Hey beauties! Let me know if you liked this video, and what was the longest time you've ignored a man for!

But when they finally come back I’m usually not interested anymore.

If you are important to someone they will not put themselves in a position to lose you .. period !!!! Anything else is just making excuses for someone who isn’t worth it

If a man blocks me, I’m 100% done with him.

If he is ignoring me,take me for granted,or treat me like an option,I don't want him back.

If a man likes you he will keep you in contact, now and then in any way, but if he lose interest he shows it by not communicating.

when someone ignores me especially purposely ex he posts on social media yet doesnt text me back or hes active elsewhere I just get rid of him all together

When a guy tries this on me, I lose interest after a week goes by. I don't block him though. I view whatever he posts but never ever start up a conversation. If he eventually hits me up, I reply but in a distant way, not rude not naggy, just distant I'm letting him know I'm mature, he doesn't get to me. He doesn't have as much effect as he thought he had on me.

Ignoring him longer is best. Because now he'll know not to ignore you!! They get scared when ignore because then they'll say damn I should have kept her waiting that long.

Okay, so we need to have a chat here. It is never okay to play any kind of game in your relationship or to be played like a game. If it comes to this, the relationship is already over. It’s just pettiness & manipulation. If people can’t directly communicate, they need to not engage in relationships until they can. Communication is key. Playing games & manipulating people is the opposite of communication. It’s not assertive or strong, it’s passive-aggressive and unhealthy. Don’t take this advice, but rather move on, it’s not worth your time. Don’t invest all this & lose integrity for a man…or anyone…it’s toxicity.

That sounds immature if someone can't communicate. These games are toxic if someone isn't communicating move on. He can't be the one to get away with ignoring but then get mad at you for doing it back. No it's too toxic.

Works all the time. After I saw him I left in the morning straight away and didn’t message him for a week. Next thing you know he’s blowing up my dm’s 😂

This is good advice for men who are drama queens underneath. Most men are simple, candid, straight forward animals.

This helped me to make a choice on what to do because I get anxious when I can’t figure out what the best approach is. Thank you for this comforting advice! 💓

i got ignored for no reason everything was going fine no problem at all and he just randomly ignored me yet is active on social media

First He ignored me..Then I gosted him when he started talking..lolzz..

I just ignore him back and when he texts me I ignore him for the time he’s ignored me

Usually when I ignore someone its because I don't feel like our conversation is going anywhere and I hate texting to begin with.. Other times I do it completely by accident

Not think about him is easy if you have something else to do ❤

Love yourself more in relationship Never forget your self love

You are so RIGHT! He brought up I was controlling and I accepted I did mistakes. But when I brought up his mistakes he ignores me. So if he comes back again I’ll teach him how to treat me right

This was really helpful!! Really sensible video👍💯

If a guy ignores me I cut em off I have a good body a nice face good personality his lost

You are on the spot! I will follow your advice

THIS really helps for me now! :) thank you so much :)

Thats when you start making fights then have endless problems that you create with those stupid games will never keep a high man doing that

I’m like this is so pointless but it’s an easy way to lose me

I got ignore for no reason our last conversation was so romantic it been a week now am so hurt😭😭😭

My bf makes jokes about me all the time.. i made one joke and hes ignoring me.. the funny thing is he always tells me to"take a joke"

High quality man😂

Pull away and ignore are 2 different things. Either way both involves putting someone in solitary confinement which is known as the most deliberate action of punishment. If he ignores you, it’s not about you, he is just that into and yes I know he should communicate that with you so you can move on but he is not emotionally evolved to communicate this with you. That’s all. Move on he don’t deserve you look For Someone who can communicate.

4 days now hes blocked on everything ,been wit for 8 months

Thank you for this advice this helps a lot on my situation with my boyfriend of almost a year

Even if you're busy that doesn't mean your not gonna think of the person

thank you i will be using these tips! also he called me in the middle of watching this video so he must have known🙂

I ignore when lied to or when I’ve determined she’s a narcissist.

Am in ignoring him this week hope,I will pass on it 🤣

He just love his ex more than me. Lol

He likes to block me or hang up when he is mad like we are in middle or high school smh.

you're the best

7 days. And we got into a huge argument now he’s watching all of my posts but we haven’t spoken in 3 days, and I’ve been ignoring him since then. Not watching his socials, just focusing on myself. We’ve been together for almost 2 years.

He is so addicted on his game..to the point that he just leaves me on seen.

We weren’t even in a conflict and he just didn’t talk to me all day so I’m ghosting him now we work together

If he ignores you for 7 days and you stick around.... you don't have better sense than a man on the moon....

