Gary Chapman-Author-Conference Speaker Book: "This I Wish I'd Known Before I Got Married" To Get Your Copy: www.crossroads.... www.garychapman.org
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@amoghkurian5 жыл бұрын
1. Understand their love language ( what they want) 2. Know their family 3. Intellectual connection 4. Don't break God's laws Thank you Dr Chapman...
@acharich5 жыл бұрын
🎯🎯🎯
@artistli80365 жыл бұрын
*plays tiny violin*
@scratchy2714 жыл бұрын
Bless him and his marriage. Bottom line , a man wants to feel respected and a woman wants to feel cherished.
@Ascension10044 жыл бұрын
We want to feel respected as well ☺️
@scratchy2714 жыл бұрын
@@Ascension1004 Yes indeed:)
@Health_Is_Wealth_Media4 жыл бұрын
Bottom line. If a woman feels cherished she is in essence respected.
@scratchy2714 жыл бұрын
@@Health_Is_Wealth_Media Well....yes. lol. This whole thing is like what comes first the chicken or the egg. Lol. Both respect and cherish are kind of the same thing:)
@mandysimmons27694 жыл бұрын
ur wife ( or future wife will be ) is blessed.
@yemuraimombeshora60585 жыл бұрын
For you to learn your partner it requires HONESTY of who we are from both parties. Don’t hide who you are in an effort to please the other because once in marriage, the real you will always come out.
@ConversationswithJRFloyd4 жыл бұрын
Truth. My Ex hide who he truly was. He presented me with who he wanted me to see. Slowly as we were planning the wedding he start to show me his true self. I go out of the engagement because he wanted to hold me back from being a progressive person.
@dwain201114 жыл бұрын
So true I went thru that bs
@DianeHampson4 жыл бұрын
MOST people don't care enough to be honest. It's about validation from everyone around you not love.
@daniellamoreno36164 жыл бұрын
I agree.
@SunnySummer7774 жыл бұрын
@M m right?!?! I agree! Whoo!
@olajide.o4 жыл бұрын
"You cannot simulate marriage; marriage is a commitment, not contract..."
@BurdenofTheMighty4 жыл бұрын
Oh hohoho that’s where you’re wrong me friend. You have not been married yet apperantly, because the family court system is the most one-sided mouth destroying curb stomp you will ever suffer in your existence of a man.
@INXS-4 жыл бұрын
It's actually both!
@alfredmafokwana88484 жыл бұрын
U crazy bro it is a contract u will find out when u divorce
@Jenascorner_leapyr244 жыл бұрын
Olajide O. Amen 🙏
@deficator7504 жыл бұрын
Govt: no its a contract. See you in court
@indakgalak5 жыл бұрын
"Some are Sunday morning Christians, some are daily devotional Christians..." AMEN 🙌🏻
@annedesousa56425 жыл бұрын
Eye opening.. amen
@acharich5 жыл бұрын
💣👨🏾🔬
@continuousself-improvement18795 жыл бұрын
51 years being married? Damn. He looks young. Bless him and his family.
@recabitejehonadab26545 жыл бұрын
Continuous Self-Improvement dyes his hair.
@elainejoycef5 жыл бұрын
@rayjgu3 Was that serious? Who gets married at 9?
@jneptune15404 жыл бұрын
Yes true, but divorce is no longer a bad sin. It’s a bib
@FUNNYMANERICWHITE4 жыл бұрын
Yeah..young enough to be my great great grand father
@orgami1004 жыл бұрын
For 50 years of marriage he must said Yes dear at least 100000 *
@pagogo844 жыл бұрын
Here's my two pence: Since nobody is perfect, perfection is not and should never be the point. Therefore, before getting married (1) be ready in yourself to simply make a commitment, (2) be mature enough in yourself to have impulse-control. THAT'S IT. FOR THE REST, YOU JUST GOTTA DO YOUR BEST.
@emetella5 жыл бұрын
How do u manage anger? How do u process pain? ..... Very important questions u need answers to before marriage. Saves u from being a victim of murder
@ahd2005 жыл бұрын
Lol
@marlainaluvslocs47295 жыл бұрын
emetella exactly!
