How to deal with toxic people at work | Ankur Warikoo Hindi Video

How to deal with toxic people at work | Ankur Warikoo Hindi Video | Surviving office politics

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How to deal with negativity at work? How to deal with mental and emotional health issues that come up as we are working from home, and are yet stressed out?
00:00 Introduction
01:58 Distance yourself
03:14 Stop reacting
04:43 Don't repeat their mistakes
06:03 Document everything
07:58 Report them
09:42 Stay positive
10:40 Make a decision
12:03 Be empathetic
13:08 Summary
There is toxicity at work, and it affects your job. Not only your work, it also affects your positive state of mind. In this video I will share some effective steps you can take right away, to make sure you stay away from that toxicity. Which one, are you going to begin with?
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@melinasimranserrao6171 3 жыл бұрын

How well articulated, best part about all these pointers shared is they are pragmatic and win-win situation as we will learn how to handle the situations in not just work life but elsewhere and grow emotionally. And the last point is absolutely right - it's not about the toxic people getting up each day with an intention to spoil other person's life. They come with baggage, and that itself is their curse sadly. Alas we can just empathise and be good to them, not a tit for tat act basically, and sometimes that does become source for their change in any small way be it!

@juanphilp5023 3 жыл бұрын

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@alpana3725 5 ай бұрын

If u not faced such circumstance u shd not make a video

@MayankJain22 3 жыл бұрын

I once reported my manager for putting undue pressure on me and putting others work on my plate and now I am branded as not a team player.

@soniagill4181 3 жыл бұрын

Agree. I am also sailing the same boat.

@DineshPKulkarni 3 жыл бұрын

It happend with good employee and capable employees only. Toxic people always try to pressurized capable resources to become king of team and creates flattered resources, Flattered resources rewarded with promotions, good ratings and project bonus. Personally experienced it.

@anandasarkar9473 7 ай бұрын

experienced the same

@rajatjain3082 3 жыл бұрын

Toxicity peaks itself in TCS.

@viralfacts496 2 жыл бұрын

True

@sandronesta1 Жыл бұрын

in SBI as well

@rajatjain3082 Жыл бұрын

@@sandronesta1 sorry to hear this!!

@codingchamp5577 Жыл бұрын

Agree

@pramod8838 Жыл бұрын

In fact in every place where Indians are in majority. Problem is with Indian mindset and how we Indians are brought up

@nikhilpachauri5761 3 жыл бұрын

Best is to leave the toxic environment as soon as possible . I tried many points mentioned in the video but in turn I was asked to leave the company during time of covid

@AbhishekSharma-gi6eg 3 жыл бұрын

How many times can you actually leave a company ?

@TSCardoz 3 жыл бұрын

@@AbhishekSharma-gi6eg exactly. I've left 3 toxic companies in a span of 3 years. It is ruining my career

@soniagill4181 3 жыл бұрын

agree. But 99.9% places are toxic and dont know how to find 1% for healthy environment. Thats called heaven and in heaven you can be after your death only... Ha ha

@Ashish-ss5nt 3 жыл бұрын

@@soniagill4181 that is the problem with modern world, it has done everything outside for its comfort but not given enough time to improve itself from within

@WanderingBackpacker 2 жыл бұрын

@@TSCardoz doesn't matter. as much as your skills are on demand companies will hire you, i am also waiting to complete 1 year in my current company and then i will leave, it's way too toxic.

@sushilpayar4014 3 жыл бұрын

Exactly true, by genuinely we want more to hear this type of content How many of you agree 🙂

@rohit-zf8nj 2 жыл бұрын

Nahi bole bhai

@BHUPINDERSINGH-ew1lf 3 жыл бұрын

1)Distance yourself 2(Let them act out drama without giving any reaction 3)don't gossip about them 4)Document everything discussed on whatsapp 5) report them to senior 6) surround urself by positive people 7) leave if not earning respect recognition encouragement 8)emphathise and understand why they behave like this

@kapiluppal1925 Жыл бұрын

This is a diplomatic video which just tells you to take soft steps. Sometimes you have to face the toxic managers and speak up. You cannot always report them, many a times you have to deal with them yourself.

