We all experience sexual rejection -- and it's not about sex | Marissa Nelson | TEDxUCSB

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7 ай бұрын

Intimacy in long-term relationships is a tricky and touchy topic, but renowned Sex Therapist Marissa Nelson navigates the subject with grace and poise, pointing us in the much-coveted direction of lasting resilience and happiness. Marissa Nelson has helped hundreds of couples to rediscover lasting connections while overcoming all of life’s challenges together. Her extensive clinical knowledge of couples’ issues and accessible, contemporary style of engagement make couples and sex therapy conversational, war, and fun. In this talk, Nelson brings her valuable expertise to the stage, breaking down the barriers and misconceptions people have about intimacy and exploring practical, science-backed steps to ensure that both partners in the relationship are satisfied with their intimacy throughout their lives. Nelson’s approach to this delicate topic is one that will inspire, inform, and instill perseverance in all for years to come!
Marissa Nelson is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist (LMFT) by the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (AAMFT) and a Certified Sex Therapist (CST) and Certified Sexuality Educator (CSE) by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT). An internationally recognized expert, Nelson is the creator of IntimacyMoons Couples Retreats, rated by Women’s Health and Bustle Magazines as one of the top couples retreats worldwide. ‍She has also been frequently featured in over 100 national and international media publications including: The New York Times, Washington Post, Wall Street Journal, CBC, CNN Health, Glamour, & Latina and Black Enterprise.
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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@gabe_o_verse
@gabe_o_verse 7 ай бұрын
My hand never rejects me ❤
@Protimonride
@Protimonride 7 ай бұрын
Sigma Male🫡🫡
@Nothanks935
@Nothanks935 7 ай бұрын
Lmfao 😂😂
@aguz916
@aguz916 7 ай бұрын
But does your hand make you proud?
@barmavamshi4915
@barmavamshi4915 7 ай бұрын
😂😂 your the king ❤
@KenDaKingArrives
@KenDaKingArrives 7 ай бұрын
@@aguz916 Seperate issue. If you need relief on a regular or frequent basis, woman or no woman you have your solution.
@bashirediouf584
@bashirediouf584 6 ай бұрын
😊 Just because your favorite restaurant is closed, doesn't mean you shouldn't eat!!!!
@albrowne7474
@albrowne7474 6 ай бұрын
Your voice on this and so many other intimacy and fertility issues are encouraged and welcomed for all, especially for the communities we at @Johns Hopkins University - Ward Infinity is committed to supporting.
@soulhydration
@soulhydration 7 ай бұрын
AMAZING TED TALK!!!!! Also, this suit is EVERYTHING!
@dalesamartinez5210
@dalesamartinez5210 7 ай бұрын
This is so necessary and important for couples!
@ElimEx1
@ElimEx1 7 ай бұрын
Best decision I ever made in my marriage was to leave the bedroom and stop initiating. A decade of being the only one, I figured she wouldn't care. And she never mentionned it in the 5-6 years since. No more anger or resentment on my part and the marriage improved. Honestly, if she were to initiate, I'd probably laugh now and refuse. No need to re-open that can of worms.
@cookiedough3199
@cookiedough3199 7 ай бұрын
are you saying you're stepping out of your marriage 👀
@ETFsinner
@ETFsinner 7 ай бұрын
Yea I didn't understand thiis
@ranianourelhouda6146
@ranianourelhouda6146 7 ай бұрын
How are you dealing with your needs ?
@ryancooper1144
@ryancooper1144 7 ай бұрын
Fair enoungh, you both have opened your marriage without communicating.
@ElimEx1
@ElimEx1 7 ай бұрын
It was hard at first. Way too much pr0n... lol But now, I just don't. I have other creative outlets, focus on my kids, my projects, my life. Took a while but you just don't care after a year or so.@@ranianourelhouda6146
@gmlgml780
@gmlgml780 7 ай бұрын
Yeah. We all experience that. Only the lucky ones experience it 1 time from the 10, and the not so lucky ones will get that result 99 times from the 98.
@calvinhines3706
@calvinhines3706 7 ай бұрын
Great presentation!
@mirabellandia4757
@mirabellandia4757 7 ай бұрын
Once they've cheated on you - the ultimate rejection - there's absolutely NO fixing it!
@hsk2978
@hsk2978 7 ай бұрын
I disagree. In rare cases, cheating can help the other side to acknowledge what’s important for him/her. Once I heard two very old women talk in the hospital, one of them told something like “if I didn’t ignore all of my husband’s cheatings, I wouldn’t be any happier at all. We had a good life together”. I don’t suggest cheating as a solution to anything and I don’t do these things. Just some thoughts to think about.
