What's "masculine" to you? Let me know. But there's so much to say about gender roles in Japan. So if you learn more about this topic, you can find a lot of resources in Japanese. So if you want to learn Japanese with me, I can send you some Japanese lessons where I teach you the kind of Japanese that Japanese people actually speak. Click here and subscribe bit.ly/3nsJ4AU

Those two guys… you know who I’m talking about lol. Guess they exist in every country 😂

"They are going to censor this" Yuta: Nope, not at all✌️

Goal: be built like a Joestar.

The guy thinking he’s going to get censored is probably the best part of this video 😂😂

4:50 dude in the back seems pretty gentlemanly

When you hear western people talk about Japanese people it seems like they've never actually met a Japanese person. When you hear these Japanese people talk about Westerners it seems like they've never met a Westerner.

"They are going to censor this" Yuta: no, I don't think I will

"A man that pays right away" 😭😭 Bad beginning 😂

I find it kinda interesting how most men typically think of masculinity in terms of physical appearance, while most women typically think of it in terms of treatment of others.

Yuta I think I would want to see a video addressing the situation as to "Which gender is actually happier living in japan?" just to get a deeper view regarding this topic. It's because I've already seen countless videos about gender roles, but I genuinely have no idea which one of em's actually more depressed (Generally speaking, of course).

Be a man We must be swift as the coursing river Be a man With all the force of a great typhoon Be a man With all the strength of a raging fire Mysterious as the dark side of the moon

Being masculine in Japan: agreeing to let Kyuubey turn you into a mahou shoujo and fight witches by night while presenting a KZfaq channel by day

Of course not everybody would grasp the concept of being masculine, but its about how you were taught and how you want to execute it. Side note: lmao the guy behind the girls in 4:51 almost made me spill my tea.

4:50 the dude walking by lmao

Why does he talk about teaching me japanese like he's gonna sell my drugs

3:04 Jesus that was deep, don't put yourselves down kings

It's scary how the first woman Yuta interviewed immediately said masculine = tall & have a decent amount of money Those two guys with pen*s joke though, what a legend xD I don't think "Ladies first" is that common either many western countries, also I think Japanese people have more healthy diet & body than Americans (no offense for Americans) I guess *_the grass is always greener on the other side _*

Seems like most Japanese people conflate "masculinity" with "machismo". Big difference between the two. A man doesn't need to be physically macho to be masculine. Most of the time it's the confidence and how he carries himself, and I've seen many Japanese men who fit the bill.

The grass Is always greener on the other side of the fence...

Those two clowns are my spirit animal 😂 They'd fit in well here in America lol

I really like these videos where they interview people, and I watch Yuta's and another youtuber's about Japan. I noticed a lot of girls mention this "Ladiess first" thing. I guess they want Japanese men to be more gentleman like? It's interesting. I know some people here in Brazil that don't like the Ladies first thing, they think is sexist, but some really aprecciate. Culture difference is always fascinating .

I thought it was interesting that one of the women thought that being conscious of others around you is a more feminine-inclined way of thinking, I just see it as being polite. From my time in Japan though, I sometimes see/hear things that make me think masculinity = machoism (to an extent) to people here.

Speaking about masculinity I just realized Yuta has a lot of beard compared with his japanese peers.

I was kinda surprised when I went to Japan and my Japaense male friends didn't like body hair. I think body hair is super masculine in south asia and many western countries.

Masculine to me means, a man who understands who he is, what his morals and ethics are, and is not afraid to fight for what he believes in.

My heart broken when at 03:00 he said “including me”. I think he looks very masculine!

I'd love for you to go deeper into this topic! Whatever format you have to use, go for it!

Yuta-san, have you ever considered also putting Japanese subtitles in your videos? I love watching your content not only because I get to learn about Japan, but because I also hear Japanese people speaking real Japanese. I think subtitles would be really useful to many of us who are learning Japanese.

When one of those guys said, that Americans are cooler, in my mind appeared immediatelly: "You have no idea, how much cool you Japanese are." (That is my European opinion)

Very interesting video ! I'm feeling like the various answers are scratching the surface of something really interesting.

One of the best yet dude, keep´m coming

Awww the guy at 1:02 is just wholesome ^_^

Nice jump opening😏

This one was one of your most interesting surveys, imo.

I'm genuinely and pleasantly surprised with how honest people were in this interview.

