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God CAN take it all away. First weeks after my husband left, I begged God “please, take this pain away! Make it as if I never knew him.” And you know what? He did. I literally felt as if I was a single girl who just happened upon my baby boy without a man, and it had always been just the two of us. The aching and constant replaying of memories vanished. Don’t limit God to your understanding. Ask, and it will be given to you. God can teach you a new mindset without you having to suffer.

44 years. Still in it. God transform and teach me. Renew my mind. Yes, break off root of bitterness and grief from years lost.

They NEVER change !! - Period ! Dont go back Period

God showed me the toxic traits I had in my abusive-narcissistic marriage. Co-dependency emotionally, abandonment issues, always making excuses for my husband, setting boundaries and not sticking to them and also dealing with CPTSD. Always trying to prove, I am worthy to be loved. These are the things he revealed to me. I am currently in the healing phase of my walk and also getting away. Remember God can transform and heal. He wants us free in him.

Been married twenty years, and recently been blown away by my wife who has discarded me like one discards yesterday’s newspapers. I have turned up before the Lord every morning, afternoon and evening since. On most of those occassions I just sit, sob and cry. I realise how codependent and anxious for approval I am. God is healing and refining me, day by painful day. I am a million miles from full recovery, but I am also a million miles from where I was a few months ago. I thank God for several KZfaq channels that have spoken and ministered so deeply to my pain and suffering. Kris, your work is right up there at the top of my list. The Lord has used you almost daily on my life. I thank God for you and your work here. May He continue to bless you and give you wisdom and insight.

2years ago I asked God how can I heal when I'm still in the same situation dealing with the same pains. Then he answered. It had nothing to do with my abuser. God dealt with my heart my mind my reasoning. He has grated me forgiveness and a peaceful heart. I'm not depressed when I seek God! Have no anxiety when I seek God.. I can truly find Joy in Christ. The one thing he didn't move was me out of the situation. Yet I'm grateful for how far he has brought me.

Thank you! My life has been full of these people and I am 76 yrs now! I own my parts and have repented for them and created better ways! I still have a son and I am creating boundaries now! Love your wonderful videos- ❤

Luke 2:12 For there is nothing covered that will not be revealed, nor hidden that will not be known.

Im not sure how this is possible but a few hours ago, i literally walked out of my home, angrily. Yes I packed furiously and told her she's been manipulating since day 1 and here i am seeing this video as if God is saying, "I know uou you broke free" thank you Reece.

Toxic relationships will bring us closer to God if we allow Him to help us through the chaos they create. God will truly become your best friend and move mountains for you!

This was a great message. The revealing and dealing what i'm going through now. I know I tolerated too much than I should have. Thirteen years of a toxic marriage ended in divorce nine months ago. I am free from the trauma cycle, And now rediscovering who I really am in Christ. Knowing what I know now, God will not let me fail by making the same mistakes twice. My friendship circle is a lot smaller now, My prayer is for God to allow me to grow in new healthy relationships. Thank you so much for sharing your heart on this matter.

I thought getting out would be the hardest part.. it's everything that comes after.. but everything I went through led me to God in my darkest hours, and I found just how deep His love is for me 🩷. It's been 4 months so far, and God is still faithful. I'm learning who I am, and He has given me joy and peace eventhough im still in the midst of the storm. I pray for you all my sisters and brothers in Christ ❤

Remember we don’t fight against flesh and blood ! But against the dark powers . People are not the true enemies. And Jesus is the best concealer . Reading and applying the Word by faith ! Praying , fasting and repenting by creating a new paths of thinking transforming your mind. God will show you how to see the situation and it will heal you - That’s the true therapy ❤

2Timothy 3:1-5 " *This know also that in the last days perilous times shall come For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy* , *Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good* , *Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God* >> *Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away* "

Pray that i heal from my nightmare of my narcissistic ex-boyfriend and his own narcissistic family and his false friends who were just flying monkeys as well!

1. God will reveal in mos following behind the veil what part you played. 2. God will deal with what He's revealed. 3. He will heal.

The first sign u are in that toxic relationship for me I was mentally exhausted, sleep deprived, and looked awful. It was a back n forth thing I loved and hated him all in one

A year and a half after break up, my heart still feels heavy, sad and very lonely.

