Sexual addiction and hypersexuality is very real and promoted in our community so is manipulation tactics which we usually call game

I heard the most idiotic thing in a YT video. This guy expects sex from woman on a 1st date since he paid. Then in the same sentence said "I don't want a woman with a high body count. I'm like sir YOU contribute to those body counts. Smh, it makes absolutely no sense! This makes me not want to date cause I'll wanna pay for myself for that reason. Then you'll be told you're too masculine. You can't win out here lol!

Thank you for being one of the few men to hold women AND men accountable.

You're doing things in a godly manner!!! Guys are jealous!!!! You don't preach hate like others do!!!! You don't teach hatred of women or men!!!! Those other platforms teach hatred of women, you don't!!!! That's why they're angry!!!! Stay with god, don't worry yourself!!! God has your back!!!! You're a fair man, you don't act like men are perfect, or women. God got you!!!! Pittsburgh pa watching

What I like about your videos is that you are fair and balanced. There is nothing wrong with the truth. However, there are too many content creators personally attacking one gender. Both genders need to take accountability for their actions.

As Malcolm X said only a hit dog hollows. We are so used to playing the victim until we can't even look @ ourselves.

"If You have no discipline in Your sex life Its the same thing as being a junkie" 💯

I find it so confusing that so many people in the community have no fathers or absent fathers, and yet all the blame is placed on the mothers who are there raising the kids. How did that happen? It needs to be examined why so many men don’t stay consistent in their child’s lives, what women do to contribute to that and there needs to be a coming together or everyone for the betterment of all of our futures

We appreciate your honesty and feedback. The only other males( KS red pill followers) that would call you a simp are those who are mad that you tell real facts . I always say when people blame single moms for not raising males correctly , we need other men to call the deadbeat dad out on his BS.

I don't think they are ready for this one,you spoke the truth and shamed the devil.

I’ve noticed that ppl attack you the hardest when you tell ppl the truth. It forces ppl to take a real look at themselves. And mostly they don’t like it. I’m so here for what you have to share. Your channel is awesome. Much love ❤️

Nothing but the truth. And I’m glad it came from a black man.

It’s beautiful to see you speaking truth and accountability. Your future wife is lucky. I have been married to a wonderful black man who I married at 20 yrs old and have been married to for 21 years. He is mature and rational like yourself. It’s such a blessing. Much love to you and if I catch you live I’m sending support….or respond with your cash app. I always throw the good ones some support; you deserve it!!

Real Talk. We need more Men with this mindset and mentality. God help us.

18:18 *"You need to be the change you want to see"* 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I couldn't have said it better myself

Love your channel! I wish more people thought like this. It's getting scary out here. So much hate on both sides... We need more exposure of positive male and female role models. Stay blessed Shumake

Show ya right Brother Shumake! At the end of the day it all starts and ends with the man.

Been listening to you for awhile now keep speaking your truth. You are walking and doing your purpose. I love to hear you keep speaking your truth. Stand firm in what you believe in Im with you my brother

Keep putting out the truth and that's exactly what you are spitting, THE TRUTH...I learn from all of your videos #KeepGoing #AtlantaInTheHouse #Bars

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 I am not a single mother but you speak!! All I see coming for th BC is extinction. If we don't get this right, right now..we are done. These children HAVE to be cherished. They are the future, even those that come from single parent homes.

Shumake, the promotion of the black family could start with you, I suggest you invite successful husbands and wives to a podcast. On another note, this is a good video. Don't worry about the haters. Keep doing good.

I’ve never understood the term single mother when the negative impact is a result of fatherless homes. We stigmatize women for stepping up to fill in the position of both father and mother but we call the negative impact single mother houses instead of what it truly is which is fatherless homes. I’m not badgering you about it bc a lot of people do it I just feel comfortable expressing that thought here on this channel.

It’s an Honor to hear you speak about this,💯%Real.

U keep doing what ur doing brother im so proud of u. Speak the truth!!!

