The hatred was ALWAYS there. When you go NO CONTACT, your life becomes peaceful and their hatred no longer matters. It becomes their own hell to live in, not yours.
@karenlynch83486 ай бұрын
Not when You go thru a divorce with them! Not one bit- if you only lived together nor married then sure & if you can support yourself then shudda left long ago. In a divorce, they are underhanded, manipulated the judge, even try to get on the good side of your attorney
@corasteidinger95946 ай бұрын
Agree 💯 percent. well Said!!!
@TheThelenita5 ай бұрын
@kaycampbell8532 Exactly, very well said!
@IanM-id8or5 ай бұрын
Unless they stalk you and smear you with everyone you know - my sister did that.
@fossildragon5 ай бұрын
What if it's your drug addicted narcissistic child? She had destroyed me and smeared me to every other family member.
@davidhodgson52522 жыл бұрын
They lose every relationship that's why there called losers!
@phaedra52832 жыл бұрын
You know whats funny and sad? I wondered why this person's family would not come to their aid for simple things. Now i know. I will be the asshole in this case because will also be out of this situation.
@georgiabertram59302 жыл бұрын
Absolutely.
@latoriarichardson6754 Жыл бұрын
Every single one!
@indingobolware-ps9xx Жыл бұрын
So happy his wife paid him to ghost me 💯 Percent accurate He even tried to run me over.. He cannot win..with me Yes he hates me.. So glad he's going to prison
@harryheath7728 Жыл бұрын
Chestang
@jananabanana31802 жыл бұрын
Living WELL (without THEM!!!) Is the BEST revenge!!!
@Ali-iq4yn2 жыл бұрын
It's true 👍 that's what I'm trying to do.
@Naallaa2 жыл бұрын
Narcissist are so s+upid🤣 they don't understand for one to be destroyed by their behavior they have to be significant but they're NOT! They will be used and disposed of... I've use few Narcissist with out giving them what want by acting stupid... 😆
@d3ltaking4192 жыл бұрын
Always
@freddiejuniorministries49432 жыл бұрын
I agree strongly
@Sissy77072 жыл бұрын
YEEEESSSS,LIVING IT.
@ursulatroxler74282 жыл бұрын
My ex narcissist tried it he stalked me until Covid19 caused his death
@peacefaith5602 жыл бұрын
Wow
@sarahjane89492 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏👏👏
@daughterofzion21462 жыл бұрын
😳
@emilygregson28932 жыл бұрын
My narcissist stalked me too ! Disabled all my vehicles and would show up mysterious to “help” he set one of my cats on fire !
@ursulatroxler74282 жыл бұрын
@@emilygregson2893 oh my goodness what did you do? I pray that you are safe.
@factinator332 жыл бұрын
I suffered the most brutal smear campaign, BUT MY SPIRIT CAN'T BE HURT BY ANYONE, AND THAT REALLY KILLS THEM!!!!!🙏
@annacarter87032 жыл бұрын
First of all I would have taken him to court I would not let him do that or gotten away with that. Really what narctassic need is a good ass kicking.
@factinator332 жыл бұрын
@@annacarter8703 Agreed, BUT, THATS WHAT THEY DO.. Not me VENGEANCE IS IN THEIR HEARTS NOT MINE.. And they will have to give ACCOUNT of their doings to the ALMIGHTY LORD!!🙏 I think long term.....😉
@kausamsalam85432 жыл бұрын
Good for you, and proud of you, Factinator33.🌻
@factinator332 жыл бұрын
@@kausamsalam8543 And you🙏
@Beverly20202 жыл бұрын
Me too. I had to move 2 states away and leave everything behind plus try not to listen to people who wanted to tell me what he was saying. Only after he found his next victim, did he leave me alone.
@slimskinny Жыл бұрын
The craziest thing is when they left, my life immediately got better. Another reason why It did to, because I realized with that narcissist I was doing so much dumb crap to keep them around. When I gave all that up and just said I’m starting over nothing but blessings.
@cathrinroman60174 ай бұрын
Wish I could just not care so much about my sibling cause I was the oldest n it was a job mom n dad gave me to be the caretaker .....while losing my own sense of self n having a voice of my own. I'm an old lady n still feel guilty for not doing a better job .
@jananabanana31802 жыл бұрын
They end up endlessly snivelling and claiming to be the victim!!! Oh poor sad useless narcs!! No shortage of them....!!!
@kausamsalam85432 жыл бұрын
Yup. Nicely stated, and agreed.
@kkw-pal11782 жыл бұрын
Amen. Wish they would just go away.
@ibabechanel2 жыл бұрын
The bm collective.
@davidkenneth39832 жыл бұрын
@@kkw-pal1178 what do u mean?
