wtf is self care ?

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HAVEN'T CHATTED FOR AWHILE SO GO EASY ON MY JUMBLY RAMBLING WORDS. Think this is an important thing to think about when trying to find what makes you feel your best and what keeps u growing.
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@Hollyjtamale27 4 жыл бұрын

I want her to do a video on her jewelry so bad- I can't stop staring at her rings

@jessicawolf5669 4 жыл бұрын

Holly Tamale IKR

@aislinndroski9589 4 жыл бұрын

some of them are from luiny!

@Jordan_Dale 4 жыл бұрын

Company or Depop seller?

@veramoi4729 4 жыл бұрын

you should start a podcast grl!:*

@rrentboy 4 жыл бұрын

also wanted to share that we live in a society and an economy that actively benefits from us thinking we are not enough so remember to practice self care in the form of educating yourself on this and being aware that feeling down about our bodies/productivity/etc is by design!

@adriana12995 4 жыл бұрын

But then it becomes tricky. If you decide that you are enough, it can trick you into thinking you don’t have improve in any way possible and that no one can ever give you constructive criticism because they should already think you are perfect. Instead of telling people that they are enough or that they are never enough, I think we should look at it as a balance. You shouldn’t see yourself in such a low way that you feel like you are worth nothing but you also shouldn’t see yourself as perfect and as someone who doesn’t need to grow in any way. In other words, be aware of the good things about yourself while also working on ways in which you can be better. Complaining about how society tells us that we are never enough is counterproductive can lead us to stunt our own growth as human beings because “how dare they say I’m not enough! I’m perfect and I am enough and I don’t have any room for improvement! I have reached my peak as a human!” That’s not good.

@Teaisfortigger 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this video, Jenny. I have spent some of today screwing my eyebrows together and dwelling on things that are either out of my control or things that I've said or done which I let myself dwell on as a form of self-punishment. Just an hour ago I stopped myself in my tracks and just had the thought that I simply didn't want to feel bad today. I wanted to feel differently and act on wanting to feel differently, which centered my mind on the idea of self-compassion. I think now more than ever, especially for those of us who struggle with mental conditions, to practice radical compassion towards ourselves. This looks different from person to person, but part of it for me is recognizing that I am doing and have done so much more than I give myself credit for, whether that be literal work or emotional work. I am worthy of the same compassion that I give others! All of us are!

@adileneambriz9589 4 жыл бұрын

People need to stop over analyzing what “self care ” is supposed to be or look like, it’s whatever FEELS right. Don’t always buy crap based of what people tell you to. Some products or practices work for some, some don’t. You’re right about listening to your intuition. Great video Jenny, you broke it down Perfectly! take care and be safe! ❤️

@KristieMartin 4 жыл бұрын

ADILENE AMBRIZ amén!!!!

@FashAveGirl 4 жыл бұрын

Right! Like those makeup videos and skincare vids! Especially the Vogue ones. It’s like this isn’t for everyone you have to find out what works for your body and for your budget. No ones skin,body, mind are the same. I think it’s easy for us to forget that sometimes especially due to all of the “influence”.

@abbyridgeway9283 4 жыл бұрын

this!!!!! i would definitely recommend reading Women Who Run With The Wolves. it was an absolutely life changing book for me and i think every single woman (or person) should read it. it discusses how far removed we are from our true womanly natures through social programming, and i think that's why "self care" resonates with so many women because its a socially acceptable return of sorts to our true natures or an acceptable nourishing of the soul. the book is fabulous and enlightening, and a really important thing to read as we are likely about to move into a world that needs to be recreated for the better!!! sending good energy :)

@charlieroseberry7564 4 жыл бұрын

Abby Ridgeway such a great book 🌚💜

@evelynrojas2215 4 жыл бұрын

Literally just ordered it and started reading a bit, and I’m loving it!

@FashAveGirl 4 жыл бұрын

Abby Ridgeway I’m going to order it! Thanks!

@Androgynary 4 жыл бұрын

Lmao I used to do marketing for an organic skincare company and...let’s just say it’s all a fluffy retail gimmicks. ESPECIALLY the organic/natural/clean beauty companies that mislead the masses with the whole ~all chemicals are bad~ rhetoric. I got so fed up I decided to leave the advertising industry all together LOL

@madalinem8151 4 жыл бұрын

i got out of a two year long abusive relationship and the part about boundaries really spoke to me..recognizing that even if i feel some measure of connection to the future i thought we would have, that relationship prevents me from being emotionally, mentally, and physically healthy. i finally released myself from the toxicity and it was the greatest act of love towards myself. i am proud of the strength i didnt realize i had even sixth months ago.

