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​@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone agree. Been watching you for months age this one was unique. Really touching. Thank you

So glad you are free and reclaiming yourself! I am doing the same. It was 5.5 years for me. I can't imagine 32 years!

WHEN YOU FIND OUT THE ONE YOU THOUGHT HAD YOUR BEST INTEREST AT HEART IS IN FACT YOUR ENEMY, SLEEPING IN THE SAME BED WITH YOU, PRETENDING TO LOVE YOU.TIME WILL SHOW YOU THEY'RE FAKE AS A THREE DOLLAR BILL,THEY HATE YOU BECAUSE OF WHAT YOU HAVE INSIDE OF YOU,THESE PEOPLE ARE EXTREMELY JEALOUS, ENVIOUS, ACTRESS,MANIPULATOR,YOUR GREATEST HATER, GOSSIPER,LIER,CHEATER,NO MORALS, INSTRUMENT OF THE DEVIL, FAMILY IS INVOLVED WITH THEIR DEMONIC ACTIVITY, THEY'RE WAITING FOR YOU TO DIE SO THEY CAN CLAIM YOUR RESOURCES IF YOUR MARRIED TO THEM,THEY WILL SUCK YOU DRY OF ENERGY SLOWLY, YOU'LL FEEL LIKE YOUR ALONE IN THIS RELATIONSHIP, ISOLATED, THE BEST YOU CAN DO IS WALK AWAY & SEEK A DIVORCE GO NO CONTACT IGNORE THEM,THEN START HEALING FROM THIS SPIRITUAL ATTACK ON YOUR LIFE,YOU CAN'T UNSEE WHAT YOU'VE SEEN WITH YOUR OWN EYES

For me that's the worst , when that narcissist in your life is close family. I have one , and that's tough

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@@lmcwill0502I have several. I was and still am a bit devastated and definitely disappointed and heartbroken.

Yes, agreed. It takes a long time to get comfortable leaving them where they are and moving forward with your own life.

My sister, when she died, all I could feel was relief.

It is betrayled, ugley people.

Oh yes me to

See it now it’s so hard to accept.. I see how she with my son and daughter,bouncing in and out of they lives cold one month and loving and asking if they need anything it’s disgusting I only hope they will see it for what it really is which is toxic

It just made me really sad and made me feel like an idiot

Me too. Thanks for telling the Truth because I Blamed myself for being Tricked and going back for years.

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Yes, if she is attractive, she has real power over men and his money.

@@georgesontag2192 she wasn't and she does. Behind the mask the narcissists are all energy vampires and ungrateful to others, only caring about themselves.

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I know exactly what you mean. I did not choose wisely nor did I get out of the relationship when I was young enough to start over. I didn't want to break up the family, but it was broken all along because he was always somewhere else, if not physically at least mentally and spiritually.

If you got out 36 years ago in 1988 consider it a very successful story

Time flies very fast. Never waste your youth on people who don't care about us. Youth and time are things that we can't get back once it's spent.

It was the same for me only 32 years. The part that really breaks my heart is that he 'poisoned' my children to not talk to me. It's been 15 years now. As a mother, not a day goes by I don't think about my daughter's. I believe their husbands are also narcs like their father. 😢

You have so much value and worth. Feel it , embrace it. Your partner never deserved someone of your calibre. Never, ever settle again. Well Done!

Thankx for pointing that out. My ex narc would always accuse me of insulting him when I pointed out his abuse. So bizarre!

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Get the letter out of your place. Then, you won't reread it endlessly. Free up your space.

A letter in the mail?

Don't go back. Even a simple phone call can lead to reconciliation. It did for me, and each episode with a narcissist is worse than the one before.

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I hate that part.

​@arsenelupiniii8040 Same here.

Not your fault.

My mother totally hates me😢

That's so sad! I'm so sorry. I love my kids & grandkids so much! It has been heart-wrenching to see my daughter & grandkids go through this!!

That's awfully screwed, but that was her shortcoming, not yours. You are still worthy of love all of the same. ♡

That is so sad. We all deserve to be loved.

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i’m 50 years old, married for 25 years, i’m in this situation circumstances also.. anxiety and heart broken every day, just learned about narcissism less than 2 years, i’m so grateful.

In the last days,the hearts of many will WAX cold..its like waxing a piece of furniture well,you spray some water on the waxed area ,the water does not peneterate the furniture, it just runs off..

