Who Pays on a Date in Japan? (Interview)

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That Japanese Man Yuta

That Japanese Man Yuta

7 жыл бұрын

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I asked random Japanese people who should pay on a date in Japan. I also asked who paid on their last date.

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@firehawk128
@firehawk128 7 жыл бұрын
That part with idols was hilarious. "We're not dating anyone... is what we say on our profiles" lol
@Noobie2k7
@Noobie2k7 7 жыл бұрын
Yeah, Japanese idols aren't supposed to date or do anything like that so they seem more attractive to men.
@lauram.3251
@lauram.3251 7 жыл бұрын
firehawk12 well them idols wont be very popular either so doing that is still promotion
@drawesome0204
@drawesome0204 7 жыл бұрын
Not getting caught is another thing, hehe
@neurofiedyamato8763
@neurofiedyamato8763 7 жыл бұрын
Yea it is sad that they aren't allowed to date. They don't need to fulfill damn creepy fantasies. its their personal life.
@Marcotonio
@Marcotonio 7 жыл бұрын
+Neurofied Yamato You are delusional. The entire idol scene revolves around catering to male fans who want a "pure" idol to follow. If you want to date, don't get in the idol business. Do you feel sorry for priests who can't marry or athletes who can't eat 30 bigmacs daily?
@hugoszyn
@hugoszyn 7 жыл бұрын
That last couple seems suspicious
@Ms3063
@Ms3063 7 жыл бұрын
hugoszyn i thought the same, maybe we saw a young sugar daddy
@byakuganyokai
@byakuganyokai 7 жыл бұрын
perhaps its a sugar boy
@Iryuushen
@Iryuushen 7 жыл бұрын
She's Yan
@nachofilament294
@nachofilament294 7 жыл бұрын
Did Yuta interrupt the negotiation part of buying a hooker?
@abcdefghilihgfedcba
@abcdefghilihgfedcba 7 жыл бұрын
She is an escort kzfaq.info/get/bejne/gJl8jNWrmK6Zdqs.html&lc=z120zfs5utnsyxuz004ch3d5bqyludq4dww0k The silence about how they met should make it obvious.
@PercivalWBrian
@PercivalWBrian 7 жыл бұрын
I laughed multiple times on this video , particularly on those cases where the couple is just about to go on a date and the guy finds himself suddenly in charge of paying for everything just because Yuta brought up the subject 😂😂😂
@saiyanfreak
@saiyanfreak 7 жыл бұрын
The last guy wasn't dating that woman. He "purchased" time to spend with her. Her name is Anri, and she is part of a sugar daddy dating service. I know because I dated her too. 😅
@SaifulhaqMayyazi
@SaifulhaqMayyazi 7 жыл бұрын
Doodleboy dafuq O_o
@asdfdjhgk
@asdfdjhgk 7 жыл бұрын
Not saying you're lying, but I'm gonna have to see some proof before I believe that.
@uryuishida3766
@uryuishida3766 7 жыл бұрын
lmao that's pathetic
@Bashir000
@Bashir000 7 жыл бұрын
where is the proof
@SilverDragon092
@SilverDragon092 7 жыл бұрын
Sauce please.
@Gaz2409
@Gaz2409 7 жыл бұрын
I think the last guy is getting milked...
@Thunterise
@Thunterise 7 жыл бұрын
Definitely
@erbe7861
@erbe7861 7 жыл бұрын
Gaz2409 what does that mean ? not english speaker sorry
@sivyig
@sivyig 7 жыл бұрын
he's getting used for his money
@jaredbowhay-pringle1460
@jaredbowhay-pringle1460 7 жыл бұрын
Eren Belaqise It means she's squeezing money out of him, like you would squeeze milk out of a cow. She might not be with him just for the money, but quite likely wouldn't be if he didn't pay for everything.
@EmeraldZoneNetGMG
@EmeraldZoneNetGMG 7 жыл бұрын
lmao - definitely
@Energokinetic
@Energokinetic 7 жыл бұрын
Damn everyone seemed like they were in a hurry today. It felt like they were avoiding Yuta
@lemonycakez
@lemonycakez 7 жыл бұрын
thats understandable if you consider that they are japanese. they are mostly shy, it is a little unpleasant to talk about dating/relationship and their private behaviour with strangers..
@planesrift
@planesrift 7 жыл бұрын
Well it's not really a pleasant question to be asked..