Needed this. Father hear my prayers. I’m losing hope. My husband is with you I still miss him even after all these years. These pass three years have been difficult. At times I feel so alone especially as a single mom. Since suffering a heart attack two years ago and my on going battle with lupus I’m overwhelmed. Both of my sons are autistic. I’m now homeschooling them so my hours to work are limited. BUT I TRUST YOU LORD! I keep faith even as I constantly struggle to provide for my kids and I constantly struggle to buy groceries. I receive hate for sharing my testimony. My testimony is one of faith. No matter what we are facing God will give us strength to over come. Thankfully I have you Lord! I know I’m not alone. Faith over fear!

Yesterday was my birthday. And God exposed the man I've been in a live-in relationship with for the past 5 years (which never sat well with me as I know living in fornication is sin) has been having a relationship with another woman for 4 years by running into them in a cafe, while having a solo breakfast. I thank God for showing this to me even on my birthday. I have been given a new start. I haven't even shed a tear because the Holy Spirit has been putting it on ny heart for many years. Now I have proof, I feel validated. Thanking Jesus for setting me free today. Amen 🙏

I grew up with a narcisistic father but I didn't know until last year. I had never heard about narcisism being a disorder. So I grew up pretty much broken, attracting the wrong men. But God has been setting me free and showing me who I am in the light of His word. So, I am healing. It's been three months since I broke up with my fiancé and it has been a difficult journey but I am understanding what I cannot take anymore.

Without faith healing is impossible. God has helped me through anxiety and panic attacks during this healing process. Show up every day and do the work, you will start to see a change in yourself. God wants us to thrive and glorify him, he is your healing partner 🙏🏻

Im still in the middle of it but i ❤ Kris and your messages, thank you so much for my heart still hurts but am leaning into God

Hi Kris. It’s 03h00 in South Africa. I have listened to your video. I found it very informative and very well presented. I am going to heed your advice and allow God to take control. Thank you 🙏

Kris first of all you look radiant! Just gorgeous!! That pink on you and your hair color is really beautiful! 🙌💕 I couldn't agree more with your words here, I believe it's only when WE truly self reflect and accept OUR part in the toxic cycle that healing beings. God absolutely wants to bring wholeness, peace and true joy into our very broken & confusing past. Jesus Christ really can heal me everywhere I hurt!! As far as the narc goes, I pray he's YOURS God, I give YOU all the glory!! And then I pray that He continues to show ME if & where I am deceived. Thank you Kris for your excellent content. God bless you and your amazing team!! 🙌🕊️✝️

Thank you Jesus I’m free from two narcs my father who passed years ago and a husband I was married to I left and filed for divorce just have to finalize I take accountability for marrying a unbeliever never put anyone above God lesson learned.

How sad that as God's children, we have to pay money to get support and counseling rather than knowing a member of the body of Christ who is willing and able to love and assist a brother or sister in crisis. The Word says, "Carry one another's burdens and thus fulfil the law of Christ". Surely anyone with the Holy Spirit is good enough. I'm yet to find one 😞

Finally at 72 I finally said enough…. 23 yrs with husband, finally got away, but then the man that said he was a Christian 11 yrs n I was done again…. Then my sister came into my life n after years of off n on attacks. I finally let her go. I feel rather relieved n will keep the Lord in my heart n life. God bless you….

It was only because of persistent prayer and Gods grace I was able to discern and protect myself from Narcissistic abuse.,I agree that the covert was the most difficult to identify. Because they hide behind this false mask of kindness in order to tear others down, its a devious individual. The Lord taught me not to react to their smear tactics or abusive jabs. After learning self control in that area and keeping them at a safe distance they loose control and fortunately have no supply to drain. Thank God!

I've already experienced much healing over the last three years but and not only did I get healing from God from a toxic marriage but He also showed me areas where I need to be different moving forward. That's been the biggest help for me as time goes on. Choosing the right spouse is now something I can discern with more confidence and understanding the role as a man that I have is good. With all that now I don't want to find someone but I prefer to be single at least for now.

Yeah I had a fair share of suffering from the toxicity. But I'm owned it. And allowing for transformation. Right now I'm making stronger boundaries, I'm recovering from people pleasing and I'm confronting people when things are wrong. Thank you Yahweh for doing it for me a step at a time. I'm still on the journey.

Amen. Thank you🙏🏼. Definitely owning my part and repenting for it. Also learning to identify these people and learning to instill and stick to my boundaries. Definitely a hard road to healing..but takes time...

I just asked GOD to show me and your video popped up. I have a narc dad and a narc X husband. Please pray for me and my young adult children.