@zeeshanalam7468 3 жыл бұрын

Always try to make a proper difference between your professional n personal life... What ever happened at your workplace, leave it at your office's gate only.. don't ever you bring it with you to your home 🙏

@richaa8906 3 жыл бұрын

My manager was very toxic in my first company, he used to take away credit of our work. he even used to blame girls that they compromise with him for promotions. Very bad experience... Too bad, but helped me to rise later. He taught me what not to do. Today I am myself a lead, and know exactly how people feel.

@73prerna 3 жыл бұрын

Being INDIFFERENT with emotional toxic person is a tool I use. And I think it works way way better than reacting to it.

@toshikbhajanka7026 3 жыл бұрын

I never ever thought someone could give me such a manner to tackle the toxic people at workplace.

@maryamnaz1495 2 жыл бұрын

I'm really suffering with such toxic environment and head Your video really make me realize and deal with such environment and people

@rishaanuraj159 3 жыл бұрын

I have experienced such toxic people in my previous organization. I could barely survive for a year there. The manager and the lead were sadistic and in a span of one year, my whole team of 10 resigned to escape such toxic people. I sometimes really wonder how someone can be so so toxic :/ but like you said, there could be some experiences and/or people that might have resulted to such toxic nature of a person.

@warikoo 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your empathy

@SuvaMukherjee Жыл бұрын

@@warikoo Regarding last point, I have to say people are born with their unique nature/mentality. That's why you see some children enjoy bullying weaker children. Their habits get even stronger as they grow big, if they are not punished. Yes. Some people do have criminal minds .

@nsundu123 Жыл бұрын

@@SuvaMukherjee yes that's why one should be mentally strong!!! To tackle these assholes!!!

@waah5531 3 жыл бұрын

Bhaiya dil se bol raha hun ye abhi tak ki sabse zyaada beneficial video hai mere liye. Thank You

@tejaswkumar1944 3 жыл бұрын

I am a kid and my opinions change every moment ... I always try not to take action against what i feel toxic ...i was completely relating all the time as I was ragged at my college today...just got some support ...thankyou sir

@mmeeta6362 3 жыл бұрын

All these points I needed to hear 2 years ago and I am glad that someone made video on this topic and suggested the solutions as well.

@dipti1212 3 жыл бұрын

Reporting behavioural issues in the company for our manager are taken granted way. Higher management only concentrates on the delivery of the project.IF TOXIC MANAGER IS BRINGING THAT IT’s OK FOR THEM.

@juanphilp5023 3 жыл бұрын

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@apurvtewari4434 3 жыл бұрын

Such a gold pill Ankur.... recently went through a phase of experiencing a toxic person

@InsiderGyaan 3 жыл бұрын

Loved this video Ankur. I have been lucky to have been in a toxic working relation only once in 8 years. I realize now, empathizing really helped, to understand where the person was coming from. I did also raise my concerns to him personally and other leaders, managed to get out of the project in less than 2 months. But empathizing actually helped to move on from the drama and the mental stress, and bringing back my own confidence again for next projects.

@Sumitkumar-co5kx 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks Ankur, Me wakai kafi pareshan raha hoon beete 1 saal se or finally mene sabkuch try kiya jo bhi bataya ab tak apne, or mene apni life ek naya spot aim kar liya, M thoda dar raha tha ki har month ki salary nahi hogi kesse hoga, par apki video dekh kar confident feel kar raha hoon ki move out karne ka fesla sahi tha.

@prachiagrawal9401 Жыл бұрын

I loved the last point of empathy. It just simplifies everything at work and personally. Thank you!

@SyedSaifSpace 3 жыл бұрын

Your channel is a GOLDMINE. I’m so glad I stumbled upon your channel lately. Really appreciate the efforts you put in Ankur.

@sky_finance 3 жыл бұрын

100% agreed with your statement, making distance from toxic people help us to focus on our assignment to achieve goals.

@hiteshdua3746 3 жыл бұрын

Love you, Ankur. Always a pleasure to listen to you. You're a great mentor and a very genuine person!

@maheshshelatkar7236 3 жыл бұрын

The amount of wisdom that anyone can get in your 15 min Video is just Surreal..

