Shortcut: 1. It means, she cares and not willing to dump u, she just don't wanna see u NOW, cause of her emotions 2.Never chase her, blow her phone, let her heal 3. Fading effect bias - over time women forget the bad memories, she will only remember good ones 4. Be patient, don't rely on what she says

Whoever is reading this, I promise everything will be okay❤️were all in the same boat :(

My girlfriend told me this. I knew this coming, so i said "it's fine, don't worry about it" We ended up not talking for 2 days. She called me txted me after those 2 days. And started to tell me she loves me and she couldn't get me out of her mind. Just don't spam your girlfriend and give her a time to think, i know you love her, but you will not go any further if you don't act like a man.

Almost texted and thought better of it. Guys make sure to make a rule with yourself to come back to these videos when you are having a weak moment. Good luck to all of you!

You just prevented me from a lot of drama and heartache cheers.

I hate feeling like this. She still tells me that I’m her soulmate, but she can’t be with me. I hate it so much.

Ive watched some of your videos and ive just noticed that your way on dealing with these issues are all the same.. and its the perfect way .. its really effective . I do this way ever since and i really dont care if my girl pulls away or she needed time and space..at the end they keep on wanting me back but i moved on..my point is yeah you can apply this things to yourself but for other guys its not that easy to do..and i appreciate you do videos like this..

This is exactly my situation now.. I was searching for that.. Thank you so much Chris, love you!

Moving on is A Beautiful Thing. Years ago I was heartbroken. Moved to NY & started a New Life.

This is EXACTLY what I have been dealing with. This includes her kissing me in the same hour that she told me that she can't be in a relationship right now. It's been hard, but this helps me come up with a real battle plan. I'm not tiny, but my new girlfriend is the gym.

How one can build a lasting relationship with or let alone marry such unstable beings?

There is another guy. She is seeing someone else. It’s always another guy that has her attention ! !

If your ex girlfriend tells you this from my experience she’s seeing someone else don’t ever go back period

thanks, your video gave me hope at a very drustrating moment

"I love you but I cannot be with you". Insane but so common🤣

At what point do you give up? At what point are you just convincing yourself she'll come back? What if the hope she'll come back is all that's driving your many accomplishments in your own life?

Although I won't be getting back together with her, thank you so much for explaining this. And here I thought that I was the only one that got someone like this.... It looks like they're all over the place, great.

i wish i would have watched this months ago.

Chad & Tyrone are in the picture. THAT is why.

This bloke is legend I’ve just completed his book and it was well worth every single penny. I’m using the tools which the book gives you and it’s works .

I don't do second chances...its a set up to get gun scope right and perfect for her to hurt u even more.

This channel will get maximum likes and followers one day... Don't stop brother... You are doimg a awsome job

some of these comments, it's seriously makes me wonder if these guys have ever actually been in a real relationship. You automatically assume that if she breaks up with you it's because she has met someone else? Could it be that she broke up with you because you were a douchebag who mistreated her? Could it be that she broke up with you because she suffered from high anxiety and the relationship was making it worse? Your ex is a person and there is no standardized answer as to why she ended things. Every situation is different. Sometimes a person can be very much in love with you but she can't bring herself to stay in the relationship for one reason or another. Doesn't have anything to do with there being another dude in the picture.

My ex and I had a long conversation yesterday and she poured her heart out to me. Told me that I was the love of her life, soulmate, and bestfriend, but since we had an on and off year of dating after dating for a full year, she said she needs to go. Prob why she needs to go to figure things out on her own. I miss her terribly but I know I lost her. Can’t understand how if she tells me she loves me and all these things about me but needs to go.. hurts a lot

well...i was married for 11 years, and my ex wife used to do this all the time, you know what? believe in what she does... not what she says!!!!!!! i dump her, and today i live with a girl that has good an bad days, like almost all woman do, but her actions are allways nice,just pay attention on what she does all day long and not her words...simple as that

After using the "no contact" this happened with me

I really appreciate your insight. This video was an eye opener and you covered things in their entirety. Great video. You continued speaking and each new comment reaffirmed exactly what i had been feeling and receiving from her.

