Kate-zd5jj yes, I believe he did love her. And yes, he was groomed, but it doesn’t mean he couldn’t/didn’t develop love even in that situation..it’s really tragic and sick
@transgoddess31
@transgoddess31 3 жыл бұрын
@@Yararar its called Stockholm syndrome not love
@nellaroxanne826
@nellaroxanne826 3 жыл бұрын
Nope that's a trauma bond, not love... Sooooo sad.
@Stellalovely1
@Stellalovely1 7 ай бұрын
@@nellaroxanne826 And Stockholm syndrome
@svigileos
@svigileos 3 жыл бұрын
I'm sitting here crying my eyes out, he is grieving with the loss of his wife and the media still can't stop bothering this family. Let him and his daughters grieve in peace for godsakes!
@HeatherShineify
@HeatherShineify 3 жыл бұрын
He didn't have to agree to the interview. He chose to go on.
@fbsie8579
@fbsie8579 3 жыл бұрын
@@HeatherShineify "You didn't have to agree to come to my birthday party, So you can't complain about not getting any food." A person is grieving and someone is apathetic yet you still find a way to turn it against him?
@burkexela
@burkexela 3 жыл бұрын
@@fbsie8579 Turn it against him? How so? The original poster 'said the media can't stop bothering this family.' The next poster said it was his choice to come on. I did not take that as an attack on him. Merely that because he went on the show it seems that it was something he was ready to discuss.
@jimdavis8864
@jimdavis8864 3 жыл бұрын
But she sure was pretty. 😎
@TheAlj35
@TheAlj35 3 жыл бұрын
@catwoman hates batman thank you! If he were a young girl and she was a man no one would feel any sorrow for her loss. I do feel sorry for him for his grief but more so for what she took from him and her children
@JH-nj8up
@JH-nj8up 6 ай бұрын
It’s just something that shouldn’t have happened, you have to draw the line at what’s right above your personal feelings. Feelings will pass, the repercussions of the decision will never, especially when your family and children are involved. The amount of problems and hurt this situation caused is unmeasurable.
@ERSReed2024
@ERSReed2024 9 ай бұрын
He is an amazing father and human being. May God bless him going forward in life 🙏🏽
@zionrevival
@zionrevival 3 жыл бұрын
He is a very soft spoken person with a big heart, keep and the children him in prayer. This Doc..has no empathy for this young man
@fomalhauto
@fomalhauto 3 жыл бұрын
sensitive soul
@tonyadianasalisbury3959
@tonyadianasalisbury3959 3 жыл бұрын
They loved each other u can see that
@christinefaithfull8882
@christinefaithfull8882 3 жыл бұрын
Dr Oz is disgraceful, his questions were ridiculous and without insight... have lost all respect for him. Vili on the other hand is an admirable person. I won't even watch part 2 because I don't want to watch how redundant and offensive Dr Oz's questions are.... 😡😡😡
@suntiki33
@suntiki33 3 жыл бұрын
I work in hospice and the question “Was she an easy patient to take care of?” Is monsterous. No. None of them are ‘easy’. They are human.
@moniquejames4795
@moniquejames4795 3 жыл бұрын
Well said!
@mi2meme2mi65
@mi2meme2mi65 2 жыл бұрын
Disagree sounds like they had off air conversation
@nsik2785
@nsik2785 2 жыл бұрын
That question shocked me
@kaalba5529
@kaalba5529 2 жыл бұрын
@NightWing B&B. Yes I SO agree with you. Yes- monstrous- perfect word choice for a “doctor” asking a sick question. Maybe he was hoping to elicit some turmoil and create a tabloid atmosphere but it obviously didn’t work. I took care of my dad as he was dying, and your head is just spinning. The tragedy that unfolds is mind-blowing; you have no control over it and no matter what you try to do you are not able to save their life. Asking if a patient is easy/ not easy as they’re dying?! Dr. Oz what even is the relevance, how do those words even belong in the same sentence together?! What kind of condescending a.h. are you Dr. Oz? When someone is dying in front of your eyes, everything else shrinks away. Everything else becomes trivial. I have no respect for the Buzzard of Oz. But I do have immeasurable respect and gratitude for people like NightWing B&B, as well as other compassionate nurses and doctors, who give hospice care. You people are the very best people life can offer and the selfless help my dad and I received, I can never, ever forget. I will always be exceedingly grateful. Doctors take a pledge to “do no harm.” Dr. Oz’s line of questioning was definitely designed to do more harm than good. I hope that young man keeps himself out of the limelight now. Stay away from interviewers; too many ghouls.
