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YES!!!! Love this 😅😂❤

bro sounds like some shit my co worker would say 😂😂

Yas slay

Great advice. I'm glad you shared this, and I hope they see this ! 😊

thank youuu that is such good advice

Yeah

Great tip!

I don’t have kids but I’m filing this away for later. ❤❤❤

My baby boys are 13 months apart same as me and my sister, my boys are so close all ready I hope they grow up to be best friends 🥰❤️

Y'all are going to be the best of parents and your boys are gonna be so happy and lucky to have you!

My boys are 13 months apart. Wasn’t the plan, but we love him to pieces.

I so feel you. I had a miscarriage last August on my daughters 2nd birthday at 12 weeks. It really needs to be spoken about especially 12 weeks plus because it's so traumatising and so many people don't understand what really happens at this stage of a pregnancy xx

@@lonniedisha4345 this i’m still recovering from my miscarriage and it’s been over a year

I’m so sorry for you loss 💕. Sending you lots of love and baby dust 💕💕

I pray you find the happiness you seek however I am sure all the woman being raped and forced to give birth don’t agree with you! And it’s perfectly acceptable to say having children isn’t a miracle it’s painful and a HUGE learning process on top of financial stress! Getting pregnant isn’t a miracle unless the person who’s pregnant says it is! Being pregnant isn’t sunshine and rainbows! ICP, I have seen woman basically claw their flesh off and that’s just one pregnancy complication!

@@alisterblackrhyker8440 Agreed it’s very difficult

Your time will come. You just have to trust Jesus! 💗

I will pray that you will be next, ❤️❤️🙏

I love you guys, i know it is hard watching your freinds get pregerrs on accident and its HARD but your time will come just trust in jesus and pray about it i will pray for you guys... love yall!

Bella 😢 You are such a great friend. Your time will come love!! You two are meant to be parents!!

@@Chloeshindle always trust in Jesus with all you problems

Wow, 10 months apart is crazy! I'm happy that it worked out for you and your kids though. Did you plan to have them close together? :)

Me and my sister are 14 years apart

my sister and i are 15 months apart and its great, we feel like we were supposed to be twins and were the bestest of friends

I have 3 kids my youngest is 18 and they are 16 mi the apart since I was young I was depressed but now they are stair stepping out the house and I’m 39 I feel and look great about my choice

@@lenat7397 actually the two that are 10 months apart we’re not planned, but a happy little accident. But it worked out perfect in the end! 😊

No need for appreciation, that's how it should always be. If Abby did that, you wouldn't have felt the need to comment this because women are always supposed to be empathetic, but when a man does it you suddenly feel the need to appreciate him for it. That's literally the bare minimum. She's his WIFE obviously he wouldn't say "it was so gross" and it's not him being "empathetic", it's simply him being a normal loving husband which would be the case in every healthy, normal relationship.

Good

Ofcourse & it's beautiful 💕❤️‍🔥💞

It’s so cute and coupley

They obviously need to read a book about human reproduction...lol.

Very nice

frrrrr! LOL

had the same thought lol

I've only heard it called Irish twins lol

It's stressful when you have a unplanned pregnancy and can't have a abortion due to other reasons such as job, education, financially, etc. Although young couples need to use condoms when having sex to avoid pregnancy

It's... Was I an accident? No, DJ, you were a...surprise. What's the difference..? Well, an accident is something that..if you had to do it over again, you wouldn't...and a surprise is something you never knew you wanted until you got it. Oh. Was Darlene a surprise..? No Darlene was a disaster. 😂

I've heard it before, but still, That's so sweet! My youngest sibling was a wonderful surprise.

@@_erdutza. Yes my first (when I was 18) and my last (when I was 35) , were both surprises! 17 years between them..but their bdays are a day apart..July 9th and 10th! Lol. We also have two other children in-between them that were planned. Now we are young grandparents. I'm only 50..and have 4 grandbabies!

​@@kathleenclark815 Wow! That's so amazing. My surprise sister and I are 12 years apart. Because of our age gap, we are very close. There is something so special about surprises!

Why brother and sister an law?