My ex girlfriend said the same thing. I refuse to chase her!!

1:38 Mission failed, we'll get her next time (damn,if i only saw this video 2 days ago!)

Kick her to the kerb and move on ffs

I believe when she says that , you just let her go and wish her the best

I hope this works. I love her dearly and Im dying without her.

Who’s this dude.... I’m pretty messed up... Just don’t know what to think but I’ll just say a very big THANK YOU.. you the boss

Women say that when they want to move on and be with another man. They're looking for quote on quote "BETTER".

Thank you so much friend. Thank you.

She says that to me and I allowed her to have space but she started seeing other guy. When I confronted her, she said she still loves me but is happy the way that guy cares for her

I love this video, just gave me hope.

Mine asked for a break twice… started saying she thinks guys and girls can be friends even though I was not okay with it because I was not in the area for a while… she said “if you really love me you would let me do this” (the break the second time) I told her I’m done because I told her if this happens again I’m done forever so she made that choice… when I gave her the break the second time 14 days went by and not a word from her for 14 days and only when my family got my stuff from her place she reached out asking why I did that… I blocked her and have been no contact for 4 months I got a feeling she was cheating so In my opinion I think I made the right call. Any other opinions would be appreciated

I'm in this sort of situation right now, except the guy is not my bf. I love him, I am in love with him, I can't stop thinking about him, but I just think I can't be with him. And that is because, firstly, I value my freedom way too much to give it up (when I say freedom, I don't mean sleeping around with dozens of guys, just doing whatever tf I want without justifying myself to anybody) and, secondly, I honestly think he might not like me once he gets to know me better, like, at all. I know I shouldn't care that much about what others think of me, but I can't help it. I've always had this problem and I've always ended my relationships after a short time, because I've been kinda terrified the people I was with will end up hating me eventually and I better end things up before they do. I don't know why I'm like this.

She says i love you and Can't be with me..bt she wants to be my friend.. Bcz she has someone

Gentleman, it's time to go Mgtow

What if she says that she loves me but she's not trying to settle down?

It just means, she's seeing another guy and puts you on the backburner for the case, it won't work out with that other guy.

Doing no contact now. She told this so I said fine no problem, but I didnt sign up to be friends only and if she changed her mind, let me know. At least the stress and anxiety are gone. We'll see what happens...

the no talk thing is so hard with someone with bpd

My gf told me this and i also i know this because we have different religion, and she leave after 7 years . I just dont wanna hurt her so i let her the one who dumped me . The heart broken is soooo pain until every morning i giving up but i still keep fighting . I let her go because i love her so much .

Thanks bro I’m broken.

We broke up 2 years ago... And she came back with the same phrase... But I couldnt control me.. I kept calling, texting and asking her to stay.. And i think thats why she said we should end everything today. Feels like I've blown up everything.. I am always late for everything.. Like now seeing this video after blowing up everything. She completely ended all contacts with me.. I am dissapointed😓

Where was this video one month ago when she gave me that response back then?! If I'm not mistaken, I did the wrong thing of trying to ask her out again and never got an answer back back then till I contacted her again a week later! 😐 (now I decided to cut contact for a while with her to reduce my emotions for her!).

What if we were engaged and we were going to get married in a couple weeks? we had a new house and everything new in it just for us to move in after the wedding. She said she can't give me what I need and that I deserve someone better than her. I've never cheated, I always respected her and cared for her. it is so frustrating and so fucking sad

I cut it off with someone I was crazy about because I knew we weren’t compatible in the long run. It broke my heart because I really did want to be with him, but there were too many differences that I knew would destroy any kind of relationship we had and since I see him occasionally, I couldn’t afford to just date him and see what happened.