This is great advice

It's the only way, don't try to get more attention especially at work dealing with your boss. Less he communicates to you , the better. More is only going to be what's needs to be done or what you haven't done.

he didn't text me for 5 days, then I texted him because we are in the same group and I wanted to ask him something about it, then he said he was going away from our conversations because he was really busy and tired and he was afraid that because of that he might be rude or hurt my feelings and apologized.. and it's probably my problem of being clingy now but I just don't want it to be another week of no talk.. but I wont text him now until he texts me because I'm sick of being the chaser than never catches on..

It's not easy from yesterday till now 😭😭I hope I'll do it to a week 😃

Thinking about someone is not intentional it's about how you feel about them

Sometimes someone can ignore someone for non personal reasons at all. It’s just needed space from everyone not just who you’re dating. This space is to recharge and reflect. This is not what everyone does but many need it to be functional beings. It’s best not to take it personally. And you might say, well if you need that, why don’t you say so. I feel like it’s not something you’re supposed to communicate. I find it rude to assume that just because I have a phone, I must reply.

You are very sweet Katie🥰

If someone sleeps with you and then ignores you AS IF you'd want that back lol

If it’s not clear to them what we meant…don’t ignore us! Ask? I shared with him my feelings about how he was making me feel like a non priority. He never texted back…I never texted him again…gave him space. If you can’t even communicate with me…then I’m walking away. It’s not right to ignore someone when they were just trying to tell you how they feel.

I totally disagree with do not ignore him when he comes back because if you accept him he'll make it a habit cause he knows that you don't have a problem with him going away anytime he wants to

Longest Time I ignored a guy 10 minutes lol

I think a lot of guys may ignore a woman because he doesn't want her to think he's desperate by showing interest.

As far as I paid attention to the content, the only fact I can confirm as a man is that Men, who are in their masculine, fall in love with Women who are in their feminine and radiate their feminine energy. Though a Woman who is in her feminine and ignores me I would not waste my time with. The rest of advice seems a bit manipulative to me. However, it is true that Men are problem solvers and there is a difference between taking time and ignoring. Masculine men are driven to get stuff done, work on their careers, etc. and depending on what happened, everyone needs a little distance eventually. You do not want to manipulate a man back to you, so he neglects his purpose in life. You want him to spend time with you because he chooses to spend time with you and THE SAME is true for the opposite sex. Also, dont get hung up on stupid text messages. It is a true source of misunderstanding, because everyone is biased in their own way. Get together, sort things out in a constructive/creative way and have a good time, instead of choosing the destructive/competitive path that leads to solitude.

Thank you so much

Men never ignore or disregard their favorite possessions , they take care of their cars , their jobs , but they don’t take care of their gf/ fiancé / wife. If they ghost you, ignore you, they either don’t have communication skills to warn you of that, or they aren’t serious about you! And probably have other girls on rotation . And either not serious about you . And if you take them back they will do it again and again! So cut the loss and move on. They might not like you after but they will respect you and not forget you!

🥺 I lashed out at him...

Yeah once he was ignoring me after asking him a question and he was working on an answer to see me 😳 I'm so glad I didn't overthink

I like your encouragement I could resonate from it. Thank you for sharing it. I have some feedback on what to do.

One Year!

I came here looking for advice because I have a boyfriend who watches anime and game a lot with me. BUT whenever we play a game together and I get ahead of him, he gets really mad at me and puts himself down. It makes me feel bad to be honest.

He ignores me totally but… he hearts my pictures on Facebook🙄 what is going on with him???🤷‍♀️

Maybe in some situation he don’t need space FOR Solution finding, but just want even more space for gamming, serials, friends.

Just sounds like games people like to play

7 days straight sis😂

It's called mirroring

Im not into throwing my man away for him ignoring me ..most people be so quick to advise you to leave your man, which I feel is not always necessary 😒 You gon go through things with any man, so instead of throwing a relationship that feels good MOST of the time for some ghosting.. No...but I will match energy because now it's your turn to feel it now daddy 😈 sometimes you gotta ignore them back , im sorry

Ok I confessed ! He is my brother's best friend , He always scared or shy to talk to me but whenever when we were alone he was smiling so damn lot to me and make me laugh ! He even once protected me from someone was hitting on me , he complimented me to his friends by me being different from all girls , I confessed but I kind of regret now , It was my mistake ? Well I stalked him in facebook and sent him a message from a fake account , I confessed then he put pressure on me to tell who really am I , I said the truth after that he did not respond , he ignored the message and did not even read it and now it's have been two months ! I am still waiting I do not want to be clingy by sending him tons of messages ! But I feel so sad !