@TheRealityofFake
@TheRealityofFake 7 жыл бұрын
I think he usually asks people if they have time for an interview, and then if they say yes he starts asking them questions. But this video seemed like he just started asking them questions as they were walking by.
@taurusspirit4811
@taurusspirit4811 7 жыл бұрын
+adventures of inz idk why, but I always hear how Japanese are shy, but from what I've seen so far, they don't seem shy at all! they seem very easygoing. I feel like mexicans/americans are shyer. or could it be just the people I'm surrounded around are all shy. ehhh.
@SuperAvocadoo
@SuperAvocadoo 7 жыл бұрын
Because most of the couples are not really bf/gf, they are actually cheating. dum dum dum
@brat3213
@brat3213 7 жыл бұрын
KissBee are so cute. "We can date in our imagination!" Cute!
@zinny999
@zinny999 5 жыл бұрын
brat I will date them in reality... wth is idols anyway
@Crouton-
@Crouton- 5 жыл бұрын
@@zinny999 basically it's just a girl who is "pure" for men to want, so that's why they can't date publicly because their supposed to look good for their audience (who are just men who like their image). I personally think it's a little sad but no one's forcing them to live that life style
@Govnar658
@Govnar658 4 жыл бұрын
@Danny F-fascist??
@KanaievenTokyo
@KanaievenTokyo 7 жыл бұрын
The last "couple" omg haha the girls eyes SO SCARY!
@craigrowe3249
@craigrowe3249 7 жыл бұрын
I want a follow up with that last couple
@RVNT9OE
@RVNT9OE 7 жыл бұрын
Craig Rowe you can probably watch the rest of their date on Xvideos
@jaylynpayne1
@jaylynpayne1 7 жыл бұрын
Craig Rowe 💀💀💀💀
@SS-D
@SS-D 7 жыл бұрын
that's called stalking..
@ceresbane
@ceresbane 7 жыл бұрын
Not really stalking if you just go. "So can I have your phone numbers? I would like a follow up interview in about 4 weeks."
@TheNotorious14
@TheNotorious14 6 жыл бұрын
LOL
@KusunokiSG47
@KusunokiSG47 7 жыл бұрын
Yuta : "Who pay for the date ?" Man : "I paid for it" Yuta : "I found Doraemon !" Such random lol
@ThatJapaneseManYuta
@ThatJapaneseManYuta 7 жыл бұрын
I was happy when I found Doraemon :D
@theleafeon1
@theleafeon1 7 жыл бұрын
Minalinsky kotori
@KusunokiSG47
@KusunokiSG47 7 жыл бұрын
Will be waiting for you to asking people on Akihabara about their hobbies :P
@galliman123
@galliman123 7 жыл бұрын
Doraemon makes me happy too, more happy than dates
@internationallyME
@internationallyME 7 жыл бұрын
Interesting question Yuta!!
@misterneckbreaker88
@misterneckbreaker88 4 жыл бұрын
this was a good video topic, can tell they enjoyed thinking and answering the question.
@amenonaka4402
@amenonaka4402 7 жыл бұрын
So no ones gonna say about how casual yuta just interview those idols?
@Suffkopp0815
@Suffkopp0815 7 жыл бұрын
Luckily those anime pillows arent asking for much
@DarthChrisB
@DarthChrisB 7 жыл бұрын
They are screaming for washing agent!
@berka5526
@berka5526 7 жыл бұрын
Agreed but like, they never split so it makes me feel sad sometimes
@Sun-Tzu-
@Sun-Tzu- 5 жыл бұрын
What?
@videogamingfreak13
@videogamingfreak13 5 жыл бұрын
Dude those things cost a truckload of money
@rigatoni_pasta
@rigatoni_pasta 7 жыл бұрын
This was really cool to watch. More videos about this would be great.
@Thunterise
@Thunterise 7 жыл бұрын
That last couple o.0 She's answering for him, saying that he'll be the one to pay, even specifying he'll pay for "everything" a few seconds later. I honestly don't mind paying for it all, but only if it's not an expectation. She's not just expecting it of him, she's *telling him* .
@margaritam.9118
@margaritam.9118 7 жыл бұрын
Unilythe She's a crazy dominatrix 😁
@ricardodeleon3041
@ricardodeleon3041 7 жыл бұрын
Depends on the context I have been happily married for six years and dated the same person for eleven years she never paid anything ever mostly because I am a firm believer of the man pays and the law of chivarly, also even if she wanted I just trick her to not to or confuse the heck out of her, worth every euro.