@Tune2dis412 жыл бұрын
The victim card lol! Smh
@marmel40862 жыл бұрын
The smear campaign nearly took me down…..but didn’t
@lindacasey50162 жыл бұрын
Congrats. I'm still digging myself out of the kidnapping, assaults, damaged property, attempted murder, endless lies that were cultivated throughout the interactions. Etc etc etc
@jengable48882 жыл бұрын
Right ! You think you know someone ....especially in your own family/so-called "FRIEND"/ co-worker/other individual in a position of authority.....YOU DO NOT ! Some can be vicious, like a evil serpent, especially if you challenge them, or speak FACT/TRUTH about a situation/circumstance. I have come to realize that it is like a shell game with them, and you are just a "thing" to them. If you are dealing with someone who has ASPD/Dark Triad...watch OUT ! They will use any tactic (illegal/legal) to try and smear you, psychologically bully you, use your previous victimization against you to excerbate the already horrible situation, LIE to the police, invade your privacy, stalk, create situations/crazy making drama to agitate you to react, and other schemes to keep you DOWN / financially bury you. It is like walking a tightrope, and anyone who does speak FACT/TRUTH about the situation, defends you, gets either removed from the equation, or triangulated against. Be VERY careful, especially if they have malignant jealousy, and have recruited other family members/friends/others in positions of authority, as flying monkeys (they may receive some type of compensation/incentive for their part in the scheme/take down). The worst part about it is that you would NEVER suspect that type of sinister behavior from someone like that, because their "PUBLIC PERSONA" is completely different than what transpires behind closed doors ! Watch out ....
@taniamachin7662 жыл бұрын
😃😃😃😃👏👏👏💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪
@karriesaunders85972 жыл бұрын
I think the smear campaign just shows how many horrible people there really are in this life,people who believe lies and side with domestic abusers and bullies,I'd say likely makes them bullies,two faced or abusers themselves.
@jengable48882 жыл бұрын
@@karriesaunders8597 what makes it even worse is when the smearing comes from someone who may be in a position of power or authority. Anyone who is objective, will ask others if the stories or situation is/was true, and perhaps seek other reliable sources to verify ...pictures, documentation etc.
@lindaadams10082 жыл бұрын
You have to go No Contact with them because that kind of evil looming around can be deadly...
@4Mikes4Mindset4 Жыл бұрын
Literally
@todddanforth88536 ай бұрын
Yes. You need a good security system and perhaps to arm yourself and get training in self defense.
@cfcub97332 жыл бұрын
My narcissist told everyone I was sleeping with my 14 year old daughters 14 year old boyfriend. He went to my game club and wrote a letter saying I had slept with black guys and got herpes, that he had just slept with me a few weeks ago, he said he caught me having sex with the dog, he called DCF, zoning, building department, my work trying to totally destroy me in every way. This was after I took him back in after several months of trying to get away from him and the only way he got back in was because he had a strep throat infection in his testicle and had to have it surgically removed. He also had 2 bilateral lung blood clots, so I empathized for him and got him back on his feet which took me 3 months to do. And this is how he repays me. He lighted my boat motor on fire because he was jealous that I had a 70 hp outboard engine and his was only 40 hp. He HAS to win. He WILL win EVEN IF YOU DIE. I had also trusted him to put brakes on my front tires. He purposely did not put in a caliper bolt and my brakes locked up in the middle of a busy intersection and I skidded fishtailing through it. Get out fast.
@forensicbadassprofiling2 жыл бұрын
One major thing I never say is "my" ex narc. That is a privilege they lost n still attaches us to these disturbed unhealthy people. An awesome counselor brought that to my attention 3 plus yrs ago when is say my ex hub. Even that title as husband wasn't real. Wasn't love. N was abusive trauma bond. I deserve better. You deserve better. They don't deserve our anything including calling them " my " anything. Hope this helps someone.
@horselady43752 жыл бұрын
cute stuff!! It seemed to me that in my marriage I might not get out alive if I waited any more.already in it 20 miserable horrifying years.HELP I still cant get rid of him since my boyfriend died and I'm having itchy feelings after he is around.
@horselady43752 жыл бұрын
Sorry I miss spelt icky
@nuthinbutluv4u1422 жыл бұрын
So. How long are you going to stay with him? 🤦
@truthh85972 жыл бұрын
Oh goddd Outrageous
@marshapicardo73222 жыл бұрын
Omg...after my relationship ended with my ex (narc), he actually angrily said those words to me: "I didn't even destroy you! I didn't even take anything from you, B*TCH!!" That's when I realized my suspension was actually correct. He was out to destroy me, Mentally, Emotionally, Physically, & Financially! EVIL SHIT!!
@EYE_GOTCHA2 жыл бұрын
I’m glad that your suspension is okay - it’s dangerous when it isn’t. 😃👍
@marshapicardo73222 жыл бұрын
@@EYE_GOTCHA 🤣 meant to say suspicions. 😁🤪
@Sino.Kate.2 жыл бұрын
💔He was destroyed once He said those words.
@franco2b1453 ай бұрын
The one I knew on his way out the door said” “you nasty stinking dirty bit*ch! I hate your guts! Do you know how long I wanted to say that you?” (end quote) Me: “I’m not your mother.” Good riddance!! Yes, He failed at destroying the mother he saw in me.
@dodibenabba13782 жыл бұрын
Dream on Narc I'm protected by the Most High God of Israel! 🙌
@777JESUSISLORD71 Жыл бұрын
Hallelujah ❤️🙌🔥
@jazminolivari55549 ай бұрын
The biggest "narcissitic hit" they'lle ever encounter is you succeeding & being successful. Be successful, happy & educated! that's the slowest process I'm in, yet my greatest revenge.
@lilc53539 ай бұрын
Amen 💯 🙏
@babytt84879 ай бұрын
Oh yes then they have to watch you from afar living your best life as they couldn't break you down. 😂😂😂😂😂
@jazminolivari55549 ай бұрын
@@babytt8487 Yes, that's going to be a hard narcissitic hit on them! The best revenge is suceeding.