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@@hibiscus1974 you are going to make it. Many people of this world are not who you thought they were. I am more than convinced that this is all part of Gods bigger plan for us. It’s heartbreaking, because I can’t see that pain in my ex wife’s eyes. Yet, she can’t accept that she is a narcissist. She is still now, controlling and scheming and abusive. I am starting to see these things in my daughter and I hope she can be saved. Even my eldest son is obsessed with her because she sexualised her relationship with him. Her own son! He yielded because his mum brainwashed him into thinking that he shouldn’t have a girlfriend or sex until he is married. We were like best mates pre discard, until she love-bombed him with clothes and seductive cuddles in her nighty. Sick individuals they are all cut from the same cloth. Watching channels like this saved me from the madness of it all. A spiritual awakening and finding God, who was with me the whole time & will be for eternity.

Was 1% for me at the end maybe 0

Amen!!!!

If they lie in small things.... a liar is a liar.

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@@wickedwisdom6088 Thank you 🙏🏻

Whilst I agree, the main narc in my life is my adult daughter who has and keeps full control of my only grandchild. My healing journey has been aided by physical and emotional distance for sure, but that one tie remains, and hurts like crazy. My beautiful 7 year old granddaughter.... and what her future holds..... 😢

@@joysachs9032 This is truly the worst situation, especially since there is little you can do- as long as she doesn’t physically mistreat your granddaughter. I had to co-parent with my soon to-be ex husband and it was a nightmare. I‘m sending you and your granddaughter lots of love and best wishes. Stay strong!

@@sandywichmann9292 🙏❣ with thanks for your understanding. You take care as well.

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"Out to get you if you let them!" I now understand my dreams as a young child! I was trying to fly away but 'she' my Mother caught my feet and pulled me down to take backing trays out of my arms!!! It was a nightmare. Thank you for your comment🙏💫

Yet they seem to love their kids

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Tricky. They do: they only care for themselves. They just don't realise that this leads to their own destruction.

Completely True- If you are with one for long enough it becomes very clear ..

You are right, if I tell you what she is doing now! You would not believe me! No ones of my support net have heard that story! I did radical acceptance, bud I would like to have answer to all my questions I found the true, despite it hurts me. But today I have a smile in my face!

Good one that you are very right my friend 😮

My nex didn't as far as hygiene and living in squalor. He needed me to keep things tidy like a mom. He lost all of his teeth and rarely showered. And, as he got older, he became a hypochondriac. The dining room table was full of his prescription bottles. He insisted on keeping them there instead of in the bathroom out of sight. He was actually proud of taking at least 15 different pills daily.

Me too, chin up.

❤🌹❤ If you have a heart that can be wounded, you have a heart that can heal and grow. ❤🌹❤

Your not alone welcome to your new and better family 🙏🏼❤️ Mine was and still are incredibly cruel, but 2 1/2 years of no contact has been such a blessing 👍

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Wishing you all the best! Healing and getting stronger!

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Nailed it. ❤🌹You're worth so much more.

Exactly!

Correct. They are only interested in what you can do for them because they think you are their slave.

Very well put! This is exactly the case!!

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It's never wasted. Our stories will help someone going through it. And God will make it all up for us, no matter our age

​@@susanthepowersellerat a certain age it's hard to accept wasting 30 days of your life yet year after year after year when most of your life is behind you and not in front of you

Don't blame yourself because you were probably being gaslit by everyone around you telling you they were good people when they were nothing but trash the whole time

Turn your way of thinking around to make all good. Don't be miserable, we all have lessons in life to learn here on earth. Wishing you a wonderful happier future ❤

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Same here; I always came home to a hot plate of confusion & complaints.

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@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone welcome anytime sir.

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YeH…. But the démange is unforgivable

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Please know you're not alone, my own brother is a narc and almost killed me. So, I feel your pain. But you ARE loved. God helped me, he can help you too.

@@camelotenglishtuition6394 I’m sorry, and I empathize, this is so difficult, and know one should have to be going through this, people are not meant to be treating people this way, it’s truly heartbreaking, why are people like this, money and greed? What is it all about, what does anther gain on someone’s pain..

@@camelotenglishtuition6394 I can relate, I want to get safe and away from it all, that’s all I pray and beg for everyday.

Betrayal is the right word. Take care.

Mine was a 28 year police officer and they named a flipping street after him......😮😮😮😮 The first wife died while he was at his girlfriend's house his brother had to go find him. 2nd relationship lasted until her inherited funds ran out. The third lasted until she had terminal cancer. Sh#t why didn't I find this out until after I confronted the flying monkeys.