@brennapeterson6489 4 жыл бұрын

Proud of you, sending support and love! I know it can be hard but reminding yourself you are valid and worthy everyday is so important, because you are.

@rachelguerra5352 4 жыл бұрын

Madaline M happy for u!!!!

@Teaisfortigger 4 жыл бұрын

We are strangers to each other, but I am definitely not a stranger to the amount of strength and bravery it takes to give this kind of act of love towards ourselves. As someone who knows this experience, I am so proud of you.

@madi846 4 жыл бұрын

just got out of a 2 1/2ish years long emotionally abusive relationship myself! I was engaged to a person who I knew would continue to hurt me forever if I stayed, so I left. at the time I was just using “toxic” to describe them, but just this week starting saying “abusive”. that in itself was such good self care, I felt like I finally got to breakthrough that gaslighting that it “wasn’t as bad as I thought” and that I “shouldn’t have made it work”. every time you look yourself in the eye and stand firm that what happened actually happened, and that you are valid for taking care of yourself, that’s not just self care, it’s the ultimate act of self love. it’s a hard thing going through process of unpacking everything and healing and coping, but I’m sending you love, as a person whos going through it too 🖤

@madalinem8151 4 жыл бұрын

Madison Clayton Oh my goodness these words are so true and so validating because I have experienced the same thing. Therapy has really changed my life in reclaiming my internal dialogue and how I view my own experiences. I got chills because the difference between those two labels is something I have struggled with too, thank you for sharing

@batlavender 4 жыл бұрын

thank you for talking about this issue - it’s been weighing on my mind a lot lately. i’ve been having a really really difficult months & rewatching some of your old lookbooks & morning routine vids has been bringing me a lot of peace 💛 you’re such a bright & lovely person!

@poopybutthole6096 4 жыл бұрын

i love your true and authentic self on youtube! watching your videos makes me feel free spirited and loving towards my self ✨

@poopybutthole6096 4 жыл бұрын

i feel like this should really be talked about too, thanks for starting this conversation!!

@effy.turner 4 жыл бұрын

Sometimes we resist what we need most. I love how you identified that as an ego thing but I think you hit the nail on the head by associating it with comfort. I think its so important to realize in order to grow we have to push ourselves outside of our comfort zones. That's what makes it difficult and rewarding.

@uberlaughaholic 4 жыл бұрын

the part about the ego wanting to be comfortable/not face the difficulties required for growth really resonated with me. loved this video Jenny!!!

@madeline427 4 жыл бұрын

Really loved the idea of self-care being an authentic practice and doing what feels right for you. xoxo

@glitterbea 4 жыл бұрын

You are the ray of sunshine I needed on this hard day in quarantine 💖🌹

@alexandrarain23 4 жыл бұрын

You always articulate your thoughts so well, so grateful for this!

@nursekaylan6221 4 жыл бұрын

I’ve been working on myself lately and practicing a lot of self care & I can tell you it feels great to take the time for yourself ✨

@jordentaylor6114 4 жыл бұрын

I am also guilty of letting my ego get in the way of bettering myself. It’s always like a “well what if this time next year I need to still be this way to make other people happy”. It’s super frustrating, but I still feel like it’s true. I want to stay connected to my current self and the best I can be self. Finding that line has proven to be difficult.

@brennapeterson6489 4 жыл бұрын

AHHH! I love this video and this message. I think its so important for this to be talked about and mentioned with all the advertising we see everyday. I want to send everyone some love and acceptance right as you are now! That is what is important. It is good to strive for better but more important to embrace yourself as you are, because you are inherently worthy and important always.

@abihall8986 4 жыл бұрын

wow you're literally glowing. I hope everyone is doing well and coping during this pandemic

@maceylynn6344 4 жыл бұрын

I loved your tone in this video! You were so calm and reassuring about what’s going on in our minds right now. Thank you for this!!!!

@Lily-ie9sh 4 жыл бұрын

I am so happy you made a video discussing this topic!

@mooniemoons 4 жыл бұрын

against all odds, i have learned self care from our boss at work - i used to seriously push myself to a point of exhaustion until i started working with him and my current team. he would be very rigid about setting boundaries and recognizing when enough is enough, and very encouraging of us to admit when we are not doing okay and need a time-out. as someone that has been working and supporting myself since i was 16 for me taking time to myself was inexcusable. i am glad that over the years i have managed to change that. self-care doesn't always mean face masks and scented candles, often times it is taking the time to sit down and reflect, and hear yourself out. you owe it to yourself whenever you want it. :)

@barbart_ 4 жыл бұрын

Im glad you started a discussion about this! you inspire me everyday to make new videos!