Nah me and my brother are a year apart and we’re on and off. Argue a lot sometimes, best friends another time

@@IamG_ me and my brother is also one year apart but we don't argue we're just goofy most of the time

Aren’t they going to be in the same grade so they can technically be mistaken twins! 😅

Same! I'm the youngest but my mom said that she just wanted 1 boy and 1 girl but that she still loves me a lot

I was the oops baby also. My brother 21, a sister 17, a sister 13 and then SURPRISE! Here I come! So now I'm 49, my sister is 62, a sister 65 & brother 69!!!!!! It's crazy lol! Unfortunately my momma was NOT happy. She was actually very angry (I mean that's on Her & my dad. I had zero to do with it)! So long story short, my sister next to me has hated me my entire life cause I took her spot as baby. My oldest sister raised me, (literally) & to this day is still like my mom and we are extremely close. My brother is a weirdo and really none of us girls see nor talk to him UNLESS he needs something. I def am so thankful for my sister!

i was an oopsie baby but in the way that i’m 5 & 6 years younger than my other siblings 😹😹

Same the doctors told her she was having one baby and then they realized she wasn’t done and saw another baby and then I came out so yea I was a legit accident😊

Same here!!

Thank you for voicing that not every tear is a joyful one when you initially find out about a surprise pregnancy. I am still reeling from finding out I'm expecting 5 days ago, and not everything has been sunshine and roses. We did NOT plan or expect this, and it's not the greatest timing, but we are adjusting to the idea and ARE happy - just scared! Lol! Thanks again!

@@KitKat10281I found out that I was pregnant when my daughter was almost 9 months old, but she would have been 6 months old when I got pregnant. I was on the mini pill, I had been exclusively breastfeeding, AND we were pulling out. Apart from abstinence, like we were prevennnnting 😂 and it was a good 3.5 weeks, I was straight up distraught. I had no happiness for that first trimester (I was already 9 weeks when I found out I was pregnant), but I also knew that I couldn't go through with getting an abortion although I heavily considered it. The postpartum experience with my daughter was awful. The hormones were INSANE, we had all kinds of breastfeeding issues but she never took a bottle, she was super freaking colicky and had severe reflux. Not to mention my pregnancy with her was high risk and had so many problems, I was so so sick the whole time, needing PICC lines and hospitalizations every week for IV meds and such. It just all sucked. And the thought of going through hyperemesis and everything again while also having a literal infant/toddler running around at home made me nauseous lol. I am just about 27 weeks now and have become overjoyed about it, but also still can't believe that I'm redoing that newborn stage with a 15 month old. It's honestly terrifying but also this baby is so loved and I can't believe I contemplated aborting him now. But it is SO SO normal to be freaking the heck out at any unplanned pregnancy. You are not alone

Haha my first child was 4 months when I found out I was pregnant with twins! The twins were born 10 days after my firsts 1st birthday 😅😅 it’s a lot of fun though!

@@sophiewhite6844 😭😭🤍

My 2 daughters are 10 months and 9 days apart. They are the same age for almost 3 months. My Mother said they were true “Irish twins!!”

Our 4th was born 12 days before our 3rd turned 1

whaaaaaat...

I thought the same exact thing

I called it when they posted the short on KZfaq about their podcast! The calendar literally says due date

I SAW THAT TOO!! I didn't know if I should believed at first. But I am sooo happy for them tho!!!!

Exactly this!!

That’s exactly how I felt when I got pregnant with my second when my first was 9 months old- I was so shocked, scared and nervous to tell anyone- I kept it hidden for so many months and literally had a gender reveal/ baby shower weeks before I gave birth that’s how crazy my situation was but then again I was so young 22 years old so young and naive. So in the end their 15 months apart- of course it was hard at the beginning but in the end I wouldn’t change anything- my boys are so close.. the bestest of friends-a bond I’m so happy they will forever have ❤

3 under 3!!! Wow u are incredible!!!

You’re incredible!!!

Congratulations to you too! Superwoman ♥️🥰💜

Thank you! I’m 22 almost 23. It’s a lot for sure but patience is key💗

yeah, definitely basically trying, whether they consider it or not 😅

@@Amelia_09 come on now, don’t hate

@@Amelia_09 ok and? I think they’re aware of that like they mentioned in the video

@@Amelia_09 I am calm. Just dumb to say when they’re aware of it😊

Guys pls don’t say breastfeeding is birth control in any way shape or form. Like your doctor said.

I'm a perinatal psychologist!! Love seeing psychs in the comments haha

hopefully it's not twins for them 💀

My aunt has Irish quads. They had triplets and she got pregnant 10 weeks later. It was a rough 18 years, but they're all out of the house now. 😅

@@genevieveprochaska6770 holy cow! I cannot imagine triplets then another 😮. It does all work out in the end but that must have been so hard. My kids are spaced pretty decently apart but I do wish they were closer in age now

@@sylviareimers7075they would know by now. They mentioned a sonogram.