He’ll ignore my late evening calls but he’ll still reach out up to me the next day. I still find it frustrating bc even if he calls me late I still answer.

It's quiet hard but it's a good approach . Thanks sis You really know what you're doing The best video I've seen so far❤ Thanks Now l know what to do and l see the picture from both sides

As a man if a woman ignores me I'm automatically turned off and I'll move on easily, this is horrible advice for women 😆!!!

I have a crush on this guy that was in the same facility as me. I thought everything was going well. When we started texting,he said he really appreciated my text and saying he was busy with his son. Then he texted me later that day saying sorry for the late text he just got out of work. And when he was in the same facility, he was really encouraging and supportive. He offered to get me something to drink and he served me a plate of pizza when I didn’t wanna eat. But for the past week,he’s been hardly texting me and mostly ignoring me. And the other night I called him and asked him if he was busy, and he said a little bit and I said “I just wanted to call and say hi and see how you’re doing.” He said “Awww you’re so sweet” but still same thing. How do I find a guy that truly loves me for me, accepts me for who I am, wants to build and grow with me and never leave me or give up on me?

I love your video, Please advice me on this.. I'm in a LDR relationship we had an argument because he didn't come visit me as he promised, he promised a few times but he couldn't make it, he is always busy with work, so after the argument, he has ignored me for a week now. Will he leave me?

What if it’s the man you’re engaged with and have been together for 7 years that decided to ghost you for almost two weeks after an argument?

So what do you do when a man ignores you that your not in an active relationship with? You do however talk to this guy usually on a regular basis...I’m thinking I was acting too needy and desperate or ultimately created a conflict and he needs time to think etc... this is my ex boyfriend of 5 months (we’ve been talking on a regular basis still after breaking up). We broke up in beginning of June.

My boyfriend keeps going out with his mates but sends me snaps and updates his stories, and then he messages me asking if I’m ok then I reply then don’t hear off him for two hours or more… I replied to him 2 hours ago and he updated his story 20 minutes ago😂.. but this is getting constant. I’m thinking about doing the 3 day rule with him and see if he texts me

Can hear that aussie talk from miles away

I never ignored a guy I m in friend with😌

I ignored a man for almost 2 years.

Thank you

If I ignore you, I've lost interest in you. Simple as that.

This is all wrong Why does the guy have to always be the one to reach out. Maybe I'm just giving you the same energy you are. If a woman wants too talk too me. She needs to reach out. Otherwise I will just go about my business. On my purpose. This does not work for if were already familiar with each other. If you text me and I know you. I will not ignore you. If I have an issue. I will let you know face to face. I'll be like hey so so Im afraid this isn't going to work out anymore. I need some space to figure things out

How about just calling or texting and actually asking him where he has been?! 🤷🏽‍♂️ , then after that if he continues to ignore then it’s obvious that he is not interested so you don’t waste your time.

Oh that's why he's ignoring me I asked him out and he just ignored me

match their energy, works every time, then they are offended how you treat them but well you just mirror everything back to them lol 🤣

He’s not even thinking about anything it’s just signing out in front of the TV not caring about me at all so different bedrooms we never go anywhere the last straw was Valentine’s Day also a 12 year anniversary and he returns home empty-handed! I’m going out of my mind

He ignores me twice I said I respect myself and people so i have to move on bye

He is radio silent but active online. So doubt he will reach out anymore.

It hurt when he ignored me then I caught him talking to other women and when I tried to ask him what's happening with us he ignored me however, when he started cheating inside my house I kicked him out and now I am ignoring him

When I ignore a woman it's when I want her to leave me alone so if she ignores me back I dont care it's what I wanted in the first place

I asked ‘what are we’ after we had sex but we have been seeing eacother fro a month, I’ve been trying to give him space. I cry everyday cause I’m forcing myself to get over him. I only texted him three times in these weeks…. And it’s been 3-4 weeks he’s seem completely normal and is saying I’m overthinking. Katie am I supposed to chase him I’m a bit confused so I just decided to confront it and look for answers is this wrong?

Or maybe you made him mad and he’s giving you the cold shoulder.

What if the guy is Just not interested?

As a dude I usually just cut off or ignore girls or women if they play in hard to get. Or if they ignore me. It's quite not hard.

I haven’t ignored a guy and am dying too cus he feels like I care too much about him, and e doesn’t respect d fact that am his girlfriend,he treats me like I hav no say in dis relationship

I feel like men take advantage of this big time.

I ignored him first 5 days ago because I was over being with just an emoji response to a DM.. can’t keep a convo going with that .. and now he is not even reaching out to me and not looking at my IG stories 🙄