@pilarsaavedra2638 4 жыл бұрын

ILY! This help me a lot because I've been struggle with bad thoughts and bad routines. I need to hear someone talking about embrace ourselves because we a re humans and we are living the best that we can. Thank and take care.

@emmablatt381 4 жыл бұрын

thanks so much for this vid!!! thinking “am i being loving to myself right now” is such a good idea in terms of differentiating those short term gain things (ie. i’m gonna smoke and stay in bed all day bc it feels good right now) vs what is most caring for myself (getting out in the sun, making myself a nice breakfast) ❤️ the tips!!!

@jewelloveslife 4 жыл бұрын

never been this early before!! thank you so much for everything you do! you are truly my favorite youtube channel! 💛

@stroodlepoodle 4 жыл бұрын

u glowing girl!! looking healthy, beautiful, and fresh!

@diesdas6809 4 жыл бұрын

Super interesting and important topic thanks for taking of it and really agree with your point of view. Self care doesnt (always) mean buying something new but putting yourself first that can also mean saying no, setting boundaries or meeting friends whatever you need in this moment. Love ya

@marioncarini 4 жыл бұрын

you’re just the best person on here :) 💛🌼✨

@madelineweale3390 4 жыл бұрын

love your chat videos!!

@alwaysandalwaysme 4 жыл бұрын

I’ve been itching to watch this video since you posted it, but its finals week and I cannot just watch your videos without me being 100% present. Lol i love u that much.

@kenni8709 4 жыл бұрын

Your makeup look sooo nice! You are so pretty 🥰

@lauravillalobos6436 4 жыл бұрын

LOVED THIS, thanks jenny

@annievautour9069 4 жыл бұрын

I see stacks of books in the back there, do you mind sharing some of your favourites in your collection?

@FashAveGirl 4 жыл бұрын

Annie Vautour would love that!

@alexandra6864 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this Jenny!⭐️🪐💫

@sofia_palmeiro 4 жыл бұрын

I really needed this video, I've been feeling kinda shitty the last few days... Thank you for the amazing content

@LG-zs5gn 4 жыл бұрын

this!! thank u for acknowledging that in order for companies to market self care, they have to market self hate to an extent!!!! ur epic Jenny

@noaginsburg1451 4 жыл бұрын

This video is so special 💕💕💕 never stop expressing yourself Jenny

@CaseyWojo 4 жыл бұрын

I love you! Thank you for your energy 🌈

@Banbloom 4 жыл бұрын

Jenny I’d be super interested to see a book recommendation video! I love the things you talk about and I’d be intrigued to see what inspired some of the thought ❤️

@i123456987654 4 жыл бұрын

yay! another video! this was just what i needed...thank you

@lunasteyaert2621 4 жыл бұрын

Needed this today. Thanks Jenny ☀️🌛

@isabellakelley1205 4 жыл бұрын

Fuck man it's truly a constant struggle; my self care for the night was making a cup of tea and watching this video; hearing truths that I believe in but can't believe when it comes to myself. The most critical judge is yourself; your mind knows where to poke and prod & how we hurt...but we must learn to become our own motivators and channel that energy for positivity. even as I'm writing this I feel a little silly because when I try to put ideas like these into words it always feels dwindled down once the words are in front of me. Gotta find some way to live in The Mystery + self care is a huge aspect of that. thank you ! nyc sisters 4 lyfe

@claragllt2057 4 жыл бұрын

your video is such interesting ! I learn a lot listening to you about myself and how I to feel, you look like a very good person thank you

@durimehoxha 4 жыл бұрын

That's why we loveeee you Jenny !!

@kawwo1198 4 жыл бұрын

loved the video!!! couldn’t agree more and didn’t realize some points before so thank you for that!!!!

@nicoleleary1000 4 жыл бұрын

thank you jenny!! i would love to see more videos like these

@Veronikaasnl 4 жыл бұрын

You are just so beautiful inside and out 💖💖stay safe J !! Xx

@MP-pn6kh 4 жыл бұрын

I relate to everything you said, and I've been thinking about the same things! Thank you for making this video, it will help many people

@lilcongoleseting8507 4 жыл бұрын

this was literally exactly what i didn't know i needed

@graceyeager8356 4 жыл бұрын

loved this!