@ThatsabigfatNo
@ThatsabigfatNo 2 жыл бұрын
I thought that question was very odd indeed- very rude. What did he expect him to say “no, she was horrible “ - this is why I don’t like Dr. Oz
@veeragowadia967
@veeragowadia967 Жыл бұрын
Just a few minutes ago i read their story-was devastated-commented he should leave her --this guy is absolutely aTHE most decent person i shall have seen...God bless you and let u grow .
@vrushalidhongade5725
@vrushalidhongade5725 4 ай бұрын
What a wonderful person he is. God bless him and heal him.
@635lamanzanita
@635lamanzanita 3 жыл бұрын
Who would have thought when this scandal broke so many years ago that that child would have grown up to marry this woman and be such a stand up guy, mature, articulate and loyal as he took care of his sick wife till the end! Something that some men run from! That is what true love and marriage is all about despite the origins of this case. He is definitely to be admired as a real man!
@635lamanzanita
@635lamanzanita 3 жыл бұрын
@RKS CA I agree. I saw those interviews also but even though she groomed his as a child he didn't let that poison him by returning ill will when she was sick and needed him. He has said that he wanted his girls to have a stable home unlike he had as a boy. This man has really sacrificed a lot including his childhood. As an adult he continued to sacrifice in order to keep his family together. Not excusing her behavior just focusing on his pure spirit that even after everything that occurred he was there for her at the end and let her go in peace. MY mom did the same with my dad. He caused her great suffering yet she forgave him and even spoon fed him and helped me with his care whenever she was in town despite her own illness of cancer. Forgiveness is always about you and not the other person.
@svasianfilipiname6603
@svasianfilipiname6603 3 жыл бұрын
Yes she got lucky with him!
@lovelysosweet8386
@lovelysosweet8386 3 жыл бұрын
Many can't find true love they did!
@variousblack7922
@variousblack7922 3 жыл бұрын
This was after they divorced he went back to take care of her. If you look at interviews they did together he was the mature nurturer at 13 he was a single father (with his parents help of course) but he raised his two daughters
@murielross9288
@murielross9288 3 жыл бұрын
@@635lamanzanita Who do we blame his stand up behavior too if not his parents, who did take his children and helped him raise them while Mary Kay was in jai.
@sherronpalmer9777
@sherronpalmer9777 3 жыл бұрын
The way he handled this was cold hearted. I actually lost respect for the doctor.
@RocketmanRockyMatrix
@RocketmanRockyMatrix 3 жыл бұрын
The fire crotch teacher is dangerous.
@jizzncookies
@jizzncookies 3 жыл бұрын
I totally agree
@mindynoe8089
@mindynoe8089 3 жыл бұрын
This is off topic but you're smile is beautiful.. it's contagious.. I smiled when I saw your smile but feel felt guilty for smiling during this heartbreaking video 😬🤦‍♀️
@sherronpalmer9777
@sherronpalmer9777 3 жыл бұрын
@@mindynoe8089 thank you so much♥️ and the video is very heartbreaking
@scottdelong1
@scottdelong1 3 жыл бұрын
If you are referring to Oz, I ;lost respect for him when he had psychics, homeopaths, and various witch doctors and woo practitioners on his show. Also when he used the word "miracle" for the hundredth time. Bloody quack.