@Jadedyxy5 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@101officialgirl5 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 I’m saying
@holdingmytongue55085 жыл бұрын
You should know.. You know how to dish it out... I don’t think that’s very Godly btw..
@RealwithAida4 жыл бұрын
What I learned. Don’t depend on your spouse for love. They are human and will inevitably fail you. God should be your SOURCE of love that will never fail, deny, or reject you.
@kpthenut14 жыл бұрын
Alexandra that is what i realised also! I love my husband but despite reading the 5 Love languages he still doesn’t use that knowledge. I have had to accept that he is an act of service guy and that’s how he loves me.
@museenergy4 жыл бұрын
This woman is such a good interviewer! This video was both informative, engaging, and fun to watch in a way. She covered so many parts of the book also, I loved this.
@michaelsorrell6014 жыл бұрын
LOVE IS STAYING, WHEN YOU DONT HAVE TO.
@YoBro-np7xt4 жыл бұрын
Love is leaving, when a man can't fix a spouse full of hate.
@MegaKarume6 жыл бұрын
Dr. Chapman has good energy. I feel good watching and listening to him. Thank you Doctor.
@m_soko5 жыл бұрын
Yeah cause young marriage and pre-matirial marriage minus a pervert makes a difference🙄
@anthonymccoy77114 жыл бұрын
He has been baptized with spirit and fire. The eyes and energy are a dead give away.
@MegaKarume4 жыл бұрын
@@anthonymccoy7711 Well, I understand that. I think we just differ in terminologies where one is religious and other is kind of scientific...
@anthonymccoy77114 жыл бұрын
@@MegaKarume No, I meant both. I know that energy. Like a kid knows his/ her parent car.
@whosacheeky6 жыл бұрын
Definitely taking heed... I'm 24.. Trusting god for that right person... Only he knows who's perfect for me.
@selormvital99825 жыл бұрын
Hello .. cici, I'm interested to know you more... my name is Selorm
@Deborah-go3kh5 жыл бұрын
Amen
@Kelvinomix5 жыл бұрын
hello Cici... the good lord will meet you at the point of your need...
@kitteekittee40105 жыл бұрын
Amen
@yoliefrancisco31145 жыл бұрын
Kris Shaw yep. There's no such thing as perfect person for you. U just gotta adjust yourself to them.
@godlovescouture86055 жыл бұрын
I think living together takes something away (diminishes) from marriage...To me, its'what makes the beginning of marriage exciting and unfolding. I was 23 and did it before I was christian..By the time we married, I wasn't really excited...think women see it as one step closer to altar. But wouldn't it be better, if the guy proposed beforehand to say, your worth it...Not let me try you out.
@curlyriri10415 жыл бұрын
Wow That's how we do it in our culture
@acharich5 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯
@bongu3894 жыл бұрын
Had a guy I loved to bits and pieces but when he 'proposed' to move in don't know why I wasn't excited. I ended that relationship
@IKnowSomeToughGirls4 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you! That's why I refuse to live with my boyfriend until we're married. Thanks for sharing that!
@davidrodgers95584 жыл бұрын
So why do men have make womens live exciting all the time .. Gets old .. Ill never marry again.. To much work to make a modern woman happy
@yahuahsgirl5 жыл бұрын
My favorite phrase Gary used was, "I was blown out of the saddle!!!" at around the 6:20 mark. Very insightful and helpful video. Definitely going to read your book. Just had my heart broken recently and I decided I needed to focus on being there bride of Christ before being the bride of a man and this video was exactly what I needed to watch today. ♥️🙏🏼
@acharich5 жыл бұрын
🔥🔥🔥
@indym3755 жыл бұрын
Marriage YOU CAN NOT BE SELFISH ! AND NEED TO BE TRULY READY AND HAVE SELF CONTROL ON EVERYTHING YOU DO
@rogbulu86705 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. When I got married, I must confess that I didn’t know how to be married
@thomasjust26634 жыл бұрын
Correct, but that's stuff is easier said than done
@justtam3215 жыл бұрын
I read this book before marrying my husband. I love it. It's certainly affective.