@rogueninja185
@rogueninja185 7 жыл бұрын
If you are happy like that, what can I say... Continue being happy, I guess. But remember, there is no "Law" of chivalry.
@ricardodeleon3041
@ricardodeleon3041 7 жыл бұрын
RougeNinja Actually there is mostly based on different texts made in the Renaissance and if you are religious by some saints, it has a set of rules and goals to achieve most of them are very strict and some can be passed on modern terms others take more work. Just because you haven't heard of it or don't have experience with it doesn't mean it is inexistent mate, paying for everything goes inside it while actually "law" wouldn't be the word for it (code is most likely) I have always knew it as that since childhood, all males from my town have been educated by it with the inclusion of religious education for generation so it is basically a law by now.
@Thunterise
@Thunterise 7 жыл бұрын
Ricardo the difference there is that you are the one who takes the initiative in paying. Completely different from what we saw in this video. That wasn't the point of my comment at all. I said the problem was that *she* was telling him that he'll be paying, for everything. She *told* him.
@aloofmusician856
@aloofmusician856 7 жыл бұрын
I know where to find dates, on a calendar!!
@TheMechanicalGirl999
@TheMechanicalGirl999 7 жыл бұрын
LOL! I'll never find/get one otherwise! Heck, this girl can't even find that illusive fruit at the international grocery store!
@georgewashington6618
@georgewashington6618 4 жыл бұрын
lol good one
@PoisonelleMisty4311
@PoisonelleMisty4311 4 жыл бұрын
What the F you have the same profile photo as me, I need to change it.
@tontonpacute
@tontonpacute 7 жыл бұрын
who else googled kissbee
@HelgeMoulding
@HelgeMoulding 7 жыл бұрын
That was not a question I'd ever have thought to ask, with such interesting answers!
@tacticaljunk1608
@tacticaljunk1608 7 жыл бұрын
I like when you ask small niche questions like this. It offers a lot of insight on japanese vs american culture.
@yssaned9212
@yssaned9212 7 жыл бұрын
The kissbee girls are so cute. Especially the 2nd girl's voice
@PsychoSavager289
@PsychoSavager289 4 жыл бұрын
"We can date in our imagination!" I laughed so hard when she said that.
@dreadogastusf3548
@dreadogastusf3548 7 жыл бұрын
Great shirt Yuta!
@Geck0GC
@Geck0GC 6 жыл бұрын
I love your shirts!
@teraphIl1000
@teraphIl1000 7 жыл бұрын
I always pay on dates! jk, I've never been on a date. T__T
@user-hm9mj1hc3j
@user-hm9mj1hc3j 7 жыл бұрын
i feel you bruhh, never been on a date either
@TheMechanicalGirl999
@TheMechanicalGirl999 7 жыл бұрын
Nor has this geeky woman! T_T!
@kristianpetersen1040
@kristianpetersen1040 7 жыл бұрын
It's fine we're just picky about who we spend time with.
@user-hm9mj1hc3j
@user-hm9mj1hc3j 7 жыл бұрын
sure.. we're just a damn friggin picky eater~ I believe we will somehow meet our soulmate one day... or not..
@kristianpetersen1040
@kristianpetersen1040 7 жыл бұрын
Soulmate huh? Your chances are minuiscule. I would recommend that you first find out what you like about yourself and what you like doing. Then you can try to look for those features in a person.
@bettyboosh8384
@bettyboosh8384 7 жыл бұрын
I have never let a guy pay for me on a date. I usually either pay myself or split it half, I wouldn't feel comfortable if I didn't pay for my own things.
@lazzykathrine5951
@lazzykathrine5951 Жыл бұрын
exactly me too.
@rosaamane9390
@rosaamane9390 7 жыл бұрын
yuta, your channel is so cool. 😀
@morgansparhawk8410
@morgansparhawk8410 7 жыл бұрын
I like watching your vids, they make me want to visit Japan even more.
@Dang3rMouSe
@Dang3rMouSe 7 жыл бұрын
Fun topic, great idea👍
@will9001asd
@will9001asd 2 жыл бұрын
For me (a guy) at least for the first date, I try to pay for it 100% of the time. I try not to waste time putting up flair or an act so they are interested and try to be myself very accurately. Try to gauge if they like me for me or not. If we're not well compatible, then the price of the date was the cost for someone to give me a chance. If they really like me then how they respond to me paying and who would pay the next date is worth reflecting on and thinking about their character.