@ratikantasahoo715 3 жыл бұрын

This episode is so core to heart ,so true .Each line is so powerful and beautifully explained.The message is loud and Crystal clear .One of the best motivational speech till now .I can easily correlate this .Thanks Ankoor Sir 🙏🙏🙏

@fitnesswithweb6946 Жыл бұрын

The last point you said really describes your character, it tells me that you are a good leader.

@neelimatravel 3 жыл бұрын

In all your videos you have been advising not to talk about another employee or employer who is toxic.. this is so interesting to me becoz we were raised in a school of thought which said - if you share your problem with others you will feel light. However, at work we cannot do this and I learnt it very hard way. Few of my colleagues couldn’t tolerate my boss but yet were quiet about it or moved to another company. However, I spoke to these few colleagues openly as though it was going to be a secret. Finally the message reached my boss somehow and I felt sick becoz that wasn’t my intention but I was just venting out. I wish I hadn’t done it but towards the end I was like the bad person even though my boss was toxic one!!!

@freespirit1375 2 жыл бұрын

Thank u so much, Ankur. I m working in a toxic environment since two years . Very helpful clip. Thank u

@ajaysarode4757 3 жыл бұрын

Best Video on KZfaq so far. Very Well Articulated with so much clarity. Thank Ankurji...Wish I had someone like you in my 20s.

@manjudalal282 3 жыл бұрын

Feeling empowered now. Thanks so much!!!!🙏🙏 The last point is truly a gem 💎

@AB-bb5cz Жыл бұрын

Poverty is the reason why i am in it !!

@D7eo Жыл бұрын

Unable to leave because of financial issues?

@abhilashagehlot5968 3 жыл бұрын

Avoiding drama has to be the best policy.

@dillipdora605 3 жыл бұрын

Hi Ankur, I can connect with all of your videos. This issue is now growing most of the work places. It is a thing that is causing mental issues in most of the employees.

@skumar3395 2 жыл бұрын

Amazing articulation. I have a toxic boss who doesn't know what he is doing. I too tried everything to sort things but in the end, it's not worth wasting my life. So, am moving on.

@giteshpandey 3 жыл бұрын

The one channel we really need❤️

@rajatjain3082 3 жыл бұрын

One of the best video. Mental and emotional exploitation is at peak.

@anushree07 3 жыл бұрын

Ankur, what you explained that works up to certain extent, but at times the political war goes to a long extent , where such toxic people gang up and standing against them for a long is really difficult. There survival becomes difficult.

@gauravthadanii 3 жыл бұрын

Very true

@deepaliahire1121 2 жыл бұрын

True'...but always keep doing good and our work. good did always bounce back to us with good always and they will get their.

@lovenikki4933 Жыл бұрын

So true 😭

@tusharmodi9883 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for making this video. I was going through similar situations at my workplace. This video is definitely worth learning about tackling such a situation. I'm going to implement this thing personally and professionally in my life

@ashdeepkaurvij 3 жыл бұрын

Oh that’s exactly what I felt today! Just had a conversation with my colleague today evening regarding the work environment. After watching this video , I’m sure I can survive this. There are very important key takeaways from what you’ve listed here. Stop Gossiping is the highlight. Couldn’t agree more to this. Good news spreads fast. Bad news spreads faster. 💯 Thank you Ankur for covering such relatable issues we experience in our lives. 🙌 Shall surely implement this for my own good :)

@AbhishekSharma-gi6eg 3 жыл бұрын

This is so intresting that I happen to come across this when I am going through something similar. While with experience of 14year + you are expected to know all of this however it still healing and directional.

@prerna4497 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing this Valueable video. It is needed video for people like me who observe every little thing and if someone said anything bad they get affected. But best way to deal is as you said. Be more empathetic. Be more emotionally strong.

@vandana6431 3 жыл бұрын

Very practical tips indeed.... Not for workplace only but for relationships also. Thanks

@sabahshaikh4031 2 жыл бұрын

Thankyou so much sir....i was so stressed but because of you i am so relaxed now....