I made a comment on sex trafficking in America video saying 99% of sex workers do NOT desire to do sex work on a comment that mentioned “legalize prostitution” and it justifying it by saying “it’s safer for females and it’s something they want to do.” He assumed I was making up lies, because men are from the outside looking in. Same ones that watch (P)corn and think the women are enjoying their work. Majority of them are drugged up. Mans was saying that the statement I made that 99% of them don’t desire to do sex work was false and to provide evidence, because he really think kids are growing up dreaming about becoming prostitutes or to be featured in sex videos. Anyways I would like to see the video you referred to about the man that owned clubs and later changed careers. What’s the name of it?

This video is so cathartic…brought tears to my eyes. Thank you Shumake, you truly understand our plight

Thanks!

Love how you said avatar of black women. We have got away from a village raising the family. We don't even talk to our neighbors.

This is refreshing to hear! Seriously, we need more black men to have this mindset. Your family is blessed to have you.

Brilliant bravissimo boom. You made me shout out loud "OH DADDAYYY" when you said "they hear that bass on the line and they know they in trouble" 🇹🇹👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏾💯💯💯

So important you touched on fathers absent in families. We must get back to manhood womanhood and family-hood that’s what my KZfaq videos do.

This was a very necessary message!

The Message that you brought out, you made some very strong and powerful points. It's painful but you spoke much truth. Thank you for sharing these messages. God bless you, & Lord help us.🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️

Out here doing God’s work. Thank you 🙏🏽.

I was just talking about this the other day. Confirmation

13:10……so necessary for the black community to hear 👂🏼

Thank you 🙏🏾 for making this

If “they” have to CALL You ti tell you about your child’s behavior (AT HOME,), that IS the Problem in a nutshell.

Thank you....you get it. You be blessed and spread the word! You have inspired me to do the same.

Thank you for telling the whole truth. It’s very rare that a video from a black man on KZfaq is fair and truthful about both sides. You have my respect as a leader.

KEEP SPEAKING THE TRUTH MY BOY 🔥✊🏾

You can't make somebody love you when they don't. If they hate us now and can turn around would it be too late? There is a turning point for each party.

If you made up in your mind you cannot get love, you'll settle for finances. Especially if you think you'll be done wrong either way. I've heard women say I rather cry in a Bentley then a toyota.

Awesome 👌!!! Continue speaking because we are listening! God will always save a remnant and we need those that are going to stand for righteousness!

GOD is blessing you King, you are fair in talking about relationships, keep doing what you do. ;-)

if all men thought like you...the community would be thriving 🙌🏾

No lie told!

Wow well said! God bless you 🙏🏽

Speak your truth, they will listen. 🖤🖤

Very necessary message. You just gained a subscriber. Keep doing God's work.

Well I'm definitely subscribing to you

You are a breath of fresh air.

I appreciate you because you are so balanced. If you change the set up of your videos and have a more aggressively attractive thumbnail I think you’d get more views. I really like what you have to say and think you should make yourself more seen because this set up I think is a bit too humble .

Get outcha feelings 🤣🤣🤣🤣💯💯💯💯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

I believe that children need to be alone with their mother, and that many if not most fathers are an interference to the nurturing and guidance children need from the mother.

This black men is super wised 👏👏👏👏

God Bless You Brother Shumake! Yes, Sir! Let's See Men Blowing Up Social Media with Positive Role Models in Families!

BALANCED PERSPECTIVE BRO!

Good commentary. Need more like you.

simply keep speaking your truth and don't allow any of the negative comments to stop you, you are not saying anything that is not true nor is it disrespectful

I like how your videos are all driving

I appreciate all your videos. It just breaks my heart that some men just refuse to hear the message. We just have to let them go. I think the toxicity in the black community is slowly being released so future generations can have a chance.

Facts! Thank you for saying it!

It's all in Deuteronomy 28. That whole book is talking about us 😩God told us this would happen to us I wish more black people would read the Bible. God gave us the answer to all the issues we face and why we face them as a nation. Please Please Please people read it and see for yourself. It all correlates with everything we are going through, it's insane.