@fatimafarooq47875 жыл бұрын
What’s the name of the book?
@dorovahkiin5 жыл бұрын
@@fatimafarooq4787 This I Wish I'd Known Before I Got Married by Gary Chapman
@acharich5 жыл бұрын
💣💣💣
@see_the_journey7 жыл бұрын
Its so Interesting to hear about his personal experience in his marriage - and what had to change
@rebeccabamber21394 жыл бұрын
I have read this book and it is amazing!! This video doesn't even scratch the surface of the amazing content of this wisdom-filled book. For those of you trying to sum it up in a cutesy little quote, that's nice, but there isn't a magical quote that will help you through your marriage. This book contains practical advice that will help you prevent conflicts and reduce escalation and I highly recommend it to absolutely everyone.
@Deborah-go3kh5 жыл бұрын
The best thing is to pray for God to send you the right mate of His choosing and follow the leading of the Holy Spirit rather than your own flesh.
@ameliapetterway40575 жыл бұрын
Amen
@lisaphillips99915 жыл бұрын
Deborah Reece thank you sis i totally agree with that! 💜
@sonofhibbs44255 жыл бұрын
Yes, amen.
@freemanontheland5075 жыл бұрын
Islam The Natural Way...
@ashormanoofficial5 жыл бұрын
Amen
@johncousins46654 жыл бұрын
That is all common sense to anyone that is even slightly intelligent, however some people might need this. Thankyou for your video.
@famelitech5 жыл бұрын
Just be good friends, love God and be real.
@michaelogunnowo60675 жыл бұрын
Romantic love doesn't sustain a relationship. It's temporary and euphoric. Learn to speak each other's love language. What makes one person feel loved doesn't necessarily make the other person feel loved. To a lady, telling her you love her might not mean anything unless you help her out whenever she's in need. Get to know his or her family members, you're likely going to have them in your life for live. Such an insightful video.... It blew me out of the saddle.
@dbkyhere92294 жыл бұрын
Wait for the right person, preparing yourself to be the right person also. It’s not always finding the right person, but being the right person.
@kawsermamun9013 жыл бұрын
Love you
@lesegotshegare22935 жыл бұрын
He sounds exactly like his audio book, exactly! He's such a wise man with great insight❣
@katherinetutschek47573 жыл бұрын
I agree w the family part. Family shouldn't be the only reason you do/don't get married, but fitting in with each others' family makes a huge, huge difference. Also look at whether or not your spouse stands up for you in front of their family, or lets them run the show.
@user-xm5le5ok2r5 жыл бұрын
I wish I’d NEVER got married. People in the church pushed me to get married to relieve their conscience of me being the pastors son. I was supposed to be married and not single. Had I known what I know now I would had stayed away from church until I was more sure of who I was.
@ehhhh45155 жыл бұрын
Go get counseling. Get to know the Bible for yourself and work on knowing yourself.
@acharich5 жыл бұрын
Wow, James 1:5.. 🙏🏾
@nosiphovalentinemajola88305 жыл бұрын
So sad. Church does that
@reikaratnam5 жыл бұрын
Who’s still not heard of the many scandals that churches and other places of ‘worship’ are constantly trying to cover up?
@droopypie5 жыл бұрын
How can anyone "push" you to do anything?
@tawanacalamari57125 жыл бұрын
You better find out about that family ,listen to that ,people, I mean it!!!!!!
@ladidodi89125 жыл бұрын
🗣Say it louder for the saints in the back!!!
@elkariis5 жыл бұрын
Very important!!!!!
@gretabridges33645 жыл бұрын
Meaning= the apple doesn't fall to far from the tree. Repeated patterns & habits of that family
@tustack005 жыл бұрын
iving together before marriage is a definite NO NO! RIGHT ON Doctor Chapman.!