@valex11101
@valex11101 9 ай бұрын
I pray to God this man lives his days out with a sense of loving warmth and happiness in his heart. ❤
@whenufirstrealized
@whenufirstrealized 6 ай бұрын
My grandmother had my father at 13. Her parents did not approve of my grandfather who was 20yo, but they were in love and ran away, she ran away from her affluent family, their support, shelter and money. Their life was a terribly difficult. They had 5 children they raised in poverty. They were together until the very end of his life. Her Family never reconciled their union and never even accepted their kids as part of the family. Not for two seconds do I doubt they loved each other and were soul mates. Our laws and social norms tell us she is textbook pedophile, but that she gave up 7 years in jail only go back to him and him her until the end, only shows you the power of the force that united them.
@Noa......
@Noa...... 3 жыл бұрын
Dr. Oz has no sympathy at all. Villi was visibly heartbroken by the death of Mary.
@mariaeuv7694
@mariaeuv7694 3 жыл бұрын
Dr. Oz just quickly going down the question lists. So connection at all.
@mrsTraveller64
@mrsTraveller64 3 жыл бұрын
Stockholm syndrome. He was brainwashed by her to believe that he was in love with her.
@Noa......
@Noa...... 3 жыл бұрын
@@mrsTraveller64 That may be the case. But does it justify Dr. Oz not having sympathy?
@Colby_914
@Colby_914 3 жыл бұрын
He seems like such a nice guy and a great dad. So sad. 💔
@irisscott9488
@irisscott9488 Жыл бұрын
As a grandmother, my heart aches for him in his pain and suffering! So sad to see! I want to hold him in my arms and kiss his cheek and let him 😢😭 cry on my shoulder and tell him at some point, everything will INDEED be 👍🆗 !! Lots more tears and prayers but you will get there and even find 💕😘 LOVE AGAIN BECAUSE HE IS STILL YOUNG!! SENDING HUGS AND BLESSINGS TO YOU AND YOURS!! 💯💥💝💖🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏💪💪💜💙💕
@JaymeeKay
@JaymeeKay 9 ай бұрын
God bless him. May healing and comfort surround the entire family. It will be okay. ❤ He's such a great guy.
@Midwestmama612
@Midwestmama612 3 жыл бұрын
He's always seemed so wise for his age in every video I've ever watched since this all began. Yet at the same time, I also see a very young man still trapped inside himself. Prayers to him, their daughters and her other children to heal, find peace and closure.
@cw5451
@cw5451 3 жыл бұрын
Thy Nguyen I think he’s an old soul.
@Midwestmama612
@Midwestmama612 3 жыл бұрын
@@cw5451 I totally agree!
@divinerae4966
@divinerae4966 3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@sarahlithium1680
@sarahlithium1680 3 жыл бұрын
He was raped and then forced to become a father at 12. He was forced to grow up
@monalisa4709
@monalisa4709 3 жыл бұрын
That is true. That is what happens when you have to grow up fast.
@Lulu-kt6gr
@Lulu-kt6gr 3 жыл бұрын
Dr Oz is just milking him for tears! He sits there stony-faced and gives him no sympathy! What a jerk!
@patricemarie2960
@patricemarie2960 3 жыл бұрын
I feel too .... this is an inappropriate story! Colon cancer, should not be tied to their very past "indiscretions"? Dr 0z, shame on you .... for needing this past sensationalism, in the reporting? ...... DUMB! .....
@dlh032766
@dlh032766 3 жыл бұрын
Yes !! What an absolute ass!
@CarrieV9
@CarrieV9 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, Oz shouldn’t be doing interviews. He’s not good at it.
@editscott5711
@editscott5711 3 жыл бұрын
You right, I felt the same way.
