“She’s not wearing makeup or anything!” “Sorry, I‘ll put some chapstick on.” That’s a mood in my opinion lol

Me: searches up gender fluid Search results: mostly cringe compilations Me: *sad identity questioning person noises*

“yes i’m a boy... sometimes” SAME THO

"wibbly wobbly gendery wendery" I wonder where I've heard something similar... *cough* Doctor Who *cough*

i'm gender-fluid and so is my SO and one time people gave us weird looks in public so we just started making bird noises to weird them out it was great

“Spiritual gender like: Heyy~ I’m none of these things~” *Hand Motions*

Am I crying because I finally understand my genderidentity? I always thought I was kinda weird because I just feel like a boy sometimes, and some days like nothing at all. Thank you so much for this Video! It helped me understand this whole thing so much! Also: Happy Pride Month!!

I know what he is trying to get at. As someone who studies sociology, he is correct to say that gender is not biological. It is socially taught. When we think of gender, we mean the behaviors that are associated with a sex, sex being the physical reproductive organs we were born with (or weren't born with). We are essentially told to play a role from the day we are born. You *act* like a girl or boy, but what makes a girl or a boy is not the same person to person or culture to culture. It is very much a spectrum and not concrete. This is why people can sometimes feel like they want to play the role of a man, or play the role of a woman- thus, genderfluidty.

I literally typed "genderfluid" into KZfaq and 95% of the results were people explaining why it doesn't exist and "genderfluid cringe compilations", what the f is wrong with people.

Oh my god, thank the gods for you. You have saved my life. I'm struggling with my gender right now, and I seriously needed this to help me figure out my weird ass self. I'm seriously crying over this. I feel so odd, and I'm glad to know I'm finely not alone.

Taps on video, already in love with your face

I have come to the conclusion that people who don't believe that Genderqueerness exists seem to seek out videos on it and actively make fun of it / tell everyone how Wrong that is. what r u doin, that wastes so much of everyone's time

My first thought after clicking the thumbnail: "I like your hair." P.S. I'm genderfluid too.

Everytime someone says, "GeNdErFuIdItY iSnT sCiEnTiFicLy ReAl," I loose a good 20 years of my life.

I’m so thankful that I realized that I’m genderfluid at a fairly young age (13). But it also has made it a lot more difficult to feel accepted and understood. I feel a lot of the time that I’m the only person like myself on the planet, and that it’s useless to try and explain my gender identity because it’s too difficult for anyone else to understand. Seeing even one person out there who I know is like me gives me immeasurable hope. I know that this was intended to educate non-genderfluid people about us, but you’ve also helped me and other genderfluid people retain hope 💛 keep bein you, friend

Me: Okay, let’s see what gender I am today! Me: *looks inside myself* Inside myself: *banshee screaming* Me: Okay, I’m human today.

These comments are just stupid, why do people get angry over an innocent video? Not to mention the fact that someone's gender and how they feel does not effect you in the slightest, if you don't think that me being genderfluid is valid then fine, but it's my life and I want to enjoy it before I'm a rotten corpse.

Oh gosh, I know this was posted long ago but still... What a toxic comment section 😐. Thank you for this explanation AND including Aces in the LGBTQ+ acronym 😀

As a gender fluid potato myself, I approve 100% on this explanation. I agreed on everything you touched on. Keep making awesome videos😆

Im nonbinary and wanting to make a genderfluid character in my writing. I had a basic idea of what genderfluid but your personal experience has been a big help!

"Come with me and you'll be in a world of pure imagination." - Willy Wonka

I found out I was gender-fluid around a month ago and I told my friends yesterday! It went amazing, lots of stress taken off my shoulders... Now I have to find a reason to cut my hair short without my parents thinking I'm trans and them disowning me... [They're very serious Christians...]

Thank you, and can I just say that your really pretty or handsome either way you look and it's really cool that you crossdress because it seems so natural to you! Thank you again

You are amazing and beautiful and I'm proud of you! You really helped me to see and understand my 13 year old son that recently told us he is gay and now gender fluid. I can't thank you enough for being a beacon in the night for young men and women trying to find who they are and their place in the world!

I declare myself as genderfluid bisexual. Sometimes I feel more like a boy and sometimes I feel more like a girl, more often then not, I just kinda mix it. It's that simple for me now, but it took months for me to fully accept my true self and be happy

Nah there's only two genders.

People react in anger and hate due solely to FEAR. Fear generated from the lack of understanding of the next person and this due solely to a total lack of understanding and security of self.