@worldofelegance15
@worldofelegance15 7 жыл бұрын
The idol part made gave me a huge smile, they are so cuuute, and the last couple made me chuckle, they really are suspicious xD
@Senbatorii
@Senbatorii 7 жыл бұрын
Unexpectedly lots of splitting, unlike in U.S. where every girl I've dated felt entitled to free meals
@RonaldoTalison
@RonaldoTalison 5 жыл бұрын
I was surprised with the result, because it's basically the same in Brazil, we mostly split.
@PoisonelleMisty4311
@PoisonelleMisty4311 4 жыл бұрын
It's called acting like a lady, these girls respect themselves, they value themselves too highly. Women who pay for everything and act like a man's momma are losing the game.
@isakferm7674
@isakferm7674 4 жыл бұрын
Angel truth I mean if acting like a lady is being a baby bitch sure. If you respect yourself don’t be a cheap fuck.
@SagaciousGoat
@SagaciousGoat 4 жыл бұрын
@@RonaldoTalison Sim, caras que pagam tudo tendem a ter um destino meio triste kkkkkkkkk
@achowdhury47
@achowdhury47 4 жыл бұрын
Maybe they are just lying and putting on a facade.
@tsubasa1988
@tsubasa1988 7 жыл бұрын
That last guys is being kidnapped!!! help him Yuta!!
@thorrex
@thorrex 3 жыл бұрын
Seemed pretty happy for a kidnapped guy lol
@gabs_salem
@gabs_salem 3 жыл бұрын
Death by snu snu
@bongsai
@bongsai 7 жыл бұрын
last guy whipped as hell
@galliman123
@galliman123 7 жыл бұрын
Not whipped, she is paid for which is more sad
@yasashii89
@yasashii89 7 жыл бұрын
lol how do you know she's paid for? There could be other reasons like he comes from a rich family or he goes to a good university hence she's hoping to hit the jackpot. Doesn't mean he's paying her at the moment.
@mirschultz9761
@mirschultz9761 7 жыл бұрын
Women who are trying to woo a rich husband/prospect don't act like that. I have known a couple golddiggers in my time, and they flatter, flirt, act adoring, trying to get in the guy's heart (and pocket), or they are alluring/seductive and pay rivetting attention to the guy. Of course, some guys like to be ill-treated (hence there are men who are subs or M's or pay for dominatrices), but that's a small minority. He seems pretty cheerful and goofy/awkward, and she's got serious I can't be bothered to be nice face--and notice how often even when people are uncomfortable with Yuta, they try to be polite or nice, a sorta Japanese courtesy thing--she doesn't even fake the courtesy. She seems pissed, really. She contradicts or abruptly cuts him off. She's not wooing him or babying or flirty with him. That's not a gal trying to catch a shining mealticket.
@Yanasan225
@Yanasan225 7 жыл бұрын
I like your potato shirt!!! So cutee 🤗
@jimellison777
@jimellison777 6 жыл бұрын
GREAT VIDEO.........
@GroteskAntichrist
@GroteskAntichrist 7 жыл бұрын
Lol the Last couple was really creepy, especially the woman xD
@abcdefghilihgfedcba
@abcdefghilihgfedcba 7 жыл бұрын
She is an escort kzfaq.info/get/bejne/gJl8jNWrmK6Zdqs.html&lc=z120zfs5utnsyxuz004ch3d5bqyludq4dww0k The silence about how they met should make it obvious.
@galliman123
@galliman123 7 жыл бұрын
Minimum age is probably 20, like drinking or smoking
@SakuraAvalon
@SakuraAvalon 7 жыл бұрын
Considering you can't have sex with her and it's just a date, it makes sense the age limit wouldn't be that high.
@galliman123
@galliman123 7 жыл бұрын
Atsuko Kagari the obscenity laws prevent people over 20 or 21 dating people under 18 from memory. Even between 17 and 19 its forbidden
@yasashii89
@yasashii89 7 жыл бұрын
ALAKTORN I doubt she's an escort, but there's certainly something off. He might go to toudai or something and since toudai students get good jobs later on, young women flock to them no matter how nerdy looking they may be.
@terebiomimasu
@terebiomimasu 7 жыл бұрын
I think the 1st date should be covered by whoever initiates the date; and of course it would be courteous to chip in in some way. And when things become more steady and a couple becomes "we", then they can worry about this less and split, take turns, etc.