@harmonicabraceforguitar15235 жыл бұрын
I heard a preacher say to a couple who wanted to get married. He told them they would have to wallpaper his kitchen. He said that if you are both still friends after you finish the job then I will marry you all.
@charlotteskiftun7535 жыл бұрын
Excellant advice
@adeoyeayodele99147 жыл бұрын
marriage starts with trusting God .
@isnowflakee6 жыл бұрын
It starts with trusting in eachother, and loving eachother
@jab71686 жыл бұрын
And it ends with his wrath mightily smiting thee in family court.
@spimentel5626 жыл бұрын
The first time I hear my man saying god, you know there'll be no ain't marriage at all. Move along now.
@bitTorrenter5 жыл бұрын
"God created sex. Priests created marriage." - Voltaire
@patricemarie29605 жыл бұрын
I AGREE! ..... THE RIGHT POSITIVE "INTENTIONS" ...... IN THE RELATIONSHIP ...... ARE MAJORLY IMPORTANT ..... TOO!
@Megdracula3 жыл бұрын
I’ve been with my husband 8 years and married almost 3, I still feel a spark excitement and desire and I love that man so much.
@marilynd6775 жыл бұрын
People often give up before they get started. The average life span of the obsession is 2 yrs. We have to speak each other's love language. What is she / he into? Golf widow How do u process pain? 20 yr research shows divorce rate HIGHER for those who lived together before getting married: not logical
@phloridababe6 жыл бұрын
He’s SO RIGHT about living together first. Even after the vows, the original agreement of just cohabitation seems to linger on.
@sandraalmanza23995 жыл бұрын
phloridababe He never said living together first...
@acharich5 жыл бұрын
@@sandraalmanza2399 She meant about _not_ living together first..
@texresident70264 жыл бұрын
Most people need to get married and raise a family. Not everybody, but most people do. I love coming home to peace and quiet; I couldn't have that if I'm married. I already have two sides of a family; I don't want two more. I was raised in a family and I'm still taking a break from that. I know how to be miserable all by myself and at a much cheaper rate than two people miserable together. I can deal with the disadvantages of being single better than I can deal with the disadvantages of being married. I like spending time at a library or museum or taking a short road trip and/or getting my news fix or youtube channels dealing with economics or cars. I don't care about living in a house, I'm not that talkative in addition to being a total introvert as well as probably having asperger's. Most normally socially developed people should spend the time and effort to find the right person to marry and work at it for the rest of their lives. I've heard it can be extremely fulfilling.
@Jarlem5 жыл бұрын
Wow, I went on my 1st date last weekend and we already discussed all the important questions... it just came naturally to us. Very imformative and a comfortable conversation in the least.
@JULYXXIV4 жыл бұрын
After ONE date? Run. Don’t look back, just RUN!!
@j.rjunior55842 жыл бұрын
@@JULYXXIV what? Lol
@anewloveofficial91375 жыл бұрын
I guess it's okay if we don't have enough plan about everything because marriage is not all about the happy moments that you've shared together, but it's all about how you face all the trials and challenges that you've encountered and learned from all the mistakes that you had.
@amberwhite15305 жыл бұрын
He’s so right about it all!!!
@wendyraymond85445 жыл бұрын
Sunday morning Christians and daily devotional Christians is the difference between Christians and Christ followers. Great advice! Marriage is hard don’t let people lie to you and say it’s not!
@0wenfox7 жыл бұрын
superb video. this is helping me, esp the part about becoming a student of your partner and learning their love languages. thank you and shared to show my appreciation
@YAHWILLREDEEM5 жыл бұрын
The issue is if you marry in that 1st romantic phase < less than 2 years, it will not matter what the family does and their level of dysfunction because at that point it will only be ignored because of the deep and strong emotions. After the high wears off, then it will become a problem (you know the issue with that person and their family members! Good discussion!
@acharich5 жыл бұрын
😅😅😅
@Lindathemightywitch6 жыл бұрын
"Maybe that is why we are more successful in our vocations than in our marriage" A couple reasons: 1-Your marriage doesn't pay your bills. 2. You can please more than just one person but a whole team! 3- Usually (if you are indeed sucessful) in your workplace, then you are doing something right with your vocation. 4- People have no choice but to cooperate at a business otherwise, no paychecks!