At first I was a huge "Only two genders" thinker. But actually, after watching this, you didn't turn it into a rant or anything. You stuck to it being calm, and you explained it in a way I could get around to understanding it in my own way. I personally have been questioning for a little while if I may be gender fluid or not. Or perhaps- some other gender on the spectrum like genderfluid? I don't go in between feeling 100% male one day and 100% female the next. I just- I am completely comfortable with being biologically female. But like- I've also been a /huge/ tomboy almost my entire life. Since I was like 2. But like- I dress like a girl /sometimes/ and act like a girl. And I'm completely fine with it. But also- I most of the time dress like a guy but feel completely comfortable being a girl. But then there's times where I go weeks on end hating being a female and actually getting to the point where I contemplate suicide because I can never be biologically male. Then- there's times where I could care less and sometimes I even sort of drift off into "My gender means nothing no matter what and I'm just a human and nothing at all so who even cares" sort of thing. Would that just be classic tomboy behavior? Genderfluid? Bigender? Agender? A mix of all three? I just- I'm kinda confused more or less now, but I kinda can stretch and make more room for exception after watching this. People for months have been trying to convince me "There's more than two!" And I never listened because I always thought- based on my christian belief mostly (I'm sorry for being religion into this) that- in my belief- God made man and woman. Not anything else. So how could there be more than two? But like- at this point, after you explained gender being a spectrum, being calm about it, and this and that- I get it. Seriously- thank you. I don't know if you'll see my comment or not, but /if/ you happen to, or someone else who understands this subject more than I do currently- read back on my issues about my whole feelings on my own gender and give me some advise? Thanks

I think i can identify as a genderfluid one, but there is something that i can't understand. Does the gender j'm attracted change as the gender i feel changes? Is right to feel a gay man sometimes and a straight girl other days?

Kids in Africa could've eaten all those genders

I came here because of a book I’m reading by Jeff Garvin called Symptoms of Being Human and it’s about a girl who is gender fluid. And like you said in your video, “Sometimes you wake up wanting to be masculine or feminine and sometimes it’s in between.” That’s what she said in the story. I just wanted to learn more about it 🙂❤️

THANKYOU for saying the A is for asexual 👏🏻👏🏻 glad someone knows what they’re talking about, also thanks for helping me on my journey to figure out if I’m gender fluid or not :,)

i hate the world we live in. there isn't one supportive or positive comment. not one. i couldn't scroll any longer because i couldn't handle the bigots. i'm very sorry you have to go through all the negativity, and i support you fully. 😊

I was zoning out for a moment but when you made that doctor who quote I just went 0U0

omg, i absolutely love the doctor who referance!!!

Love Love Love your dude side! Did you notice? your boy is in this video is also androginous and is wearing shoes told to be feminine! Which is awesome! Absolute love the talk. I'm going through this huge phase of discovery here Thanks for spaeking out!

DOCTOR WHO REFERENCE - I love you

I'm actually obsessed with the fact that you made a Doctor Who reference.

living for the doctor who reference😂😂"timey-wimey" "gendery-wendery"

Why are you reading the comment section? Save your brain cells.

Below and above this comment there are a bunch of haters.

I'm gender fluid and I read some of the comments and I'm just wondering why people get so angry. Like first off you clicked on the video and second why does their gender offend you so much? and also why do you say I'm gonna be some inanimate object...were people...were not trying to pass as microwaves

I change like every 5 minutes XD

Everyone who is leaving nasty comments is ignorant. Not becuase they dont accept this idea... but becuase they fundamentally dont understand the difference between sex and gender. Sex is the parts you were born with. So yes, if you have a penis you're a male. If you have a vagina, you're a female. Everyone leaving comments has been very vocal about this and they are true. However, where they fail to comprehend is when the idea of gender is brought up. Gender is how you express yourself. For example, a person can have a penis and act feminine. Gender has been socially constructed within human society and is sooooo complex; which is where the spectrum from 1-10 comes in. Overall, people need to understand the difference between sex, gender, and sexuality before they voice their opinion!!!

Did you make a Doctor Who reference there? Subtle nerdness is escaping. I approve. Shall we be nerd friends? Ya know whilst I'm here watching all of your videos 'cause ya know, I can.

"People think that gender is a strict progression of men and women but if you look at it from a non judgmental point of view its more like a big ball of genderywendery stuff" DOCTOR WHO REFERANCE

I came out as gender fluid recently and I felt I was lying, but this video makes me feel comfortable with who I truly am, thank you.