1:11 "ChiNk0 dEKAi HiT0"

Guy in the Malibu shirt hit the nail on the head with his take at 1:49

its been months since ive watch yuta and my man appears smoother than ever

Totally agree with you, its very hard to show it of in this format as it's not this plain, but a nice try though. I like your vids and hope a lot more will come, and also hope to visit japan once more again soon.

Personally, I think Japanese men seem to have a very good sense of what is masculine, in that some I have met seem not afraid to embrace what in the west might be considered feminine. For example, interest in design and art and fashion and food. Here in the US often men (specifically straight guys) are not really given cultural license to express interest in things "feminine". Also, the focus on outward masculinity--sports/muscles/aggression often is put above the ability to have an interesting conversation. I like that you asked the strangers their opinion. And those d*ck guys are 😂

For me, masculinity equals the following (not necessarily in this order): 1) kind-hearted and caring 2) respectful and selfless 3) responsible 4) unafraid to show emotions to a significant other; has humility 5) cares for their health (mental and physical) 6) unafraid to admit they are afraid sometimes 7) passionate and focused 8) hardworking 9) an intellectual/critical thinker/philosophical/poetic 10) holds a positive outlook on life

I love the honesty.

I watched 5 of your interview videos so far and I noticed that Japanese really admire/idolize the westeners.

Great video, Yuta! I'm rather curious how different the responses would be if you were to have asked older people. I think my own views on masculinity and femininity have changed drastically as I've gotten older. At a certain point, none of it really matters.

Then thing is that masculine/feminine concept is really influenced by the society and the media. Something like "to be a man you have to look like this" or "to be a woman, you need to wear that". So in my opinion, this concept varies a lot depending on the culture and the location as well. If we take Japan only, would it be interesting to compare the opinion of people living in the countryside? In Tokyo ( and Shibuya in particular, where these interviews looks like to have been conducted ), there is a strong feeling of "showing the best image of yourself in public", something like "you need to follow the trend, so I think it's quite biased by the environment. Also, the age group of the interviewed people is important. What would be the outcome from elderlies? From 40's or 50's people? We need to take that into account as well, but that's an interesting topic. We should just keep in mind that the most important in life is to be yourself and not to be "what the society wants you to be". Have a good day ;)

This was a really good one! I've often wondered what people's perspectives about masculinity and femininity are like in Asia, most notably Japan. Here, in the States I feel like many kind of linger between masculine and feminine, with many saying they don't follow or fit gender roles or the behavior. However, there are still people who definitely fit one or the other. The guys talking about *ahem* trouser snake sizes was pure comedy gold 😆. I kind of figured that topic would come up somewhere here.

You have earned a subscriber. Latino man living in Australia but in love with Japan and its culture. I hope I can one day visit.

Hi Yuta, another insightful video! Maybe if you want to approach this subject again, maybe dig a little deeper with the participants' answers. For example, most said 'western men'. Perhaps ask them if they mean Caucasian or Coloured, or if they would find other Asians born in the west to fit that image? As for femininity, ask what Japanese believe to be feminine, and what they believe western femininity values are. I'd be very interested to see a follow up video.

*taking notes vigorously*

That jump was so smooth whoa

For a more in-depth discussion, a "Round Table" discussion would be a good idea. A group of maybe 3 Japanese men & 3 Japanese women would be a good number to get varying opinions, i think. Looking forward to more!

4:51 background character grows a conscious and breaks the 4th wall lmao

There was a time when japanese men were looking manly and cool. Last time I saw the idea of looking cool in a masculine way was in the 90s. Example, kotaro minami of kamen rider black had that cool 90s racer style. Then the older actors who were popular like toshiro mifune were masculine. After the millenium japanese men tend to look more like women, trying to look adorable and cute instead of cool. Takuya kimura was cool back in the late 90s until he changed his hair to the typical japanese male hair with a pony. Thank goodness he recently shortened his hair again. I mean what happened? It all started after the year 2000.

i think with every individual person it can mean something different regardless of country but different countries do have different ideas.. for me , i admire men that can have courage in the deepest pits of despair. so i think that's a very masculine thing. to have courage and encourage others (by example) in such a situation. its awe inspiring. to bring someone from a feeling of complete powerlessness to a feeling of empowerment. that takes someone very masculine to be able to do that. but thats an example of peak masculinity. generally speaking its someone that is strong and capable physically and also very lively and authentic.