@Cosmo26271
@Cosmo26271 3 жыл бұрын
I had to shut it off, I felt so bad for Vili and Dr Oz has no sympathy and stupid questions
@tleemf6923
@tleemf6923 2 ай бұрын
You are a loving and amazing man ,who was groomed so very sadly ..it is clear to see you are genuine in your love for her ..thou captives often falk innlove with their capturers..you made 2 beautiful girlz ...i pray you find the acceptance and the support to grieve all that you have lost in this life ..including your innocence .Never pay attention to all of us out here ..so easy to cast stones ...you were a victim to the circumstances of this life ...at least you found some comfort in her company and joy in your fatherhood .You have alot of healing and grieving in some many ways to do ...may blessings abound find you ,and you make your way back into the light ...you deserve happiness🕊💕🫴🙏✨️
@Sahuses
@Sahuses 10 ай бұрын
She lived in soo much denial it’s soo disgusting. I can’t believe she believed it wasn’t wrong to rape a child, rob his childhood, and then kept the train going thinking that that still wasn’t wrong and what’s even more horrific is that she was married and had kids. If I was her child from the husband she was first with I’ll never talk to her again for abandoning us like that. That’s a lot to swallow and the embarrassment that comes with it. But this guy is soo humble after it all hopefully he lives in peace knowing he’s going to be a grandfather.
@sarahrean7174
@sarahrean7174 6 ай бұрын
Her son has the same age has him like come on she knew
@MonaMona-cn5zw
@MonaMona-cn5zw 3 жыл бұрын
This man became a father at such a young age so he did not finish his education in order to care for his children while the wife was in prison. When he separated from his wife, he was starting to take classes to finish his education and out of the blue he gets a call form his ex wife and he goes back to take care of her. What a nice person he is. He didn’t have to do that. I donated to his go fund me page. If you could donate, please do. He really doesn’t have much money.
@akstylez_ak5037
@akstylez_ak5037 3 жыл бұрын
Mona Mona if I’m not mistaken him and his family sued the school district for millions. But I’m sure that money may be gone by now
@MonaMona-cn5zw
@MonaMona-cn5zw 3 жыл бұрын
Akstylez _ak his mom did sue the school district for not protecting her child at school and they were suing for $2 million dollars. They lost the case.
@tinagillispie2471
@tinagillispie2471 3 жыл бұрын
His mother raised the kids while she was in prison.
@MonaMona-cn5zw
@MonaMona-cn5zw 3 жыл бұрын
Tina Gillispie why I meant was that the Vili’s mother sued the district because they didn’t protect HER son Vili from his teacher.
@stephaniehowe0973
@stephaniehowe0973 3 жыл бұрын
@@akstylez_ak5037 his family wouldve gotten it. They probably never gave him any. You are talking over 20 yrs
@deeks1970
@deeks1970 3 жыл бұрын
His life was totally altered by this. He didn’t have a normal adolescent existence. I feel really bad for him. I hope he gets through this very difficult time in his life.
@justinamusyoka4986
@justinamusyoka4986 3 жыл бұрын
@Kimberly Winters He'd no choice,Mary decided everything for him reducing him to a sex toy. Imagine having children and step children while himself a child!
@smileyslime2615
@smileyslime2615 3 жыл бұрын
This man is hurt
@ThomasPanto
@ThomasPanto 3 жыл бұрын
LOVE RAISES LIFE.
@talaverajr391
@talaverajr391 3 жыл бұрын
@Kimberly Winters how can you say that a 12 year old can choose what he wants for his life?
@gloriaambrose2840
@gloriaambrose2840 3 жыл бұрын
Kimberly Winters he said in interviews that he wasn’t what he wanted
@candybear7433
@candybear7433 Жыл бұрын
She made him so dependant of her. Abused that poor kid in so many ways. My heart breaks for him.
@TarotGal
@TarotGal 9 ай бұрын
He has such a beautiful soul he is an inspiration a beautiful human being I wish him peace and happiness ❤❤❤
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