@acharich5 жыл бұрын
Mmm.. 💭💭💭
@LoveBeyondTheSea6 жыл бұрын
A person should learn as much as they possibly can about marriage before they get married. What the Bible says primarily, and from experts like this man. My wife and I were married in less than eight weeks and hadn't even met before I got on the plane to meet her for the wedding thousands of miles away, different cultures, much different ages and are going strong over three years. I read this man's book a long time ago and loved it and think about it to this day. Like him, I need words of affirmation to feel loved.
@jab71686 жыл бұрын
Wow. 3 years.
@LoveBeyondTheSea6 жыл бұрын
jab7168 3 happy years. Filipina Fever-catch it!
@thellytholdtheathellth52785 жыл бұрын
@@jab7168 LOL
@Jadedyxy5 жыл бұрын
Sometimes perseverance is key and if both parties are willing to let down their egos, anything is possible
@Adrenalean7675 жыл бұрын
Jesus's disciples knew about marriage, and they said hey"let's not get married " lol
@vineninja58825 жыл бұрын
"You can not simulate marriage". WOW!!!!!! 🤔
@lorenzodeblock4 жыл бұрын
Good man who passes on his life experience and telling that marriage isn’t a party with only happiness.
@shade83465 жыл бұрын
Your book, "the things I wish I'd known before getting married" makes so much sense. I love every single letter of that book. Thank you so much for writing that book sir.
@ravindrakumarjks20712 жыл бұрын
So blessed to have read your book doctor. My wife and I use your insights in our pre marriage counselling sessions with our counselees. God bless you richly to bless many all over the world. We are from Sri Lanka
@demimiller7942 жыл бұрын
Such a great and enthusiastic interviewer.
@thatswhatnicksaid5 жыл бұрын
I'm not Christian, but this is amazing
@ebnest1235 жыл бұрын
thatswhatnicksaid not to pressure you or anything but you should read the book of John in the Bible
@FendiYT4 жыл бұрын
Find Christ for he loves you Nd could wipe away your problems
@diamondunicorn24215 жыл бұрын
Ask yourself these two questions.. Why get married? Why involve the law in your love?
@infinity4evr5 жыл бұрын
She affirmed him at the end. That was sweet.
@Urianawoedem76696 жыл бұрын
it was in this book I saw the *Five love languages* bless you for that
@marspuppy.m5 жыл бұрын
*If you break God's Laws, they will break you* _You cannot simulate a marriage_ 😳🙌🙏❤️
@bryantlong65224 жыл бұрын
Marriage is vile and disgusting
@hienienguyen67665 жыл бұрын
Yeah that is so true . Ppl give up way too easily in the early ages.
@whiskywillie5 жыл бұрын
Wife to husband: You are selfish and centric. Husband to wife: You are selfish and centric. Compatibility at its best🤓
@j.rjunior55842 жыл бұрын
Lmfaoo 😂
@FunintheSun8135 жыл бұрын
I am going to learn and prepare more for marriage. Great advice😊
@marylouponte45266 ай бұрын
Very nice advice from Dr. Gary Chapman.. I just saw this video and it's really helpful and insightful. I learned a lot and such a soft spoken voice with great wisdom about marriage life.🙏😇😊 Thank God for this man.
@faliciarisaac14282 жыл бұрын
Exactly, the high of just dating (not to mention marriage) don't last no more than 2 yrs...but if two people learn each other AFTER learning themselves somewhat with the help of God of course...I believe relationships period would go pass the "in love stage"...my view!!! I've learned to love and appreciate me now. I haven't dated for yrs but I'm sharing this to inspire people to self love and just getting to know self first.
@djouwairiatmohamed73035 жыл бұрын
I already read one of his book the 5 language of love !! One of my favorite book 😄🙂
@Womenswell0225 жыл бұрын
You cannot simulate marriage...