I love how expressive you are, it is comforting for me and helps so much in making me understand this! Thank you angel!

OH MY GOD I LOVE YOU BECAUSE OF THAT REFERENCE (and also because you are a great person)

"big ball of wibbly wobbly gendery wendery stuff" yess!!

The first time I heard gender-fluid I thought someone was talking about sperm. little did I know how crazy this stuff actually was

This is so many years late but I cried. I needed this. It was as if somebody said everything I needed to hear. Thank you.

Doctor Who reference! Yasss!!

So… this video was insanely helpful. I've been questioning about being gender fluid for a few months and have felt abnormal for quite a few years. Something about your definition just clicked, and now I can't stop smiling. So thank you for making this video, and keep being awesome.

Hi! Seadresa? This is; Magenta! after watching your video. I have a question? So my question is this; Can a gender fluid person, switch gender expressions from let's say; one moment to the next? An example; one moment while talking to a friend, I switch male expression to female expression at that moment! Which I do offen and more so when I'm hangout in gay clubs or the village in manhattan. Is this gender fluid or queerfluid? Or in order to be genderfluid you have to let a day go by before changing expressions? Thanks!

this video made me feel so at peace, it's like you're actually talking to me and it's the best video I could've asked for

I am personally a genderfluid as well, and thank you so much for making this video.

It took me 21 years to understand why sometimes I wake up and I want to dress like a man and sometimes I wanna look like the most delicate lady. For a moment (some years) I thought I could be homossexual, but I was sure I wasn't.... And I never felt like I should have surgery for extreme changes.. I've always been happy that I could look like both man and woman. So, what was that? Why do I never get offended when people say "Damn, you look like a boy in these clothes!" ?? Then, one day, during a conversation with a friend and a transgender in college I finally got it. They explained me the difference between the gender female I was born, my straight orientation, and my Genderfluidity!!!! I could never be happier! =D Tomorrow we will have the Parade here in Sao Paulo, Brasil. Unfortunately, It's not my day off from work, but next year, I will be there for sure

oh my gosh thank you so much but I do have one question. for anyone who is genderfluid or whatnot. I have long hair but I don't want to cut it but when I feel like being a male it just bothers me that I have my hair long even when I put in a man bun like it just makes me feel weird like ok I want to be a male today but like I want to "look" like a male with short hair . and I was thinking of just buying a somewhat natural wig but I'm just not sure? Any opinions? I'm open to any suggestions. thanks!

This helped me so much I am pretty sure I am genderfluid and please no one give me hate I am human and I can only take so much

Im confused..... How is "gender fluid" different from just cross dressing and wanting to have a name for it......

Dude, I'm Genderfluid too. I usually identify as male, but sometimes being a girl is my thing too. (I'm biologically female.) I've felt like this for as long as I can remember, and I regret nothing.~ Also it's a shame how Asexuality is often erased or forgotten in the LGBTQA+ community. I know plenty of asexuals and they are the chillest people I've met, no joke. (And there was this one time I kinda experienced myself what it's like to be Asexual and Aromantic, but it was because of an allergic reaction to Prozac. Not having boys, girls, and other hot people clouding my mind was really strange for me, but I didn't care at the time. It was kinda like a breath of fresh air, having my mind thinking about everything except infatuations and appearences, but at the same time for me it wasn't natural, so who knows XD.)

This really helped me understand more because well, my brother and I got into an argument on what genderfluidity was and even though it was only like a 2 minute, small, quiet, fight, (we weren't at each other's throats we were just disagreeing), it still got me wondering if I WAS using the correct term so I searched up genderfluid and this video popped up and once I clicked on it, watched the whole thing, I finally understood not only the whole "spectrum" thing but that I was also right about what I thought was the definition. And when I say ..." the whole "spectrum" thing", I well, I am actually not even a teenager (pls don't judge) so I didn't really know what the word itself meant but once I watched this video I understood and now I feel so much more confident in myself. Thank you! I feel so much more complete (even though I will never be ALL THE WAY complete, it still helps.)

I wish I had a video like this when I was struggling with my gender identity when I was younger, seeing this gives me a lot of hope for better understanding for the future. Thank you so much ❤

When the doctor who reference popped up at 1:20 I had a large af smile on my face straight away.