「お金がすぐ払ってくれる人｣爆笑 虫が良すぎるやん

Apparently opening a door for a Japanese girl also opens the door to her heart.

0:41 he died inside

LAD, can you make a video about your book on dating? Also, about what has changed in the culture since the book was released?

Thank you for your videos.

Based on my experience being an American and having international friends that happen to be girls and Japanese/Korean/Thai. The girls in Asian countries are more feminine than American girls. American guys are more masculine than Japanese guys simply by body appearance and personality. Obviously this varies and is not every single person but I think men and women try to be compatible in their own country because what I see is American girls being more masculine so they show that they are stronger/confident not only as a American but also as a girl. Vice versa in Japan, girls are more feminine since they are trying to be compatible for the guys over there. Like I said, this varies people to to people. Culture also plays a huge role in how male and female react too.

0:40 The look on the thin guy's face when she says "someone with a strong build"

Great video

Good video as always Yuta! For a future video idea I think it would be interesting to hear what Japanese people think of the Japanese Self Defense Force/as a whole and their opinions on the Japanese people who join. Essentially, how is the military viewed in Japan? Thanks for all your hard work!

Cambridge dictionary: "the fact or quality of having characteristics that are traditionally thought to be typical of or suitable for a woman". Women through history are born having bodies fiting or not fiting into what was considered being "feminine" at different times and epoques as well as many woman haven't felt like these behaviours, ways of thinking and actions attributed to females fit into what was in their opinion the way they wanted to be and behave (whether they identified as women or not). We're working towards building a future where you can be who you want to be and whether the decisions you take, the way you embrace the body you have and the way you treat others is free of gender tags and it is based on universal values of self love, acceptance and respect.

These kinds of videos make me even more grateful that I found my amazing husband. I find him very masculine in the sense that he is reliable, he always tries to better himself and grow as a person, he puts in efforts for us, he is a gentleman as they described in the video, he works hard for what he believes in, he identifies and addresses difficulties in his life and is very loving. At the same time, he can be masculine without feeling threatened by me growing as a person as well. He supports me in everything I do. I'm so lucky to have found him and I count my blessings everyday. And I think I'm quite feminine as well. I'll do everything I can for us.

I think the perception of masculinity and femininity across cultures is a very interesting question. I haven't seen too many studies that ask participants to compare masculinity/femininity across cultural boundaries. It's usually intra-cultural, not inter-cultural.

It is interesting that a great part thinks of the outer appearance or work and not so much about behavioral traits or more vague things like someone who protects their family.

I feel that Japanese women wouldn't be as shocked if Godzilla existed as they would be if a Japanese man opened a freaking door for them. It would blow their minds, apparently.

4:50 dude in the back stared into my soul

I think many women would see masculinity as maturity and being like the captain of a ship. He knows where he wants to go and works consistently to reach that goal. He also is aware of the current situation and will adapt and act decisively and quickly.

wild to think about how people have such specific and pinpointed ideas about whole other societies, or even all the individuals in their own. Man, the constructs that we wander around unaware. fascinating!

"Are Japanese men masculine?" asked the Japanese guy who is always with his cutesy plush toy beside him.

Japanese people according to me are really awesome. They are so advanced in technology and I love anime which btw i still watch😂(am 17).... Love japan from India

Interesting what the last girl said about Japan's culture valuing socially conscious behavior regardless of gender having feminine energy to it. I think it could also be one of the reasons so many people in these videos bring up the "herbivore men" concept when discussing related topics.

A grear video and such good questiona. Now I'm curious how more mature men and women would answer these questions.

4:50 lmao

You should do more interview at night, you can met some....interesting people. x')

Please do cover this topic deeper!

6:00 omg you are so good at slipping in promos dbvkskzisdna they're so subtle

this was one recently filmed? it's like they are on a world with no covid at all. amusing.

Honestly, Japanese men are underrated. Everyone is being fed with a shallow view on what a man, or a woman, should look like or act like, leaving no room for individuality. Not all Western men are Greek Gods either. I could and would date a Japanese man or a woman. Regards, a European guy.