I trust the Lord with all my heart. That being said, we sometimes cannot see things, damaged places within ourselves, even when studying His word, and spending much time in prayer. It would be great to work with a God fearing, Biblical counselor specializing in the area of narcissism, it’s demonic source, and it’s subsequent abuse. Alas…not in the buffet for many former victims. But we can pray for healing, for wisdom and more for those in similar situations 🙏🏼🕊 Blessigns Ms. Reece 🙏🏼📖🕊💐

Yes! Sometimes only God can heal those broken places

I love you❤ God's been using your videos to help me heal and identify what I have just came out of. 10 years of marriage is a long time to be lost. Thank you for sharing your story and creating this platform for us to learn and grow from!❤

God started doing this (healing me in the ways you described and more) for me shortly after I cut off my Christian, but Very Toxic, if not outright narcissistic, parents. Over time and very recently I've come to realize my spouse is the same as they are. I keep praying for God to deliver me, to free me, from this relationship. I'm so scared I'll never get out

Praise God that He uses every situation to work in each person involved! 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

Fantastic video! i'm not out of the narc relationship yet but this video gave me hope of what the other side looks like. keep my in prayer if you read this please

Lord ...are me whole again and restore my soul 🙏

It’s not only the husband/ father , but 3 adult children so affected . Sons both married so now their wives . I am so exhausted. And a daughter 42 with delayed development still at home. No one gets it ! I am now alone with God and that is the only safe place .

You're a very beautiful woman Kris! Even more so today. I love your hair and that blouse is gorgeous! I love who you are on the inside even more, as well as your biblical teachings on how to navigate narcissistic abuse. I've learned so much from you and others like you. I've taken steps to break free and have done some healing, but not quite there yet. I hope soon I can take the final few steps to my freedom and heal to the point where I can help others like me. People pleasing and codependency is hard to break but I think I'm finally there. I finally see that it's what's been keeping me stuck and keeping me from fully living for the Lord. I haven't participated in the chats in your videos but I want you to know how grateful I am for your videos. May God bless you for blessing me! ♥️

What a wealth of information packed in 7min and 34 sec. More of this is needed with in churches because abuse is not a subject that can be dealt with only by praying and fasting. Thank you.

I received as a sign on a pilgrimage: Victim of others, executioner of thyself... That graffiti changed everything!

Hello, Narcissist is to be find out also as Jezebel spirit,

Thank you! Amazing how God works. This is Confirmation from God of the steps and progress it takes to truly heal from such demonic trauma and bondage. May God continue to bless your ministry to reach those who need healing.

This is what's happening to me now . Strangely enough , God lead me to Psalms ? Have been away from him over a week now , keeping a grandbaby and could care less if I talk to him or even see him . I don't miss him at all . I felt a peace from the first chapter of Psalms . I no longer lay awake going over all the mess . Been in this 32 yrs. . I want a life of what's left . I'm 67 and pray God will use me where he sees fit .

It took me ten years to recover from a 24 years worth of Narcissist Abuse from my ex. Whew! What a ride. 😂 Now that I'm caring for a Narcissist niece who is also Schizophrenic/Bipolar, and dealing with her Narcissist father it is a daily struggle. Thank God He is with me!

Thank God I found this. I’m in CODA and I’m in a group that I can’t share my faith

Yes, yes, and more yes! The Lord is my Shepard. I shall not want.❤

My daughter is everything you described of Guidelines of the Narcissistic behaviors. It’s hard to disconnect but it become necessary for me to recover from the abuse.

Amen this is confirmation for what the Lord has been showing me hallelujah 🙌🏻

Thankyou, I will let God to reveal me and rebuild me.

thats where ive been egypt living with a narcissist 16 years in bondage and 10 years praying and beleiving god to heal her no contact no communication and now im finally finding me again

Oh my gosh. I once told someone I felt like the man I was seeing was trying to take me back to Egypt. Thank you Kris.

God is so good with revealing what is the root of the problem. It seems, whenever I think I know and processed this, he goes deeperwith his caring love. But for me, it becames clear, that God wants to say to me, stop living defeated and live in the vicorty of Jesus! Amen

Your lighter blonde hair is so beautiful on you! Thank you for your ministry; it has helped me so much! I just had to kick my toxic brother and SIL out of my life (again).....I was always in trouble, they made no effort to come back together in love, just always attacking me. So weird and toxic and painful! My brother married a narcissist but doesn't realize it. It is like God says that bad company ruins good morals.....he has changed to be hyper critical just like his wife.