@mirabellandia4757
@mirabellandia4757 6 ай бұрын
@@hsk2978 and I'm guessing you've never been dumped and abandoned by your spouse for a much younger model when you're perceived as 'passed it' - cheating breaks trust, trust is fragile. There's no getting it back to where it was after you've been betrayed....Just some thoughts to think about 🤨
@thecraftymarylandmom8499
@thecraftymarylandmom8499 7 ай бұрын
This was so awesome!!!!
@askcesar
@askcesar 7 ай бұрын
Love this!
@vicki_nelson3
@vicki_nelson3 7 ай бұрын
That was amazing! Thank you so much❤
@TooFadedTV
@TooFadedTV 2 ай бұрын
This Ted talk was spot on!!!
@mimigheille
@mimigheille 7 ай бұрын
Awesome advice!
@annieh7141
@annieh7141 7 ай бұрын
Amazing information!! 👏🏽👏🏽 great speech !!
@sarahfrimpong9499
@sarahfrimpong9499 6 ай бұрын
Fantastic talk!
@kathywhitehead8793
@kathywhitehead8793 7 ай бұрын
I think she is AWESOME !!!!! Right on
@Jaichandracreations
@Jaichandracreations 7 ай бұрын
Good information
@Doubt_FM
@Doubt_FM 7 ай бұрын
Nice speech ❤
@dyhppyx
@dyhppyx 7 ай бұрын
You literally said nothing
@thewizardbrand
@thewizardbrand 6 ай бұрын
Fr lol
@Samoo744
@Samoo744 7 ай бұрын
❤❤
@denawagner360
@denawagner360 7 ай бұрын
This didn't contain anything helpful to implement, just examples of her client's problems and the big idea that we all have hidden intentions. Disappointed.
@RomanErokhin
@RomanErokhin 7 ай бұрын
Well, she said from the start that there's no magic fix. But there was some good points to think about.
@Xurshid_11
@Xurshid_11 7 ай бұрын
I am learning English
@patsymariamordonez6393
@patsymariamordonez6393 7 ай бұрын
Me too
@Protimonride
@Protimonride 7 ай бұрын
All the best! 🖤
@patycherrez3322
@patycherrez3322 7 ай бұрын
Hahah me too 😊
@haryettelorrainemakmot4564
@haryettelorrainemakmot4564 7 ай бұрын
MMMHMMM... 😮
@drockjr
@drockjr 6 ай бұрын
The ten forward scene really makes Vash look like a psycho. Picard says nothing unreasonable. All picard did was *not* get personal *at work* about non work related relationships. Vash didn't need to get all huffy and blow up at picard. Psyyyyccchhhhooooooooo
@fardeensheikh27
@fardeensheikh27 7 ай бұрын
her name?
@karenp5133
@karenp5133 7 ай бұрын
Marissa Nelson
@buddyogun2247
@buddyogun2247 7 ай бұрын
That was not very good
@manbassa-vt9bq
@manbassa-vt9bq Ай бұрын
As men’s we really need to find our hapiness elsewhere Do no beg drizzle drizzle
@dakotapeters5654
@dakotapeters5654 7 ай бұрын
I've never seen a woman rejected whatsoever
@ElimEx1
@ElimEx1 7 ай бұрын
There are some. It's rare though.
@CiarraBell-xi3ei
@CiarraBell-xi3ei 7 ай бұрын
😭
@dakotapeters5654
@dakotapeters5654 7 ай бұрын
@CiarraBell-xi3ei why do you cry? I hope you don't mind if I pry into your emotions a bit. If you do find that you mind, at least I gave it a try.
@dakotapeters5654
@dakotapeters5654 7 ай бұрын
@ElimEx1 Yeah, I'm sure there are, but it's just not been in my culture to see it, or maybe I've been blind in having not seen it. In my life of summerized that if women judged themselves as much as guys on what's between they're thighs maybe it'd be different but to mens demise the trend is the judgment of they're size. It'd be better if instead of filling their heads with judgmental lead and judge not the size between they're thighs but lift each other up by how hard each other, one another, tries. The effort each shows could shine light through another window of which possibilities become a future nobody knows, but the thought of it makes my mind glow with a grand design where endless joy flows.
@insomniapetals4424
@insomniapetals4424 6 ай бұрын
Then you haven't spent any time with women.
@harriskhan9232
@harriskhan9232 7 ай бұрын
2nd comment
@yogawithzenith
@yogawithzenith 7 ай бұрын
Indian democracy in danger ..😢...
@paulgodin1522
@paulgodin1522 7 ай бұрын
Your only advice is to take rejection positively by making up some bs in your head? What a waste of time listening to this!
@SylvesterRaymondStreamlined
@SylvesterRaymondStreamlined 6 ай бұрын
If a woman wants it from you she’ll let you know.
@insomniapetals4424
@insomniapetals4424 6 ай бұрын
Depends on how many times she has been rejected. The same can be said of a man.
@jimnutter6901
@jimnutter6901 6 ай бұрын
Brilliant exposė of the dynamics of the dance.🧑‍🦽🙏🏼❤️🌹j.
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