How about maintaining that fem voice while screaming at your kids lol

My kid is 4 years old. I so feel you. ❤

Practice diligently! and remember that listening is practice!

Omg congrats!!!

@@TransVoiceLessons 👂🙇🏻‍♀️✅

Make sure if you bleach your hair to get a good shampoo and conditioner to maintain the blonde color ad healthy texture! It will last a lot longer if you do.

Please don't call me out like this 😅 You're totally right though. I went in blind (deaf?) for the first few months, and although I (eventually) got a voice I was more comfortable with, I couldn't tell you what exactly changed to get me there.

Happy to help!

Wow that's incredible! Did you pay for any lessons or were her videos enough for you to make such great progress?

@@TwoStravvs I didn't pay for any lessions,I practiced on my own using Z's tutorials and some materials from r/transvoice

@@nvdia13 what videos from Z would u say helped u the most ??

@@amiluvvv Here's my playlist with all the best tutorials IMO: kzfaq.info/sun/PLxEpTRP_Zru5mn9hW-28r6jrpmFxLP-0P&si=lv-uWUARJTJ9TjSO

if u don’t mind would u be able to help me thru like discord or something ? i need some adviceee

a TVL special :))

I am 100% here for this shirt 🔥

@@TransVoiceLessons I gotta get one of those LOL

is that what the shirt is? i thought it was like an ivan seal/andy warhol rendition of a soda cup

I am developing a universal philosophy for skill development. Or at least that's what my writings focus on.

Try to find a speech language pathologist who specifcalizes in voice therapy :)

@@nasal-ingressive this was my thought but it’s actually finding one I can learn from without having to spend money I don’t have that’s the issue. I’m also 14 so I’d probably have to look for someone who can work well with kids and it’s all just too much for me to actually work with so I don’t know what to do. I’m probably just gonna try and get help from trans women I’m friendly with who actually have done voice training and have some idea of how to teach me and see how well that goes.

The process of skill development doesn't occur linearly to time. You can likely achieve your goals much faster if you set your mind to it and stay active in the ability. We want to exceed our goals. Make your goals very possible to reach - almost easy to reach and then when you crush them that inertia will only propel you further and faster. Always challenge yourself the whole way through. I have seen people achieve their goals across the entire spectrum of quickly and slowly. This video is not a prescription to say 5 years must pass before you are allowed or capable of achieving your goals. Only one's self can know their own goal directly which means by default, this video is not being absolute about time. Instead, I'm providing a general blueprint for goal structure you can tweak in any skill or medium to suit your goals and skill level. This goal blueprint was modeled as if a person with no experience was just getting started and looking at the new task. Keep up the great work! You'll crush your goals before you know it and with haste.

You can train your voice without any surgery. Most people do. Surgery can't magically make your voice feminine, by the way.

That's okay! I sounded really rough for over a year when I started my voice journey. The past does not predict the future self. How much time you actually spend practicing doesn't predict how quickly you progress. if you are unsure of what you should be listening for or you aren't listening at all, then you could spend even more hours per day with little success. The most important thing is constructive perception. What have you been trying to listen for? Progress is gatekept by awareness and perception during action, rather than just action.

3 months still isn’t enough to pass! i’m sure it’s better than the start. like she said, work on sounding more comfortable with your voice. don’t strain. BUT most importantly, focus on the small goals. the improvement each month. not that 5 year goal :)

@@not.a.robott not a single small goal was hit, I couldn’t sound remotely feminine lmao

@@TransVoiceLessons I just can’t get any kind of inflection in my voice, I can barely if at all control pitch, and the resonance of my voice is unchangeable. I cannot control my voice whatsoever, and it ends with dozens of conversations a day getting called “miss” at the start and then “sir” by the end. Any attempt at changing has made me sound squeakish and high-pitched rather than relaxed and natural sounding

@@skystheaimbot3789 i’m sorry and i totally relate. it’s hard. i’m just saying we have to remember ANY progress is progress. how do you expect to be properly gendered on the phone 100% of the call when you’re only 3 months in? clearly just getting gendered correctly at the start is a huge win. please give yourself more credit and don’t give up. unless that’s what you want to do, then do that