Speak on it!

SPIRITUAL WARFARE ‼️

It's Tru it's a hard pill 🤣💊 to swallow but If I would I have waited and met the right man I wouldn't have to take care of my son without a Dad

I wish more men thought like you and I agree because after my son’s dad passed my family and friends became great male figures for my son..

17:22 save the black family

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After much observation, I realize the weak men about you speak don’t feel up to the task of being men. So what do they do, they create a distraction. All their complaints about women is their way of saying “I can’t play the “game” and win” so I’ll hate the game. Meanwhile they secretly hope nobody notices they just feel woefully inadequate to rise to the occasion being men. Tsk tsk

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Also, when they teach these young bm to be disrespectful to bw, it's going to come knocking at their front door eventually.

Wow... This is big

What you're neglecting to take into account that it's the women more often than not that ruined the relationship and made themselves single moms. Many of them also choose the guys that were no good instead of the good guys that wanted to be with them.

💯Lee Marvin at Real Porridge Podcast- Lee Marvin 💯

They don’t hear you Shumake!!! You making to much sense and some have short attention spans.

Yep. And want no accountability

I'd rather adopt than deal with a single mother.

But the content they put out has a finish line although you it sounds like bashing it's not it's acknowledging the problems on both sides to come together because ultimately we want black queens with black kings

You resemble Big Daddy KaNE

We are literally talking about 18% of the men vs 80% of the women.

No matter what you say you are definitely simpin! Why don’t you tell these women that choose to sleep with the same type of men to hold themselves accountable? Unless these dudes are raping the women, sex can’t happen without a woman saying yes.. you can’t do the same thing over and over and expect different result! You can hold fathers accountable but remember when these men are young, they grow up seeing their mothers go from a guy to guy with no stability. But yet you are expecting these young boys to grow up and tell them you are responsible for the broken homes? Tell women to be accountable and f their actions and take responsibility first. Stop selling false narratives to these women where they make bad choices and you tell them oh don’t worry baby it’s the men’s fault.. like what? I grew up without father too. But our mom chose not to remarry and didn’t go around with different men or brought men home. She took responsibility and raised us. I grew up to respect women and know how to handle myself. So yea if the mothers are raising these young boys the mothers should be responsible and carry themselves a certain way because kids observe action and it’s hard to change a grown man’s mind or behavior vs teach a kid at young age. I can tell you, single motherhood can stop immediately once these start making better choices. Men will always seek sex but as long as women let these irresponsible men have their bodies then the issue will never stop. I saw a statistic that says that women have children with 10% of the same men. Meaning they all Keep going after the same type guy and expecting different result. Then you will use the problem these 10% of men caused to make the other 90% of men look bad. The other 90% of men didn’t tell the women to keep going after those 10% of men. So please stop trying to Appeal to the women making bad choices and blaming men.

Good point. But truth be told, when it comes to relationship problems, there is really nothing 100% or evan 0% a person's fault. Issues, bad or good, could be seen as 90/10, 70/30, ect... I believe us men (the more righteous one of the two) are supposed to be in charge. Women aren't just physically weaker, but mentally and spiritually also. Like children are weaker than the adult. Spoiling the kid can make them rotten beyond repair!!! Like adult teachers in a classroom, women do not have a natural WARRIOR CODE to make things right, fair, balance, or logical.

I understand where you coming from king...but If 80% of women are single moms and 40% of men our single dads In the black community, that's saying the men aren't In the home, correct! But If women are seeing the man Isn't In the home why are they making more babies with him? I was born and raised In a two parent household and I don't see that In the black community. Black men and women needs to be accountable but how can we fix the Issue If black women are friend zoning good men? Look back at the percentage, If we really want to fix It the women should go back to their child's father even If he has 2+ baby mother's (If they aren't married to someone else). Tell them to do that and I bet you they won't. When It comes to single parent hood and black men you're only talking about 40%, that's not even half of us.

Derrick Jackson 2.0

This was a very necessary message!

Thanks!