@nityabajpai2022 8 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for this. It was much needed. I was having a tons of stress which I could actually feel over my shoulders physically. This video has truly removed that stress to the extent when I can atleast sleep peacefully. Thanks so much!! Will try to follow all points one step at a time. You're are a great person ❤

@pankajtripathi5026 3 жыл бұрын

Definitely sir, u proved tht mine decision to leave toxic environment is correct 🙏 N this video came on right time where i m on notice period 😇

@Highflier_girl Жыл бұрын

This single video sorted my whole problem of life. Thank you Ankur sir 👍👍👍👍

@chetankachare 3 жыл бұрын

Hie Sir, Whatever you said is all relatable about india's working culture, Precisely slavery. And one who sits on the throne is more often a maniac. So wise one should change his/her place rather than trying to change the place. Thanks for making such a good video.

@mehulnileshjayaswal2269 3 жыл бұрын

I really would like to appreciate for your content. Secondly can you please make a video on how to reduce over thinking and keep ourselves mentally healthy

@nandinipattnaik5757 Жыл бұрын

These are pragmatic and well documented. Thank you Ankur.

@helipatel9280 3 жыл бұрын

Hello Sir, Thank you for providing so much valuable information on youtube , after watching your videos I feel over the time, I have evolved to cultivate a very mature thinking and lifestyle at a young age.. May you keep sharing for the rest of your life and I am sure I will still following your wise nuggets of wisdom even then 🙏😊

@RiyaBhatia26 3 жыл бұрын

Very common concern among working professionals!

@pankajshaw674 3 жыл бұрын

yep

@nehagc 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for this video !Much needed.Please also guide how to not get overwhelmed with such environment, as once targetted emotions run high and you need someone to share which might get you in more trouble.

@pallav0777 2 жыл бұрын

One of the finest videos on KZfaq. Thank you so much 🔥💯❤

@aayushanurag279 3 жыл бұрын

I just wish this video was released much earlier. Never realised that we can be feeding into the energy by confronting/saying yes..this was happening on a daily basis by the topmost person of the company with my colleagues & myself and Man! The outbursts that wrecks your mental peace and created such a toxic work place. This content definitely makes me understand a little better and to watch out for such signs in future.

@drnabanita4056 2 жыл бұрын

I just lovvve you! Eventually you will save me from all troubles! Your clarity of thought is amazing 👏 It connects to me in all aspects

@rajeevpratapsingh6999 Жыл бұрын

I am glad I came across this video. Best take away for me is to analyse higher managers as well. As mostly we are concerned about the behaviour of our colleagues and manager. We never try to study the situation globally. @Ankur, thanks a ton for sharing this perspective. Keep up the good work.

@bankinghub7683 3 жыл бұрын

You are an exceptional orator sir I can listen to u throughout the day without getting bored

@sam61254 3 жыл бұрын

U r ryt..thanks for share this video...today I really frustrated but when I watch this video feeling much better...thank you so much...

@ishangoel8798 3 жыл бұрын

Hi Ankur, Happy to report, I did point 8 just a week ago this video was uploaded. I WORKED WONDERS.

@avinashdevadiga9236 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this important talk. This was one of much needed talk for me. I am grateful for your help and guidance. Thank you Sir

@jaiprakashtripathi4854 3 жыл бұрын

Ankur, your vedios are really helping to have common knowledge, that most of the people miss it.

@omkartalvelkar3908 2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely brilliant stuff.... Thank you so much for the real guidance.

@jtskhanaa 3 жыл бұрын

Thankyou sir...... Most needed!!!!❤️❤️🥺your live videos also motivates me a lot!

@jyotsnajadhav681 2 жыл бұрын

Nice Video sir... mai bhi office me mere toxic seniors ke toxic behavior se gujar rahi hu..kyun ki mere team me sab oversmart log hai, jo dusre ke chup rhne ko woh unki kamjori samjate hai....mere seniors ke behavior se me irritated hui hu, suicide karne ke vichar mere man me aa rahe the... .lekin jab mere jiju ne mujhe aapka ye video bheja aur mene dekha.. tab mujhe realise hua ke aap same wohi point explain kar rhe hai... jo mere sath office me ho rahe hai... aur mujhe laga ki aise logo ko ignore karna hoga.. nhi to Job quite karna hoga... but ye aapka video dekh ke mai bhi kuch positive sochne lagi hu... Thank you sir for this video

@shaifaliagarwal947 3 жыл бұрын

Very well explained and thank you ... I will be able to start my day with positivity today.