@misterinc_
@misterinc_ 4 жыл бұрын
2:39 - He said it right. I think too, that in these cases, it depends whether both working or just one. Well done.
@gonzalovicente330
@gonzalovicente330 7 жыл бұрын
Hi! do you think you can put subtitles on japanese? I like your videos and i use them to train japanese, thats way i could understand better
@cv2938
@cv2938 7 жыл бұрын
Japanese subtitles would be incredibly useful for people learning japanese.
@ebonyangel951
@ebonyangel951 7 жыл бұрын
That last couple seems like either she's taking advantage or she's an escort. Their whole behavior seems suspect lol.
@galliman123
@galliman123 7 жыл бұрын
escort
@キラキラくりくり頭
@キラキラくりくり頭 7 жыл бұрын
BlackJesus, there's a guy in the comments saying that she's from a dating agency, and that he's previously dated that woman through the service.
@cwillfrommd
@cwillfrommd 5 жыл бұрын
She’s charged 15k yen per hour. Going to love hotel will cost more.
@Kohaku-om1wi
@Kohaku-om1wi 5 жыл бұрын
@@galliman123 what does it mean by escort? Sorry not an english speaker
@Kohaku-om1wi
@Kohaku-om1wi 5 жыл бұрын
@@willemgloudemans1442 is it like gold digger? Thanks anyway
@ImGonnaShout2000
@ImGonnaShout2000 7 жыл бұрын
6:43 - That cough says he's asking too deep lol
@likeice4032
@likeice4032 7 жыл бұрын
Hello! Anytime soon will you start a new private class? If yes when can we expect it? I read about past classes how the classes went?
@Bebo18
@Bebo18 7 жыл бұрын
I like how equal it is. It's really nice.
@garirry
@garirry 7 жыл бұрын
Huh. I honestly was expecting that the guy would always pay in a society like Japan but apparently not. I think it's fair to say that whoever works should pay, and if both work it should be split equally.
@mawichan
@mawichan 7 жыл бұрын
Well, most of the people answering seem quite young. Maybe ir goes to show some change of mindset between generations.
@HushtheMag
@HushtheMag 7 жыл бұрын
Dude with the girl at the end: GET OUT OF THERE!!!
@dezkightz
@dezkightz 5 жыл бұрын
These couples are so adorable 😂
@spuddsalli8559
@spuddsalli8559 7 жыл бұрын
yuta I can't sign in on your site there is some problem I type in the details and when I click on send me lessons the page refreshes and every detail I typed in is blank I need to learn japanese
@Mannyiwlf
@Mannyiwlf 7 жыл бұрын
I need to go to Japan at least once in my life.
@vampireluph9862
@vampireluph9862 7 жыл бұрын
I just had a date with Japanese man yesterday. He actually insisted on paying even though I wanted to split the bill. He was so sweet and said "what?? Come on, a woman must not pay on a date" ^^
@Hikusaak4
@Hikusaak4 7 жыл бұрын
I once dated a girl who was very stubborn about always paying everything for herself. It's different from person to person so this often seems like a complicated matter.
@LiberateKarn
@LiberateKarn 7 жыл бұрын
If you're new to learning Japanese, do you suggest starting with Katakana and Hiragana then get into Kanji? Or would you suggest starting with just one? I have signed up to your learning service via email about two minutes ago.
@riyuntomi7372
@riyuntomi7372 7 жыл бұрын
最後のカップルに対する外人の邪推コメント多いな
@Hatemalalmaei
@Hatemalalmaei 7 жыл бұрын
A Lot of you guys think the last couple is suspicious, well I don't , in some countries or tribes , it's common sense for the girl to not pay anything , maybe she was from a tribe like this , I don't let any girl pays for me because that's how I was raised , I pay for the girl but the girl doesn't pay anything , you say weird ? Maybe but the bottomline is : they are not sispicious
@Solidude4
@Solidude4 7 жыл бұрын
What made it weird was how they couldn't answer many of those questions, like how they met. Plus the guy was being super awkward and suspicious. It's not just the fact that he's paying for everything.
@Hatemalalmaei
@Hatemalalmaei 7 жыл бұрын
Nate O. Yeah that makes sense But some people here are talking about the couple being suspicious and that the girl doesn't really wanna be his gurlfriend she just wants to " milk him " which Some sensitive people would find it insulting a little bit
@Shijaru64
@Shijaru64 7 жыл бұрын
Dude, it's painfully obvious she's an escort, he's paying for her time. The fact that they don't know how they met makes it obvious.