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The narcissistic abusive cycle makes you question so many things. You are so brave for finding the answers. His biggest loss ever. Exactly what Andrew says.....its so true. ❤

Relatable. Awesome insight

Better to be free away from this person. Wishing you all best for future happiness. Karma is a real thing.

Thank you, Andrew, for sharing your healing message.

Sad!!.

I dropped mine a decade ago and she’s tracked my new addresses and places I’ve resided despite the fact I went FULL NC and she’s blocked. Also notwithstanding the fact I’ve had my lawyer mail her cease and desist letters, I have filed police reports over her unsolicited communication, and my attorney has stated many, many times to her that I will be petitioning the court for an OoP. Narcissists-family or not-hate the word “NO.” They think we’ll change our minds and snap like twigs. They underestimated our resilience and strength. I’ve long moved on, but the narcissist clearly hasn’t. She was an alcoholic who physically verbally and in many other ways abused my dad. Can’t forgive anybody who wields a knife on my father. I asked him years later why he never pressed charges.. he regrets it now but he told me he said “I needed a mother” despite the fact I had my grandmother, aunts, etc. She never cared how I felt. Remarried a piece of dirt one year after divorcing my dad, adopting a dog a year after our beloved 17 year old cat died, let strangers invade my privacy and space. The narcissist is a control freak and she was no exception

@@MattyNelson-rs3ik kinda is but she is a miserable human being. Being the oldest sibling( Man ) the pre ordained doormat ✌🏼

Ich gratuliere Ihnen zu einer der schwersten Einsichten die viele Menschen nie erfahren!

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Let people love on you here, many of us understand. Blessings Sweetie 👍💥🙏❤ 🌈🎀😘

Wow!! That's shocking !!! I know someone at my church who experienced the exact similar thing!! They were trying to sell their house because she was the primary breadwinner and out of nowhere her husband comes out and says during 25 years of marriage I've been cheating on you with another woman in our house during our whole marriage because she was satisfying me more sexually!!!!! These narcs are the devil's agents!!! Psychos!!!!?!!

My heart goes out to you. We the community love you, as does God. Jesus is the way, the truth and the light. God bless you.

Don't forget he is a soulless Demon , and NEVER DESERVED YOU

Except when they are possessed. 😂

Not empty- full of demons.

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It is an amazing journey & thank you for your share. It's all an investment in loving oneself & wish you the very best as you continue healing. 👍💥🙏❤ 🌈🎀😘

Oh my, that’s a very difficult situation but you can do this. Keep listening to Andrew. Keep plugging into the our community. Keep your head up and walk strong. You can do it!

@@lggig534 I have to pass where his office is when I come and go from my complex and he parks where he can watch traffic coming in and out. I don’t pay attention to him. Last I knew he was with his new supply. I see her occasionally.

It’s gut wrenching, but when you sit back & look at the person for who they really are, you may feel a bit of a fool but you are not the fool, they are & in the end they are the one that is alone. If your lifestyle allows it, get a dog, it’s unconditional love from a new family member, put the energy into a being who returns your love.

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The change only the mask they wear (Andrew’s told) which is true

Martin Appelo is a Dutch psychologist who's also a narcissist (and openly admits it). He mentions, together with some other coaches that they can change, but they have to realize their attachment issues root from their childhood, and how. They need to WANT to change. They need to often lose someone in their life that makes them "reset" their behavior and want to actively work on these traits, to safe their own future and keep their happiness. Which only happens when they meet someone/people they can't lose.

I wonder....does anyone else ever wonder?

Betrayed is the Word...by everyone...😢😢😢😢

It is crushing but it gets better soon they won’t even cross your mind this life is worth living.

The despair and darkness feels bleak- I feel the same way. Actually allowed the word suicide to enter my mind-messed up. I love life and will heal but the problem is you want the fantasy of their passion back and I make myself ill knowing I am still under his spell. This is when I found Christ and my happiness is returning-stay focused on your father let him hold you support you and love you. Friend From

"Lift up your eyes and look beyond, dark clouds to heaven's blue. The shadowed moment soon will pass, the sun still shines for you." au "The LORD is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves such as have a contrite spirit. Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but the LORD delivers him out of them all." - Psalms 34:18-19 God hears and He helps. 🙏

Jesus is the answer he saved me from the narc

Stay strong! You can do this. Therapy really helps. And dear, forgive yourself

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Now you know, better you know so you can protect yourself. I have the same problem. It is surreal for sure!

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yes toxic like a bad nightmare. Within 1 year of a 54 yr marriage to a Narcissist he said he never meant to marry me. I thought he was kidding at that time.

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