I appreciate all your videos. You've helped me see reality for what it is. If you add it all up I've been in therapy probably 1/10th of my life, yet it never provided the real explanation or diagnosis of the situation. I'm sure it helped me regulate so I could keep going on though. I learned the phrase "this ends with me." God has shown me that I've held my family of origin, and the concept of family, as a false idol seeking it and serving it before God, like seeking nurturing and validation from a venomous snake. 55 years old and I still feel like a child in so many ways. Some how God has blessed me with a wonderful husband and kids who are grown and very aware on their journey. We did a lot wrong but it doesn't look like we repeated my narc patterns thank God. We made new mistakes. Unfortunately, or fortunately, I dont know, my kids helped me see and admit just how sick and toxic my family of origin is, and admitting this helped the process of being set free. I was adopted into an extended family of narcs. I didn't find out I was adopted until I was in my 30s from my therapist. My mom, mild, my dad had other mental issues. I can see how he battled self doubt now. They were kind yet not emotionally available. The rest of the family though, they seem to have hated me since birth. The worst mistake my mom and dad made was turning a blind eye and allowing me to be the family sacrifice. Or maybe it wasn't a blind eye, I don't know. All these years I couldn't figure out what I'd done wrong, what I could do to be loved and accepted. And they modeled that family is everything. I can see I'm a 55 year old child who gave away myself at every opportunity for a crumb. I didn't grow a proper sense of self and allowed and did all that that absense entails, no boundaries, no self respect, people pleasing like it was an Olympic sport, internalizing shame and guilt to the point I have been literally sick. I pray God heals my worn body as hes healing my mind,, heart and soul. Now I get to learn who I am. I am so grateful and amazed by God's grace, mercy and love. As I turn and look down the timeline of my past I can SEE where God has been with me every moment, protecting, calling, offering teaching, blessing, correcting and clearing the path ahead for me. I'm so grateful that He allowed events and awareness to unfold and open in the order that He has because as I've been coming along on this journey Hes started at the beginning of who I am and has shown me over and over that what matters most, what is true beyond everything else, what I cannot have taken away is that I'm His, im a child of the One True King, the only king and that I now have that as the foundation of myself makes me cry with joy as I type this. And I'm not a crier. For anyone who's in their darkest point the words "start there" just vibrated through my heart and body. I hadn't seen as it was happening but thats where God allowed me to start the breaking away, and now no matter who I "lose" or block, no matter if I end up truly alone (husband is 15 years older and I'm no rocket scientist but none of us live in this form forever so I might end up alone), I will never be alone because I have that foundation for everything to come to be built on. I'm fortunate that I get to really see things for what they are in the months and years ahead as I, the last surviving child, take care of my 89 year old mom and the last remaining snakes try to get her stuff before she's even gone. Fortunately she's still sharp mentally. Its been interesting as things have played out with a few family members my mom is beginning to see things for what they are. My Dad passed a year ago. My mom has bern completely lost to grief this past year, understandably. I've seen her suffer so much, she asks why God won't just take her. The only thing I can reply with is she's not done yet. One time as she was crying that question out I blurted maybe he wants to heal more of you before you start the next life. I believe that's happening. Because of what's happened with one family member my moms therapist told us to go no contact, that the person is a malignant narcissist. So now my mom is beginning to watch these videos with me and learn about the narcissist experience. Its been really moving watching her have her own awareness experiences, listening to her talk about deep things she'd never shared before. For someone whod been numb to survive for so long I'm getting to feel and cherish all my feels like never before. I pray for everyone out there on this journey, with much love to all.

I broke free. I've been silent throughout their outrageous fits. It's scary because you risk losing them, coupled with the fear of them actually changing for someone new. But God is more Sovereign.

Kris I’m so so grateful for this video! God is God and I will allow him to work in me through yes because He allowed me to go through 2 divorces from toxic hubs! I really really see me in this video! Praise the Lord

I was raised by a narcissistic father and toxic mother when I got married to the narc it’s cause what was familiar to me dysfunction and physical ,verbal abuse no parental relationship connection from any of my parents I was the scapegoat in their eyes.

Thank you very much. I appreciate your kind words and delivery. Well done.