@babytt84879 ай бұрын
@@jazminolivari5554 facts girl 🙏🏾
@user-jo3my4un5dzD11 ай бұрын
Best revenge is no revenge. Let God handle the vengeance . Remember He is Judge and He will deliver justice. Amen. My heart ❤️ goes to all that suffered. LOVE
@lilc53539 ай бұрын
Amen 💯 🙏
@babytt84879 ай бұрын
Yep God always wins our battles for us.
@Oatsys5 ай бұрын
God is forgiving so he forgives narcissists
@MapleBar7774 ай бұрын
It's so ironic the victims of narcissism desire to become the perpetrator and not caring that the person who hurt them is DEEPLY bound in sin. Jesus died for us WHILE we were sinners....WHILE we were sinners! Pray that God extends His grace to them like He has to us, otherwise, we're guilty of the same sin.
@CordeliaWagner19994 ай бұрын
God doesn't exist. People who make you believe absurdities are not your friends.
@ironmaiden43962 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately the Justice System fully supports these demons.
@yeswing102 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@ck16602 жыл бұрын
Yes you literally might have to take them off this earth… they’re nutz!!!
@ironmaiden43962 жыл бұрын
@@ck1660 LOL!!! I know right?!
@SheppardOfHermes Жыл бұрын
Yes that is true. Not sure why
@yeswing10 Жыл бұрын
@@SheppardOfHermes All government is corrupt now. They lean to the bad, because they are bad.
@gracegwozdz81852 жыл бұрын
My mother and my sister have miserably failed to destroy me.
@ms.c80582 жыл бұрын
That's messed up at least for them.
@kidchocolate92532 жыл бұрын
And they won't in Jesus's name. No weapon formed against you shall prosper.
@lacortneymaddox Жыл бұрын
Same
@lovettewilliams4114 Жыл бұрын
SMH 🤦🏽♀️
@Fabian698010 ай бұрын
@@Akshaybhatia144they are the weakest people walking on earth. They care what everyone thinks about them as soon as they get criticized they crumble as soon as everyone hates them they crumble they have no self love or self respect without other peoples validation they cannot survive
@ezdeezytube Жыл бұрын
If they succeed, they hate you. If they fail, they hate you. Same difference. Who cares? Give them a real reason to FEAR you and then their hate takes a back seat.
@tradslnd98727 ай бұрын
How do we do this lol
@ezdeezytube7 ай бұрын
Expose them for all to see. It will turn up the hate but they will fear you using the truth against them forever more.
@LaMesaC3 ай бұрын
😂💪🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@zman2893 Жыл бұрын
Im a Machiavellian. My clinically diagnosed malignant narcissistic ex was so obsessed with trying to hurt me because I would never react the way she thought I would or I just wouldn't emote to the abuse. She went as far as to try and kill herself in front of me to try to stop me from going on vacation, but I ended up taking her to the ER and then left for Florida. This lead to the discard lol
@nicoles56862 жыл бұрын
Scary, nothing worse than a person who's happiness is dependent another person's life being sabotaged. Even if you keep your distance there's often 3rd parties "flying monkeys" that keep the madness going. We only have one life so don't let anyone rob you of making the most of it, no matter what they say or do. If someone's virtue signaling outweighs their own actions, methods & tactics on a balanced scale thats how you know their full of it. Keep living, striving & thriving. God Bless.
@courtneyawalsh Жыл бұрын
SO. MANY. FLYING. MONKEYS.
@Overtonl12342 жыл бұрын
How sad that there are people out there who like doing this.
@courtneyawalsh Жыл бұрын
Possessed. Evil. Lost. Broken. Tragic. Pity them but find healthier connections.
@Heal..Restore..Moveforward3 ай бұрын
It is unbelievable....but unfortunately true.
@desireemccurdy27292 жыл бұрын
Check mate! Will not crush my soul... They are not all that great really.... Now that the narc is gone with all their drama. You can now focus on goals & dreams.
@franksimmons92422 жыл бұрын
I like the way you put that. Not eerie in a bad way sometimes I have to remind myself it's quiet because the drama is gone. Firm boundaries work. Used to think being alone was loneliness.
@meshacaudle2551 Жыл бұрын
ABSOLUTELY
@RitaG4404 Жыл бұрын
@@franksimmons9242 Being without a narc is PEACEFUL. Remember this: you are never alone. God is with you.
@hankhill34172 жыл бұрын
Being happy and successful is the best revenge
@Mscavalli22 жыл бұрын
I don’t even care if a narc hate me for exposing them or karma hits them ! None of my business!
@ebonyprince882 жыл бұрын
They play victim and ends up worst off
@tradslnd98727 ай бұрын
Yes yes yes
@soulprosperitypioneers6 ай бұрын
yes as my firstborn was being abused by my egg donor she was playing the victim with him saying how she loved and missed me - now she has my youngest
@LaMesaC3 ай бұрын
😂 yep. JUDGMENT COMES TO NARCISSISTS and PLAYERS. No mercy!!😡
@lauragarcia9471 Жыл бұрын
Truth! My daughter's abuser/narcissist took everything from her and when he knew she was trying to leave he took her life.. this is true.. please leave these people are sick and not human.
@JH-aTimeForEverything Жыл бұрын
You can truly laugh at them when they are trying to destroy your life because u know they sh*ttin their pants
@rebeccapedro62272 жыл бұрын
He messaged me this past Wednesday saying he missed me….. 🤣🤣🤣 I‘m no contact EVER. Enjoying my life and looking 👀 Good even though I say so myself!!!
@theenlightenedtarget2 жыл бұрын
Good! Do not break no contact, trust me you will be back at square one.
