Damn, you must be savage AF to people huh?

Go to college

Facts lol 🤣🤣🤣

Seconded to this comment lol

@@Soldier979 he probably working register to pay for it damn 😂

Or massage therapist

Or Yoga trainer! Not that I would know! 😫

Naw, the mailman always the issue.

@@darthlobo1213 Or Tennis ball coach.

@@matthewfairchild3846 maybe if it was the same mailman that drops off our mail! We always get different people!

there isn't any comedic timing in the performance, just the editing

@@prpwnage9296 slay

Obviously

Tbh when I ask this to people I’d love them to go all out but hey guess we’re used to answer the usual “good and you”

💯

@@kyo04687 Exactly 🥲

@@kyo04687 Same here. I like to hear what people are actually feeling, whether it's good or bad. I understand though not everyone is comfortable with that.

as an über driver, I've had a lot of women cry in my car and also men really appreciate that they can vent freely.

Thank you!

It is pretty different with an Uber driver you're staying in a car ride along. With a cashier it's seen as a generally quick interaction. It's a "get your stuff, and leave once you paid for" mentality, maybe a hi;bye small talk if even. So you gotta be in the right environment. Honestly, that is why Uber drivers make the best therapists, or someone to just be there. Whether it's because you actually care or it's because you have your rating in mind. You listen- and you have time to listen. It's not very easy to listen all the time, so I thank you for being one of the rare gems that do.

Ur very much appreciated, everyone needs someone like u once n a while

Amen and Godspeed You!

Same dude! It's just a barrier you gotta get through.

Yes!! And you'd sometimes get the elderly customer who was so eager to tell you all about their week and you could tell they had no other soul to talk to, they were just so happy to speak to another human being.

@@mr.snippy Yes and they are so nice and wholesome. Almost made me tear up when they wish you happiness so sincerely you emotionally believe them. It just made my day so much better talking to them.

@@mr.snippy It's always older people

i sit by myself in a soon to be crowded starbucks just to interact with people.

@VLMXIi need to apologize for boning ur mom ☹️

Which one? The suicidal one or the friend that you’re telling your problems about?

That gets me wondering. People always ask this and reply with the same old “good” response. Like what’s the point?

@@thegreatgamingkid8252 seeming like you care is the point

@YeaMan If you could spell “page” I’d maybe have a look and believe you but considering you can’t I already know the answer

@@thebadwolf3088 but people don't give a fuck

shit happens

Bro not to the guy at the counter

@@Kekira well then they shouldn't ask

Sometimes strangers have been kinder to me than my own friends, so you're right in a sense! It really depends on the situation & where you are. The supermarket is NOT one of those places 😂

@@ttmusicchannel013 It's their job and considered socially polite.

Min wage scrub

@@alphaqgentley897 this guy’s broke confirmed

As a cashier, I disagree completely.

man starts stealing comments now

@@alphaqgentley897 hes probably a teenager student working part time, i mean i hope so

Shit no doubt. I recently texted one someone I used to work with. Bro said he wasn't doing too good. I never would have known if I never asked him.

I'm not okay

I'm not that great but we flow.

not okay

I hope ur okay to

I am not surprised someone Hungarian would comment this cause yes, "How are you?" is a dead serious question here, people WILL tell you about every single issue they have (and they always have a LOT, geez). Use this phrase at your own peril.

As cashier who enjoys talking to people, you're probably right - I almost feel like "how are ya" is just another way to say hi and that's it. I don't mind someone spilling their stuff on me and hate small talk. I wish it would change to be like what youre saying in other areas of the world.

I think the more people stop lying, the more serious people will take the question. Lol!

@@athenaa.bosendorfer agreed! but then again, if not enough people care, not enough people will tell the truth

nag man, in spanish, portuguese, french, russian it's the same

Hardly.

Yeah nine times out of 10 when I walk into a liquor store it's not for a happy reason. The cashier and I just exchange knowing nods.

So…just to clarify…liquor stores sell Koolaid Yogurt. Got it.

@@ericmsandoval and also a heck ton of alcohol

@@ericmsandoval if it mixes then yes

Cashier: "How you doin today?" Customer: "I'd be doin a lot better if you could hook me up with some of that fancy dank beer on the employee discount on the downlow?" Lol. Truth be told, the responsibility to care about others also includes the responsibility to be careful who you shift your mental stress on to. A little bit of complaining, and someone truthfully saying: "damn dude, that sucks"...goes a long way.

nah fr football games be determining my mental health for a good half of the week 😂😂😂

It is life changing for raiders fans.