@BeniyMrsCool
@BeniyMrsCool 6 жыл бұрын
The couple at 04:00 omg they were so cute! Relationship goals ♥
@ObscureChan
@ObscureChan 7 жыл бұрын
Question: if someone offers to pay for the date, and you say "no no it's ok!!", is that considered rude? I guess in the states when someone offers to pay, usually a small exchange of "nooo it's ok" and "noo but I insist!" happens
@bellachiamohamednadir9842
@bellachiamohamednadir9842 7 жыл бұрын
there's something a bit off about the last couple i think he's buying her time
@meg.da.kachidog-p
@meg.da.kachidog-p 7 жыл бұрын
I like that you cover such common topics in your interviews.
@JASR-wc2cf
@JASR-wc2cf 7 жыл бұрын
hey yuta this is Jose Solache just wondering what's the best way to reach you .if we have questions about your course
@sn4tx
@sn4tx 7 жыл бұрын
Oh wow! What a coincidence all your theories in the end of the video, they all end up in learning Japanese. “You on a desert island and you need to start a fire. What the best way to start a fire? Learning Japanese!” 😂 much love and respect. You awesome
@dieeselskopfe6790
@dieeselskopfe6790 7 жыл бұрын
That last girl in your Video was devilish, i pity that guy!
@steliospasiardes678
@steliospasiardes678 7 жыл бұрын
he "purchased" time with her. scroll through the comments, there are answers.
@user-hm9mj1hc3j
@user-hm9mj1hc3j 7 жыл бұрын
yeah hate those type, can't stand those
@formatcforcortex2465
@formatcforcortex2465 7 жыл бұрын
she is hot
@wernerboden239
@wernerboden239 4 жыл бұрын
That last interview, 'you guys look interesting', probably was not a compliment. The girl came across like a bossy gold digger. I would ditch her. The guy ... a push-over. Of course, that's just a first impression. I could be wrong.
@Michael-go9hm
@Michael-go9hm 6 жыл бұрын
6:50 Yuta waow " you guys look intresting " 😂 They really do though.
@nameisamine
@nameisamine 6 жыл бұрын
6:00 what is that neighbourhood with the champion store?
@bullettrain9637
@bullettrain9637 7 жыл бұрын
Put Japanese subtitles in you videos please. It will help people trying to learn Japanese but can't hear the sounds too well.
@Shaykker
@Shaykker 7 жыл бұрын
if you want to learn japanese mail yuta
@bullettrain9637
@bullettrain9637 7 жыл бұрын
I'm a little more advanced than what Yuta teaches. I just think we could always use subtitles to help with reading, and distinguishing words in conversational Japanese.
@CauseHarm
@CauseHarm 7 жыл бұрын
pay for yourself on the first date, since it's basically testing the waters.
@itsherelive6537
@itsherelive6537 4 жыл бұрын
💪💪💪 preach
@GinaNovelo
@GinaNovelo 7 жыл бұрын
those idols are so cuuuute
@fenix_tx_1342
@fenix_tx_1342 7 жыл бұрын
They are so ahead of us, their women actually understand that is wrong for the guy to always pay, and the majority settle for splitting or at least helping with a small part of the bill.
@NiizuMaTM
@NiizuMaTM 7 жыл бұрын
KissBee... JUST WAIT, I´M FOLLOWING YOU RIGHT NOW!!!! (I´m Single too) xD
@Elyoslayer
@Elyoslayer 7 жыл бұрын
Let's be fair here, the one who asks for the date is the one that should pay for it, thats usually how it goes.
@yeahyeahnatnat
@yeahyeahnatnat 7 жыл бұрын
now i'm gonna check out kiss bee I think how they have answered yuta's question is very good hahaha
@finalform4971
@finalform4971 4 жыл бұрын
It seems like it's less based on personality of the individual. Last couple though yeah... she just straight up said 'he pays', no hesitation. Such a straight face too. She's the type 'if you don't pay, I'll find someone else whom does'. Which I mean, some guys are willing to pay entirely. But it's a slippery slope regarding how the lifestyle of the relationship will pan out.
@BlueCoolOla
@BlueCoolOla 7 жыл бұрын
It's a sad time to be a Japanese idol if they have to promote themselves by standing on the street and holding signs with their Twitter accounts.