Hey Yuta I really like the videos you do and how they're always random people. I've been wondering how appearance affects others, for example: hair style and tattoos. There's a similar youtuber called Santi Radio who made the video called "【Japanese Hairstyle Tutorial】 Dos and Don't in Japan!" where he explains hairstyles in Japan and how they would affect the business workplace. I think something interesting to see would be if you showed people different faces with different hair styles and and ask what people think: are they scary, handsome, ugly, other? Would you avoid them or run away if they approach you or let them come to you? Would that person make you uncomfortable being around them or calm and relax? Maybe not these exact questions since I don't know if they would translate the same, but something similar would be interesting

This is so interesting! I wonder this every once in a while, since I feel (im my personal, ignorant opinion, because I've never really experienced on first hand Asian culture) that men tend to be a little bit more on what we call "femenine standards". Maybe I'm thinking more of Korean idols or actors, but, the longer hair, the smaller faces, thinner physique, bigger eyes, paler skin, are things I associate with femenine traits, and (maybe asian stereotypes have changed since I last researched lmao) I feel those things are considered good looking for men too. This is actually fascinating

I agree, a different interview style would be more effective for this topic. I noticed the woman look at the other woman a lot before giving an answer. It seemed like she thought she couldn't really be honest in my opinion. Also those guys sheesh haha. I feel like humans are still humans no matter the country. I've definitely seen American men act like that before.

Basically, be like any famous leading male actor from an American Hollywood movie.

Props to that guy for his self awareness.

I agree with them from what I've noticed

1:20 Man: “They’re going to censor this” *doesnt sensor it*

Simple: Furinkazan. Fu/Wind - As swift as wind. Rin/Forest - As mysterious as a forest. Ka/Fire - As powerful as a raging fire. Zan/Mountain- As immovable as a mountain. I really think these value are still true in the modern world.

Is good to know that they think in this way

3:02 Oh hey, wait a minute! the self awareness the blonde guy has is quite alluring. I'd go out on a date with him, I like that. Didn't expect him to straight on say his thoughts.

It's interesting how men mostly view being masculine as a physical trait while women view it as character or actions. Random but I've been to Japan 3 times now and every time I go people will comment on how I look macho in Japanese lol. While I don't speak the language I can understand some of it here and there and liked the unfiltered criticisms or compliments in secrecy. I do weightlifting 5 days a week for a couple of hours. I don't look like the most approachable guy because of it even though I'd describe myself as the biggest shy and agreeable dude who always avoids confrontation. Some of the things I've noticed or heard. ▪︎Well the few straight up stares were uncomfortable, now I know how women feel lol. ▪︎Some people really kept their distance and I mean really... ▪︎Went to the zoo to check out them 🐼 and a girl said I looked like a gorilla. No lie kinda ruined my day. ▪︎ Had a girl straight up say "wow macho" to her friends as I walked by her in a train station. I looked at her and smiled ☺ but she quickly looked away. ▪︎While checking out the 1/1 Gundam statue; a group of girls who were there with their BF's? Girl started commenting on my chest and arms and one of the guys said something along the lines of "why would you want to look like that" and then his buddies agreed. ▪︎Went to a maid cafe and as I walked by and sat down across two cute girls they started talking about my forearms and arms, how could I tell? They were pointing it out on their own arms. Took a Polaroid with a maid while they guy sitting in view of the picture area kept doing this 💪and smiling. I did the hand heart instead haha. ▪︎ more things that don't fit in comment section but as soon as covid is over I'm going back on a 4th trip lookin more Jacked&Juicy then the last time.

"they don't represent Japanese" but they are still Japanese... the sample doesn't have to -> population but can give insight

What this video showed me was that Masculinity and Feminity have a general meaning across most people, however as a whole everyone had a different answer pertaining to this.

1:50 This is really honest, and probably kind of true in his opinion.

Interesting video, now I get why my wife have some unreal expectations on gaijin men XD. For a more serious topic I would love to see a video on what Japanese think about unit 731, if they know anything at all. Keep the good work!

The gentleman at 4:51

Great video once again!! however, i'm slightly worried about how no one around you is wearing a mask, and in crowded Shibuya as well... How is the covid situation in Tokyo?

3:15 I agree completely with what this lady says, as someone who has lived in Japan on and off for a few years. American boys are taught to hold the door open for others, especially women, which is not something I see in Japan very often. It's not a big deal to us but I learned that it was something that Japanese men don't do very often given by the expressions on people's faces that I held the door for. Elderly people are especially grateful even if they're plenty capable of opening the door themselves