Thank you Kriss, been healing, both my husband and myself from continuing narcissistic abuse from our daughter. It's odd that it seems everything you speak about the Mom and Dad who are the Villans. We have two daughters, adopted. It took us years to understand WHY they weren't like us. The eldest was a challenge since birth, we had some calm years but the pain inflicted goes beyond what most people can even comprehend. Any teachings on the child having this "disorder'....whatever happens, they are always the victim. Been going on for over 5 years, we've given it to the Lord because he is the only one able to change a heart, but we feel after all these years he has removed us from the relationship.

Yessss Sis🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 Very important!!!

This was meant for me to hear. Glory to God!

Amen💜💜💜 This is exactly what is happening now. 💜

🕊 and Hallelujah. I thank Almighty God for your service. Salute to you, Kris Reece. 🕊📖🙏🏿⚖️

I’m so glad your channel popped up on my feed. I just started going through all this. I’m binge watching your videos.

Thank you for sharing this video.

Wow. Crazy timing. Thank you. ❤

It’s my opinion: agreed ~ I’ve always said the Holy Spirit…the Hope inside is a friend indeed for it always convict and reveal your Truth~

This is SO WELL-BALANCED!!!

Thank you! This is very true. I’ve learned after these being revealed to me. A lot of time and introspection. I am finally ME again.

Thank you Kris. I really needed to hear this today.

This confirmed some things God has shown me. Thank you!

you are a blessing. May God continue to bless you and keep you a blessing

I'm thankful God reveals truth❤

Thanks as always Kris ❤

This was so uplifting 🥰 Thank you!

This message is so beautiful. Thank you so much

Ok, you are now my fav channel! Finally am free of these roommates, bur know it takes time to heal. I have been through this before sadly.

My heart goes out to ALL of you. May God strengthen us and heal us from it all. 🙏💔

This video was so helpful and God sent Pastor Reece. Thanks for allowing God to use you 🙏🏾

Thank you Minister Reece God bless you ❤🙏🏾😊

Let Holy Spirit be your counselor ❤️

3 marriages all narcissists Wow how I attracted them. Finally found out what they are ! I am now a child of God Amen

“ Healthy Biblical boundaries “. ❤ I love that . Thank You Jesus 🙏🏼🙌🏼

I really appreciate the effort you put into these videos ❤ thank you 😊

Amen Amen The Lord has shown me what to change within me

Through your videos and other platforms and resources, God revealed to me that my marriage was toxic. After much prayer and consideration as of this week we are separated. I am continuing to pray for healing and hopefully one day, restoration, but it's so freeing to be able to put language to what I was experiencing and to have God lead me through the beginning of this healing process and of learning about boundaries. It's a hard road, but I'm so very grateful for Him and your ministry as well as others. Thank you. ❤

Thank you kris great content love your ministry. Jesus blessed you 🙏 ❤

I am soo grateful I came across your video's, as all this time I have kept asking myself and desperately seeking "what does God say about narcissistic abuse from your mother?". Thankful for your work ❤

Amen thank You Lord Jesus Christ hallelujah 🙌🏻 worthy is the lamb hallelujah 🙌🏻

52 years ,still here, God is working. So glad for the hope!

1:30 amen to that. Praise Jesus. I’m documenting my first 30 day journey of going no contact with my toxic abusive ex (npd bpd) and repenting and restoring your relationship with Christ and I literally just got got done uploading a video on this very topic and I was watching your video now to review to see if it fits to add to my end screen for my viewers (I link your videos a lot) and boom this video was exactly what I’m preaching on my channel and posting tomorrow. Wow God is good. Also thank you for posting great content filled with the word of God and led by the Holy Spirit. Christ is King. 🙏 Oh and I had to add to this now that I watched the whole video. I literally spoke on multiple scriptures you spoke on here in this video. God is so awesome.

I love listening to Kris. Aside from all the knowledge and wisdom she shares, (God forgive me and the ppl here) she is super attractive, very captivating woman. 😍

Thankyou KR you have actual enabled me to start erasing my self from a Narcist. 3 years now i lost my job. My spouse true collors are up. I need to take care of my 2 daughters she cares nothing about them

Really great video, Kris thank you! He is restoring my soul and revealing the truth of who I am, thank you Yeshua hallelujah 🙏❤️‍🔥☦️🩸🐑🦁🦅🕊️⛲🍯🌹🤲🦢

thank you Kris fro coming into my lifw when i been searching for answer.