@ramirogba
@ramirogba 7 жыл бұрын
It's common there if you did not know.
@Yusuf1187
@Yusuf1187 7 жыл бұрын
What are idols in this context? I googled it but it's confusing. They're just celebrities for the sake of cuteness and they are hired to make random media appearances? Or they are all pop singers?
@TheRealityofFake
@TheRealityofFake 7 жыл бұрын
Idols are generally pop stars.
@Slowhand707
@Slowhand707 7 жыл бұрын
maybe among very minor groups, idol productions with a decent budget would never send their idols on the streets like common maids but would instead organise promotion events in shops or so
@Melinon
@Melinon 7 жыл бұрын
Most of them are just a part of a manufactured idol group that does dance performances, and desperate otaku can take their pick of their favorite idol and buy useless tack related to her and the group. I'd rank most idols below a semi-popular KZfaqr or Instagram personality, so nowhere near an actual celebrity.
@beckychiang2667
@beckychiang2667 5 жыл бұрын
Usually the guy eats a lot more. Portion of the split should be proportional to the food consumed.
@Awanichi
@Awanichi 7 жыл бұрын
That doraemon scene really made my day XD
@seller50
@seller50 7 жыл бұрын
My rule for first dates is usually the person who asked the other person out pays (if you ask someone on a date you don't really know yet). After that usually split by alternating who pays.
@sherlockhomes9919
@sherlockhomes9919 7 жыл бұрын
The last girl is not an escort. She's probably too embarrassed to say it was a gokun or online. I've met tons of escorts because of my employers and they don't look like her at all. The first clue are the nails. Stay away from nail obsessed girls in Japan. They are gold diggers or doing something funky on the side like deriheru.
@harrymcnicholas9468
@harrymcnicholas9468 5 жыл бұрын
Many of those girls you meet by accident are no accident and likely working for the Japanese company you are there to see. They gather information for the company.
@sivyig
@sivyig 7 жыл бұрын
hahah you found kissbee randomly on the streets lol!
@abhishekpareek1918
@abhishekpareek1918 5 жыл бұрын
That was good. Thank you. And i loved splitting thing
@mariovssonic2080
@mariovssonic2080 7 жыл бұрын
Yuta your English pronunciation has gotten better
@yasashii89
@yasashii89 7 жыл бұрын
I've NEVER paid for the girl on a date, it's either been split or she's paid for me. To be honest I don't get how people want women to be equal to men in so many areas but when it comes to dating, it's like we're living in the 19th century. If women want equality they can pay their own half.
@massvt3821
@massvt3821 7 жыл бұрын
A nice video about paying on dates got a little disturbing at the end. Pretty uncomfortable to watch, but probably much worse to stand there and answer questions about an "arrangement" that neither wanted to talk about. A very nervous young man, and an unsmiling woman who just couldn't be bothered..
@z04notfound
@z04notfound 2 жыл бұрын
wait till someone say: i never dated anyone.
@missym2751
@missym2751 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video now I definitely know to carry some extra cash just in case.
@missym2751
@missym2751 5 жыл бұрын
I love the honesty the people have in this video😂😂
@ThePurpleKnightmare
@ThePurpleKnightmare 7 жыл бұрын
Too much focus on which gender pays, the way I see it, the one who proposes the date is the one that should pay. If someone asked me out on a date I'd expect they would pay, and I wouldn't ask someone out on a date if I didn't have full intention of paying. There are cases of like "We should hang out sometime" "Yea how about ____" where it's like both parties wanted the "date" to go through in which case the one who chooses the location might pay or they might split it or something like that, but mostly, the one who wants it more pays.
@Aokaimusic
@Aokaimusic 5 жыл бұрын
But vast majority of girls pretty much never ask out a guy out... So your approach, while sound in theory, would lead to vast majority of men being required to pay for the meal. I agree with your approach IF there was equal expectations on both girls and guys to ask the other out on a date. That just doesn't happen though, girls have the advantage here.
@amaryllisnightingale6309
@amaryllisnightingale6309 5 жыл бұрын
it should be paid according to the food eaten each. And times when you can't' you pay another time
@javierrodriguez8571
@javierrodriguez8571 7 жыл бұрын
yuta para cuando los vídeos en español :/
@anaju3595
@anaju3595 7 жыл бұрын
El NEGRO COTIZE Não sei falar espanhol então vai português. Já que são linguas parecidas, espero que entenda hahaha Mas acho que ele vai traduzir os vídeos só quando tiver uma grande demanta do público, a não ser que você encontre alguém que fale inglês e espanhol pra colocar legendas...