@rebeccapedro62272 жыл бұрын
@@theenlightenedtarget Nope, No, Never!!! ✨♥️
@taniamachin7662 жыл бұрын
Awesome! Silence is the best revenge! 😃😃😃👏👏
@RitaG4404 Жыл бұрын
And NOW FREE to live your best life! 🎉🎉🎉
@reneemoriconi70032 жыл бұрын
My husband hated me towards the end of his life ( he died last yr. from cancer st 62. ) I had stopped taking the bait from him for the last 5 yrs.of our marriage because I had to save myself. I took care of him when he fell ill with cancer, instead of receiving any gratitude, his hatred of me grew and grew until the last few weeks of his life. When looking back I think he felt like he had REALLY FAILED because he was dying and I would go on living without having to endure his mental and emotional abuse anymore. I think he believed he had LOST at the ULTIMATE game. He was THAT delusional..it is sad, really sad..What a way to live..If you are in a relationship with a narc, please make a plan and just go. Save yourself. Don't waste your life on someone who doesn't genuinely love you anyway. They are broken people, you can't fix them, but they may RUIN, i mean RUIN...YOUR LIFE. For almost 25 yrs.I went to counseling only to realize that my issues were always me trying to figure out my husbands behavior. The counselors in those days were not well versed about dealing with narc.abuse like they are now. He was the missing piece. But he wasn't going to counseling, that would mean something was wrong with him.
@uplift562 жыл бұрын
Well, at least you can have a new start with a loving relationship 😊!
@connieedwards42572 жыл бұрын
@@uplift56 are you kidding? She’s gonna chill 😂
@Dan-nk6vc Жыл бұрын
Karma through an illness reap what they sow enjoy your life & be happy now 💜😊
@reneemoriconi7003 Жыл бұрын
@@Dan-nk6vc I am trying to, it had been so long since I could just breathe and have my own thoughts back again. I'm doing okay, I'll be alright..one day at a time..
@anonymoususer4866 Жыл бұрын
He may have been jealous of your health.
@desertsunman58802 жыл бұрын
My narc was so self-involved, he admits I never cross his mind - he couldn't care less whether I survived or not ...
@luv10002 жыл бұрын
They WON'T STOP!!!!!!!!!!!! They need to keep attacking you!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@courtneyawalsh Жыл бұрын
Yup. But it always backfires on them. ALWAYS. So they hurt themselves most. Dummies. 😂
@soulprosperitypioneers6 ай бұрын
yes, my egg donor is 70 and worse than ever. The level of sadism is unreal.
@MizzNee7962 жыл бұрын
My ex tried with the discard of myself and our children, he now sees that it didn’t work.
@aprilchow-chee528111 ай бұрын
How did you get by without him 😢 I'm going through same now and it's hell
@olivernanasy402511 ай бұрын
Imagine being like them, its so sad. Im out the other end of the hell they put me through. They deserve our pity but not our precious time.
@ruthslater63642 жыл бұрын
Your exactly 💯 right. To destroy me is his mission.
@nickolaszissimos11892 жыл бұрын
The ones they usually can never destroy are Sigma Empaths
@courtneyawalsh Жыл бұрын
Never heard this term but will have to research it.
@nickolaszissimos1189 Жыл бұрын
@@courtneyawalsh A Sigma is someone that marches to the beat of their own drum. They know themselves very well and can't be deceived for too long if at all. They are someone that has already learned a great many lessons in life and they are refert to as the introverted Alphas.
@chrismc4105 ай бұрын
Or someone who has no problem ending then and they see that aura. Narcissists have a very good sense of self-preservation. They see an actual or potential threat, they steer clear of them
@LaMesaC3 ай бұрын
I am one of them. Married and divorcing a covert and malignant narc. Dangerous bums. Dealt with a couple due to having children with them. Rough, traumatized journey but I am a tough broad. Still here. Had to go NC and absence. Things are looking up.
@nickolaszissimos11893 ай бұрын
@@LaMesaC I see, that sounds pretty rough but of course you won't let it get you down. You know life is a big lesson to learn and anything and everything can make you stronger if used correctly. You are always improving yourself and want to keep moving forward no matter what.
@ciciearthangel2973 Жыл бұрын
I’m so happy I survived and got away and I don’t care who believes him I’m just happy I’m safe & My life Progressing amazingly Thank you for this refresher❤
@ritaceron73292 жыл бұрын
Will provide prayers to us all
@staceburton13682 жыл бұрын
I saw mine after near 10 yrs. She was standing behind me. I turned round, looked at her. Turned back n walked away. I ended up with all her friends. She asks ex girl friends of mine how I'm doing. They say I'm doing really good. It must really get to her how much i gained and she lost.
@maxcash456311 ай бұрын
Paranoid runs them.
@flylegend19102 жыл бұрын
Send the narc to the electric chair and prank them lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@pam8962 Жыл бұрын
I let him hoover me just so I could discard him 3 days later to give him a taste of his own medicine. He said he hates me and I just made an enemy. No contact for a year and a half.
@gatheringsunshine12192 жыл бұрын
My ex posted a photo of him kissing his coworker a week after I broke things off on social media. People didn’t even know we broke up and he gave public posts about me and the circumstances. Ended up proposing to that girl six months later, they’re married but they’ve taken down all their social media. At first I was angry at her. Now I just feel sorry for her. He will get bored and always be cheating.
@meggznham8 ай бұрын
Holy crap! Same. And this lady saw what he did to me and his son. Sad
@debbiemiller9426 Жыл бұрын
SLEEPING WITH THE ENEMY.