@@debfox lol yep

Matt really loves Abby

Congrats 🎉 I hope you have a great labor and delivery and hope all goes well with your baby!!

Hope you’ve had a good pregananancy

Congratulations! Praying for a safe and healthy delivery

CONGRATS!!!

Prayers for a smooth delivery and a healthy baby!💕

This is some voodoo magic 🤣🤣🤣

Oh wow, congrats!

Congrats !!!! 💕💜❤️

😂😂😂 congratulations dear

Congratulations 🎉

I have 3 and pregnant with our 4th and final and I must say going from 1 to 2 kids is the hardest going from 2 to 3 was easy

I agree! I also have 4 kids! And I think the hardest was going from 1 to 2 after that it was like cake with the rest!

Yes I agree 100%! 2-3 & 3-4 was a breeze

Amen, sister!!

I needed this so much! I want a second child so badly but I am afraid of how it’s going to change the dynamic of our family. Our daughter is almost 6 years old so she’s really easy at this age but I’ve heard that transitioning from one to two can be really hard

Oh me too. 46 and mom of 5. I totally thought about it more than once.

I would give 3 kids away to an adoption center and keep the 2 better kids to be honest

@@Mila_7774 I could never do that. I love them all too much, and I know that they might resent me for giving away their siblings and separating them.

Wow! That is a lot of work, but they will be such good friends as they grow up! There will always be someone to play with, and eventually you will have lots of help with housework! May the Lord bless you as you raise your children!

@@Hannah_MK I really hope they’ll be close friends as they grow up. Will make all this work I’m doing now more worth it. I don’t have any siblings myself, but I have a cousin that’s eight months younger than me. We were always super close, mainly because we’re so close in age. And my mom was never close with her brother because they had such a large age gap. As far as housework goes, they’re definitely too young to do any now, but I plan to have a “clean up your own mess” policy when they get older. Like they’ll be responsible for their own rooms and laundry. There’s so much laundry with how many of them there are. And I’ve had to switch to cloth diapers because buying diapers for five kids was burning a huge hole in my pocket. It makes for more laundry, but I can’t afford all those diapers. I hope God blesses you and your family as well!

I instantly thought they might be when I saw they named their podcast "Unplanned Podcast" I was wondering if that was a nod to a possible unplanned pregnancy 🤣

Yeah I just watched the first episode so I saw the name of this episode and kinda knew to look for it. But Matt said "in your last pregnancy" in tnat first episode so I was like OK so this we're expecting isn't about getting pregnant with Griffin.

That’s what raised my suspicion as well!

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@@UnplannedPodcast sooo happy for you two! I hope you have a girl this time but just as long as he/she is healthy. The lord has blessed you guys so much❤

It's definitely really hard. When I found out about my second pregnancy, I completely flipped out and had a breakdown. I had just gotten my period, but when I calmed down, I instantly knew I was having twins, the twins I knew I would have since being a small kid. Knowing this was supposed to happen, calmed me down. I was nearly exactly 2 years postpartum. No joke, 3.5 weeks pregnant was when I found out. We have no twins anywhere in our families, at 10 weeks, we found out we were pregnant with fraternal twins. Thankfully, our experience this time around was SO much better than it was with our first. Our twins will be a year in March🥺🥺❤️

We were NOT trying, we hadn't had an 'oopsie' lol, I ovulated a different day than I usually do, it's honestly insane. When I told my friends I grew up with, they were shell shocked. (We have no friends or family local, it's been my husband and I, and that's it)

Where does your mom work. I would like to visit her

@@FriskyPoliceman well she did stay at home for 18 years, which was plenty of work for her lol. Now both her and my dad work and all three of us are 20 years old and in college.

My girls are the same! So fun

Omg is your mom okay!? Haha that sounds challenging!!! But also amazing

Hi

No. They will be 13 months apart. She is 3 months right now. They said it in the video

My 1st two are 14 mths apart I thought it was so much better and yes they was absolutely best friends. Now My other kids are 5yrs apart lol and fight alllllll the time lol. 💙💜

i have 4 under 5..i just deliver baby number 4 last week. its overwhelming but the best days 0f my life..am really enjoying it