Hi Chris I just wanted to thank you so much for your wonderful advice me and my girlfriend spoke this afternoon and we have finally decided that we should be together because you was the one what's said and one of your videos give them space give them time or something along those lines that's what I did no contact she came back telling me she miss me so much I'm a very lucky person and it's you I need to thank. God bless you. From Steve

She’ll never want to see me again. She’s fucking with someone else and told me she can talk to him about everything.

She calls me asking me out as friends and wants to know how im doing. But she says she doesn't love me. I didn't accept her invitation and the idea of friends. Walked away and havnt heard from her over a month.

She says she loves me and says I was very special to her, but she hates the way she is becoming, (tense, anxious, angry) she had held on to past disappointments and arguments in our relationship and had been feeling nervous when she sensed an argument coming that when even just a little disagreement or me showing I was upset by something triggered her into a frenzy of saying “everything is ruined, weekends ruined, this relationship isn’t working” she left me 2 days ago, maintains that she loves me (and I believe her) but can’t go on fighting for me. Do I have any hope doing this, she is the most amazing person I’ve ever known, and I will love her forever. I’m 30, she’s 36 and not been in an intimate relationship before (she was cheated on as a teen and focused on her own life whilst avoiding men until we met)

But is she just stringing you along while she gets clapped by someone else....

It means they are in love with you but don’t love you properly.

I wish i would have listened to this a few days ago

What if she tells you her feelings are not developing and she wants to breakup so that I don’t get hurt and ghost me?

What if my girl says, that everything is good but she does not feel it? Love but not "that" love..

thanks bro for the words she has not reponded yet and I feels so much frustrated as the days passes

The last part of this video is the situation I’m currently In she says she loves me to much and also has family issues she’s dealing with at the moment, but cannot give me what I want just yet, we’ve been seeing each other for 16 months, it’s so bloody confusing she was all over me when we were together nothing like I’ve ever had before from any woman, she wanted me for me and she still does but not at this precious moment

What happens if said girl happens to be a co worker afraid to ruin office dynamics?

This the same as I always love you because your the father of our daughter. 18 years together

*Definitely taking this advice and gonna work on myself now haha*

Can't ask for anything better than that. On to the next one.

2:38 Wow that truth bomb absolutely flawed me. I would of never ever thought about a women.

Wish i wouldve found this sooner...my girlfriend keeps saying how she misses me alot and how she loves me...but i keep trying to tell her that ill do anything for her and for us and she keeps saying i would love to get back with you but i cant and its really frustrating me because i just dont why she cant get back with me...so i keep pestering her and shell yell at me and stuff but then like 20 mins later shes perfectly fine...so i wish i woulda found this way sooner

My girlfriend laid in my arms and told me she'd love me until her dying breath, 7 months later she married another dude. What kind of love is that exactly?

Could be nothing you did. Maybe she's got commitments in other areas in life and she needs to focus on that.

Many women have fearful avoidant attachment styles from orevious trauma. This makes loving someone very hard

Preach on Chris. Listen to this guy he is real deal

I really needed this thanks man

Keep meeting new women and have fun

SHE SAYS SHE LOVES ME BUT CANT NOW SHE IS INTRODUCING ME TO SOMEONE ELSE

This happened to me, I asked to meet her. She explained it’s about her insecurity.

Me and my gf were in relationship for lst 4 years in lst 2 years we re in long distance relationship bt everything was fine bt in lst 2 mnths we were having lot of fights n all n lst we fighted before 20 days nd thn after 2 days i tried to contact jer bt she said i dnt wnt to be in relationship now thn she said her mom told not to be in relationship n she said i m too much important in her life she cares for me bt dnt wnt to be in relationship What should i do now?????

My ex told me that she likes me, but can not handle serious relationship now. "Too much pressure." I think she is either bullshiting me or she has some issues because she is carrying emotional baggage.