@meghajoshi2723 3 жыл бұрын

I have recently started following you and just love your content it like u know the nerves of your audience. My question is please create a video for a toxic member in your family please

@seemapagare9031 3 жыл бұрын

Hi Ankur sir...Thank you so much for making a video on this topic...I m currently going through this torture... Needed this a lot...It's helped a lot

@2270000009 3 жыл бұрын

Sir,you are really an inspiration to people like us,I wish I could be like you..how could explain all these tough life situations so easily...

@sweetdoll19 Жыл бұрын

Much needed sir ,I have felt this in my manager ..creating blockages to stop my growth

@yatharthvlog7317 Жыл бұрын

Sir ur videos is just an rescue for my mental state m going through in my office...thankyou ❤️

@ManishKumarishere 3 жыл бұрын

thank you so much for providing such a very useful content, i'm going to watch this video again and again to keep myself motivated.

@mohitgoel7243 Жыл бұрын

Thank you sir for sharing such a solution for the biggest problem in corporate. Believe me you are the life saver of the many people like me to excel in career.❤

@fredykoshy4699 3 жыл бұрын

Points that is occurred in a professional world. Thank you sir for your stunning solutions

@moibulhoque101 Жыл бұрын

Just ignore them and follow the company rules. Company team and conditions and bosses targets are too differences. They always want to be in top. Thanks for motivation video.

@manaseesharma7941 3 жыл бұрын

Just what I wanted to hear today. Thank you

@abhi74521 3 жыл бұрын

Tu bhai hai apnaa,ek dum sahi topic choose kiya

@moitryguha4719 Жыл бұрын

Very well portrayed and well defined. This are not difficult task but small tips to make them as your habit. I encourage the last point empathize your boss. And I really need to know my boss after hearing you.

@vrushaliprabhu5814 3 жыл бұрын

This is so beautiful video must watch for every human who is working in corporate office❤️

@yedusankars9727 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for making this video. After watching this i feel bit relieved from pressure.❤

@abhishektd2010 2 жыл бұрын

Thank You Ankur sir for sharing this video. I really like the way you have explained the various situations and how to handle those. after watching your video I don’t think I need to listen or watch any other video on this topic and really feeling very motivated and confident about myself , thank you for sharing this video.

@tapankumar2829 3 жыл бұрын

Sir thanks for supporting us. Motivating us for achieving our goals ❤️❤️❤️

@travelbug5857 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Ankur, for making this video, explaining the topic to roots, I felt good after watching this video! hope this helps to all who deal with toxic environment!

@amaraswani110 3 жыл бұрын

One of your best videos!! This is a must must watch!

@vineetasolanki6026 2 жыл бұрын

I need this video very badly...!!!! Thank you sir...... 👍👍👍

@helipatel9280 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you this gave so much wisdom to me in 15 minutes.. 🙏🏻

@adarshsrivastav2925 3 жыл бұрын

This channel is too much underrated.

@neelimatravel 3 жыл бұрын

Words of wisdom 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

@rahulghosh6783 Жыл бұрын

You are absolutely right.

@rajharsh1988 3 жыл бұрын

Much needed strength thanks.

@nikhitanupur1016 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this video...I really needed this... 😊

@vijaypandey7156 3 жыл бұрын

Actually sir i think i am follow all this point before this video... But after watching this video i feel great about it ❤️

@Vivekiniit 3 ай бұрын

God bless you Ankur for posting this video. 🙏

@mr._umair_khan Жыл бұрын

Thanks a Lot ☺️😊😊😊😊

@bhavanasinha1083 Жыл бұрын

So well said. Thank you

@saurabhbhide2298 3 жыл бұрын

You picked up very good topic | Need of an hour.

@anshulgarg1298 3 жыл бұрын

oh my god sir I loved it when you talked about yourself in context you used a female self salutation it grabs my attention and make things more interesting and actually alerts my brain because i am always imagining you or myself in the situation and expecting male pronouns but suddenly a female version comes out. Thanks Sir