@xXEliminatorXx995 жыл бұрын
you won't. But you can predict it according to your & your partners character & behaviour. Date for 2 or 3 years before getting married.
@colourfulkenyan93625 жыл бұрын
That touched me real deep..
@BobBob-uv9fq3 жыл бұрын
Was it wrong of me not to get married but just enjoy my life
@ellerocvisionz5 жыл бұрын
If you love me why won’t you help me and be there for me don’t just tell me .... this
@jeffreystern58864 жыл бұрын
Apparently he's not heard of divorce court, family court, no fault divorce, and feminism.
@jeffreystern58864 жыл бұрын
@Valiant Woman who picked those husbands?
@jeffreystern58864 жыл бұрын
@Valiant Woman Women are the ones who decide if a wedding takes place...just as women are the ones who decide if a birth takes place.
@jeffreystern58864 жыл бұрын
@Valiant Woman Agreed... but... if a man wants to marry and a woman does not... No wedding takes place. Just as if a woman wants to abort a pregnancy, but the man wants the child to be born... The abortion takes place. The woman always decides..
@JOHNSmith-zx3ln4 жыл бұрын
Men,don't get married,it is a con with a high chance of being trapped in a hamster wheel, supporting an ungrateful and lazy wife.
@conorm25244 жыл бұрын
@Valiant Woman The point here is how many times do women benefit from divorce compared to men? Women win all the prizes. No fault divorce and child custody laws are the reason marriage is actively discouraged. There is NO RISK for a woman to get married. Whereas the man risks everything. No thanks...
@thewatcher45525 жыл бұрын
WOW This was awesome been married for 15yrs October
not even married or close but this seems like common sense
@LMae-rj9qi5 жыл бұрын
I love Dr. Chapman's wisdom.
@lilianwanjiru55835 жыл бұрын
He's full of wisdom
@stephencoleman44246 жыл бұрын
Great video. My entire adult life has been centered around work and music. I don't follow sports, but I like the integrity of golf, would love to utilize this an occaisional outlet, nothing more.
@ashley717732 жыл бұрын
I recently got married at 20 years old. My husband and I had been dating for 5 years before we decided to get married. We recently bought his book!
@budgetingtowealth85904 жыл бұрын
Am 23 yet to date and get married. I jotted so many points.thanks for your words of wisdom.
@khenjuanico25405 жыл бұрын
Listen to the old ones. They know
@urbanvision43653 жыл бұрын
They lived in another era no social media and smartphones dating apps onlyfans...game has changed it's like using an outdated system for current issues won't work
@tlotlooepeng87215 жыл бұрын
love vs infatuation
@wondon59974 жыл бұрын
He is great role model. Love your books👍👍👍
@wendyloo46795 жыл бұрын
When we got married...move out like the 🐦 from the nest . We are adults...be independent. Built up your own family.( Not include your parents and siblings) From Malaysia 😎
@bunnyahw7015 жыл бұрын
You still need support from family. Not be COMPLETELY disconnected from your family
@lesliemoore26444 жыл бұрын
Leave and cleave
@lemostjoyousrenegade3 жыл бұрын
Exactly. And it’s especially important to do so when family of origins are extremely dysfunctional and toxic - unkind, abusive, filled with narcissists.
@dennis18028 жыл бұрын
thanks for the lessons, im happy i vieuwed it :)
@christopherblackhall28328 жыл бұрын
Trump 2016
@prashanthb65217 жыл бұрын
Very good info. Thank you.
@JasJinCebuMD5 жыл бұрын
A wonderful message for marriage. Marriage is a commitment and full of trust to God completely, because marriage have lots of ups and down. But if you married your bestfriend and also be your husband or wife, its really a gift. Cherish her or him and never giveup! May God bless all the marriages!!!