Dat shit had me weak!!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣

As a Washington fan I felt that so much smh

@@ultraforce7958 fucked up same and it's even worse knowing it's rigged as a MF..but we still watch smfh

It's how perfect that delivery is

That's true most major religions or spirituality books will tell you to listen before you speak. And it does help sometimes they just want to get it out same for women they just want to vent they don't want you to fix the problem

sadly no. people are very fake here in that regard. ive never understood it. if you dont care, why bother asking

What? Where are you from? Since it's the same in Europe, shopkeepers etc will say how are you today but no one wants to acc hear that shit

I must be weird. I don't mind hearing how people are actually doing in life

Depends who you get - ain't accurate for me.

@@Glowbuggo He said 90% Accurate, not 100%

Then why do you ask them? I think it's rude in the first place to ask a question like that and expect a simple answer or for them to always respond in a positive way. I just say hello because I'm honest with myself and others, I'm not gonna ask someone how they're doing when I actually don't even care. When people ask me I also say hello cause I know they're dumb folk who follow others instead of leading themselves with what makes sense to them.

@@greenyboy16 Fair enough!

@@Ariel-ut8fp Agreed! If you're being asked you should be able to say no, maybe not go on a 5min rant on your troubles with ppl but damn! We're allowed to answer no. Why is it not okay SOCIALLY to admit we're not okay ?

no

REST IN PEACE YOU PUNK BITXC 😂😆😂😆😂 that got me!

"offers"

It’s good the Raiders did better then all the other teams recently against the niners, plus they’ll get healthy next season

Against my team the 49ers! (sticks the knife in deeper 🤣). Kidding. Its actually pretty rough being a Raiders fan. In spite of the Raiders losing they made 49ers fans sweat and gave SF a run for their money against one of the best teams in the league. I think the Raiders actually have potential in the future and your young QB went off against the best defense in the league. That says something. The Raiders can be dangerous.

They still got a chance to improve.

No. If aren't close friends, don't talk to me about your personal issues.

​@@dawnriddlerI think it's ok if anyone friend or not asks how I'm doing and I'm not doing well I'll be straight up, but I won't vent out my issues only if they wanna listen

@@dawnriddler so how do make new close friends ? Because if you never talk about real things you're not really friend with someone, but you don't talk about real things to new people, so aren't you stuck ?

@@shanouboubou the key wasn't new people, it was random people. I don't want to hear problems of people whose name i don't even know or whom i've known only for a short period of time. You should be able to read the room and know when it's acceptable to share something "heavier" and when it isn't.

^ I thought this was gonna actually be a wholesome video about that, always be kind and listening

Does their pain effect you? if yes, how do you deal with it? just curious

Thank you for your service! Everyone in the healthcare industry should get more credit because y'all are the GOATS

wow. thank you

common nurse w

@@hughvhgg4891 I’m just now seeing your comment. So sorry for the late reply. The answer is yes and no. My heart is very heavy when caring for some patients because I know no matter what I say or do, their medical situation will only get worse. Seeing them as a person and listening to the their stories makes it hard to carry the load of knowing all the hardships they will continue to face. But, no matter what, I do my part to help them keep on keeping on. I say no because I ALWAYS decompress. I have had to go to therapy to deal with some very tough losses. Most of the time I’m able to separate my work from my life outside of work. It’s imperative we have the ability to separate ourselves from our patients. If you aren’t able to do that, it will drive you out of your mind. I’m not sure if you heard of all the self deletion of doctors and nurse during COVID. Constantly carrying that load and not being able to let it go will do that to a person who genuinely cares and is in this line of work for all the right reasons. I’m thankful I have a wonderful support system in my family and I’m blessed to work for a hospital that provides mental health care free of charge for 5 sessions and a very low cost for any additional sessions. The name of the game is do whatever is necessary to take care of myself so I can take the best care of my patients. For me, it no different than being a mother. I actually refer to my patients as my babies no matter their age. I care for them like I care for my three I birth from my body. With that being said, self care comes FIRST so I can always be at my best!!

