Who Would You Be Without That Thought | Doing "The Work" Step by Step With Byron Katie

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@pnojazz 4 ай бұрын

What a blessing to experience the truth.❤

@raraavis8405 3 ай бұрын

this is profound, wow!

@innerworldservices Жыл бұрын

I wrote a detailed prayer asking God to show me why after all the work I've done I was still so easily triggered by unwarranted hostility. The next morning this video came, I cried for two hours outside 711. I feel so unburdened and I'll never forget that moment! Ty so so much 💗🫂

@norma3687 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing. I too believe that the Lord let me to Byron. After 2 years of giving my life to the Lord and working on myself, using the work, I am truly happy and more peaceful. Thanks you Jesus for sending Byron to me.

@robincockrum9778 10 ай бұрын

rew

@rumbarumba1 7 ай бұрын

I learn a lot from byron May you shine on in your work x

@CriticalPoliteness Жыл бұрын

Just had a picture in my mind how Byron Katie interacts with her children. "Mum, I am really upset that you threw away all of my old toys... ". B.K.: " Is it true?!"

@jeanniecampbell1374 Жыл бұрын

I can really relate to this Therapist as alcohol runs in my family and I felt guilty that I had not turned to drink but carried a lot of Anger for these king of situations in the world ..this was a childlike thought that I carried into adulthood .

@fatoufrancescambow5876 Жыл бұрын

Thank you to the therapist who shared her vulnerability on stage…your career isn’t “over” at all… to the contrary as the kind lady warmly assured. And thank you to the therapist who is showing us with such elegance how thought is self-centred. Maybe what you showed us is what Jiddy Krishnamurti calls “the observer is the observed”? For the very first time I see that whatever in my mind creates conflict (wanting resolution without understanding why it is there in the first place) and therefore obsessive thinking is “I” speaking to “I” via something it calls a “you”. If “I” speaks to “I” it means that something has separated the “I”. Is that what we call guilt? And has the idea of “power” (“ability”) with that of guilt “I should have been able to make her want to care for me” got something to do with this internal obsessive “di - a - logue”? Maybe “mani pulation” is this projection on this internal dialogue on our relationship? Goodness me…honestly…thank you 🧡

@ekaterinashlosberg5119 Жыл бұрын

As I was working on my sheet I realised that for the first time in my life I was connected to a person … This realisation is more than me

@carrieneeves2992 3 ай бұрын

Mind blowing!! 🤯🙌🏻👌🏻❤️

@jennytaylor3324 Жыл бұрын

Props to BK, but especially to this lady therapist, who is humble enough to be open to being wrong. Love her hair too!

@Jay-Dub-Ay 3 ай бұрын

It’s funny how I loved the first Byron Katie video, then when I stumble upon her in my suggested videos, I get all defensive to protect my world view.😅

@Oshun412 3 ай бұрын

😂 clever you for noticing . 😂😂😂

@terrybochansky6271 3 ай бұрын

Thank You for this Video. Because of my way of learning I am always looking for new information. This will help me Do The Work!!!. Growth doesn't happen without doing The Work. I have the worksheets, unless I see someone talk while doing it I don't understand the process. I would also like to thank Byron Katie and the Therapist for their work. I will pass this Video on to the people I know. Thank You again. ❤❤❤

@deannehorner-godlove8982 Ай бұрын

Soooo good!! ❤

@emilytjomsland4361 Жыл бұрын

I just think her hair is amazing! So shiny!

@firstlast2034 Жыл бұрын

Excellent for me! A new way of looking at me and the other party.

@johnathanstevens8436 10 ай бұрын

Took me a minute to figure out she's trying to get people to understand the effect of self projection.

@fatoufrancescambow5876 Жыл бұрын

I found it all splendidly factual except when at the end particularly (but also at other times) sentences that do not sound true to the person are stated as true. They are not. Is “mothers never die” true? No it isn’t. If a relationship isn’t « right » for us it just isn’t at that moment in time - and as the « vulnerable » therapist says, we « walk out ». And what a beautiful way to end , saying, to the « vulnerable therapist » : « anyone working with you would be privileged ». And that is true ❤

@dianewhalen9721 Жыл бұрын

It’s all about asking yourself the right questions.Hard Work!