@ardisschneider863 Жыл бұрын
I enjoy being the constant reminder of what a failure he is!!!🎉😊
@themindfulway99242 жыл бұрын
Spiritual experiences, breath work and meditation helped me to remove my own trauma that the narcissist responds to. Now I am free to love their existence and detach from the person. Part of narcissist abuse is isolation. You will see the whole world this way if that's all you focus on. Love to all you survivors ❤️🙏
@christinasiffrin49362 жыл бұрын
So true !!! Happened to me … First My husband gambled all the money and left me and the kids with nothing than debts to Play … And zehn because I managed to live a great and wonderful life with my two Boys… he decided to manipulate them against me After a while the 2 saw his real intention and He Even got more jealous because he did not reach his goal to destroy me …. Narcs are the worst thing on Earth !
@jengable48882 жыл бұрын
I agree with this 100% !! Thank you for posting this video ! In my case, horrible crimes, abuses, and GASLIGHTING has occured ! Time for arrests, prosecution, obtaining justice, and financial restitution, for my infant daughter, and I !! If there are others who have suffered, please let me know !!
@dawnjordan28602 жыл бұрын
Yes girl! 💕 Currently going through something very very similar. We HAVE to do what's right for the babies! Do what you want to me, not my child. We gotta stick together, there IS sunshine at the end of the storm ❤️ You've got more of a support system than you know, i believe in you girl, keep us posted on your safety!
@jengable48882 жыл бұрын
@@dawnjordan2860 I have been TRYING for 15 years, getting blocked, and horribly victimized again in the process, while trying to stay alive ! This is NO joke, and what has been allowed to transpire is utter lawlessness again !! In addition, I have come to find out that someone, or a group of individuals has been lying horribly about me, stating that I have a SUD/and mental health issues, this is a blatant LIE ! So, add Tort Law offenses (DEFAMATION of CHARACTER, Malfeasance, Negligence/INTENT) to the laundry list of crimes. I WILL find an attorney who WILL take the case, and I WILL win ! ⚖️ I cannot even wrap my brain around what has been ALLOWED to transpire (REAL CRIME/abuse) in the State of Connecticut and elsewhere ! (1979-2022) Although, I suspect that the situation started around 1974...or perhaps before that ! It has been covered up and covered over for decades ! I will NOT file bankruptcy, become homeless, or BOTH because my infant daughter and I (there may be others ) have been horribly victimized ! This also includes cyber crimes (still ongoing), destruction of property (still ongoing), stalking (still ongoing), psychological/financial abuse which is STILL TRANSPIRING, and of course the lies/denial of commiting the crimes and the GASLIGHTING !!! Thank you for your support ! I appreciate it more than you know....
@ceecee10572 жыл бұрын
Me
@jengable48882 жыл бұрын
@@ceecee1057 what happened to you ? How long has the victimization transpiring ?
@marcharsveld29142 жыл бұрын
Hi Jen. Approximately 1-2 % of the population in western societies have NPD. That's one to two persons out of every hundred you meet. Any single one of them narcs leaves behind a trail of broken lives. So yes, there are many others who have suffered and are still suffering every day. I was born and raised in a family of four with a narcissistic father. My mother, brother and I have mental issues coming from C-PTSD. My mom died without ever knowing what was causing her misery and died unaware of the fact she had been married for over 50 years with a malignant covert narcissist. I recently found out and went no contact. My brother is still unaware of what's going on, though he's seen many doctors as well. He's my dad's flying monkey and I am not on speaking terms with him anymore. My dad did not have a social life. He was out working or at home. Many narcs thus will have abused more people than my dad has. If we make a conservative guess that a narc abuses 5 persons during his/her life, we'll end up with a staggering 7,5% of a population being the victim of narcissistic abuse. Many victims are aware of this, but many are not and still seeing their abuser.
@vickyalvarez68862 жыл бұрын
Well, I guess he will live his life mad as hell at me. I'm good with that‼️
@uduakudo89082 жыл бұрын
I wish I knew this 15 years ago.... 1st of all thank God I didn't marry this narcissist, he was also a Mama's boy... he tried to ruin my life after we broke up.... he kidnapped my son.... & in later years he turned my son against me.... now I have moved on successfully & this video explains so much! Thank you & Many Blessings 😇
@j-tv8890 Жыл бұрын
She destroyed me. I didn't learn about narcs until it was too late.
@adriachi976 ай бұрын
My ex boss almost destroyed me!! I ran the hell away from my job just in time!! I been depressed/down for almost 6 months after!!! 🤬🤬🤦🏻♂️
@paulareddick89592 жыл бұрын
I'm doing great and nothing will break what God has chose for me. Devil you dont win.
@lizbrown4622 жыл бұрын
My SIL is a narc…. Had 7 years of abuse and after her discard three years ago only now do I feel strong and healed- it’s a long difficult path but you will get there 🙏🏻 God has looked after me and now I can see why I had to go through the hurt I did to become the strong person I am today. Being an empath is not a weakness- let your light shine bright 🙏🏻
@xansperspective13022 жыл бұрын
I don’t understand how these “people” aren’t stopped. All the people they have turned against you, so much they steal from you, it’s so crazy, & they push that knife even further in your back. It’ll have you scared to deal with anybody. People don’t shake back from stuff like this. No telling who the smear campaign or whatever else they’ve done has actually unalived somebody. I am wishing healing on all of you who are trying their best to proceed.