@Arkady1987depo5 жыл бұрын
I have really enjoyed your discussion. Thanks
@bartle91906 жыл бұрын
*how the heck did KZfaq take me here I’m not even old enough for dating*
@mimiaria72115 жыл бұрын
😂
@farahzahra225 жыл бұрын
Good for your development
@omeatai5 жыл бұрын
Looool
@u1594115 жыл бұрын
Like he said, you need to start preparing NOW! Lol
@acharich5 жыл бұрын
To prepare u early, like he said.. 😂🙏🏾
@rohmasuku91855 жыл бұрын
Wow this is really eye opening.Thank you Gary
@godlovescouture86055 жыл бұрын
I see living together and elopement kinda the same way....How you do anything, is how you do everything....You need blessing from family...Running off is a red flag..just sayin
@rassiamelo60765 жыл бұрын
Truth. Living together is not marriage. You have to take the plunge.
@michaelsorrell6014 жыл бұрын
Married my 15yr bride, 45 years and 3 children ago.
@wshelby836 жыл бұрын
This was very interesting to listen to. Great interview.
@karim-a74695 жыл бұрын
Excellent content. Excellent interviewing skills as well.
@schmingusss4 жыл бұрын
She is a very attractive older woman
@fjb49324 жыл бұрын
Goorie Henkel You must be younger than she ...
@schmingusss4 жыл бұрын
@@fjb4932 Yes, hence the "older" adjective. You are a sharp one Frank.
@claudiapennisi79873 жыл бұрын
One of the elements of my love language for my husband was preparing tasty and nutritious meals I knew he enjoyed..and he did! Imagine my shock when one day he threw it in my face that being a good wife was not just cooking for him..we are in an informal separation for the last four years. Basically means he doesn't give me any support financially and is living a single life again. I am working on a formal separation to change this..wish I had seen the signs that he was the biggest narcisist ever 😭
@DarkMagicianMana6 жыл бұрын
8 years and my hubby and I have never argue. New generation perhaps?
@phloridababe6 жыл бұрын
I’ve thought for a long time that if someone doesn’t argue, it’s because they don’t care enough to argue. You’re very lucky to be so attune to your partner!!!!
@tawanacalamari57125 жыл бұрын
Lol alot of bull shit in your marriage ....is all I read
@tawanacalamari57125 жыл бұрын
Lies lies lies
@DarkMagicianMana5 жыл бұрын
@@tawanacalamari5712 Sorry you have such a sad life, maybe one day you will find happiness. Have some hope, it won't hurt.
@tawanacalamari57125 жыл бұрын
@@DarkMagicianMana yeah and you and your husband can keep bullshiting each other about what a perfect little life you created,the last person that gave that bs statement got divorced and the wife filed,mentioning abuse, so please lie to yourself ......the rest of us don't believe what you wrote.
@renostubbs85045 жыл бұрын
I agree with allnthe gentleman said on living together before marriage. Dangerous
@Centurion101B3C3 жыл бұрын
Hm, I got married with the woman that I have known for 50 years and there's not been a day that I haven't discovered something new in our dynamics that has not deepened our relationship.
@LoveLife-ry5mm3 жыл бұрын
Hey, do you wish to get your ex back or restore someone you love ? if yes then l'd like to recommend you to a love specialist who brought my ex back
@keenanhenderson80435 жыл бұрын
Understanding that each person love language is different
@ledzarulje5 жыл бұрын
So for him it is just about making woman happy if you want to have a happy life
@apriltowers785 жыл бұрын
He talks to women about making their husbands happy too!!
@johop14962 жыл бұрын
This man is a genius in marriage counseling
@prosperntiri5 жыл бұрын
Great piece
@abishagwambui84125 жыл бұрын
What really caught me off guard was the bit that marriage cannot be simulated. Wow! I'd never looked at it like that.
@j.rjunior55842 жыл бұрын
I don't get it, can you explain it please? Lol
@annabella23695 жыл бұрын
Important information given. I appreciate it, I would really like to get married one day.
@no_prisoners64744 жыл бұрын
If you break God’s laws they will break you 🙌🏾🙌🏾
@patricemarie29605 жыл бұрын
SAGE ADVICE ..... RIGHT HERE! THANK YOU MR. GARY CHAPMAN! ...... GOD BLESS YOU!