@crystal-gem 2 ай бұрын

Teal Swan recommended you in one of her videos, thank you for the gold 💛!!!

@sagebay2803 Жыл бұрын

This was just wonderful! Thank you so much.

@Wisdom2 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching, we are so glad you enjoyed it! 💙

@bonnielizarraga7941 Жыл бұрын

This is true but hard I will try this

@magdalenatyburczy-zioo5861 7 ай бұрын

❤❤❤

@gluckso4090 11 ай бұрын

❤🙏🏼

@Vlatka211 Жыл бұрын

This lady is charming

@loveofinquiry8067 9 ай бұрын

❤BK

@carolellis1531 5 ай бұрын

😮

@groundedunorthodoxy8000 11 ай бұрын

When is Cathy going to wake up? Maybe the therapist is just a step towards that when she leaves to her alone.. (but still be there as a friend)

@aworon Жыл бұрын

How can one do this exercise when the memory is of being a very small kid? Even a baby. How does one take responsibility for oneself as a baby when one was rejected by ones parent? I don't remember how I reacted, what I felt. I just intuitively know that all hurts stem from this moment.

@dirkchurlish4074 Жыл бұрын

you can look for ways (that are authentic for you) that their rejection has served you. how was it a gift? (bold stuff to look into.) and you can inquire into "all hurts stem from this moment" using the 4 questions and turnarounds

@aworon Жыл бұрын

@@dirkchurlish4074 thank you very much. That resonates☺️👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

@delphinebez3045 Жыл бұрын

It does not matter Ace, what you work on is what you feel right now as we speak... your actual feelings are what hurts.

@DD_forgetnot2laugh 5 ай бұрын

There is no suggestion here that - as an infant or child - we were in any way responsible for that which we were experiencing. There is, however, a choice available to us right now to re-view those events -- or any of the many painful relational experiences we have experienced since then -- through a clear lens, a neutral lens. And we see much more what we see

@JadasNaturals 5 ай бұрын

Where do I find the prompts?

@jessica11381 10 ай бұрын

1:01:55

@jeanniecampbell1374 Жыл бұрын

I am a bit confused about enabling someone to drink is love .

@CriticalPoliteness Жыл бұрын

And if your mom died of alcohol you would need supernatural power not to dislike/ worry about the drinking behavior of someone you love.

@bilbobaggins4403 11 ай бұрын

Maybe they get off on people trying to save them. People only stop when they choose. Most of our trying to help is virtue signaling and trying to make ourselves feel good. Look at me I'm helping the botched and the bungled. I used to do this.

@BellaLola26 9 ай бұрын

Me too. Still working on this. 🙏🏽

@madhumitanayar226 8 ай бұрын

Letting someone drink is not enabling. Enabling is when you give her money to drink. Enabling is to support and aid her choice to drink in any way or form. Buying her groceries or paying her rent when she clearly has money to buy alcohol for example. If she wants to drink herself into homelessness, those are repercussions of her own choices. Let her deal with them, don’t shield her or protect her from repercussions of her own choices. Cause THAT is enabling.

@DD_forgetnot2laugh 5 ай бұрын

True, but not so easy to do.

@N-HTTi Жыл бұрын

Spoiler warning ⛔️ The you’re good part too me to the moon 😂😂

@sheepdog03 Жыл бұрын

omg I loved this till the anti-Trump part. fr fr. but still good content. Like always, conservatives have to be the bigger people 🤷🏼‍♀️

@ceciliadake6220 10 ай бұрын

Yep and that orange man is going to be the one to save this freaking country from her beloved Biden and company who has screwed everything up. And that is true 😡

@AlexZetoSings 7 ай бұрын

That's a worksheet. ;)

@mrscarnegie 5 ай бұрын

Yeah, that sounds like a very painful thought.

@DD_forgetnot2laugh 5 ай бұрын

Um... What are you meaning by the term 'Conservatives' and by the term 'bigger people"? I feel confused when such broad categorical terms are used to put forth a point of view. What are you feeling? What are you longing for? What are you appreciating? What are you believing? Give us some sense of what's alive in your heart.