@johnmoya28262 жыл бұрын
Letting go doesn't mean giving up... it means moving on. It is one of the hardest things a person can do. Starting at birth, we grasp on to anything we can get our hands on, and hold on as if we will cease to exist when we let go. We feel that letting go is giving up, quitting, and that as we all know is cowardly. But as we grow older we are forced to change our way of thinking. We are forced to realize that letting go means accepting things that cannot be. It means maturing and moving on, no matter how hard you have to fight yourself to do so. !!!!
@savoyaepps646 Жыл бұрын
Ooh and that hatred in their face. After they abused you, bad mouthed you, stole from you, beat you up, called your job, wow. Only God had my back.
@sharongallagher2742 жыл бұрын
💯 on point!! 👍
@happyhealthyblessed Жыл бұрын
They hated us us before but yes even more when they don’t win.
@brittaneypierce30922 жыл бұрын
If the narsassist in my life is my mother than does that same logic apply to me too in our relationship as mother daughter? I wonder bc I finally have put my foot down and taking a no contact break from her until I can figure out what to do bc she is nearly impossible to talk too and one of the worst narcissist you could possibly imagine, I'm not exaggerating at all I'm so serious. It's bad.
@theenlightenedtarget2 жыл бұрын
While every situation is different, and you will certainly have to decide for yourself, typically in my opinion this could apply to any narcissist / Empath scenario.
@malinda46642 жыл бұрын
I had to go no contact with my narcissistic mother a year ago. I didn’t even know until I was 54 that the way she treated me my whole life was emotional and psychological abuse. She is evil. She turned me and my brother against each other. She has always lied to others about her children and so much more. The smear campaign is in full force but I just hold onto the fact that I know the truth and God knows the truth and one day everyone will. I wish you all the best. Good luck!
@blkgm70052 жыл бұрын
Ive been almost no contact with my mom for over a yr (I send cards and or gift for big holidays) going thru therapy. She even pulled one of my best friends (she has some abandonment/need for attn issues herself) into the mess as a pt of her triangulation when she cudnt come btwn me and my sisters over the yrs. My friend is now aware that our relationship will be limited as well (almost cut her completely off too), we are reblding trust, keeping it lighter. One of my other sisters is going thru therapy too...so much insight for us both. Dont feel bad or obligated to stay in that toxixicity for anybdy. My peace and healing is so much more important. The things I am learning about myself and dynamics in all areas of my life is so amazing. Chose peace, chose yourself, even if you have to stay away from your mom in the process while you heal. Best decision in a long time for me!
@loriegordon5227 Жыл бұрын
My mother “egg donor” continues to destroy my sister’s life and would destroy mine if she wasn’t so busy constantly using the legal system to punish her and me because I support my sister. She also weaponized the church to try and embarrass us at my father’s funeral. She is an evil, manipulative liar who smears us constantly. My sister and I live rent-free in her head. You would think a narc in her 70s would have better things to do, but she isn’t happy unless she’s destroying someone’s day. Before retirement, her co-workers would tell me the how awful she was to work with. She was constantly lying and throwing people under the bus for her shortcomings. Neighbors, half of our family (dad’s side) know how cruel she was to dad his entire life and even in death found ways to harm him. She constantly cheated on him and even had to have an abortion in the 80s, and my dad believed the lie that it was just a DNC. And then there were the love letters my sister and I found in her purse. My dad was so gullible. Narcissistic mothers do the worst kind of damage to their children and grandchildren. Knowing what I know now, I wouldn’t have indulged her for so long. No contact is the only way to stay sane and healthy. So glad to be away from her chaos.
@Survivorwoman20 Жыл бұрын
I know my mother and my ex husband is so I know I difficult that is and times the wickedness they do you wonder which one of them going to die quicker sad to say I don’t wish evil on others nor have it in me but these evil people just don’t belong in earth destroying human life
@jesterstears75782 жыл бұрын
He had said some things about me but I am not bothered
@courtneyawalsh Жыл бұрын
I just remembered that I don’t care. Whatever he & his flying monkey creeps throw at me? Just. Don’t. Care.
@IndorilTheGreat Жыл бұрын
They stole my innocence, but they will not steal my substance.
@courtneyawalsh Жыл бұрын
Powerful statement.
@annacarter87032 жыл бұрын
I was in a 2-years-narctassic relationship it was off and on. I left 11 months ago I went no contact I blocked him on social media at that time I was living with my daughter trying to get myself together so now I got me a nice apartment I live nowhere near him he tried calling so many times love bombing I didn't fell into it I never reached back to him he did so many tricks I know sometimes some numbers come get my phone and I hear sounds on the back of the phone and I know it's him but I don't pick up the other day something came through my phone Google group where several numbers show up so I got this app on my phone to let me know who's calling so surprisingly one was his brother trying to figure out why it's calling me I never called him I never pick up the phone I looked at it and let it ring I wind up blocking it blocking a phone number deleting it they play all sort of games but as far as the smear campaign I haven't gotten that at 11 months he tried to get to my brother about saying he called me I never pick up I told my brother something about him but it narctassic are evil crazy immature people. I think it surprised him when I left it's no kids involved we never live together I just had enough of his b******* I haven't seen him in 11 months and I'm not looking for him it's peaceful I'm happy I ain't got to worry about him knocking on my door and if I was to have any problems with him first thing I would do is call the police on them and I don't think he wants that but the worst thing about being with people like him is when you have children and you stay around for so many years that's when it gets worse I think it's best to leave as soon as you can but as far as the smear campaign it's against the law to slander your name I would have took him to court a long time ago stop all that nonsense it's nothing but jealousy they want to see you hurt they want to see your dead they want to see you fail they want to step over top of you.narctassic people are not as strong as everybody might think they are they are scary people they scared to death they scared the truth going to come out they have to keep up that image you get them behind closed doors they break. And sometimes a good ass kicking it's what they need.and of course narctassic are going to denied everything. No contact is good. Don't listen to the fake bullshit. Don't tell narcissistic everything they will use it against you I'm sure my ex narctassic is talking about me bably but I have not heard anything in 11 months. I don't really know his friends come find out during the relationship he know 2 of my brother and one of my nephew so I haven't heard nothing. It a blessing to have peace in your life. Blessings to everyone.