@javierrodriguez8571
@javierrodriguez8571 7 жыл бұрын
I have No idea si te entiendo un poco.xD
@StephenWira
@StephenWira 7 жыл бұрын
How about foreigner and japan men/girl?who will pay on a date ?is still same?
@OctopusKing1
@OctopusKing1 6 жыл бұрын
What is the instrumental playing at 6:00
@slaiyfershin
@slaiyfershin 7 жыл бұрын
The last couple might not even be a couple. Could be paid dating...or more.
@redx5216
@redx5216 6 жыл бұрын
Rental kanajo/girlfriend
@cobydrei
@cobydrei 7 жыл бұрын
my advice to the last guy, dude STOP dating her it's NOT worth it.
@redx5216
@redx5216 6 жыл бұрын
Yuta looks she is cute, the boy looks like otaku.. im gonna ask how they met!
@Shimakaze2487
@Shimakaze2487 7 жыл бұрын
THAT POTATO AND FRIES TEE
@Emilie13love
@Emilie13love 5 жыл бұрын
I think it's always fair to split no matter the gender or how long they've been together. That's unless whatever they're paying for is a gift or a treat, then it's whoever said so. In some cases, I do agree that if one doesn't have any money or is too low on funds, the other should pay by curtesy. Sometimes its good just to pay for what "you" ordered so you aren't going half on a total of a lobster dish and a soup and sandwich. Idk, it depends on the situation, but 9/10 I go for splitting.
@gyruless
@gyruless 7 жыл бұрын
at least is good seeing a lot of japanese couples in the street. So many videos or articlles saying japanese doesn´t date make us ppl from another side of the world belive most japanese are weird. good to know Japan is normal.
@shojun11
@shojun11 7 жыл бұрын
Western media likes to report negative and exaggerated news about Japan. The Love Hotel industry in Japan is worth $60 billion a year so that`s a proof that a lot of Japanese are dating.
@shojun11
@shojun11 7 жыл бұрын
There are a lot of leftist media outlets that are owned by western media. A lot of them will deny it but some know that the west have a grip in japan news outlets. These leftists media only reports negative things. If you have media in your country then you know those media types that only reports negative stuff to politicians they don`t like. A lot of leftists doesn`t like PM Abe so they report that japan is doomed to embarrass him. Leftists are shameless because japan`s economy is actually doing well and maintained a 94% employment for college grads. If you think that japan is sexless then how can you explain the $60 billion Love Hotel industry, cheating epidemic and rise to STD ? The japanese government even had to promote the use of protection cuz a lot of teens might get STD.
@harrymcnicholas9468
@harrymcnicholas9468 5 жыл бұрын
Never dated a Japanese woman have you?
@harrymcnicholas9468
@harrymcnicholas9468 5 жыл бұрын
You are an idiot
@SaviBlue
@SaviBlue 7 жыл бұрын
I think splitting half and half (or at least 6 to 4) is the most fair way to go
@RajawatOfficial
@RajawatOfficial 7 жыл бұрын
@4:35 haha I can keep listening her cute voice.
@amaryllisnightingale6309
@amaryllisnightingale6309 5 жыл бұрын
you find that cute? Well at least it works for some people.... Seems ovious to me that she forces herself to sound like that
@rewardmboya3049
@rewardmboya3049 7 жыл бұрын
i like your topic of interview may question of topic to be discussed net time is on " how much does Japanese people know about Africa and if they wish to visit Africa ?
@jaydoublegee2831
@jaydoublegee2831 7 жыл бұрын
equality!!! (but men pay, because reasons) equality!!!
@Noobie2k7
@Noobie2k7 7 жыл бұрын
If it's a first date i feel it should depend on who initiated or asked who out on the date and arranged things. If i ask a girl out then i'll pay if she asks me out then she'd pay. Would be pretty rude for the person to ask someone out on a date then expect them to pay for it.
@Erik_001
@Erik_001 4 жыл бұрын
Can someone tell me the exact Japanese he uses when he asked the girls their age? I think i heard chinami ni... and oikutsu... but i couldn't decipher it all. Just trying to improve my japanese.
@jeydkabigas5193
@jeydkabigas5193 7 жыл бұрын
Can someone link me the 2nd girl from the left's account? 5:26
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