Thank you so much I am a closeted (to my family at least) gender fluid bisexual and I have no way to tell my family about anything of that so again thank you so much for this because I am planing to come out soon and show them so of these videos so I don’t have to explain much ❤️😁

Heyo! Do you personally use multiple sets of pronouns for when you're feeling different ways? I'm not sure if I'm genderfluid or binary trans and I've never tried using a different set of pronouns as my agab

Oh my god you are so positive and kind and the doctor who reference was amazing, I love your content

Wow, you are wonderful human being! You made me smile within seconds of starting the video! Much love to you. x

So my sister came out to our parents as gender-fluid today. My dad said "Shut the fuck up with your modern terms for made up bullshit" My dad is my role model

The Doctor Who reference at the beginning was a nice touch, great video :)

Thank you so much for making this video, I’m very lost in myself rn and you are helping me a lot. Ur cool

There's a gender for every phone Kevin gates has

As a non-binary myself, I totally agree with your fight. Words of wisdom

hi i really have a burning question ...does being gender fluid mean your sex organs change from day to day or you only retain one sxual organ since birth but your emotions are the ones that change?

this is the first video I've seen of you and I smashed the subscribed button the second you made the DW reference

Why do people hate so much on this?? It doesn't effect them in any way so why do they care?

The scariest thing is the locker room

Hey so I have a question bc I am rlly confused with something right now, so if I am genderfluid and like boys and girls am I then automatically pansexuall?

Love the Doctor Who references at the beginning! That totally worked for the video! Very apt analogy!

Loved the video! Really gives me hope for the world! Thank you!

So you switch genders WOAH that's cool

They're actually teaching me this in health class

Hey! I've been struggling with this for a while and this video finally put a name to it. Awesome! Thank you for making this.

you have such a mesmerizingly beautiful face ugh

All these rude disrespectful comments made me very upset :[ Im not anything on the lgbtqia list but i do consider myself an ally and i dont understand how people can be so hateful to other human beings. Just last week i was at a conference at Penn State and some lady in the back thought it was hilarious and a great thing that the percentage for the transgender suicide rate was high. Whats even worse is this woman was a schools guidance counselor or nurse, Can you imagine if that child teenager was getting bullied and needed her help? People need to educate themselves before they go bashing on other peoples ways of life.

I’ve been questioning my gender lately a lot, and your video has seriously helped me identify as gender fluid. Thank you so much.

This actually made me feel a lot better. I've been questioning what gender I identify as and this really helped. Thank you!

Okkay.. so you're probably never gonna read this but, eh i'm still gonna write my comment xD Thank you a lot, I mean, I already know i'm genderfluid and stuff, but I needed to find something to explain to this girl that I lost because of it... and to my mom too :/ (psss: you're really handsome and pretty by the way :3)

Thank u im a bi person and im young and im learning about the LGBTQ+ community and i wated to tank u for this video sombody said they were this and i didnt know what they mean but now i understand moree so thank u 💜💜💜

Thank u so much for making this video, I was feeling real sad because I'm conflicted about my gender and now I feel much better and understood by someone else! Thank u, have a nice life!

so, if I got this correct gender fluid is the thought process in which one sees their gender as something which has no actual definablity. but if that were the case then strictly speaking biologically, one would still be a male or female? from what I got from this video gender fluidity is more of a culture being created or a way of living verses one's sexuality or am I wrong?

DAT DOCTOR WHO REFERENCE DOE!!! Amiright????

Doesn’t gender fluidity reinforce gender stereotypes though? Just because some days you behave/feel/dress in a masculine way does not mean you are now male and same for feminine and female. Surely everyone should be able to be as masculine and feminine as they want without needing to change their pronouns constantly? Genuinely curious.

I am not hating what so ever but I'm wondering who came up with the names/ final definition of these genders/sexualities

Hello, hi. Sorry to ask but I'm creating a gender fluid character, do you mind if I run it past you just to ensure I have it right?

When you were naming the acronyms for LGBTQA I was like "please say asexual please don't say ally please please please" and then you said asexual and I legit did a fist pump and shouted FUCK YEAH

that awkward moment when you pause the video and laugh about how what the person is saying could be turned into a doctor who reference... then you unpause it then they actually make the reference XD btw, nice video! Defiantly helps to know there's other genderfluids out there, hehe ^-^

i didn't know what to call myself, so i went with agender. the omly guy looking clothes i have are jeans. like thats it. my mom knows im Pan, but im too scared to ask for some boy clothes. I have brothers but i wouldn't be able to fit his clothes. some days i feel pretty and girly, other days i feel rough and tough.i also want to cut my hair. any tips...

When I was panicking you were there. Thank you.