@boundariessetinstone5893 Жыл бұрын
The fake apps numbers literally almost drove me to a psyche ward. I will never forget this experience severely harrassed me almost 6 years causing me a severe nervous breakdown.
@annacarter8703 Жыл бұрын
@@boundariessetinstone5893 prayers goes to you 🙏🙏🙏
@RoxxiRed2 жыл бұрын
Currently experiencing this with my husband. He says that I died a long time ago in a car accident and I’ve been replaced by a demon monster creature.
@tasteittuesday48912 жыл бұрын
I have coworkers like this. Every single day use to be a fight to remain professional. Now i only say what is absolutely necessary for work and nothing more and this has pissed them off so much that They have tried everything to break me,including lying on me,once I went no contact with them unless it's for professional reasons.
@croissantlover1 Жыл бұрын
yes, use grey rock method at all times when not involved with work. eventually they will (very likely) target other coworkers, maybe boss even and get fired or they might try use violence against you. That's where you need to then involve police, if you have blue marks on your body, thats evidence too. It's horrible and traumatic but its evidence that can be used against them. They are in a way giving you a free weapon against them, but they are too stupid and internally angry with themselves to realise this.
@megui237 Жыл бұрын
Vixxx, thanks because I couldn't understand this obsession in trying destroy my name, reputation, my family, my life.
@Sunnahiman Жыл бұрын
Very true, my dear, a personal experience. African American woman 50s generation.
@forensicbadassprofiling2 жыл бұрын
Healthy people are happy n supporting towards others who have made major accomplishments. It just goes to show us all that the term malignant narcissist is really a disturbed unhealthy hateful person. Waaay better off without any of them. Blessings to all you beautiful survivors who are living so much better healthier n happier without narcy narcs. Amazing. Bravo. Woohoo. So so happy for you!!!! Hugs.
@RitaG4404 Жыл бұрын
And to you!! ❤
@sharafanabatrisyia69557 ай бұрын
I wish to breathe in clean air & live healthily once again without narcy cyber criminals around me no matter where I am
@catherineromero18622 жыл бұрын
What about the vicious, toxic narc boss?? Holy Hannah!
@courtneyawalsh Жыл бұрын
Yeah. That’s definitely a thing. Find bosses, partners & friends that are genuinely kind. They exist, too.
@JohnDoe-gf5gm11 ай бұрын
@@courtneyawalshThank you Courtney
@Love323772 жыл бұрын
I was told “ everyone has haters “
@serpentbearer6649 Жыл бұрын
NO weapon formed against me shall prosper!
@Learning2Listen2 жыл бұрын
Been through this, he did a smear campaign that destroyed my family relationships. He has since passed away, and still the family continues! I carry on!
@joannekrom63142 жыл бұрын
So true, he purposely still tries to wreck my life. 3 yrs now and he's talking about me everywhere. I'm glad I didn't waste another day letting him cheat on me anymore.
@DIVERGENTstar2 жыл бұрын
Well damn.. No wonder why she screwed one of my closest friends a year after she discarded me.. Geez.. As if she hadn't ripped my heart out already by cheating, lying, destroying our family, separating me from my kids, smear campaign and trying to use law enforcement. I just kept rolling through the grace of God.. Barely lifted myself back up. Explains alot. Thank you.
@greeneyedlibra36512 жыл бұрын
You are 100% right. That man underestimated me, and Gods love for me.
@PaulHanson-zo5qj10 ай бұрын
That's what these narcs are ! Hate. No love in them. 🤢. Souless
@heidithatcher96012 жыл бұрын
Exactly, this has been my nightmare
@traceenoelle2 жыл бұрын
This is describing my mother exactly 💔💔it’s been terrifying and I am still very afraid of her
@ambergrim70652 жыл бұрын
Never talking to them again I believe is the best revenge! Make sure u get restraining orders & call police whenever u see them. It is no joke they are unbelievably obsessed
@tofferarvid65892 жыл бұрын
LMAO 🤣 they failed all of them and God is watching that's all that matters to me
@nicholecornes19156 ай бұрын
Thats right
@ksteck94072 жыл бұрын
My observations, is so many narcissists came in my life,got destroyed.they destroy themselves.u just keep away,move on.
@LaMesaC3 ай бұрын
Exactly 💯
@stephaniemonson132 жыл бұрын
There's no wrath like the one of a Malignant Narcasist.
@stephaniemonson132 жыл бұрын
My Dad and Ex Husband
@taniamachin7662 жыл бұрын
100% my cousins mother
@leeannsampson60502 жыл бұрын
Between these clips and watching Amber Heard in that trial I am learning so much about narcissists and how they operate. Thank you for informing people on what to look out for and what to avoid.