DON’T SAY THAAAAT Voice training is a skill that we develop. Obviously Z is on another level with vocals this is her career etc, but half as good is absolutely doable. It’s not fair to directly compare yourself to someone who’s devoted their entire life to this skill and is years and years into their journey. You can get a voice you think is pretty, I believe in you ❤

Hi, hope you're doing alright. I get where you're coming from because this is also a thought I have had, but there is literally no value in this sentiment. Her voice is pretty because she spent a long time developing it. I myself have a long way left to go until I can sustain a voice I can identify with, but I am getting there. I know it's frustrating. But there is no way to know how "good" your voice is going to be, and telling yourself it will never be good enough is totally utterly pointless. You wouldn't talk to a friend this way, so please stop doing it to yourself. There are so many different kinds of voices a woman can have, and even if you never end up sounding like Z, you can still end up sounding like a version of yourself you can be confident in. There isn't one way to sound like a woman and I think you're doing yourself a disservice if you're going to keep insisting that you can't do it. I don't know how long you've been trying to feminise your voice but there is always progress to be made. It could take you a while, or maybe not very long at all, to get to a point where you realise how far you've come. Those points are gonna continue coming as you move closer and closer to being happy with your voice. It can be really daunting but it's going to get easier and it's worth it to put the effort in. Please treat yourself with the patience and kindness you would grant others, you don't deserve any less than that

@@Amaling Nah lmao, all my practice hasn't worked and im still a full fucking hon. It doesn't work for a lot of people, after months and months of practice I only got clocked worse and literally had a friend give a huge negative reaction to my voice. It doesnt matter for some, it's just not happening for me and many others.

@@skystheaimbot3789 Do you think you've had the wrong approach to your practice? Months and months of practice sounds nice, but if that practice is using the wrong methods it can be a bad case of forming the wrong habits. Also, I feel like the negative reaction your friend had can be a good thing. Yeah, I know. It's not something you want to see from a friend, but it's important to fail. That's how we learn! Sometimes failure can be brutal, yes, but it's necessary. I'd say that's a good friend to have. They were honest and didn't lie about it. If they did you probably would've kept up that routine, right? What's the next step? I'm not sure. That's up to you to find out. I don't know what you've tried or haven't tried. I don't know what you sound like right now. But I know it's not impossible. Judging by your videos and username I'd say you're pretty good at FPS games. You have the dedication to improve yourself. How does it sounds for someone else to say they've practiced for months and months to get good at shooters only to say they suck and keep losing and they say it doesn't matter? But - plot twist - they've been playing on a controller and using a 60Hz monitor with a dial-up connection! Anyway, I think I've typed enough of a book here. Hopefully you get something out of it!

Saying things like "never" will put you in a very negative headspace. I use to say things like this and worry about pain lasting "forever" and things "never" getting better. But using those words just causes more pain. Then your brain starts attacking you with more "never"s because it's so used to it! I'm not sure how you feel about this, but I am absolutely impatient with things! The thought of "Oh, with enough time I could do this." But how long? I don't want to wait a long time. I want huge progress right now! I hate where I'm at! Luckily I've been working on dealing with patience and letting things change and flow with time. It's also nice to look back at the things I've accomplished over the years! And, like it's already been said before, comparing yourself to others will only bring you down. I'm guilty of this, too! We all are at least a little bit from time to time. Yeah "don't compare yourself to others" is easier said than done, but being aware of it makes it easier to learn to get rid of that habit. Social media is a big culprit of that: we see everyone's highlights, but never their struggles. People just want to post about the good things (which gets likes, views, hearts, whatever), so we generally never get to see the bad stuff or struggles. Sorry, I'm kinda rambling on now! Anyway, I just hope that I was able to contribute something worth while along with the other nice people replying!

yeah freedom sucks fr i hate when people do what they want and are allowed to have their own personal beliefs

Ok... Why did you click this video if you have such an opinion?

Go back to thinking work = life, drone.