Thanks for the video i got so much confidence after watching your videos... I had a girlfriend about couples months ago.. we are classmate in our college... First she had a crush on me and asked me to be friend with her... I accepted her and we are in a friendship for almost 1 year..in the month of October2017 she told me that she wanted to date me.. so i dated her.. And we are dating and in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship for almost 3months but for the past few days she suddenly starts losing interested on me.. so i talked to her and asked about how she felt for me.. . She said i no longer have a feelings for you like the beginning our relationship.. So she asked me to end the relationship and be friends again... But i refused that... And told her to go if she wants to but u can stay if you changed your mind.. But she left me so we don't have any conversation from at that moment.. I want her back so badly... i hope you could help me out to get her back and love me more than before... Can you suggest me your thoughts pliz..

So me and my girlfriend had this huge fight that we even screamed at each other. After she told me we needed a break. We began talking again and she told me we’re going to get back just give it time but idk what to do :(

So, she said her mental issues would best be worked on alone and that she cant give me 100% in this relationship because of it. I knew in advance she would break up with me so i said i agree, i need someone more mature and whom i can trust not to leave when things get hard in the future. i did not want to break up because i love her and i've never clicked so well with someone. I personally dont think her mental issues are a worthy cause of a breakup, but rather that i've been chasing too much and she has said that earlier that she likes chasing and that things were going too fast. but i contined chasing i guess and in the end i couldnt beg her or "persuade" her to stay, so i pretended she wasnt good enough for me instead of being the one being dumped. im at week two of no contact. i think about her everyday but its less and less, and my hope of returning to her is fading real fast. any thoughts/advice?

Hey Chris.. Any advice on how to behave once she comes back after pulling back? P.S. - I wanted her to come back and still love her

My girlfriend broke up with me and after no contact for 3 weeks she wanted to meet up and eat. I told her I did not want to meet her! I regret it now! She ignores me big time! I love her, it hurts!! What can I do?

In a nutshell; whatever you feel like is the right thing to do, do the exact opposite!

She has a new man in her life but still tells me a part of her doesn’t wanna give me up and she still loves me and reads all our old messages , she says even when she hangs out with him she sometikes wishes it was me but she can’t be with me because she’s scared I’ll hurt her again

Wish i saw this earlier 😭

Just don't get attached yourself with them trust me guys.

Broke up w my bf. Yet he tells me he still loves and cares for him. He told me he needed time and some space, he wants to get back to together but not now as he has alot to think about. Could you do a similiar video for ex boyfriends?

This is happening to me right now lol we were best friends. She would always tell me ill always be there for u and i love u. So i told her i was slowly falling in love in with her and she just told me we cant be friends no more. She tells me she needs time to think about it. So i dont get women lol.

i couldn't imagine why would a woman say that... loves the man but can't be with him? but i see now! also, i realized how relationships between men and women are or at least seem hard and hard and hard . in my opinion, something is on the bed experience - that's why i use those spanish fly drops

My girlfriend broke up with because I wanted some space. so now I got to give her peace to get over the fact she annoyed I wanted space

How about you really love each other but both have responsibilities

Before she blocked me on all social media.. she says she loves me but also says she doesn’t deserve me nor that she feels she ain’t ready. And she also told me that I’m too much of good guy to her because she never received all the love i always gave to her, that her ex couldn’t offer before. (She was in a toxic relationship before i met her) i asked her if she wanted to be with me in the near future and she accepted but also told me she wants to work on her mental health first because she lost two of her older siblings within a year. she going through alot right now but I really love her. What do i do?? Someone help

Dude she calls every night and wants to sleep on the phone, she texts daily, she gets scared and worse about me, she checks my location when we have an argument and wants me to be safe and not hurt myself

Good shit💪🏽

Thank u so much, you helped me a lot💥

They really despise you...she loves you?? Lol

Hi guys....this man is genius...trust him..m happy now.

daamn right on time i totalyy love you man right now

Same mistake I have done...and lost my girl..😭