Well also, what does them talking to you do? It doesn't hurt you. If it is a busy time though, then it is a bit of a problem lol. I never really minded much either.

Bro you've had 2 lifetimes? Please elaborate

@@bobbybush1750 it's a term for a completely different time in someone's life many years ago, when they were basically a different person.

@@Gandhi_Physique it depends on the fact that if there's a line, you don't really have time to talk

@@jellymatsuryuka6853 Yes. I mentioned that in my very short comment. "If it is a busy time though, then it is a bit of a problem lol."

No surprises there. I can't stand therapy because I know they really don't give a damn.

@@Ariel-ut8fp I was just making a joke with how people comment they can confirm its accurate 😂 im not actually a therapist Im far from it

@@Ariel-ut8fp sometimes they really don't man my best friend is a psychologist and he told me that they can manipulate clients just to keep getting their paycheck man and that's really messed up because you got people trying to heal and you're acting like you're carrying but deep down you really don't care about those people at all that's sad absolutely sad and it's effed up

@@dominicbrogsdale3348 yea i went to a therapist once in my life and it felt very one sided. Like i get they are there to listen to what people have to say, but I just felt like i still was missing what i could have gotten from a best friend or family.

I wonder how many real therapists have to sit their and deal with narcissists dumping on them for an hour and not actually helping them bc you know… they are narcissists who just want to talk.

Right pretty shit, desu.

Not trying to be mean, but this isn't some allegory for modern society's stance on emotional openness: It's a relatability thing for anyone who has ever been a cashier or those who can sympathize

​@@Hystial er no. griffy makes his videos not just because they're relatable, but because he's trying to send a message. all his videos are deep like that. if only you tried understanding them, you wouldn't miss out like this.

@@emperor8716 this is just blatantly false. Some of his videos have a deeper meaning, yes, but a significant portion of them are for comedy's sake. The only message you could argue is wanting comedy to have less societal restrictions, but, even then, that's a stretch for "deep meaning." If only you tried to understand his videos, you wouldn't miss out like this.

@@Hystial exactly

​@@Hystial Wether or not it is griffy's intention this does say alot about society. The formality of saying that everyday meaninglessly and expecting a fake response because you can't and don't want to help makes you think.

😭raiders lost lastnight heart my heart

Yeah that was funny, when he said that I googled it and was like "shit he right"

As a customer service associate, I disagree.

True. Folks be sharing they stories like I was they psychiatrist n shiet. Imagine a line of em'.

@@Ayy_Doll_Fiddler Yeah!! Once a customer wanted a discounted price because those clothes were destined to a prisoner 🤦🏻‍♀️ so what the prices are those you see 🤣 they expect you to be therapists or a charity organization 💀

@@blondie_adri oooh. That reminded me of the time an old man tried to guilt trip me into giving him 50% discount for a can of Sprite. He talked about how he had no money and how his 'financial situation' is such a burden like as if I didn't see him park his Mercedes in front of the shop. At least if you lie about terrible financial situation, at least look the part. Smdh

As a realtor I can confirm how many fucks are not given about you or your day. I just want to make it to the closing table 😂

Excellent question, no idea. It's a great way to weed out shitty friends though. I did this and just got an "Oh". If you don't care, don't ask.

Performative socialization? I really have no clue.

It's a mystery

Genius

You're awesome lmao.

They don't care so not a single soul asked how you were doing and they kept it real but if you ask them at least hear them out and don't fake being friendly, tf?

@@ApocalypticFart He is the one replying.

Weirdo

Wtf😂

The thing is when I work at the gas station I don't talk to the customers I just ring them up and tell them have a good night that's it I don't make conversation with them or small talk and you crazy if you do this is coming from a third shift gas station worker

@@avatarwarmech man I oddly like just having a small talk at the station unless I have places to be soon

@@BrntBiscuit hell no I hate when people make small talk with me I don't care about you or your problems I'm not your therapist I can give a damn if somebody came in the store and shut you in the head it's not my problem I'm only here to ring your stuff up and for you to get on about your day that's it

@@avatarwarmech so then you're just a terrible person

@@avatarwarmech aint that the point tho? cuz I feel like it'd be dumb to traumadump someone who actually does care about you cuz they'll be thinking bout it, but if it's a stranger who don't give a fuck, then you can vent n feel better then jus walk away lmao