@vivi_v955 4 жыл бұрын

You are AMAZING ❤️

@giuliamicelli4398 4 жыл бұрын

I agree with all you’ve said. I was the first to use face masks and all that staff only to “fit into the standards” but then I understood what real wellness was. It’s all about feelings and intuitions and now whenever I feel I need something extra for myself I would rather take a nap

@lauramarazzi1012 4 жыл бұрын

Love this so much!

@zuzka1819 4 жыл бұрын

oh yesyesyesyesyesyesyesyesyesyes new vid! life is better now

@paulamartina4488 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this :) Made a little video with tips to extend from basic self-care practices and take these moments to hone into our inner worlds & learn a bit of self-acceptance & compassion !

@FashAveGirl 4 жыл бұрын

No shade to Jenny this was a great video but these comments are awesome! It’s like a empowered chat room and I’m here for it😌🤗

@najaatchannel5795 4 жыл бұрын

nice message about self-care

@sarkar7567 4 жыл бұрын

Missed you girl

@majaadamkova257 4 жыл бұрын

This was really helpful! Thank you so much..

@lang863 4 жыл бұрын

we like philosophical Jenny, a lot!!

@lang863 4 жыл бұрын

honestly, I would love to see a few more chatty videos regarding your opinions on mindsets, therapy, maybe even friendship or relationship? If this is something you would like to do and feel comfortable doing!

@victoriaamber5406 4 жыл бұрын

Sending so much love from snowy northern Canada 🇨🇦❤️❄️

@xrosilylifex807 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for that beautyful viedeo : )

@wnascy 4 жыл бұрын

I Love your lifestyle dear and this channel. More more moreeee videos, vlogs,routines...🌟🌱🦋😍xoxo

@thefunkyfinds4478 4 жыл бұрын

Preach girl !

@bisouselle 4 жыл бұрын

Your background 😍😍😍🌱📚

@mohummus3235 4 жыл бұрын

It's also important to bring up waste & plastic when it comes to self care. Some companies and products are not looking out for the environment or other living beings at all and it's important to care about that as well. Buying things in reusable glass, making your own face masks at home, and buying vegan&cruelty free items are all ways we can help the earth we live on.

@Violet-mh6km 4 жыл бұрын

I see these videos of like “spending 1,000 to glow-up”

@Ale-su1qz 4 жыл бұрын

Hiii Jenny. What's the name of the plant you have in the back?

@Jordan_Dale 4 жыл бұрын

Where’d you get your bed sheets and earrings?

@madelynwintrick7577 4 жыл бұрын

What are some self help books you recommend? Or could you do a video on them? ❤️

@Sophie-bv1jf 4 жыл бұрын

Maddy such a good idea!! I was wondering that too 🧡

@sofiacoca7457 4 жыл бұрын

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@itwasme8573 4 жыл бұрын

big taurus vibes here

@Jordan_Dale 4 жыл бұрын

Jenny, I need to know where all these dope long earrings are coming from...

@Sophie-bv1jf 4 жыл бұрын

Jordan S I think the ones she’s wearing are from @arielkellogg on Instagram!! 💜💜

@Jordan_Dale 4 жыл бұрын

She has a more understated pair with stones in another video. Think those are Ariel’s creation, too?

@cargbarg 4 жыл бұрын

I am only 2 minutes in and this is great. While ya'll are at home, listen to the podcast THE DREAM -- the first season is all about multi level marketing, the second season is ALL about wellness and how SO MUCH of it is marketing and not actual care. check it out, do your research, stay well

@ycan2195 4 жыл бұрын

could you share the link of the song please? :)

@wearilive 4 жыл бұрын

It’s in the description on the bottom!

@permatahati7801 4 жыл бұрын

Jenny is like an older sister ive never had

@Kiyoooooo 4 жыл бұрын

Where did u get the shirt from thats in the thumbnail?? It’s cute!

@wearilive 4 жыл бұрын

I found it on Depop!

@Kiyoooooo 4 жыл бұрын

Wear I Live do you know the name of the style?

@nori4860 4 жыл бұрын

Your skin is my goal🥰 Love you from Tokyo.

@RachelAnastasiaFurman 4 жыл бұрын

Not making time for yourself is like not making time to put gas in your car

@victorlui5955 4 жыл бұрын

Hi Jenny. 👋

@mansooralkarbi4467 4 жыл бұрын

8:01

@juliakohn5690 4 жыл бұрын

You should check out Sonya Renee Taylor's book "The Body Is Not An Apology", I feel like it would address a lot of the things that you have been sharing, especially here! love

@marijkem 4 жыл бұрын

This video could have been a cool podcast too! I don't know if you're interested in making something like that? (I'm sorry if you have done something like that already in the past, I'm a recent subscriber!)