@pamelakelley5535 Жыл бұрын
He tried and failed. I know in my heart I am sooo much stronger than him. I am moving forward to a new start and new life.
@susantucker21292 жыл бұрын
Attempt to be unalive -- I am telling you he tried to destroy my life . He hates me now - 1 yr post separation … she is so correct
@chirelle.alanalooney8609 Жыл бұрын
I am so impressed with your intellect and knowledge about these monsters. The one that glommed on to me, was my Banker that knew all of the assets I had, and had Inherited, and then I simply could NOT get rid of that woman. Yes, I became her 24 / 7 / 365 obsession, with added hatred. She has been fired from several different banks, after only being at each one, for barely a month, which is a bad sign in my book.
@alethiasingleton3109 Жыл бұрын
Everytime he mess me over Ms. Black Fire 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 hit him like Karma & it's hot! 😏 SUPER EMPATH
@lcf3335 Жыл бұрын
Blessings...I'm a dark empath.. And I eat narcopaths for breakfast🌪😱🌪
@courtneyawalsh Жыл бұрын
Starting to realize I might be the soiritual vigilante Dexter/Girl with the Dragon tattoo of that realm. Vamp/demon slayer. This is not what I remember signing up for. But here we are. 😂😂😂 #evilonesBECAREFUL
@starryknight437 Жыл бұрын
No doubt this is true!!! I actually think they also have an unacknowledged self hatred incapable of love! Thank you! Love your segments--so empowering to the narc victim...❤️🙏😊👍
@angebrowne1371 Жыл бұрын
Yep 💯% nah got over it very 😊 I used reverse cycle 😂 he's petrified.😇Thank U 💖🙏 we need 2 hear..💥
@gloriaromerolayaqui2 жыл бұрын
When they say, I won't go there, but yes they do go there and say, "you missed up that's why we're not making our Dreams true but I won't say anything". they try to blame you and cover for their actions. SUPER EMPATH VS A GRANDIOS NARCISSIST
@bellerobinson55782 жыл бұрын
My sister ! Hurts me so much to finally realize that she has been this way all my life toward me. Don't understand why I have such a low self esteem . To this present day I am so useless no matter how much I try. And Yes I am feeling the hatred since I have been around my nieces lately.
@blkgm70052 жыл бұрын
Go to therapy. Yrs of abuse and trauma from family can reek so much havoc in yur life. I am doing it myself. It is a bit different than when you are in romantic relationships. Best decision in my life and mental well being! Good luck
@neena9202 Жыл бұрын
I can relate
@jimmygutierrez7708 Жыл бұрын
A narcissist destroyed my life
@NarutoUzumakiofficial Жыл бұрын
They did break me but i'm still alive somehow. It hurts so much. A lot in fact. i'm high sensitive so. I still have my real friends on my side. One day i know the narc will crumble. I just miss my friends but i think i did the right thing to make him hate me. I will never ever ditch somebody who needs a friend or love and he hated that
@pocahontas45832 жыл бұрын
He repeatedly brings up and gets angry that I moved out and was so calm about it. I had already shed my tears months before started my exit plan. By the time it was actually time to leave, it was a relief.
@latoriarichardson6754 Жыл бұрын
You are exactly correct about that! When a child of God is protected, they hate even more, but there's nothing they can do to "win" against God! 😄
@babytt84879 ай бұрын
Facts! Thats why God has his hands at destroying them.
@Yoshibelle6152 жыл бұрын
so true he says he hates me and i didn’t do anything to him lol
@yeswing102 жыл бұрын
Why do they hate us so much? Crazy! They never forgive, they are offended at everything.
@user-yq3oc9gy3h10 ай бұрын
Woooooow that's beyond comprehensive craziness .. just mind-blowing how they can't move on.... They have to win at all costs.
@k.g.m.2542 жыл бұрын
This explains a LOT
@QueenBeeDigital2 жыл бұрын
Yes and now he’s threatening my life… mine is not only a Narcissist, he has secondary psychopathic straights 😩
@trentonthompson3711 Жыл бұрын
This narcissistic female was gaslighting me by taking me passes to suck me off, but then put boundaries on intimacy. Call ing me out of my name, calling me stupid ,Slow, ect. She even brang her mother on a date, set for me and her two kids at the beach, and I had to pay for her mother's dinner. And her mom never said thank you. This female the was calling her girl friend telling her about my man hood. She was taking me to all these outside places to pro-form fellatio on me, but had her own apt. I figured that she does this with alot of guy,s and said to her you acting like a ass whole she took it as I called her a whore, I then really called her a bitch because she was truly pissing me off.
@courtneyawalsh Жыл бұрын
The death threats are the ultimate red flag that they literally hate you. After enough of that I was like: “Ok, tough guy…kill me or don’t…I’m not gonna not live my life cuz you are a bigscared manbaby who has to bully or intimidate”… and then he seethes & tantrums when he cannot control me. It is scary and weird and awful until you take your power back realizing anyone who does that is very weak and very lost.
@rhondawentzell69592 жыл бұрын
I’m going through the smear campaign that went to my professional association. I am working with a lawyer
@joedavis4150 Жыл бұрын
... I agree... and keep in mind that the narcissist is not only the individual. It is definitely also the government.
@pwm48510 ай бұрын
True words Jill! My brother and ex wife both failed to destroy me, and they both H A T E my guts - 😂 Needless to say I went into that WONDERFUL mode called "NO CONTACT"!! Love your videos! ❤